A whole lot of sense!

Squirrel comments on May 30, 2018:

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Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

These are my thoughts when I have to go to the airport.

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Johnsalterego comments on May 30, 2018:

Too many things can get weird if they turn out to be a bit psycho- I made a rule a long time ago not to date anyone I work with...

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

Yeah, tbe old never shit where you eat rule. Lol, or never dip your pen in company ink.

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AwarenessNow comments on May 30, 2018:

My girlfriend a long time ago was a secretary in the office. We kept it secret by almost never talking to each other at work to avoid the office gossip. Luckily, I had changed jobs by the time we broke up. Here's another good rule: Don't date a neighbor!

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

Good advice

Is Dating someone who is in a different political party a deal-breaker for you?

EddieDean comments on May 30, 2018:

Keep in mind that it's difficult to change someone's mind about issues that they're invested in, especially when they're force fed information that enhances their confirmation bias daily. It doesn't matter what side of town fence you're on, you're going to have a hard time accepting any ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

it is possible. I know of a few couples that are Polar Opposites politically. they do take Jabs at one another ,and they do vent their hostilities towards one another ,but it seems to all be in good fun. They agree to disagree. I find it easier to deal with people who own their opinions, even if it means admitting something extremely negative about themselves.

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EdEarl comments on May 30, 2018:

It's good to have mixed feelings. Office romances can be big trouble. On the other hand, I met my wife at work.

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

I work for a large grocery store chain and if you are in a management position you cannot date anyone within that store. Management ,however ,will be more than happy to transfer you to another store if the relationship is that important to you. Most organizations have that same rule, and it's a good compromise.

A whole lot of sense!

phxbillcee comments on May 30, 2018:

Not just sometimes...often!

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

Me too, I consider myself to be a misanthrope. I have a tendency to love individuals but hate Humanity as a whole.

Is Dating someone who is in a different political party a deal-breaker for you?

Infoguy211 comments on May 30, 2018:

If we can find some common ground, and she doesn't force her opinions on me, then yes, I would continue to date her.

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

@Infoguy211 good advice

Is Dating someone who is in a different political party a deal-breaker for you?

Infoguy211 comments on May 30, 2018:

If we can find some common ground, and she doesn't force her opinions on me, then yes, I would continue to date her.

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

like for instance certain topics you just don't discuss together? Agreeing to disagree?

Is Dating someone who is in a different political party a deal-breaker for you?

josephr comments on May 30, 2018:

I hate labels, because they really don't tell me very much about what the person really believes. When people ask me what i am politically, i say, choose whatever label makes you most comfortable; conservative socialist, socialistic conservative, or fiscally conservative democratic socialist; or...

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

@Abbelyne for the most part I think you're right.

Is Dating someone who is in a different political party a deal-breaker for you?

LenHazell53 comments on May 30, 2018:

It did not used matter so much since there was always a certain amount of consensus between political parties on fundamental things like the public good, law and order, education, health care etc. However in my adult life time I have seen the polarisation of left and right, extremism rise on both ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

True, it is brutally divisive out there. I really wish we could go back to the time when there was a certain consensus in the political parties. But, unfortunately there is absolutely zero.

Is Dating someone who is in a different political party a deal-breaker for you?

MermaidSuzy888 comments on May 30, 2018:

It's a total deal breaker. I find that many conservative men have issues with strong, independent women.

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

I find they're not very honest with women either.

Is Dating someone who is in a different political party a deal-breaker for you?

DarrelScott comments on May 30, 2018:

I was married to a very liberal woman. Never again

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

Regardless of which side it does make a massive difference in a relationship

Is Dating someone who is in a different political party a deal-breaker for you?

TheLiberalGent comments on May 30, 2018:

Absolute deal-breaker for me. I'm a Liberal Democrat Socialist. And not to be arrogant but I consider most right-winger conservative bible thumpers to be brain damaged. And I don't care what people think of me.

Kojaksmom replies on May 30, 2018:

I feel somewhat the same way and was absolutely shocked that there are conservatives on this site. I didn't think such an animal existed.

My wife has decided that we should live apart, and begin divorce proceedings. The problem?

Kojaksmom comments on May 29, 2018:

I'm so sorry you going through this. Hang in there, it happens to a lot of people all the time.

Kojaksmom replies on May 29, 2018:

@CraeftSmith just keep your eyes open. There's a lot of people that may be looking for a roommate situation until you could get on your feet.

When you only wanted to marry a fat ugly bastard for his money.

Coldo comments on May 29, 2018:

She's so Classy.

Kojaksmom replies on May 29, 2018:

I'm sure she misses the good ol days. She's only comfortable being a hood ornament, but now she's stuck with being the first lady.

Everyone Is Missing A Key Reason The U.S. Birth Rate Is Declining | HuffPost

Kojaksmom comments on May 29, 2018:

A declining birth rate is a great thing.

Kojaksmom replies on May 29, 2018:

@5082gregory however ,if the birth rate continues to drastically decline, more benefits may be given to people who choose to be parents. Although I hope that many would choose not to become parents

>How will you vote?

IAMGROOT comments on May 26, 2018:

I'll vote Libertarian wherever possible.

Kojaksmom replies on May 29, 2018:

if you vote libertarian you basically believe that trickle down theory of Economics work. that without interference people will always do the right thing ,and that's complete b*******. Libertarians are no different from Evangelical right-wing Republicans. different party same philosophy

>How will you vote?

ArdentAtheist comments on May 27, 2018:

I’ll vote straight Democratic ticket. On some levels I do like the Libertarian party but when push comes to shove I’ve never been able to vote for any of them as they’ve either been idiots or I simply did not want to cast my vote to the wind. I like the idea of 3rd party but in reality I want...

Kojaksmom replies on May 29, 2018:

@SallyMc I'm somewhat of a misanthropist the idea people governing themselves scares the f*** out of me

>How will you vote?

Sara72712 comments on May 26, 2018:

BLUE. But I'm in Arkansas, so it won't matter. But I still vote in every election I can.

Kojaksmom replies on May 29, 2018:

@Sara72712 they Pander to the Evangelical right. Libertarians are no different

>How will you vote?

IAMGROOT comments on May 26, 2018:

I'll vote Libertarian wherever possible.

Kojaksmom replies on May 28, 2018:

@IAMGROOT for me they're not I would never consider it

What are some things that turn you off on a first date that make you determine there won't be ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 28, 2018:

I've been on some really lousy dates. flashing your dick at me is not going to win any points. Yes I have to have that happen to me twice.

Kojaksmom replies on May 28, 2018:

@DarwinistOne I guess so gosh! For all you men reading this, does this work on occasion? Lol!

>How will you vote?

doug6352 comments on May 26, 2018:

I vote Republican, because in my opinion the Democrats do not believe in freedom.

Kojaksmom replies on May 28, 2018:

@doug6352 that's why I don't vote for republicans or third party. you still are free to do whatever the hell you want to and it's usually the Democrats that support that.

>How will you vote?

IAMGROOT comments on May 26, 2018:

I'll vote Libertarian wherever possible.

Kojaksmom replies on May 28, 2018:

the problem with Libertarians is that they would never get anything done because they're still arguing over how small that small government should be and what government programs should be cut, what taxes could be cut ..........I don't think they're legitimate party.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

NormCastle comments on May 27, 2018:

AH the old brainwashing trick....

Kojaksmom replies on May 28, 2018:

What's the brainwashing trick?

Dating Experiences on Agnostic.com Poll

KenG comments on May 28, 2018:

This is a dating site? ?

Kojaksmom replies on May 28, 2018:

Lol

I would like to take this time to apologize to any one here that I may have offended in the last ...

Kojaksmom comments on May 27, 2018:

I'm perfectly fine with what you said. I think we need all types of opinions being expressed. otherwise it's not really a debate it's just preaching to the choir

Kojaksmom replies on May 28, 2018:

@Theskeptic you got that right. Everybody seems to be like live wires jumping around. I've showed my ass more than one time on this site too.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

Marcie1974 comments on May 28, 2018:

I think open communication is great but it sounds like they’re getting the shot whether they like it or not. Also, and I realize I’m being really judgy here, but I cannot imagine kicking one of my children out of the house if they got pregnant.

Kojaksmom replies on May 28, 2018:

it's really not legal anyway. a parent would be forced to pay for their child, and their child's child. I suppose that's why birth control is mandatory in her house

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

HippieChick58 comments on May 27, 2018:

They are likely given Depo Provera which can cause long term problems. I would not let my kids use it again, however my kids did dodge the problems. Yes, my kids were put on birth control. The chief reason was dysmenorrhea, painful periods. However I did tell my girls if they got pregnant I would ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 28, 2018:

@CraeftSmith rare side effec,t and when put up against pushing a human out of your birth canal after 30 hours of screaming in agony it pales in comparison

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

Buttercup comments on May 27, 2018:

My daughter had the same doctor from birth to 18, We made it clear that it was up to her and private. He is a very commonsense, practical professional, so he would done what she asked. We found out later she had gone to planned parenthood on her own.

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

Kudos to her! But it does show the secrecy that teens feel about their sexuality.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

Theskeptic comments on May 27, 2018:

Well an ounce of prevention is worth a ton of cure! 3 Daughters of my own and when those hormones kick in reason and logic so not apply! ?

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

there was another post some time ago about the first person you are in love with. I so totally agree I will never love anybody like that ever again. because sexuality and our children is such a dicey topic, we often times try to make the two (sex and love) seem as if they are one. that is one of the biggest mistakes parents make when it comes to talking to their teen about sex.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

seattlepanda comments on May 27, 2018:

Sounds ok to me. Though if the unplanned were to happen, I hope she might change her attitude toward a daughter with something in the oven.

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

Her philosophy about parenting is she would be a good grandmother to her grandchildren, but she is not going to be the mother. if any of her daughters got pregnant they would be asked to leave the home. she is a single parent so she has to be a good mother and a father which is I think she is very tough minded.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

JackPedigo comments on May 27, 2018:

Good for the mom. Let her kids know what is expected of them and what she will do to help. My late partner told her kids if they got into trouble and ended in jail she would visit them but not bail them out. "Discipline first then love was her motto and it applied to everyone including herself and, ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

Well said.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

OldGoat43 comments on May 27, 2018:

The whole idea getting the girls used to birth control is a great step in the right direction. Not just the girls, boys too. We have enough humans on this earth right now to be detrimental to the well being of each other. Our elbow room is running low and there is violence popping up everywhere. ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

@OldGoat43 I agree. I think the chances of a young person getting through school and remaining a virgin are pretty low. That's I really do not have a general feeling about putting your child on birth control if they're not sexually active yet (the operative word here is yet.)

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

JessicaBeZazzle comments on May 27, 2018:

My mom put me on the pill at 14. No babies in the house. I was a late bloomer but put up no fight... I am privileged to have made it to 40 sans kids.

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

now we have the birth control shot which is good for 3 months. you don't have to worry about your children taking pills or taking them right it's foolproof.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

RavenCT comments on May 27, 2018:

No just flat out no. One those injections can have side effects. Including depression. Also going to an OB/GYN for an exam before sex has ever occurred? Ouch. (Hymen). I'd rather do what my sister did and keep a large quantity supply of condoms in the bathroom - let them know it's there....

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

@NotAndrew Lol! Our children's sexuality is often a challenge for us. I just thank goodness that I never had any children that I can avoid this whole mess!

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

MrLizard comments on May 27, 2018:

I agree with the no way folks. If the kid is not asking for it, I wouldn't make them get it. I would be very open about sex (have been with my kids) and make sure they know I won't stop loving them if they become active. I'd also buy them condoms, take them to the gynecologist, or whatever is ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

@germangirl90439 forced might be a harsh word for it .they know what she's doing ,they know what it's for and she discusses it with them.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

Cherie44 comments on May 27, 2018:

How old are they? My granddaughter is 15 and recently on it for the first time (pills), also to regulate her cycle. My daughter and I are both smart enough to know abstinence doesn’t work to preach, I was 17 with my first and my daughter had just graduated high school.

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

Around 14 to 17 when they're in school and begin showing interest in boys.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

germangirl90439 comments on May 27, 2018:

Wait! Are you saying elementary school age girls?

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

@germangirl90439 I respectfully disagree because what she says is indeed the truth. And we could look back on our own teenage years and know it's the truth. coddle your children and make them believe that the world is all rainbows and love. I've always felt that parents over protect their children and they do not prepare them for the realities of life

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

MrLizard comments on May 27, 2018:

I agree with the no way folks. If the kid is not asking for it, I wouldn't make them get it. I would be very open about sex (have been with my kids) and make sure they know I won't stop loving them if they become active. I'd also buy them condoms, take them to the gynecologist, or whatever is ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

But when you think about it ,all parents say this but often times things work out very differently. Even if parents are open about sex it's somewhat unlikely that your child is going to discuss with you or be prepared to use birth control. I was propositioned for sex when I was 16 I never told my parents about it.

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

RavenCT comments on May 27, 2018:

No just flat out no. One those injections can have side effects. Including depression. Also going to an OB/GYN for an exam before sex has ever occurred? Ouch. (Hymen). I'd rather do what my sister did and keep a large quantity supply of condoms in the bathroom - let them know it's there....

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

After a girl begins her menstrual period She may have problems that may require her to see a gynecologist and have an examination. I see that it's a non-issue

I had a recent conversation with a friend and wanted to get everyone's opinion on this.

germangirl90439 comments on May 27, 2018:

Wait! Are you saying elementary school age girls?

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

Around the age of 14 15 16. I don't have kids I never will so it doesn't really matter to me. But I could see where she's coming from. she's an excellent mother, but she is incredibly hard core. She's not one of these teach your children sex and love go together mom. She teaches her children some really brutal things about young boys trying to get in young girls pants, she basically teaches them many boys are pigs. She's not wrong about that

>How will you vote?

AnneWimsey comments on May 27, 2018:

Remember: NOT VOTING IS A VOTE!!!!!

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

@bingst you're absolutely right

And....another shooting. This one in a middle school. What next?

JackPedigo comments on May 26, 2018:

I saw this, this morning. My question is where did this kid get this gun? If it belonged to a parent the parent should be punished.

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

I so totally agree.

And....another shooting. This one in a middle school. What next?

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

I think responsible gun owners are rare f****** breed.

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

@Seeker55 I hate to put it this way ,but humans can't even use birth control responsibly In order to prevent unwanted pregnancies .so given that fact, how the f***are we ever going to be responsible for handling weapons that were designed to do nothing but kill.

>How will you vote?

doug6352 comments on May 26, 2018:

I vote Republican, because in my opinion the Democrats do not believe in freedom.

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

So Democrats are proposing making slaves out of the general population?

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Seeker55 comments on May 26, 2018:

There are so many broken minds out there, so many filled with uncontrollable rage, fear. Controlling guns will not stop more violence like this from happening. There are many things that make for the perfect storm of retribution from those feeling that they have been "done wrong" in the mind of one ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 27, 2018:

You're absolutely right, however, easy access to weapons does not deter gun violence either.

Retired Military! So I'm sorta divided on gun control issues.

kenriley comments on May 26, 2018:

That seems to be the question. I believe we need some restrictions to guns and more so to weapons of war. I also believe that we need better education, Health care, fair and equal job opportunities with a living wage, Maybe people wouldn't have so much hate for each other, We might not have to worry...

Kojaksmom replies on May 26, 2018:

@Theskeptic LOL stop you're killing me. I see this Administration and causing some kind of apocalyptic s***

Retired Military! So I'm sorta divided on gun control issues.

Kojaksmom comments on May 26, 2018:

a good start is with the ACA. Prior to the ACA Mental Health Services were simply unavailable for the highest risk segments of our population. Family abuse /spouse abuse is another red flag.

Kojaksmom replies on May 26, 2018:

@Theskeptic that is the truth. Here in North Carolina Dorothea Dix was the largest Mental Health Center that we had, when it closed people were literally sent to the streets. What and shame for those poor people ! It's a horrible decision to take the mentally ill and throw them on the streets and call them a police problem. Perhaps drug and alcohol treatment centers could also be a red flag. The numbers of mental issues among drug users, alcoholics and even smokers is very high.

Disney is a bad influence!

Mofferatu comments on May 26, 2018:

Lol. 101 is fine. 102 is probably a little excessive.

Kojaksmom replies on May 26, 2018:

Nah! There's always room for one more!

Not a fan of this once responsible organization.

Seeker55 comments on May 25, 2018:

I think it might be more correct to direct our displeasure towards the idiots at the top. I have to believe that the average NRA member must share some concern about the trend in gun violence and would want to see some common sense improvements to current laws.

Kojaksmom replies on May 25, 2018:

I ain't so sure about that. The NRA stance on gun violence is too damn bad there's nothing we could do s*** happens.

Has anyone had an uncomfortable experience with open carry nuts?

Lauren comments on May 24, 2018:

No, not in public but I don't get out much. ;-) Recently, however, my mother's best friend has been trying to cope with it. She has four children (all 30+ aged adults) and a lot of grandchildren. Her youngest son is an open carry nut ... not to sound malicious, but he's so into open carry ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 25, 2018:

@Lauren it is! and we all have to remember we can have this person evaluated if we think he is a danger to himself or others, but what the law does not allow is for us to take away his gun.

Did anyone noticed that "lancer" continues to change age with every reincarnation of the ammosexual?

Lancer comments on May 24, 2018:

Chill mate. Let's be adults and engage in discussion. I refuse to lower myself to the standard of a cussing degenerate.

Kojaksmom replies on May 25, 2018:

as much as i hate to say it, we need you here.

Words and phrases you would like the world to do without. I will go first. I know, right?

SpikeTalon comments on May 25, 2018:

Dang, I like that phrase...

Kojaksmom replies on May 25, 2018:

@Freethinkerr lol

According to Pew Research Center, 58% of conservatives believe higher education negatively affects ...

SpikeTalon comments on May 24, 2018:

Well, we sure do have alot of college educated folks running this country, and look at how messed up things are. Doesn't matter what political side you choose, they both have members responsible for the quality of life going down in this country. Too much political correctness is being taught in ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 25, 2018:

@NotConvinced to a certain point I agree. For instance I can't stand any religions. however the extreme left does make it a point that I could talk s*** about Christianity but I cant talk s*** about Islam.

Idiot With MAGA Hat in Santa Fe

Lancer comments on May 23, 2018:

Since when did criminals start following gun laws? Since when did all of the illegal guns in the USA disappear? Since when did all of the mentally ill children vanish? Because last time I checked they were all still very much the cause of the problem and a piece of paper with some words on it ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 25, 2018:

@Lancer and if you're going to comment at least tell us something that we haven't heard a billion times before by the true God the NRA. When laws are unable to be enforced , that generally means that There are no consequences to breaking them.The NRA will not hear of it.

According to Pew Research Center, 58% of conservatives believe higher education negatively affects ...

SpikeTalon comments on May 24, 2018:

Well, we sure do have alot of college educated folks running this country, and look at how messed up things are. Doesn't matter what political side you choose, they both have members responsible for the quality of life going down in this country. Too much political correctness is being taught in ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 25, 2018:

@SpikeTalon what does the Constitution say about airplanes ?what does the Constitution say about computers ?what does the Constitution say about cell phones? What does the Constitution say about atom bombs? The only thing that stays the same in this life is that everything changes. I've always felt it's not really about conservative liberal, democrat or republican, it's about whether or not we see ourselves as a Cooperative pack animal or a cat like independent Hunter. No man is a self-made millionaire. Someone had to give birth to that man, someone had to raise that man, educate that man, the clothes on your back the food that you ate was probably not made completely by you. All of the things that you enjoy and use were made ,processed, marketed a d shipped by hundreds of people. When they go down and they're struggling to survive because of low wages and bad working conditions you're going to feel it. When a disaster strikes a human ,you're going to see a level of cooperation and people pulling together to try to get through that bad time. It's my personal believe that that's how we evolved as a species.

Is this True? Parents of under age mass killers can't be charged with a crime?

TerriCity comments on May 22, 2018:

The parents are responsible for not having their weapons securely stored. of course, no parent believes their child would be irresponsible with their guns, let alone a potential mass murderer.

Kojaksmom replies on May 25, 2018:

But I'm not certain if there's a law about guns not being properly secured. The NRA would fight against any law that forces gun owners to properly secure their weapons.

According to Pew Research Center, 58% of conservatives believe higher education negatively affects ...

SpikeTalon comments on May 24, 2018:

Well, we sure do have alot of college educated folks running this country, and look at how messed up things are. Doesn't matter what political side you choose, they both have members responsible for the quality of life going down in this country. Too much political correctness is being taught in ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 25, 2018:

I don't really think political correctness is wihats bringing this country down. the Constitution has to be interpreted to fit the times. Humans are an overpopulated species that are ruled by the ultra wealthy. The quality of life in the u.s is shit for everyone.

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IamNobody comments on May 24, 2018:

I don't really care have a gun, that's fine..... Just don't kill me with it ??

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

Lol! I know right but the way things are going it doesn't look like the statistics are on our side!

Idiot With MAGA Hat in Santa Fe

Lancer comments on May 23, 2018:

Since when did criminals start following gun laws? Since when did all of the illegal guns in the USA disappear? Since when did all of the mentally ill children vanish? Because last time I checked they were all still very much the cause of the problem and a piece of paper with some words on it ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

It is estimated in the United States each year between 300 and 500000 guns are stolen and just put on the streets. This to me is proof of how responsible gun owners are. Your average gun nut cannot even secure weapon properly let alone use it responsibly

Has anyone had an uncomfortable experience with open carry nuts?

Lancer comments on May 24, 2018:

So this person took their gun out and pointed it at you? You must have called the police right? In all seriousness, at least it would have deterred a robber from coming into the restaurant. But if it was a hardened criminal they would have just shot the person with the gun first.

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

I don't trust people, I particularly do not trust men.why would I automatically assume that this man is an honest caring decent human being. What would have prevented him from standing up and randomly shooting everybody in the restaurant? Or maybe he was a decent guy. Either way I want to know how I could look at someone and determine what their intentions are in all situations with % accuracy. I guess the best way to explain it is I look at armed people with the same disgust and contempt and fear as gun enthusiasts look at unarmed people.

According to Pew Research Center, 58% of conservatives believe higher education negatively affects ...

doug6352 comments on May 24, 2018:

Is this the link you meant to post? http://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2017/07/20/republicans-skeptical-of-colleges-impact-on-u-s-but-most-see-benefits-for-workforce-preparation/ It's probably due to hearing the left-wing nonsense our college-brainwashed children have been spouting. I think ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

Yeah that's what I was reading

According to Pew Research Center, 58% of conservatives believe higher education negatively affects ...

ballou comments on May 24, 2018:

58% of conservatives are just stupid!

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

I think so too. And it's always a conservative that's going to spit on his fellow man because they don't make enough money to make ends meet.So how the hell are people supposed to be self-sufficient without education?

Idiot With MAGA Hat in Santa Fe

Lancer comments on May 23, 2018:

Since when did criminals start following gun laws? Since when did all of the illegal guns in the USA disappear? Since when did all of the mentally ill children vanish? Because last time I checked they were all still very much the cause of the problem and a piece of paper with some words on it ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

Since when does any criminal follow any law. Why have any law at all? Is that what you're proposing the human-animal should live under total Anarchy? And show me the statistics on how your country has just as much, if not more ,violent gun crimes than the United States

Has anyone had an uncomfortable experience with open carry nuts?

Lauren comments on May 24, 2018:

No, not in public but I don't get out much. ;-) Recently, however, my mother's best friend has been trying to cope with it. She has four children (all 30+ aged adults) and a lot of grandchildren. Her youngest son is an open carry nut ... not to sound malicious, but he's so into open carry ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

That is sad and it really does show the conservative gun nuts mentality. the entire universe revolves only around them

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AmelieMatisse comments on May 24, 2018:

I have read these statistics too. It confuses me because you would think that no gun owners want legislation according to what I see on FB and in my personal life. Anyway a large percentage of people I know who have guns are totally against gun legislation, although admittedly I do not have a lot of...

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

I believe the same thing .they believe freedom to own as many guns as they want, under very permissive laws is freedom that they valued more than people's lives

Is this True? Parents of under age mass killers can't be charged with a crime?

brainyactress comments on May 22, 2018:

Also, none of us should be prosecuted for another’s crime. If there was the criminal negligence of the father’s not storing the weapons properly or giving them to him with the knowledge he was unstable, or aiding and abetting... there are numerous scenarios under which he might be charged but an...

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

@Seeker55 I wasn't advocating putting him in prison for breeding .as an adult in the household with underage children it's his responsibility to secure his guns .if he can't he's a criminal.

Has anyone had an uncomfortable experience with open carry nuts?

Michaeld2e comments on May 24, 2018:

They know exactly why they open carry. It has nothing to do with protection. It's all about projection. Nobody needs to carry a gun in public.

Kojaksmom replies on May 24, 2018:

True, nobody teaches their children to respect ,obey and Trust strangers. Open carry people don't even realize how dangerous and nefarious they look to others. After all what does a" good guy with a gun" look like?

This has probably been discussed before but I am quite new here, so please excuse me.

Druvius comments on May 23, 2018:

This was the case thst really made it clear just wht a gun crazy lot Americand are: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Death_of_Yoshihiro_Hattori

Kojaksmom replies on May 23, 2018:

What's even crazier whenever there's a mass shooting gun sales soar upwards unfortunately it is 100% impossible to talk to a gun nut or ammosexual and convinnce them that no one is coming to steal all their guns.

Humans just 0.

NotConvinced comments on May 22, 2018:

Extinction is part of the natural process. It is a necessary function of evolution.

Kojaksmom replies on May 23, 2018:

@ukgator I agree! The Earth will take care of herself.

Is this True? Parents of under age mass killers can't be charged with a crime?

JackPedigo comments on May 23, 2018:

This miscreant father is probably getting a lot of negative comments these days. As he should. Parents with guns and kids can be a deadly combination. Usually, it is the child getting a hold of a gun and shooting a sibling. Then the parents realize, albeit too late, the problems that guns cause.

Kojaksmom replies on May 23, 2018:

I agree and everytime that happens I think the parents should be charged with a crime

Next month is my family reunion with my mom's side of the family.

Kojaksmom comments on May 23, 2018:

Uggggg! Do you drink? If not try it it helps! ?

Kojaksmom replies on May 23, 2018:

@LunaStarr oh I'm sorry

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SpikeTalon comments on May 23, 2018:

I agree, there is no shortage of intolerant biased folks on this site, regardless of the fact there are supposed to be free-thinkers present on here.

Kojaksmom replies on May 23, 2018:

Each of us think the same thing .

Is this True? Parents of under age mass killers can't be charged with a crime?

Seeker55 comments on May 23, 2018:

I have been wondering the same thing, for all the news I have heard doesn't mention the Father in regards to how this kid got the weapons.

Kojaksmom replies on May 23, 2018:

I know me too. The father admits that his son did not own guns , but he did. It's almost as if his father wants to take responsibility for his son. I can understand to a certain extent. The shooter was an underage child, parents should be held responsible too.

Humans just 0.

NotConvinced comments on May 22, 2018:

Extinction is part of the natural process. It is a necessary function of evolution.

Kojaksmom replies on May 23, 2018:

@NotConvinced it's an interwoven web of life. When one animal goes extinct, it has consequences that are felt by all. The Earth does not need humans at all.

Humans just 0.

bodhi1 comments on May 22, 2018:

So tragic. Wish there were a good way to educate all and work together to change for better.

Kojaksmom replies on May 23, 2018:

I don't think that's possible. It's not so much what we do, but it's the sheer numbers that were doing it. We breed worse than rabbits.

Humans just 0.

NotConvinced comments on May 22, 2018:

Extinction is part of the natural process. It is a necessary function of evolution.

Kojaksmom replies on May 23, 2018:

True, which is why we should not be upset with the human animals becoming extinct.

Is this True? Parents of under age mass killers can't be charged with a crime?

brainyactress comments on May 22, 2018:

Also, none of us should be prosecuted for another’s crime. If there was the criminal negligence of the father’s not storing the weapons properly or giving them to him with the knowledge he was unstable, or aiding and abetting... there are numerous scenarios under which he might be charged but an...

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

Not when it concerns your underage child that you're responsible for

I`m gonna make a whole load of people on this site jealous.

Kadygee comments on May 22, 2018:

Lol. Can I move to the UK? I’m smack in the middle of the Bible belt

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

I know the feeling I am too. It does suck doesn't it?

One of the annoying things about the current US regime is it's approval of people acting like ...

doug6352 comments on May 22, 2018:

Maybe you should concern yourself with your own ridiculous government, Mr. Canadian, and let us take care of our own country, to which you thankfully do not belong.

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

I wish I was Canadian.

How America solves problems.

Coldo comments on May 20, 2018:

More money to be made with guns.

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

Yep, it's so easy too!

Regarding yesterday's abortion post(s) wars, I would like to offer a simple solution.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 21, 2018:

Well. That's one solution. Vasectomy doesn't have a 100% effective record, but it worked pretty well for me. . Another thought is that if men could get pregnant there'd be all sorts of very effective birth control, easily obtainable and likely free. It's not so much about that as it is about ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

@KKGator lol

So, the right is saying gun control won't help? So, what will help? I'm not hearing any answers!

XxDARKNEXUSxX comments on May 18, 2018:

The right receive big from NRA to keep guns sales high and profits and own the republican congress , They are there to protect NRA , if this helps you see the light they are KKK , Nazi , confederate gun loving idiots lol

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

True, the pro gun talks about personal responsibilities and I agree, but they have billions upon billions of dollars from the NRA supporting their cause. But yet when it comes to the gun control side,it's always poor people's money and time. Why doesn't the NRA start investing in some major programs that the gun nuts talk about? If I miss two hours of work that's a significant amount of money for me. And no ,a individual cannot just insert an after-school program at a school even if they pay for it. The social problems that this country has ,is indeed ,related to The High Cost of Living , low wages and serious reductions of time that parents have to spend with their family. The days of Ozzie and Harriet are over . we have to meet new challenges, and more and more of us do not have the resources to do that.

Choosing partner is directly or indirectly related with racism.

Amisja comments on May 22, 2018:

How does this happen? This choosing malarky? I just was sorta single then sorta not. I was married to a guy for 22 years who was a different nationality and a different ethnicity (although still caucasian). I thought being with someone was more about chemistry and biology and less about cynical ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

And that's fine ,but I don't think it's racist if someone does.

Choosing partner is directly or indirectly related with racism.

VAL3941 comments on May 22, 2018:

I love to get involved with a coloured lady, they seem to be very sexually liberated ?

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

@Bierbasstard it's also the reason why a lot of white women don't date outside their ethnicity / race.

Choosing partner is directly or indirectly related with racism.

Silver1wun comments on May 22, 2018:

Some folks just go around with a chip on their shoulder about race. People, just about all people, are more comfortable around the 'familiar'. That includes but is not limited to race. Venturing into the unknown is adventurous and exciting to many; especially in youth. One cannot separate ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

That's very true.

Regarding yesterday's abortion post(s) wars, I would like to offer a simple solution.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 21, 2018:

Well. That's one solution. Vasectomy doesn't have a 100% effective record, but it worked pretty well for me. . Another thought is that if men could get pregnant there'd be all sorts of very effective birth control, easily obtainable and likely free. It's not so much about that as it is about ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 22, 2018:

@KKGator damn straight! And all men would get paid time off for their menstrual periods, and they would brag about how heavy and painful they were.

Why we need to arm teachers

zorialoki comments on May 21, 2018:

I had teachers that hated me. I would probably been shot

Kojaksmom replies on May 21, 2018:

@zorialoki oh stop it! you'll just excite me! Lol

I posted this in Main but am reposting it here.

Kojaksmom comments on May 21, 2018:

Ammosexuals are always happy to infringe on the rights/ safety of others in order to make love to the second ammenment. The freak in this article proves my point.

Kojaksmom replies on May 21, 2018:

@AmelieMatisse lol it's not just wanting a gun to protect your family ,it's a strange passion for hoarding.

Why we need to arm teachers

zorialoki comments on May 21, 2018:

I had teachers that hated me. I would probably been shot

Kojaksmom replies on May 21, 2018:

Yeah me too.

Why we need to arm teachers

XxDARKNEXUSxX comments on May 21, 2018:

People after kids killed wanted action ban assault rifles which would hurt gun sales so the sck bstrds came up with how to sell more guns . I say use Herr Trump Hitler style parade money to buy bullet proof school uniforms

Kojaksmom replies on May 21, 2018:

I was always the one to suggest arming 16 year olds in high schools. They're old enough to drive a car, which ammosexuals suggest are even more dangerous, so they're old enough to carry a M16. I was of course just trying to stir the shit pot.

I posted this in Main but am reposting it here.

kenriley comments on May 21, 2018:

I really think the whole or most of the problem is the lack of a good education system, a free health care system, and fair and equal wage system for everyone. What we have is a system set up not to help others but to put blame on each other for the failure. In turn people are passing their pain and...

Kojaksmom replies on May 21, 2018:

I agree, however, most conservatives are also very much against all of the issues you mentioned. From what I've seen over on the conservative atheist group , the overwhelming majority of gun nuts believe that those of us who want to see sensible gun laws are lazy, stupid, irresponsible parents who just want a government quick fix.

So one thing that worries me about the Texas shooting is that it will become ammunition for the NRA ...

kenriley comments on May 20, 2018:

Latest one I heard, Schools have to many doors. I hope there's no fire.

Kojaksmom replies on May 20, 2018:

True, I guess we're going to start hearing guns don't kill students doors do.

If a woman wants an abortion should the father have a right to keep the child?

PhoebeCat comments on May 20, 2018:

A man doesn't have the right to demand a woman remain pregnant. A man should not have to support a child resulting from a pregnancy he would have chosen to abort given the choice. She chose to have a child = her responsibility.

Kojaksmom replies on May 20, 2018:

@SallyMc perhaps, but just as a woman may not be ready or able to support and raise a child ,a man may not be able to either.

I'm going to be so busy tomorrow.

rogeralyn comments on May 20, 2018:

I wish I had 1/10th your energy!

Kojaksmom replies on May 20, 2018:

@Sarahroo29 really?????? More power to you

If a woman wants an abortion should the father have a right to keep the child?

PhoebeCat comments on May 20, 2018:

A man doesn't have the right to demand a woman remain pregnant. A man should not have to support a child resulting from a pregnancy he would have chosen to abort given the choice. She chose to have a child = her responsibility.

Kojaksmom replies on May 20, 2018:

I agree, if a woman has the right to abortion if she does not want to financially, emotionally and otherwise be a parent, a man should have the same option of opting out of parenthood. I know a lot of women that are raising kids by themselves. The biological father doesn't pay child support or see the child. Men should have the right to release themselves from all parental responsibility by giving up their parental rights .

How America solves problems.

kenriley comments on May 20, 2018:

We are such a divided country, I don't really see a way out. I'm hoping we can start making a real change for education, healthcare decent wages and basic human kindness in the future. Vote blue.

Kojaksmom replies on May 20, 2018:

Yes, me too.

Appropriate, (sadly) yet again. Ugh!

SpikeTalon comments on May 19, 2018:

Uh no, how about we blame the liberal left for making our schools gun free zones? Time and time again these mass shootings occur in gun free zones, you never hear NRA meetings or gun ranges experiencing these type of shootings, why is that? The liberal left is toxic, their ideas of "feel good" ...

Kojaksmom replies on May 20, 2018:

@2askjoe absolutely true our crime rate should be zero.

What is wrong with these statistics?

rainmaker-47 comments on May 19, 2018:

The "problem" isn't guns. The problem is the attitude. In every other country people have obligations. Owning a gun is a privilege. Americans have "rights" but no responsibility.

Kojaksmom replies on May 20, 2018:

True,

How about some federal regulations regarding how guns must be maintained in the home.

hankster comments on May 19, 2018:

it would be nice to have that conversation include the dialogue of gun responsibility, vs gun control.

Kojaksmom replies on May 20, 2018:

Never happen In this country. Gun nuts dont care.