Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

bigpawbullets comments on Oct 7, 2018:

You're more than welcome here. Personally, and I don't speak for anyone else here; Religion is not a big deal to me. And I believe the Republican party of today emphasises that too much. But, from a practical standpoint, that's one way of attracting voters to your base. Racism: I see no ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

Why are you so afraid of socialism? What in particular?

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Trump realizes the conservatives unfortunately can’t win without the support of the mostly conservative religous right wing so he caters to them even though he’s likely not a Christain himself. Myself If i have to choose between the gun grabbing, Obama loving Trump bashing left wing socialist ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

I am sad to hear you say that. Seems to me like you don't give a fig about what happens to your fellow Americans as long as you can have your gun, no matter if it kills your own family. By the way Obama never said anything about grabbing your gun, what he said is that you need to look into the whole messy business.

Not a "conservative," but I joined up to pose a question to the conservatives in this group.

buck1977 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Show me one instance of what you consider racism coming from a main stream Republican leader. Republicans openly reject their lunatic fringe...Democrats put theirs on stage.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

If that was so, why does Donald not say that but talk about these are"very fine people" when the racists are on the rampage?

Accurate on several levels:

Trajan61 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Both those guys seem to piss the liberals off big time. So both of them must be great guys!!

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

What I know about what is happening around the world Donald is "pissing off" many people and not to his advantage either.

Do conservatives have a more patient attitude?

buck1977 comments on Oct 7, 2018:

What you're seeing now is the result of 8 years of moron coddling that came from the Obama administration. They've just had the rug pulled out from under their continued attempts to get their perversions and lunacy injected into normal society. Liberals think and behave like children and are ...

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

I guess I too would not be "handling" adversity if I no longer had health care and one of my family members had a life threatening illness.

Do conservatives have a more patient attitude?

DarrelScott comments on Oct 7, 2018:

In my view yes. At least we aren't rioting in the streets, destroying property and attacking those who disagree with ua.

Jolanta replies on Oct 7, 2018:

So what about the right wing that cover their faces and start fights?

Do atheists observe Halloween?

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Most would as most celebrate Christmas too, or at least the giving or exchanging presents.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@benhmiller Yes, I believe it too, however it is also very sad for those who do not have any family or who are not in touch with them.

I found this meme on my page but could not comment on it as it was in a group to which i do not, and...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hi, I just joined that group so I can post things to it. I wonder how long I will last there after they figure out that I am a conservative social democrat, which I state from the beginning.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@genessa The power of one can be immense, he, he.

I found this meme on my page but could not comment on it as it was in a group to which i do not, and...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hi, I just joined that group so I can post things to it. I wonder how long I will last there after they figure out that I am a conservative social democrat, which I state from the beginning.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@genessa Maybe, just maybe I may start some of them wondering about what is going on. I hope for the best.

I started a list of atheist friendly TV shows: Seinfeld, Big Bang Theory, Southpark, Northern ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

I am not so sure about Seinfeld. Jerry is Jewish and quite happy to go to Israel with his family and shoot Palestinians even though it was in a "game".

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@PalacinkyPDX Sometimes we have to get pick. To see what that person/s are made of.

I found this meme on my page but could not comment on it as it was in a group to which i do not, and...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hi, I just joined that group so I can post things to it. I wonder how long I will last there after they figure out that I am a conservative social democrat, which I state from the beginning.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@genessa Yes, I am optimistic, but I have to tell you that a few of them have welcomed me to the site and say that they are happy with fresh input. Only time will tell.

I am a conservative social democrat. Can I join?

bigpawbullets comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Absolutely. A view into your country's current political and cultural situation will be interesting. Welcome.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Thank you. Well at the moment I live in Australia and we have a very conservative government that has a lot of infighting. All of them seem to want the top job, bunch of twits. Instead of working together they are divided. The cultural situation is abysmal. The Aboriginal people get a raw deal, probably something like the native Indians in the US.

I am a conservative social democrat. Can I join?

azzow2 comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Not a problem as long as you have an open mind and criticism can be tolerated.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Thank you.

The liberal’s may regret the dirty war they waged against Kavanaigh.

buck1977 comments on Oct 6, 2018:

You mistakenly assume leftists have the ability to learn from their mistakes...regret is a personality trait common to people who have integrity and empathy.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

What you think that they don't have the same brain functions as the conservative do?

I found this meme on my page but could not comment on it as it was in a group to which i do not, and...

Jolanta comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hi, I just joined that group so I can post things to it. I wonder how long I will last there after they figure out that I am a conservative social democrat, which I state from the beginning.

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

@genessa I wonder, one day or two, he, he.

Sunday, sunshine & good friends, what else can you ask for!

Sticks48 comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Hair and a Government that works. ☺

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

Well your government does work just no for you and hair you can always buy a wig. Good luck.

I'm curious as to how other people feel about the Republicans shoving Kavanaugh down our throats.

IamNobody comments on Oct 6, 2018:

You have worded your last sentence as an statement. I don't have an opinion, I do have a question though..... Why is he going to vote for corporations and against woman and LGBT rights?

Jolanta replies on Oct 6, 2018:

What, you have not notice what he has been accused of, or you have not heard his aggressive whine.

Use your social media more effectively.

Ostopal comments on Oct 1, 2018:

For that to happen you first need 'friends', I have only 'contacts' on social media.

Jolanta replies on Oct 5, 2018:

@Ostopal Yes it is difficult but don't give up. It takes two to do it. Keep it up.

Use your social media more effectively.

Ostopal comments on Oct 1, 2018:

For that to happen you first need 'friends', I have only 'contacts' on social media.

Jolanta replies on Oct 4, 2018:

@Ostopal So don't you talk to your neighbours?

We want to fight Isis, or a violent ideology, but we can’t even get out of bed to make cereal ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

What did you do or not to piss her off so much?

Jolanta replies on Oct 4, 2018:

@skinnymcfatty Yet they are.

Test showing sexual preferences

Jolanta comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Why, are you confused?

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@sweetcharlotte I am fine and it is now morning. I did not get my education in Australia but went to school in Sweden. Surely you must know how you feel when it comes to your sexuality. What orientation you go towards, everything else is just rubbish and hype. That is nothing one learns in books or on google.

Use your social media more effectively.

Ostopal comments on Oct 1, 2018:

For that to happen you first need 'friends', I have only 'contacts' on social media.

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@Ostopal Sorry to hear that. Being disable must be tough, but could you not start something of your own? Like put up a notice about a book club, or how about a notice to meet up with other disabled people? I know that in the UK there are a few organisations that help people who are alone.

Use your social media more effectively.

birdingnut comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Gracious, no. The advantage of social media friends is not having to hang with them in reality. There are only a few I'd probably enjoy being with, and then only for a short time to do something specific.

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@birdingnut Sorry to hear about you illness. What are your plans, going back to the US? Or what?

Use your social media more effectively.

Ostopal comments on Oct 1, 2018:

For that to happen you first need 'friends', I have only 'contacts' on social media.

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

What none of your friends in life are friends with you on social media?

We want to fight Isis, or a violent ideology, but we can’t even get out of bed to make cereal ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

What did you do or not to piss her off so much?

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@skinnymcfatty Funny how so many people blame it on something instead of taking responsibility. If you know you are selfish, don't get into relationships.

Test showing sexual preferences

Jolanta comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Why, are you confused?

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@sweetcharlotte How about going back to school. Maybe that would help.

Use your social media more effectively.

birdingnut comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Gracious, no. The advantage of social media friends is not having to hang with them in reality. There are only a few I'd probably enjoy being with, and then only for a short time to do something specific.

Jolanta replies on Oct 3, 2018:

@birdingnut That all sounds great. Why on all word would you cook if you live in Thailand, after all the food there is so delicious and cheap. This would not be until sometimes next year, and yes I am independent and mellow, without the alcohol, he,he. Only way to be.

While sleeping when it's warm I like to leave one leg outside the covers in order to moderate body ...

Bendog comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Not anymore. I did that while camping and a bear took it. I only have one left.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

I hope you are joking.

Use your social media more effectively.

birdingnut comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Gracious, no. The advantage of social media friends is not having to hang with them in reality. There are only a few I'd probably enjoy being with, and then only for a short time to do something specific.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

True but a lot of our friends on social media are the very ones that we know personally, like our very own family. Remember that one day I will come to visit you in Thailand, though, he, he.

Hey, Agnostic community! Here are i am! Looking to make connections and have some fun with it.

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Hi Ian, welcome. One small thing, intellectual and drinking may spell disaster.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

@IanOlsen So are you drunk now. You are talking to me after all.

My family started watching the original Star Wars trilogy this weekend because my 14 year old niece ...

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

She probably doesn't believe that in some parts of the world children go to school without shoes either.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

@davyjones I hope her life will turn out to be happy.

Five things to quit.

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

Easy to do when we are happy and contented but not so when we are stressed.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

@HardBlues69 It certainly is. We need or I am now talking about myself. When I am stressed or sad, I seem to forget all about putting myself down and overthinking.

Just in case anybody wonder, yes please come in, I am already disturbed ?

Jolanta comments on Oct 1, 2018:

We know you are, no need to remind us.

Jolanta replies on Oct 1, 2018:

@IamNobody Probably only fun for you.

Yup.

Marionville comments on Sep 30, 2018:

This MUST be a purely American treat! Never crossed to this side of the Atlantic! The only thing we do with pumpkins is make Hallowe’en Lanterns or Soup with them.

Jolanta replies on Sep 30, 2018:

@maturin1919 Of course they are but only in the negative sense.

Women can be sexist too. Allow him how to operate the washing machine.

Jolanta comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Only women who have been living with men understand why. It is not like we don't want them to or that we are in any way preventing them from being equal, but it is dam hard to get them off the sofa in the first place.

Jolanta replies on Sep 30, 2018:

@LenHazell53 Well, if I have then so do most of my female friends too.

Get involved in your community and your world will expand.

brentan comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Any more positive ideas like that and I'm going to report you!

Jolanta replies on Sep 30, 2018:

Spoilt sport, you are just jealous because you did not think of it first.

Get involved in your community and your world will expand.

bingst comments on Sep 29, 2018:

In a predominately religious community, that would cause me loads of stress and might even be dangerous.

Jolanta replies on Sep 30, 2018:

What to help people, dangerous?

Get involved in your community and your world will expand.

LucyLoohoo comments on Sep 29, 2018:

And you'll live longer, be happier and you'll find the deep pleasure which comes from helping people!

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

And you mainly have helped yourself.

Brett Kavanaugh Lied To Senators About The True Definition Of Several Terms In His Yearbook.

sweetcharlotte comments on Sep 29, 2018:

I have never heard of any of that. And to know he did things like that as a teenager to girls makes him entirely disrespectful to women, in my opinion. As wealthy as his family were, giving him the expensive prep school education,and a huge home to live in, were not watching out for the important ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@sweetcharlotte You are not old, just experienced in life, and unfortunately it is not only happening in the US. It is all over the world on a smaller scale.

Woman are a force to reckoned with.

CrazyQuilter comments on Sep 28, 2018:

I expect they will refute your opinion until they find themselves a minority, then they'll whine and attack harder. I'm hoping the younger generation will run out the majority of the old white guys in power. They just can't change.

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@CrazyQuilter So it is.

Who are you going to be for Halloween this year?

Jolanta comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Well good for you. I so wish that this US tradition would not invade us here in Australia but it does, business can see dollar signs with this. I am closing my door and not answering it when the doorbell rings.

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

@MountainBound I could, you are right but I did not. I get rather frustrated at "traditions" that has nothing to do with us. Only for commercial game, and anytime you want to have a fancy dress party, you can. I really don't like kids knocking on my door demanding sweets and or money, kids that any other time of the year would not even say hello to you.

Brett Kavanaugh Lied To Senators About The True Definition Of Several Terms In His Yearbook.

sweetcharlotte comments on Sep 29, 2018:

I have never heard of any of that. And to know he did things like that as a teenager to girls makes him entirely disrespectful to women, in my opinion. As wealthy as his family were, giving him the expensive prep school education,and a huge home to live in, were not watching out for the important ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

Well, I guess you have heard of the young man (Brock Turner) from Stanford who raped a young unconscious woman and got 6 months for it. His father also said that it was only 20 minutes of action. What can you expect when parents have that kind of attitude.

Trump official caught OKing family separation plan she said didn't exist

kmdskit3 comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Fucking lying fucks...

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

Language

Woman are a force to reckoned with.

CrazyQuilter comments on Sep 28, 2018:

I expect they will refute your opinion until they find themselves a minority, then they'll whine and attack harder. I'm hoping the younger generation will run out the majority of the old white guys in power. They just can't change.

Jolanta replies on Sep 29, 2018:

What you don't think that women are a force to recon with?

I really feel that Dr.

Paracosm comments on Sep 28, 2018:

What is out of hand exactly?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@sunnn, @FlyingEagle1952 I wonder if you were a witness you would have "come" forward. I think most of them would not. There is such shame around this, that you did not do anything, etc, etc and you need to educate yourself about rape. What is this about her living with there mother? What exactly has that to do with the assault and because there was no penetration doesn't mean that it is less. Did you not listen to what she said happen, the other guy jump on them and they all tumbled down, if he did not a rape would certainly have happened. This is not about democrats or republicans but about a women or women who have been sexually assaulted by K. Not for one moment did you say anything about him not answering the questions, which he did not.

I really feel that Dr.

Paracosm comments on Sep 28, 2018:

What is out of hand exactly?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@sunnn Neither do I.

Weigh the stakes, wait, and break.

Jolanta comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Is this about you?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@stinkeye_a Wow, but then I too would look over my shoulder if I was living in the US.

Well, I lost another facebook friend.

Jolanta comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Did you de friend them or did they?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@tnorman1236 I don't usually do that but I keep on hammering at them about the stupid, hurtful, disgusting things they post and I make it personal to them, but sometimes one just have to un friend them too.

I really feel that Dr.

Paracosm comments on Sep 28, 2018:

What is out of hand exactly?

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

@FlyingEagle1952 So you think it is a joke when she did tell people about it years and years ago. 16 year old boys do rape and so do 13 year old boys.

Pat Robertson to God: Please ‘throw confusion’ into Kavanaugh’s accusers – DeadState

Pralina1 comments on Sep 28, 2018:

He needs to die and be w Jesus . Like now .

Jolanta replies on Sep 28, 2018:

I don't think Jesus would have him.

Anybody thinking about divorce here?

Jolanta comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Did it twice, was very painful, but I survived. Now I cannot understand why I every married either one of them.

Jolanta replies on Sep 27, 2018:

@fidla When it happened you were in love. It is funny how we don't seem to ever remember that we once loved that person. So have you done this more than once?

You are not responsible for anybody else's happiness.

genessa comments on Sep 26, 2018:

maybe responsibility is the wrong concept here. it is not our job to ensure anyone's happiness, and that's good, because we can't. it would be an impossible job. on the other hand we do have responsibilities: not to abuse people, not to sabotage people's rightful attempts to be happy, stuff ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 27, 2018:

@p-nullifidian I am sure you are not the only one.

You are not responsible for anybody else's happiness.

Marionville comments on Sep 26, 2018:

No we’re not, but we have a duty to ourselves to make ourselves happy. If we are happy then we will make others happy by being around us. Some people may say that it is selfish to make oneself happy but I disagree and I don’t mean when I say this to be self-centred. We must always consider ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 27, 2018:

You are spot on there. It is pity that the woman always comes last, after the dog sometimes too.

What does everyone think about sexbots?

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

You need to ask yourself if you wanted your wife to go to one of these "brotherls" assuming that there are male sexbots too, without you.

Jolanta replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@manfrompahrump In my knowledge of women, most of the married ones would not partake and would be rather unhappy if you did.

A Tale of Gender Bashing and a Double Standard.

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I never understood why women would not look out for each other, instead of what is happening. Women are the ones who mostly bring up children and have a big influence on them, it is about time that they started to teach their children to show respect towards each other.

Jolanta replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@linxminx Those kind of women must be incredibly insecure.

Failing Mother’s Godly Child Checklist One thing I love being at med school is that I get to ...

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Considering you live in the Phillipines you need to be an activist and a feminists too.

Jolanta replies on Sep 25, 2018:

@SimonCyrene Hardly.

A Tale of Gender Bashing and a Double Standard.

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I never understood why women would not look out for each other, instead of what is happening. Women are the ones who mostly bring up children and have a big influence on them, it is about time that they started to teach their children to show respect towards each other.

Jolanta replies on Sep 22, 2018:

@linxminx I don't understand it either, considering who do we "run" to when our lives are in tatters, not a man but to your girlfriends.

Weekends..

birdingnut comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I'm up, as I am every day, at 3:30 AM, then sip cho-wa tea and eat some spicy Thai sardines, and locally baked fish crisp chips from here in Songkhla, Thailand. I ride my "gallopers" up and down the long hallway, and do 10 pull-ups in my room, climb the stairs to my 5th floor just for exercise. I...

Jolanta replies on Sep 22, 2018:

@birdingnut Maybe next year. I have just come back from my big holiday this year.

Weekends..

birdingnut comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I'm up, as I am every day, at 3:30 AM, then sip cho-wa tea and eat some spicy Thai sardines, and locally baked fish crisp chips from here in Songkhla, Thailand. I ride my "gallopers" up and down the long hallway, and do 10 pull-ups in my room, climb the stairs to my 5th floor just for exercise. I...

Jolanta replies on Sep 22, 2018:

I think I need to come and visit you.

Dalai Lama says all religions are the same.

p-nullifidian comments on Sep 14, 2018:

Until seeing the recent video evidence of men dressed similarly to the Dalai Lama committing acts of violence and persecution against an ethnic / religious minority, I had thought Buddhism to be incapable of such intolerance. But seeing the hardline monks of Myanmar as they conducted ethnic ...

Jolanta replies on Sep 19, 2018:

@pnfullifidian It is not necessary true that they do not integrate but more likely that they are "frozen" out of doing so.

London streets.

Simon1 comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Wheres the roaming gangs of moslims enforcing sharon law wearing burkahs bombing everyone and stealing the jobs and claiming dole money ???

Jolanta replies on Sep 1, 2018:

No I don't know what happened but I seemed to have missed them.

For those who have done, or wish to, travel. How did you decide where to go?

Jolanta comments on Aug 21, 2018:

I seem to look for places that I have not been to before and also look out for good deals. Am on holidays at the moment, writing this from Warnemunde, Germany.

Jolanta replies on Aug 24, 2018:

@Heidi68 I have and more will be forthcoming. I have just arrived in London. Weather is great. Will go out on town as soon as I have settled in.

St. Petersburg,Russia. Interesting place to visit, lots to see.

Marionville comments on Aug 19, 2018:

Nice, I am hoping to do a cruise of the Baltic sometime soon and want it to include St Petersburg or the Paris of the North as it used to be termed!

Jolanta replies on Aug 21, 2018:

It is a lovely place to visit, the palaces are amazing. Remember to book a tour before you go, they will arrange a visa which you need. Booking it with the cruise ships is more expensive. There is no public transport when you get off the ship, no taxi or busses either. Be prepared for a lot of tourists and buy your souvenirs in town too. They have them on the ship but you will have to pay 100 times more

St. Petersburg,Russia. Interesting place to visit, lots to see.

Varn comments on Aug 19, 2018:

Russia’s off my list… 20 years ago, sure. Today ..having morphed back into the dictatorship it had been most of my life - then messing with my nation - **no way** ~

Jolanta replies on Aug 21, 2018:

You mean like the US is messing with a lot of nations around the world.

Stockholm the capital of Sweden.

chalupacabre comments on Aug 15, 2018:

Hope you had/have some sunny days there, too! Seems like the neatest cities can be so disappointing if the weather doesn't cooperate.

Jolanta replies on Aug 16, 2018:

We a there was overcast but warm. Lovely city

My first day in New Youk city and someone left a chewing gum on the seat in the Hop- on- hop- off ...

weeman comments on Aug 3, 2018:

aside from that you enjoying it so far?

Jolanta replies on Aug 10, 2018:

Asides from that I am pleasantly surprised. Seen a lot the last few days

A fun little fact on the Betsy Devos yacht story.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

She is not interested in making America great again.

Jolanta replies on Aug 3, 2018:

@Jc007 you know she was home schooled, so has no experience there either

Short rant: I work for a public school system.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I live in Australia and we never have to put up with this kind of rubbish, although our right wing government has done something really stupid. They have put in religious people into schools as counsellors. What is needed are professional counsellors not some religious nutters.

Jolanta replies on Aug 2, 2018:

@patchoullijulie come on over

I sometimes think about polyamorous relationships and just can't imagine myself in that type of a ...

GipsyOfNewSpain comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Words of a Cheater.... There is nothing my ex wife could had done to stop my behavior.... I liked Women.

Jolanta replies on Aug 2, 2018:

And now you're single all alone

I sometimes think about polyamorous relationships and just can't imagine myself in that type of a ...

SallyInStitches comments on Aug 2, 2018:

There are folks who are hard wired monogamous, some of us are hard wired poly. That said, I will try to explain jealousy, or the lack thereof, in my case. Poly is not (again, in my opinion) swinging or 1 night stands. Some argue for or against this, Not debating that here. But I need to put out ...

Jolanta replies on Aug 2, 2018:

I am not a jealous person and never have been and I love several people but not in a way that you describe. I know several people who are involved in polyamory,almost all the females are unhappy and some of the males too. It really seems to be detrimental to them.

I'm curious how friendships show themselves in the US. Going out together?

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

That is easier said than done. You have to know someone to do that with to start off. Are you in the US? I have found Americans friendly and hospitable.

Jolanta replies on Aug 2, 2018:

@Gert you only feel/think that way because that is what you are used to

Short rant: I work for a public school system.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I live in Australia and we never have to put up with this kind of rubbish, although our right wing government has done something really stupid. They have put in religious people into schools as counsellors. What is needed are professional counsellors not some religious nutters.

Jolanta replies on Aug 2, 2018:

@patchoullijulie so it is, however we are going to the polls this year and all the pre polls suggest that they are going to loose, yay.

Who has fruit trees?

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I have peach trees, a cherry tree and an almond tree. The birds usually get it all.

Jolanta replies on Aug 2, 2018:

@helionoftroy It's my fault I should net the almond tree and pay more attention to the other trees

New here looking for someone like me

birdingnut comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Hi, Gizmo - welcome to the website. By the way, this website has a bit of a learning curve. For members who are open to dating, certain thumbnails and profiles have a heart symbol on them with a percentage. This identifies which members are open to dating, and the percent shows approximately ...

Jolanta replies on Aug 2, 2018:

You are a good teacher, although I still need to upload a photo of myself. Which I will do when I get back from my holiday.

109-Year-Old Woman Says Avoiding Men Is The Secret To A Long Life

Akfishlady comments on Jul 31, 2018:

Who wants to live that long? I want to have fun.

Jolanta replies on Aug 1, 2018:

What makes you think she did not have fun

Just a note, I see a lot of people on this site almost desperately trying to date there is a chance ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I really enjoyed you posting this. Telling how it is, although not quite. I have come across people who are lovely together after many years, so it does exist but not often. I don't expect to meet my "soul" mate here but then I am not looking for one either. I just love being on this site ...

Jolanta replies on Jul 30, 2018:

@Drsmash253 truth is good you can't please everybody

Do you often use profanity?

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

No, it is not necessary to do that. It normalizes bad language and we don't need any more "bad" stuff in this world.

Jolanta replies on Jul 30, 2018:

@Salo There are things in this world that should be left alone

Tomorrow morning at 7.

Carin comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I hope you have a great time! Going inside the Statue of Liberty was great fun when I went there as a kid. Now Central Park sounds more appealing. Can't wait to hear about your trip!

Jolanta replies on Jul 30, 2018:

I am looking forward to seeing Central Park and every thing else

Tomorrow morning at 7.

Stacey48 comments on Jul 30, 2018:

That is exciting. I got to be there a couple of years ago. It was everything I hoped for. I didn't get to visit everything on my list, so I hope to go back someday. Have an amazing adventure!

Jolanta replies on Jul 30, 2018:

Thank you

Tomorrow morning at 7.

Spinliesel comments on Jul 30, 2018:

Remember that NYC taxi drivers can bend time and space. Just close your eyes and believe that you will survive.

Jolanta replies on Jul 30, 2018:

I have been to Nepal so it will be a piece of cake

Tomorrow morning at 7.

EricJones comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I live about 150 km west of New York and have been there many times (had an aunt who lived there) and there is just so much to see and do. To do just the main spots you need about a month. The weather for the next 2 weeks looks good, so that shouldn't be a problem. Welcome to this side of the planet...

Jolanta replies on Jul 30, 2018:

Thank you

I try every day to find something to be grateful for, to be happy about.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

If you put certain herbs (lavender, peppermint etc, etc,) in his bed then it will take care of the problem.

Jolanta replies on Jul 30, 2018:

@Condor5 That may be fine if you want to bred in chemicals. I would stick with natural stuff

Do you often use profanity?

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

No, it is not necessary to do that. It normalizes bad language and we don't need any more "bad" stuff in this world.

Jolanta replies on Jul 30, 2018:

@Salo ok, you're saying that because it is "outdated ". It is now ok to use swear words. That is exactly how we are normalising the issue. Is is so difficult not to swear?

I'm not saying that I've always been a ladies man but when I was 7 years old I tried playing little ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Did you eventually learn?

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@Duke That was lucky for you.

I thought I was joining an Agnostic/Atheist group.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I don't live in the US but am following what is happening there as it affects the rest of the world. It is an honor hear that you voted for Jill. If I could vote there I would vote for her. Keep it up.

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@Secretguy What do you know about "my level of knowledge", how do you measure it? I can tell you that my level of knowledge in politics is very good, maybe even better than yours, who knows. I see that you say about yourself that you are here for the community. Well I can tell you that Jill is there for the community, unlike Hillary or Donald.

I highly recommend the documentary "3 Identical Strangers" about a set of triplets who were each ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Being an only child I wish this was me.

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@PalacinkyPDX What I wish is that I had a sibling one that I found after all these years of being alone. I would even be happy with a sibling that I was at odds with sometimes.

Do you often use profanity?

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

No, it is not necessary to do that. It normalizes bad language and we don't need any more "bad" stuff in this world.

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@Salo A swearword is still swearword, and the problem is just that, you normalise it.

Anyone interested in going for a beer with me?

Jolanta comments on Jul 24, 2018:

I come out for bear with you but I am far too far away and my zimmer frame would be in the way.

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@YouCanCallMeRob Any reason you don't?

Do you often use profanity?

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

No, it is not necessary to do that. It normalizes bad language and we don't need any more "bad" stuff in this world.

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@maturin1919 I did, and I am surprised that you are asking. Well here it goes. The question was, Do you often use profanities, and I don't I don't like them, I don't use them. What is the point in talking to someone if every second word is a profanity (bad word), it takes away the joy of conversation, gets in the way of and makes the communication unimportant if someone has to swear all the time. In my eyes I lose respect for people who has to do it all the time.

Just spent 4 days in Vegas.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Why did you go if you don't like it?

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@boom Ah, the things we do for our children.

Do you often use profanity?

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

No, it is not necessary to do that. It normalizes bad language and we don't need any more "bad" stuff in this world.

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@JimG Well you will have to do something about it, won't you.

Do you often use profanity?

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

No, it is not necessary to do that. It normalizes bad language and we don't need any more "bad" stuff in this world.

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@maturin1919 Yes.

Do you often use profanity?

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

No, it is not necessary to do that. It normalizes bad language and we don't need any more "bad" stuff in this world.

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@maturin1919 What you don't know.

Behind every great man is a great behind!

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

No, no, no. I have not seen a lovely behind for so, so long on a man.

Jolanta replies on Jul 29, 2018:

@Benthoven Ok, I hope I will not be disappointed.

So apparently I'm going to level up soon.

Tomfoolery33 comments on Jul 27, 2018:

I love it here. It's easy to spend way too much time, particularly if you're like me, and don't have much of a real life.

Jolanta replies on Jul 28, 2018:

@tnorman1236 Yes, life is not always a bowl or roses and it is easy for some people to fall into a big hole of depression. Good that you did see someone. One step at a time. Now when you are on this web site I hope we can help.

Behind every great man is a great behind!

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

No, no, no. I have not seen a lovely behind for so, so long on a man.

Jolanta replies on Jul 28, 2018:

@Benthoven I am going there on Tuesday, so will let you know if you are right.

Looking for somewhere to go as a trip for my 40th birthday. Throw some ideas out there. :)

Jolanta comments on Jul 27, 2018:

Come to Australia.

Jolanta replies on Jul 28, 2018:

@antman My daughter is 31, rather fit I would say but she is a whirlwind. So your brother has 3 daughters already at this age.

For those struggling to be comfortable in their own skin, please remember that beauty doesn't come ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Rude git.

Jolanta replies on Jul 28, 2018:

@Lostin15801 You figure it out, re-read your own comment.

Am I the only one who doesn't believe in Cable?

Jolanta comments on Jul 23, 2018:

No, you are not. There are actually people who do not have a TV as strange as it sounds. I hardly put mine on. I rather read a book.

Jolanta replies on Jul 28, 2018:

@STLChris1963 If my TV broke I would probably not even notice it.

Looking for somewhere to go as a trip for my 40th birthday. Throw some ideas out there. :)

Jolanta comments on Jul 27, 2018:

Come to Australia.

Jolanta replies on Jul 28, 2018:

@antman Not today, but who knows about tomorrow. How old is your brother?