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Many people point to the symptoms of love as its definition (patient, kind, attentive, etc .

dahermit comments on Dec 23, 2018:

Or...is romantic love just a temporary state of consorting pairs as found many places in nature. Before you get all warm and fuzzy about "love", consider that 50% of marriages fail, many of those who remain married are unhappy and many more have just mellowed to an accommodation wherein a state of ...

Jolanta replies on Dec 25, 2018:

@dahermit Oh my little hermit. I have met people in my lifetime that are and have romantic love. As I said it is not often that it happens but it does. How can I prove it to you, I can't. You have to meet these persons yourself. How was/is your parents marriage?

Does anyone else have to deal with an aging Christian relative?

Jolanta comments on Dec 24, 2018:

Invest some money in some good quality earplugs.

Jolanta replies on Dec 24, 2018:

@sweetcharlotte I hope that I make your day a happier one

Does anyone else have to deal with an aging Christian relative?

josh_is_exciting comments on Dec 24, 2018:

Can we all tell @confidentrealm that's she's doing a wonderful, amazing, difficult thing, in caring for her mother alone and that we appreciate her? She's returning the love she was given, we simply need more love in the world and this is the real stuff, it's an inspiration to us! All human beings ...

Jolanta replies on Dec 24, 2018:

Thank you for that, however some people would not understand kindness or love if it hit them on the head and some people in relationships, whether children/adults/siblings etc, etc have been so damaged by the other that just having to put up with the perpetrator for one hour would bring so much pain that they are better off not having anything to do with that person.

Many people point to the symptoms of love as its definition (patient, kind, attentive, etc .

dahermit comments on Dec 23, 2018:

Or...is romantic love just a temporary state of consorting pairs as found many places in nature. Before you get all warm and fuzzy about "love", consider that 50% of marriages fail, many of those who remain married are unhappy and many more have just mellowed to an accommodation wherein a state of ...

Jolanta replies on Dec 24, 2018:

@dahermit Do you think that as a Asberger’s person you would have a clue. Romantic love does exist, just not that often as in books and romantic movies.

Good morning ? I hope everyone has a wonderful day!

Jolanta comments on Dec 23, 2018:

Good Morning, same to you.

Jolanta replies on Dec 24, 2018:

@Simplysassy You are welcome. Let's hope your day was a good one.

So.

Jolanta comments on Dec 23, 2018:

I do it quite often but then I don't come from an English speaking background.

Jolanta replies on Dec 24, 2018:

@TristanNuvo It certainly is and it is so easy to find the meaning of words. I read a lot and every time there is a word I do not understand, I look it up. I think my vocabulary has increased immensely doing that.

Many people point to the symptoms of love as its definition (patient, kind, attentive, etc .

dahermit comments on Dec 23, 2018:

Or...is romantic love just a temporary state of consorting pairs as found many places in nature. Before you get all warm and fuzzy about "love", consider that 50% of marriages fail, many of those who remain married are unhappy and many more have just mellowed to an accommodation wherein a state of ...

Jolanta replies on Dec 23, 2018:

Has "love" been hard on you then. Don't feel alone, you are not the only one.

Does the double standard still exist for women or Ursi's crazy Friday nights (part3).

Green_eyes comments on Dec 22, 2018:

Men have a way of dealing with rejection poorly.. by spreading rumors. I would take that with a grain of salt and find out yourself. Ultimately it’s her body and life. You can appreciate her as a friend with her choices or not.

Jolanta replies on Dec 23, 2018:

@Sticks48 Oh, the mating game can be wonderful but it can also be a horrible time. I am glad we have it. Vive La Differance.

Has it occurred to any of my fellow site members that Trump's actions to pull our troops out of ...

Jolanta comments on Dec 21, 2018:

What makes you think that the Russians are going to wipe out the Kurds? I think it is good that the US leaves Syria. They have no business being there in the first place.

Jolanta replies on Dec 23, 2018:

@wordywalt So tell me how you see it being different?

I've always been a tad annoyed at those guys that target vulnerable women at Christmas.

Humanistheathen comments on Dec 22, 2018:

While it's a nice sentiment, I'm thinking that many readers are dubious as to your intent for posting. Maybe you're generally just concerned for women who are feeling vulnerable right now. And maybe you're attempting to virtue signal and White Knight, which is commonly a public gesture meant to ...

Jolanta replies on Dec 23, 2018:

@maturin1919 I did, but you know we don't all come out of the same mould, and some people are not so good as others in expressing themselves.

I had the funniest dream.

Jolanta comments on Dec 22, 2018:

And we’re you pissed that you woke up, without having “finished” the dream too?

Jolanta replies on Dec 23, 2018:

@VineetHonkan Well, you will have to do something about that, won't you.

I've always been a tad annoyed at those guys that target vulnerable women at Christmas.

Humanistheathen comments on Dec 22, 2018:

While it's a nice sentiment, I'm thinking that many readers are dubious as to your intent for posting. Maybe you're generally just concerned for women who are feeling vulnerable right now. And maybe you're attempting to virtue signal and White Knight, which is commonly a public gesture meant to ...