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coralisthree comments on Nov 7, 2018:
@DoDapper and i aren't super alike....are we?
DoDapper replies on Nov 7, 2018:
@helionoftroy @coralisthree -- No, we do not, and no, we are not. My mind comes in the darker shades of grey, and she wears well the jeans and tshirts that are an uncomfortable wardrobe to my more formalwear proclivities.
For the ladies-
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 6, 2018:
That's not for all the ladies... You get on your knees...
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
Also, considering that position, it depends where you opinion lays on oral, considering their position. I'm about 60/40% toward giving being the more controlling position, even if the giver is deaf, lame, or blindfolded.
For the ladies-
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 6, 2018:
That's not for all the ladies... You get on your knees...
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
I toyed with whether or not to caption it that way. I left it that way primarily trusting you to have a good retort.
On your mark....
DoDapper comments on Nov 6, 2018:
For those without a FetLife, here is SallyInStitches' hilarious share.
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
@SallyInStitches - I may send you a friend request on Fet. I'm DapperDomMan.
PETRICHOR (/ˈpɛtrɪkɔːr/): the pleasant earthy scent that frequently accompanies the first rain ...
Noyi comments on Nov 6, 2018:
There is a word in my language for that the direct translation of whoch is "Smell of earth", but I never knew a word existed in English.
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
What is the word in your language? I always find languages, especially words for specific concepts, fascinating.
A man gets on his flight home from a business trip, and when he gets to his seat, he finds that the ...
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Men always exaggerate... Lol
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
@Xanadutoo - It works. It reads like "I too am an idyllic palace-city."
A man gets on his flight home from a business trip, and when he gets to his seat, he finds that the ...
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Men always exaggerate... Lol
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
@Xanadutoo - Good one, Xanadu. (And, by the way, excellent name. I haven't seen someone else mention Xanadu in a couple years.)
Okay, I’m not a doctor or scientist (or a cop) but want to put this out there.
HippieChick58 comments on Nov 5, 2018:
If you're up to a challenge, the book "How To Change Your Mind: What the New Science of Psychedelics Teaches Us About Consciousness, Dying, Addiction, Depression, and Transcendence" By Michael Pollan deals with this. Fascinating!
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
Just added to my list. I always enjoy a good book recommendation.
Any ideas?
AliceDaneal comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Whip her with a car ariel?
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
This is much more like the thought I had. ?
The perfect man
coralisthree comments on Nov 6, 2018:
i would enjoy this @DoDapper
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
@coralisthree - As they say: Home is where the favorite ass to spank is.
Any ideas?
Our_existence comments on Nov 6, 2018:
I just had an instant reaction.....I want to do a nice light spanking.....think that's what she wants, or is it anal......just don't know, then again doggie?......choices, choices, choices
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
A light spanking?
My how things have changed.
coralisthree comments on Nov 6, 2018:
yes, yes we do
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
If you're resourceful and conscientious (Am I using this word wrong? ;) ), you can save the bottle for a Molotov cocktail. Of course, you will have to remove an article of clothing for the rag in the top.
Why straight males likes watch to lesbian porn?
Artistlover comments on Nov 5, 2018:
There is a lesbian trapped inside of me.
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
That's why you should chew before you swallow.
Reads from left to right.
AnthonyAus comments on Nov 6, 2018:
I don't understand?
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
Ice. Ice. Baby.
The perfect man
coralisthree comments on Nov 6, 2018:
i would enjoy this @DoDapper
DoDapper replies on Nov 6, 2018:
@coralisthree - you mean you'd dance naked on the bar for me?
I've read that a safe sex option for fellatio is a flavored condom with liquid lubricant inside.
Kattywampus69 comments on Nov 3, 2018:
If you absolutely *have* to, lambskin condoms and something natural like coconut oil for a lube. Flavored condoms and lubes taste awful!! Nothing as good as lips on skin. For either partner.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@Charity - Yes.
Something to sample. This guy had the right idea for Halloween.
Paracosm comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Cool idea for a costume! Lousy book.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@Paracosm - I have a friend (friends - a lifestyle couple) that found a hidden room in the house they had lived in for 12 years ... Three guesses what they turned it into, but only the first guess counts. ;)
Sometimes, truth hurts.
DoDapper comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Jews for Hitler. -- Extreme example, but-
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@OpposingOpposum - No, no, Igor Stravinsky was Russian. ;)
Here is some Vegetable Porn ... Starring Jolly the Green Giant.
coralisthree comments on Nov 5, 2018:
i love veggies
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
That's one huge cucumber, babygirl, you better have a big appetite. ;)
Dear young people, "Don't Vote" [youtube.com]
DoDapper comments on Nov 5, 2018:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o3IlA9GquSM "Don't worry about Social Security. I've got mine ..And probably yours too."
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@chalupacabre - I'm a young American. I was told when I was type cast for my life that we don't an attenti-- oh look shiny.
I did a little color touch editing. Nothing fancy.
misterinvisible comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Thanks everyone. Very encouraging.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
Excellent work. Could you post the before image?
I did a little color touch editing. Nothing fancy.
coralisthree comments on Nov 5, 2018:
i love it
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
I could see you in very similar, quite happily. I see shopping at the fun stores in your future.
Uh huh...???
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Didn't know you spoke dolphin lol
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@phoenixone1 - To be fair, I have personally.met this beluga, and yes, that caption is probably accurate. ;)
Uh huh...???
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Didn't know you spoke dolphin lol
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
Uh huh...???
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Didn't know you spoke dolphin lol
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@phoenixone1 - I didn't know beluga whales spoke dolphin.
A man gets on his flight home from a business trip, and when he gets to his seat, he finds that the ...
lerlo comments on Nov 5, 2018:
"Hop Along Goldstein" is the Native American/Jewish punch line I've heard :)
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
I will keep it in mind.
Something to sample. This guy had the right idea for Halloween.
RobertNappi2 comments on Nov 5, 2018:
I taped small cereal boxes to me with knives through them...I was a cereal killer!!!
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
That is an excellent idea, very punny.
Hello, all.
phoenixone1 comments on Nov 5, 2018:
My youngest who lives with me is Aspergers...he loves to laugh and is very intelligent and engaging.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
Oh, my brother is also one of the smartest kids I know. I took an IQ test at home once, did very well, when I gave up my brother Joel, only glancing down from the floor above while pacing and playing with a rubber ball start naming off the correct choices as the lady administering continued turning pages. I have the utmost respect for the intelligence of those people call "challenged".
I have a weakness for stuffed animals.
zorialoki comments on Nov 5, 2018:
https://youtu.be/hYWHJwyO5Gs
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
(Also @FlippantLlama, because sharing pain is caring?)
I have a weakness for stuffed animals.
zorialoki comments on Nov 5, 2018:
https://youtu.be/hYWHJwyO5Gs
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
I can't stop watching.
I have a weakness for stuffed animals.
zorialoki comments on Nov 5, 2018:
https://youtu.be/hYWHJwyO5Gs
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
I haven't heard that song in 9 years, and I still remember all of it. And now, because of you, I'll remember it another 9 years.
This is so me
DoDapper comments on Nov 5, 2018:
What isolation? I see a cat and wine. (@coralisthree)
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@coralisthree - Haha. Yes. I saw that.
Yep! This is likely how it will go down.
Krysia22 comments on Nov 5, 2018:
I would hope that we have more thinking individuals than this post suggests. On the other hand, there are a lot of trumpsters out there....
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
It's a timeline.
For those who get their snow on!!!
coralisthree comments on Nov 5, 2018:
for the first snowfall of the year, all minnesotans suddenly forget how to drive in winter
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@coralisthree - Minnesota does have some of the best statistics for traffic in snowy weather, even more impressive considering our roads. It *is* only that first snowfall when Minnesotans are fools on the road.
I have only dated one woman that thought to roleplay was something intimate.
DoDapper comments on Nov 5, 2018:
It takes a partner with a willing and capable mind. I have had a couple partners who I only found out had roles in which they felt comfortable when we were in the throes of passion, but mostly I explore by clear and *fun* discussion of our most out-there fantasies. In My experience, roleplaying of ...
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
While I aired some personal experience, it behooves me to note every comment before mine is a good one.
I have only dated one woman that thought to roleplay was something intimate.
Alvinsmama comments on Nov 5, 2018:
I used to 'dress up' for my late husband. Bustier, garters, stockings, stilettos and a little more makeup than I usually wore (which actually was none). It certainly got me in the mood because it would get him all worked up. It was a lot of fun. When he died, I dressed up for only one other man....
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@Alvinsmama - Aw, never count out your luck. And it sounds like you were an amazing woman with your husband. I respect that.
I have only dated one woman that thought to roleplay was something intimate.
UUNJ comments on Nov 5, 2018:
“Women” is a huge category, so it doesn’t help to generalize. Some women consider wearing fancy clothes and seducing a partner role play, while others do t need costumes but enjoy shared fantasy. And on another end of the spectrum are BDSM folks who have highly scripted scenes. Your best bet ...
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@azzow2 - I also second @UUNJ's succinct comment.
I have only dated one woman that thought to roleplay was something intimate.
Nukdookum comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Play pretending is fun. Dressing up or dressing down is also fun. I embrace anything which engages the mind in new and interesting ways.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
Well put.
I have only dated one woman that thought to roleplay was something intimate.
Booklover comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Used to dress up all sexy, make a special dinner all that "romantic" crap occasionally. Invariably he would call about working late on a job, or he and his co-workers were going out for a beer or not bother to call at all. Hard to keep a white hot sexy stoked up. Bleh.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
That is probably on him. It sounds like you knew exactly what to do.
I have only dated one woman that thought to roleplay was something intimate.
coralisthree comments on Nov 5, 2018:
for me it is, even if it's in my own head
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
I am not usually into fictitious extremes, but a fresh idea caught in My head, and I could entirely enjoy you as Jean Grey.
Help With Hackers-Handing Over Password?
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Password is 6006135. Spells out boobies...
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@Cutiebeauty - Me either. I only have all of the internet ever. I try not to let the power go to my head.
Help With Hackers-Handing Over Password?
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Password is 6006135. Spells out boobies...
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
5318008.
Bahramdipity (noun) the suppression of serendipitous discoveries or research results by powerful...
GreatNani comments on Nov 5, 2018:
New one for me!
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@Marionville @GreatNani - To be fair, it was only coined in 1999.
Reads from left to right.
Umbral comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Now that'll be stuck in my head.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@Umbral - I.R.E.Bill.
Reads from left to right.
Umbral comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Now that'll be stuck in my head.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
My work here is done.
Reads from left to right.
mikecagain comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Under Pressure.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
Now *that* song is stuck in my head.
"How long should you date someone before you meet their spouse?
SallyInStitches comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Actually, I tend to meet & speak to the spouse/primary/sugnificant other before the dating starts. I want to know exactly what the rules & boundaries are before dating starts which is why I sit down with both of them, together, so there are no (or very limited) misunderstandings.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
That is exactly what I prefer and why.
Something to sample. This guy had the right idea for Halloween.
Seeker55 comments on Nov 5, 2018:
I thought he was a paint sample display at a hardware store for a minute there.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
It took me a minute too. So I shared my pain with 992 people and feel better now. ;)
Help save the Elfs.
Mofferatu comments on Nov 5, 2018:
The Christmas carols playing in shops during November must really keep the Elf population down.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
Elf overpopulation. It's a real thing. #thestruggleisreal #elfoverpopulationawareness #globalelfing
Help save the Elfs.
Pralina1 comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Well .
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
Beautiful. And like I do with all beautiful things, I'm stealing them. This is why we can't have nice things.
CARNAPTIOUS - Adjective.
GreatNani comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Excellent word. Related to cantankerous?
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@GreatNani - I doubt the words are closely related,but it is hard to say because the etymology of cantankerous is unknown.
A man gets on his flight home from a business trip, and when he gets to his seat, he finds that the ...
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Men always exaggerate... Lol
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
@Marionville - I'm told by friends in the sex industry that the problem is men who know they are above average size never bother with technique.
A man gets on his flight home from a business trip, and when he gets to his seat, he finds that the ...
Marionville comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Quick thinker eh? Running Bullshitter would probably be a better name!
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
Haha. You figured out why I always tell the last line as "Running Bull" or "Raging Bull". Maybe I should call him "Red Bull", but that wouldn't fly.
A man gets on his flight home from a business trip, and when he gets to his seat, he finds that the ...
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 5, 2018:
Men always exaggerate... Lol
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
The prevalence of porn has given a lot of men an unreasonable impression of how big they should be,,and while size matters, the crucial error is assuming they *should be* or *have to be* anything.
Something to sample. This guy had the right idea for Halloween.
PinkyandtheBrain comments on Nov 4, 2018:
???
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
He's wearing grey. A number of shades of grey. To be more precise, 50.
Something to sample. This guy had the right idea for Halloween.
Paracosm comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Cool idea for a costume! Lousy book.
DoDapper replies on Nov 5, 2018:
Agreed. At the very *least,* it gives a bad impression of how *healthy* D/s should look.
So here is are some questions that have cropped up in my mind occasionally.
Nunulady comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I haven't been in either situation. But I can imagine doing both.....I would like to try both. Men being more dominate,by nature might have a " harder" time!
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@brainyactress - The next update of Dapper might have that feature.
So here is are some questions that have cropped up in my mind occasionally.
Nunulady comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I haven't been in either situation. But I can imagine doing both.....I would like to try both. Men being more dominate,by nature might have a " harder" time!
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@brainyactress - As long as it is an in depth study.
TRUMP: What one thing describes your problem with Trump in as few words as possible?
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Negative: Bigotry in so many ways and on so many levels. Positive: I've never seen someone in a national level political office follow up on so many campaign promises.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@paul1967 - Agreed.
So here is are some questions that have cropped up in my mind occasionally.
Nunulady comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I haven't been in either situation. But I can imagine doing both.....I would like to try both. Men being more dominate,by nature might have a " harder" time!
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@brainyactress @Nunulady - The statistic varies, but I am told the majority of men have some recurring submissive fantasies. In the sociology and psychology classes I've taken or lectured regarding conscientious Dominance and BDSM lifestyle, I've heard anywhere from 60% to 85%. Culturally you are absolutely right, @Nunulady, that men have a more difficult time airing the fact if they've had submissive fantasies.
The world would be so much better!!!! LOL
KKGator comments on Nov 3, 2018:
Not true!!!! Every single time I've ever done that, the guy has run away, all scared and stuff.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@KKGator - Find a man that can do that, and you'll know he has the most monstrous stamina. I was going to do North Korea, but the country already has the spirit crushed out of it. I want to crush a country's spirit for myself, er-
The world would be so much better!!!! LOL
KKGator comments on Nov 3, 2018:
Not true!!!! Every single time I've ever done that, the guy has run away, all scared and stuff.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@KKGator - Right. Look, we've only exchanged a few sentences, but already you know I can run a South American government in the short-term and that I'm fine with offing hostages if things get hairy. That's quality communication right there.
The world would be so much better!!!! LOL
KKGator comments on Nov 3, 2018:
Not true!!!! Every single time I've ever done that, the guy has run away, all scared and stuff.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@KKGator - Granted, last time I did this the stress affected me. I took a government, overturned some houses, and burned the hostages.
The world would be so much better!!!! LOL
KKGator comments on Nov 3, 2018:
Not true!!!! Every single time I've ever done that, the guy has run away, all scared and stuff.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
The key is that the hostages, razing, and overthrow should be part of the date. It is a trust and connection building exercise, and if he can't overthrow a government on a free evening, is there even a point in having him?
The world would be so much better!!!! LOL
Paracosm comments on Nov 3, 2018:
Nah. The trick is to act like you can take charge or might burn a house down. If he knows for sure he'll run away and cry.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
What's the point even having a partner if she can't pull her weight in staging a few coup over the weekend?
Where do you fall on the Kinsey scale (the Heterosexual–Homosexual Rating Scale)?
jemzet8 comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I'm a pre-op transgender M-F woman and I'm 100% only attracted to men. I just voted. I'm 0 on the Kinsey scale. Full stop.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
Good for you for knowing what you want. Thank you for chiming in.
Just something to keep in mind.
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Thank you for sharing. Your words are prose poetry.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@itsmedammit - You have an incredible username. Nice work.
Has anyone here done electro , that is probably one of my favorites that I do.
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I have never done electro-stim, Top or bottom, but I very much want to learn and Top electric play. My problem is the cost to really get into it.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Blackcat88 ---
Has anyone here done electro , that is probably one of my favorites that I do.
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I have never done electro-stim, Top or bottom, but I very much want to learn and Top electric play. My problem is the cost to really get into it.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Blackcat88 - I am an unrepentant pyro, but as I point out, if you know a pyro who's made it to adulthood with no loss of extremities, you know someone who's learned to be the best at fire safety (usually around age 7 and the dozenth time their eyebrows get scorched off). I do fire cupping, fire wands, and fireballs, and the best thing to mix with fireplay is a couple of knives and a metal meat tenderizing mallet all submerged in a shallow tub of ice water.
Has anyone here done electro , that is probably one of my favorites that I do.
Seeker55 comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I have had interest, but don’t want to spend money on trying it out, only to find it is not a fit.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Blackcat88 - I only got to an NYC event once while I was out east (all of 2013-2015), but I highly recommend all the events down in Philly. Nurgal/Wade does fire at almost every event - he's big on kink culture awareness so I have no reservation naming him - and he is the one who taught me fire wands and blasting fireballs over a playmate.
how deviant are you?
DoDapper comments on Nov 3, 2018:
I like this idea. Maybe I should do it to you. Oh, yes, a new punishment.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Seeker55 - Thank you. Sad but true. One aspect I've loved about having s-types who are very confident women is verbally siccing them on the irresponsible who call themselves doms and masters. A little petty but extremely enjoyable. If you can't pound into a playmate the *need* to express thoughts about their own wellbeing, if the possibility a submissive could know more than you is enough to emotionally castrate you, if you can't address requirements for play and sex directly, clearly, and precisely, well then they have no right to be playing with others period until they have some emotional maturity. Alright, I'm done preaching the choir for now.
what would jesus do?
moonmaid comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Jesus wasn't always wrong.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
Jesus had a lot of good advice when you squeeze past God.
Have any of you dated or canoodled with a narcissist? If so, what was it like?
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
As @Looking4-Others pointed out, it is a condition, a disability, and a disorder. **That excuses *no* bad behavior,** but like all labels provides a *general* guideline for improvement. I have narcissistic tendencies and am possibly a sociopath, as I stated in chat last night. It runs alongside my ...
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@FlippantLlama - Make psychiatry a ground rule requirement if you become involved with anyone who has narcissistic or sociopathic tendencies. If I had my way, I would give any narcissist or sociopath higher doses of Risperidal and Lamictal than I take. But I make a high-stake game of outmaneuvering sociopathy.
So here is are some questions that have cropped up in my mind occasionally.
FlippantLlama comments on Nov 4, 2018:
For me, it's a mood thing. Plus, certain people inspire certain roles. I'm rarely dominant with men, and never submissive with women, so I'm not sure I fit "switch".
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
That entirely qualifies you for "switch". A switch is simply someone who can actively enjoy either side of the power-exchange coin.
The devil in me = the devil in you! ?
coralisthree comments on Nov 4, 2018:
@DoDapper
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
UNILATERAL (adj) 1.
Marionville comments on Nov 4, 2018:
As opposed to bilateral (between two parties). or multilateral (between three or more parties)
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
Very worth being pointed out. Danke.
Making the world a better place!!!
coralisthree comments on Nov 4, 2018:
should i? @DoDapper
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
If you ask permission first, you may ask me out, plan a nice date, or take some hostages. I give you full permission to overthrow governments and burn down houses (preferably with people inside but not if I am inside). Buying me a puppy would be mean.
So here is are some questions that have cropped up in my mind occasionally.
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 4, 2018:
My bf is neither dom nor submissive... I'm a little bit of a dom in that I give ongoing instructions and directions... He complies..
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Cutiebeauty - Haha. I would hardly say we are experts, but "experienced" and actively engaged in the lifestyle would accurately suffice.
how deviant are you?
DoDapper comments on Nov 3, 2018:
I like this idea. Maybe I should do it to you. Oh, yes, a new punishment.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Seeker55 - In sincerity, you are entirely right. No one should be left completely unattended and unmonitored during bondage. Even the simplest bondage can end up damaging nerves if not done right.
So ladies, for those of us who are independent, opinionated and in control of our lives, do you find...
Sandy6767 comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Key words here, sometimes, man and probably. ? over the course of 21 yrs I had asked my ex to occasionally just come up and tell me he wants me now and drop everything,bend me over and fuck me. Doesn’t always have to be “ making lurve”. Just times a girl just needs her breath taken away( not ...
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
Clearly his loss.
how deviant are you?
DoDapper comments on Nov 3, 2018:
I like this idea. Maybe I should do it to you. Oh, yes, a new punishment.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Seeker55 - Mine or hers? ?
So ladies, for those of us who are independent, opinionated and in control of our lives, do you find...
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
(@ strong, independent, educated, liberated @coralisthree / My little plaything.)
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@PinkyandtheBrain - if it helps you sleep.
So ladies, for those of us who are independent, opinionated and in control of our lives, do you find...
SaucyCheryl comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I discovered a few years ago that I am an alpha submissive. https://dominantsoul.wordpress.com/self-understanding/alpha-submissives/comment-page-1/#comments
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
Alpha submissives are excellent people, though I tend a couple notches over, having almost exclusively Dominated switches.
Has anyone here done electro , that is probably one of my favorites that I do.
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I have never done electro-stim, Top or bottom, but I very much want to learn and Top electric play. My problem is the cost to really get into it.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
But I do the best fire play, which is much more than consolation, and possibly My favorite type of play to perform.
Some Sunday Beauty!
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I'm wanting a fuller body shot of the one in the middle. For science.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@coralisthree - Early bird gets the Sam Heughan.
True it's disgustingly true!!!!
DenoPenno comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Hitler was a Catholic and I'm sure he was baptized.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@ipdg77 - Thank you for sharing that.
I've read that a safe sex option for fellatio is a flavored condom with liquid lubricant inside.
Kattywampus69 comments on Nov 3, 2018:
If you absolutely *have* to, lambskin condoms and something natural like coconut oil for a lube. Flavored condoms and lubes taste awful!! Nothing as good as lips on skin. For either partner.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Kattywampus69 @FlippantLlama - Before sex or as lube, coconut oil is not a wise choice: being a natural antibacterial and antifungal it can upset your vagina's natural balance, it is not cleared out of your body as easily, and oils break down standard latex condoms (also will damage any rubber, PVC or latex sex toys). I know some people prefer lambskin condoms (I dislike their feeling, exacerbated by not being available in larger sizes), but lambskin condoms are somewhat less effective for preventing STDs and especially STIs.
I am at level 6.6. Do I get a date when I hit 6.66?
Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 4, 2018:
You get a date at level 6.9. ....
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
I see what you did there.
So ladies, for those of us who are independent, opinionated and in control of our lives, do you find...
PinkyandtheBrain comments on Nov 4, 2018:
Feminism still wanting alpha male. It's a contradiction. How do you want him to control you if you're completely controlling him??
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
Feminism doesn't require a woman be in the leadership role. The important factor is that a woman is able to **choose** what she wants. *Choosing* to be led in the bedroom or even assuming a slave lifestyle role (TPE or "total power-exchange) does *nothing* to diminish a woman's independence and power.
Some Sunday Beauty!
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I'm wanting a fuller body shot of the one in the middle. For science.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@coralisthree - Dibs.
Some Sunday Beauty!
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I'm wanting a fuller body shot of the one in the middle. For science.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@GreatNani - Men aren't usually my type, but mm.
DECIMATE: I actually saw "decimate" misused in the New York Times recently.
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I love "decimate". It's origin was a Roman military practice, essentially that in a century or legion that had behaved shamefully one tenth of the men would be chosen by lot and harshly punished (or killed depending on the severity).
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@LenHazell53 - I haven't encountered correlation between decimation and tithing before. Tens and tenths were the basic Roman units in everything except telling time -- the roots of the metric system originated with the Romans.
DECIMATE: I actually saw "decimate" misused in the New York Times recently.
DoDapper comments on Nov 4, 2018:
I love "decimate". It's origin was a Roman military practice, essentially that in a century or legion that had behaved shamefully one tenth of the men would be chosen by lot and harshly punished (or killed depending on the severity).
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
The details are juicier than I first stated. A cohort (one-tenth of a legion) was the unit punished by decimation. Soldiers would divided into groups of ten, lots drawn, and each tenth man bludgeoned to death by his nine comrades. The death sentence could equally fall upon soldiers and officers; no rank was exempt.
I've read that a safe sex option for fellatio is a flavored condom with liquid lubricant inside.
WYSIWYG comments on Nov 2, 2018:
What about fellatio for her?
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
(@Cutiebeauty, @Kattywampus69, @FlippantLlama, @WYSIWYG) Plastic wrap bondage is a thing. "I'm just making our safe sex safer!"
Where do you fall on the Kinsey scale (the Heterosexual–Homosexual Rating Scale)?
Davekp comments on Oct 31, 2018:
In activity my sex life is exclusively hetero however in thought or indulging in fantasy I allow myself much more leeway. But I have no desire to act on or seek out fulfillment of those notions. I do concede that maybe I have not met the person yet who could incite me to turn onto new paths.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@LimeySteve @Davekp @brentan - Look at that, there's more responses parallel to my lines than I expected; that's awesome.
how deviant are you?
DoDapper comments on Nov 3, 2018:
I like this idea. Maybe I should do it to you. Oh, yes, a new punishment.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Seeker55 - - @coralisthree knows My denial is worth her while when she can wait My sweet time.
how deviant are you?
Ggall002 comments on Nov 3, 2018:
Sounds like a divorce? LOL
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
People rarely file for divorce if you keep them gagged and chained. ;)
how deviant are you?
boatdude87 comments on Nov 3, 2018:
While a part of me wants to laugh, another part of me cringed. I happen to know a family that has a daughter that was always the wild one. At 17 she met a guy, told him she was 19, proceeded to sleep with him, then tie him up, take money and other things from him and then revealed she was 17 saying...
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@Quazi - It's not the smoothest move in the book, but if you're already at somebody's place together and ready for action, wanting to see her birthday is unlikely to stop her getting her action. Worst case: you just told her she looks 18. Other case: you avoid registering as a sex offender and pedophile the rest of your life.
Is your “O face” sexy or scary?
DoDapper comments on Nov 3, 2018:
What do **I** look like, My little @coralisthree?
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@coralisthree - Mm.
My first tattoo. In memory of my dad. He taught me the construction trade.
DoDapper comments on Nov 3, 2018:
This is my first tattoo, on my left shoulder blade.
DoDapper replies on Nov 4, 2018:
@MarcT - Thank you.

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