It's been just over 2 weeks since my son passed.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 28, 2018:

Life has whatever meaning you ascribe to it, Steve. Losing your child violates the "natural order" of things, which is especially devastating to the parent. I don't know the circumstances of your son's death (and I use that word because "passing" implies moving on to some other place, a particular place none of us believes exists), but I'm a parent too and can only imagine what you must be going through. I think I speak for many here when I say feel free to lean on us. Feel free to post all you want about this if it helps you to talk about it. The only advice I can give you is to cherish every memory you have of your son and live YOUR one and only life. I sincerely hope this helps.

Nice to meet you all! Im Carla, an atheist and have been for over 20 years, im excited to get to ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 28, 2018:

Welcome (she said "y'all," y'all). =]

I wanted to share the following message from a new member.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 28, 2018:

The site is only a mechanism. It's the people who make it the warm and friendly, welcoming place it has become. =]

What movie comes to mind that you can watch over and over and it still makes you cry every time you ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 27, 2018:

Schindler's List Toy Story 3 (yes, seriously)

Mistaken Identity

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 27, 2018:

Once when I visited Universal Studios, Hollywood, while entering the Waterworld ride, I was told by a ride attendant that I looked like the Deacon (Dennis Hopper's bald, eye-patched bad guy). I look nothing like DH. LOL! But I AM bald, so I got that goin' for me. LOL!

What is your favorite TV-Series ?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 27, 2018:

I'm a big fan of Walking Dead and Game of Thrones. Also love the various Marvel SH series, but my #1 fav right now is Westworld, on HBO.

Can I please be level 8?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 26, 2018:

Maybe @Admin will frontload your account with bonus points. LOL! =]

I wanted to watch something apocalyptic.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 26, 2018:

Here's the ultimate apocalyptic movie: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/This_Is_the_End

Is it a glitch or is there a reason the letters T H I N disappear from post titles?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 26, 2018:

You should always tag @Admin with these kinds of posts. I've noticed things too, like an emoji replacing the last character in a sentence because you wrapped it in a ")" and it followed a certain letter. This appears in my profile (look for the sunglasses smiley).

I wanted to watch something apocalyptic.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 26, 2018:

LOL!

Why are atheists not willing to form a coalition?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 26, 2018:

Atheists better get organized. Although we are a minority when compared to all religions combined, we are a very large, and growing "category" since us freethinkers don't wanna be in a group. LOL! X-tians have a political stranglehold on US politics now despite their shrinking numbers. Freethinkers, while maybe not necessarily organizing to take control of the US government, could, and I think, should, do what we can to spread ideas of reason and individual rights. The religious are already becoming enlightened. It's just not happening quickly enough, IMO. This site is one of those things that will help.

Being a remarkably error prone typist, I find the spelling checker to be a very useful tool.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 26, 2018:

@Admin, this one's for you. And @Petter, what the heck's wrong with Merican English? LOL! (just kidding) =]

What kind of driver are you?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 26, 2018:

I chose option 2, but I consider myself an aggressive driver. Not always in a hurry and don't have to get ahead of everyone, but not tolerant of indecisive drivers or drivers who have no business in the #1 lane. LOL!

Captions!!

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 26, 2018:

Wow, I have never heard of that condition before. I'm sorry you have that because the soundtrack adds so much to the film experience. Even at home, a nice surround sound system with a good sub-woofer brings a lot more realism to the experience. The only time I ever use closed captioning was back when I had a gym membership and would ride a stationary bike for about 30 minutes they had TV monitors suspended from the ceiling. If you didn't have earbuds plugged into your bike, you couldn't get the audio but the captioning was always on. I watched multiple seasons of Angel (that Buffy spin-off series) that way. LOL!

What are your thoughts on sleeping in the bed with multiple pets?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

It's a no from me. See your example.

What would you do for a Klondike bar?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Nothing. I just stopped by to peep your profile. LOL!

Hi guys, just wanna say I appreciate you all. That’s it, carry on! ???

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

What's not to like about that? Nuthin, that's what! DITTO! =]

Would AI be helpful to find real truth about nature?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Your question is unclear. Please be more specific.

I’m tired of getting ‘you don’t work here’ comments when trying to help members post ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

I got nuthin. LOL! Let them die a horrible, ignorant death. =]

Today's little feature is the "Next" button on post pages.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Thanks for the update!

What is your favorite season and why?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Despite being born in Germany, a place not known for hot weather, I have developed a strong preference for Summertime. Ideally, I'd live in Hawaii, south Florida, or some other subtropical zone that had a fairly consistent warm temp year-round.

Question of individual vs. group rights?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

The only legitimate rights are individual rights. Any laws should be based on that, I believe.

I have always deemed people who go to church on sunday in fresh costumes have been up all night long...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

I'm sure there are plenty of hypocrites (Catholics, mostly) who do exactly as you say; sin like crazy during the week and confess in order to receive forgiveness on Sunday. But there are a lot of "true believers" who faithfully attend church (often far beyond only on Sundays), and honestly try to live their lives "for Christ" or whoever. So not everyone is purely motivated to attend church out of guilt, but guilt and fear are surely prime tools of religion to keep their masses in-line, and subjugated.

Infinity War is coming up this weekend. Who else is excited?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

I'm not crazy enough to see this film on opening night, or even opening weekend, but will definitely catch it during its run on the big screen. My screen is pretty dang big, but not that big. LOL!

Losing friends

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

I feel for you. This ain't easy no matter how you slice it. I live in a pretty progressive State (CA). The vast majority of the people I know personally here are X-tians. Some of them trumpet their belief on FB. I just ignore all of that. Most of them know I'm a non-believer and, I believe, as a consequence, none of them are close friends. They don't hate on me, or my non-belief. They just ignore any controversial posts I make regarding separation of state and church and generally keep me at arm's length. If the people you are talking about are more acquaintances than friends, who cares what they think? But if you have people you consider close friends and feel the friendship can continue despite your differing belief (or non-belief), it might be worth working on. It's your call. I hope this is helpful.

snort .... sigh

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Cuz that never happens. =]

Your thoughts on going to religious ceremonies?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

This is difficult, as you say, especially if it's family. My brother, who I'm really unclear on regarding his actual belief. I THINK he is a believer, but definitely not religious. His wife, however, is Catholic, and has raised their children as Catholics. They are rather hypocritical because none of them attends church, but they have the other bases covered, if you will. I think it was their children's confirmation we were invited to. We went in support of the family, but now I'm almost militant about my atheism and wouldn't agree to going to a similar event. Weddings are another matter. I think a lot of people just defer weddings as the purvey of churches. Neither of my two weddings were held in churches, nor were they religious. We wrote our own vows and used nondenominational ministers. To your point, in the case of child or adult baptism, I think you could politely decline by saying you appreciate that they have thought to invite you, but as a non-believer, you feel your attendance at such an event would constitute an endorsement or other religious-based support so you'll be unable to attend.

I am on a dating site and I contacted a gentleman and we spoke on the phone last night.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Oh man! Masters in Divinity. LOL! You hit the motherload of religion. Well, there's no harm in going for coffee. Maybe you'll make a new friend, but I would have serious reservations about engaging in a deeper relationship having what I consider to be a fundamental difference of opinion.

What is your response when you ask a christian to physically show you god as to believe in him and ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

It's not a question I would ever ask. It's pointless to debate with someone who refuses to listen to reason or make evidence-based decisions. They'll just take it "on faith." Mmm hmm.

Hello all, I'm quite new here, but am going through some really awful experiences with my family ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

There is no easy solution to your situation (and I'm sorry to hear of your psychologically abusive marriage too =[). You are never going to be able to satisfy your family members with anything you say. I think the best you can hope for is to mitigate the negativity by simply telling them all that you love them, you are not going to suddenly become a believer again, and in order to foster as normal a relationship as possible, you and they need to agree to disagree on the topic of religion. You don't need to be saved, you don't want to be saved. Make the topic taboo after explaining these points. I'm very sorry you're having to deal with this situation, especially at a time you're trying to be there for your parents and family. I hope this is helpful.

Is anyone else sick and tired of all the Superhero movies?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Nope, I love them. I think the genre is coming into its own because of CGI, and Disney/Marvel do a marvelous (sorry) job of bringing these stories to the big screen. DC is trying, miserably, to emulate their success. SH films are fantastical and CGI makes that aspect of it believable. I loved the comix as a teen ager and love the film presentations being done now.

The new evangelicals, the holy power brokers, have entrenched themselves in "ministries" of radio, ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Support the FFRF. They are actively working to confront the entanglement of state and church on many fronts.

Are there others in the community who are dancers, or enjoy dancing?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 24, 2018:

I like the night life (well, I used to), I like to Boogie (and that's about the extent of it). LOL! But my daughter is a bit like you. She has been doing some form of dance since age 4 or 5. She has turned into quite a tap-dancer and is taking some advanced tap, and also jazz. She even took some hip-hop at one point. Recently, she was in a community theater production of Addams Family that had a big tango number in it (no surprise there!). Next Spring, she'll perform in a production of Newsies with the same company. You probably know this is a very dance-intensive show. The B-way version has some nice tap in it as well. You guys should become buds. =] Oh, she's 16 now.

Why do people who believe in an afterlife cling on to this life no matter how bad it gets?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 24, 2018:

The religious issue around suicide is simply that, at least in the Christian religion, it's considered a sin. So clearly, assisted suicide (or euthanasia) is out of the question. This has nothing at all to do with belief in an afterlife. I feel that belief in the hereafter by good little X-tians and the promise of a seat at you-know-who's right-hand, if anything, makes them value life on earth less.

There is some weird formatting issues with the texts on comments

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 24, 2018:

@Admin says they just made an update to chatrooms.

I have heard things along the lines of "only people who believe in god are good people" I like to ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 24, 2018:

The Freedom From Religion Foundation (FFRF) backs you up. They have a slew of items for sale you can use to help advertise that you're "Good without God." http://shop.ffrf.org/ffrf-pride All nonbelievers know you don't need the fear of eternal damnation to be a good person. =]

@Admin I'm unable to leave any return messages from my cell. 10:38am Tuesday 4/24

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Hmm, I was just able to reply on a message thread I have going using my phone. I assume you're on the mobile app and not using a browser, right? I have an Android OS and things are working for me. If you are getting some sort of error you should share that with @Admin.

What are your favorite courtroom movies of all time?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 24, 2018:

I really like A Few Good Men too. My Cousin Vinny is also very good. There are lots of great courtroom dramas.

How much salary would make you happy?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 24, 2018:

If I had no familial responsibility I would probably be pretty comfortable on my present salary, but after being in a relationship for nearly 20 years with 3 income streams (two jobs plus a modes business side income), I have really come to appreciate nice vacations. LOL! I think I'd be comfy on $150K/Yr. Would I grow into that income? Mebbe. =]

Musicals!!!

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 24, 2018:

I may be sounding a bit like a broken record by now because I've commented on musicals a few times. My 16YO daughter is big-time into musical theater. She has been doing some form of performing arts since she was around 5. She has been in a local youth community theater company for about the last 5.5 years. This company puts on 2 shows a year and she hasn't missed one since she started. Most recently, she performed in Addams Family (this company only does Broadway shows). A few she has been in include; Alice In Wonderland (her first with them, she landed a speaking role as the March Hare and, in my completely unbiased opinion, stole the show in the Tea Party scene with the Hatter and the Door Mouse), Cats, White Christmas, Music Man, Anything Goes, Little Mermaid (she landed another speaking role here as Sebastian, complete with Jamaican accent. She killed. LOL!), and Shrek was a big one. She's done about a dozen shows. As a volunteer parent, I have had an education in the back end of theater, "volunteering" as a set builder and, mostly, on the lighting team. All of this has given me a real appreciation of musical theater. I can't even watch my kid on-stage without welling up. She is with an exceptional company that produces truly magnificent shows. I say this very sincerely. I have grown to love the kids, many of whom stay, as my daughter has, for many years until they "graduate" from the program. If anyone in the greater Sacramento metro area is interested in checking out a show, it's River City Theatre Company. They operate from Hiram Johnson HS. I can guarantee you will be entertained. Of these shows I've listed, probably Shrek is my favorite from a quality production perspective, but I'll never forget certain moments watching my daughter, such as her tap-dancing in a huge tap number in Act 2 of White Christmas, or every moment on-stage as Sebastian. In Spring, 2019, they are doing Newsies and she hopes to land a lead in that show. Ok, I'm shutting up now. Thanks for reading.

Got Too Admire Her.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I especially like the last two words. That is key.

Libertarians agree government needs to be smaller. The question is, how small?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

The Libertarian platform is fairly clear on just how small: https://www.lp.org/platform/ It does speak to environmental protection, but not very explicitly. Here's what it says about that: 2.2 Environment Competitive free markets and property rights stimulate the technological innovations and behavioral changes required to protect our environment and ecosystems. Private landowners and conservation groups have a vested interest in maintaining natural resources. Governments are unaccountable for damage done to our environment and have a terrible track record when it comes to environmental protection. Protecting the environment requires a clear definition and enforcement of individual rights and responsibilities regarding resources like land, water, air, and wildlife. Where damages can be proven and quantified in a court of law, restitution to the injured parties must be required.

On being out of touch.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I wish I had some advice or helpful knowledge here, but I don't. I think it's awful that you have to worry about this at all. Shows just how primitive Humankind is. Religion poisons everything.

Ted Cruz: Americans Have No Right To Masturbate

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

Ted Cruz knows full well what the law is on this matter. The fact that he is pushing this shows what a dangerous theocrat he is. Period dot.

Any Westworld fans here?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I love, love, LOVE WW. I got a late start on the S2 premiere last night and had to bail before the end, but I'll finish it tonight.

Do you responsibly avoid sharing misinformation?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I don't see how sharing misinformation would damage someone's health. If you mean that by sharing some misinformation that is used by someone who damages their health as a result, ok. But the act of sharing information in and of itself does no real harm. It may make the sharer look like an idiot, but no one is being forced to do anything. Misinformation creates a great amount of "noise" that, for many, I think, distracts them from the important stuff. I don't share this type of stuff at all.

Parents: Do you use punishment?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

You should define the meaning of "punishment." I think you mean corporal punishment (spanking/hitting). If that is what you mean, I did not practice this. I have two children, one is grown, the other is 16. With my eldest, when he was young, on one occasion, I spanked him, but only because I had threatened to do so after repeat violations for the same thing and in order to maintain credibility, I had to follow through. In retrospect, I think that hurt me worse than it hurt him. There really is no need to spank your kids. When they are younger, using time-out is very effective when done properly. This is a method of control (because that's what we are really talking about anyway) that doesn't involve excessive force. If you have an especially unruly kid you may have to hold them in the chair, physically, until they accept that you are in-control. When they get older, suspension of privileges is effective, but again, you must follow through.

Not so sure about the new Harry Potter book...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

LOL!

I went to see "The Color Purple" musical this evening, and it was good.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

My teenaged daughter is heavily into musical theater. Recently, her company performed Addams Family, which was very good. The theater company she belongs to is pretty big and occasionally split the kids up and do two different shows. They did that this time and the younger ones did Lion King. These are all Broadway versions, and always good. So I spent Saturday evening watching that, striking the set, and then last night was the cast party. It's always a roller skating event and I really enjoy that too. =]

Blade Runner 2049 I finally saw this movie over the weekend.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I still have not seen this remake, but I liked the original. Looking forward to when it is released on Netflix or other online outlet.

I received an interview offer today.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

If she is just an employee it's probably not an issue. I'd go for it.

Okay.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Until science unlocks the secret of biological immorality, death is a reality for everyone. My suggestion is to not waste time worrying about death, rather spend your time living.

What’s the longest you’ll allow dirty dishes to be in the sink?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Taking the Fifth.

It seems to me that atheism has to be a belief.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Atheism is simply the absence of belief.

I have three tattoos.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

My Groot tat was done at an expo. 7 hours, done in one sitting.

My wife and I are retired, full time rv'rs, and , although we have a legal residence in South ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

I would jealously call you "happy nomads." Welcome!

Worst take on Ayn Rand yet?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

This person obviously has NO CLUE what Rand or Objectivism are about. "Fascist agenda?" Seriously?

I think it's appalling that religion is taught at schools, brainwashing young children.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Agree with @geko. As long as religion is taught informationally and not as literal truth, it is useful information. When public (or any) school teaches religion as truth/fact (in the US this would be a direct violation of church/state separation as it would effectively establish the Christian religion as "official" in this country), that is when the brainwashing occurs.

So, I bought the wrong hair color.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

I think you need to let us be the judges here. Please share. =]

Happy to get your feedback on how we currently populate post for the main page of the site and how ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Seems to me you would want to automate this as much as possible. 700 posts/day? OY! And that number will rise exponentially as the site grows. Automating when and where posts appear initially with possibly allowing membership filtering and flagging (as you already do) might be the best strategy here. I'm not a coder so I have no idea how hard this stuff is to setup. I just think leveraging automation here will save you a ton of work.

Need your help: I got this response to my greeter message today; I've met someone and deleted my ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 22, 2018:

(In my best super hero announcer voice) This is a job for @Admin!"

Marriage... yea or nay

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Twice, with no plans for a third.

Post your best beach or favorite place to travel/visit pictures !

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

People poo poo it, but I love Waikiki Beach on Oahu.

How come most people don't feel sorry when a fish dies?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Clearly, you haven't met my daughter.

In your opinion what is the most likely thing that could halt human progress?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

"Halt" Human progress? That is a mighty big statement. I think it would take a great deal, but obstacles impeding/slowing progress, IMHO include: Government Religion The current infusion of religion into the US administration Global thermonuclear war Nationalism I don't subscribe to technological doomsday scenarios we see played out in film (Terminator, etc).

Lost in Translation

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

I try to take things in objectively and like to think I can tell the difference between someone who is 'being negative' and someone who's just stating facts or being direct.

What are your favorite Chick Flicks? Mine are "Ghost" and "An Officer and a Gentleman"

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

OAG is a great film. And there are many great chick flicks out there. I love 50 First Dates. Sandler taps into something you don't often see in his other films and even Rob Schneider fits in well. LOL! It could also be my strong positive bias towards Hawaii that makes this one of my favs, who knows? Nah, it's a great film.

Political Hypocrisy

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

It's not hard at all. I completely agree with you. There is NO reason to get nasty in this environment where we all have at least one thing in common and when many of us flock here because of harassment received on broader social media platforms.

So heres a question.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Choose your battles wisely. This seems like a non-issue to me. Hope this helps.

Men, what are your favorite flowers?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

I love Hawaii, so plumeria and similar flowers are very appealing to me. Bird of Paradise are awesome too.

Hello everyone, I hope you are all are alright.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Be honest with her. That is the best advice anyone can give you.

3 words only..

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

She loves me.

Although it's one of the most popular themes in sci-fi, I don't think humans will ever travel to ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

A huge part of the problem is Humanity can't get out of its own way. Mysticism prevents clear thinking. Religion has hampered, greatly, the rate at which new discoveries are made. I believe Human intelligence is capable of all the things you describe.

Okay after some points made here is am trying to find a compromise on posting.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

The best way to deal with members who behave inappropriately here is to report them to Admin, who can see everything. They can, and should investigate every allegation leveled against a site member and they own the responsibility of deciding how things should be handled. We should not take it upon ourselves to post any personally identifiable info (such as an email address) or anything else in any attempt to "expose" these members. We are just site members, like them. That's my .02.

Are we becoming the "get off my lawn" group?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

I agree. Many who find this site need to vent (hence the "repeat" posts). Let them get it out of their system. Many who land here see pretty quickly that this isn't your average dating site (hence those questions). We should function as considerate facilitators, answer their questions, and keep this the welcoming and inclusive place it truly is.

Where is everyone? 30?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Actually, Libertarians are gaining ground. The outperformed the Green party in the last election and should have ballot access in all 50 states again. These are pretty big accomplishments. I think many people are closet Libertarians who fear change. They like the idea of more individual freedom, less government intervention but are afraid to change the status quo.

I'm a newbie

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Welcome Newbie!

Should Religion Be Taught in Schools?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

As what it is, Mythology.

Am I the only atheist that doesn’t smoke pot?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Nope

Birth Control for men is on the way. How will this change society?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Won't affect me, I'm fixed. LOL!

Hello all, I'm sixty-something woman who is trans, living in the Pacific NW.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Welcome to the group, and the site. =]

What, in your opinion, is the greatest invention in human history?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 20, 2018:

There are many great ones, but I think the assembly line is one of the greatest. It sparked the industrial revolution, put millions to productive work, made products more affordable.

3.5 hr first sitting. Gonna be adding some more color in the skull and around the head dress.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Looks awesome!

Which is worse?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Losing a close friend is never easy. Soundsl like the person you described dumped your group after it served its purpose. That's sad. These days, you never have to "lose" your friends simply because they move away. Surely, the dynamic of your relationship will change if you can't spend time F2F, but with all of the electronic means of connecting, you can sustain your relationship. I'm still friends with a neighbor I had right after moving to CA (in 1976). We both enlisted in the AF, but about 6 months apart. We have only seen each other a handful of times since then, but we remain connected via phone, email, and FB. He's planning to retire back to CA soon (he greatly misses his home state having spent the last 30 years or so in Lincoln, NE.), so we'll see one another again soon. =]

So...the member Desperado. Does anyone else find his name calling and insults offensive?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 20, 2018:

I think the protocol for people like this is simply to block them. That's a form of ostracizing that, if enough people do it, will have some effectiveness. Until then, at least it will be effective for you. Truly offensive posts could be reported to Admin or the new extra admin volunteer (can't remember the name they gave him/her).

Announcing the greatest invention of all time.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 19, 2018:

It'll look good stored next to my Klein Bottle Beer Glass. LOL!

People constantly say millenials are the most entitled people, but I don't get it.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 19, 2018:

The only exposure I really have to Milennials is my own children. From a parental perspective, yes, they are both lazy and entitled. LOL! But I think that's true of virtually all offspring. They love staying at Hotel Mom & Dad. Here's an article I haven't read all the way thru, but that supposedly debunks many of the myths surrounding this topic: https://medium.com/the-mission/the-14-most-destructive-millennial-myths-debunked-by-data-aa00838eecd6

So do you believe we've been visited by extraterrestrials?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 19, 2018:

I'm going with "they're too dumb to bother about." I absolutely believe we can't be the only intelligent life in the universe, but are still primitive enough to be beneath the notice of alien civilizations because we bring nothing to the table. Hell, we can't even get along with each other yet. =\

Here's an (updated) collage of some famous atheists, agnostics, freethinkers, humanists, and ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 19, 2018:

Ya, very cool. Thanks!

What is your number one favorite food? I love Indian.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 19, 2018:

Um, Mexican, wait, er, Thai...ah, German...Italian. DAMMIT! They are all so good. Why'd you have to make this so hard?

Are introductions a thing?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 19, 2018:

This place advertises itself as a dating site. People come here for that reason and then discover what a great community this is and get absorbed in that. I think that's a good thing. Anyway, it's OKAY to view profiles. If you think you might be interested in someone based on their profile, you can follow them. Then you'll get alerts when they make posts which will help you get to know them a bit. They will know you've viewed their profile and will know you follow them, so if you're a bit shy, this is a subtle way of indicating possible interest. Just jump in with both feet, participate, and if someone seems interesting, reach out directly. Have fun!

Sexy pics or not?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 19, 2018:

Only if you think posting sexy pics of yourself will attract the kind of people you don't want to date. Seriously. =] It's up to you.

LOOK AT ME, MOM! I'M LEVEL 7!!!! Lesser Mortals Beware!

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 19, 2018:

Thanks for all the love, everybody. (starts scribbling his acceptance speech for level eight) =]

So you're invited to a masquerade party! What statement would your costume make about you?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 18, 2018:

Nerd. I'd go as Capt. Picard.

Some site updates 1.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 18, 2018:

Thanks for the update!

Is there a way to like profile pictures?

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 18, 2018:

That's a no. Not possible to like images.

Name THREE things about yourself and one not true. Let me guess which one's not true.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 18, 2018:

I love, love, love Cinnabon regular sized cinnamon rolls, warmed up with a big glass of milk or coffee. I'm a strong supporter of Capitalism. I like reality TV, especiallly Naked and Afraid. I'm a fan of Fantasy, Sci-Fi, and most anything Disney.

While we're on the subject of people using Agnostic.

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 18, 2018:

Anyone wanna buy a watch? No, really. I have a watch biz. LOL!

Long long long shot! Is there anyone here who falls into all catagories here: 1) you live in ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 18, 2018:

Three strikes and I'm out! LOL! (I don't dislike UH, but don't think that qualifies as a "like.")

More often that not, this happens to youth more than what we know, and we wonder why there are so ...

IAMGROOT comments on Apr 18, 2018:

I agree with this, but I'm not gonna like it. =[