What does agnostic mean you?

Aussie64 comments on Aug 19, 2018:

Agnostic to me, means somebody who is wishy-washy, with foot-in-the-door mentality (just in case), and a fence-sitter unable to commit fully to reason.

DoDapper replies on Aug 19, 2018:

I think of agnosticism as the bland start of an entree dish, nothing but the piece of white chicken meat. I cannot determine there is Divinity, so a few steps later I conclude there is no god. The bland center has a simple marinade. Season lightly with humanitarianism and observation of ethics.

What does agnostic mean you?

MARDUK comments on Aug 19, 2018:

Humpty Dumpty! LOL! Fear to commit! I know that every man-made religion is false! If something created all this! Then we are like the Dust Mites that are crawling across your face right now! Atheist is the final correct conclusion! And then we can move on and stop fighting! Just in case, sounds ...

DoDapper replies on Aug 19, 2018:

I say 'religion' is inherently not man made. I say 'god' is inherently impossible to prove. From this I infer atheism. Therefore I do not believe in religion itself.

“A hairy cunt is fucked much better than one which is smooth; it holds in the steam and wants ...

Squirrel comments on Aug 8, 2018:

I think it's reasonable that the messenger was advocating against sex with underage women.

DoDapper replies on Aug 8, 2018:

@KevinTwining - That occurred in many cultures from well before maturity of the Roman Republic to the 1800s.

“A hairy cunt is fucked much better than one which is smooth; it holds in the steam and wants ...

Squirrel comments on Aug 8, 2018:

I think it's reasonable that the messenger was advocating against sex with underage women.

DoDapper replies on Aug 8, 2018:

@Anonbene - While not absent from the Roman citizenry, boys were much more a Greek deal.

Some of My ropework to start your day. Good morning, all you deviants you.

DoDapper comments on Aug 8, 2018:

Some quick restricting ropework.

DoDapper replies on Aug 8, 2018:

@coralisthree - Yes it is, princess.

Some of My ropework to start your day. Good morning, all you deviants you.

Seeker55 comments on Aug 8, 2018:

Shibari?

DoDapper replies on Aug 8, 2018:

Yes. Good call.

Worst chat up line?

DoDapper comments on Aug 8, 2018:

"Want to come back to My place to watch a movie and serve as My footstool?" That one has only been successful, though.

DoDapper replies on Aug 8, 2018:

Successful the two times I used it.

Worst chat up line?

nutrition_nerd comments on Aug 7, 2018:

My best line Me: "wanna get a pizza, and fuck?" Them: *shocked* Me: "if you'd prefer Chinese, that's cool too"

DoDapper replies on Aug 8, 2018:

I like delivering it - "Want to get pizza and go fuck?" [Usually elicits "What? No."] "Alright, we can skip the pizza."

The neighborhood watching.

jenandjuice1111 comments on Aug 7, 2018:

I’d like to take a shift on that neighborhood watch! ?

DoDapper replies on Aug 7, 2018:

I enjoy being neighborhood watch or watched.

Some of you are bound to like this photo. (Not my own.)

Squirrel comments on Aug 7, 2018:

What do you do if there is an emergency and you have too free her in a hurry?

DoDapper replies on Aug 7, 2018:

With bondage like this, the key is being prepared to be calming and calm so you can untie and loosen ropes as efficiently as possible.

Good morning, Everyone! Today's topic: Lying. How do you define it?

Captain747ex comments on Aug 7, 2018:

Everyone lies. I think it depends on the lie even though all lies chip away at trust and credibility.

DoDapper replies on Aug 7, 2018:

@FlippantLlama - Careful. I once wrote and memorized a 15-minute monologue about how humble I am. :D

Good morning, Everyone! Today's topic: Lying. How do you define it?

Captain747ex comments on Aug 7, 2018:

Everyone lies. I think it depends on the lie even though all lies chip away at trust and credibility.

DoDapper replies on Aug 7, 2018:

@FlippantLlama - True. I never said I was going for the nickname. Only want unspoken recognition. Though I could also settle for a cathedral built for silent prayer and live sacrifices to me.

Good morning, Everyone! Today's topic: Lying. How do you define it?

Captain747ex comments on Aug 7, 2018:

Everyone lies. I think it depends on the lie even though all lies chip away at trust and credibility.

DoDapper replies on Aug 7, 2018:

@FlippantLlama - Dammit, I was going for eminating House.

Mental health warriors: tell me about something you're really good at.

DoDapper comments on Aug 7, 2018:

I can laugh over the grimmest things that happen to me. And I've perfected a stand up routine for laying down on ambulance rides.

DoDapper replies on Aug 7, 2018:

@Darla_Ann -- Every three or four weeks. I have severe chronic pain. With a little stubbornness, usually, physically I'm as capable any 30 year-old. But every few weeks pain flares up to the point I'm on the ground spasming. Or something improbable happens to me. And I spend a few hours in the ER being checked that nothing new or severe is occurring.

Some of you are bound to like this photo. (Not my own.)

Squirrel comments on Aug 6, 2018:

How much rope is needed for that? I'm asking for a friend.

DoDapper replies on Aug 6, 2018:

That looks like a 50' length to me. I usually keep (and recommend) a 75' length of good, 1/2", braided rope for this kind of bondage.

Always fun for Me.

coralisthree comments on Aug 6, 2018:

yes please Daddy!

DoDapper replies on Aug 6, 2018:

Good girl.

Challenge accepted! The US Suprememe Court ruled on sodomy in 2003, basically invalidating state...

thinktwice comments on Aug 3, 2018:

I am moving from a state that has gotten rid of sodomy laws to one that has them...oh brother...better put locks on the bedroom doors and buy all of my toys before I go...

DoDapper replies on Aug 6, 2018:

@thinktwice -- Indeed. I Have acquaintances in PA, MN, and WI who now have to register as sex offenders related to practicing BDSM activities.

Tell me story about a shower ... a hot shower...

JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Less a shower and more of a bath. I spent a week in Texas earlier this year with a girl I'd met online a while back. It was a fun week, but one highlight was when I was watching her bath. She got out her razor and asked me if I wanted to help. And she wasn't talking about her legs or her pits.?...

DoDapper replies on Aug 6, 2018:

@FlippantLlama -- Well put. A minor one of my deviances is that I get that thorough satisfaction out of Sadism and some Dominance outside of sex. I would be a good Criminal Minds unsub to fall into the broad "sexual sadist" profile.

Tell me story about a shower ... a hot shower...

JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Less a shower and more of a bath. I spent a week in Texas earlier this year with a girl I'd met online a while back. It was a fun week, but one highlight was when I was watching her bath. She got out her razor and asked me if I wanted to help. And she wasn't talking about her legs or her pits.?...

DoDapper replies on Aug 6, 2018:

@FlippantLlama -- I would call it a sexual satisfaction, though not necessarily expressly so and not physically arousing. It is a task I'm just as likely to give a submissive with whom I do no sexual play. Does that answer your question?

Challenge accepted! The US Suprememe Court ruled on sodomy in 2003, basically invalidating state...

thinktwice comments on Aug 3, 2018:

I am moving from a state that has gotten rid of sodomy laws to one that has them...oh brother...better put locks on the bedroom doors and buy all of my toys before I go...

DoDapper replies on Aug 6, 2018:

@thinktwice -- I don't know NC laws on kink, but in PA hitting a partner is prison time if it's reported regardless of consent and circumstances. This was one reason being 'outted' as BDSM lifestyle was especially significant when I participated in the Community out there.

I seriously need a sugar daddy.

Salo comments on Aug 6, 2018:

I was under tge impression you had one ? ?

DoDapper replies on Aug 6, 2018:

I am a Daddy. I'm spicy, salty, meaty and savory, and a little harsh and bitter and sour. So she can look for vanilla or submissive sugar.

BDSM Relationships.

SumWherNtheMidl comments on Aug 3, 2018:

I have no judgments. I was just curious. Thank you for answering me.

DoDapper replies on Aug 4, 2018:

It is a very good question and one that takes thought every time, which I appreciate.

Tell me story about a shower ... a hot shower...

JeremyTaylor comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Less a shower and more of a bath. I spent a week in Texas earlier this year with a girl I'd met online a while back. It was a fun week, but one highlight was when I was watching her bath. She got out her razor and asked me if I wanted to help. And she wasn't talking about her legs or her pits.?...

DoDapper replies on Aug 3, 2018:

@FlippantLlama -- Having someone shave me is one of favorite assignments to give a partner, though I only crave it occasionally. Something about leading her verbally and physically through the process and allowing her to give me the service.

Reading comprehension 101.

tryingcake comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I really did until the last line. Then I had to go back and see what I missed.

DoDapper replies on Aug 3, 2018:

@tryingcake -- See, had there been a punctuation mark on the end, I would have seen the sentence.

Amazing!! Sexual Deviants is now the 4th largest group on Agnostic!! Give yourselves a hand(job)!...

Seeker55 comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Hmmmm.....not believing in God leads to deviancy among a growing number of people. Interesting headline.

DoDapper replies on Aug 3, 2018:

@filthyMONKEYmen -- Yes. Down with magic sky leprechauns. Up with the Flying Spaghetti Monster. Have you been touched by His noodly appendages?

BDSM Relationships.

SumWherNtheMidl comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I have to ask...what about this type of relationship is so attractive to you?

DoDapper replies on Aug 3, 2018:

Having the higher level of responsibility for partners sharpens my attention and expands my creativity. I feel more intimacy and passion in power-exchange's intense give and take. I am held by my-self to a superior standard of communication and knowledge of my partners and their bodies. I could summarize it by saying I am a posessive control-freak and borderline sociopath. Rather than deny or fixate on harmful desires, I found a healthy, safe, and shared passion.

BDSM Relationships.

slydr68 comments on Aug 3, 2018:

BDSM gets a really bad rap, mostly from people who don't understand what it's meant to be. And people who don't get it can really mess up experiences for new people who are interested in checking it out. I have had 3 such relationships, and the last one was so bad that I will never do it ...

DoDapper replies on Aug 3, 2018:

I am sorry to hear the lifestyle was tainted for you, but that is a wise and mature perspective.

BDSM Relationships.

Seeker55 comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Glad you shared the best kept secret of the sub holding all the power. It is true and something few people really acknowledge or understand completely. Safe, sane consensual.

DoDapper replies on Aug 3, 2018:

Especially doing numerous types of edgeplay, RACK Rick-Aware-Consentual-Kink describes my mindset better. In either case, be clear and informed, and enthusiastic consent above all things.

BDSM Relationships.

evergreen comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Sounds like you understand the dynamics completely ! Kudos Another aspect that is not always understood, is the "power exchange" that often (though not always) takes place. The Doms I've been with preferred a feisty, strong woman to conquer - and essentially exchange power with. That cannot ...

DoDapper replies on Aug 3, 2018:

I agree completely about preferring a strong partner to Dominate. I want a submissive matured enough to understand she doesn't at all need a Dominant but absolutely wants to be Dominated. The most difficult task to teach news s-types is to stand up to me and be confident in concerns for their wellbeing.

BDSM Relationships.

AdorkableMe comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Very nice explanation. Always my favorite when someone says like 50 Shades of Grey? Uh no, not like that so much at all.

DoDapper replies on Aug 2, 2018:

Right. "Everything that developed in the book, do it backwards, then it might look more like healthily developed D/s."

BDSM Relationships.

Squirrel comments on Aug 2, 2018:

The last paragraph should be translated into latin and etched in stone. Unrelated note, I told my google assistant my name was Sir. It makes me smile on the occasion my name is to be said.

DoDapper replies on Aug 2, 2018:

At one point I told Google Assistant that I was named "Dom Domly mcDomDom". That was fun.

One Night Stands; the preserve of the younger generation or do we all enjoy? Ladies first...

coralisthree comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I don't do it as often as i did in my 20's, but my Sir sometimes enjoys knowing i'm with someone else

DoDapper replies on Aug 2, 2018:

@CarlosEsmi -- I'm writing a new group post in answer to your good questioning point.

Has anyone tried play piercing?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I repeat what DoDapper posted. I can get the specific sites if you want them.

DoDapper replies on Aug 1, 2018:

@Nukdookum -- And My delightful shareable @coralisthree appears to want Me to have links.

Has anyone tried play piercing?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I repeat what DoDapper posted. I can get the specific sites if you want them.

DoDapper replies on Aug 1, 2018:

@Nukdookum -- I would appreciate if you could post or message me a couple links. I also want to put together my own play piercing kit.

Has anyone tried play piercing?

coralisthree comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Thanks for the help, and Daddy, thanks for not telling me sooner

DoDapper replies on Aug 1, 2018:

Voice your complaints, concerns, and bratting in private first. In a public setting, you reflect upon Me and U/us.

OK folks.

DoDapper comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I am a big fan of giving spankings with machetes. I want My kits for fire massage and very basic wax play. 75 feet of 1/2" braided rope. Large kerchiefs for gagging and blindfolding. My three play bag neckties. And two good floggers of equal weight for Florentine are the last *must have*. Other ...

DoDapper replies on Aug 1, 2018:

@Katrik -- Like fire beatings, machetes are mostly about the psychological factor. Physical Sadism is negligible without a major mental complement.

Masturbation: with a partner or without?

AdorkableMe comments on Jul 31, 2018:

I'm not quite sure I understand your post. You are asking if we prefer solo vs mutual masturbation and whether we ask permission to masturbate if we have a partner or whether we ask the partner before masturbating in front of them?

DoDapper replies on Aug 1, 2018:

@coralisthree -- Good girl.

One Night Stands; the preserve of the younger generation or do we all enjoy? Ladies first...

coralisthree comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I don't do it as often as i did in my 20's, but my Sir sometimes enjoys knowing i'm with someone else

DoDapper replies on Aug 1, 2018:

@coralisthree -- The wonderful violent sex after occasional sharing makes it about worthwhile.

Masturbation: with a partner or without?

AdorkableMe comments on Jul 31, 2018:

I'm not quite sure I understand your post. You are asking if we prefer solo vs mutual masturbation and whether we ask permission to masturbate if we have a partner or whether we ask the partner before masturbating in front of them?

DoDapper replies on Jul 31, 2018:

@coralisthree - Look at your original post. My girl missed a word.

Not a fetish for me, but am not abject to doing this

coralisthree comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I would say no, but my primary has almost a fear of feet so i don't even get foot rubs

DoDapper replies on Jul 31, 2018:

By the way @coralisthree -- If you want footrubs, find your own s-type. If you want to be bratty, sit closer. ;) :D

Not a fetish for me, but am not abject to doing this

coralisthree comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I would say no, but my primary has almost a fear of feet so i don't even get foot rubs

DoDapper replies on Jul 31, 2018:

@zorialoki -- I agree completely. Likewise submission and masochism and being bound and doing rimming and getting all sorts of anal can be fun for a massive number of reasons. I've lectured about it. But none of those are things I'm into. I think pansexual sadomasochistic switches are the best people to be. I'm A mere mindfuckery of Dominant, hetereoflexible, demisexual, sapiosexual Sadism. But 9 out of 10 people say I'm the most creative and inclusive Sadist, and the 10th person is just trying to provoke . ;)

Not a fetish for me, but am not abject to doing this

coralisthree comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I would say no, but my primary has almost a fear of feet so i don't even get foot rubs

DoDapper replies on Jul 31, 2018:

As much as @coralisthree may get a kick out of calling it a fear, W/we may need to negotiate some harder bare impact to address that. *grin* Keep having fun, babygirl.

Not a fetish for me, but am not abject to doing this

coralisthree comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I would say no, but my primary has almost a fear of feet so i don't even get foot rubs

DoDapper replies on Jul 31, 2018:

@zorialoki -- If I put My feet on someone - human footstool being the obvious example - or touch them with My feet, it is a sign of My Dominance in scene or in O/our dynamic. By extension, I do have a culivated aversion to touching someone else's feet and a physically lashing reaction to My feet being touched without explicit permission.