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My Blue Fairy garb . 20 July 2018
Yep... sometimes
rcandlish comments on Sep 27, 2018:
One way to do this is to make someone smile.
Cast1es replies on Sep 27, 2018:
In my mind , I get a gold star , everytime I make someone laugh .
I've seen a few long-term members leaving lately.
skado comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Been there, done that, *got the T-shirt*... gone. The "levels" game is good for keeping scammers to a minimum, and for pumping the enthusiasm of new contributors, but it is essentially a false motivation. I've noticed a lot of people slow down considerably after hitting "8". I felt the slump ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 27, 2018:
8 is a tough goal to reach , but is doable . Afterwards , 9 seems like it will take forever as it is several 100% more , than everything you've already earned .
I've seen a few long-term members leaving lately.
CeliaVL comments on Sep 27, 2018:
I wonder if it is simply getting a bit bored? It was all very exciting when I first joined - finding people who thought like I did, and were prepared to be open about what they thought and what they believed, and even willing to share personal problems and issues. But once you have sorted out who ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 27, 2018:
Poor admin .
Passed this and giggled.
germangirl90439 comments on Sep 27, 2018:
Apostrophies ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 27, 2018:
Nah . Sex position .
Causes of rape: [scontent.ffcm1-2.fna.fbcdn.net]
Cast1es comments on Sep 26, 2018:
If proven rapists , had their weapons removed , there'd be a lot fewer rapists .
Cast1es replies on Sep 26, 2018:
The vast majority of rape kits are never even put into the computer systems , much less compared to others . A lot more cases would be solved and in the end there would be a lot fewer cases , if rape were taken seriously . Today , it takes multiple women coming forward , to convict one man , as we've seen repeatedly , and they would have had to report it at the time and had the rape kits done at the time . This highly invasive and demeaning procedure , on top of having already been raped .
Causes of rape: [scontent.ffcm1-2.fna.fbcdn.net]
Cast1es comments on Sep 26, 2018:
If proven rapists , had their weapons removed , there'd be a lot fewer rapists .
Cast1es replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@thinktwice Realistically speaking , men are not going to create laws to kill men , for having violent sex . They still think it's a joke . They still do not consider women as being a part of the human race . That , as the saying goes , ain't going to happen .
When the doctor told me that I had a heart attack, I nearly had a heart attack.
Cast1es comments on Sep 26, 2018:
Tuesday a week ago , I had an appointment with my cardio vascular doctor . The echo cardiogram showed I had a 100% electrical blockage . He said the top half of my heart wasn't talking to the bottom of my heart . They put me in hospital and installed a pacemaker .
Cast1es replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@Pralina1 Thanks , hon . Feeling different , but I've got a ways to go , yet , before I reach superwoman status .
Causes of rape: [scontent.ffcm1-2.fna.fbcdn.net]
Cast1es comments on Sep 26, 2018:
If proven rapists , had their weapons removed , there'd be a lot fewer rapists .
Cast1es replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@Bierbasstard Yes and no . There are theories that the testosterone itself is behind violence and the need for , "adventure ." That said , castration would reduce the need for violence , remove the weapon of choice , and release the whole body from imprisonment , thereby removing the need for violence , the weapon of choice , and the administrative costs of supporting the human body at public expense , not to mention reducing future rapes , requiring child birth and care expenses , loss of productive work time for the women , and necessiary psychological welfare for the victims of rape and possibly the children whom they may feel they are forced to raise .
Just walk away. You don't need that.
Cast1es comments on Sep 26, 2018:
It isn't always easy , but then not walking away wouldn't be easy either . It's usually the best choice .
Cast1es replies on Sep 26, 2018:
@BettyColeman Divorced my mother-in-law , decades ago . Wish I'd done it sooner .
Causes of rape: [scontent.ffcm1-2.fna.fbcdn.net]
Cast1es comments on Sep 26, 2018:
If proven rapists , had their weapons removed , there'd be a lot fewer rapists .
Cast1es replies on Sep 26, 2018:
All rapists using their dicks to rape , are using their dicks as weapons . If , using the rape kits and DNA samples proves , without a doubt , that he was using his dick to rape others , than removing that particular weapon , will , without question , reduce the number of serial rapists .
Curious, how important is it to maintain a high credit score into retirement?
Cast1es comments on Sep 25, 2018:
I wasn't planning on replacing my vehicle , but now I need to use a scooter , and needed a means of transporting the scooter , so I could remain mobile once I'm out of the vehicle . So bought a used vehicle to accomodate the scooter . I think expenses related to medical needs , goes up , while other...
Cast1es replies on Sep 25, 2018:
@mordant I think the reverse mortgages are a scam . You get a very low amount of money against your house , you don't repay it , but they take the house when you die . at least that's what I've read so far .
A pig's orgasm lasts 30 minutes.
Cast1es comments on Sep 24, 2018:
Do character traits get passed on when you have a meal ? Is Sheannutt having pork for dinner ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 24, 2018:
@sweetcharlotte Apparently , you didn't read the first sentence of the original post , either .
A pig's orgasm lasts 30 minutes.
Cast1es comments on Sep 24, 2018:
Do character traits get passed on when you have a meal ? Is Sheannutt having pork for dinner ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 24, 2018:
@Science-guy Oh , this one's definitely having pork for dinner .
Like, every gamer, lol
Cast1es comments on Sep 24, 2018:
I am totally amazed at the numbers of packages of dice my gaming friends have and brag about .
Cast1es replies on Sep 24, 2018:
@FlippantLlama I think you may be on to something . They do seem to be hoarding them .
Have you met anyone from this site?
Mike1947 comments on Sep 23, 2018:
As with any website where there's the possibility of creating a "Spark",tread cautiously, If someone contacts you be careful,I've texted/e-mailed 4 different Women through this site, but no face to face meeting due to the distance,in the last instance ,back tracing the phone numbers set off my ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 23, 2018:
I've just written a goodbye note , to a gentleman I met online here , whom I suspect may have been a scammer . It wasn't a matter of him asking for money . It just didn't seem realistic . It's the little thing that simply don't make sense .
Wholesome shark comic. See rustledjimmies.net for more like this.
Cast1es comments on Sep 22, 2018:
And when did the shark ever buy groceries for struggling fish ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 23, 2018:
@Ozman So now what do the sharks eat for dinner ?
Every morning I awake I am pleased to start another day.
Cast1es comments on Sep 22, 2018:
Wow ! Just back from hospital , where they installed pacemaker .
Cast1es replies on Sep 22, 2018:
@NoMagicCookie Wasn't very certain when I left for my doctor's appointment last Tuesday .
What is a genius?
genessa comments on Sep 20, 2018:
that is a ridiculous and untrue definition of genius and it's not even what an iq test is or does. it may be flawed as a measure of genius, mostly but not solely because there are so many kinds of genius, but neither is it as you describe it. memorization has zip to do with what's on an iq test ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 21, 2018:
I have to agree with this . The original post , makes no sense what so ever . The person making it up , has no idea what he's talking about , but is just trying to pretend he's intelligent .
Yes. ???
FrayedBear comments on Sep 16, 2018:
I might if I could identify what is growing.
Cast1es replies on Sep 17, 2018:
Corn , they're growing corn .
How to grieve after a passing of a loved one.
Cast1es comments on Sep 9, 2018:
Eventually , after the shock has passed and reality sinks in , at some unexpected private moment , the tears will come . Generally speaking , past that point , life goes on .
Cast1es replies on Sep 17, 2018:
@Mike1947 No good deed goes unpunished .
I’m not all that cool, but maybe I can be cooler if I hang out here.
Cast1es comments on Sep 15, 2018:
I keep wondering what the CCC stands for .
Cast1es replies on Sep 15, 2018:
@phxbillcee Apparently not . Least wise , not out of context .
Listing to this storm report.
Cast1es comments on Sep 15, 2018:
Not likely to destroy the storm , though .
Cast1es replies on Sep 15, 2018:
@azzow2 Any physical rules as to whether it will make the storm better or worse ?
Listing to this storm report.
Cast1es comments on Sep 15, 2018:
Not likely to destroy the storm , though .
Cast1es replies on Sep 15, 2018:
@azzow2 Exciting the electrons ?
Listing to this storm report.
Cast1es comments on Sep 15, 2018:
Not likely to destroy the storm , though .
Cast1es replies on Sep 15, 2018:
@azzow2 The eye of the storm is calm = no winds blowing . Shoot a laser through the eye ( the calm space ) , and it would simply heat the upper surface levels of water a bit .
They sure were popular back in the 70's. Never was a fan of their songs or their show.
ArgosFriend comments on Sep 15, 2018:
I watched the show. Shirley Jones had this annoying way of shaking her head when she sang. It bugged me even back then. David was a hottie though.
Cast1es replies on Sep 15, 2018:
Read he had an affair with Shirley Jones .
Ok, update: For whatever reason, the powers that be have made it so I can't delete the group.
Cast1es comments on Sep 15, 2018:
That's got to be problematic . Got yourself stuck in a job you didn't want and aren't exactly fully qualified for .
Cast1es replies on Sep 15, 2018:
@Katastrophe69 Having some medical episodes at the moment . Have an appt with cardio-vascular dr. Monday . May be in hospital then .
Ok, update: For whatever reason, the powers that be have made it so I can't delete the group.
Cast1es comments on Sep 15, 2018:
That's got to be problematic . Got yourself stuck in a job you didn't want and aren't exactly fully qualified for .
Cast1es replies on Sep 15, 2018:
@Katastrophe69 Could maybe change the name of the group to Ask a dudett ?
Ok, update: For whatever reason, the powers that be have made it so I can't delete the group.
Cast1es comments on Sep 15, 2018:
That's got to be problematic . Got yourself stuck in a job you didn't want and aren't exactly fully qualified for .
Cast1es replies on Sep 15, 2018:
@Katastrophe69 Did you have something specific in mind ? Will you lose your points and stuff , if you change ?
Ok, update: For whatever reason, the powers that be have made it so I can't delete the group.
Cast1es comments on Sep 15, 2018:
That's got to be problematic . Got yourself stuck in a job you didn't want and aren't exactly fully qualified for .
Cast1es replies on Sep 15, 2018:
@Katastrophe69 Actually , I think Katastrophe is quite appropriate , to the occasion .
Happy Friday, everybody! Share a SMFH troubleshooting moment.
Cast1es comments on Sep 14, 2018:
There was the story about the user who phoned in to see about replacing the attached cup holder . The tech , had never heard of a computer supplied with a cup holder . The user had been using the slide out tray for the CDs .
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@chalupacabre That's the one !
I signed up for this website because I want to date a man who is not a crazy Christian.
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
Both men and women complain that there aren't a significant number of available dates in their areas . Kind of makes me wonder , what they were expecting to find ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@confidentrealm I'm in Houston , too ! I've been thinking of holding a meet up at my home . I'm thinking something around Halloween , with everyone in costumes . Pot luck dinner . I'll most likely need some help with it . Would you be willing to help me ? To date , I've asked three separate folks to help me get it going . Everyone complains , but no one is willing to put forth any effort .
I signed up for this website because I want to date a man who is not a crazy Christian.
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
Both men and women complain that there aren't a significant number of available dates in their areas . Kind of makes me wonder , what they were expecting to find ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@confidentrealm There are over 40,000 people signed up for Agnostic.com . Some are not available for dating , but most are . If men and women can't find a date or mate suitable , out of over 40,000 makes me wonder what they're looking for ?
How do we feel about chivalry?
Cast1es comments on Sep 14, 2018:
I had been working for the Agency for about ten years or so . I had transferred into a new section within the Agency , about a year previously . I was walking with a coworker , who unexpectedly held a door for me . I said , "Thank you ." After which , he commented , " See , this is why men get ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@Katastrophe69 Thank you !
Rennie joke time: finish the line You know you’re at Faire when..
Cast1es comments on Sep 14, 2018:
You hear , "Boots before corset ."
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@LauraUU Yes , I do . Once the corset is on and laced up tightly , no way can you even reach your boots , or your feet .
Today in 1962, JFK pledges the U.
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
Life was so very different then !
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@balou Yes I remember the fear I felt over the Bay of Pigs incident , even though I really didn't really fully understand what was going on . Dad had won an assignment to GTMO , and just weeks before we were to pack and go there , Castro , whom the US was backing , overthrew Batista . Things went downhill from there . Castro was also being backed by Russia , and they set up missles in Cuba aimed at the US .
Today in 1962, JFK pledges the U.
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
Life was so very different then !
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@MikeFlora Those were single murders then . Today we have mass shootings , in schools , churches , and other public places . It's worse .
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Cast1es comments on Sep 14, 2018:
How very gross !
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@WesleyMatthews I thought the Black Dahlia murder had never been solved , and I never heard anything about her eyes being removed and kept in a jar .
Chinese Colinisation [dailymaverick.co.za]
Cast1es comments on Sep 14, 2018:
Wow , that's an interesting point of view , and a bit scary .
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@VAL3941 You would think , Africa being populated clear back to ancient times and beyond , that they would be ahead of all the other populations .
Homeopathy
Cast1es comments on Sep 12, 2018:
Sometimes what the medical groups sell us doesn't work either . Sometimes , it even makes things worse . Sometimes , using things that have been used for thousands of years , actually have a positive effect . When I was young and pregnant for the first time , my doctor recommended a drug for ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 14, 2018:
@pnfullifidian I do understand the placebo effect and medical testing does try to take that into account . On the other hand , eating a balanced diet , for instance is healthier than eating a lot of junk food , because you get a better assortment of vitamines and minerals . I have a tendency to go anemic , ( low iron ) , So it helps me to both eat vegetables containing iron , such as spinach , and also to take suppliments , as needed .
One of my friends here in the UK is pro-trump quoting all kinds of figures suggesting he is not only...
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
As a businessman , he ,"buys," from a lot of small , Mom and Pop businesses , then fails to pay for the material he bought . Many of his businesses fail . He's sexually aggressively rude to women , treating then like his personal sex toys . He does not listen to any of his government advisors . He's...
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@Nardi Google has a lot more specific information , than I can possibly give you .
"Iris Sky", Oil on Canvas, 36" X 48", $1000
Hathacat comments on Sep 13, 2018:
Wonderful! Has a Maxfield Parrish vibe.
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
Yes , I think so , too .
Capitalism
cava comments on Sep 13, 2018:
Which is why I support Elizabeth Warren's Corporate Governance act. https://www.vox.com/2018/8/15/17683022/elizabeth-warren-accountable-capitalism-corporations
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
I'd vote for her !
In case you are an American fortunate enough to travel abroad, if you need to discuss the current WH...
Ktcyan comments on Sep 13, 2018:
Too funny! I wrote a letter to my family in Slovenia right after the election to tell him I'm not responsible for anything that happens during this administration. Melanija correct spelling for the first lady, grew up just about 20 km down the Sava river from my family.
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
Poor woman is so very unhappy , as are the rest of us !
Life...no body knows what will happen tomorrow.
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
I spent close to 43 years , getting up and going to work . Had a pretty good idea what was likely to happen , most days .
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@m0752532706 I am retired . I am lucky that I lived this long and invested a large part of my life preparing for my current lifestyle . I often hear people go on about being lucky , but the truth is , the ,"lucky ," ones have most often invested a lot of hard work , time . money on education , effort , deep thought , and consistency , in getting to where they wanted to be .
Good advice!!
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
If neither your phone , wifi , nor your electricity are working , how can you change your info , and even if you did , how would anyone be able to access the message ? They'd just get a recorded message that the phones are out of service .
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@Lukian Exactly ! Thank you ! So when wifi is down it's not a matter of downed wires . It's possibly a matter of a problem at the towers , or at the stations . I've lost internet connections , and nothing gets to or from my wireless computer .
We hear news of thousands of women being raped, but we never hear the news of a man being raped.
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
As I understand it , more often than not , when a man is raped , it's by another man . I'm not saying a man is never raped by a woman , just that it seldom happens .
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@UUNJ I didn't know that a man could be forced to penetrate someone else . Doesn't it just stay limp ? Or , maybe they force him to take a Viagra first ? Have to admit , I'm a bit out of my depth , here .
Would you date a woman that had sex on the first date?
Vayton comments on Jul 21, 2018:
It happens, nothing wrong with sleeping together on a first date.. if it's there, it's there. As far as a relationship, I'd want to get to know her more first. Oh but one thing... I would have safe , and if I wanted continue having with this person (or anyone), at some point we would make a date...
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@mcgeo52 Good for you ! That is extremely considerate of you . At best , I've heard , " When I donated blood , they didn't tell me I was infected ." But that didn't mean they haven't had sex since they donated the blood .
Good advice!!
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
If neither your phone , wifi , nor your electricity are working , how can you change your info , and even if you did , how would anyone be able to access the message ? They'd just get a recorded message that the phones are out of service .
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@Lukian And here I thought that was the definition of wifi - wireless communication .
We hear news of thousands of women being raped, but we never hear the news of a man being raped.
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
As I understand it , more often than not , when a man is raped , it's by another man . I'm not saying a man is never raped by a woman , just that it seldom happens .
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@UUNJ In your article , the 68-79 % was sexual victimization , but not necessairly rape . The rate for rape of a male , by a lone female was 28% . Significantly lower .
We hear news of thousands of women being raped, but we never hear the news of a man being raped.
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
As I understand it , more often than not , when a man is raped , it's by another man . I'm not saying a man is never raped by a woman , just that it seldom happens .
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@UUNJ Do you have the statistics showing the number of men being raped by women vs . the number of women being raped by men ?
Good advice!!
Cast1es comments on Sep 13, 2018:
If neither your phone , wifi , nor your electricity are working , how can you change your info , and even if you did , how would anyone be able to access the message ? They'd just get a recorded message that the phones are out of service .
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@Lukian If , as indicated , wifi wasn't working , that would definitely be the case .
Homeopathy
Cast1es comments on Sep 12, 2018:
Sometimes what the medical groups sell us doesn't work either . Sometimes , it even makes things worse . Sometimes , using things that have been used for thousands of years , actually have a positive effect . When I was young and pregnant for the first time , my doctor recommended a drug for ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
@pnfullifidian As I understood it , they were selling it in Germany in 1957 , and in England in the early 1960s , and had made the connections before it came to the States . I was not familiar with Frances Kelsey , but I'm very glad someone put her foot down . Nevertheless , I don't always trust modern day medicines , nor do I immediately condemm all homeopathic medications . I go by what works .
We hear news of thousands of women being raped, but we never hear the news of a man being raped.
PontifexMarximus comments on Sep 13, 2018:
***L'affaire Théo*** is a judicial affair concerning the arrest and alleged rape of Théodore Luhaka, 22. This case is interesting because it challenges the concept of rape frequently committed to obtain sexual gratification. The present case is interesting and will become a test case, Théo was ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 13, 2018:
In my book , that's still rape .
How often do you laugh at yourself?
Cast1es comments on Sep 12, 2018:
Not as often as I'd like . I've never been good at socializing , but I've been practicing at Walmart . I've learned a couple of responses that I can make to generic comments , that tend to get a chuckle or two , which may start a brief conversation with strangers I meet , when I go shopping . It ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 12, 2018:
@TheAstroChuck I'm not trying to make them mad . When a cashier says , "Hi , how are you ?" I get a chuckle if I reply ," Short and fat . " I'm sitting in a scooter , and it's not the response they expect . But even when they've heard it before , it always makes them chuckle . I give myself an imaginary gold star if I can get a chuckle out of anyone .
A large number of people say that math is a waste of a student's energy.
Cast1es comments on Sep 12, 2018:
I wonder how many people have taken the time to apply algebra , to the area of their potential pizzas to determine which had more , then continued to mathmaticly evaluate the price of the area , to decide which was the better deal ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 12, 2018:
@evidentialist I didn't think farthings were still in use . I know pennies , shillings , and pounds , but rarely hear farthings mentioned .
Would you pay someone to date you?
273kelvin comments on Sep 12, 2018:
I am educated, funny, caring, affectionate, classy and urbane. Any offers? PS. not to mention witty, creative and a great lover (should that be called for)
Cast1es replies on Sep 12, 2018:
Just curious , How would that work ? Is there an hourly rate ? Does your paid time begin at your place or do you meet at an agreed upon site and your paid time begins there ? Do you dress for a predesignated destination ? Are there separate charges for that ? "Asking for a friend ."
Would you pay someone to date you?
Cast1es comments on Sep 12, 2018:
I don't know if it'll help anything , but I was noticing all of the likes on each of your photos . I've had over 580 visitors , and am anything but dark , but only show 3 likes on my photos . Please believe me , being dark , is not holding you back .
Cast1es replies on Sep 12, 2018:
@Freedompath Oh dear . It appears , in trying to make one feel more self confident , I've caused another to lose confidence . You've worked long and hard bo earn your level 8 .
16,657 more points to 8
Cast1es comments on Sep 12, 2018:
I'm going to get there first .....
Cast1es replies on Sep 12, 2018:
@Cutiebeauty Thank you .
Really great article about raising and training dogs.
Cast1es comments on Sep 11, 2018:
Nor do good people ....
Cast1es replies on Sep 11, 2018:
@JustLynnie " I was replying to the comment , " Good dogs don't just happen ." Obviously , you took the time to be with and teach your adopted son .So we agree !
All spies should be teenage girls: Their blood seems coldest.
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Sep 10, 2018:
Your problem is you used teenage girls... that is like saying the most Idiotic, ignorant humans beings are teenage boys. Teens are not and never will be a Final Product of anything!!! Now, when I was in the Military, member of an Admiral Staff. We were briefed by American Intelligence experts, in ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
If you're with someone you shouldn't been with , **you** are the guilty one . Passing that information along to the other woman , is a support issue , while taking out the guilty party - you ! You are in the wrong , but you are angry because she , "told," on you .
Why do i attract the fakes and wired people takes a lot for me to trust people due to past issues ...
CarolinaGirl60 comments on Sep 10, 2018:
I attract narcissists/narcopaths. It’s a lifetime problem, for which I’ve had a LOT of therapy and education. I know how it works, why I attract them(& to be fair, they attract me too), I know the warning signs/red flags. But I keep doing it. My improvement has been getting out faster when the...
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
@sunnn I've developed a routine that seems to be working . When someone contacts me , who gives me that feeling of , "Ut oh , scammer ." I immediately tell him , that I've had a problem in the past with scammers , so my rule is , " No matter what someone tells me , no matter how much they think they need me , to send them money , I will never , under any circumstances , wire them money ." Generally speaking , that the last time I ever hear from him .
21st century beliefs
Xuande comments on Sep 10, 2018:
This is gonna sound like a joke, and I guess it halfway is but ... Personally, I am shocked people still think toilet paper goes in the under position. Or the over position. Or any position. Using TP is gross and there are waaaaay better, more efficient and far more hygienic ways to clean your ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
Just curious , is there a blow dry for after the wash cycle ?
Is this what makes for a balanced relationship? LLOL
Cast1es comments on Sep 10, 2018:
Ever wonder **why** women are so much less interested in sex , than men ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
@josephr I think , for me , at least , and for others I've spoken with , sex with love , is not the same as sex with some kind of lubricant , because you don't want to be with the particular person , marriage or not . When the feelings are gone , no matter what the money situation , forcing yourself to have sex , only teaches you how to hate sex , and resent the other person .
Ok for anyone who freaked out kindly look at group and the new rules: [agnostic.
BookDeath comments on Sep 10, 2018:
First, thanks to the mods AND ADMIN. I would NEVER ever ever consider doing such a job b/c I really dislike herding cats....and humans are much worse than cats, IMO. I don't often venture an opinion on things of this nature, b/c I'm a snarky sarcastic sort who thinks that others have a much better...
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
I keep a package of catnip in the fridge .Get it out when I need to herd them . Very effective .
Is this what makes for a balanced relationship? LLOL
Cast1es comments on Sep 10, 2018:
Ever wonder **why** women are so much less interested in sex , than men ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
@josephr Yes, I agree 98.5 % . I also feel , for women , it's more about the emotions . For men it seems to be more about the physical aspect , although , I don't think men are interested in it as proof of love . They are , after all , willing to pay prostitutes for sex , most certainly without needing or requiring love . Prostitutes are a limited portion of the population , and are doing it strickly for the money .
So I bought a lawnmower.
AmiSue comments on Sep 10, 2018:
Yikes.
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
@minhmeister They have kind hearts .
So US today's attacked International Criminal Court, why would then African countries respect it?
Cast1es comments on Sep 10, 2018:
Is this missing a link ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
@m0752532706 Thanks .
Competing with Insects as the Climate Changes
escapetypist comments on Sep 10, 2018:
We need fewer carbs and more protein. I say we eat the bugs
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
Some do , although it isn't very popular here in the States .
Is this what makes for a balanced relationship? LLOL
Cast1es comments on Sep 10, 2018:
Ever wonder **why** women are so much less interested in sex , than men ?
Cast1es replies on Sep 10, 2018:
@josephr Your article hit a LOT of very valid points ! And it's correct in that it isn't as much of a lack of interest in sex , but has more to do with being too physically exhausted , being concerned about responsibilities , the length of time needed , the methods used , the feelings at the time , etc . But in the end , your article still shows men are more enthuseastic about getting it on , in general .
Since we're the fortunate ones who can sleep in on Sunday and not attend church services.
Cast1es comments on Sep 9, 2018:
Had a routine that a neighbor and I went to the early Sunday morning matinee at the local theaters . Trying to resurrect that with another neighbor , who is caring for her husband , who is operating at about the 2 year old level , since his last stroke . She needs a little , "time off ," now and ...
Cast1es replies on Sep 9, 2018:
@LucyLoohoo Thank you !
Please drink responsibly.
CallMeDave comments on Sep 9, 2018:
I didn't know half this stuff
Cast1es replies on Sep 9, 2018:
I don't believe any of this stuff .
How true is this ?
Cast1es comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Listening not only includes being able to repeat what she said . It means , there is something that needs to be done , please do it .
Cast1es replies on Sep 8, 2018:
@VAL3941 Have you noticed , not one man , including you has responded with , "I personally do this ** , in support of my family , every day . According the census bureau reports , when a woman gets home from her job , she puts in , on average , another four hours of work , once she gets home . Men routinely get mad and claim I'm horrid , because I complain . So here's what I see men contribute , on a routine bases , at the home . Once a week , they ride the lawn tractor around the yard , but only during the summer months - from around May or June to maybe the end of September .. Twice a week , if you're lucky , they may move the trash bins to the curb . Depending on where you live , they may shovel snow , the number of times per year , depending on the weather where you live . I've been here in Texas , on my own , and have not needed to shovel even once during the twelve and a half years I've been here . Men are not dumb and blind . They do know that they aren't contributing anywhere near as much effort to caring for the family . They don't have any counter officers to make . The best they can come up with , is not by helping . It's perfectly for them to complain , when their lady has already worked herself to the bone . It's wrong if she shows them that the relationship is seriously unbalanced . But under no circumstances ever , will they help to pick up the slack . I do not under any circumstances see anything that I type here making me attractive to any man . At the very unlikely best , I may wake some man up to how they treat their women , and under the very best of circumstances , they just may take on some more of the responsibilities . Still don't believe me ? Check out the bios/profiles . The vast majority say they are interested in sex , hookups , dating , long term relationships . Not one says , what they plan to contribute to a relationship , because , they have no plans to contribute anything to a relationship . Their plan is to watch all the sports teams on TV , play with all their assorted toys , have sex , and live happily ever as a couch potato after that . Show me anywhere where a man says he will contribute to taking care of the family .
How true is this ?
Cast1es comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Listening not only includes being able to repeat what she said . It means , there is something that needs to be done , please do it .
Cast1es replies on Sep 8, 2018:
@VAL3941 I didn't start out this way . I learned this from the men . I would love to feel better about them . Please, please please be better people . Please prove me wrong . As stated , I've already been alone for a **very** long time , because it's not safe being around you . Being alone , compared to being with most of the men I've met , is not the threat you think it is . Even here , there are a tremendous number of divorcees . Why do you think so many are divorced , if being married is so great ? Growing up , we are taught certain expectations . Unfortunately , males and females are not taught to expect the same things . From a very early age , females are taught to play with dolls , play at cooking , play serving food , play at washing dishes , how to make doll clothes , etc . Little boys are taught to play baseball, football , soccor , lacross , golf , basketball , play with toy cars , toy guns , maybe a small musical instrument . Boys are not taught to take part in families . Boys are taught , it's manly to have sex . They are insulted , if the need arises to have to change a diaper . That's one diaper ! Men are not even taught the basics of taking care of themselves . Want to meet single men ? Stop at a fast food place for breakfast . They can't even fix their own breakfast . before work everyday .
Plutocracy Now! [consortiumnews.
Cast1es comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Do you see how many here are unhappy with Trump in office . Yeah we get it .
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
@Renickulous Not saying it happened **because** of Trump . Saying he's a classic example . Yeah, we get it .
Who likes obscure words? I have just come across this one anthropophagi.
ghettophilosopher comments on Sep 7, 2018:
I'm gonna take a guess before I look it up... A viral infection that comes from humans..? ??‍♂️
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
@azzow2 Oh no ! Runs away .....
So, on the way to YOUR office, do you see stuff like this?
Cast1es comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Looks more like a man cave than a work cubical .
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
@onlyduh Have it your way .
How true is this ?
Cast1es comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Listening not only includes being able to repeat what she said . It means , there is something that needs to be done , please do it .
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
@ugly I never would have believed this prior to being married . From comments I've seen from others , here , to be honest , I wonder if men and women were born and raised on the same planet and in the same time frame . I'm quite sure this is not how men see themselves , and I truly hope I'm wrong about it . But I do read what the women are writing , as well as what the guys write . The guys seem to think , for women , it's all about how much money you have . While I have seen one or two here , who are in a bad financial situation , the majority are saying , I have my own , I don't need yours .
So, on the way to YOUR office, do you see stuff like this?
Cast1es comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Looks more like a man cave than a work cubical .
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
@onlyduh The fact that you are not a man , does not mean you can't have a , " man cave . "
How true is this ?
Cast1es comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Listening not only includes being able to repeat what she said . It means , there is something that needs to be done , please do it .
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
@VAL3941 I have learned : A. Men are not looking for a fair and equal partnership , they are looking for an obedient slave . B. Once they have , "won , " you , they no longer value you . C. Double standard includes , they expect you to do everything as well and as thoroughly as their full time stay at home mother did , but in addition , you are to hold down a full time 40 hour a week job , but he can't help with any of the chores , because , after all , those are women's work . Of course , he has no problem not doing the , "men's work , " either . D. No matter how smart you are , and how hard you work , you're not allowed to earn more than he does , because that will hurt his ego . E. I am to praise highly , anything he does . When I complete a project , it suddenly becomes , "our ," project , even if he did little to nothing to accomplish it . F. If I set a new personal goal for myself , he will look for ways to sabotage my efforts . G. Just because you sit down together and quietly discuss a concern he brought up , make lists to show who is doing what , and he understands how little he does , does not mean he is actually going to start contributing to the work involved in caring for a family . Ladies , have I missed anything ?
So, on the way to YOUR office, do you see stuff like this?
Cast1es comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Looks more like a man cave than a work cubical .
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
@onlyduh Exactly .
How true is this ?
Cast1es comments on Sep 7, 2018:
Listening not only includes being able to repeat what she said . It means , there is something that needs to be done , please do it .
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
@VAL3941 Absolutely ! That's why I've been separated for the past 44 years , and moved to a 50/50 state . Been there, done that , learned my lesson , not going there again , wasn't worth it before and I don't see any improvements , now !
I'm sitting outside my son's school, I have a 9am meeting with his English teacher to discuss his ...
weeman comments on Sep 7, 2018:
lawyer up and make sure she knows its her not the school you will be going after if it continues im sure some of the trans support groups will hve legal aid teams who are used to this kind of fucking shit good luck
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
Excellent suggestion , but know up front , this will make things even more difficult for a time . Check with the school principal to see if there's a chance you can have him transferred to a different class . He needs out from under , three years ago .
Can any of the gentleman here on the site who are "open to meeting women " give me some sort of an ...
Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 6, 2018:
@admin please issue a warning to @meremortal he is harassing me
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
@Qualia I agree 100 % , and blocked him , before seeing that others had as well . He can make all the abusive remarks he wants to . He won't have an audience to read it .
Do you have a minute...for something punny.?
Happyonearth comments on Sep 7, 2018:
I've been a poet, a pawn and a king, but I do love Poe
Cast1es replies on Sep 7, 2018:
Quotes the raven , "Nevermore !"
Quick, Quick ???
Happyheretic comments on Sep 6, 2018:
The Ice Man Cometh.
Cast1es replies on Sep 6, 2018:
Good one !
“When one person suffers from a delusion, it is called insanity.
Cast1es comments on Sep 5, 2018:
Sometimes . Religion is not the only mass delusion , but is most likely the largest and most wide spread .
Cast1es replies on Sep 6, 2018:
@mordant Your first phrase made sense . But went south at the but . No one is discussing 11th century romance , except you . We're talking about today's dating/relationships . In my experience , men seem to think once they sign on the dotted line , they don't have to contribute anything positive to the relationship anymore . He comes home from work , sits on the couch and waits to be served . She comes home from work and ,according to the census reports , puts in another four hours of work at home , before she can drop into bed . Then he complains , she's not passionate anymore , she's lost all desire for him . Truth is , she's exhausted . He' so arrogant he thinks he's helped by complaining about everything she does , but can't get his ass up to help with any of the chores .
“When one person suffers from a delusion, it is called insanity.
Cast1es comments on Sep 5, 2018:
Sometimes . Religion is not the only mass delusion , but is most likely the largest and most wide spread .
Cast1es replies on Sep 6, 2018:
@mordant While romance can exist , it's very sad that some make absolutely no attempt to romance one another . Relationships work best , when people make a point of making one another feel good about themselves .
A larger-font version of 44 aMOOzing Pearls of Wisdom in 3 parts
Cast1es comments on Sep 6, 2018:
Much more legible . These are not quite where you think they were going - funny !
Cast1es replies on Sep 6, 2018:
@TheAstroChuck No , I'm using a Microsoft Surface computer , with about a 12 " screen . Several years ago , they surgically removed my lenses and replaced them with acrylic . Since then , I've had more than 14 laser treatments in each eye , Then they started with the needles in the eyeballs treatment . I can read books with standard print , but I can't read letters smaller than that .
Definitively
TristanNuvo comments on Sep 5, 2018:
Years ago when I used to live in West port CT.. fall was the best time of the year. The color of the trees was astounding.
Cast1es replies on Sep 6, 2018:
Dramatic coloring !
Part of my love of Halloween is movies.
Cast1es comments on Sep 6, 2018:
The blood suckers are mosquitoes .
Cast1es replies on Sep 6, 2018:
@Wahker Or watch them inside the house .
CHEMICALLY INDUCED FRANKENSTEIN HUMANS: [counterpunch.
Cast1es comments on Sep 5, 2018:
Chemicals have been dumped in our water for so long , that it's gotten into everyone's system to the point that it's showing up in nursing mother's milk and has been for a long time .Millenials , were poisoned since before birth . There's a valid reason for things being the way they are .
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
@Healthydoc70 Agree 100%.
Hello,I am new here and I want to do everything at once,like meeting my Miss right,chat and argue ...
Cast1es comments on Sep 5, 2018:
First , you have to become an active member , then you need to write a bio .
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
@JimG Nothing in , nothing out . Like everything else in life , if you can't be bothered to make an effort , no one else is going to be interested either .
Can any of the gentleman here on the site who are "open to meeting women " give me some sort of an ...
birdingnut comments on Sep 5, 2018:
I think the date is up to the woman. She usually makes the suggestion, or counter suggestion. Most cis hetero men don't care so much about the date itself..they usually see it as something to get over with as quickly as possible so they can seduce the women asap. That's why they usually don't...
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
Sadly , very true . They seem to feel , they've purchased sex , and are determined to get their money's worth . The concept behind a date used to be , an opportunity to get to know one another . The prostitutes decided to gentrify their profession , so decided to call what they do a date . Men chose to reverse the sentiment . What used to be an opportunity to get to know someone , is now considered payment for sex , by many men . And they wonder why so many women turn them down .
Has anyone or your children remained seated during the Pledge? [americanhumanist.org]
azzow2 comments on Sep 5, 2018:
I am a Navy Vet if this ever happens my kids and I will be having a serious talk about loyalty. I would appreciate if they returned to the original pledge the one without the reference to a deity.
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
I hate the modification as well . They should never have changed it .
Anybody experienced in dealing with type 2 diabetes?
Sheannutt comments on Sep 5, 2018:
I used to use honey sticks to curve my sugar cravings and now honey is too sweet for me.
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
@JustKip Honey is preferable over sugar . It digests better , with less of a crash .
Who designs this stuff?.???
Cast1es comments on Sep 5, 2018:
Read women in New York were having toes removed so they could wear very expensive shoes created by some high falooten designer .
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
@Sheannutt I agree ! It was , of course , a male designer . In my opinion , those women were just plain nuts .
People allege that they treat their pets more like human beings or the same way they treat human ...
Cast1es comments on Sep 5, 2018:
I don't usually see pet owners , "forcing ropes into their pet's necks ." I do see a collar with a leash . But I also see seat belts , car seats for children , and yes , when mine were small , I even owned a small harness that I could attach either a seat belt or a leash too as a protective measure...
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
@m0752532706 Sorry , I read what you wrote , and believe you meant what you said , when you wrote it .
I had recently come across some trivia about time. Can someone set this straight?
Cast1es comments on Sep 5, 2018:
I thought time was measured in degrees , because the sun rotates around the earth .
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
@azzow2 Only for the Europeans , look what they did to him . And world wide , he wasn't the first .
People allege that they treat their pets more like human beings or the same way they treat human ...
Cast1es comments on Sep 5, 2018:
I don't usually see pet owners , "forcing ropes into their pet's necks ." I do see a collar with a leash . But I also see seat belts , car seats for children , and yes , when mine were small , I even owned a small harness that I could attach either a seat belt or a leash too as a protective measure...
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
@m0752532706 I am being honest . I have not seen ropes looped around a pet's neck . I have seen both collars and harnesses with leashes attached . Pets generally do enjoy going on walks or runs with their owners/parents , and some actually request to go on walks . I frequently see pets , pulling their parents because they want to go faster , or there's something they want to explore that's out of reach . So while I must agree with you that there are some people who don't make good pet owners , just as there are some people who aren't good parents , for the most part , I think you , are trying to make something that is not harmful into something that is . Are you being honest , or just trying to stir up trouble ?
Let my cats out into the backyard at night .
CS60 comments on Sep 5, 2018:
I’m glad she came home.
Cast1es replies on Sep 5, 2018:
Me too !

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