Anybody thinking about divorce here?

Jolanta comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Did it twice, was very painful, but I survived. Now I cannot understand why I every married either one of them.

From my experience there are large numbers of people that will not come out and call themselves an ...

Jolanta comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Most people probably do not even think about it. They are way too busy watching Big Brother or some other rubbish TV.

Is Donald Trump the anti-Christ???.....or anti-pasta????

Jolanta comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Must be the anti-Christ because he is a McDonald's hamburger man.

Non-union workers desire to join unions at 40 year high. [pbs.org]

Jolanta comments on Sep 25, 2018:

The only people who don't like unions are the very stupid ones and the very rich ones.

Has anyone experienced any workplace prejudice regarding their atheist points of view?

Jolanta comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Not really. I live in Australia and people don't seem to get upset about religion as they do in the US.

To all of those who think Nike is great and is only interested in standing for what is right.

Jolanta comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I don't know why people buy things just because of a brand name. Says a lot about insecurities.

For all of you Trekies out there...lol

Jolanta comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I have friends who belong to the Bhramah Kumari and they believe that the end of the world will be coming. First it was in the 60s, then the 70s, then the 80s and so on and so on. They find it difficult to explain how come it has not happened yet.

I have for quite some time thought that those incarcerated in penitentiaries should be given free ...

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Unfortunately the people who "own" prisons would never let that happen. Their profit would not be so large.

Everything You Know About Obesity Is Wrong - The Huffington Post

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Love the article.

What do you say when someone is dying?

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Go and see him and talk about what you or your family have experienced together. Talk about the weather, about politics about life. He will appreciate it and you will feel better.

Failing Mother’s Godly Child Checklist One thing I love being at med school is that I get to ...

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Considering you live in the Phillipines you need to be an activist and a feminists too.

Weekends..

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

My life is one long weekend and I love it.

What does everyone think about sexbots?

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

You need to ask yourself if you wanted your wife to go to one of these "brotherls" assuming that there are male sexbots too, without you.

Men who never learned to cook

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Sad but true. I think that you have come upon some fossils there. Keep away from them, after all they do not know how to read.

A Tale of Gender Bashing and a Double Standard.

Jolanta comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I never understood why women would not look out for each other, instead of what is happening. Women are the ones who mostly bring up children and have a big influence on them, it is about time that they started to teach their children to show respect towards each other.

Face reality, avoid unhappiness.

Jolanta comments on Sep 19, 2018:

No, cannot agree there. There are situations in life that this doesn't apply.

Was reminded of one of my favorite quotes today "Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing ...

Jolanta comments on Sep 19, 2018:

Rumi never disappoints.

I don't know how to make sense of this.

Jolanta comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Get some new friends

If you had to recommend someone watch 5 TV series, what would you pick?

Jolanta comments on Sep 11, 2018:

I would want to look further afield at some European tv series too.

I've been with my current partner for nearly 6 years.

Jolanta comments on Aug 28, 2018:

You cannot make someone listen if they don't want to. Time to move on.

Misogyny hate crime: new research reveals true scale of issue – and how the public are united ...

Jolanta comments on Aug 28, 2018:

Another sad thing in our loves that needs to change

So I want to start a secular meet-up for Sunday mornings.

Jolanta comments on Aug 27, 2018:

Sounds great to me. I am not surprised that you feel anxious about it all. Be careful there are way too many religious trigger happy nutters in the US. Perhaps you should start with the people you know and they may others who are likeminded. Good luck.

For those who have done, or wish to, travel. How did you decide where to go?

Jolanta comments on Aug 21, 2018:

I seem to look for places that I have not been to before and also look out for good deals. Am on holidays at the moment, writing this from Warnemunde, Germany.

For those who have done, or wish to, travel. How did you decide where to go?

Jolanta comments on Aug 21, 2018:

I seem to look for places that I have not been to before and also look out for good deals. Am on holidays at the moment, writing this from Warnemunde, Germany.

I sometimes think about polyamorous relationships and just can't imagine myself in that type of a ...

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I am with you. It's not love to me,

Well $@!!! I pay this guy to teach me to cut hair, and he's preaching to me.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

They are right, seems to be very confusing.

I just spent far too much time arguing that there is not a war on Christmas.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Most of the so called Christians are very uneducated when it comes to the bible,they only know what the priest tell them.

Americans are far more religious than adults in other wealthy nations | Pew Research Center

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Yes in my travels around the world, I have found that Americans are very religious and get very angry and defensive about when asked about passages in the bible which most of the time they have not red.

Today I spent all day witb my client who is 91.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

What a lovely day you two must have had. I am almost jealous.

A fun little fact on the Betsy Devos yacht story.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

She is not interested in making America great again.

First post. Hello. Message me anything you’d like to know.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Oh we have an oracle amongst us. Welcome oh, wise one.

We should bottle up all this rain from the east coast and send it to California and the othees on ...

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

How about building viaducts. That is what the Romans did.

Canada's Conservatives are really no different than the American brand, calling the media "fake ...

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

The Conservative are all the same,all over the world. A bunch of hypocrites, even in Australia.

9 Things To Give Up If You Want To Be Happy

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Something for me to think about

Euthanasia?

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

If I want and am ready to die it's nobody's business but mine.

I find this distressing!

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

When people have to work 2 - 3 jobs just to survive, how can you expect them to have time, money or energy to read books.

Why do popular religions namely Christians believe Evil judges Evil.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

They are very much misguided. This is just something that they make up so you don't stray.

Hey all.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Hi Ryan, welcome and I hope you will not be single forever. Good luck.

Short rant: I work for a public school system.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I live in Australia and we never have to put up with this kind of rubbish, although our right wing government has done something really stupid. They have put in religious people into schools as counsellors. What is needed are professional counsellors not some religious nutters.

You people are golden.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I am happy for you. Hope everything turns out well.

Have you ever cheated on someone? Just once or how many times? Can you explain why you did it?

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Yes when I was in my early twenties and I am still ashamed of it. I did it from having low self esteem, when someone else paid me attention I ran with it. I have never forgotten it and I am still disappointed with myself.

Trump must go! But the wealthy and corporations have turned us into the Capitalistic Communist ...

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

You were listening to much to your leaders about the fear of "others" to pay attention to what they were doing to your democracy

Most people checking me out here are older dudes.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Your penis will also be old much sooner than you think. Youth is very, very temporary.

What's the last book you read that you really enjoyed? I just finished "Dear Hamilton", loved it.

Jolanta comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Midnight at the avenue of faith. By Gina Nahai or something like that. If you like Isabella Allende you will love this book.

Who has fruit trees?

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I have peach trees, a cherry tree and an almond tree. The birds usually get it all.

Call me Dave brought up an interesting question.

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I am a woman and I love it when a man holds the door fir me and I wouldn't dream of saying thank you and smiling.

What is "the sixth sense" of yours?

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I dream about people I know about situations that are happening to them and when I enquirer it is always so.

The Absurdity of Saying “White Privilege” [ghionjournal.com]

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I don't think that you get it

I'm looking for a female friend to go Kareoke with and to dinner/ movies.

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Sounds the right way of going about it to me. I am wishing you good luck in your venture

Wishing I had the libido I had at 20, the health that I had at 30, and the wisdom I think I have ...

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Just enjoy what you have

I'm curious how friendships show themselves in the US. Going out together?

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

That is easier said than done. You have to know someone to do that with to start off. Are you in the US? I have found Americans friendly and hospitable.

109-Year-Old Woman Says Avoiding Men Is The Secret To A Long Life

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I am now 64 and would not have a life without men, however I don't seem to have the same need for them anymore as I did when I was younger

All I normally post here are my insane ramblings.

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I hope that they will find a cure for him. As parents we want to be able to take their places if we could, we feel so helpless

Do you think you can dance? [youtu.be]

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

We can all dance, just like we can all sing but not very well

Im very curious as to why so many men include pictures at 20 instead of being proud of who they have...

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

That is because they have selective vision. When they look into a mirror they don't see the fat, boldly person they have become. He, he.

That's my favorite position

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I have totally forgotten what it was like, so can't say which position

Busy busy.

Jolanta comments on Aug 1, 2018:

At least you are fortunate enough to have surgery. Good luck in your recovery

I understand I get a t-shirt when I reach a certain level. When do I get underwear?

Jolanta comments on Jul 30, 2018:

Can you please take a photo

I find it funny that here it is only July and Hallmark Channel has already started to play Christmas...

Jolanta comments on Jul 30, 2018:

They are conditioning us to spend more money

If you could change anything about this world to better it, what would it be?

Jolanta comments on Jul 30, 2018:

Get rid of all the psychopaths

Do people hold hands in public anymore ?

Jolanta comments on Jul 30, 2018:

Only if they have anyone to hold hands with

I love hanging out in my garage making and fixing things.

Jolanta comments on Jul 30, 2018:

Yes we do but it is usually in the cupboard.

Just a note, I see a lot of people on this site almost desperately trying to date there is a chance ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I really enjoyed you posting this. Telling how it is, although not quite. I have come across people who are lovely together after many years, so it does exist but not often. I don't expect to meet my "soul" mate here but then I am not looking for one either. I just love being on this site talking to people from the other side of the world.

I have just seen a headline that says Trump is going to "shut down government" if they don't fund ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 30, 2018:

He will stop payments to governmental services, I think, but am not sure

Global Seismic Info... [youtu.be]

Jolanta comments on Jul 30, 2018:

You are not safe anywhere

I try every day to find something to be grateful for, to be happy about.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

If you put certain herbs (lavender, peppermint etc, etc,) in his bed then it will take care of the problem.

Hi.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

You are ok, it is them that have a problem

Having a discussion on another social site about the bible.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Ask him for proof.

I thought I was joining an Agnostic/Atheist group.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I don't live in the US but am following what is happening there as it affects the rest of the world. It is an honor hear that you voted for Jill. If I could vote there I would vote for her. Keep it up.

Woo-hoo! It ONLY took me 7 months to hit level 6!

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

That is ok, persistence won in the end.

'Nuff said.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Sad but true.

I'm not saying that I've always been a ladies man but when I was 7 years old I tried playing little ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Did you eventually learn?

Time Sensitive! I need some advice! I met a cute guy on Wednesday who seemed into me.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

You would be a fool going out with someone who is so disrespectful. You deserve better.

Hi, just joined. Hope all are well!

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Hi, I am fine, cannot talk for the rest. May your stay on this site be a happy and interesting one. Mine is.

Do you often use profanity?

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

No, it is not necessary to do that. It normalizes bad language and we don't need any more "bad" stuff in this world.

Just watched “ The life of Brian “ again, seen it many times before but still a very funny film.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Love that film.

I was celebrating my daughter's 25th birthday on Thursday by having dinner with her and her mother ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Mine don't want any children and I am fine with it. There are way too many people in this world already.

Just spent 4 days in Vegas.

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Why did you go if you don't like it?

I highly recommend the documentary "3 Identical Strangers" about a set of triplets who were each ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Being an only child I wish this was me.

Hello everyone!! New to this site. Any tips?

Jolanta comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Welcome to the site and just enjoy

Not sure if I'm ever going to get it right.

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Just do your best, because what is right for someone may not be right for you. Remember how our parents always knew what was right for us.

An ironic story I grew up in Bosnia due to the war my family moved to the US in 96.

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

This will give you a chance to have it "fixed" in a way that nothing will destroy it again.

Donald Trump. Jr says Obama never broke 2 percent GDP growth. He did. 15 times.

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Yeah but the Republican great unwashed still won't believe it.

Behind every great man is a great behind!

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

No, no, no. I have not seen a lovely behind for so, so long on a man.

At The Marriage Counsellor .

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

The answer in a nutshell. John needs a lobotomy ASAP.

I work as a nurse in a hospital.

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

They will tell you that God is testing their faith. I would say back "What kind of God is this who needs so much reassurance and who needs to make you suffer like this, you need to find yourself another kinder God".

I do not understand why this country thinks Socialism is so bad.

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I totally agree with you. I have lived in three different countries. A communist one, a social democratic one and now I live in a country that has a right wing government. It is the pits for the citizens, only the ones with money benefit and all the time they are trying to tighten everything for the workers. Having grown up in a social democratic country where taxes are hight, I can say that this is the one and only political ideology that is good for everybody. Rich and poor, the rich benefit that there is money in the economy and the poor benefit from having jobs and wages so they can live a decent life.

I umpire girls fast-pitch softball.

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Good on you for doing it, especially in this "climate" when people get so angry about nothing.

Has anyone else observed that often, the most Christ-like people are the atheists, agnostics, ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I agree with you. But I would not think about it as Christ-like, except when I speak to a Christian about it, but I would think of it as being a decent human who cares about her/his fellow humans.

Am I the only one who listens to the Mormons and JW when they come to visit and have a theological ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Good on you. A discussion may open their minds.

For those struggling to be comfortable in their own skin, please remember that beauty doesn't come ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Rude git.

Benny Hill did the Rolling Stones [youtube.com]

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I love Benny Hill, there has not been anybody like him since he is gone.

Benny Hill did the Rolling Stones [youtube.com]

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I wonder if Mick seen it.

Random Acts of Kindness

Jolanta comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I try to help people as much as possible.

139 House Democrats Join Republicans to Approve $717 Billion in Military Spending "Of the total ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 27, 2018:

Both Republicans and Democrats are a disgrace. While people in the US are starving, without homes and they are going to spend it on enlarging military. Shame.

So apparently I'm going to level up soon.

Jolanta comments on Jul 27, 2018:

I love it here too. Love the variety of topics and the kind people.

Woman shoots rapist ten times then decapitates him.

Jolanta comments on Jul 27, 2018:

Love it, should be more of it.

Always lots on my mind...!the meaning of happiness has me occupied often !

Jolanta comments on Jul 27, 2018:

Does happiness have to have a meaning? It just is.

Apparently 45's spot on the Walk of Fame is being guarded.

Jolanta comments on Jul 27, 2018:

Of course, who else.

This co-worker of mine who drives a forklift has a habit of driving his forks straight into ...

Jolanta comments on Jul 27, 2018:

What did he say back to you?