I'm on this other dating website and I've never been married with no kids.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 12, 2018:

Ugh I hate dating sites. For some women breeding is their entire identy. I suspect she's one of them. Move on, and be glad she didn't want to meet you.

Enjoy this picture of my floofy 'tater eating a pecan <3 <3 <3 My little man :-)

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 11, 2018:

Awww cute!

That's just wrong!

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 10, 2018:

Lol! Looks like love at first sight to me!

This is their nefarious goal!

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 10, 2018:

I knew it!

Alright ladies!

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 10, 2018:

Good point!

As a non-believer, do you have difficulty (internal conflict?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 10, 2018:

I'm not and anti-theist. If you had two choices, one was let a religious person save you from drowning, the other was to drown which one would you choose? A good deed it's a good deed in my opinion. If religious people use their to perform good for others I have no problem with it. Supporting a friend is, in my opinion, more important than showing your disrespect to an imaginary thing.

Dammit! I’ve fallen head over heals for someone

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 10, 2018:

Did you get a new puppy?

I need a vacation!

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 9, 2018:

That works!

It's true!

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 9, 2018:

Death and taxes the only thing that human animal can count on.

Suicide rate: US saw 25% increase since 1999, CDC says - CNN

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 8, 2018:

I can understand.

Walk in another persons shoes, and yes, eat the food.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 8, 2018:

I will miss him

We are gaining ground in local arena's passing laws that have some teeth and actually help the ...

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 8, 2018:

Not voting is just like sending thoughts and prayers.

Now that's a bush

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 8, 2018:

I like it!

California, the Nanny State will now restrict water usage, per-person!

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 8, 2018:

It sure as hell beats the f*** out of Nanny state has no water. Welcome to overpopulation it sucks for everybody. You could have a neighbor that just turns his hose on and leaves it all day long wasting water because that's his right.

What is worst religion or sexism?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 8, 2018:

The religious talk out of both corners of their mouth. Jesus is said to be a prominent figure for the Christians. Jesus can't really be described as an aggressive, angry, selfish, greedy ,pussy grabbing, highly competitive macho man -most men aren't either- females typically possess the characteristics that are most likely to describe Jesus, but Christianity bashes the female and lowers her to the level of chattel.

What is worst religion or sexism?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 7, 2018:

Not all religion and not all religious people are bad. But sexism is always shit.

Send Trump in.......

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 7, 2018:

Yeah I need a demonstration.

Let's discuss the conflict between individual rights and the greater good.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 6, 2018:

I'm with you on this. What's good for one person may not what is best for everyone. Conservatives and libertarians have always believed themselves to be the center of the universe. From reading what many Libertarians post on agnostics, I'm having a really difficult time differentiating Libertarians from anarchists. Out of all of the countries in the world there is not one single example of a Libertarian Society.

Dating after 50

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 6, 2018:

Dating is a nightmare! It really makes me wonder how the hell are were living on such an overpopulated planet?

If you haven't seen it yet, the US Supreme Court released its ruling in the Masterpiece Cakeshop ...

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 6, 2018:

I'm a floral designer and some of the best floral designers that I know ,and some of the most amazing wedding Consultants I know are gay. They openly serve heterosexual people, but yet we still are arguing about them being provided with a service they seek because of their sexual preference . It shows how some people have perfected the art of Being worthless, selfish cunts.

Long term marriages

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 6, 2018:

Sometimes long-term marriage works because the rocks in one person's head fits the holes in the other. That was my experience anyway. It took a lot of soul searching for me to understand and realize we nurtured each other's negative characteristics. When a marriage ends, for one reason or another, it's a real chance for growth.

What does it really mean to love , and what does it mean to be in love with another?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 6, 2018:

As I grow older my idea of love has changed so much. I realised I like taking care of others, and I've grown more comfortable with the fact I too want to be in anothers thoughts. When I was young it was all about passion, now it's about sharing and a deep commitment to another person.

What is the up-side to having kids?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 6, 2018:

I could think of a few, but they're just flashes in the pan. An example would be celebrating Christmas and holidays . I think the holidays would be more fun with young kids, But they grow out of that too. As I've mentioned before, which is not in any way a guarantee, you would have someone there to support you as you Grew Older and became unable to take care of yourself. Although having kids for that reason would be a very selfish.

"We accept the love we think we deserve".

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 6, 2018:

Perhaps if you don't love and respect yourself you will accept someone who doesn't either. I too have a tendency to overlook red flags in relationships only to regret it later. The psychology behind that is we continue to make the same mistakes and bad choices over and and over again, because we are subconsciously trying to heal past wounds.

News story today regarding some European countries banning hijabs in public.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 5, 2018:

I'm not fond of anybody's religion. you're free to wear whatever you want ,but you're not free from the consequences. We understand and read people by their facial expressions. by covering up your face you're only hurting yourself.

I love people. But sometimes I fucking want to scream the same. LoL.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 5, 2018:

Yes, this is my motto , I hold a very close to my heart. ever since I identified as a misanthrope ,I find it much easier to deal with people. I think the complete loss of Hope in the human race does one's mental health wonders

Found God?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 5, 2018:

They do have sticks up their ass.

What religion do you view as most threatening to democracy and why?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 5, 2018:

All theocracies

Crocodile kills Ethiopian pastor during lake baptism [bbc.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 5, 2018:

Lol!! I guess it's true , the Lord really does work in mysterious ways doesn't it.

Does anyone think if we get serious that we will be able to save the earth from overheating?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 4, 2018:

I'm with Neil deGrasse Tyson the Earth is going to be just fine. humans however, are fucked. I believe it's too late. the human race is just going to have to march to its demise.

Not So Clever FBI An agent at a night club in Colorado, does a back flip showing off.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 4, 2018:

Guns are just like birth control you have user failures and Method failures . This looks like it's a f****** combination of both

'Science without religion is lame.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 4, 2018:

Science without religion is lame, religion without science is blind." You have to use the full quote to understand what Einstein was trying to say. What Einstein was trying to say will continue to be a topic of debate. As an agnostic I can appreciate it. I don't think science has the ability to prove each and every single thing. There is always going to be a place for Wonder ,and the appreciation of things that are intangible.

So, it's official: The great country of the USA has fallen under an autocrat.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 4, 2018:

Have my hope, however we may have turned a corner, and are now on a different path.

Kris Kobach (R-KS, now running for gov.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 4, 2018:

He is a disgusting P.O.S , but he represents the fact that America is becoming a red neck backwoods nation. I live in the south, and we are often made fun of for being inbred Yahoo's. it looks like to me the rest of the country is catching up.

How are you different from most people ?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 3, 2018:

It's all in a bad way, so I'll skip this question

Would you contact a person with this bio?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 3, 2018:

Life is nothing but one big drama, don't kid yourself.

Are there any Unitarian Universalists here?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 3, 2018:

Yes, I am. I miss the fellowship of churches. Through the u.u's I am able to have a sense of support and free exchange of ideas with a large number of non believers.

I'm an atheist Unitarian Universalist.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 3, 2018:

I am too. I've been going to the fellowship in raleigh for over 10 years.

Is it a comedians job to be vulgar sometimes?

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 2, 2018:

Yes, and I enjoy it!

Ladies: I’m curious.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 1, 2018:

Yes, I was told tampons were for married women. Lol

An era of Personal Responsibility would be super.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 1, 2018:

I'm sniffing conservative bait in the water.

Here is a question for the ladies on this site.

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 1, 2018:

If I'm chatting with someone that's hundreds of miles away, I would say the key is persistence. I experienced the same thing where I'll have someone contact me and seem interested ,but they're so far away that it doesn't really matter one way or another. I don't know about other women, but I normally fail to keep the ball rolling. The men that have broken through to me have been consistent in contacting me and keeping me interested.

Trans and non-believers

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 1, 2018:

me, personally, i believe it has more to do with ones political Outlook than religious affiliation.

Hahaha those australians and their funny ways...

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 1, 2018:

Very true. I really am beginning to dislike my country more and more everyday. Instead of house hunting when I move, perhaps I should be country hunting Instead. As far as quality of life is concerned ,America ranks number 17 or lower.

The ONE Sexist Microaggression You're Probably Committing Daily — And Why We Need To Stop Using It

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 1, 2018:

I guess I'm coming from an age of classical feminism when the b**** word was used to describe a powerful ,opinionated female who didn't follow society's demand for her to be soft feminine and ladylike, Gloria steinem's philosophy on the whole thing was consider it a compliment. However words, like everything else, I have their own evolution. These days I hear it mostly used by other women to women, very similar to the N word that's used by blacks to blacks.

Atheists Are Sometimes More Religious Than Christians - The Atlantic

Kojaksmom comments on Jun 1, 2018:

There plenty of atheist/agnostic conservatives and Libertarians on this site that mention that all liberal /Progressive values are nothing more then Christian values wrapped in a different colored package. I don't have a problem with secular values, and how one chooses to express that.

This is a better post for Monday, but here it is anyway.

Kojaksmom comments on May 31, 2018:

Everyday is Monday to me.

Atheist in the South?

Kojaksmom comments on May 31, 2018:

I could relate

Tyrannosaurus rex Love

Kojaksmom comments on May 31, 2018:

Oh my God !this made me laugh harder than it should have

Never piss off the gardener.

Kojaksmom comments on May 31, 2018:

Yep! not only do we have green thumbs but we have green other fingers too.

Something tells me alcohol is involved.

Kojaksmom comments on May 31, 2018:

Yep! All the good stuff and stories do!

Casual relationship

Kojaksmom comments on May 31, 2018:

I don't know, but it sounds great to me. I'm a bit of a commitment phobe, but I'm into monogamy.

Do you believe all religions are the same, or that some are worse than others?

Kojaksmom comments on May 30, 2018:

I'm not sure, but some get a gold star from me in the I'm crazy motherfucker category.

How many of you feel completely alone even surrounded by people you love

Kojaksmom comments on May 30, 2018:

Me everyday. It is hard to describe, but depression comes close.

Give me an A!

Kojaksmom comments on May 30, 2018:

Exactly happens to me all the time.

What is a word you use that isn’t in the dictionary and not many other people use?

Kojaksmom comments on May 30, 2018:

Berrypickerish. Describes anyting earthy and hippie.

How can people not understand this?

Kojaksmom comments on May 30, 2018:

My daily rant- Not according to most anti-government pro-freedom people. Blind patriotism is a part of their Manifesto

Yoda's Wisdom

Kojaksmom comments on May 30, 2018:

True

My two moods:

Kojaksmom comments on May 30, 2018:

I could relate

Sounds logical

Kojaksmom comments on May 30, 2018:

That's my kind of plan!

Believing this is one thing.

Kojaksmom comments on May 29, 2018:

True it's become a real deal breaker for me.

Popsicles anyone?

Kojaksmom comments on May 29, 2018:

Margarita flavored popsicle enjoyed with a shots of tequila.

My wife has decided that we should live apart, and begin divorce proceedings. The problem?

Kojaksmom comments on May 29, 2018:

I'm so sorry you going through this. Hang in there, it happens to a lot of people all the time.

Came home from work this morning about 8am.

Kojaksmom comments on May 29, 2018:

Sounds like me.

Everyone Is Missing A Key Reason The U.S. Birth Rate Is Declining | HuffPost

Kojaksmom comments on May 29, 2018:

A declining birth rate is a great thing.

OK.

Kojaksmom comments on May 29, 2018:

the Second Amendment of our constitution guarantees the right to bear arms, even if it's killing massive numbers of people. the NRA is one of the most powerful organizations in the world. It makes no sense to me either.

We all abide by the principles of zero population growth.

Kojaksmom comments on May 29, 2018:

http://www.populationconnection.org

Hello everyone, I just joined. Glad to be here!

Kojaksmom comments on May 28, 2018:

Welcome!!

What are some things that turn you off on a first date that make you determine there won't be ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 28, 2018:

I've been on some really lousy dates. flashing your dick at me is not going to win any points. Yes I have to have that happen to me twice.

To our bible belt friends.

Kojaksmom comments on May 28, 2018:

I live in the Raleigh area and it's easier here than it is in the mountains of North Carolina. There are tons of churches and tons of Christian people. Luckily I don't consider my lack of belief to be a huge part of my identity. I simply try to keep my mouth closed, and change the subject if at all possible.

I would like to take this time to apologize to any one here that I may have offended in the last ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 27, 2018:

I'm perfectly fine with what you said. I think we need all types of opinions being expressed. otherwise it's not really a debate it's just preaching to the choir

It's not the when, it's the why.

Kojaksmom comments on May 27, 2018:

I found it to be true that while is really important it's not going to make anybody stay, and it's not going to make anybody leave

RUTH BADER GINSBURG.

Kojaksmom comments on May 27, 2018:

She is my ido!l I love her. Ruth, If you're out there somewhere and you need any organ to keep you alive, just p.m me.

>How will you vote?

Kojaksmom comments on May 27, 2018:

I'm a registered independent ,but so far the Democrats have always had my vote. as long as the Republican Party stands for the evengelical right ,and all its wedge issues, doesn't look like I'll be voting for any Republican anytime soon. Third party candidates are no go for me.

Atheists can't feel awe and wonder. _Oprah Winfrey

Kojaksmom comments on May 27, 2018:

I don't know about anybody else ,but that's ALL I feel is awe and wonder.

My respect to people in Ireland - you voted to throw out abortion ban Fri.

Kojaksmom comments on May 27, 2018:

Yes for me this was the best news that I've heard in a long time. Piss on the right wing Catholics! I love it when the religious freaks get their asses handed over to em

Would you guys like to reply to the ammosexual trolls, I can ask Admin to not remove their posts, ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

I think they're fine, let them stay.

And....another shooting. This one in a middle school. What next?

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

I think responsible gun owners are rare f****** breed.

Is graffiti art or vandalism, or...?

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

I love graffiti and consider it an art form in and of itself.

Did people unfollow me, or they're all ignoring me now for some unknown reason?

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

Just forget about it and enjoy yourself.

Retired Military! So I'm sorta divided on gun control issues.

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

a good start is with the ACA. Prior to the ACA Mental Health Services were simply unavailable for the highest risk segments of our population. Family abuse /spouse abuse is another red flag.

Bill Maher

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

I adore him, but don't agree with absolutely everything he says.

Association of Religiosity With Sexual Minority Suicide Ideation and Attempt

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

The American Journal of preventive medicine has it right. It's something we all suspected . The abrahamic religions have always been a driving force to keep humans on the path of repressive thought and action.

Sorry America.

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

It's all about the money, always is.

This is a woman's rights female in Saudi.

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

Another reason to hate religion. God is the foundation of their Society.

Those hateful people!

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

Because misery loves company.

I've never understood the legal drinking age being higher than the right to bear arms or get married...

Kojaksmom comments on May 25, 2018:

It helped getting alcohol out of high school. It's not uncommon for 18 year olds to go to the same school as 14 ,15 ,16 year olds

What do you think about the politically correct situation?

Kojaksmom comments on May 25, 2018:

I believe it has gone way overboard. People should be more tolerant of what people say. Sunlight is the best disinfectant ,so go ahead and put it out there WTF. But if you're going to be racist, sexist or any other phobic nonsense be prepared to own it. When people own their stupid s*** at least people could agree to disagree.

Not a fan of this once responsible organization.

Kojaksmom comments on May 25, 2018:

Neither am i. they got so large and powerful they now buy our elected officials. piss on that!!

Scary stuff

Kojaksmom comments on May 25, 2018:

Me too! that's why I always keep instant coffee and a can of Sterno just in case of emergencies. I don't prepare it any other way, so I'll be completely screwed but at least I'll have coffee

I have often said, on various sites, cheating is not the sex, but the lie.

Kojaksmom comments on May 25, 2018:

Yes, lie, deception and putting your partner (s) at a health risk they are unaware of. The act of intercourse is Nothing but a biological function.

Words and phrases you would like the world to do without. I will go first. I know, right?

Kojaksmom comments on May 25, 2018:

It is what it is. Is that just another way of saying fuck it?

Do you ever feel like there is no one else on the same plane of existence as you?

Kojaksmom comments on May 25, 2018:

Everyday

I've been dealing with an injured right big toe for sometime.

Kojaksmom comments on May 24, 2018:

Yay

Could You Eat All This?

Kojaksmom comments on May 24, 2018:

Oh my God! I think I just felt my blood pressure go up just looking at that! But what the hell , a challenge is a challenge and I would try.

This is what I make when I have a sweet tooth.

Kojaksmom comments on May 24, 2018:

Oh yum ! I like recipes like this where you could add this or take out that . Thats a lot of fun!

Yah Or Nay?

Kojaksmom comments on May 24, 2018:

Oh that one's a hard one for me. Being a snarky bitch back just happens naturally.

This has probably been discussed before but I am quite new here, so please excuse me.

Kojaksmom comments on May 24, 2018:

The huge amounts of weapons is, in and of itself , probably another reason. I also think a large amount of weapons in society increases the incidence of police brutality as well. Police officers here are extremely cautious of everyone. The United States has a gun culture that is our identity.

Hey Lisa, what kind of plant is this?

Kojaksmom comments on May 24, 2018:

Lol I have had a few!

I made this video about my wonderful little English Cocker Spaniel Molly, she was very bright and ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

It looks like she had a wonderful life! What a lucky dog!