THOSE WERE THE GOOD OLD DAYS: A Randy Rainbow Song Parody [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 9, 2018:

Love it!!

Today, everyone in my apartment building got handwritten note from a Jehovah's Witness in upstate ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Depends on what the note says.

Race/ethnicity

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

My uncle went to Japan during the Korean war and brought home a Japanese lady as his wife. I grew up thinking mixed "race" marriages were AOK and normal. I dated a Hispanic man and he was not the typical Hispanic and we got along great. I have dated Asians and black males as well. I think people are people, skin color is immaterial.

Christian leader calls for a day of ‘fasting and prayer’ to protect Trump from impeachment – ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Well, if it makes a difference, I won't be fasting for a moment, and seriously, I'm thinking most Americans won't be fasting either.

Equality, What does it really mean?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

My guess is that they want to attract more women to come in. No, I don't see it in my city, I don't go to bars.

It's a well known and almost universal social taboo, and likewise almost universally reviled, to ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

There are so many stories in the bible that are just weird that way. Lot and his daughters, David sleeping with really young girls when he was old. For that matter David's daughter Tamar being raped by her brother. There is just a huge ewwww factor. However, we have established the bible is very patriarchal, women/girls don't matter.

Sarah Silverman's response to a Twitter troll is a master class in compassion

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

I read this last night. She has class and a huge heart.

Elizabeth Warren & Oprah Winfrey 2020 ticket?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

I think we've had enough with elected officials who have no idea what they are doing. No more entertainment business people for president. It doesn't work. The first was bad the second is horrible. I like Oprah, but she's a tad flaky and has no background to deal with government. It's not entertainment, it is the very opposite of entertainment. Elizabeth Warren yes, but oh god no to Oprah.

Morning everyone! I have a question, and I hope it doesn't come across as a negative.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Do you think we "tout" it? I think we're all pretty much sold on the idea already. I think we just discuss those things near and dear to us. Other prominent topics I notice are the current state of politics in the US, and education. There are others, we aren't a one trick pony.

Have you divorced because you don't believe?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

No, at the time of the divorce I was still trying to be a christian and he still thinks he is a christian.

Is your idea of love over romanticized?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Passion does fade, but friendship can grow deeper and sweeter.

Home | The Critical Thinker Academy

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Education has been dumbed down in the last 50 to 100 years. Too much standardized testing, too little money for school not in the burbs. Too much homework, too much desk work, not enough PE or recess, and not enough real learning.

Things taken as racist vs.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

This is not the first time H&M has flirted on the edge of racist. It is in extremely poor taste given the times we live in. We are not post racism by any stretch of the imagination. I avoid H&M for many reasons, their choices are appalling. I vote with my pocket book and I vote against them.

After living in Sacramento for the past 3 years I am making plans to move back to Missouri.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

I am so sorry :( But then I am more than slightly biased against Missouri. For sure you will encounter much more of the backwoods religious types, but yes, simpler times. Good luck with that.

Does asking a co worker for a date list as a sexual harassment

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Your selections are too limited. Are the employees equal levels, is one in the chain of command of the other. It's not black and white, yes or no. There are a few shades of gray in there. If you want a great perspective on workplace harassment read the archives at Askamanager.com Fabulous website of all things workplace related.

Aron Ra - I have a lot of time for this guy: [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

This is wonderful!!

Choices choices.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Love it. All children are wonderful and have a potential for greatness.

As an atheist, I am angry that we live in a society in which the plain truth cannot be spoken ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

I don't think it is 90% of the population. It seems like 90% because they are loud and whiny. I know the numbers of atheist/agnostic in the US is growing. Statistics tell us that AND back in the day when I was actively involved with the church one of our concerns was bringing the young people back to church.Those young people are moving away from the church in greater numbers now. Things are changing, but not fast enough for some, and too fast for others.

I think we couple as a cultural habit that insists on it because of paternity assurance and heredity...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

I think things are changing, and more younger women are putting off having babies and being better educated when they do have babies. I think the change will be slow, but it is coming.

I'm getting hit with stupid at work too.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

That is what the meat industry wants everyone to believe. The reality is gross and one of the reasons I eat less meat.

Joe Scarborough Reports trump has Early Dementia

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

Fuck, it ain't early dementia. It is just dementia, the man is 70. Early dementia would be prior to 50. He may be in the early stages of dementia, but I doubt even that. I think it's pretty advanced.

For those from a religious background, what is one positive thing you have taken away from your ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

At one time I was a fairly well educated lay leader (laity; as opposed to clergy). The best thing about being literate in the bible and various christian teachings is I can spot BS a mile away. I know when someone is twisting scripture to fit their agenda. I call out BS when I hear it, and usually correct it, though now I need to google it.

Another political funny-funny. She has a point.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:

LOL! Truly I can't imagine that Der Drumpf would even care about satisfying his partners. His life is all about him, he gets his rocks off, he's satisfied. As for his wives, they're just window dressing, he doesn't give a damn about them. He can't, he has no emotional capacity, no empathy.

Humanists Stop Bible Distribution in Elementary School - American Humanist Association

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Yay for the Humanists!

School of Life

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Child rearing and managing a family.

Does cloudy, rainy weather make you tired?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I used to live in the Pacific Northwest, Seattle/Tacoma/Everett area. Yeah sometimes the dark days got me down. Truthfully, I am happier on cloudy days right now. It means I won't have the sun in my eyes when I drive to and from work.

You can now adjust what types of posts show up on the main page by clicking the "gear" icon and ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

How cool! I appreciate your efforts and I'm enjoying being here!

Someone just asked about the educational level of this group.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

That's really cool!!

What do you think of Wicca?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I have always thought I'd be a kick ass witch. Oh wait... I am already a witch... depending whom you speak with, but I'm not a Wiccan. If it makes someone happy or a better person I'm all for it.

If you could travel anywhere for free right now where would you go?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Cuenca, Ecuador because it is very near the equator. I am told it has all four seasons in one day. It is on my bucket list to visit.

Anthropomorphism & God How do your religious friends wrap their mind around a god that both: ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Yeah, I knew too many folks that prayed to find close in parking spots, and I wondered why god bothered with their parking issues when there were wars going on and children starving.

How do you motivate yourself?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

You've got to want to do it more than you want to do the other stuff you're doing. I don't know, I have a ton of stuff to put on eBay and a shortage of time. And sitting on my a** with FB and this site isn't helping.

Does anyone else see that invisible sign in front of every big fancy church that says,"Your tax ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

No, it would be your tax dollars NOT at work, it ain't doing anyone any good except us and especially our pastor.

Should churches pay taxes? Ask Pat Robertson.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

OMG YES!!

Ruth Bader Ginsberg slaps trump in the face when he tells her to resign.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

She is my hero!!

I think that almost anyone who has logic and can think freely will end up as an ‘A.’

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Very nice

Trumps first year

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

He is a dangerous immature twit and an embarrassment to the US.

New research on plant intelligence may forever change how you think about plants | Public Radio ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

When my tomatoes can move out of the way of my grabbing hands then I will consider not eating them. Until such time sun ripened tomatoes are the very taste of sunshine and I will not forgo that for anyone or anything.

Weddings in churches

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I think it is the fairy tale wedding that little girls have grown up with, at least in the US. And seriously churches are set up for weddings. Its traditional as well.

Religious Homosexuals?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Because god is love. Because that is not a correct translation of that passage. And hell, aren't most of the christians fornicators? And theives? And covetous, etc, etc.

A lot of the religious people look down on atheist people and consider them to be immoral.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Because they think you need god to be good. Supposedly the fear of hell and eternal damnation is needed before you can do the right thing. They haven't realized you can be good just because it is the right thing to do and you're note an immoral idiot. And I could go on but my soapbox is smoldering.

Do you use colloquialisms like “good lord” or “oh my god” despite them having religious ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I try not to swear, a good deal of my job is on the phone and I don't need "coaching" for swearing. Also being around small children, I don't want them repeating what they shouldn't be saying. But yes, I used OMG and JC and a few other choice phrases. When in traffic with moronic drivers all bets are off.

You all are so much fun! Just wanted to thank you for the entertainment, debate, and insight.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

This site has great folks and great conversations!!

A song about Donald Trump.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

very well done

American Gods: This novel is a big metaphor and great example of the gods we create.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I just put a hold on it at my library.

There's an old wartime saying that "there are no atheists in foxholes.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I have been in foxholes, there are plenty of atheists in them. But the primitive core of our being will cry out when under duress, and we are programmed by our upbringing that there is a god and under stressful or extreme conditions might cry out using that name. Like "oh god" when aroused. I was rear ended this fall, and the first thing out of my mouth was "jesus" which was followed by an unspoken "f**king christ. That wasn't a prayer and I try not to say that phrase out loud. Last winter I discovered I swear in German, my car went into a slide on ice and as I got closer to the bumper of the car in front of me I was saying "oh shit" in German. Its been 30 years since I was in Germany! It is a fluke of the subconscious programmed into us by previous life experiences.

Has anyone seen the commercial for the Wonder Bible. An audio version of the bible for believers?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I am thankful that I don't have cable TV and therefore do not have to watch commercials.

Would you run for office as a non believer?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I have considered a run for office, but I would not make my beliefs an issue.

Best space and astronomy images of 2017 - Business Insider

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Nice.

I am guessing the educational level in this group is higher than average. True or not?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I think if we aren't formally educated we've been educating ourselves and have some critical thinking skills.

Photos of the Week: Chilly Days, a Bearskin Parade, Ready for 2018 - The Atlantic

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Wow!! Amazing

Michael Wolff Did What Every Other White House Reporter Is Too Cowardly to Do

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

It can't happen too soon!

Religious liberty group says 'militant atheism' driving effort to remove cross

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Wah, wah, wah.

Anthropology top findings 2017 - SAPIENS

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Wow, pretty amazing! All those religious freaks are going to try to debunk it, or ignore it.

With a telecom shill currently leading the FCC, Net Neutrality has been effectively repealed.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

My congressman's head is so far up the ass of the industry it has disappeared. However, I have sent faxes and made calls. Won't go down without a fight.

The latest Star Wars movie doesn't dwell a lot on The Force, but it did remind me of something.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Our humanness connects us all, we are all on this globe together and we all are composed of the same elements. Skin color and religion don't matter.

A god is just an idea held by similarly-minded people, and, as such, can be fashioned to meet ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Gaia, I prefer female gods.

I saw this on a humor site. Your thoughts?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

in his book God: A Human History the author says much the same thing. We have created our gods in our image and that image has changed over the millennia.

Dating.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

One of my daughters gave me rules for dating. Must be closer to my age than to the age of my oldest. Currently I'm 60 and oldest is 33, So to be safe must not be younger than 47. And really, I'm not much interested in younger guys. As for how high to go, it depends on the health of the gentleman. Some guys have one foot in the grave at 60, and some 80 years olds are still going strong.

Food—what’s your story?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I cook from scratch because I am too cheap to eat out and I want to control what I am eating. I eat quasi vegetarian most of the time. I eat eggs, some dairy, fish. I avoid cheap wheat products and try to stay organic where I can. I grow some of my own foods. I don't bake much anymore. I cook on weekends and freeze portions for lunches during the week, and for breakfasts. Dinner will be whatever is on hand that sounds good. I eat lots of nuts while I am at work, and sometimes at home or while I'm out and about. I try (sometimes better than others) to avoid sugar which is another reason to cook from scratch. And when you cook for one and usually eat alone I don't put a great deal of effort into it. When the kids come over for dinner I will make an effort and then have leftovers for days. Pre-divorce I did more baking and cooking, but I was a stay at home mom, and had time for it.

I don't know what you all think about devotion in relationships, but here's my take: aside from ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Relationships are living organisms, they need attention and care.

I believe that the NSA, FBI, CIA, etc.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

We do live in interesting times. Stressful as hell, but interesting.

Are you spiritual?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I used to say I was more spiritual than religious. Now I'm not religious at all and probably not very spiritual.

Anyone care to Share?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I went with my Catholic Hispanic boyfriend to a service at a non denominational mostly black church at the invitation of a friend of mine. These people were ACTIVE!! in their worship. There was dancing, there was speaking in tongues, there was clapping, stomping, standing, and rocking! BF was freaking out! I leaned over to him and said, "Relax baby, remember we're the frozen chosen."

I don't usually make political posts but..... This one is good for a chuckle.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

He needs to make shorter sentences and far, far less frequency. And NEVER on Twitter.

Who among us has cut the proverbial TV cord?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I cancelled cable after I saw Ted Cruz's face in my living room during the Iowa primary. I have a Roku, I stream Netflix and Amazon Prime and a few other. I have DVD and other stuff I don't remember the TLAs for. All in all I watch less than 5 hours of TV per week. Best part, No commercials.

CREATURE KIND

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Bottom line: if I don't eat I die. We're all a big circle of life. We feed on plants and other animals. Other animals might feed on us if they get a chance, hopefully with our "superior" minds that won't happen. When those animals (including us) die we decompose and eventually feed the plants and other organisms. My choice is to eat as close to natural as possible. I eat less meat because I don't like the meat industry in the US. I eat plants of all types and I choose to eat non gmo and organic when I can. I also compost and have a worm box, so what I don't eat or cook of the plants is returned to nourish future plants. My bottom line is I have to keep me as healthy as possible. I had to increase my animal protein due to anemia, so I eat more eggs and somewhat more fish. It also has to be convenient for me to cook/prepare it. I do garden during the summer, I avoid cheap wheat products as frequently the wheat is treated with Roundup prior to harvest to speed up the harvest. IMHO Monsanto (maker of roundup) is an evil corporation. When my kids come for dinner I have cook meat, but usually not pork. One of the kids won't eat pork and the Sons-in-law think meat is necessary. If you're going to live a healthy life you're going to have to drink water regardless of the tiny creatures. I think you can eat a vegan diet and be healthy. If you choose not to brush your teeth you will have to deal with the consequences. Do plants have rights, not in my opinion. As for micro-organisms, nope, I'm going to do what is best for me.

I just ran across a holy tradition of which I was previously unaware.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

Ewwww, no. That sounds like child abuse.

The Missing Piece Meets the Big O: Shel Silverstein’s Sweet Allegory for the Simple Secret of Love...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

That is so perfect!! I have a granddaughter and another grandchild on the way. I need to get this book for them, and for ME!

What are your thoughts on Hypnosis?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:

I have considered trying hypnosis, just time and money. There were/are times I seem to be my own worst enemy, it would be good to be able to avoid that. I'd be willing to give it a try.

Religion VS Atheism by Ricky Gervais

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Fabulous, thanks for posting this.

I just tried a simple experiment.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I think at 22 she still lacks some perspective, but really can we ever know how we'd be different if we were raised differently? And is it something we can change? That answer is no, so it is what it is, we just have to deal with it. My life would have been totally different had my mom not died or my dad not rushed into a second marriage. But it made me what I am and I'm OK, or even better than OK. Don't sweat what you can't change.

Do have friends to keep you entertained, or do you entertain yourself?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I live alone except for my cats. I do work full time and I have grown kids in the area. However, I have always entertained myself, and I made sure my kids could entertain themselves. They only told me once or twice that they were bored. I'd find something really boring for them to do or just cleaning their room. I have books, crafts, hobbies, a yard/garden/house to take care of. And then there are the cats, they are great entertainment most of the time. I used to say I was never bored, I just had trouble making up my mind of which project to work on.

Well I've only just begun on this wonderful site and the folk on here seem like the right stuff to ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Welcome!! Glad you're here.

QUOTE: 'That which can be asserted without evidence, can be dismissed without evidence'.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I like it!

Stable Genius.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Perfect!!

This afternoon I was informed of my good friend’s death.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope it was a good death, no suffering.

Would Christianity be as popular if Jesus were portrayed more accurately?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I am positive that buybull thumpers would not be happy to see Jesus this way. We create gods in our image, therefore he must look just like us, regardless of where the buybull says he was born.

Can you all deal with an atheist Nichiren Buddhist?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

As far as I am concerned, yes.

Sexual relationship or relationship with sex?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I don't want FWB. I want a meaningful relationship, there needs to be some partnership and commitment. I don't plan to compromise, so I expect to be single for quite a while yet.

Today is Three Kings Day.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

This is also the 12th day of Christmas. When I lived in Germany 30+ years ago I discovered it was also a German holiday. I had taken a short trip to visit friends, and my car needed gas to get home. I had to drive miles and miles to find an open station. Who knew. It is also known as the Epiphany, the day when the three kings visited "baby" Jesus.

Kids sometimes

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I took it to mean that the kids are not with you full time.

Sometimes little wins are important.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Woot!! Progress!

Dating after 50

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Dating after is a nightmare. I read an article before I initiated my divorce that for women over 50, men were looking for "nurses with purses". I did it anyway. And yes, I live in a conservative Republif**k state, so the pickings are slim for a radical, liberal, hippie chick.

Atheist Books

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I just finished God: A Human History, it was excellent.

It takes a village to rescue a trapped kitten - Chicago Tribune

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Awwww!!

How can atheists profit from spreading the good word

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Well, actually you could try writing a book about the advantages of reality and non belief. I'm not sure it would ever sell.....

Just got a call from my 90 yr old mother.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I would have said "Thank you for the reminder, Mother. I will consider what you have said." and then let it go. It upsets you, she will never change or admit to wrong doing. Don't let her get a rise out of you, be as non committal and non confrontational as possible. Remember, they can't hurt you physically any more, and you can minimize the emotional hurt by disengaging. I am sorry you had such a crappy childhood, however you're stronger for it.

I stopped watching tv in 2011 after I couldn't afford it anymore.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I cut the cable during the Iowa primaries for the 2016 election. I looked up from my laptop to see Ted Cruz's face in my living room and said that HAS to go. I got a Roku streaming stick. I keep the radio on 24/7 at least in part of the house. I don't watch TV most of the time, when I want to I have Amazon Prime, Netflix, TED channel and a bunch of others. And then I have DVDs and stuff I'm no longer sure what format it is, I just know which machine to put it in. I might spend 5 hours a week watching TV if it is a holiday week or I am taking time off work. I have books and other hobbies to take me away from the TV.

I love the term Flattards for people who believe in a flat earth.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

The earth is not flat and I can prove it. Cats. Cats would have pushed everything and everyone over the edge already.

Ginsburg Slaps Gorsuch in Gerrymandering Case | The New Yorker

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I love RBG! One of my kids has a T-shirt with RBG on it, I gave it to her, she loves it!! We have to find the fountain of youth because it will be a sad day for America when RBG passes on.

My puppy, Monty, is 10 years old today .

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

What a sweet little face, just makes me want to kiss him! Happy Birthday, Monty!! We share a birthday, but I've had lots more of those damn things than you!!

I do custom artwork and I have people who ask me to do religious pieces every now and then.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

The objective is to stay employed not to push an agenda. What you're doing is not illegal, immoral, or breaking any laws, I'd say go for it. If it keeps you up at night then that was a bad choice, but hell, it pays the bills.

Telepathy - Science or Superstition?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I don't believe telepathy exists. I think people can thinks similar thoughts, and I believe people can know each other well enough to know what the other will think in a given situation. I believe you can train people to react in certain ways to certain prompts.

Do you think that some people just pretend to be non believers to "rebel" against parents, ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

I think some people will do anything for drama, so yes it is possible.

Where is your stance on tattoos?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If you like it, it is your body, just understand it is there forever. I have one, and am contemplating a second. I don't disagree with your ex about waiting til they are 18. One of my kids got her first in college and now she regrets it. She did good at hiding it from her dad for many years. He wanted her to wait til she was no longer on his insurance.

I don't believe this.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 5, 2018:

Prayers ain't gonna help. If she leaves the US she may never get back in. That was a waste of a plane ticket.

Fill in the blanks-Going from Obama to Trump was like going from a ___________ to a ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 5, 2018:

Like going from Tiffany's to Walmart

Anger Management

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 5, 2018:

Golden puppies are my favorite puppies.

Have You Ever Had A Sexual Relationship With A Co-Worker?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 5, 2018:

WAY way way back in the dark ages of my life, when I was very young and stupid, and in the Army, I did hook up with a fellow soldier a few times. Once or twice it was a superior. No lasting repercussions, someone was either transferring in our out, or I was too oblivious to notice.