Where is your god-shaped hole?

Jolanta comments on May 12, 2018:

It is way too rude for me to tell you.

Ok (and these is for both guys and gals) but if you are living with someone, and you have the ...

Jolanta comments on May 12, 2018:

Only if you are happy to be homeless.

So I just "followed" a few people on here.

Jolanta comments on May 12, 2018:

You don't have to look for someone to be here. Just enjoy. I would hang out with you but it is way too far to get there.

I'm glad I found this site. It keeps me from being lonely sometimes.

Jolanta comments on May 12, 2018:

Sorry to hear about you being or feeling lonely, but you know there is so much to do in this world. Look at what interests you and see if you can find a Meet Up or start one.

Ugh I meet a lady and literally the second thing she ask is... What church do go to?

Jolanta comments on May 12, 2018:

You need to tell her that you go to the agnostic church. I met a mennonite priest and he asked me what religion I was. When I told him I was an agnostic he said that he did not know that religion, whereby I told him to google it. He was happy. See, it is so easy.

I had an interesting debate about slavery a week ago.

Jolanta comments on May 12, 2018:

Maybe they had a mental illness.

I was watching a show (an episode of a certain series).

Jolanta comments on May 12, 2018:

Barry White, come to me baby.

What a great way to meet a date.

Jolanta comments on May 12, 2018:

Sorry that may be the only thing you have in common and perhaps you cannot agree fully on that either. So where do you live, since we are both agnostics?

I got a letter from the Origami Association today. I don't know what to make of it.

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

You have a lot of learning to catch up on there.

So for Mothers Day your Mom wants you to go to church with her.....aaaahgh. Whadda ya say.. do?

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Just go, it will make her happy and your life will be easier. You don't need to listen to anything that is said there, you can day dream while you are there, doing your grocery list in your head, what you are going to watch on TV, what friends you need to ring, etc, etc. Or you can listen and think what a lot of crock.

I just bought condoms, duct tape and whiskey. The cashier gave me her phone number.

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

What, was she drunk too?

Do you believe in God?

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

You need to tell your brother not to tell anyone, no one at all. One never knows who is listening, neither does one every know who can turn against you. Don't despair the Christians had their own problems, the Spanish Inquisition lasted for 600 years and it killed a lot of people for being witches or not believing in god.

1. Should religion be allowed?

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

What a question, it is like asking people "should people be allowed to think freely".

Mothers Day Angst/Rant This is probably going to sound more like a rant by the time it is done.

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

You are so right, all those days that we should be celebrating "something" has got nothing to do with us, only and big business. Like our in their business. If you son's or daughters cannot be nice to you the rest of the year what is the point of being nice to you on mothers day?

When to help - when to step away?

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

The answer is in your own admission. "She has kinda used that before to her advantage" She is not interested in you, sorry but there it is. You are not there to rescue her, if you try, you will drown. Keep away, kill all friendship with her.

A question of faith: Atheism as grounds for asylum - InfoMigrants

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

I don't know why you put this up here. Don't you think that Muslims get enough of flak without this? If you want to talk about religion and the people who insist on it being the only thing that matter and punishment, how about you talk about the Spanish Inquisition. That was really horrific and lasted for 600 years, and to this day there are still "Christians" who flagellate themselves and others for their sins until blood flows.

Age makes you realize you’re never gonna grow up.

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Mirrors take that thought away at once, unless you are blind.

My dog Puck died today.

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Sorry about the dog, but not so sure about your boyfriend and his fiance.

Pie or Cake?

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Pie on Monday, cake on Sunday and all the other days of the week.

He Wondered Why He Was Caught.

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Well, some of the security guards at some airports are not the full quid, at least he had a go, he, he.

I saw this , had to grab it

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

And here was me thinking that you were talking about something that you were still holding.

Which is more useful, intelligence or wisdom?

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Well Gomer Pyle was wise but had not intelligence to talk about.

Ultrasonic Waves Are Everywhere. Can You Hear Them? [livescience.com]

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Just let me put my ultrasonic ears on and I will answer your question.

When I was a teenager, I'd occasionally go to a youth group with a friend of mine.

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Was that because you turned out to help people, made something of yourself and to top it off you are happy?

CUT AND RUN! At what point would you do it?

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

That depends, was it the chicken or the egg.

My first post, here we go! I saw an ad for this place while reading reddit.

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

You will only fit in if you don't ask anybody to send you any prayers if you are sick or a tragedie has befallen you.

So everyone who I know is trying to get me to believe in God and I just want to remain an atheist ...

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Just lie until the cows come home.

Follow up on me and my bike ?

Jolanta comments on May 11, 2018:

Nah, nothing to do with womens biology but all to do with women and lycra.

"And a Man wrestled with him until dawn The genius of the Torah lies not merely in its stories, but...

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

They certainly are stories and that is all they are, just like Game of Thrones.

Think I Need Therapy!

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

If you think you do need it, who am I to say you don't.

North Korean detainee asked to be let off plane in Alaska because he 'hadn't seen daylight for a ...

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

I think that they wanted to be let off in Alaska so because it was the furtherest place in the US from where Donald is.

Anyone else have a hard time getting people to believe that the Golden Rule predates the Bible?

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

Is the Golden Rule the same as the other Golden things?

I have always wondered

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

I think you need to keep on wondering.

Is apatheism similar to agnosticism?

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

No, apatheism is way worse than agnosticism. I feel for you.

Who remembers "Hickeys" in school? I had to cover mine with make-up or be beat by my parents!

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

Would it not have been easier not to have gotten them in the first place, I mean who wants a beating.

How best can we comfort our dying atheist friend(s) and family members?

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

I think you are doing what you can by being with them. You can always ask if they want to talk about it or not.

All my life I've loved cars, I've bought over 80.

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

You married, have a girlfriend?

If Republicans think that god made trump president - how good is God, seriously?

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

God is not good, if you read the bible you would soon know that he is, jealous, revengeful and have no qualms about killing anyone who doesn't worship him.

I have no artistic talent.

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

Don't be too hard on yourself, most of those artist probably had no clue how to boil water for a cup of tea.

So many women... so little time to disappoint all of them.

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

Don't worry you seem to have this under control.

I started this group because the majority of people I met on this site had no sense of humor.

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

Perhaps, just perhaps you are the one lacking in humour.

I wish I was a cat just so I could constantly ignore everything said to me while licking the inside ...

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

Perhaps you should just lick the inside of your thigh and not worry about anything else.

So, which is MOST important, a physical attraction or a psychological attraction?

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

Depends, when one is young and without experience, a physical attraction is what matters most but as time goes along one certainly sees that it is only skin deep, and sometimes not even that deep either.

Israel has the right to defend itself.

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

You are right on there.

Anyone read the article about the Muslim lady who got strangled by a guy claiming to be Jesus?

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

I would put this in a bad taste basket.

Sure, I suppose it's odd that atheists say jesus, and oh my god.

Jolanta comments on May 10, 2018:

Brilliant.

Wow there is actually alot of people in this small town that I live in Kentucky that said they would...

Jolanta comments on May 8, 2018:

I don't know what kind of qualification one needs to be a sheriff. Do you have those? From movies it seems like there are none, but I do not know.

Can I rant about my coworker for a minute?

Jolanta comments on May 6, 2018:

Wow, hope you feel better now. So sometimes she does cover your shifts. Seems to me like you are giving away way too much power to even worrying about her at all. Put your head down, do your job and stop giving her any power over how you feel.

I never get sick, but here I am, bundled up on my couch, wishing someone would make me soup.

Jolanta comments on May 6, 2018:

If you have nobody to make you soup, you just whine to your hearts desire. Maybe it will make you feel better. Get well soon.

Bavaria, the German state, orders crosses put on government buildings.

Jolanta comments on May 6, 2018:

Maybe they are expecting an invasion of vampires.

North Korea says U.S. ‘provocation’ threatens peace talks – ThinkProgress

Jolanta comments on May 6, 2018:

US always provokes. They are looking for new wars to start so the people who make bombs, tanks, uniforms can make more money and US business can have new opportunities and they can use the resources, ie our oil in somebody els country.

There are 5 fucking churches on my block ... ?

Jolanta comments on May 6, 2018:

So????

These are the hardest to find.

Jolanta comments on May 5, 2018:

Yes so true but hard to swallow sometimes, especially when you are in a toxic relationship and your friends say you should leave it.

I'm feeling a wee bit melancholy this evening.

Jolanta comments on May 5, 2018:

Stop being or trying to be friends with him. It makes it worst. Start caring about yourself and put your energy in things that you love.

I wanna hug it.

Jolanta comments on May 5, 2018:

Love the stairs. Yes there is something nice about prel-oved books. Like you are going to share something nice with somebody that you have never met and never will.

When did confront become offense?

Jolanta comments on May 5, 2018:

Yeah, whatever happen to listening to someone else point of view and learning something from it. People get so angry when you don't think like them these days and so surprised when you don't agree with them but still happy to be their friend.

How many people find it difficult to ask for help?

Jolanta comments on May 5, 2018:

I do, or use to. Somehow I had it in my head that if I asked for help people would not see me as a strong woman and I would disappoint them. I got over it when I had a major problem with my ex.

Alright friends I wana see your ugly mugs!

Jolanta comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Oh, but my mug is beautiful.

What is your response when you ask a christian to physically show you god as to believe in him and ...

Jolanta comments on Apr 25, 2018:

I could do that but I don't think you would understand, it would be way over your head.