Lighting is significant

Davekp comments on Feb 19, 2021:

Indeed. Late 90's a colleague of mine in the film industry owned the local alternative night club called Triangles (haha, see what they did there) in Moncton, NB. It was the usual cast party go to spot. Always completely awash in neon pink, blue and purple.

Yeah some caring politician

Davekp comments on Feb 18, 2021:

Nice. 😕🤨

So, how is your Valentine's Day going?

Davekp comments on Feb 14, 2021:

Not this year. lol Happy V Day!!

Sexy Classy Pics is now available again.

Davekp comments on Feb 5, 2021:

Nudity in the main feed??😳😳😳 Won’t someone think of the children??🙀🙀 😂

Did a little remodel on my office. got it all ready for some deviant fun.

Davekp comments on Feb 2, 2021:

Nice!!!!🖤

Alas, i finally had to block someone.

Davekp comments on Feb 1, 2021:

When I tell someone they shall have the last word.. I give it to them. I don’t return to read their parting shot. But you can tell by the notifications they have given it.. to the wind. 😂

Single during the pandemic, a good read. [nytimes.com]

Davekp comments on Jan 31, 2021:

An interesting article. I count myself fortunate to have had my two teenage sons at home during the 2 layoff periods from work during 2 different lock downs in the past year. ( I return to the plant tomorrow after 3 weeks down due to semi conductor shortages.) While we spent most of the time in our own spaces doing our own things it was helpful to be able to ask for a hug once in a while :)

Well the lock down prevents me from doing a lot of things Long walks with my camera meeting friends ...

Davekp comments on Jan 31, 2021:

Hey!! You made it out alive! Congrats on the retirement. I just may be joining you in a few months. Enjoy your time. :)

Even if I wasn’t addicted to reefer cigarettes this would be happening all the time. 🤣

Davekp comments on Jan 30, 2021:

Gives ButtTrumpet a whole new meaning. Lol

HAVER.

Davekp comments on Jan 24, 2021:

"Babble, babble little brook, As you wend your way to the sea." I don't know the source of this quote but it was a favorite of my grade 12 English teacher when a student was obviously spewing nonsense. LOL Haver on!!

I have been reading the book Humans by Brandon Stanton.

Davekp comments on Jan 24, 2021:

"A good light read." lol

Today an old Facebook friend that I have returned texts with once in ten years posted a long ...

Davekp comments on Jan 23, 2021:

Never really had pets as a kid. Any that were around were short lived in the scene as I recall. I have 2 cats now going on 15 years for the oldest. I'm pretty pragmatic about death in general. I love my pets dearly and enjoy them in the moment but all good things come to an end.

Stoned today.

Davekp comments on Jan 21, 2021:

I’m glad you are feeling better. 🌻

Karma bitch

Davekp comments on Jan 20, 2021:

To be on the safe side all the children ..including Baron should be tried and convicted with felony charges, Take 'em all out of the future possibility for running for any office. It wasn't just Czar Nicholas who ended up in the shallow grave.. it was his whole immediate lineage. Trump thinks Putin and the Russians are such great role models? Model that!!!

My conversation with my sister tonight: (The steak was wonderful.)

Davekp comments on Jan 19, 2021:

Blu rare for me, please. 😁

I have queztions, too.

Davekp comments on Jan 19, 2021:

I miss the joke? Reference?

Happy Monday Everyone. Is anyone here interested in taking over this group?

Davekp comments on Jan 18, 2021:

I’m sorry to see you go.😢 But all good things.. Thank you for your service and your friendship. 😘☀️

Perhaps this is a bit optimistic but I view the storming of the capital and the ongoing aftermath to...

Davekp comments on Jan 16, 2021:

I dunno.. I can't see a nation scale meltdown but the opportunity for tempers to flair into armed moments is very real. How the first incident is handled will determine the future of such conflict. Snowballs do grow in Hell.

Top model Yazemeenah Rossi. Age 60-63.

Davekp comments on Jan 15, 2021:

Genes!!

I'm a snowflake.

Davekp comments on Jan 15, 2021:

I don’t generally give advice to others. I tend to try and relate to what others say as a way to enter the conversation with empathy. So I hope you take this with the constructive intent with which it is meant. I must recommend that you try to avoid labelling yourself in the negative. While it may have some credence in your thinking, at this time of some personal conflict referring to yourself as, “I am a Snowflake.” can do more harm to your moment to moment self esteem and ego than you might think by forming a feedback loop of self denigration. And, in the right context, being humbled can be an awesome state of being to find oneself in. But the outward admission of weakness can become an internal self fulfilling prophecy. Sometimes giving voice turns into giving the thought life. If this is the foundation you start with there is a difficult build ahead. I feel for your current situation though. Everything seems more than a bit off track for you, for me.. for all of us. To a degree I think we are all just faking it ‘til we make it these days. Lol You are an artist.. I’m an artist .. wanna chat about projects and stuff? Maybe find something positive in the works. 😁☀️

36 Questions: Happy Friday! I'm feeling sentimental.

Davekp comments on Jan 15, 2021:

Omg.. flashback.. I used to save the chips with the burnt edges for a gf many, many years ago. lol Something someone's done for me?? I'm sure there is something but it's been soooooooo long and such a rare event that someone does something out of the blue that I couldn't even hazard a guess. I'm a love note writer and a treat giver. The chocolate on the pillow for no reason kinda guy. It's been my impression that I attract or are attracted to people that take while I give. I show up with a coffee for you 'cause I know what you like. As a generalization.. you are either a thinker of others or others think of you. I am the former.

So does swallowing constitute cannibalism?

Davekp comments on Jan 15, 2021:

Similar notion to one I always thought would be an excellent posit for a sci-fi short story. Considering that the minimum of 15 million sperm per millilitre is considered a "normal" or healthy amount.. Does a man masturbating until he ejaculates constitute genocide? The short story takes place in a courtroom where our hero has been charged with a crime against humanity after his wife caught him with the Palmela sisters. lol

bleurowz known to some of you as Amy - has passed away.

Davekp comments on Jan 15, 2021:

Thank you for the notice. I would have wondered where she had gone.

Big Oil's extremist hypocrisy Oil companies employ actual right-wing militia members inside their ...

Davekp comments on Jan 14, 2021:

Excellent article. Thanks!!

Discombobulate verb (used with object) to confuse or disconcert; upset; frustrate.

Davekp comments on Jan 14, 2021:

Indeed. 👍

Trump, irritated by second impeachment, stops paying Rudy.

Davekp comments on Jan 14, 2021:

Ikr🙄🙄🙄

ALEATORY: adjective.

Davekp comments on Jan 14, 2021:

Good one. Seems like much of the time life is quite aleatory 👍

Some oxymorons to remember when you are taking advice.

Davekp comments on Jan 14, 2021:

Jumbo shrimp.

Today is Wild and Wacky Wednesday! Let's see your funnies!

Davekp comments on Jan 14, 2021:

The brain.

I needed a few supplies so at 06:00 I dawned my "shopping mask" -I added additional external filters...

Davekp comments on Jan 13, 2021:

Nah.. business as usual. Everybody here wears a mask. Even the malcontents complain.. WITH a mask on. 🤣🤣

I feel so worked up about all of this election/politics.

Davekp comments on Jan 13, 2021:

When almost half the voting population seem to not be able to discern fact from fiction because of a cult like fanaticism, you are presented with an unprecedented need to deprogram a huge swath of the country. It’s hard to say what the emerging future of America will be. But it seems almost certain at this point to be facing the authoritarian threat with begrudging pushback help from the Republican side of the aisle. This is good. In the short term continuing “insurrections” seem almost guaranteed to occur around the country. The call to arms is still carrying adrenaline in its veins. In the longer term I think getting the non-democratic (seditious) factions rooted out and dealt with in a lawful manner would seem a necessary step. In any case, taking care of yourself and those you love is still the first order of any day irrespective of political upheavals. Turn off the news and try to share a laugh over a game of cards (or something) for a few minutes. Create and Maintain your Normal. ☀️☀️☀️

Or a helluva lot of repression...

Davekp comments on Jan 13, 2021:

The naughty side is part of what constitutes a “good girl”, in my humble opinion

Martha Hunt

Davekp comments on Jan 13, 2021:

Shades of Deborah Harry.

I have some messed up friends on facebook. Oh well. At least the poster was male.

Davekp comments on Jan 12, 2021:

“Don’t blame me. You knew I was a snake when you let me in!”🤣🤣

Does anyone have any other requests?

Davekp comments on Jan 11, 2021:

It makes so much seem tame. Lol

Riots on Capitol Hill in Washington. That kind of stuff would never happen in Canada right?

Davekp comments on Jan 10, 2021:

In an infinite universe anything is possible.

Tell me something Dirty.

Davekp comments on Jan 10, 2021:

The white horse fell in the black mud. 🤣🤣

Good morning Everyone, and Happy Sunday! It's pose your own question day - have fun!

Davekp comments on Jan 10, 2021:

My cousin sent this picture to me yesterday from the past summer. It is a funeral Pyre of an old friend. Sometimes inanimate objects become such a consistent and memory time stamp part of our lives. I would like to commemorate here such an object. The planks and rope in the burn barrel in the picture are what was left of the homemade raft at our cottage. Hours in the frigid Atlantic. Surviving intense wind, rain and waves for the better part of 25 years. It was finally deemed just too water logged, and “old” to get through another year. The swimming raft at the cottage provided countless hours of temporary refuge for literally hundreds of shivering, hysterically laughing children and adults over the decades. Whether immediate family, visiting relatives, or wandering strangers on the beach who saw the raft and decided to take a dip.. this 50 square feet of wooden platform covered with heavy canvas for grip offered the moment of respite from the frigid water. Seals sunning on the rock. Everyone, regardless of age or size revelled in their chance to be King or Queen of the Castle on the Ocean. If only for a brief moment, that raft became the first moment for many of savouring conquest. I look forward to building a new one next summer. My question... What object in your life do you consider in a similar vein of remembrance ?

Happy Saturday, Cohorts! How's it going?

Davekp comments on Jan 9, 2021:

I have mine supplied by my work. I pick up 2 at the start of shift before I enter the plant. If I don’t use them both I bring the other one home and they hang by the door for anyone who needs one on the way out. The heavier cloth ones are harder to do manual labour in.

Aren't you sad that you will not be able to witness the future science and technology discoveries?

Davekp comments on Jan 9, 2021:

Not really. We can't seem to deal properly with what we have at the moment.. haha:(

I narc’d on my FB friend who was in DC yesterday.

Davekp comments on Jan 8, 2021:

“It was beautiful. So many flags...” just what is the overwhelming addiction with America and flags? I seriously don’t get it. I love my country and I even think our flag is kinda cool but jesus murphy.. flag, flag, flag, flag.. ???🤔🤔🤔

Happy Thursday evening Everyone! If you saw yourself as an animal, what would you be?

Davekp comments on Jan 8, 2021:

A badger. A rainbow. A space probe.

I am watching Star Trek so my imagination is on a high revolve.

Davekp comments on Jan 7, 2021:

Inventive!! In the Right (lol) room that conspiracy theory might really take off. I see merch and spinoffs :)

If you saw panties...

Davekp comments on Jan 6, 2021:

When I see panties it's generally never a problem. lol

Hi Everyone! Happy Tuesday!!! Hope yours is better than mine!!!!! Just had the worst day ...

Davekp comments on Jan 5, 2021:

Ugh.. just ugh. Probably my biggest dislike of modern life. Banking. :(

Happy Monday Everyone! I'm really struggling with sleep lately and I am so exhausted.

Davekp comments on Jan 4, 2021:

It’s love/ hate. I love getting it. Hate never really getting enough.

Got to give him credit for making it tempting

Davekp comments on Jan 3, 2021:

Indeed 💜

Hello fellow Canadians, I'm looking for anyone over 18 who knows English to fill-out a 20 ...

Davekp comments on Jan 3, 2021:

done

To start off the new year on a positive note , tell us about what you like most in your current ...

Davekp comments on Jan 2, 2021:

I like that it appears I have a future. lol

Happy Friday Everyone! What's better, fluffy socks or slippers?

Davekp comments on Jan 1, 2021:

I say Socks. Slippers can be a liability. lmao

Thursday morning fire

Davekp comments on Dec 31, 2020:

Beautiful model! Way too much of that frame wasted on curtains and background in general.

It's Thursday Everyone! It's also New Year's Eve. How do you like to celebrate?

Davekp comments on Dec 31, 2020:

Not much going on this year. Or last. Or the year before. I’m spotting a pattern. 🤣🤣🤣 Imma thinking I might try something new and initiate a few video chats with people I have met online.

I know - I've been naughty and haven't shown my face in a while.

Davekp comments on Dec 30, 2020:

Is that a hooking tool I see?😉

A curious man up for experimenting.....

Davekp comments on Dec 30, 2020:

Hit up FetLife.. see what happens.

Hello hot stuff!

Davekp comments on Dec 30, 2020:

Wow!! Any oxygen left in that hallway?

Happy Tuesday Friends! Which destination do you prefer, mountains or oceans?

Davekp comments on Dec 29, 2020:

yes.. ocean!!

Death to 2020 - Netflix From the guys that brought you Black Mirror, here's how they viewed 2020 - ...

Davekp comments on Dec 29, 2020:

Watched it a couple of days ago. Gave it at least a 7. Worth watching. :)

Half the South Thinks the U.

Davekp comments on Dec 29, 2020:

Maybe it was. So what? It was 200+ years ago. Tires come in one shape and one shape only.. round. Anything else tends to be counterproductive. Societies? Not so much.

It's my 61st birthday today.

Davekp comments on Dec 28, 2020:

Wonderful pic. 🎂 Happy birthday🎉

Masquerade

Davekp comments on Dec 28, 2020:

Her husband is upstairs ransacking the bedroom safe as she diverts attention at the main event downstairs in the ballroom. 😎🖤

The older I get I learn that my opinion appears to only cause division and strife.

Davekp comments on Dec 28, 2020:

Some tough moments for you. Many of the responses have good advice.. namely, now is the time for you to work on you Like you my 17 year LTR ended, no real friends to speak of.. and apart from my children being still under my roof for another year or so.. wondering the "value" question myself. As we all know but often can't come to terms with, our lives are up to us as individuals. My life is not at the whim of anybody else. I allow myself to be happy, sad, forgiving, resolute., proud, humiliated.. etc. Something I am using to propel myself into a new life as I approach 60 is my ability to learn. Acquiring skills for this modern age, especially in the area of communication and social media tech, is opening doors to meeting new people and challenges and keeping the world relevant to me and me to the world. "The sole purpose of human existence is to kindle a light of meaning in the darkness of mere being." Carl Jung Good luck with the seeming void in front of you. It's a blank page, Start filling it!!! :)

Monday morning fire

Davekp comments on Dec 28, 2020:

There's just something about a woman and a .. ummm.. sawhorse? lol

Do married couples, before they untie the knot, seek or get counseling?

Davekp comments on Dec 28, 2020:

After 17 years when my ex decided she needed her freedom to follow a more fulfilling path I asked if she would care to get counseling. She declined. In fact she flat out refused to even have a conversation with me about the how's and why's of the whole thing. She said she did not want to become my therapist. I found this somewhat peculiar as I wasn't the one who was having the "I'm trapped" feelings. But she was never one to confront issues straight on and in the past has held the view that serious discussions (arguements) are a sign of dysfunction in a relationship.. hence her estrangement from her father. So here we are 3 years later.. the waters have calmed and we deal amicably with things concerning the kids. She has not moved on to more Fulfilling things, as far as I can tell, .. really only moved on to a small rented apartment just outside of town. I think she is now under the impression that I somehow left her or that I forced her out or something. I don't think she is unhappy with her life but I think it's worth noting how we manage to convince ourselves of our victimization when consequences of our own actions come home to roost. I'm quite sure had we gone to a councilor or had a good third party debrief about our relationship we would both have benefited from that dose of reality.

So I'm supposed to see the dentist today.

Davekp comments on Dec 28, 2020:

Laughter is the best medicine!! :)

God fucking damnit! I went to my husband's family Christmas against my better judgement.

Davekp comments on Dec 26, 2020:

No one is responsible for another's enjoyment.

36 Questions. Happy Holidays ... so does the word holiday have anything to do with holy?

Davekp comments on Dec 24, 2020:

During the summer holiday in July we have always managed to get a feed of lobster onto the picnic table. Things have changed since my father passed and now that Nat and I have split things have become even less like the past. This pic is circa 2004 w/ my boy Ben. He turns 18 on Dec. 27th. Time is certainly flying. 😢

Happy Thursday and Happy Holidays!!!!!! Been cleaning for Christmas brunch with Bob and Anne Marie ...

Davekp comments on Dec 24, 2020:

Yup.. raining here in southern Ontario as well. Oh well.. don’t have to shovel rain, as the saying goes. 🤣🤣

36 Questions: Wild and Wacky Wednesday, anyone?

Davekp comments on Dec 23, 2020:

The kind of Covid directive we should see more of!!

Hi everyone, I hope you’ve all been well.

Davekp comments on Dec 23, 2020:

Super 😎😎😎😎👍👍👍👍

Swivet noun a state of nervous excitement, haste, or anxiety; flutter.

Davekp comments on Dec 22, 2020:

New one. Thanks!!

$600 is a lot of money, we can't have people wasting that money on ass wipe and oatmeal when ...

Davekp comments on Dec 22, 2020:

Indeed 😢😢

(Dumbest Criminal) I copied and pasted the story btw.

Davekp comments on Dec 22, 2020:

Indeed.

I Saw Mommy Kissing Santa Claus.

Davekp comments on Dec 21, 2020:

And in the school hallway no less!!😳😱😱

Mila Azul

Davekp comments on Dec 21, 2020:

Awwwww🤗 Trebs adorbs!

Silvia Caruso

Davekp comments on Dec 21, 2020:

Holy moly those abs!!! Is this what happens when you take up Kegel exercises as a full time occupation? 😳🤣

The “Great Conjuction” of Saturn and Jupiter.

Davekp comments on Dec 21, 2020:

Agreed.

Happy Monday Y'all! Do you run hot or cold?

Davekp comments on Dec 21, 2020:

I am the furnace in the bed. 😁😁😈

What Kinda Funeral Do Atheist Have?

Davekp comments on Dec 20, 2020:

Fun ones?

Happy Saturday Everyone. What are you up to?

Davekp comments on Dec 19, 2020:

Working. 😕😕😕😑😑😑

I know these aren't classic, beautiful photos but I was trying to get a nice photo of my pony, he ...

Davekp comments on Dec 16, 2020:

Now there’s a nostril worthy of a Covid swab test. 🤣🤣🤣

36 Questions: It's time for funnies, everyone 🙂

Davekp comments on Dec 16, 2020:

The visual is BURNED into my brain. I will never see Sly in the same way again. 🤣🤣🤣

This is the best idea about the mutating test vacation yet.

Davekp comments on Dec 15, 2020:

You can bet the current administration has already secured doses for themselves and their families.

36 Questions: What is the dumbest way you’ve been injured?

Davekp comments on Dec 14, 2020:

A few avoidable mishaps during my construction/ renovation career. Like almost kneecapping myself while kicking a hammer or slicing a freshly changed drywall knife blade across the palm of my hand as I tried to reposition myself WHILE continuing to cut. 21 stitches later for that one. There have been plenty. lol

36 Questions: Happy Friday, Everyone! It's making season! What's something that you have made that...

Davekp comments on Dec 11, 2020:

This film on painter Sarah Petite. It took perseverance, (7 years.. mostly because our schedules to work together didn’t, ummm, work together. 😂😂) and about 6k of my own $. But it’s FILM!! not digital and that, to me, was a major accomplishment. https://youtu.be/8Nt0kGNFpYo

Happy Tuesday wonderful people! What is something new that you would like to try?

Davekp comments on Dec 8, 2020:

During my first stint at university I took the 20+ hour train trip from northern New Brunswick to Toronto several times. One winter trip was so messed up due to weather it took 36 hours and I ended up having to be flown from Montreal. That said.. love train trips. :) I would love to try diving with some large sea creatures.. giant manta rays or whale sharks, etc.

Not far from me if someone wants me to pick it up for you!!!🤣

Davekp comments on Dec 8, 2020:

Super easy to make. :)

Tuesday morning fire

Davekp comments on Dec 8, 2020:

Her breasts are gravity deniers. Simply doesn’t exist. 🧚🏻‍♀️🧚🏻‍♀️🧚🏻‍♀️

Obviously Match.com is the way to go ...[youtu.be]

Davekp comments on Dec 7, 2020:

Excellent!!

Happy Monday! Today is my youngster's birthday.

Davekp comments on Dec 7, 2020:

My oldest boy, Ben, is Dec. 27. In the earlier years his younger brother always made out pretty well too. As Nik didn't quite understand why Ben got Santa twice he picked up a few extra gifts until age 4 or 5. lol

Happy Sunday all

Davekp comments on Dec 6, 2020:

Beautiful pic.. but she’s holding a lot of tension in her left shoulder. I would happily help correct the issue. 😂😻

Old iron train trestle still in use in upstate NY near Nineva on Route 7 & 235 spanning a road, a ...

Davekp comments on Dec 6, 2020:

I have a very similar scene close by. Enchanting! Nice pics. Thanks.

FABULIST.

Davekp comments on Dec 6, 2020:

“Unfettered by the laws of logic and credibility”. Imagine living a life like that. What a dream! 🤪🤪🤪

Batgirl, Supergirl and Wonder Woman. OK, they don't exist - but it would be fun if they did.

Davekp comments on Dec 5, 2020:

SuperGirl🤤🤤🤤

Happy Saturday Everyone.

Davekp comments on Dec 5, 2020:

I like a real tree 🌲 in the house on the cold , dark nights of late December. A couple of strings of lights, a crackling fire and a cozy chair that reclines is about as good as it gets.

Societies around the world are slowly (soemtimes begrudgingly) accepting the varieties of sexual ...

Davekp comments on Dec 4, 2020:

I think relying on technology as a basis for sexuality makes as much sense as anything else. Probably more hygenic. As to wide acceptance.. who would know unless you told them? But I do see a looming pitfall to the online scheme. Where human to human contact concerning dating and sex is frequently over wrought with stress brought on by personal insecurities and communication missteps. The Technosexuals among us will have to deal with bad software upgrades and rapid product obsolescence. I don't envy them having to make a call to a service provider in order to get off.

Has anyone on here ever "written off" a family member?

Davekp comments on Dec 4, 2020:

I haven't personally but I watched my ex estrange from her father over issues she feels he needs to atone for when she was growing up. This happened maybe 10 years ago.i find it bizarre, but not unexpected or surprising considering how the world turns, that in the last 5 years she has become more and more like the person she estranged. She is turning out to be as judgmental and emotionally unavailable as he ever was. The closest I've come would be the roughly 20 year period between age 20 and 40 where I simply could not have a conversation with my oldest sister who has been living with and controlled by a violent and angry abusive partner since I was 17 or 18. I could not reconcile how such an intelligent and wonderful person could sacrifice her entire life. It killed me inside every time I saw her and I would end up in arguments putting more pressure on her. i had to back away. I lost two decades with my sister. In my early 40's I realized I was suffering this relationship loss and I resolved to work through my angst with my feelings. I learned how to compartmentalize. We have been very loving to each other ever since and have a brother/ sister relationship that is normal, healthy and progressive. No laughing matter but a little payback.. her partner has not only abused my sister his entire life but as a strong alcoholic his systems are slowly shutting down.. hours on the toilet every morning as his guts fall apart, diagnosed stage 3 or 4 sclerosis of the liver. his retinas are detaching with regularity, he sometimes randomly bleeds through his pores.He's just an effing internal mess. Personally I'm not sure there is enough pain that he could endure that would make me feel true sympathy beyond what one human might feel for another as a basic thought process when not wishing things on your "worst enemy". Of course, as always, my sis is doing her loyal best to continue on as the caregiver. I love her sense of humanity. I am proud I turned myself around to be back in her life. My take away..yes back away from the toxicity for your own sanity and health. But be open to the notion that over time other things evolve to become important as well. Your son may change. You might want to hope you are there if he does.

Karol Jaramillo

Davekp comments on Dec 4, 2020:

But you promised!!!

I was curious about the.

Davekp comments on Dec 4, 2020:

It's an example of what. in Theater School, was called Lazy Mouth in my speech class. Pretty self explanatory. Nuf said LOL

Friday morning fire...So inviting

Davekp comments on Dec 4, 2020:

A very big fan of her kind of lingere. Oh.. and her hair is to die for!!

Ladies, can you explain why unsolicited dick pics are offensive?

Davekp comments on Dec 4, 2020:

"why are unsolicited dick pics offensive?" That's an excellent question. I often wonder that same thing. To be clear I have never sent one myself and find the thought of doing so rude at the least and criminal at the most. Rude because it wasn't asked for and possibly criminal because in a brand new contact I don't exactly know to whom I am sending the picture. Wouldn't it be fun to get caught up in some minors online dating hack? I think I question why women, or men if the case is such. get offended in the first place. If you are an adult putting yourself out there on ANY dating site you would have to be expecting all manner of interactions. If you aren't aware of the reality that everyone's sense of boundaries revolving around good taste is different just search YouTube for Walmart Fashionista A dick, is a dick, is a dick. Like tits are tits, are tits. Which I happily accept pics of unsolicited. :) Being offended takes energy and uses up valuable brain time. There are better things to get haughty about.