Missing a number?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 5, 2018:

Lol

So.

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 5, 2018:

it's only going to be an issue if you make it an issue. If dating a Christian is okay with you, there's no point in pushing beliefs on each other.

A few things to put out there.

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 5, 2018:

I've had my fair share of agnostic.com problems. Certain keywords you must stay away from-agnostic ,atheist ,promiscuity ,morality sexual deviant, fat, ugly and the word normal. This is by no means a complete list. It has been my experience that the use of any of these words can cause people to go off like a Roman candle

Words from the garden

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 5, 2018:

Ooooo luv it! That's right! Be your beautiful messy self only!

I Rest My Case

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 5, 2018:

Mention this to a Christian one time and they said that Adam and Eve were not related. Lol

Do you love to hike?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 5, 2018:

I just joined a meet up for old hikers. It's great!

Would you live in a 400 sq ft home, if it meant you could live in an absolutely beautiful place?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 5, 2018:

Yes, I would live in a tent if I could be someplace beautiful.

I have surely screwed up on the relationship front.

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 5, 2018:

I felt that way after I became a widow. We can't go back. Looking forward, I see it's possible to foster a new love. No doubt love is different at an advanced age, but it's not less valuable and meaningful.

We have a new sandwich

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 4, 2018:

I would derive a very deep satisfaction in taking the largest sharpest butcher knife and cutting slices for everyone.

What’s the longest you’ve ever gone without food?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 4, 2018:

Tried the lemonade diet once for a week. Horrible experience! Don't do it.

If one doesn't believe in god does that also mean they don't believe in Satan as well.

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 3, 2018:

Interesting question . I believe both are fictional , but Satan is much more believable if you ask me. Perhaps both represent the choice or innate inclinations of our animal species.

How would you feel in a relationship if your significant other refused to fight?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 2, 2018:

There is an old saying that says " couples who don't fight don't f*ck" jus sayin

How would everyone feel about being refused a date because you’re an atheist?

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 2, 2018:

It's only an issue if you make it one. If someone refused a date with me because I'm a non believer, I'd consider myself lucky.

A toothache.

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Two motrins and one Tyleno.l works every time

Know The Feeling

Kojaksmom comments on Apr 1, 2018:

Mine too

Does anyone do any gardening this summer? what all do you plant? I love having a garden!

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 29, 2018:

I love plants! I plant mostly zome7 or 8 perennials that can withstand the scorching temperatures. My vegetable garden consists of cherry tomatoes ,lots of herbs and sweet banana peppers

Open relationships

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 29, 2018:

I really don't understand the concept of an open relationship. My thoughts are just be single and STFU.

Do You Have a Phobia?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 29, 2018:

I have the strangest phobia. I have an intense fear of getting lost when I'm driving. It really takes a lot of Courage for me to venture from state-to-state driving. by the way that's snake is a cottonmouth!! You better have a phobia when it comes to that guy! he'll fuck you up if you get bitten. You could have used a garter snake or a black snake something non venomous. Lol.

The "god of philosophers." A distant or unknowable god is the same as no god?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 29, 2018:

An unknowable or distant God is very similar to what agnosticism is all about. So yes ,I do believe it's the same thing as a belief in no God. It is the rejection of the Living God of the Christian and most other abrahamic traditions

After being in a relationship for a couple of years that began sketchily, progressed to horrible and...

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 27, 2018:

It's perfectly okay! this is a safe place to vent and share. I was able to relate with what you said .we've all been through a lot

I can't imagine a god being so self centered that he would want people to spend their whole life ...

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 26, 2018:

I agree. If God is a loving God he sure does shower his creation with shit and bad outcomes.

I Lost a Friend Today I lost a friend this morning.

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 26, 2018:

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

Do you talk to yourself?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 26, 2018:

All the time, but my dog listens to me so it doesn't count.

Are you more a cat or dog lover?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 26, 2018:

Dogs hands down. Dogs are your loyal friend for life. Cats believe if you drop dead they'll just go the neighbors house to eat..

I need one more point to make it to level seven. I hope this will do it.

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 25, 2018:

hey! You're cute!!!

Week 11/2018 in the Death with Dignity Movement

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 25, 2018:

I fully support the movement. As sad as it is, many of us will be left in a position that does not allow us to go through the long painful, drawn out, expensive process of dying naturally. Making a decision about death is no different than making any other decision. for those of us that try to live life with dignity death is just another part of it.

Getting back in running.

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 24, 2018:

I'm sure we all have. I became a widow after 21 years of marriage and had to reinvent my entire life all over again. So yeah I know your pain. You sound like you've got your s*** together! once you get your mind straight, your body usually will follow.

A Georgia Mom Crashed Her Car Into a Concrete Pole to Show Her Kids God Exists – Friendly Atheist

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 24, 2018:

This story reminds me of another story that happened here in North Carolina years and years ago. A man who is stuck in traffic accelerated and caused a multi vehicle accident. The reason why, according to him, God told him he could drive through traffic.

Have you ever found a religious person that was genuinely interested in hearing what you had to say ...

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 23, 2018:

Come to think of it- no..

Does online dating actually result in long term happy relationships?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 23, 2018:

Me too!! The throw them on the wall and see what sticks theory of finding dates is just not working out for me! I'm like you, I'm beginning to think that it's me who's fatally flawed.

Do you feel that religion robs people of living life to the fullest?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 22, 2018:

This might be a controversial thing to say,but I believe the religious live for death anyway. Upon their deaths they will be rewarded with everlasting life. So I don't think they care how miserable their Earthly life is.

The Historicity of Jesus?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 22, 2018:

I am in no way any kind of an expert on the topic. I always thought Jesus got the shit end of the stick. It is also the reason his followers are, for the most part, Batshit selfish and crazy. The Buddha ,Gandhi among others did exist as ordinary people. No one here would argue that Ghandi was a historical figure who taught the world about commpasion. Many people here will argue over the existence of Jesus. Jesus , in my opinion, was just another enlightened man who taught the world about love, forgiveness and peace. Unfortunately, somehow he became the Son of God who is able to perform Miracles who died so we all can live in an afterlife after we're dead. Poor bastards meaninfull message , and purpose, has been lost in myth that he is the savior of the Earth and our souls.

Karen McDougal is the woman with the best chance of bringing down Trump – ThinkProgress

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 21, 2018:

At this point I don't even think Trump supporters care .most will mention that this was in the past and has no bearing on his presidency. He's a disgusting, red pill, woman-hating , zero Integrity a****** and so are his supporters. At this point the easiest way to bring the president down is to force-feed him massive amounts of his favorite food and hope he drops dead of a heart attack. The one thing that we can put money on is that he's a gluttonous Pig. However ,I hate to say about a pig .pigs are glorious animals compared to Trump.

Does your dog resemble you ?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 21, 2018:

I hear the same thing that people begin to resemble their dogs. Yeah..... I think it's true

Do you accept the possibility of a god, but reject man’s perspective of one?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 21, 2018:

Yes, I cannot comprehend the vastness of the universe and the reasons for why all life exists. The concept of God does not have to be some gray-haired man playing pocket pool in the clouds., there is no scientific proof that there is not something that is Beyond our comprehension. Even Richard Dawkins can accept the concept of what he calls the god of gaps.

What is the worst thing about marijuana.?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 21, 2018:

Marijuana is a fat-soluble drug, it stays in your system and will show up on drug tests long after the user has used. I can see that causing problems for the recreational marijuana user. Say for instance your injured at work ,your insurance is never going to cover your injuries if the drug is found in your system . if your employment depends on drug tests you're truly f*****.

Describe your love life in one word.

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 21, 2018:

Bleak

What are your pet peeve markers you look for on a first date?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 20, 2018:

I found the biggest problem with online dating is too many out there don't want a partnership or a relationship . Many people join the online dating Community because they need help. My biggest pet peeve is someone who can't take care of themselves. I have met men who live with their mothers at the age of 50. I have met men who live with a roommate but they can't pay their bills etc etc etc

For you women - do you like your men to wear cologne?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 19, 2018:

I love for a man to have a nice cologne on. Every woman is a little different, but I prefer clean smelling natural earthy ones. And don't bathe in the stuff for Christ sakes!!!

A.

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 17, 2018:

I truly am beginning to believe that I hate Donald Trump ,his entire Administration and his supporters more and more each day. I've gotten to a point where I will leave the room if there is a trump supporter there. If I was married to someone for decades and found out they voted for Trump ,I would dump him like a used rubber.

Do you think touching money is gross?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 16, 2018:

Yes !money is the filthiest stuff in the world. There's no telling how many g strings that stuff has been shoved into. The average dollar bill is like a candy wrapper that's been Stepped On by the entire population of New York City

What are your thoughts on psychological disabilities?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 16, 2018:

My father ,who worked in the avionics field ,would often tell a story about a young man whose dream was to become an airline pilot. He was not allowed to be on any form of medication particularly antidepressants and fly. The young man was on antidepressants for clinical depression. He got off his meds so he could pursue his dream ,but the outcome was tragic. he later committed suicide due to his unmediated illness.. My father said that he never really got over that young man's death. Unfortunately with physical or psychological disabilities you have to accept that they're going to be limitations. I don't really have an answer. Should the young man been allowed to be on antidepressants and have the lives of hundreds of people in his hands? Should the airline industry back off of their stance on psychological / chronic pain medication? I'm not sure.

As an atheist woman, how do you feel about Race in reference to relationships in America?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 16, 2018:

We could all blow Sunshine out of our ass and say that love is love and that it doesn't matter. But when it comes to our personal preferences about relationships, to some, race does matter and it should. I certainly would not call an African American male who says that he adores, and will only date strong African American women racist. relationships are difficult because that's the nature of the Beast. When you take a relationship and you injected with cultural differences, it can become even more difficultr.. some black men do not find white females physically attractive and vice versa. I think it's unfair to label a person's personal preferences racist. We're all free to make choices, and we should be able to be free without being judged either way

When did you realize you were old?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 16, 2018:

When my new definition of multitasking is coughing ,sneezing and peeing at the same time.

What is the sweetest thing you can say to a woman?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 16, 2018:

Why don't you get to know the woman first. That way you don't have to invent a compliment, you could actually just give her one.

I love Mrs Browns Boys. Thought you all might like a laugh. [youtu.be]

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 16, 2018:

Lol! Awesome! I must watch the show more

What do you think of parody or mock religions? Have you or would you join one?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 14, 2018:

Proud member of the Church of the Flying Spaghetti Monster. we must obey our noodley master.

This year for April Fools Day millions will be duped into believing the following: An imaginary ...

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 14, 2018:

Lol this is brilliant!

This is a question for those who have had strong feelings for another but could never get those ...

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 13, 2018:

It happens to all of us. It is a horrible blow to your self esteem. Break off all contact and time will heal the rest. When it comes to love and relationships you either have to step up or step off.

Easter

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 13, 2018:

Instead of easter, I celebrate spring with a home cooked dinner with friends. You're all invited. Time and date to be announced r.s.v.p greatly appreciated.

Are zoos inhumane?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 13, 2018:

Interesting question. I did visit a zoo in the North Carolina Mountains one time. After meeting the owner of the zoo he told me all of his animals were illegal pets at one time.there is always going to be situations where wild animals cannot be wild anymore. I think it depends on the situation. I think Banning zoos would be a big mistake. it's not just zoos either. Birds are somewhat popular pets however ,they are wild animals. Birds even if they're bred in captivity are not domesticated animals. The African Grey is an example of a bird that is going extinct in its natural habitat , but gaining in popularity as pets.

Higher Power and AA

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 13, 2018:

I knew an alcoholic who said he prayed to god to help him quit drinking. During one of his praying sessions he opened his eyes and the first thing he saw lying on the ground was an AA information handout. This is his proof that God is real. It was a year and 6 months before he thanked his sister for giving it to him. All the personal work that recovering alcoholics do to remain sober is the work of God himself According to AA.i can't imagine how this can help anyone.

Why is it the only thing not addressed and to me being THE problem is human population growt ?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 12, 2018:

Yeah I think it's about time for humans to act like thoughtful animals ,and not just animals. Perhaps the worst thing that happened to humans is losing our estrous cycle. we now breed like rabbits all the time.

What's your condiment of choice?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 9, 2018:

Ketchup!!!!!! I put that shit on everything!!!! Mashed potatoes, fish sticks, macaroni and cheese, eggs and my hamburgers, French fries and hot dogs swim in it.

Amy Winehouse - You Know I'm No Good - YouTube

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 7, 2018:

My theme song! Lol !not really, but I love amy!

Lots of friends. Or, just a few? What suits you?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 6, 2018:

I'm an introvert very few friends

Any John Oliver or Trevor Noah fans on here?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 6, 2018:

Trevor is my idol

Do you find yourself still telling people to go to hell, even though you know there is no such ...

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 3, 2018:

Yes, and I still say thank God.

What’s your favorite alcohol beverages?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 2, 2018:

Sailor Jerry spiced rum

Are we so stuck in our ways that anything we say or do here really matters?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 2, 2018:

I'm hoping that as the site grows, and more and more people join things will get better.

How much do you know about International Family Planning programs?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 2, 2018:

Great post! The current Administration has a negative ripple effect felt throughout the world. a couple of extremely wealthy donors ,and other countries have picked up their support for these International programs. The United States of America is a big s*** hole religious thug right now. We have some big elections coming up !get out and vote against Ultra conservative religious right pigs!

What is the most important trait you want in a lover?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 2, 2018:

Oh! This is about only sex and not relationships? Oh! That's easy! The ability to follow simple instructions.

What is the most important trait you want in a lover?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 2, 2018:

Speaking as someone who has completely given up, I would have to say remembering to take the trash and recycling out on Thursday morning.

What is the worst thing anyone has said to your face ?

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 2, 2018:

Whaaaatttt? That's terrible! They had to be joking for sure. If not, I hope you decked the bitch.

I Am Beginning To Fall Out Of Love With Humanity!

Kojaksmom comments on Mar 2, 2018:

Welcome to the club! Misanthropy has many benefits.

Do you think non-believers are less trusting?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 28, 2018:

I have a tendency to trust people and give people the benefit of the doubt. Let me add that 99 percent of the time it's a really big big mistake!

Toilet seat etiquette.

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 28, 2018:

May I add toilet seat covers in public rest rooms can be used! I find it annoying that if your pristine little ass can't make contact with the unsanitary toilet seat , it makes you a disgusting freak to piss all over it and the floor as well.

Dick's Sporting Goods will stop selling assault-style rifles - Feb. 28, 2018

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 28, 2018:

Good move, I suppose most are waiting for legislation to ban them from selling military style weapons. They also raised the age to 21 for the purchase of weapons. I personally think that's an amazing idea seeing that we're dealing with school shootings. Perhaps many others will follow, but I'm not going to hold my breath!

I was asked this question about morality as being an Atheist.

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 27, 2018:

I always felt Christians have a very scratch the surface idea of right and wrong. Secular morality is far reaching. I take morality seriously as an agnostic. Many atheist agnostics and believers don't. It's really a individual thing.

What's the strangest thing you witnessed personally

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 27, 2018:

It was a hot day and i saw a man running down the street with nothing but sneakers on. In his defense it was hot that day!

Does unconditional love exist?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 27, 2018:

I think unconditional love exists, but beware of the "if it can't be proven on a scientific level crowd "will take you task to submit evidence. Lol sorry that was a rant.

Why do premonitions happen from a scientific point of view?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 26, 2018:

It has happened to me before, and it wasn't just a common situation . There was a very strange feeling associated with the occurrence ,and i had a knowledge of what was going to happen next and it did. Psychology perhaps has a logical explanation, but not everything has a logical explanation. Math can't solve the human mind and its capabilities. the human element is oftentimes immeasurable

Do you hate arguing or do you enjoy it?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 26, 2018:

WHAT DOES IT MATTER TO YOU!? Lol, I enjoy debate.

Me: You know.

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 26, 2018:

That's rude. She sounds like a flake who should be just be looking for friendship.

Do you have a favorite decade of music?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 25, 2018:

60s and 70s

Jehovah's Witnesses just came to my door for the second time this month.

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 23, 2018:

Worth a try

Is it normal or strange someone wouldn’t like French kissing?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 23, 2018:

I don't care, I don't like it much. I'm not a fan of bodily fluids. When a man forces his tongue down my throat it feels like my mouth is being violated.

Spring is coming! What do you most look forward to?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 23, 2018:

Planting gardens! flowers! trees! shrubs!

13 Year Old Boy Buys Gun With No Problem Getting It...

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 23, 2018:

I posted this on Facebook and still have gun enthusiast tell me that this is a fake. The same experiment was also done by a older person. he was able to get an assault weapon in 15 minutes.

Can one be against abortion and for the right to choose at the same time?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 23, 2018:

Absolutely! that's how it should be. I don't breed and believe the world is massively overpopulated, but I'm not advocating mass sterilization.

Would you date/marry a Muslim?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 22, 2018:

No way. It is mandatory, not an option, to become a Muslim yourself if you marry one.

Do you like tea? If so, what kind do you drink?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 21, 2018:

Normally English breakfast with a little bit of creamer and artificial sweetener. I do like anything with lavender and ginger- tea included

How do you deal with disappointment in life?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 20, 2018:

Same way I deal with everything else, drink.......heavily.

What are your views on polygamy?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 18, 2018:

Bad for the human animal species. Dissolves the line of whose breeding with who therefore inbreeding is more common.

So I posted something earlier that I took down because my intentions were being misunderstood.

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 17, 2018:

I suppose it's all a matter of perspective. I'm open to the dating site aspect of it and find it to be more of a community of like-minded debaters.

Gun control? Yes or no and why?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 16, 2018:

I live in North Carolina where the only thing people love more than God is guns. Little Betty Crocker House Wives probably own a couple of assault weapons. the most important thing to take from this conversation is that most fireworks are illegal here because somebody might get hurt. there is only so much pseudoephedrine that you can buy if you so happen to have the sniffles. Pepper spray used for self-protection is something that has to be researched. Excessively high concentrations of capsicum may render some pepper spray illegal.

I'll Pray for you. Building bridges between Theist and Atheist.

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 16, 2018:

I totally agree. Perhaps the unavoidable helplessness that comes along with life is where humans find the need for a sky daddy . Someone said something to me one time that really caused me to think. They said that worry is a prayer for something bad to happen. We all pray like it or not. Perhaps prayer is a form of Hope.

Who is your Valentine, on the most important day of the year.

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 14, 2018:

My dog.

I don’t see the chances of the human species settling on another planet in our solar system due to...

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 13, 2018:

True, but it would make a great prison alternative. Humans, being the selfish bastards that we all are, would be more inclined to make that sacrifice if they knew earth was doomed.

Why do smart people believe stupid things?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 12, 2018:

Neil deGrasse Tyson has the same thought process. He mentioned he works with highly educated astrophysicist who do indeed believe in God .he made a comment that it's not the ordinary person that we need to talk to, but it's the Highly Educated people like his fellow co-workers that we really need to have a conversation with. There are many scientists out there who are believers. It would be interesting to find out why.

Do you think other people generally see you, as you see yourself?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 11, 2018:

I have absolutely no idea. It is something that I've always wondered about though

What a drag it is getting old.

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 11, 2018:

If a woman crosses her legs while sneezing or coughing it is not funny! Jus sayin!

Is it just me or are the terms liberal and conservative being used more now than ever?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 9, 2018:

I think Rachel Maddow was the one who nailed it when she said it's not about liberal and conservatives, it's about those who care and those that don't.

Do you think abortions should be illegal?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 9, 2018:

No i fully support a woman s right to choose. Abortion can be modified slightly, but should never be outlawed.

I think what surprises me most is the look of confusion on people's face when you say that you don't...

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 9, 2018:

We somehow or another have to break the fallacy that religion/god/the bible is the foundation of morality.

Does the structure of American society lend to unhappiness or dissatisfaction?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 9, 2018:

Absolutely, we are driven by consumerism. The main goal is to create a feeling of need and lack in our lives to fuel the fire and make us buy. Like it or not, the wealth and possessions one accumulates is how our culture defines success.

Cure for the hiccups?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 8, 2018:

Take 10 sips of water as fast as you can. Works every time

Is anyone going to be watching the festival of football tonight?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 4, 2018:

I'm into it! I'm pulling for the Eagles, but don't have any money on it. I will be sitting my butt in front of the TV drinking beer and eating burgers

Do you let your emotions get in the way of rational thinking?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 2, 2018:

Yes, I should avoid some topics.

Are you going to be single for Valentine's Day?

Kojaksmom comments on Feb 2, 2018:

The secret is Feb 15 is the real holiday if your single. 50% off lots of goodies! Go and treat yourself!