Woman, 78, New Mexico, USA
Update; 2019, I have been here in New Mexico for over a year now and I could not be more satisfied! With this ‘artist,’ brain I still seem to have more options than I can ever implement! The only thing that I have not come to love is winter, (even here), but it is better than Ga.
I am changing my profile ‘to available for a relationship with a man!’ I am energetic, when I am not warn-out! Lol. I have 5 children back in Ga, that have spouses (all except one). I may be independent to a fault, but I can be temporarily crushed (but I take only enough time to pull myself together)! I am loyal until I can no longer maintain enough energy to work with certain personalities! Then I will put some space between me and them! I am a loving friend, and sex is not a prerequisite for a romantic relationship. In fact, if you need ‘kinky,’ sex, don’t apply here! I know what lies at the mountain top, and it was never created from ‘kinky!’ However, the lack of kindness and respect...I could not bare up under! I am a ‘realist,’ almost to a fault! I have great imagination, but my reality is in the current moment that I am in! I am not a good cook now, because it is not creative to me! Lol. I do keep a good diet and maintain regular excerise and at the moment I have no health issues, (no meds)! In fact I feel better than I have felt in 20 yrs! I am not looking for someone just like me...that would be no fun! So I will see what happens...
I am relocating to New Mexico. Although I grew up here in Ga, I have never felt at 'home!' I am mostly challenged, once I speak my truth! For the longest time, i thought i was flawed! I have toughed it out, because my family is here and they feel some responsibility if I become distressed. And aging is a given! But, I came to believe that if that happens someplace else, I will find a way to cope. I am not interested in sitting around waiting for my death and that seemed to be the only reason for being here. I have friends all over the country, but not one here! I simple cannot get past the religiosity that is prevalent in the Bible Belt. It took me nearly 3 years going back and forth, to New Mexico, exploring possibilities. And, then it started to fall into place as it became clearer what I wanted. I found property near The Rockhound State Pk, and i feel energized on my little piece of the desert! I will build walls and gardens and a new life, now! And climb mountains, with the sun and the wide open sky above me! It is freedom at it's best.