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My Blue Fairy garb . 20 July 2018
Many religions allow a man to have more than one wife.
icolan comments on Apr 9, 2018:
Good theory except that virtually every one of those religions also makes it very clear that women are not equal to men and are viewed as little more than property.
Cast1es replies on Apr 12, 2018:
@icolan Religions , or at least those in charge , change or modify the rules all the time . For instance , where in the Bible does it say anything about , "Princes of the church , " and that they should live in palaces ?
I’m starting to get bunches On my muscadine grapes. And my blueberries are starting to ripen.
Cast1es comments on Apr 11, 2018:
I bought a huge planter and put in a grapevine , last year , which promptly died , although the mint was very happy to be there . I bought another grape vine and put in this year ,which promptly died as well , although last year's mint , is still going strong . I think something is poisoning the ...
Cast1es replies on Apr 11, 2018:
@farmboy2017 Thank you , I wondered about that , which is why included the mints in my post .
I finnaly got a group of my friends together to play D&D.
DonThiebaut comments on Apr 10, 2018:
Good for you! Yeah, looking for tabletop RPG players can be almost as hard as finding atheists. ?
Cast1es replies on Apr 11, 2018:
@Katrik I finally discovered a local store , and when I went back the following week , having decided to join in gaming there , they were moving out , as they also had gone out of business . About two months ago , I discovered another one . Try googling for a local D&D , gaming store . There seem to be an increasing number , now , the problem is locating them . Please remember to support them, so they don't go out of business . Bring them to the attention of your online friends . You can also locate then if you go to Sci-fi-fantasy conventions . They generally have games set up , as a means of advertising to the right audience . Look for their brochures .
I finnaly got a group of my friends together to play D&D.
DonThiebaut comments on Apr 10, 2018:
Good for you! Yeah, looking for tabletop RPG players can be almost as hard as finding atheists. ?
Cast1es replies on Apr 11, 2018:
@Katrik Try contacting your local gaming store . They provide spaces for players , generally speaking if you're willing to buy your gaming materials at their store . And it's a great place to meet other gamers .
I'll plant organic cotton tomorrow.
Cast1es comments on Apr 10, 2018:
Didn't know cotton grew in green .
Cast1es replies on Apr 10, 2018:
@farmboy2017 Are the nature grown cottons bleach resistant ?
Many religions allow a man to have more than one wife.
JimG comments on Apr 9, 2018:
Where are women portrayed as the equals of men in these religious texts? The societies that created these works were patriarchal in nature, and sons inherited the wealth of their fathers. Wealth, power, and prestige were not passed through or to daughters. Women were property not property owners....
Cast1es replies on Apr 9, 2018:
Actually , there were women of wealthy families who were granted money , property , the incomes from those properties , and power in their own name , during the Medieval period . I'm sure you've heard , for instance , of Ferdinand and Isabel , Queen Mary , Queen Elizabeth , Catherine the Great , etc . Families with connections to the Royal families would often include money , property and it's income in the woman's name to improve the chances of marrying women into political marriages , but were concerned that the politics could change , and they did not want to lose those resources if , for instance , the new husband chose to back the wrong group .
What factors are used in determining an IQ?
Cast1es comments on Apr 7, 2018:
Mensa routinely conducts their own tests monthly , but will also accept standardized test scores , such as the SAT or ACT tests given at high schools in preparation for college .
Cast1es replies on Apr 8, 2018:
@Kris725 Thanks for the update 1
Wow looks like many of you are still up.
Seeker55 comments on Apr 7, 2018:
I don't know what has happened...I joined the insomniacs group because it seemed like I was always up at 1,2, 3am and now, since joining, I have been in bed by midnight or before....aggghhh.
Cast1es replies on Apr 7, 2018:
Super ! So glad it worked for you !
How do you feel about people who just want to put people down, whether it's in opinions or ...
Byrd comments on Apr 6, 2018:
while i do feel strongly that everybody should be aloud 2 state their opinion, im all about being respectful. also if a group is in support of something you are against and you join just 2 call people names and generally be unpleasant, you are a troll, in that case, yes, i may call them out, while ...
Cast1es replies on Apr 6, 2018:
There are one or two I would have liked to block , and while I can do that on Facebook , I haven't found a means to do that here .
Hello fellow gardeners, I promised my youngest son he could help in the garden this year.
Cast1es comments on Apr 6, 2018:
I like perennials . This year , I put in asparagus . Have to keep breaking off the spears this year , but once it's established , it will provide vegetables every summer . It's a relatively expensive vegetable , so if you like it , it;s a good mini investment .
Cast1es replies on Apr 6, 2018:
@Byrd A back field of Dad's property had them growing from a previous owner . They do best if you break/cut them off regularly . I planted some this year . They sprouted , I broke them off . More sprouts popped up . They are very fine at this point , with a feathery top , but will get thicker , if I continue to snap them off . Probibly won't get to edible size this year ,
What would you do if the end was near?
Cast1es comments on Apr 4, 2018:
There have been several times over the past two decades (remember , for instance the end of 1999 , the world will end at 2000 ?) when we were told someone had strongly advised us that the world was about to end ? We didn't do much of anything , because we didn't believe it . When we have been told a...
Cast1es replies on Apr 5, 2018:
@ChrisJones Hypothetically speaking , based on reactions of the past , the vast majority , won't react , beyond , perhaps , making jokes about it .
Evangelical Pastor Claims Traditional Gender Roles Can Prevent Sexual Abuse | HuffPost
Bierbasstard comments on Apr 4, 2018:
Then why do they keep finding "traditional xian preachers/followers" naked with teenagers and molesting children? Seems like he's preaching to the wrong congregation.
Cast1es replies on Apr 4, 2018:
It's not so much the wrong congregation , it's the wrong message
Evangelical Pastor Claims Traditional Gender Roles Can Prevent Sexual Abuse | HuffPost
ThomasStone comments on Apr 4, 2018:
It seems he'd like to suggest that sexual abuse is solely a women's issue. I was raised by a right wing evangelical father who sexually abused me for 13 straight years. Traditional gender roles? Screw tradition! We don't live in the 1950's anymore.
Cast1es replies on Apr 4, 2018:
As you have just pointed out , it's not merely about sexually abusing women , it's about giving adult males the right to abuse all family members with absolutely no legal means of self defense . While I'm not trying to say that all men do this , I am saying there are and always have been men who do .
How about a non-hysterical discussion about guns in the US?
tscrib101 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
Banning of guns will never happen. Frankly, most democrats/liberals don't want to 'take your guns'. But rather evolve a system that will reduce gun violence. I don't understand how things like waiting periods, background checks, etc infringes on peoples rights to own guns. you still get your ...
Cast1es replies on Apr 4, 2018:
Recent news , is of a student who took a knife to school and stabbed 21 people , until a guard with a gun , took him out . Took the course , applied for my license , and bought my own about two years ago .
What's a phrase you vehemently despise?
AdorkableMe comments on Apr 3, 2018:
One time before I married my husband someone asked him when we were going to get married. He replied, "Why buy the cow when I get the milk for free?" I replied back, "Did you just call me a cow??" ???
Cast1es replies on Apr 3, 2018:
Response to that is , why buy the pig , when the sausage is so small .
What's a phrase you vehemently despise?
Sticks48 comments on Apr 3, 2018:
Whatever! Not a phrase, but it irritates the shit out of me. Also, " You know what I'm saying?". No l don't know what you are saying becuase I'm stupid!
Cast1es replies on Apr 3, 2018:
Knew an idiot who used that . It wasn't that he had anything intelligent to say , he just wanted to get in thee last word . Last I heard , his wife left him .
living the dream to which extent are you able or willing to live the moment, the beauty & grace ...
LJ49 comments on Apr 3, 2018:
I had an accident last summer and suffered a severe brain bleed which cost me my short term memory. Every day my mental clock resets, so all I really have IS a moment, so-to-speak.
Cast1es replies on Apr 3, 2018:
Just saw a film , called 50 First Dates , starring Adam Sandler . I think there may be some useful suggestions there , for you .
Who or what do you sleep with at night?
Crimson67 comments on Mar 18, 2018:
I sleep with my comforter and pillow. I don't need comfort items in bed with me. I'm not currently involved with anyone and I have a firm rule about the bed not being a place to "hang out" with electronics.
Cast1es replies on Apr 2, 2018:
@ashortbeauty Had surgery on my spine , years ago . I empathize . Hope you're better very soon .
I hear a lot of people on this site saying how lonely they are how they wish they could find ...
DominickMcKeon comments on Mar 5, 2018:
Why the hell would anyone be looking for love on an internet agnostic site? This is a site for discussions and debate. Mayhap a bit of witty banter with a few jibes. Do people of faith go to their house of worship to find love? Or do they find love and go to a house or worship to marry? Chicken or ...
Cast1es replies on Apr 2, 2018:
On Facebook , it is advertised as a dating site . People do things they are interested in , and occasionally to meet someone sharing the same interests , including both churches , and (unfortunately) bars , although I wouldn't recommend either . ,Meeting someone in church , would suggest that you share the same religious/life style concepts . It's way past time that there was a place for non-religious people to share ideas , and had a place to meet .
I hear a lot of people on this site saying how lonely they are how they wish they could find ...
Liviu comments on Mar 5, 2018:
Because the women on the site are either inactive or uninterested. I would love to go date someone. Just yesterday I was catfished... time wasters.
Cast1es replies on Apr 2, 2018:
Wow . Happened upon a rather long argument you posted in response to a thoughtful posting about the differences between the way men and women are seen . I was so taken aback , that I chose to read what your bio. said . It's like they were written by two very different people . Your bio was interesting , ( though wrong age bracket for me ) . I would recommend that you view the number of likes posted at your comments vs. the opponents comments . Personally , had your mansplaining , showed up on Facebook , I would have immediately permanently blocked you . Perhaps that has something to do with why the women here are not interested in you .
This could go for either gender. :) Just a great one liner, had to share
DavidNoel comments on Nov 8, 2017:
I recently posted on Facebook this statement "Religion if the Tool of the Psychopath", and I had a really bad reaction from a person who must be Christian, but who calls herself an Agnostic.
Cast1es replies on Apr 1, 2018:
@zrez Non believers can't go to hell . The Bible says God created the angels , who then revolted , and God cast them from heaven , his favorite , Lucifer , becoming Satan . Therefore , if you don't believe in God , then Satan and Hell don't exist . Only believers can go to Hell .
Rise & Shine! How's the chocolate?
LeighShelton comments on Apr 1, 2018:
That's not chocolate, just call me rimmer from red dwarf
Cast1es replies on Apr 1, 2018:
Vin De Lu ?
Does anyone still balance their checking account?
JVee comments on Apr 1, 2018:
Yes I balance. The ridiculous fees these banks charge for over drafts you should check it often...Lol
Cast1es replies on Apr 1, 2018:
Stop paying fees . Switch from a bank to a credit union . If you pay off your credit card in full , on time , every month , you won't even be paying interest for that either .
Anyone else have a chronic illness that changed your perspective on life?
firecracker comments on Apr 1, 2018:
I was diagnosed with Type 1 diabetes (TID) nearly 31 years ago. It changed everything. I do not look at food the same way. Enjoying what I am eating is no longer the objective -- if it happens, it's a bonus. Food is medicine. I must be aware of what I am eating and how much of it I am eating, ...
Cast1es replies on Apr 1, 2018:
Welcome to the club .
Facebook planning brain-to-text interface so you can type with your thoughts?
Robotbuilder comments on Apr 1, 2018:
What I would really like to see is a computer program that filters out all irrelevant and uninteresting posts. I have had it with posts people send of necrotic body tissue ("Wow, look, gangrene, and pus! Cool!"), what food people ate, or any posts about Trump at all.
Cast1es replies on Apr 1, 2018:
When anyone sends me a political post , I click on the little string of dots at the top right hand side of their post , and permanently block the source of their post . That way no one will ever send me another post from that source . My friend won't know that I only see select posts from them , and I will never see any posts from that particular source ever again !
Looking to finding out what my IQ is.
Cast1es comments on Mar 6, 2018:
On Google , type in Mensa . Use the info you get there to contact them . They can tell you when and where they will be giving proctored tests , local to you .
Cast1es replies on Mar 31, 2018:
Mensa proctored tests were free , last I checked .
If I had it all to do again, I doubt very much I would meet my husband.
Duchess comments on Mar 30, 2018:
Without a doubt I would do everything differently. I would have finished school. I would still be with the boy from the good family instead of the jerk I married. the only saving grace is that I have two beautiful children, but I consider them all mine and not even part of him. we've been divorced...
Cast1es replies on Mar 31, 2018:
What will be , will be . Glad you didn't stay for the last 40 .
If I had it all to do again, I doubt very much I would meet my husband.
Gatovicolo comments on Mar 30, 2018:
Avoid marriage? No. Avoid marrying my late wife? Yes.
Cast1es replies on Mar 31, 2018:
@misstuffy Me too . I put everything I worked so hard to earn , into property . They can't stick it in their pocket and walk away .
If I had it all to do again, I doubt very much I would meet my husband.
A2Jennifer comments on Mar 30, 2018:
I would. When I married my ex we already had our son. At every stage of our relationship, the more committed “we” (meaning “I”) got, the worse he treated me. Once we got married, he never did another thing for me. He stopped contributing to our household in any way (financial, instrumental, ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 31, 2018:
@misstuffy I most strongly empathize . Had to view a closeup to verify that we hadn't been married into the same family .
How are you gonna spend Easter Sunday?
evidentialist comments on Mar 29, 2018:
Easter Sunday? Okay, I get that it's on Sunday, but which Sunday? How is it, whatever it is, of any importance to me? Do I have to wear special clothes, or is casual okay?
Cast1es replies on Mar 29, 2018:
This year , it's on April first , no joking !
What do you do if he just wants to be friends?
Beach_slim comments on Mar 29, 2018:
I don't have friends, I've found this strange notion that women won't date their friends? It's like to be in a relationship, you have to be enemies, makes no sense to me. People say the friend zone like that's supposed to be a bad thing. It'd be nice to actually have a real friend who has your ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 29, 2018:
A real friend , won't be your enabler , if you're wrong .
Let's start a grammar war! It's Word Wednesday! The origin of "irregardless" is unknown.
Alimacbean comments on Mar 28, 2018:
When people say granite instead of granted and supposebly instead of supposedly. Also when people say they did a 360 instead of 180!
Cast1es replies on Mar 29, 2018:
@phxbillcee That one is like chalk grating on a black board .
Question: What do you do if your electric car runs out of electric?
Cast1es comments on Mar 28, 2018:
For what it's worth , I've had my ordinary car's battery die . I now own a small charger , which I can plug into a wall outlet in my garage and connect to my car's battery via the cigaret lighter outlet .
Cast1es replies on Mar 29, 2018:
@Dick_Martin My previous van was the one with the problem battery , or perhaps it just couldn't stand up to my frequent , but less than five mile drives . Didn't find this , until I got my new-to-me van . So haven't tried it yet . Asked for what I wanted at a local auto parts store , and they had it in stock .
Making whites white again.
MarvelAnn comments on Mar 28, 2018:
Fill a plastic tub large enuf to hold duvet with hot water. Add 1 cup of OxiClean; soak duvet for 24 hours. Wash as usual with a heavy duty detergent in warm or hot water. Add an extra rinse cycle. During the 1st rinse cycle, add one cup of white distilled vinegar to help rinse away any detergent ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 28, 2018:
I'd also recommend , once it's white again , and dry , spraying it with something like Scotch Guard , to keep it white longer .
Does 'turning the other cheek work'?
cava comments on Mar 27, 2018:
"You have heard that it was said, "An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth." But I say to you, Do not resist the one who is evil. But if anyone slaps you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also. And if anyone would sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well. And if anyone ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 28, 2018:
Another reason for not being religious . Shortly after the honeymoon , I was washing dishes after dinner . My new husband , came into the kitchen , and picked up a tea towel . I thought he was being sweet and intending to dry the dishes . Instead , he twisted the towel into a tight knot and smacked me across my butt , I chased him out of the house . When he returned , I told him what he did hurt , and was totally uncalled for . I continued , that was the first , last , and only time , he would ever hit me , under any circumstances , because I wouldn't put up with that sh*t . Although we had other problems , that never became one of them .
Does 'turning the other cheek work'?
farmboy2017 comments on Mar 27, 2018:
No, because they'll expect you to turn yet another cheek and the only one you have left belongs to your neighbor.
Cast1es replies on Mar 28, 2018:
@farmboy2017 You've got four cheeks .....
Let's start a grammar war! It's Word Wednesday! The origin of "irregardless" is unknown.
PickledRick comments on Mar 28, 2018:
I've heard a new word one recently being used ,'conversated', I guess it's a shortening of 'have a conversation with' ?
Cast1es replies on Mar 28, 2018:
While I agree with your comment , I actually ran into it some twenty or so years ago . A high profile black activist , making a well publized (sp) speech , created a verb from a noun , and suddenly , it began turning up in the speech patterns of some of my African American friends and coworkers .
Do you prefer using a fork or a spoon mostly?
cava comments on Mar 28, 2018:
No spork tines like a fork No spork clatters like a spoon Sporks are for dorks
Cast1es replies on Mar 28, 2018:
@Agr8m8 It's easy to eat peas with a knife . Use the mashed potatoes to hold them in place .
Eating out alone?
Deb57 comments on Mar 28, 2018:
I have gone to restaurants alone for years. Not a big deal. Take a book with you if it makes you feel more comfortable. I've been known to go to the movies alone, too.
Cast1es replies on Mar 28, 2018:
Me too , though I normally go during the daytime . It's generally safer to go places alone during daylight hours .
Say that some mysterious virus is set off.
Cast1es comments on Mar 23, 2018:
First of all , if only 10% of the populatioin remains , anyone who can create an immune based medical solution , is also a member of the immune community , so that would be redundant . I think , keeping in mind the problems that occurred during the plague years , and today's technology , and my ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 23, 2018:
@TaraMarshall It was a virus , not radiation sickness . Compost is good . Bodies , were buried deeply , under lots of dirt , then stuff to compost naturally , then lots , more dirt , then seeds and plants , more dirt , then water .
Is chivalry SEXIST???
Cast1es comments on Mar 21, 2018:
Paying for a woman , on a date , is not about chivarly . Paying for a woman is showing her that you will make a good mate , because , as a part of child bearing and raising , she will be required to depend on her mate for support . She needs to know if you will be generous towards her and your ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 21, 2018:
@JoelLovell When I retired from my last job , it was after working there for 42 years , 9 months , and 3 days . 100 % of my earnings went into the pot to support the family as well . I didn't make the babies by myself , or without his full knowledge , before we married , that this was the plan . In my opinion , a marriage is a partnership . Two people joined together , agreeing to have sex , which is the route to take , for having a family . I did not ask him to support me . I have never under any circumstances , either asked for or received alimony . Not one red cent . As my partner in making a family , I do feel he also carries responsibility for their support and welfare . In divorce , I asked him to contribute $130 per month to support two children . His lawyer increased that amount to $150 per month for both children . I think that must have been due to some law about minimum requirements . To put things in perspective , over time , the child care service increased their rates to $150 per month , for my two girls . He frequently informed me that he should not have to pay , because the cost of living had increased . I pointed out to him , that this fact was correct , that it now cost more to support the girls , AND that the Federal Government had given him a COLA (Cost of Living Allowance ) , which the girls had not received . A lawyer told me most divorces are due to one of three problem areas . 1. Sex . 2. Money 3. In-laws . Personally , I suspect, 4 Would be addictions , whether it's booze , gambling , drugs , abusive behavior or whatever . According to the 2015 U.S. census , it now costs over $250,000.00 (that's right , over a quarter of a million dollars ) to raise a child . Women are still paid 20% less for doing the same work , as men are paid . So , please forgive me , if I expect men to adult , before starting a family .
I used Scottrade for about 10 years - sad to see it closed - I don't like Ameritrade as much
Cast1es comments on Mar 20, 2018:
I'm having the same problem . I much preferred the Scotttrade software . I'm afraid to order anything using their stuff .
Cast1es replies on Mar 20, 2018:
@gater As a part of the switch , they erased my entire watch list . I've just been told that with some adjustments , the graph can show up to 20 years of a stock's history .
Ahead of the Curve: The Cryptocoin Conspiracy – Part 1 - TheHumanist.com
Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 18, 2018:
I have a few hundred dollars spread out among bitcoin, ether and litecoin.
Cast1es replies on Mar 19, 2018:
I've been thinking about investing in some , but last time I checked , my brokerage didn't sell them .
Who or what do you sleep with at night?
kmdskit3 comments on Mar 19, 2018:
Missy Girl
Cast1es replies on Mar 19, 2018:
Six photos of your pets , none of you .
Is it impossible to teach adults common sense?
Cast1es comments on Mar 18, 2018:
I'm confused . You're 30 but living in some kind of residential home , controled by others ? Is it possible , since you work to pay your own bills . to join with other friends and get an apartment on your own , or perhaps rent a room in someone else's home ?
Cast1es replies on Mar 18, 2018:
@Sarahroo29 That I understand . I would , however , be cautious about posting , these things publicly . Although I doubt Medicaid is searching for things like this , there are those who will go out of their way , to report such things .
Is it impossible to teach adults common sense?
Cast1es comments on Mar 18, 2018:
I'm confused . You're 30 but living in some kind of residential home , controled by others ? Is it possible , since you work to pay your own bills . to join with other friends and get an apartment on your own , or perhaps rent a room in someone else's home ?
Cast1es replies on Mar 18, 2018:
@Sarahroo29 You seem to be fairly self sufficient . If you feel you're truly capable of taking care of yourself , you could hire a lawyer , and file in court to have her removed as your guardian .
Is it harder for women to get a date or for men?
okiestache comments on Mar 16, 2018:
Probably easier for women, all other things being equal, IMO.
Cast1es replies on Mar 16, 2018:
When have things ever been equal ?
Good morning, sleepy heads.
Cast1es comments on Mar 16, 2018:
I use old TV shows .
Cast1es replies on Mar 16, 2018:
@MollyBell Sometimes I fall asleep in the middle of an episode , miss the next episode altogether , and awake in the middle of the episode after that .
What makes you unique?
Charlene comments on Mar 15, 2018:
Every little thing I do, every word I say, every move I make..
Cast1es replies on Mar 16, 2018:
I'll be watching you .....
Where do you all work at? I work at USPS as a clerk.
Paul628 comments on Mar 15, 2018:
If I told you I'd have to kill you. ;)
Cast1es replies on Mar 16, 2018:
Retired now , but I've used that phrase , as well .
What is the sweetest thing you can say to a woman?
DeplorableMe59 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
You don't sweat much for a fat chick.
Cast1es replies on Mar 14, 2018:
Fat chicks would be lucky NOT to have you .
What is the sweetest thing you can say to a woman?
pthomas59 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
How nice of you to want to do this. I assume you have a girlfriend? Don't forget actions: opening doors, carrying items (yes, even her purse), and offering to do car washes, fill the tank (labor, not money). I love it when my bestie says "I want to take you out, so everyone can see you, you're ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 14, 2018:
These are not JUST for dates . Women aren't , bought and paid for . If you treat a woman to win her over , then immediately stop , the moment you're got her , you won't keep her .
Anyone annoyed by snotty liberals?
tscrib101 comments on Feb 4, 2018:
Just like any zealots, they hate their beliefs beings questions. be it religion, politics, or even food. lol I think everyone has sacred topics that we dont like to be questioned. My roommate and I often debate topics as friends, but we both know to lay off on a topic if our rebuttals stray from...
Cast1es replies on Mar 13, 2018:
My neighbor and friend , have recognized there are some topics we should simply not discuss . We've been friends for about 7 years now . We are aware we disagree and , and feel the friendship is more important than trying to convince one another that one of us is right , and one is wrong .
How about a non-hysterical discussion about guns in the US?
tscrib101 comments on Feb 20, 2018:
Banning of guns will never happen. Frankly, most democrats/liberals don't want to 'take your guns'. But rather evolve a system that will reduce gun violence. I don't understand how things like waiting periods, background checks, etc infringes on peoples rights to own guns. you still get your ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 13, 2018:
Very well said !
What makes a person "intelligent?"
NFAguy53 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
Inteeligence, common sense, and wisdom are the trifecta. Someone can sit on their ass in school for 30 years and still not pour water out of a boot. Someone can leave school at the 3rd grade and have a successful life. A combination of all 3 that I listed would be intelligence. Anyone that knows a ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 13, 2018:
While I agree with you on the whole , I can't agree with , " Anyone that knows a little about everything is more intelligent than someone that knows a lot about a few things . " I'd rather have a heart surgeon , who can't properly mop a floor , do my heart surgery , than have someone who can properly mop the floor messing around with my surgery .
What makes a person "intelligent?"
Casey07 comments on Mar 13, 2018:
You have to be smart enough to hang out with the right people. Folks just a little dumber than you. Which makes you smartest one in the room.
Cast1es replies on Mar 13, 2018:
Or you could hang out with people who are smarter than you are , and learn things , and you will then actually be smarter .
If you're not married, would you marry again?
kmdskit3 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
Probably not. Only reason I'm currently married is because this is the US and I needed to get her on my health insurance. If I'm in a committed relationship I don't need the piece of paper to confirm that. In fact currently getting out of my relationship but will probably stay legally married to ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 13, 2018:
Any reason she couldn't buy her own health insurance ?
If you're not married, would you marry again?
sassygirl3869 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
Marriage is for childraising
Cast1es replies on Mar 13, 2018:
@sassygirl3869 Was that a good choice for you or for the child ?
What is the sweetest thing you can say to a woman?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
After reading these comments I think I have it down. Compliment their brain, compliment their brain, ok.... "Wow, you have an enormous head. You must have a big brain in there.".
Cast1es replies on Mar 12, 2018:
I think your parents must have seen something , they got your name right .
Women, are we being too picky about the men we date?
Troy comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Many are. A lot of women on dating web sites seem to want the face of George Clooney, the body of Hugh Jackman, the wit of Jerry Seinfeld, and the financial stability of Bill Gates, all in the one package. If a woman thinks there are no good men out there at all, then they are being too picky.
Cast1es replies on Mar 12, 2018:
@Troy Agreed . There seem to be a lot of these around . We'd like someone better than that . Someone who puts as much into a relationship as he expects to get out of it .
I am interested in investing in the stock market , and thought other members may also be interested ...
Cast1es comments on Mar 10, 2018:
The value of money changes over time . Think back to when you were small . How much did your favorite candy bar cost . What does it cost now ? Instead of thinking that the costs are going up , think the value of money is going down . In order to retain the value of my retirement fund , I invest part...
Cast1es replies on Mar 12, 2018:
@Countrywoman Have been doing these things for most of my life , the exception being , my house is paid for in full . I do still have maintenance and improvement costs , and , of course , real estate taxes . I don't trust Medicare , after what they did to SS , so am afraid to rely on that form of medical insurance .
Do you have any dietary restriction or are there any foods you can't or won't eat?
Cast1es comments on Mar 10, 2018:
When I was diagnosed as diabetic , no sugar , of course . So I loaded my grocery cart with fruits , to help me get off sugars . My tri glycerides went up , so had to cut fruits . SInce then , the diabetis has affected my kidney , so I was told no salt , no organ meat (heart , liver, kidneys , etc. )...
Cast1es replies on Mar 12, 2018:
@Captnron59 My brother has been on dialysis for several years , now . I tried to follow the kidney doctor's rules , and so far , I'm not on that . I was on the most common insulin for over 20 years , but eventually developed a reaction to it . I am currently on Humalog 75/25 , the largest portion of which is from human made insulin .
Do you have any dietary restriction or are there any foods you can't or won't eat?
Cast1es comments on Mar 10, 2018:
When I was diagnosed as diabetic , no sugar , of course . So I loaded my grocery cart with fruits , to help me get off sugars . My tri glycerides went up , so had to cut fruits . SInce then , the diabetis has affected my kidney , so I was told no salt , no organ meat (heart , liver, kidneys , etc. )...
Cast1es replies on Mar 12, 2018:
@marga I was much younger and that bit was a learning experience .
Happiness
sassygirl3869 comments on Mar 12, 2018:
It used to be shopping-now its spending more time with my animals.
Cast1es replies on Mar 12, 2018:
That's called , "Retail therapy ."
Women, are we being too picky about the men we date?
Troy comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Many are. A lot of women on dating web sites seem to want the face of George Clooney, the body of Hugh Jackman, the wit of Jerry Seinfeld, and the financial stability of Bill Gates, all in the one package. If a woman thinks there are no good men out there at all, then they are being too picky.
Cast1es replies on Mar 11, 2018:
Compared to what men want in a woman ? Looks like a movie star , but without the makeup , hair extensions , etc . ; has the body of a swim suite model , kind , generous , passionately sexy hot , does all the house hold chores , meets you at the door with a cold one , spends every weekend watching sports with you on TV .
If you were being sent off to an isolated island with 3 other people, who would you pick to go with ...
Cast1es comments on Mar 10, 2018:
Depends on how long we were expecting to be on the island .
Cast1es replies on Mar 11, 2018:
@silvereyes Well , if I take my cats , it will be the end of civilization as we know it , because we've all been fixed .
Any sword & sorcery reading fans out there who haven't read Terry Brooks should give him a try.
Cast1es comments on Mar 11, 2018:
Have you tried the Terry Prachette books ?
Cast1es replies on Mar 11, 2018:
@ronnie40356 He created a quirky world , filled with wonderful characters , and loves writing puns . If you're dealing with a bit of the duldrums , it's fun to read .
If you were being sent off to an isolated island with 3 other people, who would you pick to go with ...
Levi_Hinton comments on Mar 10, 2018:
Cristina Scabbia so she can sing, Stephen Hawking to keep my mind sharp, and George Carlin to keep me laughing.
Cast1es replies on Mar 11, 2018:
George Carlin is dead ....
How "Out" are you?
EdEarl comments on Mar 10, 2018:
Totally out. There is little privacy anymore, the NSA monitors phone calls under the guise of finding terrorists, social sites collect data, commercial sites collect data. If you care, drop out and move to iceland. I'm not moving; thus, I'm out.
Cast1es replies on Mar 10, 2018:
@LoriMcAfee Facebook tells you , it uses cookies , and when you mention a product , or search for one that they have an advertisement for , they will send you the ad .
How "Out" are you?
EdEarl comments on Mar 10, 2018:
Totally out. There is little privacy anymore, the NSA monitors phone calls under the guise of finding terrorists, social sites collect data, commercial sites collect data. If you care, drop out and move to iceland. I'm not moving; thus, I'm out.
Cast1es replies on Mar 10, 2018:
Don't think they listen to or read every phone call or post . I think they have machines that look for certain words of suspects . It's a matter of only viewing likely problem areas , not monitoring kids talking to Daddy when he's on deployment , or how interested in sex a teen is .
Directed to retirees. When did you make the final decision to give it up?
ProudMerry comments on Mar 10, 2018:
I'm 68 and still working part-time. I'll retire when I'm no longer capable of doing it. I love the job, but part of my reasoning is that when the women in my family go home and sit in the chair they die soon after.
Cast1es replies on Mar 10, 2018:
Make plans for yourself . Don't plan to go home and sit in a chair . This is your time . You can do whatever you want . Try new things , until you find things that interest you . Crafts , perhaps ? History ? (Look into the SCA) Animals ? Travel ? Books ? Tour the country you live in , I'm quite sure you haven't seen it all . Art - painting ?
If you're not married, would you marry again?
BearsBeets comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I always say never, and so far I've done quite well on that promise. I was married 10 years, and my 10th anniversary of ending that marriage through the court system is 3/14/2018. As much I'd love to be with someone who gives a crap, like for real, and we can stand each other's weirdness, I may ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 10, 2018:
Happy single anniversary to you ! Happy single anniversary to you !
If you're not married, would you marry again?
EricTrommater comments on Mar 9, 2018:
The current tax benefits of the patriarchy make marriage a very tempting offer.
Cast1es replies on Mar 10, 2018:
While tax benefits , are beneficial , the costs of being married , remove the financial benefits .
If you're not married, would you marry again?
Wrytyr comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I'm 61 and I've been married and divorced 3 times. Never again not that I consider myself suitable to most women.
Cast1es replies on Mar 10, 2018:
Lovely hair .
If you're not married, would you marry again?
Gwendolyn2018 comments on Mar 9, 2018:
I was married for 25 years. I also lived with a man for seven years after I ended my marriage. My last two boyfriends wanted to get married or at least live together. No. I have lived alone for well over a decade. I like to come and go as I like, I like to be in charge of MY money, and I like to eat...
Cast1es replies on Mar 10, 2018:
If he says you're selfish , because you want to control that which is yours , then that suggests , he wants to control that which is yours . Don't fall for it .
Why are women less represented in computer sciences and programming than men?
hlfsousa comments on Mar 9, 2018:
FFS, the feminist solution is split in 3 essential failures: 1. Force businesses to hire more (up to 50%) women. If women do not want to enter or stay in the carrer, so that women represent 30% of the workforce in IT, and there are jobs for 80% of all candidates, all unemployed people will be ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 9, 2018:
WHAT ?
Why are women less represented in computer sciences and programming than men?
Dick_Martin comments on Mar 9, 2018:
Because, for nerds, women are fearsome beasts who breathe fire and tear limbs off males caught in their trap. And they have titties. And, and ... they smell like flowers. And... they giggle. It's all a trap.
Cast1es replies on Mar 9, 2018:
And that's why you joined a dating site ?
Ugh! Trying to get on a day schedule is killing me. I have been a chronic insomniac my whole life.
DotLewis comments on Mar 8, 2018:
Insomnia or circadian rhythm sleep disorder? Are you unable to sleep regardless of what time you go to bed or do you sleep OK as long as it is on your own schedule? I tend to sleep between 3 and 11 AM daily unless I have somewhere I have to be. I've always struggled with going to bed at a more ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 8, 2018:
Same here .
Ugh! Trying to get on a day schedule is killing me. I have been a chronic insomniac my whole life.
DotLewis comments on Mar 8, 2018:
Insomnia or circadian rhythm sleep disorder? Are you unable to sleep regardless of what time you go to bed or do you sleep OK as long as it is on your own schedule? I tend to sleep between 3 and 11 AM daily unless I have somewhere I have to be. I've always struggled with going to bed at a more ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 8, 2018:
@CollinChapman Me too .
Humor
DotLewis comments on Mar 7, 2018:
Love it and most satire. A while back I posted a question about who "gets" satire because on FB groups I follow there are plenty of people who DON'T. I find it interesting that some people really cannot grasp satire as a form of humor. Some will get annoyed because they think it is real reporting...
Cast1es replies on Mar 7, 2018:
@Ride_Captain In my opinion , our current administration , is an unfortunate joke. Unfortunately it is also , "real."
The sociological ramifications of automation present a real challenge to our concept of work.
Cast1es comments on Mar 7, 2018:
Was watching a brick laying machine on video awhile back . It still needs men to load the bricks , into the machine . The men aren't spending the day bent over, moving all that weight . They're upright loading the bricks into the machine , which then places the preloaded bricks on the prepared ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 7, 2018:
@cava The machine lays bricks on a road or pathway , after it is designed by the master . It doesn't do buildings , which I suspect a master bricklayer would prefer to be doing .
How did I get put in the friend zone ?
LimeySteve comments on Feb 28, 2018:
Friendzone is one of the most self-centered, self-important, disrespectful, uncaring terms I encounter these days. It means a person only values another for their own pleasure. If you're in the "friendzone", you probably belong there. You don't value their friendship, only that you can get laid....
Cast1es replies on Mar 6, 2018:
Pushing the like button for this answer isn't enough . Really need a love it button for this one .
How did I get put in the friend zone ?
doglvr1882 comments on Feb 28, 2018:
She doesn't owe you anything. friendzone is a bullsh*t term men use to complain about rejection. she isn't interested. MOVE ON
Cast1es replies on Mar 6, 2018:
@SKDeitch Perhaps there was something she learned about him , when she slept with him , that is the cause for her lack of enthusiasm . Perhaps his need to tell others about his getting lucky with her , perhaps his lack of hygiene , perhaps a lack of interest in seeing that she got hers , as well . Just because she gave him the opportunity once , does not mean , she owes it to him again .
I passed the test for Mensa and when I found out the due were $35.
43teach comments on Mar 5, 2018:
Maybe they have good speakers, but somehow joining a group whose very definition implies they are smarter than everyone else is a big turn-off for me. But, yeah, I think I could pass their test
Cast1es replies on Mar 6, 2018:
I never felt I belonged or fit in , during my years at school . From my point of view I was normal . It just seemed it was a little easier for me to make friends with kids a couple of years older than I was . It isn't a matter of wanting to separate from others , it's more a matter of being tired of being excluded from the majority of those in my age bracket . And yes , it isn't unusual for those who consider themselves normal , to strike out at those who perhaps get better grades . How many movies have they made about the jocks hassling the nerds ?
I am interested in investing in the stock market , and thought other members may also be interested ...
girlwithsmiles comments on Mar 5, 2018:
Not as much as I am in making sure I invest in Ethical and progressive endeavours. Have invested in 100% socially responsible. My friends know how I feel, I had one telling me he'd brought shares and then said I wouldn't like it as it was in Uranium! But I know some people prefer the lucrative ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 6, 2018:
No reason you can't invest both responsibly and for income as well .
I am interested in investing in the stock market , and thought other members may also be interested ...
Mooolah comments on Mar 5, 2018:
How long do you have before you will need the money? If you are 73 as your profile indicates I would invest only what I could feel comfortable LOSING. Or feel comfortable leaving it to a charity or person(s). Long term is the only way to win for a novice.
Cast1es replies on Mar 6, 2018:
Actually , I've made about $6 K this year , through short term investing . For the present , at least , I'm only using one of my retirement incomes to live off of . With 45 in office , I'd be afraid of any long term investments .
Are you fulfilled?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
There are always positives and negatives to different lifestyles. In this case, single or in a relationship. I think the key is to not focus on what we don't have, a companion, but rather what we do have, more freedom. If we get in a relationship then don't focus on what we don't have, ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 4, 2018:
@Rudy1962 The relationship you don't have , because you aren't interested in working for it , apparently .
Are you fulfilled?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
There are always positives and negatives to different lifestyles. In this case, single or in a relationship. I think the key is to not focus on what we don't have, a companion, but rather what we do have, more freedom. If we get in a relationship then don't focus on what we don't have, ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 4, 2018:
@Rudy1962 If you don't care about your relationship , why should anyone else ?
Are you fulfilled?
Rudy1962 comments on Mar 4, 2018:
There are always positives and negatives to different lifestyles. In this case, single or in a relationship. I think the key is to not focus on what we don't have, a companion, but rather what we do have, more freedom. If we get in a relationship then don't focus on what we don't have, ...
Cast1es replies on Mar 4, 2018:
The grass is always greener where you dump fertilizer , water often , gets sufficient sunshine , and protective shade . Relationships are similar , in that you need to add care and ongoing interest , a happy environment , and protection .
A question for the ages: does he know I'm sick or does he just want attention?? cough cough sniffle
btroje comments on Mar 3, 2018:
or is this a time you have to wonder if they really suck the breath out of you?
Cast1es replies on Mar 4, 2018:
@btroje My mother-in-law told me a cat would get into the crib and suck kthe baby's breath away , trying ot get to the milk .
Do you feel lucky?
JK666 comments on Mar 1, 2018:
When my ship comes in, I will be at the airport.
Cast1es replies on Mar 3, 2018:
Take a taxi , back to the shipping terminal .
My cat brought a baby squirrel home .
Tenacious comments on Mar 1, 2018:
I've raised many baby squirrels. Most important thing is to keep them warm. Let me look for the best rescue website. BRB
Cast1es replies on Mar 2, 2018:
@Tenacious Me too ! Have managed two small poops , but so far , no pee . Update , he has finally peed , to !
My cat brought a baby squirrel home .
Tenacious comments on Mar 1, 2018:
I've raised many baby squirrels. Most important thing is to keep them warm. Let me look for the best rescue website. BRB
Cast1es replies on Mar 2, 2018:
@Tenacious I think he prefers skin on skin over the tea towel . He keeps squirming out .
My cat brought a baby squirrel home .
Tenacious comments on Mar 1, 2018:
I've raised many baby squirrels. Most important thing is to keep them warm. Let me look for the best rescue website. BRB
Cast1es replies on Mar 2, 2018:
@Tenacious The temperature is probably the one thing I got right . He sleeps a lot . I thought the Pedialite was only for if he was dehydrated . He does seem to like the the puppy milk . I phoned the wildlife center , and they gave me a number of a rehabiltater . She wasn't answering , all day . Finally got through this evening , and the lady who answered said she wasn't home , yet , to call back later , which I did . The second lady to answer told me , I should have called earlier . Told her I had , but she hadn't answered . So she got mad at me , because she was away , caring for her Mom , and she hung up on me .
My cat brought a baby squirrel home .
Tenacious comments on Mar 1, 2018:
I've raised many baby squirrels. Most important thing is to keep them warm. Let me look for the best rescue website. BRB
Cast1es replies on Mar 1, 2018:
@Tenacious Went to Petco and got the puppy formula . Still haven't been able to get him to pee .Using the wet Qtip . He has fur , hasn't opened his eyes yet , and ,"swims." Called Texas WIldlife , and got a number for a local squirrel rehabilitator . I've been scouting the neighborhood for squirrel nests in the trees . Haven't found any in my backyard . Finally poured a pile of birdseed in the back yard . If I see squirrels coming to it , will put him out there , in hopes his Mom will find him . Haven't gotten any answers from the rehabilitator , yet .
Religion and patriarchy are not mutually exclusive—on the contrary, they are inclusive.
birdingnut comments on Feb 28, 2018:
?? Who thinks religion and patriarchy are mutually exclusive? Au contraire.
Cast1es replies on Mar 1, 2018:
In my experience , men who did not attend church , decided to take me to , " their ," church . I suspect the only point was that they wanted me to abide by whatever rules the church had in favor of women being subservient to men . And here I am . Ha , ha , ha .
Spell and Grammar Checking Experiences After running your spell check, do you visually check your...
JeffMesser comments on Feb 28, 2018:
Meh ... I really don't care about it. If someone can understand what I say despite my typos and poor grammar then that's all I was shooting for anyway.
Cast1es replies on Feb 28, 2018:
@btroje I believe I read that there are over 2,000 members here . Potentially over 2,000 people can read what you write here , although admittedly , it's not a book , being printed on paper , still you have a reasonable audience .
Spell and Grammar Checking Experiences After running your spell check, do you visually check your...
Clare comments on Feb 28, 2018:
You obviously haven’t read my posts, they are filled with all kinds of errors. Funny thing is I don't catch any of them until after I post. Then it's a lot of editing and it's still messed up. Oh, yeah, auto correct sucks, it will correct without me even noticing it.
Cast1es replies on Feb 28, 2018:
I honestly think , my computer chooses to ," correct ," my postings to incorrect , when I hit the post button . I often find errors , that I'm positive weren't there , when I hit the post button . If I post something here , there is no way to go back to correct it , once it's been posted .
Any superstitions you subscribe to?
Cast1es comments on Feb 26, 2018:
I understand hospitals see a greater number of births during the full moon phases .
Cast1es replies on Feb 26, 2018:
@AnneWimsey Actually the nurses were telling me when I was at the hospital after giving birth to my daughter . I thought it was a little funny that a co-worker also gave birth and was in the same hospital at the same time .The two of us worked on the same project . The moon can control the tides of oceans , it's not much of a stretch to give credence to it affecting a belly full of water .
What's the best way to get into a woman's heart (if ya know what I mean).
Cast1es comments on Feb 24, 2018:
Make yourself special - in reality , not just in the lines you hand a woman , to get on her good side . She wants respect from you , but also wants to be able to respect you for who you really are . Instead of thinking in terms of how much you can get from the relationship , with only putting as ...
Cast1es replies on Feb 26, 2018:
@atheist There a couple of others here , whining that , "I don't know why she left me ." Remember this when you join that club .

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