Who is your Valentine, on the most important day of the year.

Sarahroo29 comments on Feb 14, 2018:

Me. I bought myself a Valentine's Day gift.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 14, 2018:

That is actually most important, to love myself first.

How often do you self-censor? Is it hard to bite your tongue?

PhitDoctor50 comments on Feb 13, 2018:

A fair amount. I can often be sarcastic and most people take it personally rather than see the joke. Especially censor when there’s a power imbalance. In my case professor-student or department chair-faculty member.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 14, 2018:

I get sarcastic myself, it is probably not the best form of humor.

Who is your Valentine, on the most important day of the year.

Reaver85 comments on Feb 14, 2018:

This 5 lb bag of bacon...I'm in love ????

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 14, 2018:

Don't love it too much, it could mean a heart attack on a plate. I can recover from a heartbreak.

Who is your Valentine, on the most important day of the year.

Sacha comments on Feb 14, 2018:

My valentine is Keanu Reeves. We are also going to get married.... He just doesn't know it yet ;) Im sure he will be thrilled when he finds out. loool

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 14, 2018:

If I was gay, I might want to marry him.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

AnneWimsey comments on Feb 8, 2018:

She may be "in love with love", or addicted to the endorphin rush that comes with first attraction. Competence/expertise in one area is no guarantee of stability in another....enjoy but make NO legal moves!

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 8, 2018:

@Anne That seem to be somewhat the case. I would build a woman a separate house before I marry again. From studying her romantic relationship history and it is the only weakness I can find. She is brilliant and reads me very well as I am an open book. My feeling now is she was desperate in our first meeting. Because the next day she told me she thought I had vanished from her. No way! I went crazy for her. Going to need some work.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

AnneWimsey comments on Feb 8, 2018:

Google her, now! Then enjoy!

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 8, 2018:

I googled her and found out she is rich, and has had a brilliant career that I support her deeply. I too have had a wonderful career, yet, willing to sacrifice now much more for a balance loving relationship. The downside, now discovering, her romantic relationship successes have not been that healthy. I feel she reads me very well, yet she was really desperate to rush us together. I'm always open and now she seems to be backing off. Timing is important, and need to open her up to find out what is blocking us.

Religion is like a penis.

ScienceBiker comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Evening services will begin on Saturday and Sunday at 7pm and 9pm. Maidens only. :-P

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 7, 2018:

Thou shall not rod thy staff

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I must really be an oddball on the site. Most of you here trust guns and Nationaism. Where I fully trust love and kindness in the long run.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 5, 2018:

@Readyforachange Check my threads on Guns and Nationaism , you can see for yourself most approve of Nationaism and guns because they have been hardwire programed to do so, to support these useless tools. God bless America.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

ReadyforaChange comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I'm not a big believer in online dating, I think it just might be a big old crap shoot. Of course, I've been through divorce, so I am a bit cynical.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 5, 2018:

Countrywoman Thanks for accepting me who I am. Although, I do think of myself as more of an aldult view in society and worldly by road record.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

sassygirl3869 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I actually am visiting a member of agnostic.com that I met right here right now-on the opposite coast. Regular dating sites have worked but I have nothing in common with the guys I met-they don't know what they want.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 5, 2018:

@ownworstenerny I have always been a natural leaders, so women always end up following me. I have experience the odd woman in my life that dose know what she wants, it can be difficult for men to follow her. Yet things are a changing.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

MrGypsy comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I am a romantic fool that loves easily but almost never falls in love.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 5, 2018:

I know loving my artwork for 40 years makes me stronger and happier person. When two people or thing are stronger together than apart, and accept them warts and all. That is Love for me. Yes, if you can't trust you can't love .

Do you believe in love at first sight?

LeighShelton comments on Feb 4, 2018:

Only people who may have had the experience will really know. love isn't everything.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

What is everything? God. I look for the most powerful force in the Universe. Best answer is Love, not everything. Why not the most of us, use it?

Do you believe in love at first sight?

birdingnut comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Apparently, males are capable of "love at first sight," if the female doesn't blow it by acting too needy and aggressive. I found that out the hard way when my male side fell head over heels in love with a transwoman about five years ago, who had been one of my American friends in Union School, ...

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Funny you live in KY, home of creationism. Never done sex with more than one at a time. Yet, have many wild fantasy of threesomes. My daughter boyfriend wanting my blessings for 3some realationship. I'm not against it, just explain the many problems with it. Then my daughter dumped him. This women I just met, were joking, I don't mind a 3some for a birthday present. Then she carried the joking on, and so was shocked and extremely turn on at the same time. She surprises me at every turn.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

AntaresRose comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I believe in love at first sight. I was in love like that once. I met him around Halloween and married him Thanksgiving day. It was not a one night hormonal trip either. We waited until we were married. Of course that wasn't long. We were married 20 years.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Keep ultimate life success stories like this pouring in. Too many horror or sad stories from Politics and Religion surrounds us.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

EWENBUR comments on Feb 4, 2018:

Poor guy!

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Poor guy? One woman told me she rather talk about Trump than about love. Because the greatest demise for realationships is money. The greatest demise for America is the over focus on money. Bragging Greedy puppet like Trump only knows how to take more money from you, wail giving you less. Even Mexican are happier than American. An ultimate love balance like the woman I just met. Co-in-cide with my spiritual, realationships, physical, intelluctal, and since she has more money than I. Who needs a world Champion liar like Trump to delusion us about his stinking money.

Do you believe in being "IN LOVE"?

Wildgreens comments on Jan 16, 2018:

Believing it and experiencing it, those are two different things. I have experienced that kind of love unlike any other. I had a husband that passed away 4 years ago. We were married for many years , and the anticipation of seeing him throughout the day kept the butterflies going. Even if I ...

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@wildgreen's The beauty of ultimate romantic love. If the love of our lovers dies through change or death. We can build an even a bigger and better lover as we have come to a higher energy level in life.

Do you believe in being "IN LOVE"?

Rugglesby comments on Jan 13, 2018:

yes, I believe in lust plus empathy and a few other things create the transient feeling of being "in love" as opposed to simply feeling love for someone. I don't believe it lasts or conquers all though.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Lol! Accounting to the vas majority Religious. We go to heaven and live with God, who is their ultimate love. I rather worship the pussy and the Sun here first. No greater pleasure and love strength.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

splittingzero comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Since you came here to tell your story, I assume you are a rational person. This can only be physical attraction because it is impossible for you to know each other. Physical attraction is important, you both need orgasms. But, when the dust settles, relationships have to head in the same ...

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

My big head is much more control over my little head than from youth. Since love is most important thing in life. I'll do what ever it takes to keep it growing Warmer and Wilder.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Rideauxb comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Run.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Only had one horror negative relationship with a woman in my life, my Ex. I would be running from a chance for the ultimate love experience in life.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Shellbell comments on Feb 3, 2018:

She may love who she thinks you are, only time will tell if who she thinks you are is actually who you really are (and vice versa). Two days isn't much time to figure that out.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Great, I am what I am. She will love me more. She called me an angel, I can't stop blushing from what ever comes out of her mouth.

Do you believe in being "IN LOVE"?

Rugglesby comments on Jan 13, 2018:

yes, I believe in lust plus empathy and a few other things create the transient feeling of being "in love" as opposed to simply feeling love for someone. I don't believe it lasts or conquers all though.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

What other word comes closest to conquering it all?

Do you believe in being "IN LOVE"?

Wildgreens comments on Jan 16, 2018:

Believing it and experiencing it, those are two different things. I have experienced that kind of love unlike any other. I had a husband that passed away 4 years ago. We were married for many years , and the anticipation of seeing him throughout the day kept the butterflies going. Even if I ...

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Very lucky you.

Do you believe in being "IN LOVE"?

DoctorBob comments on Jan 24, 2018:

To be totally honest....I don’t actually know what love means...let alone is....there are so many feelings to one meaning and 99.9% of everyone will not feel the same feelings as their partner....I suppose one could gage whether ones in love....if a love chart was invented....I.e. a series of ...

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

I can create a BS detector and the needle moves too far into the brown, I Know. To measure love, maybe impossible. All animals love, the Universe is glued together with firey love. Generally we don't get enough love.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Sarahroo29 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Isn't lust a word for the religious to use?

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 4, 2018:

What if you combined love and lust. I Luv you or I lovfff you.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Stevil comments on Feb 3, 2018:

i believe in Physical attraction at first sight and it can grow from that.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 3, 2018:

Yes, the outhouse theory make us grounded. If she truely loves me, wonder if she would be willing to live in a tent. She likes the idea of moving to Bolivia in an eco village. Time must tell.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

birdingnut comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Apparently, males are capable of "love at first sight," if the female doesn't blow it by acting too needy and aggressive. I found that out the hard way when my male side fell head over heels in love with a transwoman about five years ago, who had been one of my American friends in Union School, ...

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 3, 2018:

I have had transgenders attracted to me because I am artistic metrosexual, just not doing the sex part. She is Jewish, so she thinks like a guy. Very French and avid dancer, so the sex will be world class. Just can't find anything close to a deal breaker or horrible down side yet.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

birdingnut comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Apparently, males are capable of "love at first sight," if the female doesn't blow it by acting too needy and aggressive. I found that out the hard way when my male side fell head over heels in love with a transwoman about five years ago, who had been one of my American friends in Union School, ...

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 3, 2018:

I have had transgenders attracted to me because I am artistic metrosexual, just not doing the sex part. She is Jewish, so she thinks like a guy. Very French and avid dancer, so the sex will be world class. Just can't find anything close to a deal breaker or horrible down side yet.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

NeoXerops comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I mean... It's possible. I don't invest much into it. But then again, I have some trust issue. My advice would be to proceed with caution, watch for red flags, take things slow. Don't do what some people do with that whole "love at first sight" thing and get married next week.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 3, 2018:

I think she is as wise or wiser than me. You can't love , if you can't trust. I think we're are both crazy enough to make it happen. Getting married is control and money for the Government, she is a bit anarchist like me.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

evergreen comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I believe there can be lust, or a very strong liking of someone at first sight ... but love ? No.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 3, 2018:

Love is like a rose, it dose takes time.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

jlynn37 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I can only say that it has never happened to me.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 3, 2018:

This is the first for me.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Stevil comments on Feb 3, 2018:

i believe in Physical attraction at first sight and it can grow from that.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 3, 2018:

Yes the physical eyes were hypnotizing and the smile makes you loose your mind. She is also PHD professor teacher at University, big public speaker, life coach and great gardener. I was thinking she is way too good for me. Then she told me that my life work adventures, and everything I've done is everything she teaches. Can you get more showering with compliments?

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Condor5 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Give it a few weeks/months; if you still feel the same way, maybe you scored the big one.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 3, 2018:

Thanks.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

sciteachmd comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Sounds fabulous and like the real thing! I am so happy for you! Keep enjoying the thrill of love.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 3, 2018:

It sure is thrilling, don't know how to cool down .

How many places have you lived?

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Belize Norway Australia Guatemala Bolivia US. FL. CA. and Virginia Canada Alberta, BC and Ontario

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 1, 2018:

Really hard to pick. More often I enjoy the people from northern European, Canada, Australia and some Latino countries. Landscape wise New Zealand, Napel, BC, Belize and Bolivia. Visit over a 100 countries and revisit most of them. Mostly through sports and proforming arts business.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

MrGypsy comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I am a romantic fool that loves easily but almost never falls in love.

Castlepaloma replies on Feb 1, 2018:

Could that be unattached love. Unattached love you can give your love freely. Giving apathy rather than more suffering by being attracted with sympathy. You must love yourself first or you have not enough love to give away.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

Stevil comments on Jan 31, 2018:

This is the closest thing to online dating I've done. As far as a dedicated dating site. I have met several of my Email pals from all over the world. But those weren't dates. I'm going to visit one in Canada for one of Canada's two weeks of summer. This year. My last serious relationship, I met ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 31, 2018:

Glad to hear some good results for online dating. Most of my dates has been fans of my art work. My Online dating has been good for standup comedy only, so far.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

sassygirl3869 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I actually am visiting a member of agnostic.com that I met right here right now-on the opposite coast. Regular dating sites have worked but I have nothing in common with the guys I met-they don't know what they want.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 31, 2018:

You tell me the great secrete that every woman wants? I bet they don't know what they really really want. I know what I want in life. I dream for a living and those dreams have scheduled deadlines.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

PeterJohn comments on Jan 31, 2018:

loveacholic,is that a new word for sex maniac for males or nymphomaniac for females.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 31, 2018:

A lot of guys think love means sex. Love can wait, sex can't. There is a lot of hogwash confusing between sex and love. I maybe addictive to love, yet what harm is in that, if I can handle it or better still, balance all life forms with it.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

AnneWimsey comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I got myself a pen pal on POF, we correspond A Lot since 2106....never will meet, even though he is only about 3 hours away, we like our "relationship" just fine...and no, no sex in any form.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Unlike most men my age who have lost their loco Lobito. Why give up the greatest pleasure to mankind when you can find it in the largest sex organ called the brain. Laughing is second greatest pleasure, I rather laugh at the guys that can't do dirty sex right.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

Sarahroo29 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

It's been 1 year 8 months single. I gave up.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Don't give up, if you want it. There is a lid for every pot.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

evergreen comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I don't identify as a love-aholic. But I have had a couple very good relationships with people I met online. And I know of no less than four couples presently - who met online (all different sites), and now all have been married over ten years. It can work !

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Love to hear life success stories.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

firecracker comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I've had mixed results with online dating. Several meetings IRL turned out to just be one night flings, but in most cases that was probably for the best anyway. A couple of times a relationship developed, in one case lasting several years. Ultimately, though, nothing permanent. That said, nothing...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Women our age are still good looking and filled with love and fun. Go out and go for it.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

bmchizzle comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I have been on several online dating platform and have gone on dates, but most of those dates are only looking for hookups. Additionally, many men in my area are either in open marriages, or are polyamorous. While I am accepting of those ideals, they are not for me. I've had some fun casual times, ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

If I was younger and lived closer, you sound like my kind of gal.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

diabhal comments on Jan 30, 2018:

"I'd rather be in jail than in love again" (Hear my song)

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Rather be in jail than to be in love. Got to be the saddest statement I have ever heard. Maybe worst than supporting Nationaism. Love glues the planet together.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

LeighShelton comments on Jan 30, 2018:

yes, i found my best match so far but lost her too.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Better have lost, than not love at all. Try again.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

sassygirl3869 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I actually am visiting a member of agnostic.com that I met right here right now-on the opposite coast. Regular dating sites have worked but I have nothing in common with the guys I met-they don't know what they want.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

I find to know actually what a woman wants , is a road to ruin. I know they want attention and love and go with that.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

AntaresRose comments on Jan 30, 2018:

i am going to make it short so we can start talking. Yes, I am a lovaholic too. Would love to talk and discuss. i know people that it has worked for. I also know it was your picture I picked first to contact. Write me back when you can so we can talk. Smiles, Betty

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Geography would not matter if your in love. Although blind online dating from thousands of miles away would be difficult.

Loveacholic, are you one, I am.

ReadyforaChange comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I'm not a big believer in online dating, I think it just might be a big old crap shoot. Of course, I've been through divorce, so I am a bit cynical.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 30, 2018:

For many people , a lover can be the most powerful force in the Universe. Don't you think it is worth the risk and investment. Two people in love, are stronger together than apart.

Population crisis wars break out for food and water?

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 22, 2018:

Go to South America and build a self substainable eco village. Less than 10percent chance the war will carry on down there.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 23, 2018:

Still, 5percent of world population, on the scale of weapons for war. It is too late to turn the sheep back now.

Are you more artisic or logically minded?

ScubaWags comments on Jan 22, 2018:

Clearly I'm an artist. HAHAHA

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 22, 2018:

It feels like, cheerful Humanity

Are you more artisic or logically minded?

dahermit comments on Jan 22, 2018:

Art has no value for me. I cannot have sex with it, cannot eat it, nor is it a tool. Besides all that, a starving man has never crawled into a museum to look at the art as he starved to death (no public money should be spent for art). :)

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 22, 2018:

If they replaced arts and culture for Religion, I would agree in a heartbeat. Creativity must explore, not dictate.

Are you more artisic or logically minded?

PeppermintDreads comments on Jan 22, 2018:

I think I’m close to 60/40 artistic and logical.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 22, 2018:

Went I judge international artist contest. We judge 60 percent artist, 40 percent craft (logics part)

No matter what prison you're in, be it financial prison,poverty prison,drug addict prison,depression...

RoboGraham comments on Jan 22, 2018:

What if you are in coma prison?

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 22, 2018:

Could be a valid question. You still have 90percent of the white matter of your brain in operation. It depends on the different degrees of the person coma. If it is temporary, the mind and body can be balance again. If it is a permanent coma, I know I would not want to be someone's vegetable garden. That could prision the mind and body.

No matter what prison you're in, be it financial prison,poverty prison,drug addict prison,depression...

RoboGraham comments on Jan 22, 2018:

What if you are in coma prison?

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 22, 2018:

@GipsyOfNewSpain Only had a brain fart, on that one, then it went away.

There is no agnostic vs. atheist! The peeve I have...

I_dont_know comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Thank you, silvereyes, you show your depth in your posts. I think I use, Agnostic, because there are so many believers around me of different denominations. As you stated so well, the ultimate reality is unknowable. In other words, I DON'T KNOW! I know that there are believers out there that insist ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 20, 2018:

That is right. Did not see God increase our life expectancy by double in the last 150years. Still, don't know, is the correct answer.

There is no agnostic vs. atheist! The peeve I have...

Duke comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Well done. As for me, I fall in the camp that believes the existence of God is unknowable. One may label that whatever one chooses. It doesn't rule out the possibility of a God of some sort. It just states that (with our current understanding and ability) we can't prove or disprove the existence of ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 20, 2018:

Well put.

10 fallacies about atheists - have I missed any?

Castlepaloma comments on Dec 14, 2017:

No 10 An atheist can not be 100percent sure God dose not exist. The definition of an atheist is a lack of belief in God. Very much open to doubt, and doubt I would focus too much on. The world is 99percent unknown and far greater the Universe. A 100percent sure God dose not exist would not ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 17, 2018:

When facts are not clear, math dose not lie When the earth's 1 percent mass surface is 6km deep. When humans only collectively know less then 1percent about this earth mass. How anyone claim to know physically untouched 99 percent unknown mass. My imagination guess there is no mermaids, fairies, big or Aliens on the earth. Answers are better understood somewhere between extreme atheist and the Religious.

What's your favorite fictional premise? Do you like the supernatural in fiction?

hankster comments on Jan 16, 2018:

hitchhikers guide to the galaxy

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 16, 2018:

I make a living between historical and fantasy story telling sculptures mainly. There a fine line between fantasy and historical, depending who is writing the story. It's fun escaping into fantasy world's for explorination. Yet actually living in ancient fictional or not, world's will not advance us nor them.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

MarcIveson comments on Jan 15, 2018:

I truly believe that the worst invention ever is religion . I really can't think of something that divides people , causing hate and suffering more than acting on behalf of an imaginary friend .

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 16, 2018:

At times I thought Religion could be the worst for Humanity because 90percent of wars are predominantly Religious Countries. When Richard Dawkins said Nationaism is worst than Religion, it confirm a stronger feeling that Nationaism is worst than Religion. Goverments has a licence to steal and kill, where Religion has rules about that.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

RayRay comments on Jan 14, 2018:

Gun's are not bad. A gun is just a tool, no different than a knife or an ax, (by the way man used both to kill before guns came along). There will always be violence in any society where there are different classes and some form of authority to favor the higher classes. You know what's bad? The lack...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 14, 2018:

What's good about guns, other than to kill. To kill another human being, what can be worst, or lower than that. A knife has many good uses. To kill with a hammer, means beating a man into a hamburger. That is too personal and takes much skill. Wait, there is something worst than killing humans. In my lifetime, killing most of the wildlife combined with stealing their habitat. Drives species to extinction everyday. It's much cheaper to buy meat at the store and safer. Time of the 2nd amendment, they needed guns for food and protection from big wild animals, but not now. We are the 99percent we can easily beat the 1percent greedy higher classes. They dumb us down by making the military budget 10 times the education budget. The solution would be to lock up the central bankers, shink Governments to only state or local levels. Start a new age of volunteerism like Ron Paul proposed. If they don't get shot by the bad guys. Too many good guys are in prison. Prisoners population has grown tens times in my lifetime too.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

Nilkin67 comments on Jan 12, 2018:

Firearms are tools, it is that simple. Before firearms, it was bows and blades. Before that it was rocks and sticks Before that it was nails and teeth I guess. Firearms are not to blame exclusively. The saying guns are responsible in the same way spoons and forks are responsible for obesity....

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 14, 2018:

Yes, starvation and disease killed more people in the 2nd World War and the American civil war than firearms and so on. You can't start and maintain these kinds of war murder actions without firearm's. People don't farm or move medicine well when they think they will be killed. That gose for world poverty and modern slavery and so on and so on. It's not so much the gun deaths that people fear, it's anticipation of the big bang of it. Take away firearms from the Religious and what do they got? No more hell on earth to fear. Now that Pope Francis thinks hell dose not exist at all. Both super or Supernatural powers will vanish..

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

Pooska comments on Jan 12, 2018:

I stopped reading when I got to "Now that we have guns, the women, the elderly, and the frail all have equal footing" part......really dude

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 14, 2018:

Not been called a sexist jerk before. Simply find firearm destructive. firearm's not overall useful, creative, defensive, or of great value. I have been shot at a few times, I train security to be hide and seek masters. We know the bigger the bully the bigger the gun. I don't I bullies, to take a gun to solve things is a coward.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

stomato comments on Jan 12, 2018:

I think there is a place for guns in society. Hunting and home security are a couple of examples. I've never had a gun, and don't ever plan to. I am scared to death of them. But I can see why some folks would want one. But, to me, Americans take it way over the top! We are obsessed with them, and ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 14, 2018:

Virgin Don't know where you get your stats. Nov. 6, 2017 · In 2016, there were more than 38,000 gun-related deaths in the U.S. — 4,000 more than 2015, ... More Americans have died from guns since 1968 than in all the wars in US history.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 13, 2018:

Guns killed more Americans in 12 years than AIDS, war, and illegal drug overdoses combined By Zack Beauchamp on June 12, 2016

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 14, 2018:

@virgin Dose my photo look like a women, if not, I eat nails for breakfast. Been a sculptor for 40years, part-time I'm security supervisor and private investigator. Save a lot of lives, yet experience, education and foresight serves best.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 12, 2018:

I know most people major in minor things. There must be some deeper thinkers, here.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 13, 2018:

Being aware of the dangers is to control the dangers is one solution. Bolivia is my home solutions and safest place during the Third world war coming up. Was deep enough thought for me. When government fears the people, there is liberty. When the people fear the government, there is tyranny."American public carry 10 times the guns than the US military has. The strongest reason for the people to retain the right to keep and bear arms is, as a last resort, to protect themselves against tyranny in government."The federal government won't work out as our servant, the now NWO make them our master!" It can only get worst. Like all throughout human history, it takes great abuse before the true leaders, the people change it for the good. Not the heirachary Greedy. “When the people "tyranny has found victory," then "a smaller government is our servant" Sorry, no solid solutions, just aim to be the hide and seek world Champion.

What would utopia look like for you?

Paul628 comments on Jan 13, 2018:

@silvereyes Does living in Hawaii with lots of pizza mean you have to put pineapple on all of them?

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 13, 2018:

Silvereyes Your such a ham.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

dahermit comments on Jan 12, 2018:

I agree without guns there would be almost no violence. But, I don't think Ghengis Khan got the message.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 13, 2018:

I rather knock Khan out with my marshal art skills and call it a draw. No honor in killing anyone with a gun. Alex the Great, said war solves nothing. That is an obsession over nothing. @dahermit How Grimm, guns are not magic nor is war. Have faith in people, who are basically good. We can easily match away from war. When we stop being brainwashed from it's complete nonsense.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

markdevenish comments on Jan 13, 2018:

the chinese had gun powder for 600 years before they even thought of blowing someone up. says something for their culture and something rank about ours

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 13, 2018:

Yeah, China has not a major war since 1979. Longest and largest multi cultural place than anywhere in world history

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 13, 2018:

Guns killed more Americans in 12 years than AIDS, war, and illegal drug overdoses combined By Zack Beauchamp on June 12, 2016

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 13, 2018:

What we've got here is failure to communicate because Nationaism has us very brain washed. Show me where guns reduce rape. My data say out of 1,100 sexual assaults, in only one did the victim use a gun in self-defense. Look at men fighting, look at women crying and the hate we're breeding. Look at the fear we're feeding, it is not the number of gun deaths numbers. It's the highest death toll by the fear and surppression by firearm causing poverty, salvery, and tyrants it creates. Call it Nationaism the Destruction leading what we've always done before. Our hands are tied for billions work brainwashed pride pay more taxes than for rent and food. God bless America yet the Constitution is toilet paper along with banks printed money.All are swept aside by bloody hands time can't deny, then washed away by genocide and hides the lies of our civil wars. Public health costs of guns is too high. Victims used a gun in less than 1% of crime incidents. What self defense is a gun locked in a safe from children. Why not, sleep with your gun and shoot anyone who coming through a door. If I am upset I will write a letter an American thinks about a gun. Nabourghood watch is far more effective, I am not hanging out with a gun owner who may anger over anything.. Gun in self-defense increase the likelihood of injury. Try, Mace, or a dog. For the million of people I have been in contact with. Running and reporting was most effective for me or the for criminal. Nothing major stolen yet. Criminals don't do studies if homes have a gun or not. They may want to steal your guns. A gun in your home increases the likelihood you will be shot accidentally, but also that someone in the home will die in a suicide or homicide. Prisons are full of people who have pot, yet only 13 percent are violent criminals. Policing for profit is the name of the game, guns won't stop real criminals, a good prepared plan will.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

Pooska comments on Jan 12, 2018:

I stopped reading when I got to "Now that we have guns, the women, the elderly, and the frail all have equal footing" part......really dude

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 13, 2018:

In Canada, about 80 percent of firearm-related deaths are suicide The most conservative group on Suicide gun death is the. The National Rifle Association (NRA) U.S. citizens), 33,636 by firearms" These deaths consisted of 11,208 homicides, 21,175 suicides, NRA go as far rewriting classic children's stories, with guns. Two books have been published. You can imagine people with greater disability are higher risk of suicide .

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

LeighShelton comments on Jan 13, 2018:

the moment we picked up tools and farmed was the beginning of our end. our brain is our worst enemy. jellyfish have thrived for hundreds of millions of years and they haven't got one.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 13, 2018:

Best thing about a human is our brain, why don't we use it? About 90percent of species on earth have gone extinct. Making us an easy target if we don't use our brain well.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

buck1977 comments on Jan 12, 2018:

The US military is an overwhelming force for good in the world. Souls are imaginary. I think everybody should be able to own a tank. I'd like to see mandatory open carry and mandatory gun training. An armed society is a polite society. You can live in the woods and eat squirrels if you want...but ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 13, 2018:

From traveling over a 100 countries many times over. If I had a gun with me from 6 war zone countries visited, I would be dead. I seen US and other military bases phenomenal increase worldwide neglected issues the greatest of our ­time. Large on modern slavery, of slavery: sex slaves; farm, factory, and domestic servitude slaves; child soldier slaves. There are more people in slavery today than at any time in human history. according to the U.S. State Department. This is more than double the total taken from West Africa during the transatlantic slave trade in the 16th, 17th and 18th centuries. A modern world migrant worker unable to pay off his debt. Many lured with the promise of a job, his documents then taken, and forced to work endless hours in a kitchen. The teenage girl beaten, forced to walk the street.” Slavery takes many different forms. Like women sold as unofficial wives. Young boys are brought by traffickers. They have no rights at all, rarely see their families again and are paid peanuts. Clothing work is done by boys many north India fleeing the poverty. According to the London-based Anti-Slavery Society, an organization that is a direct descendent of the one that fought against Marks and Spencer, Mothercare, Tesco, Asda-Walmart, C and A, and Hennes and Mauritz (H&M). Backed by Military. Families are often tricked into sending their children to work off a debt. Children made to work up to 14 hours a day, six days a week in cramped and hazardous conditions, Savery may be illegal, but it still flourishes around the world, even in the United States. When justice systems and military are by far the largest Corperationism groups in the world by enforced guns. I can ensure you over safety security harms our freedom and security.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

zanyfish comments on Jan 12, 2018:

In the UK we have a documentary, fronted by Miriam Margolyes, that is examining various aspects of the American way of life that we Brits just don't understand - some of it amusing, some not. Anyway, she said something quite simple, yet profound, when it came to guns: "I am certainly capable of ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 12, 2018:

I can't imagine the world without a useful car. I can imagine the world without useless guns. There are 10 US states where firearms cause more deaths than cars.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

Nilkin67 comments on Jan 12, 2018:

Firearms are tools, it is that simple. Before firearms, it was bows and blades. Before that it was rocks and sticks Before that it was nails and teeth I guess. Firearms are not to blame exclusively. The saying guns are responsible in the same way spoons and forks are responsible for obesity....

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 12, 2018:

@Nikin Firearms are tools, it is that simple. @A tool for killing 100s millions in human history. Useless tool for killing. Take any tool in your household. Would dare to challenge anyone with a gun? Firearms are not to blame. @You would have a case if spoon and fork were made of sugar for dessert. Eating the gun for iron won't work either. If humans are an innately aggressive species. @Be a truth warriors, not a gun warrior. True, Environmental changes have done most of the damage. Yet more hunters than hockey players in Canada. Bear poaching is like Iraq times 100. What did most big animal do to deserve being emprison in a zoo for life, like most big cats. Corporate greed and their governmental partners are the biggest threat. True, Who has the largest guns? Couple with a gun for every American, you got High Noon. Guns, Gods and Gangs, like a

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

Redlegdex comments on Jan 12, 2018:

If religion is considered an invention, that it beats firearms hands down.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 12, 2018:

Yes, I would consider Religion as a tool to kill, like in their support of wars and concerns of sex or drugs. Would Religion have this power without the tie of the justice system and military. The heirachary system threaten everyone by the fear of firearms and nuclear war. War and guns what is it good for! Absolutely nothing.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

Pooska comments on Jan 12, 2018:

I stopped reading when I got to "Now that we have guns, the women, the elderly, and the frail all have equal footing" part......really dude

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 12, 2018:

How dose a gun protect you? 1. You own a gun, you are 3 times more likely to kill yourself than some esle. 2. You are more likely to kill someone you know than the criminal your supposed to protect yourself from. 3. After killing someone with a gun . In which you harm someone who has a family,. Then you may feel suicidal, or your continued vicious cycle. For killing never stops killing, like war troops wanting to kill in revenge, ten fold.

Firearms are the Worst Thing to Happen to Humanity.

dahermit comments on Jan 12, 2018:

I agree without guns there would be almost no violence. But, I don't think Ghengis Khan got the message.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 12, 2018:

Imagine if Khan had firearm's. Can't Imagine killing anyone in my lifetime. Hypothetically, let say Khan and I had a death duel in a cage match. He had his sword and I had a gun. Who would win?

Any one found love here?

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 11, 2018:

If I had a private jet and was wealthy for all the long distance relationships. I might try a few. A few of the Religious dates only end up in hell.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 12, 2018:

The he/she, we had alot of artistic things in common. After long conversations on line, we almost set up a date. I figured it out before the dinner date, it was a guy. When I cancelled the date and said I am into natural born women. He/she bitched and nagged at me like she was on steroids.

Any one found love here?

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 11, 2018:

If I had a private jet and was wealthy for all the long distance relationships. I might try a few. A few of the Religious dates only end up in hell.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 11, 2018:

It is getting to the attracted part that is most time consuming. In Toronto, I blind coffee dated as much as 4 times in a week. Online many of these women seem real fine. Then when you do the 5 senses check, then all the lying test, age, weight and 35percent are still married. After getting through the lying game, once almost had a transvestite turn into the crying game. It's costly investing even in a dinner for a blind date. Imagine investing in a trip 1000s of miles away to find out the 5 senses are telling you, this blind date does not make good sense. Some odd faith dreams do come true. Good thing I am not a hopeless romantic.

Why do so many people in the US seek out therapy?

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 10, 2018:

The entire country is under mind control. Your best Doctor is you, along with your friends and family. Don't allow The Government be your parents and stop this delusional they representative your freedom, they don't. Because they and their real owners don't give a care or flying fuck about you....

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 10, 2018:

I can say that about cops, doctor, teachers and so on. It is not the person, it is the system they are under, that dictates what they do. Everybody hands are tied because the system is broken and as they threw us overboard 40years ago. My daughter and I are better off the system as much as possible. I can grow all the medicine I need in my backyard. My family or friends remind me if I am getting too fat, Who needs a doctor for that. Do use some of their machine and advice, then get other options on my health.

How important is your Imagination?

GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Jan 10, 2018:

My imagination got me in trouble... cost me a divorce. Some poem I wrote and found by my wife. I never wrote something that pretty for her. She believed in my imagination more than I did but it is hard to explain when you can't defend yourself for being out at sea. I sided with my imagination ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 10, 2018:

The source of problems comes from the mind, not the heart or the imagination. Like children wild imagination, It’s okay to let them ride in the car with you, but don’t let them in the driver’s seat. Lead with my heart shortly followed by my mind. For just depending on imagination can go a muck too, like Religions who fight over imaginary Gods. When we always remembered to judge between emotions that will lead us down a good path. Heirachary leaders often lead us to a destructive path, if we follow them? Lead our hearts with truth? Can you imagine how different the world would be? Couples wouldn’t allow emotional offenses to drive a wedge between them. People wouldn’t give up on their dreams. Each of us are into the driver’s seat of our lives. If our feelings are saying“You’re a loser,” stop! Better lead your heart with truth. I am no better or worst than you, just make adjustments on your mistakes next time. Imagination is your best friend. Imagine the dangers too, to control the dangers.

Will you help me settle this debate with my friend: can a Christian be a freethinker?

Reignmond comments on Jan 8, 2018:

All religions require adherence to a dogma.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 9, 2018:

How about the Religion of Dudeism?

Will you help me settle this debate with my friend: can a Christian be a freethinker?

twitch comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Could be a free thinker about anything which isn't related to religion (though there aren't really that many things this would apply to, since an omnipotent god would trump science, and everything is tied together by science)...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 9, 2018:

I would think of Science as a branch in the tree of life. Don't think God or science as the be all and end all. I feel in the middle of extreme poles of atheist and Religion. When a group gets onesided or extreme, that limits your thinking.

Will you help me settle this debate with my friend: can a Christian be a freethinker?

ChestRockfield comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Going by the definition, you cannot. Some have claimed that you can be and that's how they transitioned. I do not believe this to be true. Just because the journey may seem longer than an instant, it's really not. Kind of like being pregnant, whatever your definition of pregnancy is, you are ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 9, 2018:

@Jeff The Bible either is the Universal truth and Knowledge or it is a lie. No thinking required, you got the sheep herders guild to the Universe. Why explore or think any more? Since everyone lies to different degrees, and man wrote the Bible, then the Bible must be a lie. If the Bible is the be all and end akl. If your God asked you to kill your son or daughter to show your faith. Would you without thinking?. I would kill God before killing my daughter, yet I don't have too, because I can't imagine running out of ideas to kill anyone. Just look at all the graveyards and tombstones worldwide who died written in the name of God. What were they thinking?

Will you help me settle this debate with my friend: can a Christian be a freethinker?

Duke comments on Jan 8, 2018:

I believe you can be. My reasoning is that there are so many of us here (myself included) who were once Christians but, are no longer. Does that by itself make us NOT free thinkers? I consider myself a free thinker and, I think I've always been one. I don't believe I became a free thinker the moment...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 8, 2018:

Christian are deeply programed to prepare their whole life, to be saved by Jesus. They many think they are free and honest. It just burdened of loving God first above everyone and thing. Beside God only laughs at your plans and God does all the thinking for you.

Life long learners, what is something you learned in 2017?

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 8, 2018:

I learn the digital synthetic world has taken over many of our skills and Imagination to learn new ways of thinking. The over stressing has forced many of us onto disability. There is always a positive side to all this, like Yin and Yang, still working to get a better handle on it.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 8, 2018:

Can not find a real flaw in the book of Tao. So optimist, things will get worst, then will get better.

How important is your Imagination?

RobCampbell comments on Jan 7, 2018:

"Your knowledge has limits but your imagination dose(sic) not." Out of all you said, this is the statement that seems to really drive home the power of imagination.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 7, 2018:

Yes, For knowledge is limited to all we now know and understand, while imagination embraces the entire world, and all there ever will be to know and understand. I wrote this post based on my own experience and excise with Imagination and a few tips from others. Everything I have ever achieved in life was all once imagined. It is the same story for the history of mankind. Was there anything in this post that is false?

Would Christianity be as popular if Jesus were portrayed more accurately?

Graham88 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

A lie gets more sells than a fact. I’m certainly sure that if Jesus really existed & that if God exists, & for the fact that Christians believe that the Bible is inspired by God, then the Bible is true. But, it’s bogas ‘cause there’s no God, no Jesus. Whether the story is told in a different...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 7, 2018:

The last assume rapture, had an End of the earth party across North America. With record sales of alcohol in bars, did manage to wash away the sins of Christain. Since alcohol combined with tobacco cause 90percent of people's drug related death. It also keeps our over population down, by weeding out the stupid.

How important is your Imagination?

Betty comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Imagination is powerful. It creates questions, stories, art, and allows to imagine scenarios for problem-solving, etc. It is a beautiful expression of perceptions. Then there is the dark side. Imagination is responsible for torture techniques and devices, implements of war, and totalitarianism....

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 6, 2018:

Fear is a big one. Our source of problems comes from our mind. I learn to be fearless and my daughter also by using the yin and yang approach in our minds. Not to say fear dose not exist, just replace by respect and understanding in time. Then imagination creates more good or very little harm. In Nature we love it and fear it, simultaneously. Love and fear co-exist. The two opposite feelings converge to create a different feeling. Respect, most modern writers think that the two cannot co-exist. When humans felt that they were powerless over Nature, they feared it and loved it and the resulting respect made possible a healthy and enduring love.

How do you feel about people saying "I'm proud of my heritage", "I'm proud of being British", etc.

tokynsyn comments on Jan 5, 2018:

That sense of pride was lost to time as it was a significant thing of cultures past. Heraldry, Crests, family emblems...the last major influential family to have such a visible thing would be the Rothschilds...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 5, 2018:

I am proud of the Zionist synthetic enslaved us and programing our lives. Yeah, it dose not ring bells and whistles.

How do you feel about people saying "I'm proud of my heritage", "I'm proud of being British", etc.

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 5, 2018:

If I say I am not proud of being Canadain. Many would say, why don't you move to Iraq or North Korea? That is why I am not proud of being Canadain because US says we have to fight Iraq or middle east or US will harm our trade deals. Proud is overrated.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 5, 2018:

1. I give 10percent of my happiness toward my country or healthy enough system. 2. About 30percent toward my family and friends Than the rest of happiness for achieving my own desires, attitude, focus and least important my natural talents. It always did feel silly saying I'm proud of such general things.

Would you marry for money or more freedom?

Sisyphe comments on Jan 3, 2018:

If you don't know, it's not true love.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 4, 2018:

It is easy for People to say they love someone after a year or two, and then most realationship fall apart within 3 year. You know you love someone after 10 years or more by experience.

Marijuana for recreational or medicinal? Dont be shy?

gearl comments on Jan 3, 2018:

In Arizona it lost in the last election but hopefully next time. I'll get my six plants the first week.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 3, 2018:

Great news, my kind of party, grow them 25 feet tall.

Marijuana for recreational or medicinal? Dont be shy?

Benmonk comments on Jan 3, 2018:

Yes I would.i can think of many people I have known who were ruined by alcohol. None by marijuana.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 3, 2018:

The worst drawback I have seen. Is a 40 year old man living in his Mother's basement. When he has a party of friends over. It takes a whole team to be able to order a pizza, then they fight over the last pizza.

If you were a museum curator, what would the theme be?

Jmiles comments on Jan 3, 2018:

Idk, maybe real evidence collected hunting for the real truth! The truth that has been lost, found and lost again?! Our history books are being rewritten almost every day and they are filled with theories and ideas not truth and actual facts!!

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 3, 2018:

I have been kicked out many museums and themes parks for presenting the deeper and truer facts. Like topics about native American and Christopher Cumubus was a real pirate. Cumubus started North America's Christianity, gold rush, native slavery and genocide and so on. Must build my own museum closer to the truth.

Anyone else here a Naturalist?

Admin comments on Jan 2, 2018:

What's your thought on Humanist?

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 3, 2018:

I can relate to Dudeist than most groups. Socrates — 'Mankind is made of two kinds of people: wise people who know they're fools, and fools who think they are wise.' Rather play the fool. I'm a leader of green rather than leading the world by synthetic rules and programs.

Anyone else here a Naturalist?

sassygirl3869 comments on Jan 2, 2018:

http://dudeism.com/ordination/ Check out dudeism.com

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 3, 2018:

The Goverment decides if a group is a religion or not. The US registered Atheism as a religion. Dudeism seem like a mock Religion a Holly fool (modeled loosely off of Taoism) Taoism is based on nature. Wikipedia - states it as a religion. The Church of the Latter-Day Dude, along with other ministers from smaller religions (and also non-religious folks), are running into a very interesting legal problem: they can’t officiate a marriage ceremony in certain states. So, lawsuits, like the one that recently popped up.

America’s 100 Largest Churches Are All Anti-Gay and Mostly Led By White Men – Friendly Atheist

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 2, 2018:

Pope Francis has called for transsexuals and homosexuals to be accepted and embraced by the Catholic Church. Research of different churches are all over the map. Yet more acceptance of LGBT and same sex marriage has been happening the last two decade's. Worldwide it is becoming more legal to be ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 2, 2018:

@sassy That did not coincide with your statement of.. The only churches that embrace the LGBTQ community are the Unitarian Universalist Churches.

America’s 100 Largest Churches Are All Anti-Gay and Mostly Led By White Men – Friendly Atheist

Castlepaloma comments on Jan 2, 2018:

Pope Francis has called for transsexuals and homosexuals to be accepted and embraced by the Catholic Church. Research of different churches are all over the map. Yet more acceptance of LGBT and same sex marriage has been happening the last two decade's. Worldwide it is becoming more legal to be ...

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 2, 2018:

Have you seen any fact check evidence presented on this thread here, saying most Christians do not accept homosexually. From when I was a young man homosexually was illegal. People are still in prison for it today. I thought marijuana would be legal before gay marriage in the US. I traveled a hundred countries and many time over to see the writing on the wall. Be careful where you get your facts, I trust greater my intuitive experiences. I am not gay, just support all kinds of love.

Do you trust that what you believe to be true, is true?

skado comments on Jan 2, 2018:

I investigate (within reason) and try not to get too attached to any of them.

Castlepaloma replies on Jan 2, 2018:

I' m pretty well the same. Not to get too unattached to any one thing, it frees up more my love for everything. Although my honesty needs a better filter system.