As an atheist, how do you handle the thought of death?

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

When I was 14 my mother died of Ovarian Cancer, she was 45. I'm now 60. Sometime in the years after mom died I read an article that essentially said IF you knew you were going to die tomorrow, what would you do differently today? Having experienced death of the most important person in my life at that time, I knew how fast things could change. So, if I die tomorrow am I ready. Well, my kids need some passwords to handle my affairs efficiently, but they know how much I love them and we have a solid relationship. My job is going to go on without me just fine. Death is inevitable, it is coming sooner or later, and I'm about as ready as I can be. Yes, I need to get passwords and POAs for the kids, but I'm not going to lose sleep on that one. In the mean time, I have a life such as it is, and I will continue about the same as I was before.

To the frustrated & the offended.

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

Did you just say "if you can't take the heat stay out of the kitchen?"

Hmmmm what to do?

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

Take it as it comes

I'll be on here rarely for the next couple of weeks.

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

Where are you going?

As an atheist, how do you handle the thought of death?

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

All life dies at some point. It is a part of life, it is inevitable. When my time comes I just don't want pain or machines. I don't fear it, I don't necessarily welcome it, but when it comes it comes.

Would you kiss again the last person you kissed?

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

The last human I kissed was SamSam, my granddaughter. I am sure she will get many more kisses. The kitties get lots of kisses.

Good morning! Enjoy your day. I for one will be lazy today :P

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

I have made breakfasts for next week, and lunches for next week just need dressing. I forgot some of the ingredients yesterday so need to go back to the store. Cleaned the kitchen a bit and ran the dishwasher for the first time. I will be lazy later.

ARE YOU A "BITCH"? ... Brave Intelligent Tenacious Creative Honest

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

Most definitely! And I raised three as well.

To the person who stole my copy of Microsoft Office. I will find you...you have my Word

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

LOL!!

Dumb & Dumber

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

A new depiction of white trash. Sadly rich white trash, but trash nonetheless.

Trump and his Lawsuits

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

He is a criminal.

Should Kelly Sadler-White House Aide-Be Fired For John McCain Insults?

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

YES! Fire her ass and hound her to the ends of the earth, at least until she fades into obscurity.

No Immigrant Workers-No Crab Business Are We Winning Yet Herr Trump?

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

If I had a guess, I'd say there is going to be a yuge backlash, I just hope it comes before the damage is irreparable.

Donald Trump is no Jesus Christ

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

Good Xian that Don the Con is.

A dragon to behold

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

Yeah, I don't want to find him in my garden, or street, or outside any glassed in enclosure.

Alex Azar to Regulate Drug Prices?

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

SMH, the digging continues.

Trump Won't Honor Wafflehouse Hero

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

Thank you for posting this, he is a true hero, and a lot more man than Drumpf.

I will certainly watch gleefully! ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

LOL!! I doubt I watch even that, but maybe.

With technology advancing so quickly, it won’t be long before we have sex robots which seem almost...

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

For me that would only work if they could program robots to be emotionally intuitive. I don't think we're going to be there in my lifetime.

The Russia collusion

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

LOL!

Love our Bees

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

Thanks for the reminder, I want to put my cilantro seeds in some pots.

This could be interesting.

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

aceelnr

What clothing if any do you like to wear when watching TV?

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

I wear whatever I've had on most of the day. I don't change clothes often, and I keep clothes on while I am up because I like to keep the blinds open and don't want to freak out the neighbors. I suppose my best answer would be work clothes, but the clothes I'm wearing today when I'm not working could be worn to work. Are they work clothes or leisure clothes, and in my leisure time I'm working to get ready for next week; housework and that stuff. And for that matter I don't think the TV has been on in a week.

I just spent two hours weeding ahead of the rain they are predicting tonight. Found baby tomatoes!!

HippieChick58 comments on May 20, 2018:

I got 3 types of tomatoes planted this weekend. I have two varieties of cherry tomatoes and one slicing tomato. It will be a bit yet before I can harvest. I also planted several varieties of herbs. Catnip got potted ;) that makes the kitty girls happy.

Are social expectations an influence on how parents feel towards their children?

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

I can only speak for me. Just taking care of a baby causes those bonding hormones to kick in. I had moments when I didn't LIKE my kids very much, but I always loved them, I would always have given my life for them.

How do people feel about people who are childless?

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

I think if you don't want children you should not have them. How tragic to be brought into the world when you're unwanted. I think everyone needs to make the responsible choice. Don't make babies unless you're sure you want them and can take care of them. I applaud any woman who makes the choice NOT to have children because she does not want them. She is doing what is best for her and the child. One of my girls is the greatest aunt ever, but does not want to have babies. She has never wanted to have babies. Her body, her life, her choice and I support her and every other woman making that choice. And for the guys, if you don't want to have children, make sure you're not spilling fertile seed.

Which do you do...?

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

Socks? Are those necessary?

Has anyone here ever been on a weightloss/fitness journey?

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

Well, in my life I have gained and lost about 3 other people. I wish I was the size I was the first time I thought I was fat.

Penguins mate once and stay together for life.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

The question is: how long do penguins live? Maybe you're not doing all that bad.

Does anyone else talk aloud to themselves?

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

I talk to the cats, which is about the same thing. I had a horrible cold a few weeks ago, I had to talk out loud so I could figure out if I had a voice and if I should go to work. I spend a lot of time on the phone, if I can't talk there is no sense in going to work.

Saw Life of the Party yesterday and Book Club today.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

I will have to check those out.

Pictures of my dog Thor, He's a mixed Cane Corso/ Husky

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

What a sweet boy!!

I just spent two hours weeding ahead of the rain they are predicting tonight. Found baby tomatoes!!

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

yay!! I love fresh tomatoes!

14 months.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

It looks wonderful! I love the impatiens and lily. I think flowers are an excellent tribute. I'm happy that you had a good conversation with your dad.

The term, ‘separated’ is a bit vague.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

True. I dated a man once who listed his status as separated. Well, he wanted a divorce, but was still living in the same house and she didn't know about his plans. That isn't separated, it is messed up. Even if you are separated waiting for the divorce to become final, IMHO, you're not ready for a few relationship for a while yet. You've got some emotional and financial work to do before you can move on.

I'm not interested in the royal wedding but, I must admit, I love any wedding that's not mine

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

There is thrifty Scots blood in my heritage and I look at modern weddings and smh. The "average" wedding is well over $10,000. The average wedding gown costs over $2000. I used to watch "Say Yes to The Dress." Why do people spend so much money on a dress that will be worn once and for part of ONE DAY? $40,000 would be a nice down payment for a house that will last you the rest of your life. What are our priorities? I will never marry again. But if I did it would be a quick ceremony in front of a judge followed by a cocktail party type reception. Nice dress maybe but nothing over $200. And if the whole party costs more than $3000 something is horribly wrong.

Help! Sitting here in Discount Tire waiting for my work truck to get new tires and I'm being forced...

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

I would ask to speak to the manager and ask if the tunz could be changed. I'd let them know I don't care for their choice in music. If they give pushback I'd email corporate and tell them I can find other places to get my tired done, and I'd put a comment on their FB page. I use a local discount tire, I don't remember any music in the waiting area.

What turns you on?

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

Turn on: Intelligence, sense of humor, kindness, compassion, tolerance, caring, personality, charm. Turn offs: Bigotry, racism, intolerance, unkindness, impatience, poor personal hygiene. I had a date last summer with a good looking dude. As soon as he told me how much he liked DT, how he was a good business man, he became the ugliest man I'd ever met. Beauty is skin deep but ugly goes all the way to the bone.

Hello everyone, today as I'm playing PC games my bells rings.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

I don't feel bad for being short or abrupt with them. They are rude to show up unannounced and without invitation. They are intruding on my time and space, and spare time is not in abundance in my life. IF I answer the door I tell them very quickly that I am NOT interested and please do not visit again. I am thinking of putting a sign out that says "No Solicitors".

Welcome to kindling @Annaleda.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

Woot, Woot!! Welcome!

Has this been posted yet? ???

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

LOL! I'm 60 and divorced, and live with two cats.

Oh crap.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

I had the best night's sleep last night that I've had in about a month. I got up, ran some errands, and came home an took a nap. Wedding, sorry not anywhere to be found on my list of priorities today. I'm pissed that I forgot to buy an avocado and might need to go back out tomorrow.

It’s that time again fuckers! Time for Devon to rant.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

Speak on sister!!

Another one of Number 9

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

He is magnificent!

It'll be bigly :P the greatest :P covfefe :P

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

LOL!

Miss my Simie fat boy RIP

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

What a majestic animal. I am so sorry for your loss.

I have a friend in Illinois who's daughter came home from school yesterday and said the following.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

That breaks my heart.

Does anyone here like to correct grammar, spelling or punctuation?

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

I admit, I am a grammar nazi, but I am also a truly nice person. I just cringe and move on, unless the substance of what you wrote is wrong and then if I comment I will express my opinion and subtly (or not so subtly) correct the grammar/spelling. I have decided life is short and I need to choose my battles wisely. The battle is worth fighting if it will still matter next week or it could affect me or my babies.

My sexy cat. His name is Cash.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

What a suhweet boy! I'd take Cash in my bed any night.

Today is my birthday.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

Happy Birthday!

Lots of Lies

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

Love it!

Kermit is at it again.

HippieChick58 comments on May 19, 2018:

Oh Jeebus, that is me driving home! I'm like WTF, wait...

I think that I'll leave this open to the group's creativity.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

Have some chocolate

On this Friday evening, who else is spending it home alone, if you're willing to admit it like I am.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

I am alone now, earlier I got to do Grammy duty, my granddaughter spent the evening with me. She has now been collected by her parents and is likely tucked into her own bed. I'm wondering if I will be able to sleep well tonight.

Ladies, how were you proposed to ? Was it what you expected ?

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

It wasn't memorable.

I think that I'll leave this open to the group's creativity.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

You fascinate me. You intrigue me. Please move in

This is not something I just realized but felt this post fits perfectly into how I am and always ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

That pretty much sums me up.

People Who Express Outrage Over TSA Groping Can Now Be Put on a Watchlist: Travelers who are ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

Geebus christopher.

Hey everyone! I'm new here and came across this group, so I thought I would share a picture of my ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

Sooo pretty!

Hey everyone! I'm new here and came across this group, so I thought I would share a picture of my ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

Sooo pretty!

We've all heard of, "Puss in Boots." Well, how about, "Cat in Crocs?"

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

I wanna know who would allow crocs to be photographed in their home? Love cats, crocs have no place in anyplace.

My sister was recently reorganizing the furniture in the guest bedroom .

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

I think if I moved my nightstand it would look like that, plus I'm missing several lip balm tubes. I found one of the cats playing with a similar tube on the stairs.... I think under the bed, and under the sofa will look the same. The same cat knocks dry cat food around for hours, and I think a cup or two may be underneath the stove and fridge by now.

How many are willing to relocate if the right opportunity happens for you?

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

Nope, my heart walks around outside my body here, I wanna be close. Two grandchildren, however one isn't really walking yet, or much of anything besides eating and pooping.

I actually have plans for tonite and will be on Chat late this pm.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

You deserve all the personal time you want. We're adults, we can behave ourselves while you're gone.... maybe.

Here is the Real Price of Prescription Drugs The 11 Most Expensive Drugs in the U.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

I have said for a very long time that big pharma does not want cures, they want customers. I prefer to avoid big pharma. I have a doc that wants to put me on some additional med and I told her I would not pick up the prescription.

Dog help me! I just got a call from school that my granddaughter's cell phone was confiscated today...

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

My grammie would have said the world is going to hell in a handbasket. I think we've increased the speed a shitload. I also think if there is a Rapture this would be a good time for it to happen and get those crazies off the planet before they kill us all. I'm sorry for your G'daughter's school. It is a jungle out there.

This could be fake but the really scary thing about it is that it's so believable.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

There is no bottom in the pit of stupidity of Trump supporters. Do dumb people ever wonder how dumb they really are?

This is me.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

I took off early from work so I can tidy a bit before small person comes over.

Oliver...he’s a cutie

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

What a face! Who could not love that face!!

Its really difficult for me to find someone.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

Ain't easy when you're a liberal in a conservative area. Sadly my city is far more liberal than the rest of the state. And yeah, we've got the church on most corners thing going too.

Cat traps pt 20: Apparently these mass traps are more successful than I would have expected.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

Awwww, as my cats look at me for making funny noises while looking at my computer.

Good morning! Enjoy your Friday!

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

I'm taking half the day off so even better! Granddaughter is coming this evening and I gotta get some toddlerproofing done and some cleaning. Between the cats and grandbabies I need to make some changes.

So, after many years of being in crisis mode my life is finally improving.

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

You go girl!! It takes courage to make changes.

Abuse is abuse

HippieChick58 comments on May 18, 2018:

Fer sure!! My drug of choice is sugar in the form of chocolate (most of the time). Since I've realized it is a real addiction and it's killing me I've dealt with it somewhat better. Gambling is also an addiction/abuse issue. There are many. A study among folks with bypass surgery shows that after surgery they often switch to another non food related addiction, often compulsive shopping or gambling. The underlying issues need to be addressed.

Death with Dignity I feel I need to make a personal comment about an incident that has just ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

I have talked this over with my kids, they know my wishes. No machines, no life extending measures. Yes, I need to get it in writing. I am sorry for your loss and your friend's loss. I believe in quality of life over quantity.

As if spam didn't look bad enough

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

LOL!!

How many of you actually care about the royal wedding? I won’t tease you.

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

I was/am marginally aware there is a wedding and who is getting married. Beyond that, I don't care.

How many of you actually care about the royal wedding? I won’t tease you.

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

I was/am marginally aware there is a wedding and who is getting married. Beyond that, I don't care.

Sadly, I've been on a number of dates whereas my chivalrous gestures wasn't appreciated.

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

I love it when a gentleman has good manners.

What should you never try in life?

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

Naked welding

People Are Sharing Hilariously Bad Stock Photos Of Their Jobs, And You’ll Laugh Out Loud When You ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

This is fabulous!!

The Only Wall America Needs

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

AMEN!!

Feeling sad now.

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

Also please consider: maybe they were having a bad day. Is it possible you could have misinterpreted their actions? If it was a deliberate snub, it is not about you, it is about that person not being worthy of your friendship. It is hard, and embarrassing, but now you know. You have earned wisdom for the pain. Don't internalize their action, their opinion is not the measure of you. It is their problem, leave it to be their problem. And stay strong!

A litter of Australian Shepherd puppies that were born on Monday.

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

OMG, sweet babies!!

Illnesses causes

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

I usually feel much better when I keep the artificial ingredients out of my diet.

It depends.

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

He's the father of my children, I'd wonder what the hell he did to piss the kids off. Then I'd let him sleep on the sofa.

Trump on Tower

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

Nightmare in Chief

Share terrible stock photos of your job! If you type your job title into a Google image search ...

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

Looks much like this, less paper

Pretty much sums it up for me most of the time.

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

I have a guest room, however when I have guests I have to clean the junk off the bed, and make the bed. I have to haul out the stuff stored in there, and there is no room in the closet for them to hang anything. My brother stayed overnight at Thanksgiving. I have to get back in there one of these days and tidy things up.

Has anyone smuggled or mailed from a legal state to an illegal one?

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

I have never carried illegal substances across state lines, or sent or received any.

I brought some fresh catnip in for the girls.

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

I will have the catnip in pots on the deck. That gets interesting because the neighbor cats will find it and visit often. And then the girls inside will be having hissy fits at the door. Well, it keeps them busy. And I will bring in bits for them several times a week.

AQUA CAT [facebook.com]

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

Too cute. When my cat fell in the tub it was traumatic for both of us!

Who would you love see become the next President?

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

Bernie, Elizabeth, Joe Kennedy is making quite a name for himself.

I have just posted the following in g:17 and now offer it to this group for their enjoyment.

HippieChick58 comments on May 17, 2018:

Beautiful and sad.

For the guys..Boxers or Briefs?

HippieChick58 comments on May 16, 2018:

Personally I loathe whitey tighties for several reasons. That being said, I'm not wearing them, what ever makes you happy. I just might not watch you get dressed or undressed, and I might make sure the washer eats them if I ever get to do your laundry. None of those are likely to happen any time soon.

What’s a movie you can never get tired of?

HippieChick58 comments on May 16, 2018:

Shawshank Redemption

At this moment I am totally pissed off, and am hereby giving fair warning that I am on the WARPATH.

HippieChick58 comments on May 16, 2018:

You go girl!

People cry not because love ends, but because it still continues. even if it’s over. ?

HippieChick58 comments on May 16, 2018:

There is some truth in that.

Strawberry buckets forever.... ????

HippieChick58 comments on May 16, 2018:

I'm jealous

TOMI LAHREN'S AN IDIOT: [scontent.ffcm1-2.fna.fbcdn.net]

HippieChick58 comments on May 16, 2018:

We already knew she was an idiot and a bitch. Now she has sunk to moron and heartless. That was redundant.