Well, I did it: I had a date with another woman outside my marriage.

zesty comments on Sep 15, 2018:

With me it is "first date = sex" (provided I like you), I don't need more time to waste.

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

That's what I'm familiar with in my poly' and other outside-the-primary-relationship-yes-I-overuse-hyphens things.

How much sleep did you get last night? (Poll for pollness sake. ... Now I want pear saké.)

Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 30, 2018:

I'm in bed usually by ten pm. And up at four am. So I average six hours...

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

@Cutiebeauty - Alcohol is great for falling asleep, sometimes helps quantity of sleep, and is a train head-on wrecked into another train wreck for sleep quality. Sadly. This is why I don't drink alcohol. Instead I drink liquor. Er.

The other night My submissive/babygirl ( @coralisthree ) broke a rule in group chat and flaunted the...

Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Oooo what's her punishment daddy?

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

Haha. Patience. Wait and see.

How much sleep did you get last night? (Poll for pollness sake. ... Now I want pear saké.)

SkotlandSkye comments on Sep 30, 2018:

I love sleep. Sleep helps the body rejuvenate and repair. I make it a point to get at least 7-9 hours a night. About 1-4 times a month though, I don't sleep at all and get a huge energy rush that keeps me up all night reading or doing work. I can't explain it and neither can the doctors I've ...

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

I am unfortunately well acquainted with the science (actually, it's a favorite topic of mine). Thank you for a comment with chewable substance. My sleep is nearly the opposite. I'll only manage a couple hours of sleep each night for a couple weeks, then I'll crash for 12 to 20 hours.

How much sleep did you get last night? (Poll for pollness sake. ... Now I want pear saké.)

Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 30, 2018:

I'm in bed usually by ten pm. And up at four am. So I average six hours...

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

See this shade of green? I'm not turning into the Incredible Hulk. It's.more an envy hue.

I woke up this morning to the thought, "Why do I feel so rested?

Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Ramen

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

Blasphemy. Or a major food.group.

I woke up this morning to the thought, "Why do I feel so rested?

Captain747ex comments on Sep 30, 2018:

I'm assuming this is a good thing?

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

I swore by the FFSM, so it probably was.

Thanks for a fun chat, all.

Anniemae comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Are the rules not between the two of you? They should be.

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

They are. In this case, she broke one in the group's public chat *and* even acknowledged she would get in trouble if I knew. And she is a bit of an exhibitionist, so the public polling for punishment ideas is a kindness from Me.

Thanks for a fun chat, all.

HereticSin comments on Sep 29, 2018:

5 minutes of video proving she sat in ready pose. knowing what she did, I wouldn't go harder than that unless she asked for it.

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

I like your suggestion and it is going to be a big part of her punishment.

== Results from bdsmtest.

Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 30, 2018:

These results do not surprise me one bit lol

DoDapper replies on Sep 30, 2018:

Ha. I'm flattered.

JEREMY! Bend over!

JeremyTaylor comments on Sep 29, 2018:

No no no, young lady. *You* bend over. It'll be much easier to spank you that way.

DoDapper replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@JeremyTaylor - I know a good way you can warm up your spanking hand. ***《pulls out fireplay kit, a metal ruler, and a nun》*** ?

Thanks for a fun chat, all.

Sticks48 comments on Sep 29, 2018:

What rule did she break?

DoDapper replies on Sep 29, 2018:

See edited post or reply above.

Thanks for a fun chat, all.

coralisthree comments on Sep 29, 2018:

awwe. a whole post for me!

DoDapper replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@Sticks48 - she is allowed to flirt, solicit flirting, plan play, and have other sexual partners. However, each is contingent on telling Me promptly or getting My permission in advance.

I need a friend

DoDapper comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Reading just one book isn't for me. I host a book club.

DoDapper replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@coralisthree - That's better.

I need a friend

DoDapper comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Hey, babe, your library or mine?

DoDapper replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@coralisthree - Oh, we're not just doing any reading. I'm going to make you learn to appreciate good bookbinding, and I only read hardcover.

I need a friend

DoDapper comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Reading just one book isn't for me. I host a book club.

DoDapper replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@coralisthree - I don't see a 'please' or question mark.

When do you ask or tell a new partner that you have some kinks, fetishes, or whatever the new lingo ...

coralisthree comments on Sep 17, 2018:

I'm always up front

DoDapper replies on Sep 18, 2018:

I recall you being a cautious little girl with Me, princess.

What's the biggest problem in bed for an atheist? They've got no one to talk to during orgasm.

Our_existence comments on Sep 13, 2018:

Here all the time I thought when she was screaming, "oh god, oh god, oh god", she was talking about me!!!

DoDapper replies on Sep 13, 2018:

Funny, I assume the same about "Oh Hell yes".

What's the biggest problem in bed for an atheist? They've got no one to talk to during orgasm.

Cutiebeauty comments on Sep 13, 2018:

I'm agnostic but I have moaned OMG on occasion. I guess it's a socialization thing. ITS NOT MY FAULT! ! Whew, feels good to get that out, lmao

DoDapper replies on Sep 13, 2018:

I generally encourage "Oh Hell, oh Hell yes". A long, emphatic, sustained "FUCK" is also acceptable.

What's the biggest problem in bed for an atheist? They've got no one to talk to during orgasm.

zorialoki comments on Sep 13, 2018:

Oh my Ford, Oh my Oldsmobile, Oh my Bentley, Oh my Chevrolet, there are lots of replacements

DoDapper replies on Sep 13, 2018:

Oh John Deere.

What movies have your favorite scenes of sword fighting?

CharlieBrown comments on Sep 12, 2018:

How about the shortest sword fight , Indiana Jones and the Temple of Doom?

DoDapper replies on Sep 12, 2018:

That scene was actually planned as an elaborate interaction. But after a day of shooting and the scene choreography continually going wrong, Ford improvised the gunshot out of frustration and they decided to keep it.

A box without hinges, key, or a lid; yet inside golden treasure hid. What am I?

EmbracingTheVoid comments on Sep 11, 2018:

An egg

DoDapper replies on Sep 12, 2018:

@RavenCT - What has it got in it's pocketses? Hands, string, nothing at all?!

Discussion question: If you could go back in time 200 years ( 1818 ) WITHOUT BRINGING ANYTHING BACK ...

DoDapper comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Ah. @Donotbelieve touches a good point. The differences and diminution of language would be another evidence. And scientific knowledge a little ahead of its time. Now I'm influential enough to really maim the space-time-flying-spaghetti-monster continuum.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 - I do always win. Mostly I pat myself on the back for saving the wind from worse uses. Like Trump talking.

Riddle you .

JeffHickmott comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Teeth.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

I'm still keeping the ring of power, but yes.

A box without hinges, key, or a lid; yet inside golden treasure hid. What am I?

EmbracingTheVoid comments on Sep 11, 2018:

An egg

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

@RavenCT - The Hobbit, but yes. ;)

What kind of tree can fit in your hand?

onlyif comments on Sep 11, 2018:

To easy..lol

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

More challenge exists in simple joke and the minds of children than is dreamt of in your hilarity, Horatio.

Discussion question: If you could go back in time 200 years ( 1818 ) WITHOUT BRINGING ANYTHING BACK ...

DoDapper comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Ah. @Donotbelieve touches a good point. The differences and diminution of language would be another evidence. And scientific knowledge a little ahead of its time. Now I'm influential enough to really maim the space-time-flying-spaghetti-monster continuum.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 - The Vatican holds sway here on the earth, in the dust. The Flying Spaghetti Monster has appendages al dente beyond this mortal rotini. FSM would already be the One by whose sauce I was grated to travel back through a 200-year-long macaroni. I know this is an unpopular belief, but knowing I am in, with, and under the Spaghetti touched by His noodly appendages, I am endowed with the massive meatballs to profess.

Good morning!

DoDapper comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Hugs are deviant behavior in my world. Though I do give excellent Jedi mind cuddles.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

@MrLizard - Understandable. I have a brother and a couple friends who are the same way.

Infatuation is ??

germangirl90439 comments on Sep 11, 2018:

It must be love then, because we're nowhere near perfect. But then again, perfection would be boring!

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

Nailed on the head. Brava.

Infatuation is ??

DoDapper comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Love is when you recognize they are not perfect, and it matters, because it seasons and spices the relationship. "How is your relationship going?" "I loved her, but we've been lax in the kitchen. We let it go the way of an oily American diner trying too hard for varieties." "How's your ...

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

@coralisthree

I notice bicycles fall over when they come to a stop. It must be because they're just two tired.

FrayedBear comments on Sep 11, 2018:

I got a pump out of that!

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

Portable little manual pump? Or electric?

Infatuation is ??

DoDapper comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Love is when you recognize they are not perfect, and it matters, because it seasons and spices the relationship. "How is your relationship going?" "I loved her, but we've been lax in the kitchen. We let it go the way of an oily American diner trying too hard for varieties." "How's your ...

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

For the healthy non-monogamists, "...I did just find myself a pastry chef who I intend to keep on. She's still enthused and discerning visiting different heirloom gardens."

Discussion question: If you could go back in time 200 years ( 1818 ) WITHOUT BRINGING ANYTHING BACK ...

DoDapper comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Ah. @Donotbelieve touches a good point. The differences and diminution of language would be another evidence. And scientific knowledge a little ahead of its time. Now I'm influential enough to really maim the space-time-flying-spaghetti-monster continuum.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

The Doctor will love the challenge of trying to sort me out.

An interesting subject of Agnostics, I think anyhow I dare you to watch and discuss with me your ...

Donotbelieve comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Not watching, sorry.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 - My sense of humor, the best thing before sliced bread. (Any more flattery and I'd be dating myself. Last time that happened I wasn't willing to give myself my submission and stood myself up on the third date.)

one track mind

DoDapper comments on Sep 11, 2018:

I hate these generalizations about agnostics with ADHD. We are not t-- TITTIES!

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

Shiny tits. -_-

An interesting subject of Agnostics, I think anyhow I dare you to watch and discuss with me your ...

Donotbelieve comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Not watching, sorry.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 - Go you. Almost a 'rah 'rah or something.

Sugar daddy/babies...your thoughts?

Marcie1974 comments on Sep 11, 2018:

I’m so uncomfortable with someone spending money on my so I’d be a horrible sugarbaby. Plus I’m guessing at 44 I’m probably too old, lol

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

Wait, the sugar fronts the '-daddy'. Alright. Now I just need to wind my way to sugar's Prime Mover and hope tide isn't low where I moored my boat to Zeno's paradox.

Sugar daddy/babies...your thoughts?

Marcie1974 comments on Sep 11, 2018:

I’m so uncomfortable with someone spending money on my so I’d be a horrible sugarbaby. Plus I’m guessing at 44 I’m probably too old, lol

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

I would be a gentleman and give you a compliment sincerely, but I lack the sugar to back My '-daddy'.

Good morning!

DoDapper comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Hugs are deviant behavior in my world. Though I do give excellent Jedi mind cuddles.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

@MrLizard - I was baiting. They aren't actually, except under very specific relationship and protocols.

[youtu.be] I don't have a 'type', however-

Hathacat comments on Sep 10, 2018:

Nice poem! I recently had to give up (some, not all!!) of my library and it was SO hard! But I (in the space of 6 months) have already accumulated 60 or more new books, so you can imagine why I need a budget on this particular thing. I am also a very fast reader, so it gets very expensive, lol.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

Dreadful. At one point I had 1,400 books and lost most of them in water damage. I haven't gotten any momentum back since. Yet.

[youtu.be] I don't have a 'type', however-

SonofMax comments on Sep 10, 2018:

Erudition, being well-read, a thirst for knowledge--for me some of the most alluring, desirable qualities of a woman, no question... Ok, I'm a leg man too, but my point is the erudition. Sorry, that whole guy thing...

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

Sapiosexual is one of my favorite words.

A friendly morning reminder to live conscientiously.

JackPedigo comments on Sep 10, 2018:

I built an outside shower and for the summer we put out a 'solar shower bag' to heat up the water. We never took showers inside during the summer months and for the 2 of us we would use maybe 2-3 gallons. I also, installed a pressure regulator on the inside shower heads. We often complained to ...

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

Took my wit and handed back practical and idealistic inspiration. Asante.

Being sexually open and finding innovative ways to please ourselves and others is a holly (LOL) ...

Captain747ex comments on Sep 9, 2018:

I have been thinking about sex a lot lately. It's been a while and I'd like to change that.

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

@MrLizard Touché.

if someone outside of this group were to call you a pervert.

coralisthree comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Its like when someone calls me a bitch, I just say "Well thank you!"

DoDapper replies on Sep 11, 2018:

Slut. Pervert. Bitch. Little whore. But good girl. [Consentual negotiated role including certain degradation and slut-shaming. Outside this dynamic type, W/we strongly condemn that behavior.]

Sugar daddy/babies...your thoughts?

coralisthree comments on Sep 10, 2018:

i want a Sugar Daddy, so I can be his Sugar Baby

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

@jamessmithwick - Therein a part of D/s, though. She would be wonderfully complementing in a sugar daddy relationship. She wants it hard. So now I've forced her to want What she wants.

Sugar daddy/babies...your thoughts?

coralisthree comments on Sep 10, 2018:

i want a Sugar Daddy, so I can be his Sugar Baby

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

@jamessmithwick - I first encouraged then instructed her to want a Sugardaddy.

Saw this and it tickled my... funny bone. Yeah. Funny bone.

coralisthree comments on Sep 10, 2018:

@DoDapper

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

What is happening to the drawn girl is called a dragonfly harness.

Saw this and it tickled my... funny bone. Yeah. Funny bone.

coralisthree comments on Sep 10, 2018:

@DoDapper

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

I appreciate you invoking Me enough that I'd do that tying to you.

What movie title describes your sex life? Cast Away

coralisthree comments on Sep 10, 2018:

love & other drugs

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

Good choice, little one.

I came across this image in my Facebook feed.

StrongHappySilly comments on Sep 9, 2018:

I think they're fighting as in the ancient Olympics. They would fight naked. In this image it appears he is about to break the other man's arm while biting his jugular. Ancient deathmatch

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

@StrongHappySilly - That's the spirit. I may have to hire you as bloodsport entertainment for My next Greek orgy.

A friendly morning reminder to live conscientiously.

bleurowz comments on Sep 10, 2018:

Never works out unless you have a double shower head. Someone is always left standing in the cold.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

@coralisthree - If it happened and was uncomfortable, I would have told you.

Being sexually open and finding innovative ways to please ourselves and others is a holly (LOL) ...

Captain747ex comments on Sep 9, 2018:

I have been thinking about sex a lot lately. It's been a while and I'd like to change that.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

@MrLizard - I think about it much less when I'm without. Almost not at all after a year.

I always wonder, when a man puts "Average" for his height in his profile, what do men think is ...

JustLynnie comments on Sep 10, 2018:

Men: I consider 5' 11" and up as tall. Average would be 5'7-5'10 Short would be 5' 6" and below Women: 5' 8" and up tall 5'4"-5' 7" avg 5' 3" and below is short Actual average height for American women is 5' 4"

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

Well done being the first to give a precise opinion.

Republican Dirty talk....

coralisthree comments on Sep 10, 2018:

that is kinky!

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

I will never quite forgive you for the one time you turned the lights off and had to be chided. It gives Daddy moral high ground forever.

A friendly morning reminder to live conscientiously.

bleurowz comments on Sep 10, 2018:

Never works out unless you have a double shower head. Someone is always left standing in the cold.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

I don't mind the cold side, it feels more like home to my heart and soul.

I came across this image in my Facebook feed.

StrongHappySilly comments on Sep 9, 2018:

I think they're fighting as in the ancient Olympics. They would fight naked. In this image it appears he is about to break the other man's arm while biting his jugular. Ancient deathmatch

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

You mean there are cultures where wrestling competitions aren't two attractive men taking off all their clothes, having servants oil their skin, and making maximum rough-play skin contact in front of a crowd?

Republican Dirty talk....

coralisthree comments on Sep 10, 2018:

that is kinky!

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

Almost as kinky as having a distanced curiosity about sex once a month with the lights off solely for the purpose of procreation.

I'm going to take a community college class soon and thought I would get some suggestions from the ...

DoDapper comments on Sep 10, 2018:

Depends on precisely the poli-sci class.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

@Cutiebeauty - Go for logic.

I always wonder, when a man puts "Average" for his height in his profile, what do men think is ...

escapetypist comments on Sep 10, 2018:

If I were a little person, I'd be average

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

But who wants to be average? That's too much like normal.

I always wonder, when a man puts "Average" for his height in his profile, what do men think is ...

Angelamelek comments on Sep 10, 2018:

At 160cm I know I am a shortie lol attracted to tall men though...

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

Shortie is just another word for fun sized.

I always wonder, when a man puts "Average" for his height in his profile, what do men think is ...

helionoftroy comments on Sep 10, 2018:

I’m 5’1”, not tall and not average. I am short and, for the most part, happy with it.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

Height: Historically accurate.

Wake, Bake and Coffee, mate! Happy Monday!

sweetcharlotte comments on Sep 10, 2018:

It sounds like an Australian speaking about a morning routine.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

And here I was planning to invite myself over for @coralisthree to serve me some authentic Aussie backyard barbie.

Wake, Bake and Coffee, mate! Happy Monday!

sweetcharlotte comments on Sep 10, 2018:

It sounds like an Australian speaking about a morning routine.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

@sweetcharlotte - There you have it. Nine out of ten geographists agree @coralisthree is not hailing from Australia.

Posture training.

AdorkableMe comments on Sep 10, 2018:

Predicament bondage...that last step is a doozie!!

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

Well put. Haha.

Posture training.

boatdude87 comments on Sep 9, 2018:

Historically, I thought the books went on top of the head to help with posture.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

It depends whether you like the look of a foreshortened neck or a forcefully extended one.

I always wonder, when a man puts "Average" for his height in his profile, what do men think is ...

UUNJ comments on Sep 10, 2018:

On Match.com, I always wonder about that “slender and toned” option versus “about average.” In the US, size 14 is average, and I’m a 10-12. But I don’t feel slender and toned.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

@UUNJ , @SeeCanU , @coralisthree - "slender", "athletic", "about average", "toned". All the weight choices are designed for ambiguity, and they play an intense game of smoke and mirrors.

Wake, Bake and Coffee, mate! Happy Monday!

sweetcharlotte comments on Sep 10, 2018:

It sounds like an Australian speaking about a morning routine.

DoDapper replies on Sep 10, 2018:

One way to find out. @coralisthree , are you upside down right now?

Have the rare circumstance of not sleeping at all last night.

MrLink comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Oh jeez. Are you starting to hallucinate?

DoDapper replies on Sep 9, 2018:

That is exactly the point where I start to hallucinate, visual and auditory. Fortunately, after a second tops, I recognize them for what they are and can enjoy the show.

When does lack of sleep become bad enough to cause little visual or auditory hallucinations?

Bryan comments on Sep 8, 2018:

Three to four days for me. First experienced in the military during combat ops, later in life but more than 15 years ago, with recreational drug use. Not halucinagens, but stuff that would keep me awake for up to five days at a time. Starting with shadowy hands reaching from behind on my periphery, ...

DoDapper replies on Sep 9, 2018:

I've only had hallucinations, or mostly at least, from plain insomnia. That is how my hallucinations feel, though; I can know they are hallucinations 99% and be amused by the show.

When does lack of sleep become bad enough to cause little visual or auditory hallucinations?

geist171 comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Somewhere between day 4 and day 5. Early in day 4 if you've been taking adderall or other amphetamine based chemical compounds. It's not full blown until around day 6, but about halfway through day 4 the 'shadow people' show up in the visual periphery (basically shadowy flashes of movement out of ...

DoDapper replies on Sep 9, 2018:

I've only had hallucinations from insomnia. Thankfully?

What are 2 things on your sexual bucket list?

coralisthree comments on Sep 9, 2018:

oh lord...

DoDapper replies on Sep 9, 2018:

@coralisthree - I am surprised your instinctive thought was that you'd tried almost all your fantasies. I've been around the block in all sorts of neighborhoods, and I have hundreds of untried fantasies.

What are 2 things on your sexual bucket list?

coralisthree comments on Sep 9, 2018:

oh lord...

DoDapper replies on Sep 9, 2018:

@coralisthree - Off the top of My head. Suspension bondage, doing live porn, fire massage, anything and everything involving a Sybian, trying more types of petplay, being simultaneously topped by several Doms for a scene, objectification play, all of the numerous directions of cuckolding scene, bondage on railroad tracks, 1950s housewife, being kept captive and bound and used for several days, more heavy predicament bondage and extended outdoor bondage.

What are 2 things on your sexual bucket list?

coralisthree comments on Sep 9, 2018:

oh lord...

DoDapper replies on Sep 9, 2018:

I have ideas for you.

Should I switch out my barbells for rings in my nipples? The barbells seem a little to wide.

DoDapper comments on Sep 5, 2018:

I prefer the rings' look but prefer the barbells over all. Switch back after W/we enjoy the sexual novelty. The rings caught on My teeth multiple times; while the barbells have more play.

DoDapper replies on Sep 6, 2018:

@coralisthree - Maybe you should wiggle less.

When does lack of sleep become bad enough to cause little visual or auditory hallucinations?

UpsideDownAgain comments on Sep 6, 2018:

I've never experienced that that I know of. But would I know? How do you know if you are hallucinating?

DoDapper replies on Sep 6, 2018:

My hallucinations around 72 hours have the courtesy of disappearing when I open my mouth to talk to them.

Have the rare circumstance of not sleeping at all last night.

Cast1es comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Even if you can't sleep , give your eyes and your body a chance to rest for a bit . Just a bit of down time , relaxing with your eyes closed and your body at rest .

DoDapper replies on Sep 6, 2018:

I do. Thanks.

Have the rare circumstance of not sleeping at all last night.

RavenCT comments on Sep 6, 2018:

Sounds like 72 hours without sleep. Not good at all. Maybe talk to your Doctor for some advice? Maybe you already have with no luck. Either way hang in there.

DoDapper replies on Sep 6, 2018:

No success from professional health. It is very for my insomnia to become this out of hand.

Wait... I just noticed it says this is NOT a porn swap! Shit! Anywho, chat is open. Deviants unite!

gdeecee comments on Sep 5, 2018:

So, can we actually talk about sex, or what? I am curious about some things . . .

DoDapper replies on Sep 6, 2018:

Yes, as long as it is consentual and not long-term harmful, we discuss.

Anyone have met someone in the adult movie industry?

coralisthree comments on Sep 5, 2018:

like a famous porn star, or just someone that has done some porn?

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@Burnedhawk - ?

Audiobooks verse Regular Books

coralisthree comments on Aug 18, 2018:

Because I still have very good eyesight I prefer reading books, but the same goes for books on tablet/e-reader, I like the smell and feel, even the weight, of real books

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

Even the sound of pages turning and inaudible creaking of the binding.

Should I switch out my barbells for rings in my nipples? The barbells seem a little to wide.

DoDapper comments on Sep 5, 2018:

I prefer the rings' look but prefer the barbells over all. Switch back after W/we enjoy the sexual novelty. The rings caught on My teeth multiple times; while the barbells have more play.

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@coralisthree - That's not how this works, little girl.

I've noticed that some people may be curious or confused about a healthy D/s dynamic.

Snickers77 comments on Sep 1, 2018:

I am very open-minded and try to understand all I can. However, it escapes me the whole D/S scene. I am too much of a control freak to allow myself to be so dominated and yet I can't see myself as the dominator. Human sexuality is a complex subject. I'd like to understand the appeal of being either ...

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@coralisthree - Well put. Mine.

So what’s for dinner tonight? I’m fixing chicken tikka masala with basmati rice and naan bread.

coralisthree comments on Aug 31, 2018:

I just had a turkey sandwich, but I think im making whole wheat pasta with organic basil pesto, organic parm and free range grilled chicken

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@coralisthree - Homemade pesto? That's My girl.

Im feeling switchy this evening

Oakenshield comments on Sep 4, 2018:

I fully understood it once I saw the word Switchy. Is there a term for one who is neither a dom or a sub?

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

It's more like someone who is a Dom AND a sub.

Wait... I just noticed it says this is NOT a porn swap! Shit! Anywho, chat is open. Deviants unite!

StrongHappySilly comments on Sep 3, 2018:

You need to be a porn star! #BeAPornStar

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@coralisthree - Do I smell the MMF in our plans, doll?

My Third Best Pick-Up Line: "Hey, girl. Are you sick?

coralisthree comments on Aug 31, 2018:

Are you still a virgin....not by choice?

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

Make them not a virgin not by choice? ? That might be two negative.

I'm very fortunate to say this is never happened to me.

coralisthree comments on Aug 27, 2018:

I always climax first, multiple times, but I always make sure my partner is fully satisfied

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@coralisthree - Yes, you are good about that when I'm with you and keep Me proud. I meant that you don't have responsibility for making sure I am satisfied. That you accomplish when you follow My orders.

My Sir/Daddy had play time today. Pictures to com, if he approves.

coralisthree comments on Aug 26, 2018:

He did approve a couple

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 - When she does little touches for Me, like having her hair in pigtails or having on lingerie beyond My requests, it doesn't go unappreciated. As long as she's not being a sneaky and very cute girl to distract Me from something she's done.

What sexual fantasy would you like to realistically like to enact?

DoDapper comments on Sep 5, 2018:

TRIGGERS.

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

Stalking, kidnap, leading and forcing sex over a couple days with multiple partners never clearly seen each using one of her holes raw and more, predicament bondage when she wasn't being used, waterboarding her occasionally to keep her awake as she was worn down, cutting off large locks of her hair as trophy, then leaving her unconscious somewhere out of the way wearing only the shreds of her original clothing.

What the actual fuck.

coralisthree comments on Aug 20, 2018:

Its one thing if that had happened on fetlife, but pof? That seems odd

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@coralisthree - you're right, I would never do that to a cat. Now about our getaway weekend, does this smell like chloroform to you?

How did I not know this group was here??? Well, happy sunday!

MissaDixon comments on Aug 19, 2018:

Nice!!!...is there a boy version for those of us that like that kind of thing?

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

Consider it a unisex ropework harness, it would work just as well on a male-bodied partner. Just modify the knots between the legs for a little CBT, and I would use rough rope and have one crossover tight over his nipples.

Well that was a total waste of hopefulness! Back to not sleeping!

Snickers77 comments on Aug 31, 2018:

I'm right there with you. So I decided to finish some writing I've been avoiding like the plague.

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@coralisthree - Summer thunderstorms are better than sleep any night. Which is convenient because any night is precisely when I don't sleep.

Do you prefer someone who makes demands of you to do it aggressively and with force, or someone who ...

Fibonacci1618 comments on Aug 31, 2018:

I like cursing and aggression! But not demeaning! Like "Oh fuck yes! Harder mother fucker". Doesn't have to be loud, just intense

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@Fibonacci1618 - If you ever find yourself there again, I hope you find better. That is so very much less than what healthy power-exchange is about. Education is a passion of mine if you ever want to ask more questions.

Do you prefer someone who makes demands of you to do it aggressively and with force, or someone who ...

coralisthree comments on Aug 31, 2018:

"Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger."

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

;)

Anyone want a cookie?

StrongHappySilly comments on Sep 3, 2018:

I love whoreos! Whoreos and milf! YUM!!!

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

@coralisthree - you certainly can't be a MILF as long as you are My babygirl. I've got you covered. Though the coverage looks a little more like stripped bare, bound tight, lying next to Me, and ready to be used and abused for your Daddy's pleasure.

GIRLS....what are your thoughts about Girl/girl porn? I said GIRLS....not guys for this one please

coralisthree comments on Aug 17, 2018:

I love it, but not as much as guy/guy porn or MMF porn

DoDapper replies on Sep 5, 2018:

We still need to work on that MMF you want.

I'm very fortunate to say this is never happened to me.

coralisthree comments on Aug 27, 2018:

I always climax first, multiple times, but I always make sure my partner is fully satisfied

DoDapper replies on Aug 27, 2018:

Oh?

What does agnostic mean you?

glennlab comments on Aug 19, 2018:

It means i think rather than blindly believing, I prefer someone that thinks for a dating partner too so this was a good spot to look. Similar to the reason I got to democratic functions to meet other democrats.

DoDapper replies on Aug 19, 2018:

Tell me if I have this straight. You like agnostics because agnosticism inherently admits knowing there are things they do not kbow?

What does agnostic mean you?

Eldovis comments on Aug 19, 2018:

In general, it's a confusing term... Atheist is one who does not believe in the existence of gods... Agnostic is one that does not know if a God exists. There is a difference.

DoDapper replies on Aug 19, 2018:

Or *cannot* know if deity exists

What does agnostic mean you?

Teterbilt comments on Aug 19, 2018:

I believe the literal sense of the word. I don't know.

DoDapper replies on Aug 19, 2018:

Excellent- "without knowing/Knowledge"- "Agnostic" is a modifier, you can be "agnostic" about any issue.