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Race/ethnicity
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:
My uncle went to Japan during the Korean war and brought home a Japanese lady as his wife. I grew up thinking mixed "race" marriages were AOK and normal. I dated a Hispanic man and he was not the typical Hispanic and we got along great. I have dated Asians and black males as well. I think people are...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 9, 2018:
Again, people are people. Now their belief system may cause issues. I have dated a couple of men from India, and a couple of men from the middle east. I didn't like the way I was treated, they may have thought I was a bit uppity. The relationship did not continue. They did not fit into the lifestyle I had, and I was willing to change who I am. As people they were good people. Because of beliefs they held of how I should act and how they acted towards me it was not a viable relationship.
Trump wants $18 billion for his assanine wall in exchange for DACA. Govt shutdown?
SACatWalker comments on Jan 9, 2018:
I'm so tired of the carnival barker of a president we have now I could just cry. A Potemkin village is what Chris Matthews (MSNBC) called the televised meeting they had today.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 9, 2018:
I feel your pain. I have to be careful of the news I watch and read or I go into a tailspin of anxiety and depression.
I think we couple as a cultural habit that insists on it because of paternity assurance and heredity...
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:
I think things are changing, and more younger women are putting off having babies and being better educated when they do have babies. I think the change will be slow, but it is coming.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 9, 2018:
I went to Germany in 1980 (I think) when I was in the Army. They told us the squeal of the airplane tires hitting the runway was the sound of civil rights being dragged back to 1950. Now however, Angela Merkel is the leader of the Free World, and I'm sorta kinda wishing I'd stayed in Germany.
After living in Sacramento for the past 3 years I am making plans to move back to Missouri.
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:
I am so sorry :( But then I am more than slightly biased against Missouri. For sure you will encounter much more of the backwoods religious types, but yes, simpler times. Good luck with that.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 9, 2018:
Personal prejudice, some bad experiences in the area, long ago but painful enough that I'd never go back.
Things taken as racist vs.
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:
This is not the first time H&M has flirted on the edge of racist. It is in extremely poor taste given the times we live in. We are not post racism by any stretch of the imagination. I avoid H&M for many reasons, their choices are appalling. I vote with my pocket book and I vote against them.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 9, 2018:
I don't know exactly what the path to post-racism will look like, however I do believe we NEED to get to a point where we ignore race. We are all humans. We need to accept people for who they are not skin color and we need to level the playing field and eliminate the horrible conditions created by years of national policy aimed at keeping those of non white skin in poverty. I don't know how it is going to happen, but I am sure my children's generation and my grandchildren's generation will be moving us in that direction.
Food—what’s your story?
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:
I cook from scratch because I am too cheap to eat out and I want to control what I am eating. I eat quasi vegetarian most of the time. I eat eggs, some dairy, fish. I avoid cheap wheat products and try to stay organic where I can. I grow some of my own foods. I don't bake much anymore. I cook on ...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
@RoadGoddess I try. I still hit the chocolate way too often. Not so much the chocolate that is the issue, it is the sugar.
Have you divorced because you don't believe?
BackToReality comments on Jan 8, 2018:
Yes, I am in the middle of a divorce right now because of this. We were both in ministry at one point or another, and my deconversion this year caused so much tension in how we talk to the kids about religion, what kind of music we listen to (before it was all Christian), what kind of movies we ...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
I don't see how any marriage could recover from that.
Have you divorced because you don't believe?
VictoriaNotes comments on Jan 8, 2018:
Yes, but I was the one who asked for a divorce. Why? Because he pulled away after I became an unbeliever. At one point he even remarked that we were "unequally yoked."
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
I first heard that term when I was married to my first husband. I was 19, he was 28, both in the Army, working together, and working rotating shifts. He was a Kentucky farm boy, his family raised hogs and tabaccy. I was a small town Nebraska girl. He remarked offhandedly that his church was not happy that he married a non Baptist. We were "unequally yoked." He had sleep apnea and started smoking because he thought it would help him stay awake at work. We were married for less than 2 years, there was more stupid shit going on than any one marriage could hold.
Elizabeth Warren & Oprah Winfrey 2020 ticket?
Benmonk comments on Jan 8, 2018:
This fascination with celebrity is what got us into this mess. What makes Oprah Winfrey qualified, other than a billionaire and a TV star? Who's next? A Kardashian?
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
OMG, that would be a disaster. I still haven't figured out who the Kardashians are, why they are famous or infamous, and why I should care about them. It has been explained more than once, but I just don't care so I just can't remember. They are plastic people, not real and not worth my time.
Elizabeth Warren & Oprah Winfrey 2020 ticket?
Rudy1962 comments on Jan 8, 2018:
I've seen some legitimate polls putting Bernie Sanders as the most popular politician. I'm sticking with him. If he doesn't run, take Warren in a heartbeat.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
I love Bernie, I'd vote for him and who ever ran with him. I will work for his campaign again as well.
I think we couple as a cultural habit that insists on it because of paternity assurance and heredity...
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 8, 2018:
I think things are changing, and more younger women are putting off having babies and being better educated when they do have babies. I think the change will be slow, but it is coming.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
My youngest had a baby when she was 25, my oldest is having her first at 33. The middle daughter says "oh hell no. No babies." She is a doting aunt.
Things taken as racist vs.
Rudy1962 comments on Jan 8, 2018:
Sometimes it is hard to know intent. It is strange how much conflict and tension different skin tones cause in humans. I guess it is as simple as some innate tribalism, possibly reinforced over time in various ways. It is proof we are often not rational animals, and products of our evolutionary ...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
Largely it is because in the US if your skin isn't lily white you are discriminated against from before you are born til you die an early death. We will not let it go until skin color is not an issue, til all humans are treated fairly.
Careful what you wish for.
Firelands1973 comments on Jan 8, 2018:
We could only be so lucky. His past statements seriously need to come back to haunt him.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
Not only haunt him, but bite him in the ass and put his raggedy ass in jail.
Trump wants $18 billion for his assanine wall in exchange for DACA. Govt shutdown?
Benmonk comments on Jan 8, 2018:
Whatever happened to infrastructure?
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
Age mostly. Nothing lasts forever, and to have hiways etc we have to keep maintaining and rebuilding. I used to visit St. Louis frequently. Every time I went from one side of town to the other a new stretch of road was being rebuilt. Sadly this is how it has to be in large cities. And that takes money, doing it cheap just takes more money in the long run.
Today is my birthday, and I just realize Agnostic.
Knitfreak comments on Jan 8, 2018:
Happy happy birthday late :) I hope you had a wonderful day!
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
Thank you, it was nice, the kids took me to a Japanese Steakhouse and then had birthday cake at home.
I have seen three different polls on Trump on this web site.
resserts comments on Jan 8, 2018:
As far as I know, unless it's changed in the last year or so, there are no openly atheist or agnostic representatives or senators in the U.S. Congress. There was one a few years ago — I forget his name — who had served many terms but wasn't public about his non-theism; he came out of the atheist...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
Obama didn't pretend to be christian, he is a christian. Although I know or knew lots of folks who sat in church every Sunday just like all the evangelicals in the US today, they haven't read the bible and think that they are just fine. However, Obama embodies everything decent that a good christian should be.
If you could travel anywhere for free right now where would you go?
5082gregory comments on Jan 8, 2018:
England. I want to go to Liverpool and London. I am a huge beatle fan!
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
I loved being in a place where yes I spoke the language, but I really didn't speak the language.
If you could travel anywhere for free right now where would you go?
Naeem comments on Jan 7, 2018:
Japan! it's too expensive to visit, yet too interesting to miss!
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 8, 2018:
I was in Okinawa when I was 20, courtesy of the Army. I never got to the mainland but I liked what I saw. I liked being taller than most of the population (and I'm only 65" tall), and I loved, loved, loved the food. The bad part of being taller is I really stood out in the crowds being blonde. The people were always kind and tried to be helpful, but the language barrier was huge. I'd love to go back to Okinawa, and to the mainland. Maybe one day.
I think large portions of the US population (and possibly other countries) are affected with this, ...
GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Jan 7, 2018:
There Used to be The Leader of The Free World... but the title is now vacant.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
It is Angela Merkel of Germany.
Should churches pay taxes? Ask Pat Robertson.
BucketlistBob comments on Jan 7, 2018:
Tax the hell out of them....
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
Which is actually funny. they would tell you there is no hell in them.
A song about Donald Trump.
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:
very well done
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
Your mom is fabulous!! Tell her I said so!
Who among us has cut the proverbial TV cord?
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:
I cancelled cable after I saw Ted Cruz's face in my living room during the Iowa primary. I have a Roku, I stream Netflix and Amazon Prime and a few other. I have DVD and other stuff I don't remember the TLAs for. All in all I watch less than 5 hours of TV per week. Best part, No commercials.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
I don't know if it is common or uncommon, I've never been asked before. It is part of my history, 6 years in the military and another 12 as a spouse. If you didn't know, TLAs are rampant in the military and many other industries. Every time I've changed jobs I've had to learn new TLAs.
Weddings in churches
Sarahroo29 comments on Jan 7, 2018:
My sister is getting married and wants me there. She's a Xtian, and I'll burn if I go into one. I hope it's not a long ceremony.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
It is your sister. You won't burn. Trust me. I read scripture at my daughter's wedding. For her. The ex's god did not strike me dead with a lightning bolt. I was rather disappointed. However, go, be nice, she is your sister and that is what we do for family. Be the bigger person.
Who among us has cut the proverbial TV cord?
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 7, 2018:
I cancelled cable after I saw Ted Cruz's face in my living room during the Iowa primary. I have a Roku, I stream Netflix and Amazon Prime and a few other. I have DVD and other stuff I don't remember the TLAs for. All in all I watch less than 5 hours of TV per week. Best part, No commercials.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
TLA: three letter acronym. I get my news online most of the time. I have a radio on but I'm not really "listening".
Atheist Books
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:
I just finished God: A Human History, it was excellent.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
I think it likely that is is the book he was talking of. He does talk about cave paintings and how humans seem to have searched for a divine.
The latest Star Wars movie doesn't dwell a lot on The Force, but it did remind me of something.
Joanne comments on Jan 7, 2018:
“We are all connected; To each other, biologically. To the earth, chemically. To the rest of the universe atomically.” Neil deGrasse Tyson.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
I love that man! And I love that you quoted him to top my comment. Good job!
Are you one to attend wakes and/or funerals?
Jnei comments on Jan 7, 2018:
Depends on whether there's wine or not.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
and how much wine!
Today is my birthday, and I just realize Agnostic.
BucketlistBob comments on Jan 7, 2018:
Congratulatings! My wife turned 60 and its messing with her mind. I turned 65 and feel free at last...yea!
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
I'm of German heritage, and I burn in 30 seconds flat. Never was a beach babe. One of my fears is skin cancer.
Today is my birthday, and I just realize Agnostic.
BucketlistBob comments on Jan 7, 2018:
Congratulatings! My wife turned 60 and its messing with her mind. I turned 65 and feel free at last...yea!
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
I think partly I'm excited to be getting closer to when I can retire. Tell your wife she is a Stradivarius. The older the fiddle the sweeter the music.
What would you like most in a partner?
legshowoff comments on Jan 7, 2018:
By financial security, I guess that means she has a job as opposed to women who do not work?
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 7, 2018:
I would take that to mean he/she doesn't need your money. At my age if the potential partner is retired and has pension/SS/savings that's reasonably financially secure but doesn't need to have a "job".
I know, we're from all over the country, but I wish we could have a get together to meet, talk and ...
RogueKisses916 comments on Dec 24, 2017:
I'm from Sacramento California! Where are you? Where is everyone from?
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
Omaha, Nebraska
I just finished a fabulous book that is so enlightening about the religion.
BobLang comments on Jan 6, 2018:
You might also be interested in a book, "When God was a Woman" I examines the history of female deities and how they were subverted by men. Just goes to show that all cultures invent some sort of supernatural power to explain the unexplainable.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
I checked, and it is not at my city library. I'm too frugal to buy books. I will put it on my wish list and maybe one of my kids will give it to me, Mother's day is coming. Christmas just past and today is my birthday, it isn't going to happen soon.
It takes a village to rescue a trapped kitten - Chicago Tribune
Fearlessfreep comments on Jan 6, 2018:
That's adorable. I'm a sucker for a kitty although I grew up a dog person thinking I was allergic to cats. Now when I see a kitty out "in the wild" and my biases paint a picture of its struggles I want to "rescue" it. I've resisted so far. My daughter tells me I'm going to be a "cat lady" if I'm ...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
I brought home kitty #2 today. The city won't let us have more than 3 pets :(
Today is my birthday, and I just realize Agnostic.
MidnightSolo comments on Jan 6, 2018:
Happy Birthday, and many happy returns. They didn't have a problem posting that I just turned 70!
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
You go girl!! You look fabulous and welcome to the site!!
Atheist Books
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 6, 2018:
I just finished God: A Human History, it was excellent.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
Reza Aslan, sorry, didn't realize I omitted the name.
Secular humanism?
HippieChick58 comments on Dec 30, 2017:
I am a member of Omaha Metropolitan Area Humanists Association (OMAHA) and pretty much consider myself as much a Humanist (or secular humanist) as much as a atheist.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
And welcome to this forum, glad to see more Nebraska people coming out of the closet :)
Secular humanism?
HippieChick58 comments on Dec 30, 2017:
I am a member of Omaha Metropolitan Area Humanists Association (OMAHA) and pretty much consider myself as much a Humanist (or secular humanist) as much as a atheist.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
YES!! As in NE. We have First Friday's at Ragazzi's at 156th and Maple. Great group of people. Check them out on Meetup.com or http://www.omahahumanists.org/
Have You Ever Had A Sexual Relationship With A Co-Worker?
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 5, 2018:
WAY way way back in the dark ages of my life, when I was very young and stupid, and in the Army, I did hook up with a fellow soldier a few times. Once or twice it was a superior. No lasting repercussions, someone was either transferring in our out, or I was too oblivious to notice.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
I am proud to have served. I learned a great deal from the Army on how to be a leader and how NOT to be a leader. I think it made me a better parent and better employee.
Where is your stance on tattoos?
BackToReality comments on Jan 6, 2018:
I'm not against them, but I'm glad as hell that I didn't have some Christian tattoo put on my body when I was still in that mode of life, lol. I think the biggest reason I avoid tattoos is because my tastes and preferences change too quickly to have something so permanent. That, and I'm a wimp ...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
I'm not crazy about pain, but it you get placed over muscle it hurts far less than over bone. My first tatt was for my metamorphosis from wedded unbliss to single and workin in. The next tatt will be for my babies, all of them, human and fur. My current tatt and future tatts will be on places easy to cover, just my preference.
Today is my birthday, and I just realize Agnostic.
evestrat comments on Jan 6, 2018:
Happy birthday!!!! :-D Look at that, a human who is proud of their age ... :-D
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
The truth is: my mom died at 45, so I had no idea what to expect past that age. I'm not just hanging around, I'm fighting dragons and working miracles the longer I hang around.
Today is my birthday, and I just realize Agnostic.
evestrat comments on Jan 6, 2018:
Happy birthday!!!! :-D Look at that, a human who is proud of their age ... :-D
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
Damn right, I worked hard to get here!
Today is my birthday, and I just realize Agnostic.
Admin comments on Jan 6, 2018:
Happy birthday to you Happy birthday to you Happy birthday to you, HippieChick58 Happy birthday to you :) Ok, I've heard for "Forever 21" but "Forever 59" is a new one to me. But ok, you get your wish, you're now 60 on Agnostic.com :)
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!
Have You Ever Had A Sexual Relationship With A Co-Worker?
AgnosticBear comments on Jan 6, 2018:
Jobs are an EASY place to meet people. They are not the BEST place to meet people. I do not recommend it. Lol.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 6, 2018:
I haven't found that to be true with my last few jobs. But then I'm selective about whom I want to hang with, but most of the people I work with are decades younger than me, and my work places have also been largely female.
My dad brought us up with the idea that there were "men's jobs" and "women's job" and he gave us ...
GreenAtheist comments on Jan 5, 2018:
I agree wall mounts for new televisions need 3 hands for ease of installation. ...when I did mine I was in love with a modern woman geek engineer knew all 8 color coded wires to modem satellite et al and had in her tool box a stud finder I did not have....her dad was also an engineer but not sexist....
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 5, 2018:
I am sorry for your loss of relationship. I like the rest of the comment before. Hopefully the 8 years you had with her had some good parts.
Nerdy pickup lines
Nemosson comments on Jan 5, 2018:
Just curious? Do you get laid much?
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 5, 2018:
LOL!!
I just had blood work done.
stomato comments on Jan 4, 2018:
Whether it was a faith based hospital or not, most believers will automatically assume that you are one, too. They haven't really figured out that agnostism and atheism, not to mention Judaism, Buddhism, Islam and other religions are growing in this country. All they know is what they've grown up on...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 5, 2018:
Yeah, in the US christianity seems to be the default value, that is changing but it takes time.
The Bible is fictional
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 4, 2018:
My current book is progress is https://www.nytimes.com/2017/12/19/books/review/reza-aslans-god-a-human-history.html Fascinating! How people have created god or gods since the beginning of time. He looks at how all gods have evolved though history and how those gods have interacted with other ...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 4, 2018:
Sorry, I'm too frugal to buy a one time read, it is a library book.
This little boy is trying to help his Grandpa LOL
Paul628 comments on Jan 3, 2018:
It's sad that someone as young as him has already been trained to think he can wish for things.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 3, 2018:
I wanna hear Grandpa's explanation for the nekked ladies.
Two Aholes playing my wee-wee is bigger than yours!
Firelands1973 comments on Jan 3, 2018:
Stems from insecurity, both know they are illegitimate and ill equipped.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 3, 2018:
In more ways than one.
So, I got scolded by some “Free the Nipple” advocates (who I fully support) because they promote...
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 2, 2018:
My grandfather told me that men liked boobs because they never got over the urge to suckle. But its a really tough call. Nipple stimulation causes the uterus to contract which helps the uterus to shrink down after giving birth. However, it also is pleasurable. So, what about the men who like women's...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 2, 2018:
That is a good question, too bad I never thought to ask him that. Boobs don't get me excited, so I never questioned it.
So, I got scolded by some “Free the Nipple” advocates (who I fully support) because they promote...
CeciRosane60 comments on Jan 2, 2018:
Well in Brazil, where I was born and raised. I saw women breastfeeding their babies anywhere...park, bus, beach very common nothing sexual about it...they usually would put a small cover so baby could sleep not for modesty...so yes breast can be for both depending on situation...do you know why in ...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 2, 2018:
and breast milk is superior to any other milk for human babies. Mom's continue to breast feed older children to give them the nutritional boost. I've read that in Japan also prolonged breastfeeding is common. I planed to breastfeed my youngest until kindergarten, the twerp weaned herself at 10.5 months, just days before Thanksgiving. I was uncomfortable.
When should anatomy/health/sex education be introduced into a child’s life?
AgnosticBear comments on Jan 2, 2018:
I’d prefer me to do it so it’s done right. But then I’d prefer them to do it cause I’m shy. Sex and my kids don’t mix lol.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 2, 2018:
JMHO, but it is part of parenting, and you need to make sure they are getting the correct information. There is all sorts of crap out there.
When should anatomy/health/sex education be introduced into a child’s life?
davtim68 comments on Jan 2, 2018:
I think learning is a life time experience. The best time to learn is when you have questions. Parents have the most influence on children so the final decision is with the parents. Just because we send our kids to school doesn't mean school is the best place for all education.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 2, 2018:
WELL SAID!!
Cemeteries, creepy, or peaceful?
Boudica comments on Jan 2, 2018:
They are a waste of good land.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 2, 2018:
I agree
You are given 5 choices of television stations with the luxury of no commercial breaks, but can only...
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 1, 2018:
I cut cable during the Iowa primaries and I don't really watch much TV. I have a Roku, Amazon Prime and Netflix keeps me happy.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 2, 2018:
No, much more recent primaries before the 2016 election Iowa has one of the earliest primaries, it was before the Repub. ticket was narrowed down.
Global warming
omgwowsocool comments on Jan 1, 2018:
That picture illustrates the culture where I live so accurately
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
I am so sorry, is moving an option?
So now that ya'll have had the night to reflect, do you feel more motivated to face the year?
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 1, 2018:
I may be better equipped/motivated to face the new year after a nap.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
Yes, I am pretty much over winter now. Wish I could hibernate until it warms up :)
I got a message on OKCupid tonight, and I'm wondering if anyone really reads the profiles.
evergreen comments on Dec 31, 2017:
There are some scammers on all of 'em. In fact I've experienced two on here so far. They come on strong with all kinds of flattery. Then it usually moves quickly to something inappropriate, and no matter what you say, they overcome it - like you're in different states - but they want to meet ...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
I have seen so many scams. My rule is if I haven't met you face to face you aren't a real person. Recently I had been corresponding with a "local" guy who went to Cyprus to do some work, he needed a new Macbook and watch because his got busted enroute and there was no one else to ask (poor baby). I asked for proof of identity and security for the loan. OMG, the stuff he sent. I wanted to see a picture of his driver's license, he left it at home while he traveled. It is morbidly amusing to see what they will come up with. Sadly I've known ladies that have sent big money to these creeps. I got unfriended by a Facebook friend when I let her know the man she was sending money to was now hitting me up for money. How terribly sad for her.
Global warming
Sarahroo29 comments on Jan 1, 2018:
@HippieChick58 You remind me of someone I knew.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
cool!
So now that ya'll have had the night to reflect, do you feel more motivated to face the year?
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 1, 2018:
I may be better equipped/motivated to face the new year after a nap.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
It wasn't the alcohol, it's the carbs and food too late at night, and I'm pretty sure this cold weather isn't helping. -14 this morning.
After 8 weeks on the site I've made some great friends but as far as meeting a guy for long term ...
HippieChick58 comments on Jan 1, 2018:
I don't have time or funds to travel. If not in my backyard then pretty darn close. I live in Nebraska, a conservative state and I'm almost 60. No many single liberal males my age in my area.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
My oldest daughter is 33, so the gentleman needs to be closer to my age than to hers. I generally prefer men closer to my age, at least in their 50's but I'm willing to at least meet the younger man. Younger men often come with some of the other stuff I avoid like Baby Mama Drama or kids still in school.
Let us all make this a wonderful new year!
Bam85 comments on Jan 1, 2018:
I sure will try.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
Do or not do, there is no try. OMG, I can't believe I quoted Yoda.
So now that ya'll have had the night to reflect, do you feel more motivated to face the year?
sassygirl3869 comments on Jan 1, 2018:
Always was eager for 2018. Good things can happen. We might even rid ourselves of tRUMP.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
The old Jewish grandma's response would be "from your mouth to God's ears."
Should we be making plans for "when the shit hits the fan?
PaganSoul comments on Dec 31, 2017:
Off the grid: Two commodities that will be missed the most when the System fails; milk and toilet paper.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
Cloth. I have 6 inch squares of diaper cloth and flannel. Use once, toss in a basket and launder when the basket gets full or I'm almost out of cloths. I no longer remember how many I have, I have enough for two to three weeks, and they get washed with the towels.
Do you taunt the religious?
Levi_Hinton comments on Dec 31, 2017:
My stepdads' sect of Christianity doesn't believe that Christmas is the actual birthday of Christ so I call every Christmas just to wish him a special Merry Christmas.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
Christmas wouldn't really be the birthday of Christ. The scriptures say that the shepherds were in the field with their flocks. In the winter the flocks aren't out in the fields. Mostly likely it would have been April. The early roman church co-opted Winter Solstice festivities to suck the locals into the delusion.
I got a message on OKCupid tonight, and I'm wondering if anyone really reads the profiles.
evergreen comments on Dec 31, 2017:
There are some scammers on all of 'em. In fact I've experienced two on here so far. They come on strong with all kinds of flattery. Then it usually moves quickly to something inappropriate, and no matter what you say, they overcome it - like you're in different states - but they want to meet ...
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
I frequently have men profess their love for me, and then they need money....
Please Believe You Are A Valuable Person
HippieChick58 comments on Dec 31, 2017:
Well put, but I've been preaching this forever. Many women are not brought up to own their own space, and I try to encourage them to be bold, never apologize for being here.
HippieChick58 replies on Jan 1, 2018:
OMG @IndySent, (and I just got your user name when I typed it, LOVE IT) Thank you! It took me long enough to figure out life and my place in it, I will not be told I am inferior in anyway to anyone. I grew up in the 60's when women were burning their bras and fighting for equality. I had to have my dad sign my enlistment papers in 1976 when I wanted to join the Army to get the hell out of his house. We earn our right to the air we breathe just by being here, allllll people do. I have a heart for the underdog, no matter their gender or skin color or place of birth. We grow stronger faster by building each other up.
Religious Oppression of Women
sirbikesalot06 comments on Dec 31, 2017:
Go Read the "Alphabet Vs The Goddess" by Leonard Shlain. Or, watch this lecture from him. https://youtu.be/2QQuD62RxrU
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
Thank you for this!! I don't have time to watch it now, but it is now on hold at my library!
Evangelicals Are Losing the Battle for the Bible.
SharonK comments on Dec 31, 2017:
Religion is dying out
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
And ad far as I am concerned, it cannot die out fast enough.
Should we be making plans for "when the shit hits the fan?
PaganSoul comments on Dec 31, 2017:
Off the grid: Two commodities that will be missed the most when the System fails; milk and toilet paper.
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
I read an article a few years ago about how many trees are flushed daily and an alternative. I started using the alternative then. I keep TP on hand for visitors, and haven't had to buy TP in a while. And milk, don't drink it myself, when I need milk for a recipe i have powdered. Yes, AC and heat I cannnot live without. -8 in Omaha at present. I spent a long weekend in July w/o AC, nearly ended up with heat stroke.
Do you think that some atheists have the same blind devotion to science as they do to religion?
HippieChick58 comments on Dec 31, 2017:
I don't think science encourages blind devotion. Science welcomes questioning and testing. Science is challenged all the time. I too prefer not to take medications, not for "science" but because I don' t trust big pharma. Big Pharma does not want cures, they want customers. Just tell them ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
And Big Pharma who spends big bucks to lobby congress and raises the price of drugs already on the market is to be trusted? It is so easy to get "peer reviewed" articles published. I choose to be skeptical and take drugs only when absolutely necessary. https://www.facebook.com/nowyouseetv/videos/1118510328185653/
What has been the dumbest religious comment/response/statement you have ever heard personally?
SKH78 comments on Dec 31, 2017:
The comments I have heard from Fundies - "Birth control should not be available to single women. If women want to be sluts, they deserve to be punished with childbirth." And how about this one - "Abortion should never be allowed. It is better to have battered children than to allow killing them ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
There are sooooo many other reasons for abortion. Is the baby going to be healthy? Is the mom going to be able to carry the pregnancy? And it all comes down to my body, my choice.
What has been the dumbest religious comment/response/statement you have ever heard personally?
Betty comments on Dec 31, 2017:
Some people hold on to a belief because it fulfills something within them and when that belief is challenged they get defensive and protective. Just shake your head and walk away from people like that, they will never choose to believe you. My silliest one is when I mentioned that no one ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
"Jesus" was likely born in spring anyway. That's when shepherds are in the fields with the sheep because they're having their babies. In late December even in the Middle East its mighty cold, too cold for the sheep to be out, and too cold for the shepherds.
What has been the dumbest religious comment/response/statement you have ever heard personally?
Benmonk comments on Dec 31, 2017:
A few years back, an east Texas state representative said during the state senate debate on bilingual forms, "if the English language was good enough for Jesus Christ, our Lord, then its good enough for everybody"
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
That just makes my head hurt.
I read The Handmaid's Tale when it first came out in 1985 and it scared the shit out of me then.
Plainjane comments on Dec 31, 2017:
Well, i don't think it's far from that .....didn't Paul Ryan ( I can't fucking stand that piece of trash) talk about Americans needing to have more children because the workforce needs them?
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
One of those smarmy dudes did.
Rate your level of Kinkiness from 0 to 5
btroje comments on Dec 31, 2017:
I put zero because these days I live the life of a secular nun
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
I have toys and imagination.
Rate your level of Kinkiness from 0 to 5
Stevil comments on Dec 31, 2017:
a very very hard thing to judge, if somebody is taking a shit on you regularly then that's kinky /sick. Other wise if two people are enjoying themselves and don't need a hazmat suit to clean up afterwards then it's not Kinky in my mind
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
Are you old enough to remember Ann Landers? She once wrote that everything is OK as long as it is between legal age partners who consent. If scat makes you happy then go for it with a consenting partner. My kids mentioned some video ages ago, I think it was called 3 girls and a cup, and being snoopy mom I had to look. Nearly lost it. Something you can't unsee.
What, not who, makes life worth living?
Stevil comments on Dec 31, 2017:
a hot cup of coffee on a cold morning, music and books and a good bowel movement!
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
good philosophy!
What, not who, makes life worth living?
Stevil comments on Dec 31, 2017:
a hot cup of coffee on a cold morning, music and books and a good bowel movement!
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
Eat lots of fiber!
Single or Partnered, looking or not?
HippieChick58 comments on Dec 30, 2017:
Single, looking but I am cognizant that the odds are hugely slim. When I first considered divorce I read an article that said most men in their 50s and above were looking for "nurses with purses". That might not be entirely true, but I've had a couple of dates expire on me. And being a liberal non ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
My kids gave me guidelines. They have to be close to my age than to my oldest daughter's age. I was 26, nearly 27 when I had her, and I will be 60 next week. So right now I can date as young as 47. Meh, I don't really like the younger guys, they usually come with youngsters at home and I don't have an interest in dealing with puberty once again. Or child support issues.
One of my first questions that couldn’t be answered.
HippieChick58 comments on Dec 31, 2017:
When Adam and Eve were kicked out of the Garden of Eden they ended up near a community of peoples who did not know "the true god". And yes, Cain, Able, and Seth married women from among those people.
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
@MikeinBatonRouge oh f&ck yes! So much of the bible is metaphorical and not literal. It is hard to pick out the facts that way.
My dad brought us up with the idea that there were "men's jobs" and "women's job" and he gave us ...
HeathenFarmer comments on Dec 31, 2017:
Both my parents were the opposite of yours. They were of the opinion that life skill were not gender oriented us boys were taught to cook, clean and do laundry and my sister were given the opportunity to fix machinery, build and repair things. We were all taught to drive and thus to change oil, ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 31, 2017:
Lucky you!! My dad did laundry, but we girls had to fold it and put it away. To this day I loathe folding tighty whiteys.
I become very annoyed and furious when I here politicians,Government officials or anybody ...
BobFenner comments on Dec 30, 2017:
Crowd appeal... to sheeple. Am hopeful with time, enlightenment, that folks eschewing belief in such nonsense will garner more votes.
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
I haven't heard that term in ages :)
Single or Partnered, looking or not?
VictoriaNotes comments on Dec 30, 2017:
I'm single and have really enjoyed it. It may be my calling, haha. That's not to say that I've closed the door to the possibility of being in a committed relationship someday. Like @ConnieR said: if I meet someone great if not no big deal. I'm mostly here for the community, which for the most part, ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
I love this community!
I become very annoyed and furious when I here politicians,Government officials or anybody ...
BucketlistBob comments on Dec 30, 2017:
Most big time preachers dont believe in God or religion. That's how they can control things. Their money too.
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
My current fantasy for making money if I end up unemployed is writing an awful conservative christian women's blog, just being the worst of all. I know they would suck it up, and I know enough scripture to twist it around. I'm not sure I could live with myself though.
I discovered a new artist, her name is Flóra Borski It's called Blind Faith 2017 :D
sassygirl3869 comments on Dec 30, 2017:
Tried googling her-Flora Borsi?
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
She doesn't show up!
This site is very exciting.
btroje comments on Dec 30, 2017:
what would you lobby for as an atheist?
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
I'd lobby to start taxing churches, to get the bible out of public school UNLESS equal time and treatment is given to all religions and they are taught as literature or social studies. Those are for starters.
There's a lot of well deserved bashing of religion and religious people here.
RoboGraham comments on Dec 30, 2017:
That's a great story. Faith can be really inspirational and can do a lot of good for some people. I'll share one of mine that's similar but kinda opposite. So when I was 15 I had to have my second open heart surgery. It didn't go very well and a few days after, they had to open me up again and ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
My suspicion is that the letter writing was good therapy for your hand.
I cannot lie, I am a Bibliophile
atheist comments on Dec 30, 2017:
A paraphrase: A person who can't read is sad. But a person who can read but doesn't is tragic.
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
Love that!
I cannot lie, I am a Bibliophile
Charles1971 comments on Dec 30, 2017:
I've been reading books for as long as I can remember. I think I began loving books around 3rd grade. Now I'm 46 and I read almost every day, about 4 books a month, and own about a thousand books (though wish I had room for far more). I'd actually love to open a secondhand bookstore someday but ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
I remember being so engrossed in a book in second grade I did not hear the teacher call my name. She came to my desk and slapped her hand on it to get my attention. My grandmother gave me "Heidi" by Johanna Spyri for my birthday when I turned 6. I LOVED that book. I still have it. I used to collect books, but post divorce when I had to move my stuff I sold most of the books, and I mostly borrow from my local library now. While I was married we moved hundreds of our books and kids books. It's expensive!
I cannot lie, I am a Bibliophile
WTSharpe comments on Dec 30, 2017:
As the year grows to a close, I don't foresee adding any more to the list of books I read in 2017. Churchill’s Trial: Winston Churchill and the Salvation of Free Government by Larry Arnn is my 87th book of the year, and like many others on this year's list it is an audiobook (this one read by ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
I prefer printed books, audible books put me to sleep or my mind wanders off. When I am reading I focus totally on the page. My kids used to ask for stuff when I was reading because I'd usually say yes to make them go away, and then realize about 20 minutes later what I did. I have read over 40 books this year. I keep track on Goodreads.
I cannot lie, I am a Bibliophile
MrLink comments on Dec 30, 2017:
So right! You can learn a lot about a person by simply asking, "What are you reading these days?". If you get a blank stare...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 30, 2017:
I am going to have to remember that phrase! I used to ask what was the last book they read.
Goals and Life plans
Benthoven comments on Dec 28, 2017:
I'm often asked during job interviews, "where I see myself in five years." My response is: "Alone on the couch in my underwear, eating Bon Bons while watching reruns of Friends."
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 29, 2017:
Oh hell, I've been watching reruns of Friends on the sofa with the cat, but fully dressed (it is winter and the family room is in the basement and it is cold!!) and eating whatever I carried down with me, not usually bon bons. I'm not sure if I have achieved Nirvana or rock bottom.
Do you feel 'stuck' in your job?
Plainjane comments on Dec 28, 2017:
I feel a little stuck. I didn't choose nursing as my profession (I was kind of pushed into it), but I have been doing it so long I don't know anything else lol
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 29, 2017:
We have clinical staff (nurses and a few doctors) to bounce stuff off of or review our claims. I'm in Short Term Disability claims. If I can't make a decision, or if I think it is not supported I have to send it to the clinical staff. They don't talk to the claimants (patients), they will make calls to the health care providers. @Kreig is right, having a nursing background can get you into all sorts of places that don't include hands on nursing.
How Many Years or months have you been a Non Believer.
Zster comments on Dec 28, 2017:
Stopped church attendance when my oldest child started high school. Being involved in marching band competitions, Sunday was our only day off. We needed the rest and family time a LOT more than church. That was in 2011. I considered myself nontheistic prior to then, but am hard pressed to come up ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 28, 2017:
OMgoodness, I remember marching band days.
Do you feel 'stuck' in your job?
GeekLeen comments on Dec 28, 2017:
Does bored stay at home mom count? I hate it. Can't wait to get a job, godfuckingdamnit.
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 28, 2017:
I enjoyed being a SAHM, at least when the kids and spouse were not home, especially the spouse. I had lots of hobbies and some other activities, and spouse had a pretty good income. I do remember being not so fond of long weekends though.
MERRY CHRISTMAS. Christ Mass?
HippieChick58 comments on Dec 25, 2017:
Google can be dangerous. From the last trumpet ministries: The World Book Encyclopedia defines "Christmas" as follows: "The word Christmas comes from "Cristes Maesse", an early English phrase that means "Mass of Christ." (1) It is interesting to note that the word "Mass", as used by the Roman ...
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 28, 2017:
That's OK, I tend to be a literalist.
The Dinner party game
Buddha comments on Dec 28, 2017:
Well, you are definitely on the invite list.. :) Maybe bernie sanders and for sure the Dali lama.
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 28, 2017:
Add Pope Francis and you have an amazing dinner party. Can I come too?
Do men need 'sexual harassment' training? Agree? Disagree?
Stevil comments on Dec 26, 2017:
I would like to think I don't, but how would I know?
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 26, 2017:
How to figure it out, in part. Is it about her looks, her body, her 'attitude', or how she is treating you? Then it is likely harassment. It is respectful of her intelligence, her right to her own authority over her personhood, or her right to her space is is likely safe. If someone said what you want to say to your mom, your daughter, your sister, or your wife would you be OK with it? Would you be OK with saying what you want to say to your male boss? Would you want it said to you? That is just for starters.
Have any Hasidic Jews knocked on your door?
HippieChick58 comments on Dec 26, 2017:
I have always lived in small towns, military bases or in the "burbs", Hasidic Jews don't find us easily.
HippieChick58 replies on Dec 26, 2017:
I know... I used to find the Jewish people fascinating, I read lots about them and their history. Chaim Potok was one of my favorite authors. It was so unlike my quasi Christian Midwestern American middle class life. I read many stories of the Holocaust, and the pogroms. I have to admire their fortitude. Not all that long ago I read a book on the hidden Jewish contribution to American life, who knew Lane Bryant was Jewish?

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