How do you deal with Door-knockers?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

If I am not expecting anyone I might not answer the door. My kids know to call before they head my way, and they know how to get in. And then if I do answer the door I'm pretty good with saying "get the hell off my porch."

I'm interested in what everyone thinks about morality.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I believe I can be good without god. Just because I don't believe in god doesn't mean I have no morals. I do unto others and generally try not to be a turd. And I think I do a damn good job.

So I went to lunch with my mom and sis today and told them about this website and how happy I was ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

It is good that you got to be open about your beliefs

Do We Need God?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Nope, we don't need god, and I think the world would be better off if we got rid of religions.

My favorite part of the Bible are when jeues is alone talking to God ( himself) and someone who ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Yeah, creative writing for sure. Love the bumper sticker!

Just a thought, has anybody ever watched these TV programmes that have sprung up about trying to ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I have some friends who have a hobby of debunking ghost sightings. I'm not sure what or how they do it, but they keep busy. Personally I don't believe in ghosts, never have. I think people who believe in ghosts are deluded or a few bricks shy of a full load.

I've come to the conclusion that the reason my cat can be so pissy is because she's nature's perfect...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I love my kitties! I got a cat last February that is approximately two years old now. And two weeks ago I got a six month old kitten. They are still settling in, lots of hisses and spitting. They're getting better. I will always live with at least one cat. When I can't have a cat I don't want to hang around.

Why do people believe that there is a afterlife?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I think it is partly brainwashing, and partly wanting to believe something will be better in your life. Yes, when you look at religions rationally, god is really a mean freak.

Feels good to be here. Finally I found a place where I feel safe to share my views. Proud agnostic

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Yay!! Welcome!!

We were all humans untIl....

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Amen and Amen!!

While in a public restroom, you hear someone crying/sobbing in a stall nearby. What do you do?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I'm 60, I'm a mom and grandmother, I'm a feminist, and a Mama Bear. When I hear a cub in trouble I'm going to get nosy. I'm going to make sure they are OK, and I'm going to make sure they can get to someplace safe. That's what Mama Bears do.

Play is widespread in animals, and all but universal in mammals, especially the smart ones.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Totally true!! I have my granddaughter coming over shortly and we are going to play with balls and soft toys and just work her little brain! She's a year old. Play is work for babies.

I'd like to see an assortment of groups added to this site. How about you?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Do you mean like a Midwest group? Or a Stitch and Bitch group. A Baby Boomer group? A cat lovers group? How are we/you defining groups?

Maybe I read too many space operas as a kid.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Looking back on life and knowing history, mankind has been around for a while. We change constantly and there is no guarantee that we will continue to exist. All I am sure of is that you and your generation have a hell of a task in front of you. Good luck.

They must have had a budget cut in the advertising department ... ;)

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Wow!! So appealing....

Wait a minute ....

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

LOL! I hope you didn't pay much for that.

Embarrassed

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Why would you be embarrassed? They're ignorant. You are enlightened, be proud of that. When others pray I sit quietly and let them get through their nonsense ritual. I am respectful of other's beliefs, but I will not be diminished in any way that I don't share it.

I find that most churches have agendas.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Churches operate like any sales organization they sell motivation and identity. They have to get you pumped up and eager, and you need to go back every week to get a new fix. I

I think it's ironic that religious voters actually back policies that are a mix of Social Darwinism ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I don't think they notice the cognitive dissonance. I think you have to be self aware to notice cognitive dissonance, and I don't think they have that quality.

I just wanted to say hello from a tiny blue dot in a stupid, red state.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I spent several years in Overland Park. One of my kids started the Young Democrats at Blue Valley West HighSchool. Then we moved back in time about 50 years to Omaha, NE in 2005. I didn't think she'd ever forgive us for that. Then the governor messed the state up and we're really glad to have escaped. I loved OP. Welcome to this group, it is a nice place to hang out.

A man sees a boy with a box of kittens The man goes over and says "Oh what cute kittens!" The boy ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

LOL!! Love it!

Appearances

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I don't care what I look like, I've never thought I was pretty or cared about it. I want to be accepted for who I am. If that makes me more attractive to someone I guess that is good. Beauty if in the eye of the beholder. I'd rather be a good person with great character, a smart, caring, loyal person than be a beautiful person who has no character, smarts, compassion, or empathy. The only thing I really care about looks wise is I don't want to scare small children.

If Agnostic had a potluck, what would you bring?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

deviled eggs, might throw in some caviar if I win a lottery.

Have you ever been told "you got lucky" when talking about your children?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I worked awfully damned hard to get lucky. My kids are amazing now, but I worked with them and was there for them, and I was a "mean" mom that held them accountable and kept them from doing stupid stuff and gave them enough room to do stupid stuff with some safety. My less than humble opinion is in parenting, you don't get lucky. You do the work. Dog trainers will tell you a person gets the dog they deserve. I put time and effort into training my dog too, he was awesome. Same as my kids. There are some things I couldn't change. The youngest takes the easy way out and is very laid back, too laid back, kinda flaky. But there is only so much you can do. She's not horrible. Nature vs Nurture.

EqualIty Is not enough! - youtube

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Feminists don't hate men.

11 ‘Old Fashioned’ Home Remedies Our Grandparents Used That Actually Work » eDrugSearch.com

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I'm pretty sure my grand parents did not use duct tape for warts. The were born in 1905 and 1902, and duct tape came into being in WWII, I did not even see duct tape til I was in HS or beyond.

Texas Judge Jack Robison says God told him to speak up for defendant

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

well, couldn't view your article becuase an ad popped up and told me I had to pay for access.

You voted what?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

The thing is.... I will never ever remarry. There is no benefit to marriage for me, in fact I would sustain a financial loss to remarry. I just want a long term shack up. My kids would be fine with it. I need someone I can talk to about everything. Someone who is conservative or religious is just going to piss me off. I am amicable with my ex and we are together for kids birthdays, holidays, and now grand babies. We get along fine until he starts talking politics or religion, or quite a few other things. We have a few things we can discuss. I leave those extended family occasions thinking how glad I am that I (1) didn't kill him, and (2) am no longer married to him. Miss the money, not the man.

No problem folks we'll get thIs all cleaned up

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

That is perfect!! I can't wait til this is over!!

Women's March!

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I am staying home this year, not feeling up to snuff. Last year I marched with 2 of my girls and their partners, the third had just gotten out of the hospital so she had an out.

I need a little advice, can you help me?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Make a pre-emptive move, let your boss know your ex is harassing you and may try to contact her. Tell her most of what you told us, but edit the stuff she really doesn't need to know.

Am I alone?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I have not been in a relationship for years. I live alone by choice, had a roommate and after that person moved out did not replace. There are far worse things than being alone.

Natural Selection, or Universal Healthcare?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

What is the price of human life? What is the price to society of neglecting health? The Tide pod issue is not a healthcare issue, it is a marketing and social media issue. When heathcare is rationed the health of the population suffers and it costs more in the long run. ERs are used for primary care which wastes their resources. If every citizen has access to health care and can take care of their basic health, medical costs will drop. For example, if diabetes is treated properly it will avoid endless complications. ERs frequently end up treating and admitting poor diabetic individuals who end up with emergency amputations and other complications. That is NOT a good use of resources. The US is so far behind the rest of the world in this aspect it is shameful.

Hi! I'm so glad there is a website for people like us now.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Through my work I deal with some religious organizations. I hear or read "have a blessed day" or similar comments frequently. I just let them roll on past. Don't get your garters in a knot for something trivial. I don't make it a habit to discuss my religion or lack thereof at work, or much of anyplace else. I know you're in a conservative area, I used to live in the KC area. My policy is to share on a "need to know" basis. Do they need this information, or do I need to put it out there? Usually not. Just like if I had a medical condition, ie: Would it affect someone negatively to know I had Herpes? Not that I do. Also, consider the intention, they're wishing you well. Welcome to the site, I think you will like it here.

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HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I remember reading Von Daniken in high school, I even wrote my senior thesis on his book. OMG, that stuff is still floating around.

I still don’t understand how religion works.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

In a nutshell. You convince someone an imaginary being is watching over you, you have to keep him happy, here are the rules, you give him money via me, and when you die you get rewards beyond your wildest imaginings. People are soooo gullible, this has been going on for millennia.

Is it never to late to start all over again?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I haven't reached that point yet, or do you mean my marriage? For my marriage it was when I was spending my first waking moments and my final moments before sleep trying to figure out how to make it look like an accident. And how to survive on what I was able to earn, and how I didn't really want to deprive my kids of anything. I tried for a very long time, the kids tell me it was too long.

Make your own seasoning?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

What is in the Accent? I try to keep all my products natural.

Do you make your own smoked sea salt?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Now that is something that I could get into. I love doing for myself what others will pay big bucks for. And I know my kids would love to receive it.

Hey guys, just for fun. Americans, do not kill me. [youtu.be]

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

LOL!! I was in England many years ago. I was amazed that I did not understand my own language. And I agree about the metric system.

Money

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I'm not looking for wealth, but I'm also not willing or able to take on a dependent. I am looking for financially stable. Money doesn't make you happy, but lack of money is stressful.

God as literatures greatest villain.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Oh fer sure, for a god who "loves" us, he has a damn freaky way of showing it.

Getting there in a hurry.... [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Interesting.

More History... [youtube.com]

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I love history!

Where you ever a Pentecostal or Charismatic Christian?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I think I was in a charismatic church twice. Once I was there with a BF that was catholic. The congregants were all dancing, shouting, and clapping. He was seriously alarmed. I leaned closer to him and told him "relax, remember we're the frozen chosen."

This must really suck! Birthdays are always supposed to be fun!

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

LOL!! My birthday is a holiday in Germany and other European countries, so I feel his pain.

What makes you more likely to live to 100?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I am not sure I want to live to be 100. My goal is to live as long as I have money to do what I want to do, and as long as I can keep doing what I want to do. If I lose my eyesight I may as well shuffle off. I like to sew, read, do crafts. I'm very visual.

Zeitgeist Film Series

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I've seen at least the first. I thought it was great. It solidified what I was already thinking.

I have given this next topic a great deal of thought.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Two of my three daughters are avowed atheists, though one is married to a catholic. #3 goes to church to make daddy happy. (he has money and they live with him for various reasons for them and him) I have told my kids to do what makes them happy. If they want to a casket and funeral, or if they want to let the state handle it. I am not going to be there, I don't really care. It won't be me anymore. I do like the idea of a tree growing out of my remains though. I'm not the party type. I have a friend who wants pregnant nuns at his funeral. Several of his lady friend are to obtain habits and strap on a pillow. I think a post-menopausal pregnant nun would be hysterical.

How hard is it to compliment people instead of critizing?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

I don't think it is a one size fits all situation. In my work day I frequently have to contact HR departments for additional information. Once in a while they respond in seconds, and I always try to thank them and let them know how amazing I think that is. It is tax time and HR departments and my company are swamped, so turn around time of many days is more the norm. I try to say something good as soon as there is something good to say. The other side of that is something I got from Lord Mountbatten many years ago. "Never complain, never explain." The never explain I usually don't get to skip, but only complain if it is truly constructive.

How do I increase my level???

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

From your home screen, click on your star that shows your level. That will take you to a screen where it will show you your points and how to get more points. And just chat, comment, like, makes posts. It adds up pretty fast until you get to level 7. Then it is like swimming in molasses.

1998:in 20 years we’ll have flying cars! 2018 we literally have to tell people not to eat Tide ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

LOL! Yeah it is so sad. MAGA isn't working! The knowledge that in a few years my caregivers are going to be people that ate Tide pods makes me scared, very scared.

Have you ever awakened & wondered how you got there?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Now that I think about it, 1979 in Okinawa, no booze, booty, or anything. Woke up and could not figure out where I was or why I was there. Weirdest feeling ever! I worked rotating shifts, so I was sleeping during the daytime. It was like I had total amnesia for a few minutes. Then I saw something I'd had for a long time and all the memories fell back into place. Sort of like seeing your whole life flash in front of your eyes. I've never experienced that again, but I remember that feeling of disorientation, kind of out of body or who am I experience.

Have you ever awakened & wondered how you got there?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Not for a long, long time. When I was young and in the Army, and really foolish, I had a few nights that I wasn't sure how I got back to my room, and other times that I didn't know how a few tchotchkes got broken. I was lucky that back when I was young and foolish the STD rate was really low.

If you could live anywhere for a year, where would you choose?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

At one time I considered Cuenca, Ecuador for a retirement spot. It is close to the equator, gets all four seasons in one day, friendly to expats, and cheap. Then my daughter had a baby. Now another daughter is having a baby. I don't think I want to go anyplace for a year where I can't take the babies. Well, the parents too cuz I'm done with full time baby stuff. But I want to be nearby to see the babies grow up.

Hidden naughty image in children's religious book...!

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 20, 2018:

HAHAHAHAHA!! This is tooo perfect!

Hello. I'm new here.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

Welcome to the site.

With this site now open, do you consider Facebook to be redundant now?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

No, I still have friends on FB that would not be comfortable here.

"Sometime we don't cry because something is sad.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

I like that, very apt.

How many of you are going to the Women's March and in what city if you are?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

I went last year in Omaha. I don't think I will have time to go this year, very busy weekend.

"Is God willing to prevent evil, but not able?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

I have a crib quilt I am making for a baby due in May. My second grandchild. If I didn't have to work it would get done so much faster.

A Guy Walks Into a Bar With a Monkey - Sean Connery

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

LOL!

A Republican Friend Said if I can Just Find The Lord...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

Oh HURL!!

Does anyone know if this is real? Can anyone explain this?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

Are they playing?

AGAIN with the blessings.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

The first cracks in my faith appeared when someone was talking about praying for a parking space, or praying for new clothes. We who live in a land of plenty, and their are real needs, and you're wasting time praying for non essentials... And then I found this photo, and it coalesced.

Remember that controversial monkey sweatshirt from H&M? They've just come up with a new one.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

Love it!

Political Humor in the Oval Office

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

LOL!! Don't we wish!

Congrats on becoming a Level 6 member! The perk for level 6 is that you can see comments and ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 19, 2018:

Woot!!

Saw a post about rich evangelists what the fuck , if they can make money out of us , so they can ...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 18, 2018:

Sometimes I wish I had larceny in my heart, and I would start my own church or a blog and pander to the worst of the conservative "christian" crowd and milk them for what they're worth.

I suspect a scammer in my messages, what should I do?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 18, 2018:

I will give someone the benefit of the doubt, and then I might toy with them, and then I shut them down.

Shadow dancers. Why is sex such a turncoat topic?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 18, 2018:

Yes, men are assaulted by women, it does happen. However men are stronger so it doesn't happen as often. Yes, sex can be awkward, and frequently it is. But it can also be wonderful.

If necessary to testify in court would you put your hand on the bible?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 18, 2018:

Sure, I know it is just a book, it isn't going to affect me and it is a tradition of the courts.

This is a spin-off of a man's post... Ladies, do you buy condoms and do you enforce their use?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 18, 2018:

I have never bought condoms. And last time I got any, no I didn't ask for condoms to be used. When I was in my prime we didn't use condoms, STDs were not an issue. I never got in the condom habit. Its been a while since I had a need for a condom, if I kept them on hand they'd probably expire :(

How do you let your hair go grey gracefully?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 18, 2018:

I just turned 60 and I have very few grays, just good genes I guess. My sisters are younger and grayer than I am. I am a natural blond, it's gotten darker as I get older. I don't color my hair. My grandmother started going gray at 24ish, it coincided with the great depression, or so she told us. I figure if I get em, I get em.

What's Sacred to You?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 18, 2018:

Babies, well all life. First do no harm.

Wow now at level 5 in 4 days so at this rate it will take me 8,000 days to reach level 10.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 18, 2018:

So, 8000 days is like 21 years.... good luck with that.

Life Hacks. Are any of them good?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 18, 2018:

I don't know about "life hacks" but I am frugal. I make my own soap, lip balms, lotions, deodorant, and toothpaste. I cook from scratch and eat as close to natural as possible. I reuse, reduce, recycle. I avoid plastics, I have stainless steel water bottles and straws. I shop at estate sales for stuff I can reuse. I also grow some of my own foods. Tomatoes fresh from the garden are so much better than grocery store varieties. They taste like sunshine.

What age should be the age of legal consent for sex?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I think maturity and age do not go hand in hand, but I know legally there is no way to measure maturity. I also want children to be children and to prevent childhood (innocence) from ending too early. So I think 18 is good. The same age that you are old enough to vote and have other adult privileges. When I was 18 that was also the legal drinking age.

How long has everyone been single. For me it's been over 2 years.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I've been divorced since 2009. I've had a LTR post divorce. So totally single for over 5 years.

Materialism.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

Geebus. If you're scared of parking lot dings, expect a longer walk.

Anyone get married to the same person twice?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

Nope. It is bad enough to have to be be amicable with the father of my children, no way I'd consider remarrying him. And my first ex, ewwww. That was one of the stupidest mistakes I ever made. Luckily I was young and had plenty of time to recover. No children with him, he's only a bad memory.

I look at this group as my own little hippie commune.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

Cool!! Me too!! So nice to be able to say what I want to say and not worry about anyone getting their feelings hurt.

If you could become a musical virtuoso, what instrument would you play?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

Piano, so much you can do with it.

Pat Robertson: Non-Religious Children Should Be Beaten Until They Respect Christian Beliefs

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I'd like to beat Pat Robertson until he's a... Nah, too much effort. He is a pissy old man that is going to be dead soon, but not soon enough.

Are You Dominant Or Submissive?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I'm pretty laid back and don't have the energy/too busy to really give a rip. Til you mess with my kids and then Mama Bear takes over and there is lots of blood. When my oldest was in college she bought a textbook on a book exchange site, she needed to have me buy it to use my credit card. The seller sent the wrong book, kid asked me to deal with the seller. The seller sent her an email scolding her for asking me to help. I wrote one of the most eviscerating email I had ever written, and was very polite about it. The seller sent the right book, and told us to never contact her again.

How comfortable are you with the idea of same gender sex?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

Love is love, can't have enough in this old world. As long as everyone is legal age and of fairly sound mind, has consented, and it is private I don't think it is anyone else's business.

What are the ground rules in dating?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I have suggested meeting to guys on dating sites. I am all for meeting face to face . We can go dutch but it should be discussed. I still expect to do dates but I am open to what that means. Probably not to sex on first dates.

Best thing about sex besides an orgasm ?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

The connection, the endorphins, the oxytocin. the bonding. I want the naked soul, the true intimacy.

I woke up this morning singing "Dear God" by XTC in my head.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

the one last in my head was El Shaddai, good tune and some of the lyrics are challenging. It has been years since I sang it, but I saw a reference to El Shaddai and the words came back to me. I guess I don't often wake up to songs in my head anymore.

Are shorter people respected the same as taller people

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I have read over the years that taller is better for promotions, for getting the job, and for dating success. As for me, I have come to realize that I want continent, breathing, intelligent, tolerant, and sense of humor. Height is not a good measure of what kind of person one is. Yes, I've seen men looking for tall slim gals. Well, be happy with that stick, I have curves and got built way too close to the sidewalk. The tall gene skipped me. My grandmother (born in 1905) was 5 foot 11 inches.

In North Korea the People are Forced to Listen to Propaoganda..

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

That was one of the causes of my divorce, the ex watched Fox news.

Republican Jesus Says.....

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I hate Republican Jesus.

Plans Are Already Being Made For The trumpty dumpty Library

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

LOL!! Even that is too classy for him.

Ok folks-I think its coming-a govt shutdown What do you think?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I don't wanna think about it.

Favorite book?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I don't know if I have a favorite, and I know if I did it has changed over time. Last year I read over 40 books. (goodreads.com will help you track them.) Too many books, so little time. Really, so very little time. I can't choose just one.

What He Says Vs.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

LOVE IT!!

Nambia's President is so pissed at trump .......

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

LOL!!

Did you ever go to overnite camp as a kid?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

LOL, my first overnight camping was in the Army. I don't think that counts, but to be fair I was still a teenager. OK 19.

Hot Dog Restaurant's New Sign

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

Love it!! I might even eat there, I usually avoid hot dogs.

This is a light hearted post.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 17, 2018:

I have gotten high with one of my kids.