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This is the current male love of my life, he's 8 months old and soon will call me Grammy.
Agnostic, Atheist, Humanist, Secularist, Skeptic, Freethinker
Open to meeting men

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Do you still subscribe to any dating sites or tired of them?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
All I get is scammers and liars. Or unemployed and want a sugar mama. I dropped off all dating sites in the last month.
Crafters: What’s more satisfying?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I am the Queen of unfinished projects. I've done better lately, but I've still got a cross stitch I was working on when I MET my ex, and we were married over 25 years and have been divorced about 10. I did finish the baby quilt, and finished it before the baby was born. Oh, that reminds me, the x-stitch sampler for my youngest baby never did get finshed, she's 26.
OKAY....I've come to a realization about something. Relationships. Any kind....love, business, ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Some people would rather be right than be kind. Winning at all cost is not winning. The question Ann Landers used to ask was: Are you better off with them or without them?
PA has made legal and will use it for opioid addiction. They also said by summer, they plan on ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I hope you find the relief you need.
I see the new Trump action figures are in. Just the right gift for that really bad little boy or ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Now I may never be able to close my eyes again... :(
Why are you a loner?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I've always been a bit of an introvert and shy, socially awkward. And growing up poor, plump, and smater than most of my classmates didn't help, and the witch from hell that my dad married after my mom died thought we shouldn't have any life after school hours besides working. Since I was 19 I have moved over 20 times. I joined the Army out of HS to get the hell out of my dad's house. I went from over protected to wild and crazy. Then I married to a service member and got out of the service, and became a stay at home mom. The military while overseas and then having kids in elementary school and churches gave us our social life. And becasue we did move frequently it meant we lost friends at the same time. Once out of the military community I learned that cliques still exist, adults can be cruel as ever, and I was usually an outsider. Depression didn't help. I was glad when the kids were no longer in scouts or sports, or school activities. So post divorce, living alone, my kids are most of my social life. I keep to myself at work, most of my co-workers are younger than me. I don't like noisy places and I'm cheap so I avoid the cafeteria, and usually eat at my desk. I've made some acquaintances at work, ladies my age. I have a friend from a fomer job that we schedule time together, but they keep changing her schedule. I have a meet up group of Humanists that I attend some meetings. If I need a social activity I can find it, but for the most part, I am resigned to my own company. With my baby girls Zelda and Xena I have great witty conversations, a tad one sided but whatcha gonna do. I am content with the status quo, or I tell myself I am. People change when the pain of staying the same is greater than the pain of changing. I'm not to the point of changing anything yet.
Is this dating in 2018?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Maybe it is good I'm not expecting to be dating anymore.
What are you eating?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Cauliflower tabbouleh. Not bad, but I think in 30 days I'd be slimmer and lacking in protein.
Rolling Papers?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Hurl! Like eating detergent pods.
For those actively looking for a companion/more where did you find your success?:
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I don't look at work, there are few in my age range, and most of those are married. I recently dropped off of all dating sites. I don't regard this as a dating site. So IF I find a date it will be completely random. I'm not holding my breath.
Has anyone had success with moonflower vine? And if so, can you give your general location? I've ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I grew them in Louisiana, I loved them.
I will predict that the reason that both Cohen's and Trump's lawyers die not want to reveal ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
Interesting premise. Will be interesting to see how it plays out, if I can stand it.
Oh, man! do I miss these two...angus and francis, brothers. 19 pounders..super sharp and funny. ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 17, 2018:
I miss Spooky, who was there when my kids grew up. Then Millie who took them to adulthood. Nikko my cat from childhood. He was a tough old tom in a family with 6 kids. Then Cocoa, a Siamese that "followed" my brother home from work one night. She was the first cat that I really bonded with. My sister used to dress her in baby clothes.
I’m in the process of hiring a contractor to replace the wood trim around the windows on my house....
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
My last contractor, OK only contractor, was my son in law. I did not pay him the total up front, nor would I pay that much to anyone I wasn't related to. I'd give him maybe 50% to start and the rest when the job is done, especially as it "will take 5 days". If you pay him up front you might never see him again. Give him motivation to come back and get the job finished. And final payment only after you have checked the work out and it is acceptable and they have cleaned up after themselves.
Here is a site I just learned about and wanted to share. [trumpisnotabovethelaw.org]
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Thanks for posting this.
Destructo ❤❤
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Sooo pretty!! There has to be a story behind the name.
Credibility
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Not that they ever had it in the first place.
NFL news.
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Why I refuse to watch professional football. I will not enrich millionaires if I can help it.
Michael Myers
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
LOL, totally neutralizes it.
What about now????
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
LOL
New IT guy
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Ohhh, I want one!! That's the cutest baby I've seen all day! Shhhh, don't tell my girls I said that.
SNOWPOCALYPSE: Part 2 10-16" of snow. Snowiest April on record: 26"+ . Shoveling cars out in the ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I feel your pain. Sigh, I was over winter 3 months ago.
Vacation anyone?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
A. too big a crowd for me, and B. Oklahoma? Nope. I used to work in a patient transfer center, and St. John's Tulsa was our client. We helped other hospitals transfer patients to St. John's. One of our intake questions was "is it a spider or snake bite?" and I said NOPE, never going to Okla if snake and spider bites are so common.
How much food do you have is freezer burnt?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I don't think I've got any that is frezer burnt, but I haven't looked too closely. If I had to move and wanted to empty out the freezer, pantry and fridge..... I probably would want to start two months before, give or take.
Another meme - sorry if it was previously posted:
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
The cure is Windex!!
Good News for Dems
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Woot, woot!! rats abandoning the ship.
Who is it?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I have a radio on now, John Tesh's IFYL is on, I have no idea what the last song was, now that I'm listening it is a commerical. Last song I remember, I don't have brain cells left for that. Gosh I miss my mind.
Okay, so, I can post but not comment and I see there's now a limit on post's per day....... ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I am not aware that anyone is upset. I don't know where the limits came from, and I know admin is working on stuff. I think it is just growing pains which is actually a good thing.
Mafia Lawyer - Mafia Treatment
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
That is a happy thought!
3 Steps To Healing
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
OMG yes, yes, yes!!
Chubby cat selfie. His name is Mr Mouse.
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
So pretty!!
Spiders
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I'm afraid of tea partiers and some gun owners. Not all, but enough of them.
Where's my congratulations????
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I need to stop wondering if he will still dig deeper because he does, every damn time.
Conan O'Brien
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Perfect!! I will share on FB.
$300 million
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Sad and scary.
Trump undermines the EPA with pruitt the Paid off king of pollution mongers! This INSANE ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Jeebus criminey we live in terrible times.
After reading yet ANOTHER article about Trump's discomfort with doing anything to antagonize his ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Sadly true, true, true.
Hannity Says He Totally Forgot Michael Cohen Was His Lawyer When He Criticized F.B.I. Raid On His ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
LOL!! love it!
Got my first tattoo today.
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Suhweet!! I got my first tatt right after my divorce. It was a butterfly, symbolizing to me my metamorphosis from SAHM (stay at home mom) to on my own. I want to get a second to represent my 3 girls, grandbabies, and my cats. I've got a few ideas, just not nailed down yet.
Scientists accidentally create mutant enzyme that eats plastic bottles [theguardian.com]
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
That is exciting!
Black cat crosses your path
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
If it will let you!
Life's puzzle
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Yep
You expect me to fight this?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
LOL
Life is beautiful
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Love it.
Truth be told
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Yes.
Take a guess. What helps make chocolate candy hard?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I'm now really glad to have cut down on the chocolate I eat, mostly becuase of the sugar content. But I try to avoid chemical cocktails and petroleum products are out for me.
Ferris and I from another angle working on our computer.
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Tooo sweet!!
Truth. I may not cut my kimono, but I have given up coffee so as not to get up.
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
Lovely!!
I was slightly annoyed they were cuddling.
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 16, 2018:
I think it is adorable!! I can't wait til my kitties cuddle. Right now I'm happy that I don't hear blood curdling howls. They're actually both on a window sill looking out and the tails are going, they see something out there.
Military pay raise
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
That orange moron has no shame at all.
The Pope Visits Africa
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
The trouble with religion is they have such a narrow focus. Our way or no way and common sense be damned.
Big pharma is
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Sad but true
Please do this
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
OMG yes!!
Trump had another shi... I mean twit.. I mean Twitter storm this AM
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
He just keeps digging deeper.
Trump's political advice comes from...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Accurate, and scary.
HOT or COLD, or somewhere in between maybe... What kind of showers do you prefer? I like taking ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
I used to stand in a hot shower til the hot ran out. Then we got a tankless water heater, it was like heaven. Then I divorced, and left that house. Now, several years later I try to keep showers as fast as possible. I'm 60 and my skin dries out so quickly. I feel like I need a bath in lotion. Sigh, getting older sucks, but not getting older is not a good option.
How often have you said , "GHA"! It's time to purge all these thousands of notices ?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
I did notice you were gone. Glad to see you back!
I just spent the last 2 weeks with a friend who is getting cancer treatments in Seattle. Living in ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
I like the burbs, I'd like to be a tad more rural. I like to be near the city for all the activities, and my city is not anything exciting. My objection to being more rural is not wanting to drive more.
Last monday I was triggered pretty bad by a question I was asked by my therapist. simple question. I...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
We all need attention from time to time, I don't think you're doing it excessively. Everyone needs help from time to time and yay for you for reaching out.
At 87 I still think women are God's gift to men. I've had two marriages and many love affairs and am...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Who the hell is this God you speak of? Damn, that is a libido killer for sure.
What’s all of your 420 plans?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
It is Friday, I will be working. After work, no plans yet.
Good morning. Let's have a staring contest
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
The look!! She does it well.
Oh Seth ... :)
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Oh lordy lordy, burn on you!!
Oh Hugh ... LOL!!
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
LOL!! Love it!!
A V8 for breakfast? Or a bloody Mary?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
I choose not to. It will just make me less likely to want to accomplish anything. And there are some things I do, like chopping up veggies that I don't need any help with being dangerous with knives. If I had even one drink the odds of needing an ER would be significant.
Does your back yard sound like a CASINO?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Personally I love wind chimes.
How many of you older people listen to current pop music, or is it only "noise" to you? Seems ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
I listen to current music as well as almost everything else (not rap). I even listen to country from time to time but there is way too much mention of god, so not often. Usually I find a radio station that is acceptable and listen until they keep repeating a commercial I can't stand. Then I search for another radio station. And in November I change to any station that does not play xmas music frequently, as long as it isn't rap.
Well all, I done went and done it. I made it to see 48 today (4/15), 5 years ago the people closest ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Well done!!
Anyone have anything to say about our amazing prime minister Thresa May, who decided to bomb Syria ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
This is one of those times (coming way too frequently) that my desire to stay sane is hampering my desire and efforts to stay well informed.
When a cherished relationship comes to an end, how do you deal with the profound pain that results?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
The end of a relationship is like a death. Except the other person isn't six feet under, he or she is still out there and can swing back and cause you fresh pain. But the process is the same, you grieve. You cry, you get angry, you're sad, you're miserable, and through it all you remember to breathe, until such time and breathing becomes automatic again, and like the tide the pain and grieving recedes. And like the tide then it will all come back washing over you again and you'll be back in the abyss again. And repeat. And you'll eventually be able to move away from the shore and the tides will be harder to reach you. When I divorced my ex I was pretty indifferent to him at that time, I had done most of my grieving before the split. We have children so I still have to see him several times a year. We're amicable. And he usually says something that makes my mouth drop open and I'm reminded what a maroon he is and I'm thankful I went through with the divorce. However, I had a long term relationship post divorce, it ended horribly, my heart was broken. It took some time to get over that, and it helped we had no connections for us to have to keep in touch. Gradually I got all reminders of him out of my life and only sometimes does it still hurt.
Just did a pet visiting job with 19 cats!! All Persians. Also 2 dogs and 2 Guinea pigs. How's your ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 15, 2018:
Wow, that is a lotta furbabies. Where I live the city would be biting your butt, there is a 3 pet limit in the city limits except in special circumstances (breeders, pet foster families) Are the persians well taken care of. I have enough trouble just keeping up with the litter box for two kitties, add brushing and I'd be overwhelmed.
Anyone else feel guilty if they disturb their pet? My dog is laying on a blanket I’m trying to ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
What a sweet baby! How can you disturb him. I used to do that with my previous cat. I'd be crocheting, she'd be warm on my lap, and at the end of the row I'd pick her up, turn the afghan around, cuddle with her and get her settled back down, and repeat. We could do that for hours.
Group Participation Activity
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
Watching "Call The Midwife" like a viking!
Photographer Tiptoes Through The Tulips To Shoot Harvest Mice, And The Result Will Make Your Day | ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
Fabulous!!
Do you get visits from missionaries often?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
I actually have no idea how often anyone rings my bell. I don't necessarily answer the door if I am not expecting anyone. That and I am out of the house long hours and asleep the other hours.
1 killed, more than 100 rescued in Western Nebraska
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
I think Mother Nature needs prozac and estrogen.
SNOWPOCALYPSE SNOWMAGEDDON 2-3" PER HOUR and 10-16" TOTAL predicted thru Sunday. White out ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
I have snow too, just not as much as you're getting. I thank you for your sacrifice. ;)
Are you familiar with either of these two websites? Freecycle.org nextdoor.com I have been ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
I have been on freecycle for years in several different areas. I've always had good experiences, I am usually a giver. I like that stuff is going to be used and not go to a landfill.
Great we just bombed syrIa wag the dog?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
Scary times we live in.
A sure sign of spring in my neighborhood in central Illinois. Several years ago, I bought a metal...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
How amazing!! I'm so jealous!!
I just found out my best friend from college killed himself three months ago. His widow called ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
I am so sorry for you loss. Words are so inadequate in this instance. You never know the lives you touch, it is one of the mysteries of life.
Sad but TRUE
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
We went from eloquent adult to vulgar toddler.
What's Inside of Us?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
I think the ones that affect the brain are the scariest of all.
Your dream career if money wasn't an issue.
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 14, 2018:
Being independently wealthy and setting up charitable organizations.
Today's Friday the 13th. Your thoughts please?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
Today was just another day, actually it went fairly well.
Who cares? It's just stuff!
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
https://www.familyhandyman.com/smart-homeowner/10-things-to-know-about-swedish-death-cleaning/view-all/ and more on death cleaning
Who cares? It's just stuff!
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/what-swedish-death-cleaning-should-you-be-doing-it-ncna816511 Good article about getting rid of your stuff before your kids have to.
It is an established fact that my wife does not crave physical intimacy like I do. Am I doing ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
I don't see how old you are, and whether you have children. Is she exhausted by the demands of taking care of you and the children? Is there any chance she is angry with you? I agree with the other respondents, ask her!
Where would you send him?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
Straight to Pluto.
They can barely stand each other.
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
Sweet babies!
I'm a mailman and I rescued this tiny two week old last summer from a hole she could not get out of....
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
AWWWW!!! she is adorable and such a story!
My mother died last evening of cancer. Though we were estranged to some degree I am terribly sad ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
I am so sorry for your loss. It is hard when there is unfinished business between you.
Has anybody changed careers mid-life?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 13, 2018:
http://www.askamanager.org/ will have all sorts of advice for you related to careers. The "manager" has been in HR forever and gives great advice. Seriously best blog ever, I read it every day. I started my "grown up" work life at 18, joining the Army. Not a good fit. Then I got married, got out of the Army and followed my ex around. I was a Stay At Home Mom (and logistics organizer). After raising my kids I went to school and got an AA degree in Health Information Management and entered the job market at menopause as the economy was tanking. It's been a wild ride.
Best daily multi-vitamin for a man 65+ or waste of money?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 12, 2018:
If you eat a healthy diet you won't really need it. If you feel OK, and the doc says all your numbers are OK, then you really don't need them unless you want expensive pee.
I’m just complaining a little bit, lol. I started back to work yesterday (Wednesday). Already ...
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 12, 2018:
Only when I have to be to keep my job.
Sinclair Broadcast Group TV Commercial, 'Response' - iSpot.tv
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 12, 2018:
WTF?
The Paths of Babes
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 12, 2018:
You've got to let them be adults and make their own choices. My kids health wise are doing really good. One of them career wise is not making wise choices, but she's not taking advice from anyone.
Pumkinpuss
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 12, 2018:
LOL the delicate balancing act.
Either way we get the short end of everything!
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 12, 2018:
for darn sure!
What, me worry?
HippieChick58 comments on Apr 12, 2018:
For me it isn't quite that simple. It isn't always easy to control my thoughts, they seem to develop a life of their own, especially when the light are out. When I was in a situation of insecurities (financial/job/housing/etc) then the thoughts were very out of control. There is somewhat less insecurity now, but still don't necessarily have a peaceful mind. I have noticed when I use an herbal supplement that I will still have the thoughts, but they don't seem to linger as long and fewer upsetting thoughts hang around and more amusing or benign thoughts pop in for a few moments. You're lucky if you can turn it off.

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"Sister Quilt" made for daughter. 3 quilts made at the same time, all the same fabrics and same type of blocks, just different layout and different color bindings. Completed 2018
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"Sister Quilt" made for daughter. 3 quilts made at the same time, all the same fabrics and same type of blocks, just different layout and different color bindings. Completed 2018
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