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I'm happier now that I've stopped looking for a significant other, I have too many past wounds anyway, but still enjoy making new friends. if love is possible for me again it's going to be found by sheer happenstance. I like being outdoors and enjoy hiking, kayaking, art, dogs/ animals, swimming, gardening, cooking and photography. I'm a liberal/ progressive and don't have any interest in anarchists, republicans, conservatives or Libertarians.
I consider myself an atheist/Ignostic/igtheist. I Recently became interested
In learning more about Buddhism.

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I just received my "Agnostic.com" tee shirt ($15). I wore it to Sunday Brunch. I believe it was my...
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 2, 2018:
Yeah! That was great of you to wear your T-shirt ! be proud!
Marvin Gaye - Sexual Healing - YouTube
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 2, 2018:
Great tune!
This is apparently my year for losing people. First my good friend a few months ago. Now my ex ...
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 2, 2018:
I'm so sorry for your loss.
I have morals and not into just sex or a hook up as some have put it.
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 2, 2018:
Sex for fun is like communism. It looks good on paper , but it goes against human nature. It's always so much more complicated than just do it it'll be fun. It's kind of funny to me that when you come out and say something like you said it's met with negativity. However if you came out and said that you screwed 50 guys a day people would simply say that it's your choice and you're still a very moral person.
Presidents quotes...
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 2, 2018:
He looks like a guy who would be rejected by hookers.
Hey, it could happen!
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 2, 2018:
It's important to set realistic goals
I can’t wait to get to level 3 and meet all these interesting, like minded people!!❤️
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 2, 2018:
Hang in there!
I had been talking to a guy for a month. Tried to meet up several times but he either had something ...
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 2, 2018:
He's married and looking for a sexting thing. When a man wants something, he goes for it. If he was into you, he would make it happen.
What is Your Favorite Season Change? Mine is coming up, but I'm more interested in yours.
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 2, 2018:
I'm with You on this one. I love it when summer turns into fall
I haven't had a soda in 5 years. Today, I'm craving a coke. That is so weird. It would probably make...
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 1, 2018:
As I've said in a previous post,food cravings are a Curious Thing!
Religion in the south
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 1, 2018:
I too live in the south, and I get tired of the sickeningly patriotic Evangelical right. To me, even if they're atheists ,all Republicans and conservatives share a little too much in common with the evangelicals . My advice to you is just put your opinion out there and be yourself even if it pisses others off.
What is your definition of integrity?
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 1, 2018:
The apparently old fashioned philosophy of having pride and shame.
Hope's it's soon
Kojaksmom comments on Sep 1, 2018:
I'm not sure, that American flag really is over the top.
If I started an anti-Republican, non-Democratic group on here, would you join? ;)
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 31, 2018:
Fuck no
When can we say you're too f----- up to own a gun?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 31, 2018:
And then we wonder why there's mass shootings. This is a problem everywhere in our society .we want to fix problems but we never want to try to avoid them.
What is ONE Quality or Value above everything else your new partner MUST HAVE? (only ONE please)
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 30, 2018:
Compassion
Why is it, some people have the need to create drama? Is that their life is so boring that they feel...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 30, 2018:
Highly sensitive people ,from my experience , are usually the culprit.
I just read that the incidence of sexually transmitted diseases in the USA has skyrocketed in recent...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 30, 2018:
I believe online dating and social media does factor into this. The incidence of sex on the first date is increased when people 'meet' and text frequently for a long period of time online first. Internet communication can lead to a false sense of intimacy, connection and feelings of trust. People should always remain skeptical until they meet someone face to face, and make sure that the trust is earned.
There are days when I want to utter cuss words. But cussing is conduct unbecoming a person of my ...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 30, 2018:
You've earned the right to curse! go for it!!!! Even my mother who is 83 drops the F-bomb every now and then
Well tomorrow is my monthly weigh in and I'm not looking forward to it ?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 30, 2018:
Good luck! If you're eating healthy and you're feeling better don't feel like a failure because of the numbers on a scale.
Does anyone else find it more and more difficult to meet people without children, as you age? as i ...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 30, 2018:
I'm in the same boat. I'm surprised at how many men 47 to 50 to have rather young kids. It's kind of a deal-breaker for me to think perhaps we could have a relationship when I'm 60+ and his kids are adults. I try to avoid the family oriented ones like the plague
Do people take "Here for community" seriously? Do people even look in profiles to see what the ...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 30, 2018:
although I put down here for Community only,if I should so happen to meet someone that would be fine. I am single. I just don't put myself too far out there. To be honest, I've given up on any and all dating sites.
Would you (knowingly) date a Trump supporter?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 30, 2018:
I don't give a s*** how much game the snake in the grass had..no never
Was at a fast food place today and a horde of people had a baby girl. This kid was a spoiled ...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 28, 2018:
Unfortunately when people have babies they consider that an amazing accomplishment.
Be careful on here. I found a really nice guy on here 6 hours away and dated him the past 5 months ...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 26, 2018:
it happens to the best of us. when someone says they're separated it pretty much so mean since breakfast.when someone says they're single, there's a 50% chance they're not.
Too soon????
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 25, 2018:
About right
I enjoy eating healthy.
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Slowly but surely I'm getting there. I've never really been the ones to do Paleo, keto Etc because it's all so confusing to me. Eating simple freshly made food and whole grains works. I think it's fun trying to adapt recipes to lower fat healthy version as well
How can my weight fluctuate 2 lbs almost daily? It's very depressing.
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 24, 2018:
Scales can be very deceptive and confusing. In the past I would diet and not lose any weight for one week. The next week I would lose 2 or 3 pounds. That trend of weight loss continued for a long period of time. Apparently my body needed time to adjust.
Longing for something never known.
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 19, 2018:
I can relate.
If People Acted Like They Do on Dating Apps. This is spot on! [youtu.be]
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 19, 2018:
Too funny!
I never count calories, I never use processed foods because there's too much unknown things in there...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 19, 2018:
Good point!
Why r we still carring on the religious tradition of monogamy if we r enlightened as atheists?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Because genital herpes among hundreds of other potentially fatal diseases, not to mention huge quantities of drama, are not appealing?
Wasps are bullies
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Exactly!
I'm finally pissed off enough to fix it. Starting today, right now, I'm going all-in. Diet and ...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I am! Two weeks ago I was in the same state. I have no energy,consistently gaining weight, blood pressure out of control and felt terrible. It's simply was time to whip myself into shape.
August 18: Diet Diary - what is your biggest challenge?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Hunger! I'm always hungry!
[psychologytoday.com] Answers some questions some of us might have asked. Why do men betray?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I think a lot of it has to do with the Madonna whore complex that most men seem to have. Women are either little wifey mommy breeders or whores. Men have no problem screwing for screwing sake and still claim to respect and be dedicated to little wifey. I'm glad I've given up on finding love. Mom was right, most women will always take care of men and most men will always take care of themselves. It also amazes me how many men claim monogamy is shit, but when his girlfriend or wife goes out and cheats he's all bent out of shape.
Not a bad idea at all.....
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Pets welcome children must be on leash.
What is your favorite outdoor activity?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Kayaking
I just held my breath for 1 minute and 17 seconds. No more hiccups. :D
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Take ten tiny tiny sips of water as quickly as you can. Always works for me
Just got done reading this article posted by Planned Patenthood. It made me wonder about the ...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Yes I am a sex toy user. My sex toy shop is the only Adam and eve I appreciate.
Wow Fox news has really lost it
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Oh that's just wrong on so many levels! Lol!
Nothing to compare it to
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 18, 2018:
MEN!
Since I'm no longer the host of this group, and a story I read the other day, I'm starting a new ...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 15, 2018:
Because people need a scapegoat. The Filthy Rich rule our country, so we have to blame somebody.
So true....
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 15, 2018:
Still doing better than me when I'm really drunk
Being single..
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 13, 2018:
Right on!
Why are men and women put under so much pressure to have kids in this society?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 8, 2018:
I don't know, but it is annoying and very detrimental. It just goes along with the conservative mindset of keeping everybody in their place
So disappointed… I just found out that a stress ball is not for throwing at people who stress you ...
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 8, 2018:
Sure it is! you've been misled.
What is your favorite movie?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 8, 2018:
Thelma and Louise! I know, it says a lot about me huh.
Deciding on what to eat.?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 8, 2018:
Everytime I see pictures of Adam and Eve I always ask the question why the fuck do they have belly buttons?
Relationships and Borderline Personality Disorder - Borderline Personality Disorder
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 2, 2018:
Relationships should be satisfying and should enrich you as a person as a human. Unfortunately, no matter how much we love someone, there does come a time when our sanity should become much more important then tolerating what could be a very dangerous personality disorder.
Have you given up on love?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 1, 2018:
I have given up. If it happens it's going to happen by happenstance only. I really don't want to die alone, or even live alone, but finding love just isn't in the cards I guess.
If alien species existed, do you think they’d want anything to do with humanity or Earth?
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 1, 2018:
Probably not I'm an Earthling and I really don't I have too much positive to say about Humanity.
Trying to eat healthier...lol
Kojaksmom comments on Aug 1, 2018:
Yep
Does anyone listen to Sam Harris podcast, what you think about race politics, is affirmative action ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 31, 2018:
I have a general distrust of people. If given the option to be racist and sexist people will too often be just that. I support affirmative action. Sam is no expert on this,and all, topics
I need a late night snack.
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 31, 2018:
Lol ah! Evil!! I like it!
What is the one thing you were not prepared for in life? How did you handle it or get through it? ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 28, 2018:
Becoming a widow at a relatively young age. I wasn't prepared,and I'm still not, for letting go of many things we wanted do together when we retired. I still may be able to do a few of the things, but it's going to require a whole new plan and some thinking outside the box.
I do not understand why this country thinks Socialism is so bad. One aspect of Socialism is the ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 28, 2018:
I think we think socialism is synonymous with Communism. I think socialism is a great idea.
I started the day in a funk. No specific reason why, I just felt sad and lonely. Talking to someone ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 28, 2018:
Aww that's very nice.
Fucking Polar Bears
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 28, 2018:
I miss those commercials!
It seems like a bargain to me!
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 27, 2018:
Lol! And they sing like a bunch of fucking canaries!
This is one most bird watchers want to avoid!
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 26, 2018:
Omfg that is really scary.
So the Earth can have a fever.
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 26, 2018:
Maybe, and we deserve it if its true.
Twinkies delicious filling!
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 26, 2018:
Absolutely! very satisfying experience.
Does anybody else cringe at the sound of someone’s saying,” Thank you Jesus for dying on the ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 26, 2018:
It all creeps me out. I hate the kitten fishing on Facebook. Every single post is about Jesus's love and blessings.
I have been very distracted today.... Guys wearing gym shorts and going commando have been sporting ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 26, 2018:
Right! I like it!
Why do women shave off their eyebrows just to pencil it back in? lol!
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 26, 2018:
What?? You don't find this attractive?????
I was watching Jim Jeffries and he made a hilariously good point about circumcision. If you ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 24, 2018:
Lol! As a female I always ask uncircumcised men to wear a condom. Uncircumcised penises can carry vaginitis. I really don't want my vagina to give their vagina some kind of infection or vice versa.
Is there a tactful way to let the Ex know you're dating? :|
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 24, 2018:
Divorce his divorce, and I don't think it's necessary to let your ex know every little detail of your life. If a relationship becomes very serious to where the woman is around you frequently, then I would tell her.
So something has been bothering me the past couple of days. I am polyamorous and date outside of my...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 24, 2018:
It must be difficult being poly because so few people understand it ,and most just jumped to a conclusion. if you're being open and honest up front about exactly what you're looking for that's all you can do. like everyone else, you're going to have setbacks and disappointments.
Money is power? True or false?
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 24, 2018:
in America, like it or not, money buys everything. Influence, freedom,power and privilege just to name a few.
After 4 Drinks
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 23, 2018:
Lol! Bout right!
Corn silk!
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 23, 2018:
The same intelligence level as corn silk too!
Dogs Can Be Loyal......
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 23, 2018:
Good point!
So I'm gonna put this out there right out the gate. This is going to seem shallow and judgemental. ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 23, 2018:
The only thing I've learned about dating is when you go out and you're looking for a long list of very specific characteristics, you're absolutely f****** doomed. If your breeding days are over, dating should be approached with much more of an open mind. I personally have found myself being very attracted to someone who physically I was not attracted to at all after spending some time with them. I've also gone out with men who were very attractive to me that I thought were complete assholes.
First post. What up my heathens! Looking for someone to talk to so feel free to message me.
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 23, 2018:
Welcome
An Open Letter to Those Who Still Give a Damn
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 23, 2018:
This was a great read,, where did all these assholes in the comments section come from?
Which is more accurate, birds of a feather flock together or opposites attract?
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 23, 2018:
Opposites do attract , but down the road there will be trouble. I'd have to say birds of a feather.
This is a question for straight women and gay men: Do you have a preference for circumcised or ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 23, 2018:
Had both , but like circumcised better. It's just a cultural thing I guess.
Anyone here still have any imaginary friends?
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 22, 2018:
Yeah my dream man who only lives in my imagination.
Good article -- [nytimes.com]
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 22, 2018:
That was a very good article. Getting on up there in age, it's something that I do think about.
Did you have a long phone cord to the wall or a long spiral cord between the base and the handset? ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 22, 2018:
It was awesome only having one phone. It would ring and everybody would run for it. We had absolutely no courtesy at all if it wasn't for us. we're just scream at the top of are lungs for the person that the call was intended for.
I posted this on another thread regarding morality but I think it deserves more exposure. I think ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 22, 2018:
Dogs show similar behavior in that They're distrustful of people who are mean to their owners. The study doesn't prove much.Humans are just animals, and all animals have Basic Instincts. The human animals natural instinct is selfishness, and nothing proves that more than a baby . They learn to cry and fuss so their every little need is met. The human animal is also a social creature, and not an independent Hunter. our survival as a species was completely dependent on our ability to cooperate and share our resources. So perhaps that's the ultimate question of morality. do we satisfy our every need only to satisfy our selfish desires, or do we take others well being into consideration as well.
Ted Nugent bars guns from his concert in last-minute switch
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 22, 2018:
oh too bad ! the one thing that I would like to see at aTed Nugent concert is large numbers of uneducated drunk rednecks fully armed with loaded assault weapons. all gun nuts should practice what they preach.
What almost everyone missed is that there is a Second Amendment, and the Supreme Court has ruled it ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 22, 2018:
Weapons are getting bigger and more destructive by the day. Pretty soon we'll be allowed to have cannons that could shoot 747s out of the sky ,and it all fall under 2nd Amendment rights.
How do you guys deal with anger? I feel quite angry at my christian upbringing. I deal with it by ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 22, 2018:
Wear it like a badge of honor and be proud of it!
When you live in the Bible belt, the pressure to conform is everywhere. There are many restaurants ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 22, 2018:
I to live in the Bible Belt and it is awful! I'm glad that I'm not so anti-theist that I could deal with it.
do we have freedom?
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 22, 2018:
*Yawn* fuck conservatives.
I left the conservative atheist group, i told them Trump was just offensive, and most of them don't ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 21, 2018:
Conservatives suck
Gut instinct/intuition. How's yours? How to get your intuition back. NY Times [nyti.ms]
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 19, 2018:
I'm a firm believer in that little voice inside of all of us. Can't really be proven, but it's something that I do believe exists.
Do you think a guy like me could marry a Catholic? She passes my check list except the whole ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 19, 2018:
How are you going to raise the children to Catholic or agnostic/ atheist? That I would think would be the biggest issue that you would have. in a lot of my relationships I was told that it didn't matter that I was an atheist. Only time will tell if that statement is true. From what I found dating religious man my lack of religion was always the reason for The Break-Up.
[youtube.com] Liberal Redneck The right to bear arms
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 19, 2018:
I love this guy
Who are some famous people you wish would just go away?
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 19, 2018:
Anyone famous for showing their tits , having made a seedy Tape or being naked in general.
Oh the joys of getting older. I went to the eye doctor today. After the exam he told me he was ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 19, 2018:
I know how you feel. I went to a doctor I was put on blood pressure medication. We're shooting for 150 over 90 . I asked isn't that high? And he said yeah. Call your insurance company. I have a high-deductible too, but they might cover eye exams and needed procedures
What's it called when an attractive woman in her early 30s with 3 children in tow, flirts with a ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 19, 2018:
Until the three kids part, I would say a very lucky day for the man.
Republican fascists following their overlords commands to block any form of action to help end our ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 19, 2018:
This bothers me as well, however, the Earth will be fine ,it's humans that will be doomed. Seeing things from this context makes me feel a little bit better about it. Our Fate is in our own hands and if we keep throwing it away we deserve it.
Scratch and sniff
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 18, 2018:
Double clicking the mouse in public is never a good idea unless your knocked up redneck of course.
Just another manic Monday
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 16, 2018:
I can relate
I have some intimacy issues...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 15, 2018:
Hits home! Love sucks!
What are we going do? there is something wrong with this country. We have white people calling the ...
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 15, 2018:
If I had to make a movie about what is going on in America I would title it the rise of the Redneck Nation. I really did think that most of the Rednecks we're in the south, now I believe that it's over taking our country.
People don't care anymore!
Kojaksmom comments on Jul 13, 2018:
Fuck people!

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