PLATITUDES Sometimes I think it better to say nothing but too often folks have to fill the silence ...

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

Many people are uncomfortable with silence. I remember a comment from a small child that they sat with an older person and helped them cry. This is what we need, someone to help us cry (as I tear up.)

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 5, 2018:

@RachelPraolini I am sorry for your loss. I cannot imagine the pain of losing a child.

Any Birders..? If so, what last caught your eye.?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I'm a Nebraska native but lived in the Seattle/Tacoma/Everett area for 6 years. I loved the Stellar's Jays. Not a bird but I encountered a Chickaree up there, cute as anything but an annoying little bark. I was looking for a small child with a squeaky toy. I love seeing the Cardinals and blue jays ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@Akfishlady True that!! I always thought of them as a blue jay with an executioner's hood.

Pat Robertson is recovering after suffering a stroke

Paul628 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

The next one should get it done.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

We can only hope.

I hope people aren't annoyed that I chose this category for my question, but I really want replies ...

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I recommend for everyone who is employed to wanting to be employed to read a blog called AskAManager.org. It has fabulous advice, stories, reader feedback and everything you ever wanted to know about resumes, cover letters and office culture. AND it has a searchable data base of past columns and ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@orange_girl I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE that website. I read it twice a day and before I click into this website. I've learned so much! And it is so frequently entertaining. Read the archives about stolen lunches that made the thief sick. My oldest daughter recommended it to me about 3 years ago. I have really smart kids!

PLATITUDES Sometimes I think it better to say nothing but too often folks have to fill the silence ...

Sarahroo29 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

Are platitudes more like a cliche?

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Did you know I was going to come along and look up the definition? :) I did! a remark or statement, especially one with a moral content, that has been used too often to be interesting or thoughtful.

Being Completely Honest, Is There A Bible Or Cross Anywhere In Your Home Right Now?

evestrat comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I have my old Bible on my bookshelf, more due to not wanting to toss out something that was extremely important to me for such a long time -- similar to a child's toy, if that makes sense? I have pulled it out from time to time to look up a verse in order to bolster an argument I am making towards a...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

When I'm not sure of the verse I google it. The memory ain't what it used to be.

Being Completely Honest, Is There A Bible Or Cross Anywhere In Your Home Right Now?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I think there are a couple of bibles still around, hopefully in the box to go to the used book store. As for jewelry, I don't think so unless it is still in the box in the garage to go to Goodwill or some such place. I've kinda been purging stuff I don't use/don't want/don't need. I used to have a ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@twshield That is my goal, to be real and honest.

What's the best (or worst ) pick-up line ever used on you? Or you have used.

RoboGraham comments on Feb 4, 2018:

You have pretty eyes, can I touch them?

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@RoboGraham That's good to know.....

What's the best (or worst ) pick-up line ever used on you? Or you have used.

RoboGraham comments on Feb 4, 2018:

You have pretty eyes, can I touch them?

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@RoboGraham LOL, cough hurl. I touch my eyes, no one else does. Just thinking about it makes me tense!

Heard this a couple times If the relationship takes work, It's the wrong relationship.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

Relationships take work, and compromise, and communication. The don't just happen, they are a living thing that needs to be nurtured. I trained a dog once, and as I was studying up on it the prevailing wisdom was you get the dog you deserve. If you put effort in you get a great dog. Same as for ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@stinkeye_a then you have been a good dog mom!

Man sentenced for smearing wife's undies with red pepper

jlynn37 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

What is wrong with a man wanting some "hot" pussy to enjoy?

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

What is wrong is that it hurt her, and that is never, ever OK.

What's the best (or worst ) pick-up line ever used on you? Or you have used.

RoboGraham comments on Feb 4, 2018:

You have pretty eyes, can I touch them?

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

That one might make me get the mace out.

Major Pats Fan wants to see Pats take a knee vs. Trumpty Dumpty.

Dougy comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I'm not even going to watch . I don't like sports much . If I do watch , its because I'm with someone who is . It's okay I guess , I just don't make an effort to watch when there is no one else that does .

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@Douglas I am cooking lunches and breakfasts for next week. I cleaned litter boxes (down side of indoor cats) and took out trash and recycling. And laundry, always laundry. Trying to get organized, and then I got too hot so came for a cool off period.

Pat Robertson is recovering after suffering a stroke

d_day comments on Feb 4, 2018:

Recovering? Darn.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

IKR!

Skeptic.com

Dougy comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I just subscribed for every Wednesday . Thanks for the info ;)

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

You're welcome!!

I now have another reason NOT to watch the super bowl, not that I needed one.

Dougy comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I'm going thru my notices here , this PM . Then I'm going to go thru my FB notices . Which is like saying , I'm washing my hair tonight , then the night after that , I'm drying it !

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

I'm fixing lunches and breakfasts for next week, I'm a big fan of nuke and go. I'm too busy to watch TV, and I only got on the computer to cool off for a few. And then she played Candy Crush aaaaaannnnnddd what kitchen?

It's freaking cold in minnesota! not here for football game.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I'm so tired of the cold. I'm not as far north as Minnesota, but cold is cold and I'm over it.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@Akfishlady YES! Winters in Western Washington State were not horrible weather wise, but the lack of sunlight! And I hate dressing for the cold. I don't mind a coat but I do mind scarves, hats, and gloves. Yes, I'm a big baby whiner. Don't get me started on the heat either. Yes, I will have some cheese with my whine.

Sex. And, then what?

JackPedigo comments on Jan 28, 2018:

We have the term fore-play but how about after-play?

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@mangro Awww, thank you!!

What is going to take until changes are made?

Leutrelle comments on Feb 4, 2018:

Sorry, but I believe in gun ownership.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@Leutrelle I would like to see mandatory liability insurance on all guns.

Being Completely Honest, Is There A Bible Or Cross Anywhere In Your Home Right Now?

VictoriaNotes comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I have a couple of bibles in a box somewhere in storage, along with lexicons and a Strong's concordance. I renounced Christianity in 2000 and fully deconverted in 2005. Yet, after all these years, I can still recite numerous bible scriptures from memory. It comes in handy when I'm involved in online...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

The advantage to being bible literate is shooting down people who misquote the bible for their own purposes, or try to beat you over the head with it.

What is going to take until changes are made?

Leutrelle comments on Feb 4, 2018:

Sorry, but I believe in gun ownership.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

I believe in RESPONSIBLE gun ownership. Licensed, insured, and regulated.

What's a good romantic gift someone could give you?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Of course I love chocolate, but something that shows he is listening to me. A weekend get away, someplace cozy. A gift certificate to dig up a new garden patch for me in the spring or a similar gift of service. I like flowers and house plants, but young cats live in my house, most of the plants are ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@ScientistV I'd be happy with the Dyson as long as he's using it.

This is what I want

Indubitably comments on Feb 4, 2018:

This reminds me of a poem I ran across a few years ago. One of my favorites. It means even more to me now, since losing someone dear to me. :( by Oriah Mountain Dreamer (a "different" name, but she writes beautifully) This was written after she attended a party and left feeling less than ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

I have read this before, and it gives me goosebumps. Thank you so much for sharing!

Major Pats Fan wants to see Pats take a knee vs. Trumpty Dumpty.

Dougy comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I'm not even going to watch . I don't like sports much . If I do watch , its because I'm with someone who is . It's okay I guess , I just don't make an effort to watch when there is no one else that does .

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

I'm with you, not a sports fan. I make no effort to watch it and no one invited me to a super bowl party, but hey, I raised non sports fan children!

I now have another reason NOT to watch the super bowl, not that I needed one.

Bob5 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

We have no other issues in Nebraska.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Really? That is news to me.

Pat Robertson is recovering after suffering a stroke

commander42 comments on Feb 4, 2018:

This evil piece of shit should have died a long time ago. He and all the TV evangelicals are morally corrupt and all they care about is that you continue to tithe to them. It amazes me on how so many people believe the shit flowing from their mouths.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

I so agree!

So I decided to join a Grief Share group even though it is held at a church and is based on the ...

ChrisR comments on Feb 4, 2018:

What an utterly ghastly and insulting comment from that person! Grief is a human condition common to everyone with feelings ... a religious person might express it through their faith and seek solace in prayer but an atheist just consoles themselves with the love of their friends and the comfort of ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

Well said!

A Catholic blogger says Christians shouldn’t do yoga.

engineer_in_nj comments on Feb 3, 2018:

most Christians are too fat to do yoga.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@astrochuck, wow.

If religion died out, how would we repurpose all the churches?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 21, 2018:

I am a boomer. When the boomers were school age, schools were built. When the baby bust followed, school districts sold schools. The elementary school my former husband went to was bought by a church. Real estate never lies around, it will be bought and re purposed. There is no lack of demand for ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@Douglas AMEN! Tell it brother!

A Catholic blogger says Christians shouldn’t do yoga.

engineer_in_nj comments on Feb 3, 2018:

most Christians are too fat to do yoga.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 4, 2018:

@astrochuck I'm a Nebraskan who spent most of her life outside the state. I'm enlightened. Yoga would do you good. I took a class a couple of years ago, Curvy Girls Yoga, taught us how to adapt the moves to our bodies. Yoga is about being a better you. But you gotta do what feels right to you, stay in your comfort zone, it's safe there.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Sarahroo29 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Isn't lust a word for the religious to use?

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@Sarahroo29 and how do you think Donald looks at money?

This is what I want

AxeElf comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Naked means you don't have any clothes on. Nekkid means you don't have any clothes on, and you're up to something.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

Naked also means: (of something such as feelings or behavior) undisguised; blatant.

A Catholic blogger says Christians shouldn’t do yoga.

engineer_in_nj comments on Feb 3, 2018:

most Christians are too fat to do yoga.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@astrochuck If you want some inspiration, check this out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tvtTPUHKYuM

The Devil's Doorbell .

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I'm so going to hell.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@Charlene You can keep the champagne, but I will take a toke.

At what point?

jlynn37 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I may be the senior member here and I would say when it affects your ability to do the things you could do and enjoyed doing when younger and just took for granted and that includes almost everything. Physical activities, sexual activities, memory activities, Virtually all the 5 senses. Life is ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

I did see that we have an 84 year young member.

That DAMN wall.

Dick_Martin comments on Feb 3, 2018:

What surprises me is just how inept he is. I don't know as I have ever met a person as ignorant, as greedy, and as oblivious as he is. It's astonishing.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@Dick_Martin It boggles the mind.

Best ever lover, did you have one?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

When I was young and foolish, at Ft. Devens, Massachusetts I had an encounter with a supply clerk after hours in the supply room. It was amazing. As is the Army way, he was transferred shortly after that, and then I went elsewhere. I don't think we would have been a good couple, but that one night ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@EricTrommater LOL! Yeah, maybe...

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Sarahroo29 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Isn't lust a word for the religious to use?

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to explore a word. From Wikipedia: Lust is a strong emotion or feeling. The lust can take any form such as the lust for sexuality, lust for expensive objects (extravagance) or the lust for power. It can take such mundane forms as the lust for food as distinct from the need for food. Lust is a psychological force producing intense wanting for an object, or circumstance fulfilling the emotion.[1]

At what point?

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I kinda dreaded 60, but now that I'm here I'm kinda excited that I can sorta see the retirement light shining. My benchmark was 45, my mom died at 45.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@Sarahroo29 I had a baby when I was 30, in March she turns 30. She isn't thrilled, but the options are limited.

At what point?

jlynn37 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I may be the senior member here and I would say when it affects your ability to do the things you could do and enjoyed doing when younger and just took for granted and that includes almost everything. Physical activities, sexual activities, memory activities, Virtually all the 5 senses. Life is ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

Looking good for 80.

ARE YOU GRATEFUL I know I am.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I am grateful to my parents that I am here. I am grateful to my sister that she is who she is and my best friend. I am grateful to my employer that we have a mutual understanding that I bust my butt for them and they provide pay and other benefits so I can keep what I got. I'm grateful to my ex that...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@Leutrelle thank you!

Americans/slavery Germans/holocaust

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

This is very sad, and I understand it should be. Slavery, US Apartheid of the Indigenous peoples, and the Holocaust are horrible examples of man's cruelty to man. I have been to Dachau and to the US Holocaust museum. It was easy to distance it as happening over there. However slavery and the ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@btroje I have no idea specifically how to help the descendants, though I am sure some wise people will have some great ideas. It is a hard question. And yes, it was/is a horrible trauma and the effects will be felt for generations to come.

Americans/slavery Germans/holocaust

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

This is very sad, and I understand it should be. Slavery, US Apartheid of the Indigenous peoples, and the Holocaust are horrible examples of man's cruelty to man. I have been to Dachau and to the US Holocaust museum. It was easy to distance it as happening over there. However slavery and the ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@Treasurehunter truly it was genocide.

The Devil's Doorbell .

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I'm so going to hell.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

@astrochuck I've got a permanent round trip ticket.

Our relationship with food

DeityfreeRo comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I try to eat for health as much as possible. Love eggs fish meat nuts vegetables and butter, real butter. Try to avoid fast food and white flour as much as possible and eat at home most of the time. I would rather my partner share my taste for healthy food with an occasional splurge for some fun ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

that is pretty close to my diet, probably less meat for me. Real Maple Syrup as well, raw local honey. I grow tomatoes and other veggies. Once I kick the sugar addiction nuts are my snack. I make big batches of lunches and freeze them to take to work.

Do you have a (relationship with your) car?

ScottAHurst comments on Feb 3, 2018:

Yes. Her name should be obvious. :) (Photos seem not to be working today, but the license plate reads "DAIZY" if it ever shows up)

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

Nice!

Christian Blogger: Yoga Was Designed To Cause A ‘Demonic Trance’ | HuffPost

Dougy comments on Feb 2, 2018:

The Church Of Satan @ChurchofSatan The Ouija board was designed as a fun party game and only later had "spooky" connotations added. Calling yoga "Hindu worship" is completely ignorant. Matt Walsh is a superstitious buffoon who apparently can't do a google search. ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

LOL!!

That DAMN wall.

Dick_Martin comments on Feb 3, 2018:

What surprises me is just how inept he is. I don't know as I have ever met a person as ignorant, as greedy, and as oblivious as he is. It's astonishing.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

What annoys me is that my vocabulary is so inadequate to describe how despicable he is. I am a dedicated wordsmith and I've run out of words :(

US and other places. Why?

NeoXerops comments on Feb 3, 2018:

This reminds me of a recent story of a girl who was abuse before she was sold to a fucking pedophile. After being sold, she managed to kill his punk ass. And now this kid is on trial for murder. This story and the one posted here is a prime example why it's hard to believe in a god. If he can't ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 3, 2018:

I agree. The fact that we accuse children of prostitution amazes me. These children are being used and abused. I'm a mother of girls and was an abused child myself. There is a reason I am Mama Bear.

What is your good news and bad news?

mrcharlie65 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

The bad news is that I am going through possibly the hardest 10 moths of my life with marriage ending, financial difficulties and an idiot in the white house destroying everything that I value. The good news is the open and endless possibilities that lie before me as well as the growth that I am ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

@mrcharlie65 My pleasure!

What is your good news and bad news?

Charlene comments on Feb 2, 2018:

Well the good news is I don't need a hearing aid. The bad news is my brother isn't doing at all well. The other On going bad news is, Drumpf is Still in the W.H. The other good news is, Muellers investigation is still chugging along just fine.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

Mueller's investigation is the best thing of all

What is your good news and bad news?

mrcharlie65 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

The bad news is that I am going through possibly the hardest 10 moths of my life with marriage ending, financial difficulties and an idiot in the white house destroying everything that I value. The good news is the open and endless possibilities that lie before me as well as the growth that I am ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

They say what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, and I'm going to be Hercules pretty soon. And they also say that you don't know how strong you are until the only option is to be strong. Hang in there, it will get better. I'm not saying it won't get worse again, but it will get better.

Thank you admin... I love this site and all my friends.

HippieChick58 comments on Feb 2, 2018:

I had dinner with my kids last night and got home late, so I skipped my computer time. I almost died of withdrawal!! Never again! I'm so glad to be back here!

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

@BucketlistBob WOWWWW.Thank you!!

What kind of bad manners does your pet have?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I have two cats, Xena is almost 2, Zelda is about 7 months. The I've had Xena almost a year and Zelda for about 3 weeks. They're still working things out between them. They both are on the counters and tables far more often than I'd like. The baby likes to carry pencils around and play with them. ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

@orange_girl Thank you! I wanted unusual and powerful.

The Problem With ‘Asians Are Good at Science’ - The Atlantic

BobMcDowell comments on Feb 1, 2018:

An old racist Asian joke told to me by my Vietnamese former student: "How can you tell that an Asian burglarized your house"? "That cat is missing and your kids homework is finished"

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

LOL! Ouch!

Reminding you to give blood. Think about it..ok?

SweetHarp comments on Feb 1, 2018:

I try. But they keep refusing me. I lived in England during the Mad Cow scare. They still refuse my blood - 30 years later. Nuthin' wrong with moooo, oh, I mean, me.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

@RavenCT Me too!! Iived in Germany in 85 to 88.

Pick-up lines are so yesterday.

stinkeye_a comments on Feb 1, 2018:

"I've got plenty of batteries--I'll be fine."

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

LOL, love that, and have you been snooping in my nightstand?

What kind of bad manners does your pet have?

icolan comments on Jan 31, 2018:

My pet has the horrible habit of not existing.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

@icolan I hear ya. Dogs are fabulous if you have a yard and the time for them. I don't have a dog because my yard is not fenced and I'm frequently out of the house for 12 hours or more. Not good for a dog. The cats are good with dry food, fresh water, and a sorta clean litter box. My cat allergies are under control. I am considering a small dog after I retire but that is still a few years off.

Elton John - I'm Still Standing - YouTube

KKGator comments on Feb 1, 2018:

And this one, too! I'm claiming both as my personal theme songs! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nvlTJrNJ5lA

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 2, 2018:

I like this one too!!

Spiritual Athiest/Atheist dating question

LucifersPen comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Hate to break it to you, but a "spiritual atheist" is an oxymoron. It's one or the other, but you can't have both.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 1, 2018:

@MrLizard I understand, none taken.

Is being overweight the new fad?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I think many people regard "normal" weight as fat, given the Hollywood/movie star/model anorexia that we have been subject to for so long. The reality is more Americans are overweight than ever before. There is so much sugar in our food chain, even foods that aren't sweet have excess sugar. It ...

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 1, 2018:

@Kojaksmom Yep, cut way back on fruit.

Binge worthy TV Shows

jayneonacobb comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Game of Thrones, Stranger Things and I'm really liking Happy! on syfy channel. The first too are the most popular in the U.S. right now. Happy! Is based on an awesome graphic novel of the same name.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 1, 2018:

@jayneonacobb Everything I know about GOT I learned from my kids who are huge fans. That is the extent of my interest. I bought some GOT themed stuff for Xmas gifts for one of the SILs (Sons in Law). I am aware there are two houses battling and it is a complicated plot. After that I'm lost.

On a first date: Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I am honest, I am who I am and what I am. I'm too old to play games. I don't want to waste time cultivating a relationship with false pretenses. I ask questions I want answered, and I ask about the important stuff. Usually I will know most of the important stuff before we meet in person.

HippieChick58 replies on Feb 1, 2018:

@Anonbene not sure of the context of your question.

SPAM... $3.50 a can? What?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I don't eat much meat, and never meat that has been canned. Well, maybe tuna if I am to be honest.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

@balou LOL, Meat from a can would be better.

Spiritual Athiest/Atheist dating question

LucifersPen comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Hate to break it to you, but a "spiritual atheist" is an oxymoron. It's one or the other, but you can't have both.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

@MrLizard My understanding of spirit or soul is that spark that makes me who I am. Not given by any god, but born with me and grows with me. It is what makes me different from any other person, why one size does not fit all. My uniqueness if you will. I nurture my uniqueness.

How do I get smiley faces to appear? Every time I try, I just get question marks.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Use a colon : and a right parenthesis or upper case zero. so : ) :)

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

@EmeraldJewel My pleasure!

Spiritual Athiest/Atheist dating question

LucifersPen comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Hate to break it to you, but a "spiritual atheist" is an oxymoron. It's one or the other, but you can't have both.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

I disagree. I like to know exactly what words mean and I looked up Spiritual.- relating to or affecting the human spirit or soul as opposed to material or physical things. The spirit is the essence of us, it has nothing to do with religion or "holy spirit". It is who she is and she is honoring that. She can have both.

Are You Brave Enough To Share A Photo From Your Childhood?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I was a year old, so about 59 years ago.... Before I got hair.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

@AMGT Thank you!! I

What kind of bad manners does your pet have?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I have two cats, Xena is almost 2, Zelda is about 7 months. The I've had Xena almost a year and Zelda for about 3 weeks. They're still working things out between them. They both are on the counters and tables far more often than I'd like. The baby likes to carry pencils around and play with them. ...

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

Zelda, she's hard to get pictures of, keeps freaking moving! :)

What kind of bad manners does your pet have?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I have two cats, Xena is almost 2, Zelda is about 7 months. The I've had Xena almost a year and Zelda for about 3 weeks. They're still working things out between them. They both are on the counters and tables far more often than I'd like. The baby likes to carry pencils around and play with them. ...

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

Xena

Do you take your cookies apart?

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I am more of a chocolate chip cookie type

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

@BucketlistBob Fer sure, Bob. Chocolate is not good for dogs.

What kind of bad manners does your pet have?

icolan comments on Jan 31, 2018:

My pet has the horrible habit of not existing.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

that is so sad.

Binge worthy TV Shows

astrochuck comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Twenty years ago, I felt old when standing in front of a large display of magazines and I didn't recognize any of the faces on the covers. Now reading through the lists in the comments, I'm feeling really out of it. :)

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

Me too!!

Binge worthy TV Shows

jayneonacobb comments on Jan 31, 2018:

Game of Thrones, Stranger Things and I'm really liking Happy! on syfy channel. The first too are the most popular in the U.S. right now. Happy! Is based on an awesome graphic novel of the same name.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

I admit publicly, I have never watched Game Of Thrones.

Binge worthy TV Shows

JayJackson comments on Jan 31, 2018:

M.A.S.H, it is timeless and still pertinent. I count HAWKEYE as one of my heroes.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

I was just thinking that might be one of the shows I start to rewatch.

On a first date: Should you be honest on a first date or pretend you are what you think the other...

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 31, 2018:

I am honest, I am who I am and what I am. I'm too old to play games. I don't want to waste time cultivating a relationship with false pretenses. I ask questions I want answered, and I ask about the important stuff. Usually I will know most of the important stuff before we meet in person.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

@KKGator Thank you!

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BeeHappy comments on Jan 29, 2018:

YES! I've boycotted JJ's now for about two years because of it. I'm sure my little one person boycott won't do much but it's the principle of it.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

@GreenAtheist I don't eat pizza most of the time, but I will keep it in mind.

The admistration has twice denied a reply I made on the website.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 2, 2018:

Don't let the door hit 'ya where the good lord split 'ya.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 31, 2018:

@DannyLandrum Why, thank you!

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ScienceBiker comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I hope he becomes the victim of a horrible hunting accident. Sorry, not sorry.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Oh for sure!! Gored by an elephant or mauled by a lioness.

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Betty comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Some people do not deserve the title of Human.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

@Betty Thank you! Our birthday is also the 12th day of Christmas if she ever wonders what that awful Christmas song is about.

Dating dealbreakers

NerdyOkieDude comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Ordering sweet tea!

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

@FrayedBear I have found that when I take veggies and hummus to work with me, and low salt mixed nuts I do well. BUT I also have to avoid the grocery store when I'm tired/hungry. Yeah... had to stop at the grocery to reload on veggies and hummus after work tonight. Funny stuff found its way into my cart.

Some people say that practicing gratitude is good for your health.

Condor5 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Hung out within my daughter, her husband, and some of their friends yesterday. Had a really nice time. I'm grateful every day for a daughter who loves her old man. And my dogs (added later).

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

@Condor5 YESSSSS! Makes me so glad I didn't drown them when they were teenagers.

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kmdskit3 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Definetly! Is this the owner/ceo of Jimmy John's? If if is- ain't goin' there anymore.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

It is. I have known for a while that he was a big game hunter. I no longer go to his restaurants.

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HippieChick58 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

Bad personal hygiene, Baby Mama Drama. Kids still at home. Substance abuse issues and by that I do not mean occasional usage. Chronic unemployment. Fiscal irresponsibility. Choosing NOT to read. Bad grammar. Too much excess baggage, we all have some but please have it downsized to carry on. ...

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

@BlueWave Glad to help out!

Some people say that practicing gratitude is good for your health.

Condor5 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Hung out within my daughter, her husband, and some of their friends yesterday. Had a really nice time. I'm grateful every day for a daughter who loves her old man. And my dogs (added later).

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Having grown up kids is wonderful!

Some people say that practicing gratitude is good for your health.

roberbro comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Well, I've only been awake about an hour, but so far today I'm grateful that my dog didn't spend more time than absolutely necessary outside in this 25 degree weather. I'm definitely grateful for coffee, orange marmalade and the internet, especially Pandora. :)

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

25 degrees, woot! That's balmy!

Some people say that practicing gratitude is good for your health.

RobAnybody comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Clean socks. Being ex-infantry can alter your priorities. Seriously, clean socks imply having water, time, and an absence of threats needed to make them clean. Plus the sheer sybaritic pleasure of wearing a clean pair every day.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

I keep small bags in my car to hand off to those with signs along the road. My bags have some disposable personal cleansing cloths, a mylar space blanket, clean sox, and $5. I read that clean sox are especially valued among the housing uncertain population.

Some people say that practicing gratitude is good for your health.

jeffy comments on Jan 30, 2018:

I'm grateful for Agnostic.com (extra points right?) :)

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

LOL!!

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BeeHappy comments on Jan 29, 2018:

YES! I've boycotted JJ's now for about two years because of it. I'm sure my little one person boycott won't do much but it's the principle of it.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

I vote with my paycheck, I also boycott Walmart, HobbyLobby and Chick Fil A. There may be a few others....

Bad, bad, bad advice. What is the WORST advice someone ever gave you out of love?

CameronKobes comments on Jan 28, 2018:

Don't take action until God makes it clear that it's in His plan. Ugh, what a load of monstrous self-delusion THAT was.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

That so sounds like my ex.

Bad, bad, bad advice. What is the WORST advice someone ever gave you out of love?

bleurowz comments on Jan 30, 2018:

To settle, that it was better than being alone.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

There are far worse things than being alone.

FYI! I will hit 7.

jen1984 comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Darn - I just saw this!

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

good to see you again!! I'd still go out for ice cream if you wanna.

I was told by a Christian that atheist stay stressed cause they always doing research on everything.

HippieChick58 comments on Jan 29, 2018:

I love learning, and I don't find research stressful, well depending on what I'm researching. Too many people lack critical thinking skills. QUESTION EVERYTHING!!

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

@DotLewis I agree!!

I have just had the dirtiest thing I could ever imagine said to me.

Lisl comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Hey, what are you doing on POF, anyway? Lots of trolls there.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

I've been on there forever, I swing by once in a while to see if I've gotten any messages. I have to see who is going to get shot down or blocked next.

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Betty comments on Jan 30, 2018:

Some people do not deserve the title of Human.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Well said!!

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atheist comments on Jan 30, 2018:

This is self-indulgence to the extreme! Why do some people think that they are entitled to decide a animal should die just to satisfy their vanity? :(

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Yes!!

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Redcupcoffee comments on Jan 30, 2018:

It's totally fucking disgusting in every way possible.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

OMG! Yes. Now tell us how you really feel.

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Dwight comments on Jan 30, 2018:

The bear or the bare?

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Yes!

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LeighShelton comments on Jan 30, 2018:

more than you could imagine

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

Love it!

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Dick_Martin comments on Jan 30, 2018:

It bothers on enough levels that I need at least an escalator.

HippieChick58 replies on Jan 30, 2018:

I have to remember that phrase, love it!!