I am recently divorced. I have one very intelligent and fun little boy. I work in the veterinary field and have so for almost 19 years. So my life revolves around 1 kid, 4 dogs, 2 cats and 1 lonely chicken.. (update: Lavender is no longer alone!! I just added 4 new girls to my flock.. bring on the eggs!!! ) I didn’t grow up in a religious family. My grandparents were and tried their best to teach me the Bible. My parents were products of the 70s and had me at a super young age. They were more interested in partying and being asses to each other than putting me and my brothers in church. Growing up in the south, being the kids that didn’t go to church was like being born with 2 heads. So we saw the hypocrisy of church at an early age
I remember even lying to my friends in elementary school about going. Obviously I learned to overcome that. My 2 brothers and I all grew to face religion is different ways. One is a devout Christian and the other a devout atheist/anti-theist/secularist.. I am somewhere in between. While being an atheist I do not care to get involved in the politics of it. I believe that morals make the person. I was married to a believer for 13 years. He lied, cheated, and didn’t do a fucking moral thing ever. I believe in being kind to all people. I don’t care who you love, who you identify as, or who you voted for. I don’t believe in getting something for nothing. I don’t believe you should be able to break the rules just because you are human. I think there are people who take advantage of others to benefit themselves. I work hard everyday. I am proud to say that I make my own way. I don’t care if my son grows up to be religious. That is his right. I will make sure he knows my opinion on it but I want him to make up his own mind. I just want him to be kind, loving and self sufficienct. I eat meat. But I love animals. I don’t care if you are vegan or paleo or whatever. Just don’t judge me for my rare steak. I am me. I like to laugh. I like to read, hike, garden, and shop when I can afford to. I like to talk about everything. I am an artist. I like sex. I am not promiscuous but I am not a prude either. I am late to everything. I get pissed quickly but I don’t stay that way. I like to cuss and do it often. I like loud rock music. I enjoy a good concert. I am me.