I keep running across this, and I would love your thoughts.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

I took charge of my reproductive options as soon as I could. There was no way in hell I'd have ever had that conversation with my dad and step witch, that would have been a disaster I'd have never recovered from. I joined the Army, and as soon as I was past Basic Training I went to the doctor and got on the pill. I was 19. After I got married I went off the pill and found out how ridiculously fertile I was, but I was also pretty regular and could tell when I ovulated. When I thought it was time for a baby, I got pregnant. I made sure my girls knew how babies were made and how to avoid surprises. There are no illegitimate babies, but lots of unprepared parents.

Just discovered that I have a better chance of dating Taylor Swift than I do of dying from Bird ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

Seriously, I'd rather have the Bird Flu.

Yikes! I had to take cover, get out of the garden today.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

I was out briefly helping a gal load some stuff in her car. Too humid out there for me. And then yes, the sun is an issue for me. I have about 15 to 20 seconds to lobster stage.

Spinach with garlic, sesame seeds, vegetable broth and a touch of stir fry sauce.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

It sounds yummy!

What's the worst piece of advice anyone has ever given you?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

You don't need to go to college, you'll just get married and have babies. My dad in 1976.

Calling people?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

I do that all day long in my job. My mantra when I dial is please go to voice mail... I work in short term disability claims.

Couldn't have described this any better

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

LOL!! I used to love those! And survived!

I can't stress enough that feeling your illness stronger for the last year was NOT about you in any ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

Wow, very good. Shared that one.

This is just too cool [teenvogue.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

This made me cry, what a good idea!!

I need some advice.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

Divulge sensitive information when you trust them and know them enough that they will be supportive.

Feelin a little melancholy, as I often do on certain dates.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

I'm sorry for your loss. Forgive your brother, for you. That is a heavy burden to carry, you need to set it down. As for retiring, I can't wait! There is no doubt in my mind that I will retire as soon as I can afford to. Right now I'm working for health insurance. If you have plans for what to do after retirement then go for it. If you'd rather be working, then stay the course.

This was what it took for Trump to persuade him to give up nuclear weopons

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 14, 2018:

That may be our best weapon ever! Give them all DM2 and heart disease.

I have been cutting down a lot of invasive Congon grass and adding it to my chicken/duck powered ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

I was trying to heat up my compost as well, and I live alone. So when I'd think about it on the way to the bathroom I'd grab a big bowl and pee in that and then carry it out to the compost, and then put that bowl in the dishwasher. But again, I live alone. I do as I darn well please and don't have to answer to anyone.

Live kitten feed on Youtube - OMG Squee! [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

Tooo cute!!

://[www.facebook.com/RiseUpAndResist/videos/1869792286397321/]

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

Shared!

It is Not Necessary to Believe in God to be a Good Person Pope Francis

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

I do like that pope.

Vote Blue in November Biden/Kennedy in 2020

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

I vote BERNIE!!

Eighty years ago, on September 30th, 1938, an aeroplane landed at Heston Airport in UK.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

Wow, scary shit.

If you could teach everyone in the world one thing, what concept would have the biggest positive ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

Question EVERYTHING!

Yeah, the guy's ultimately stealing, but he's not exactly a bad guy.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

Could be worse.

This is my pain too. [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

Wow.

Not my boy, but a good boy just the same.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

What a sweet baby!

The well read patient has a 50% higher chance of success than patients who do not read up on their ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

I love to read, and my field is health information. I've read everything in my textbooks on mental illnesses, and of course I googled it. I've been dealing with depression/anxiety for so long I don't remember everything I've read.

A fragile thing.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

So very true!

The lilies are starting to bloom! My favorites :)

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

Sooo pretty, and I love pink!

Mindfulness. Standard poodle style.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

Bunnies are everywhere right now, maybe s/he sees a bunny. If s/he does I hope s/he gets it. Damn bunnies are decimating my herbs.

Cat Traps pt 32: Dangerous captives!! If you persist as a cat trapper, it is likely you will ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

LOL

Whenever I look back on my life, I can't help but smile and think "Wow, that's an impressive amount ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

You've been snooping in my diary again :(

Grocery store cashier: “Did you find everything okay?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

Ouch!! Burn baby burn.

I have a step ladder.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

LOL! Hey, step ladder is still a ladder.

This is Theodore.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 13, 2018:

He is adorable! His ears look dobermanish.

In a recent post, a member suggested that we Doxx another member of this community because of what ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

I don't think doxxing is OK, ever.

LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIPS - DO THEY WORK?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

I did one long distance relationship and got my heart broken. Not in a hurry to do it again.

These are not my cats, but I thought it was funny.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

LOL!! Love it!

Real world

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Fo sho!

Here's another one, for your calculation pleasure. Lol!!

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

THIS is the best conversation ever! Youse guise are amazing.

An interesting and timely article: No, Being Religious Will Not Save You from Suicide ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Many years ago I knew a "good christian" woman married to a "good christian" man and they were working on that quiverfull of children. He went out for a jog and managed to hang himself. He did leave a note, not that it helped those who loved him. So, mental illness crosses the divide between those who believe and those who don't and it doesn't seem to help prevent suicides.

Jealousy. Is it a lack of self-esteem on the part of the jealous person?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

I think jealousy indicates insecurity in the relationship, lack of trust for the partner. It could be an issue on either side. Is the jealous one insecure, or has the other one behaved in such a way to make the jealous one doubt the relationship.

This is Ernie. A stray we took in as a baby. He is so sweet. He listens better than the dogs !

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

I'm in love! That face, so adorable.

Just be yourself!

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Yep!! I like to be silly. I think I still remember how.

I just couldn't resist this one. Lol!!!!

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

LOL!!

Two years ago today, at 2am, we lost 49 precious people to a man with a gun at the Pulse nightclub ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

It breaks my heart each time, and prayers and thoughts are worthless as are those offering that shit up.

I have an x-rated earworm today.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Nice

I don't even know what to say anymore.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Jeebus :(

Yes or no?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Works for me.

According to Evangelicals These Things Are OK

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

The rapture better come soon cuz I'm so ready to be done with those ....... (I can't think of anything PG13 so better not say it.)

In Our Hour of Need on 9/11 Canada was There Canada is Our Friend and Ally Despite

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

SMH, shake it so often I'm dizzy.

Should Parents Charge Their Adult Children Rent?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Depends on the situation. One size does not fit all.

Some new inkage.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

NICE!!

Here's a tribute to women, but with a difference.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

I LOVE this. I am a witch! I am a wild, wild woman!

What brought you joy today?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

I got out of my office before 6:00. That is pretty amazing.

I want to thank everyone that helped me get to Level 8 today, I couldn't have done it without you.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

WooT!! Woot!! It is a long slog to 9.

This is Papi.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

such a sweet face. Good Papi!

Can you develop diabetes if you eat Ramen noodles everyday for 20 years?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

There are so many other factors that will play into developing DM2 (Diabetes Mellitus type 2). If it si truly a concern for you, may I suggest you bounce that question off a qualified medical practitioner? Maybe a GP and a dietician. It also depends on what else you are eating. Seriously if you eat nothing but Ramen Noodles all day every day DM2 is likely to be the least of your worries, malnutrition would be a much larger concern.

I'm on this other dating website and I've never been married with no kids.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

IMHO, don't think it is negative. To me it means you don't have baby mama drama. No child support and no alimony. All good things. It also means you might not understand my involvement with my kids, but I'm not going to assume the worst at the get go. I think you definitely dodged a bullet, that judgement was kinda harsh. It's not like you have inhabited another planet and you were a kid once and had parents. You know how those relationships work.

I have just received a reply to my "Greeter" message from a new member @loveintheair.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Looks like you have a new "friend". And looking at his profile he has missed the entire purpose of this site.

Suicide: a cowardly move? True or false?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

I don't think people who are suicidal need to be judged. Suicide happens when the pain is so bad you cannot imagine a way out. It is mental illness. Until you have been there you will never understand, and I wouldn't wish that pain on anyone.

I joined the FFRF Freedom From Religion Foundation.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

American Humanists Association. There are chapters all over the US and a really good group of people.

Just pondering: When Trump shaves, can he even use a normal razor, or must he use an orange peeler?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

LOL!!

Hi Guys and Gals...here are Tigger, Tommy and Tia...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Sooo pretty, so inscrutable!

Some more of my newest Anti Trump creations...hope you like them...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

#2, that body is in way too fit to be Drumpf, however showing a more accurate body may cause all of us to hurl.

That face when...

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 12, 2018:

I have personal connections to Monsanto. I have boycotted Monsanto products as much as possible for over 10 years. My late former FIL was a chemical engineer there, and he saw the danger in what they were doing years ago.

A good friend of mine just spent a week in my hometown of Nuernberg, Germany.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

How long since you were there? I remember the Kristkindl Markt. It's a beautiful city.

Well.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

I am so sorry, that was callous and mean! At least you deserve an in person discussion and after the road trip. I'm so sorry for your pain.

My cats like to knock objects off the kitchen table and other surfaces.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

My cats knocked some glassware off the shelves, which is why I bought a closed cabinet to keep the glassware and other breakables in. I don't mind that it broke, I don't want them or the grandbabies to get cut, or glass in my carpet. I spent too many years with a sweet blind kitty. After she passed I got a younger cat, and then I got a kitten. Oy Vey! What was I thinking!

Name something you trust more than Trump.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Quicksand. That the kitty girls will stay off the counters and table top while I am not there to watch.

I’ve been in the hospital the past week and have missed my hilarity here, pancreatitis.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Oy vey! Take care of yourself. Hope you're all better now.

Name one thing you want to try in the bedroom.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Before I started current job I had some time off between jobs, so I did some painting. I had always wanted to try an ombre wall, and I wanted a bedroom strictly in my taste, my fantasy, my sanctuary. I love the ombre wall, and I made the quilt as well. My bedroom makes me happy. I haven't had any visitors since the painting was done.

A friend has been referring to Drumpf as the "hate-yam", and it never fails to make me laugh.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Don the Con, Drumpf, Orange Twit.

These are the three planters from yesterday , couple of half barrels too.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Looks good! I admire your industry!

Age, why it matters, and why it doesn't in a relationship.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Personally I want someone within about 10 years of my age. I don't want to make a reference to something that has happened in my lifetime and have to explain what it is and why it is important. I dated a few younger guys, and a few really younger guys. I feel like I have already raised my children I want someone mature. Having kids is not an option for me, and I don't want to deal with someone else's minor dependents. A lot depends on the individual, I'd be open minded enough to consider it if someone who seems like a connection were to express interest.

Do you go to church just to keep the peace?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Since my awakening I have gone to church for a wedding, I was the mother of the bride. I think I did a Xmas eve service to make kids happy. Next time I likely go will be a christening or baptism. I'm the grandmother. So I don't think I'm keeping the peace, but I am being active with and supportive of my kids and grandkids.

Anyone in our forum have ASBESTOSIS?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Hang in there, Bob. Hoping for the best possible outcome!

If You Could Choose One Little Perk?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

I'm going with sleep. The kids are adults if they fight I don't care. I like running some errands, and my housekeeping standards are relaxed and comfy. Sleep is elusive at the best of time, sometimes even with exercise, meds, and alcohol, or maybe because of that. Who knows!

"Wow, you love to write! Unfortunately, we limit your bio size to 5000 characters.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

wow!! I will keep that in mind.

Free floating anxiety is so much worse than being anxious for a reason.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Hang in there. I'm dealing with something like that today, No tears but yes, blech!

Mystery weed. I actually saw a few today but really curious about this viny sample.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

cool!!

Human Nigel

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

LOL! My son in law had cats Charles and Elizabeth when he met my daughter. My daughter's middle name is Elizabeth, and she loves Elizabeth the most. And personally, Elizabeth scares me, she is not a friendly kitty, but she is an efficient mouser, so she has some redeeming qualities.

Would you give someone a 2nd chance?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

It is totally going to depend on the situation and how they intend to make reparations. I have someone who owes me money and broke my heart. I get my money back and I might listen to him.

Tithonia from my 2014 garden.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Love the color! I had to look up Tithonia. Tithonia, also called Mexican Sunflower, is an annual plant that is native to Mexico and Central America. This drought tolerant plant likes warm weather. Tithonia blooms from summer to fall. The daisy-like flowers in orange and yellow, grow 2 1/2" to 3 inches across.I learned something new today! Thank you!

Are Boomers, as a group, responsible for some, any or all of the mess our is in today?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Well yes, but seriously, we didn't get a perfect world to work with either.

Cat Traps pt 31: When single traps become mass traps.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Awwww, sweet kitties!

I have four felines.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

Looks like that one wants to go explore! Adorable.

Hey singles, are you comfortable going to a nice restaurant or a movie/play alone?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

I don't often go to movies or plays alone, but I have a few times. I go to nice restaurants alone often enough. The problem is I'm cheap. Why go to a movie when I can watch it at home and pause it when I need to.

Most members of my family do not recycle or conserve anything.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

I feel your pain. I recycle far more than my kids do. The question being do you want a peaceful visit or to alienate them? Pick your battles wisely.

Does anybody else hate using public bathrooms as well as other people’s bathrooms?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

Nope. When I gotta go I go where I am. I spent 6 years in the Army when I was in my early 20s, when you're out in the woods you're just happy for something to wipe with. More recently I had a job where I worked 12 hour shifts, and I often didn't get out of there on time, I did 13.5 hours one day. Yeah, you use the facilities when you can. There is nothing that is going to get you in a public restroom or someone else's. A few germs aren't going to hurt you.

Reddit Gave a Teenager With Autism a Shockingly Helpful Sex Ed Lesson - Tonic

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

People will surprise you sometimes. Heartwarming.

What Religion Gives Us (That Science Can’t)

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

I regard religion as a way of controlling the masses throughout history. The major Abrahamic religions are horrible for controlling and degrading women. I agree with @KKGator they helped create some art, but they have degraded women, delayed progress, enforced genocide, and enslaved millions. Calms whose fears? How many millions of indigenous people had their lives destroyed? The ugly truth is that religion is a way for the powerful to stay in power.

There isn't really a category for this, but the blame surely lies under this category.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GUeBMwn_eYc War is war and hell is hell, and of the two war is worse.

Lupetto Bourdain

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

Adorable!!

Yummmm.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

I am impressed by your industry, and a bit envious too. Looks yummy!

Hi everyone.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

You do get to have a life, and in summer there is so much more to do and all sorts of distractions. Glad you're doing well.

Loss of American Jobs?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

I am sure it will. He is setting the US up for disaster.

Have a Happy Sunday Folks

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 10, 2018:

Well, my Sunday has been HOT so far, however, not the good kind. Typical summer in Nebraska, HO HUM. Hot and humid.

This just crossed my FB page and I thought that I'd share it.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 9, 2018:

I'd just tell them the profits from their cake were going to Planned Parenthood, the ACLU, PFLAG, and Freedom From Religion Foundation. That would scare them out of the store faster than anything.

My younger brother has schizophrenia.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 9, 2018:

Glad you had a good day with your brother.

Yep! It's about that time!

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 9, 2018:

I was just thinking that myself!

Drink number 3 and I am feeling good ?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 9, 2018:

Looks good, what are you having? And I'm impressed. My tolerance has diminished, after the second I'm out, if I can even finish the second.

We all have some flaws.Do you have any of these?

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 9, 2018:

That sums me up pretty well,

Our mailbox "habitat" garden is attracting hummingbirds.

HippieChick58 comments on Jun 9, 2018:

I love to see hummingbirds!