This. LOL :-)

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I did laugh out loud! Thanks!

Interesting article about a sex researcher who just wrote a book on sexual fantasies. [indystar.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I have suggested my library buy this book. I am to damn cheap to buy it myself.

Is there a reason I can't see who liked posts anymore?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I can see it.

NYTimes-Matt Apuzzo Reports Michael Cohen Has Taped During Campaign Conversation He Had With Trump ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

The shit keeps coming faster and piling up deeper!

I have to give kudos to the VA in my area and their commitment to mental health care.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

That is so good to hear about the VA. They work hard with such limited resources. Thank you for your service and I hope you get the help you need.

Just ran across this one.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Perfect, thank you!

Hi, everyone.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

And welcome!! You should fit in well here. Thanks for your participation!

When you go to court, you are putting your fate in the hands of 12 people who were not smart enough ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

IOW, 12 people who have no life.

Life isn’t measured by the breaths you take… but by the breaths you don’t waste on clichés

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Holding your breath doesn't work so well.

I hated talking on the phone way before it was cool to hate talking on the phone.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Let it go to voice mail.

I'm going to run with scissors today.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Good for you! Just don't touch my sewing scissors!!

Update on the Garden, Getting the rain now, so the plants should be ok for a while, I did pick green...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I love green beans, we used to grow a crap ton when I was a kid. I remember sitting by the garden and snapping them prior to taking them in for cooking.

Virtuoso (meme)

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

OMG, that is very good! Sharing that on FB.

Lmao...no pinky dinky size

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I read a few years ago that condoms in India are smaller than what is generally sold in the US. So not trusting my memory I googled it, and not so holy cow. http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/6161691.stm BBC 2006.

Hi, everyone.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Love, love, love the meme. I didn't like DT as a business man, reality TV star, or semi celebrity. I absolutely detest him as whatever the hell he is now. He is not presidential. He is a travesty of justice.

Nala is doing fine as you can see from this photo.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Poor sweet girlie. She will be back to her old self in couple of days, and the hair will be back in a few months. Good on you for caring for her and doing what is best. And "bad vet" to the vet that botched it the first time.

found all of these in one FB post and comments

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

Love the twisted logic. Well actually hate it, but love the postings. Thanks!!

Who is your congressman/woman?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

That's pretty awesome!

What is the most inane thing you had to learn in high school?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 20, 2018:

I can't think of anything I had in HS that I have not used in life. Even algebra, I have solved for X in real life. I hated typing classes, and look at me now. I am a quilter, so I use geometry all the time. I hated PE, because of the uniforms and mean girls, but we also learned how to bowl, riflery and archery. But then, I went to school in the 70s, when education was real.

What was your favorite subject in High School?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

English. I love to read and write.

Has anyone heard of this group? [facebook.com] [sistersonthefly.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

It looks like fun! Thanks for posting.

Ha???????

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I always thought if reincarnation was a thing I'd want to come back as one of my cats.

If there really was a God, he'd create some better Christian rock bands.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

It can't get any worse than what is already out there. Or can it....

I have always admired Michael Jacksons' work.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Wonderful!!

Parent Fact: Sugar makes kids crazy. Grandparent Fact: Vengeance is mine.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Oh yeah baby!! I give noise making gifts!!

Is life fair? Short answer: No. Long answer: Noooooooooooooooooooo.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Complete answer: Oh hell no.

My pizza delivery guy just said "see you tomorrow". Maybe I eat too much pizza ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Or maybe you need to switch up the restaurants (pizza joints) you order from. Unless the delivery person is cute and available.

Live today like it's your last. Pay your bills and wear a condom just in case it isn't.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Sorry, I refuse to wear a condom.

And God said to John, come forth and ye shall be granted eternal life.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

At least it wasn't premature ejaculation.

This man knows no bounds! [newyorker.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

It is sad that we have to remark on grammatically correct sentences. Obama's eloquence is so beautiful, like fine china. The other guy is like the dishes from microwave meals.

How accurate are the % to questions and the chance of meeting others close to your %?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I don't put too much stock in it. There is such a limited pool of members from my area, if one is willing to meet I'm going to meet just to see what happens. Being unwilling to move if there is a 99% match somewhere in Maine that isn't going to help me.

How do you answer the door to a bible thumper trying to convert you?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I don't answer the door. If I am not expecting someone I'm not very likely to answer. No one that knows me is going to show up without letting me know. Those that might show up without notice have the code to the garage door. I get a lot of pest control people, realtors, replacement window people, kids selling school crap, magazine sales people, and Satellite TV sales people. I don't want to talk to them or buy their crap.

Are there any books about intimacy / relationships that had an impact on you? If so, please share.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

5 love languages. It is Xian but has some good stuff.

What is your Mantra?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

The Mantra of Motherhood: This too shall pass, I've used it for over 30 years. My other mantra is: Everything will be OK in the end. If it isn't OK, it isn't the end. And when I make phone calls for my job my mantra is: please go to voice mail.

The Trap King [youtu.be] This guy is my hero!

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

That is fabulous!!

Who are some famous people you wish would just go away?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Jim Bakker and Tami Faye, or whoever Tami Faye's replacement was. Joel Osteen. All of the children of Billy Graham, especially his daughter Anne Graham Lotz. Definitely any Kardashian. I haven't figured out why they're famous. Sarah Huckabee Sanders. Ted Cruz, Paul Ryan, DT of course. McConnell, Huckabee Sr.

After discussions and comments with several of our Agnostic.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

First of all, 6 years in the Army. I have taken classes from time to time since then, one class was targeted to moms with small children as I was at the time. When my middle daughter was headed for college we took a self defense class, she is her mother's daughter and her mouth can/did get her in trouble. Also, I read the best book ever, "The Gift of Fear" by Gavin DeBecker, he has such good advice including listening to your gut. Great read.

What is the most unusual pet you have had? Mine was an earthworm named Squiggly.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I have a pet rock!! I won it from a radio station when I was in HS. That pet rock has traveled some miles. Geebus, I graduated in 1976 and I still have it. Don't do the math, it will make your brain burn and make me cry.

[facebook.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I love the questions! Are you part of a hate group. I wrote that along with a bunch of other folks I hate the current administration, but we're not really organized. I hope it makes them laugh.

This is a cat tree I made for a friend around 1995.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Very cool!! I was thinking about getting some cat accessories, then I took my car to the repair shop. Kitty girls gonna have to wait a bit, mama gotta have wheels.

You know you are spoiling the cats when the giant cat tower is on one side of the window and the ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

You're a good cat mom!!

Cornhole????

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Where I live, out in the cornfields, it is a bean bag toss game. What is it where you live?

You know what you never see?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Fer sure! To me it is slavery to link employment with health care benefits. If I lose my job I'm screwed. I could take off for a few months, but paying for private health care will bankrupt you.

A French woman just asked for my number after I asked for a clarification about her bio.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Offer to connect via email first. I don't give my phone number out til I'm sure it is somebody I won't have to block.

I think. Therefore, I'm single.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Wow, @Duke, a not funny posting. I do have to agree. If I didn't think I'd still be married. That is the most frightening thought of this whole messed up day. It is more frightening than the cost to keep my car running. Jeebus, I need a drink.

I wrote this as a comment on another post in this group and though it was a good enough to be a post...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

If I am not worthy of a relationship in the mind of the guy, then there will be no meeting of the flesh, no bumping uglies. I am not good with casual sex, I know this about myself no judgement intended for anyone who is. I can't/won't settle.

This sunbeam is just right. You may delay our dinner for another 10 minutes:

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

He has you well trained.

It's not a trap

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

LOL!! of course!

This was sent to me by a FB friend.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I have seen this on FB. I have lost FB "friends" over Drumpf. They weren't real friends. My real friends either shut the hell up or hate Drumpf as much as I do. I didn't like Don the Con as a reality TV host, Ioathe, dislike, abhor, and generally detest the man. I have never felt so out of step with my country as I do now.

I needed to put this down.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I am so sorry for your loss. Some people just are so damaged that they can't make it in this world. You tried, but Brian was too far gone when you got to him. Grieve as you must, but know that it was Brian's choice and you did what you could.

Just had to share this.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Totally love this. I miss Barack Obama so much, a smart, decent man. Class and style that der Donald will never know.

Just had to share this.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Totally love this. I miss Barack Obama so much, a smart, decent man. Class and style that der Donald will never know.

Just had to share this.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 19, 2018:

Totally love this. I miss Barack Obama so much, a smart, decent man. Class and style that der Donald will never know.

Is there a tattoo you wanna get?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I got one shortly after my divorce, my metamorphosis. I want to get another tatt in the near future, the second picture.

I love this lilie

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Very nice!!

Just saw the new alert for "following" and for PMing.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I'm guessing the rest of us will see it later. Sigh, waiting again...

Christian Minister: ‘Men Prefer Debt-Free Virgins Without Tattoos’

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

My Grammie used to tell me virginity is like a balloon, one prick and it is gone.

My form of ptsd.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I am so sorry for your loss, that is the most devastating loss a parent can ever have to deal with. Thank you for sharing your pain, I hope it has helped you. I hope you find something to give you comfort and peace.

As a newcomer, I find Agnostics to be elitist.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

What got your boxers in a knot? Jump in, participate, you'll move up the points fast enough. Or are you too old to learn the ropes. Put your time in, you'll get there.

Marriage or Domestic Partners?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I will never remarry because there would be negative financial repercussions. Why marry and lose money when I can shack up and keep all my benefits and have the benefit of having a partner. Not like we're going to make babies, even then it wouldn't matter. There is no stigma to unmarried parents anymore, and the fur babies don't give a darn.

I feel so pretty now!

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

What a HOTTIE!! You look mahvelous dahling, simply mahvelous!

Is anyone else addicted to reading or listening to audio books?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I can't do talk radio or have someone reading while I drive. It puts me right to sleep. I want music and usually upbeat.

[youtube.com] Talking about Drugs The Liberal redneck

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I love him, and wow, I did not know about kratom being slated to be put on the schedule. Need to find it and stock up.

The Sad Truth.❤

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I was no longer in love and got the hell out of there. Kids wished I did it sooner.

Ooh! Been waiting on these delicate little lovelies!

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

WoW!! beautiful. I've never seen those before.

Mueller has given immunity to 5 Americans to testify against Mannefort.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

It can't happen fast enough for me!

Do You Understand The Charges Vs.You?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

This breaks my heart all to pieces.

They say that we all have a mate somewhere.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

With my luck he's not born yet.

Loyal and Faithful Men Still Exist

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I never doubted that. Just acceptable men ( to me) are in short supply where I live.

I just sat my phone down while trying to eat a salad.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Which is why the computer is closed down when I am not home and the phone stays in my pocket. I only trust the girls when I can see them.

PUUUUUR!

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I'm in love!!

My garden in action today Sphex wasp on Gooseneck Skipper on Verbena Tawny Emperor on feeder ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Awesome!!

We meant shouldn't.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Wish it were so easy. Dang.

Just out of curiosity.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I have grand babies within a 20 minute drive. That is why I don't want to move. I can recreate the garden anywhere, not so much the babies.

Had to share...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I don't want him to leave, I want him to fry!

I never will be.?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

As I don't think there is anything wrong with my behavior, I always behave well ;)

Anyone else here come from an abusive family?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I was abused, and I was able to move on. Sometimes I feel the inner child crying, but I have learned to heal her. Having daughters was a great help, when the oldest got to the age was that the worst of the abuse happened I realized it wasn't my fault. Also living far away from my abusers helped, and limited contact and never alone with them when I did have to see them.

CONGRATULATIONS @MissKathleen, for reaching Level 8!

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Woot!! Now it only takes forever to reach level 9.

Always been an advocate to alternative medicine.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I use tincture of ginger for heartburn. It works for me. I have chopped ginger in vodka in my pantry now. When I need to use it I will drain the ginger out. I used oil of cloves to numb a sore tooth so I could sleep. I got 5 hours sleep and a root canal the next day. Alternative medicine is simply what our foremothers used when they didn't have access to doctors. Might not be as potent as pharmaceuticals, but they're as safe if not safer, gentler, and cheaper. Just because it is old fashioned doesn't mean it doesn't work.

Animal people are among the kindest ?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I don't trust anyone who says they don't like animals. Why? And HOW can you not like animals?

Hello friends, I need to vent, and this is a place where I can do that safely, I hope.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I am sorry for your distress. If you think the relationship can be mended I hope it is. If it needs to end I wish you strength to get through and peace of mind about it.

Can you see me now?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I used to have a golden retriever, and floors that were golden retriever colored. I would trip over him in the semidarkness and scare the blazes out of both of us. I miss my boy.

Can you see me now?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Oh pretty!!

My Dream ☺

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

That's what I want, with a few chickens.

Don't fight me?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Which reminds me, need to strip the bed tomorrow, want to have my visiting children help me spin that mattress.

Don't fight me?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Yep, sounds perfect.

Russians and stupid people?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Every day! Every damn day!

Supposed to be 100+ degrees all week.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Everything looks good! We've had a over an inch of rain this week, and more expected tonight. In mid July, not usual but very welcome.

Reading suggestion: Sapiens - Yuval Noah Harari Awesome book!! And after that Homo Deus from ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I read it a few years ago, it was excellent. Not an easy read but deep.

I may not go to what is currently recognized as a religious institution (Church, Mosque, Synagogue, ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

from a former BF, years ago: Everyone needs something to believe in. I believe I'll have another beer.

I've been experiencing this for awhile now, and have known that depression has had the better of me ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

It is so hard when you just feel turned off all the time. I hope you can find the right treatment.

WHAT'S YOUR POSITION ON ABORTION ?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

My position on abortion is my body my choice. My first pregnancy was ended by abortion because the fetus had neural tube defects that were not compatible with life outside the womb and may have been threatening to my life. Yes I wanted a baby and I was heartbroken to end the pregnancy. And because I was so far along I had to go through labor and deliver that baby. When the baby was born there were more defects than they realized. The baby had anencephaly, spina bifida, front line didn't close, cleft lip and cleft palate. 20 years later the father of my children told those children he believed we made a mistake ending that pregnancy. WTF. Which is why we are no longer married. He was at the delivery, he saw the baby. I consider that a betrayal.

WHAT'S YOUR POSITION ON ABORTION ?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

My position on abortion is my body my choice. My first pregnancy was ended by abortion because the fetus had neural tube defects that were not compatible with life outside the womb and may have been threatening to my life. Yes I wanted a baby and I was heartbroken to end the pregnancy. And because I was so far along I had to go through labor and deliver that baby. When the baby was born there were more defects than they realized. The baby had anencephaly, spina bifida, front line didn't close, cleft lip and cleft palate. 20 years later the father of my children told those children he believed we made a mistake ending that pregnancy. WTF. Which is why we are no longer married. He was at the delivery, he saw the baby. I consider that a betrayal.

You ARE so beautiful!

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Wonderful! It's beautiful.

Do you give compliments with honesty?

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

I give encouragement, or try to. I compliment when I can, and I always try to be honest, but we all need encouragement.

So very bigly ironic

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

IKR!

Good morning! Today's somewhat of a special anniversary for me, as I left my hometown Nuernberg, ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

Happy Anniversary of your adventure!! And good morning, it is my FRIDAY, I'm taking the rest of the week off.

Corrected: The answer is B.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 18, 2018:

My ex was sooo plain vanilla and uptight, things that we could have done to enhance enjoyment he was not interested in trying. Communication and open minds are so crucial

Critical Breaking News!

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 17, 2018:

OMG, so funny and so tragically true! :(

One wishes he were only an orange waste of space.

HippieChick58 comments on Jul 17, 2018:

He is a lethal toxic waste of breath.