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I'm in a regular but flexible non-monogamous relationship. We both sometimes look for other dates and sexual play, and I occasionally set up playdates for her.

My regular partner is more formally My BDSM submissive and babygirl, she is a Switch only allowed to play submissive for Me. I do many types of BDSM. For Me, BDSM is much more important than sex.

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Does the "Share" function actually work? I think I tried once to share a post from group to group ...
DoDapper comments on Feb 24, 2019:
Following.
Hello there. Nathan here. Though, luckily, it has been in remission for some time, I have bipolar ...
DoDapper comments on Dec 15, 2018:
Thank you for joining our group, Nathan. If you don't mind to answer, were you diagnosed Bipolar I or Bipolar II?
How far, realistically, would you go for a relationship? I mean distance. We are on this page, ...
DoDapper comments on Oct 25, 2018:
It depends on the relationship. Usually not far. Someone I'm seeing now is 150 miles away right now. A new relationship would have to be uniquely tight for me to go that far.
Hello everyone. I am a MN native. Born in Minneapolis and grew up between the south side and the ...
DoDapper comments on Dec 5, 2018:
Excellent. Welcome to the group, @ponderingatheist.
When you are interacting with other members in this group, what makes you happiest?
DoDapper comments on Sep 5, 2018:
Fresh insight from sharp minds and flirtward banter from individuals skewed a similar direction as I.
Hi everyone just joined the community yesterday! What do you people talk about in this group?
DoDapper comments on Sep 5, 2018:
We talk about anything that doesn't involve children, animals, or any others unable to give knowing consent. Which leaves me a wonderfully broad field.
Me? A new van.. And you?
DoDapper comments on Nov 1, 2018:
A spot downtown with a view. Followed by some rural undeveloped land.
Powerful men are so sexy!
DoDapper comments on Oct 18, 2018:
Oh wow. I am a massively disturbed dark-humored individual. But this factually disgusted me. Ugh.
Going to bed the other night, I noticed people in my shed stealing things, I phoned the police but...
DoDapper comments on Nov 10, 2018:
I haven't heard that one in awhile. I love it.
I'll never drink this quite the same way again :-)
DoDapper comments on Nov 8, 2018:
Hahaha. Beautiful. @coralisthree.
Upside: I got my Agnostic.com T-shirt and pen. The shirt looks amazing on me. Downside: I can't ...
DoDapper comments on Jan 13, 2019:
If I'd known I could get this much attention, I would've been hit by a car sooner. ;)
The White House Blacklists Jim Acosta & Doctors Warn Against Spanking | The Daily Show ...
DoDapper comments on Nov 12, 2018:
@coralisthree
My new prescription.
DoDapper comments on Nov 14, 2018:
Aw. Robin Williams wrote the fuckitall/Fukitol medication joke. Just came up on my Robin Williams Pandora station. I miss him.
Hey there; trying this out to see whether or not it has any value. Feel free to reach out and say ...
DoDapper comments on Dec 1, 2018:
Welcome to the site.
Apparently I can no longer like my own posts and comments. Travesty.
DoDapper comments on Oct 1, 2018:
Makes sense. But I'm a moderate narcissist and enjoy joking.
Which one would you wear?
DoDapper comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Shakespeare on the crotch of panties. The puns can write themselves.
[science.time.com]
DoDapper comments on Oct 25, 2018:
Does this imply there are things that don't mess with sleep? Tell me more!
If you could get hot, down, naked and dirty in a public place without fear of arrest....would you?
DoDapper comments on Sep 5, 2018:
A church altar is still my favorite place I've fucked.
So true and this photo is awesome.
DoDapper comments on Jan 13, 2019:
@coralisthree.
It is 230 am. Which normally is fine I'm normally asleep between 3 and 4 am which is fine because my...
DoDapper comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Glad to hear you have your I-have-rare-disorders-and-chronic-pain-and-insomnia priorities straight. The important question for the civilization race, though, did the dust bunnies or the aged wrappers invent fermented beverages first?
[EDIT: MISATTRIBUTION: Despite my original assertions, I cannot find a definitive attribution or ...
DoDapper comments on Oct 26, 2018:
- Joseph Goebbels.
When it comes to noises during sex. What do you prefer? Do you like dirty talk? Moaning? Screaming?...
DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:
I like loud sincere noise, and the sudden moment of open-mouthed silence of my partner in overwhelming orgasm Silence has its place, if I feel like gagging you or (carefully) choking you out for a couple seconds.
Daniel Day-Lewis is my all-time favorite actor, these are my two favorites of his. He didn't make a ...
DoDapper comments on Oct 25, 2018:
I love Daniel Day-Lewis.
I'm thinking about closing my group &PoliticsInformationandHumor. i'm not getting much traffic. ...
DoDapper comments on Oct 19, 2018:
Keep it. It's not even old enough for eye openers. Too soon to put it down.
Perfection in design...
DoDapper comments on Oct 28, 2018:
I like the photograph composition. For more than one reason, just to surprise you.
Spud whacker
DoDapper comments on Oct 30, 2018:
Although now I'm curious about that, cleaning it up and playing with someone else.
Do you miss going to Church on Sundays?
DoDapper comments on Nov 5, 2018:
The last time I stepped in a church, I was told "no smoking" just before I burst into flames.
Good morning and have a killer day!
DoDapper comments on Nov 6, 2018:
And a happy sociopathy to you too!
A beautiful woman. They come in all sizes.
DoDapper comments on Oct 30, 2018:
Mm, might be saving this one. A pretty girl and incredible photograph.
grins and winks
DoDapper comments on Aug 3, 2018:
One of my favorite jokes.
Mermaids are naughty!
DoDapper comments on Mar 28, 2019:
@coralisthree
[youtu.be] No good morning post today, cause it's Saturday! Slept in late... Partied late ...
DoDapper comments on Jan 26, 2019:
again image
As a survivor of multiple traumas, MeToo is profoundly important to me. Lately I’ve been hearing ...
DoDapper comments on Oct 25, 2018:
It's also not like men don't get assaulted too. When the cocky straight WASP boys point fingers, I do like to ask how they would enjoy being denying if they got ass raped. I find they usually are quieter after. Fucking ires me.
20 Questions. I have something in mind. Actually, we'll extend it to 30 question comments. ...
DoDapper comments on Nov 23, 2018:
We're up to Question #6 for anyone still game. Sorry that I became absent.
NAME A KINK. New shenanigans. (Remember "kinky" is very flexible and subjective.) [Follow the ...
DoDapper comments on Nov 16, 2018:
Bullwhips.
if someone outside of this group were to call you a pervert. Would you take that as an insult or a ...
DoDapper comments on Sep 5, 2018:
I always take it as a compliment, usually all the more so if it was meant otherwise.
Well I am awake. As usual lol.340 am here
DoDapper comments on Nov 12, 2018:
Up since 2AM, same as last night. Hopefully this time I'll manage a nap during the day. I'm not a night person (Ok, I am kind of a night person.). I'm not a morning person (but I do an irritatingly good impression). I'm not a day person. I'm an "I happen to be mostly awake right now" person.
i think i might start building a tree house in the back yard
DoDapper comments on Oct 28, 2018:
Do. The kittens might move in.
Who is up to the challenge?
DoDapper comments on Nov 19, 2018:
Never have I ever ... joined the Mile-high club
one of my casual friends on facebook just informed me i'm getting married. can someone please point ...
DoDapper comments on Jan 19, 2019:
I had a dream last night that I married you, because three people had me at gunpoint.
No Jesus, no peace
DoDapper comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Offends nor stresses me no more than most Jesus statements. I appreciate even groan worthy wordplay, even if the edge is dumb.
The Perfect Boyfriend
DoDapper comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Two words: hooch.
So I broke the small bones in my left foot and my toe about two months ago. I've not followed up ...
DoDapper comments on Nov 12, 2018:
Cats are the best. I don't say this so much because I am or am not a cat person; I say it because I'm a large cat.
What are you in for?
DoDapper comments on Oct 26, 2018:
Reposting on Facebook and in another group.
"why i didn't report"
DoDapper comments on Oct 28, 2018:
That. I have an ex who got several criminal charges - multiple for defamation - because of confronting herrapist, reporting the rape, and becoming more of an activist. She also lost her job - at a WOMEN'S CRISIS CENTER AND HOTLINE - related toi it.
20 Questions. I have something in mind. Actually, we'll extend it to 30 question comments. ...
DoDapper comments on Nov 23, 2018:
1. Animal, vegetable, mineral? Vegetable. 2. Does it involve physical contact? Yes. 3. Is it related to points? Not directly, no. ? 4. Is it bigger than a breadbox? No. 5. Is it legal in all 50 states? Yes, it is legal in all 50 states. I can't imagine it being illegal anywhere.
A goodnight kitty post.
DoDapper comments on Sep 12, 2018:
Damn, it was perfect out, but the weather is getting hairy.
When your partner is about to orgasm, what are some things that you like to do to increase their ...
DoDapper comments on Sep 5, 2018:
I vary what I do, I like my partner to cum several different ways when we fuck.
Who would have ever thought it wouldn't work?!
DoDapper comments on Oct 20, 2018:
Politics got it wrong? George Takei say "oh my".
Do you have a "tell"? In other words something you automatically do when nervous or lying?
DoDapper comments on Oct 27, 2018:
Not that I'm telling.
Hmmmm interesting
DoDapper comments on Oct 30, 2018:
Technically speaking, according to my assurances from quantum physicists, Jesus isnt here: he's just more likely to be here than not.
Of Course They're Scared of Us
DoDapper comments on Oct 20, 2018:
And women are worth being scared of. It is new in the 'Western' world to realize that women are capable and even powerful human beings. The fact that there is legitimate hard-wired difference to the female brain only adds to the confusion. Heaven (ha) forbid that half the population have to think a moment to deal with the other half. Oh. Wait. Women have had to do that for centuries plus. Heaven forbid we have a demographic accustomed to thinking involved with justice.
Update on which notifications go to mobile apps. For now, we only send push notifications to your ...
DoDapper comments on Mar 10, 2019:
I appreciate that additions. It made my day when I saw my first few Agnostic notifications.
Has anyone ever tried "dry needling" (not to be confused with acupuncture), for acute muscle pain or...
DoDapper comments on Mar 1, 2019:
What is dry needling?
If any of you Sexual Deviants want to join, I will be bouncing myself into the chat-room in a couple...
DoDapper comments on Nov 14, 2018:
From last night, but I will post again when (probably tonight) I am hanging in 'Deviants chatroom.
This was on Facebook over 200 comments. So so many explain why they were right and everybody else ...
DoDapper comments on Nov 23, 2018:
43. ?????
I am no longer receiving post alerts for the members I follow, only alerts when they make comments....
DoDapper comments on Oct 30, 2018:
As an experiment, I toggled the alert setting "Someone you follow makes a post or asks a question" off for a few minutes, then went back and turned it on again.
Geez, I never considered doing it in public.
DoDapper comments on Oct 20, 2018:
"Everything in this room is edible, children. Even me, but that is called cannibalism and is frowned upon in most societies."
Facebook strikes again and I can relate to this one .
DoDapper comments on Jan 14, 2019:
(@coralisthree.)
Thank You Dr. Ford
DoDapper comments on Oct 28, 2018:
I am impressed.
Someone asked me what I was doing while editing.. I told them, remember coloring as a kid? This is ...
DoDapper comments on Nov 5, 2018:
This is something I would like to learn to do. Excellent work on both you've posted, very fun.
I hope I find someone who I can have great sex with PLUS a deep connection.
DoDapper comments on Mar 19, 2019:
@coralisthree
Or skype alone?
DoDapper comments on Mar 10, 2019:
Since the post I commented on last night was deleted, I am still interested and in the group chat.
How does everyone take their coffee? I'm a drip medium roast with half n' half
DoDapper comments on Sep 5, 2018:
Medium roast. Turkish coffee or French press. Usually black.
Yayy I'm level 2
DoDapper comments on Oct 26, 2018:
Congratulations and welcome.
Pretty much...
DoDapper comments on Mar 17, 2019:
Ice pole anyone?
DoDapper comments on Oct 28, 2018:
How much attention do you think that cock got through the night?
Would people considering adding the time of day to their posts? 6:55 AST.
DoDapper comments on Feb 8, 2019:
I would have no problem with timestamped posts.
I still make sure to do this lol
DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:
As a kid, I always dangled an arm or leg off the bed, because I was trying to bait the monsters to come out. I think the general plan was to eat them. Yes, I'm the human child the boogeypeople tell stories about to scare each other.
Message to all of you....Balou appears to have left Agnostics and I find that I have inherited this ...
DoDapper comments on Jan 27, 2019:
I post fairly often but not too frequently I hope. I will try to keep your note in mind. Do you have no idea what happened to Balou?
[youtube.com] I don't condone the practice of witch burning, but this is a good song for ...
DoDapper comments on Oct 29, 2018:
A fun listen. Enjoyed your sharing.
Inquisitive AF - 100% Match!
DoDapper comments on Dec 8, 2018:
As @coralisthree noted, we ended up showing as a 100% match here and were already playing together when we joined.
Space Force!
DoDapper comments on Oct 26, 2018:
Haha. I've been waiting for someone to remember the Space Force again. (Which reminds me, where are we at with caged kids?)
Sooo..why are my points stuck on 90,866?..I've posted at least 6 memes and commented on several ...
DoDapper comments on Dec 5, 2018:
It happens periodically. As far as checking my own counts, it always catches up accurately in time.
Hi, I decided to stop being a voyeur and join. Looks like a fun and interesting group, dealing with...
DoDapper comments on Aug 6, 2018:
As an exhibitionist, it's good to know the voyeurs are really watching.
@Lovemylife1 -- Hello, and welcome to the group.
DoDapper comments on Dec 15, 2018:
Welcome, @Lovemylife1.
white privilege barbies
DoDapper comments on Feb 9, 2019:
Trumpettes?
It’s a busy weekend.
DoDapper comments on Mar 17, 2019:
@coralisthree
Bug fix: points are now being updated... was down for a couple days. Nothing is lost, but much to ...
DoDapper comments on Dec 5, 2018:
Thank you for letting us know.
NAME A KINK. New shenanigans. (Remember "kinky" is very flexible and subjective.) [Follow the ...
DoDapper comments on Dec 1, 2018:
Lab/medical/butchers white coats.
Or anything hidden from others? Did you do it on your own or were you instructed to by someone?
DoDapper comments on Oct 25, 2018:
I have been the initiator and instructor many times. Particularly for partners, SOs, or playmates *at work*.
Butt plugs ! What is your experience with those toys ?
DoDapper comments on Sep 30, 2018:
Anal plugs are something I enjoy most for training a partner's behavior and pelvic muscles. With thorough enough training, I have had submissive learn to go out with an anal plug and ben wa balls for up to an hour.
Belatedly noticed, but I reached lvl. 6 when I was distracted. Rah rah.
DoDapper comments on Oct 1, 2018:
How does one view their level with the single decimal place shown added?
NAME A KINK. New shenanigans. (Remember "kinky" is very flexible and subjective.) [Follow the ...
DoDapper comments on Dec 1, 2018:
Locking collars
my hideaway, i keep falling asleep in
DoDapper comments on Jan 19, 2019:
I'm proud of your work.
He's admitting to racism
DoDapper comments on Nov 2, 2018:
Shocking. Einstein was more American in spirit than Trump.
Fish and chips
DoDapper comments on Feb 8, 2019:
I could definitely see myself doing this.
NAME A KINK. New shenanigans. (Remember "kinky" is very flexible and subjective.) [Follow the ...
DoDapper comments on Dec 1, 2018:
Breath control. Any. (choking / solid gags / mouth to mouth / neck arteries limitation / noose / et c.)
love hawking
DoDapper comments on Jan 12, 2019:
I saw your text first and expected a bird joke. Something like "Falconing - the first 'hood."
it's exactly what's happening
DoDapper comments on Oct 21, 2018:
Weird. I reacted with the nauseous emote, but it showing to Me as a basic "Like".
Give me a hair tie
DoDapper comments on Oct 20, 2018:
@coralisthree
love hawking
DoDapper comments on Jan 12, 2019:
It's as good as Neil deGrasse Tyson offering the Big Bang.
If I may be so bold. Does anyone here count themselves as part of the BDSM community?
DoDapper comments on Oct 1, 2018:
Yes.
@DoDapper -- Hello, and welcome to the group.
DoDapper comments on Nov 6, 2018:
Thank you. It looks like a fun group. I look forward to at least watching, but maybe I'll be motivated to pick up the pen again.
Complete this thought. When a relationship ends before you begin another one you might go out and ...
DoDapper comments on Oct 20, 2018:
An Armani suit and a Sybian. Not in that order. Probably 50 feet of braided half-inch silk rope too.
Have you done the Myers Briggs?
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I am an **ENT[P/J]** I find associated titles fascinating though no practical use- **ENTP-** the Inventor (Kiersey), the Lawyer, the Originator, the Debater, the Explorer, and the Visionary. **ENTJ-** the Fieldmarshal (Kiersey), the Performer, the Perfectionist, the Loyal Skeptic, and the Challenger.
A study of coffee drinkers; [scontent.fmia1-1.fna.fbcdn.net]
DoDapper comments on Mar 3, 2019:
@coralisthree
Does/has anyone else used SLS to meet other couples. We joined back in the early 2000s (when we ...
DoDapper comments on Sep 30, 2018:
I am unfamiliar or I have the morning haze. What is SLS?
Boys and girls: At what age did you first get beyond second base in an intimate encounter. (Do you ...
DoDapper comments on Jan 23, 2019:
Two weeks before wedding my now ex-wife.
The Interrupters - "She's Kerosene"
DoDapper comments on Feb 7, 2019:
I love the silhouette work, also the suits. (Also the song, but that's given.)

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