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Seeking other seculars for friendship; perhaps more if circumstances permit

I live on Florida's Treasure Coast where churches are as plentiful as convenience stores and not much to do once you get tired of the beach.

I have a wide streak of curiosity and often ask too many questions but life should be interesting right?

Love festivals, museums, cultural events, hiking, biking, geocaching, science fiction, and being nosy.

Message me, people.

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Question 34. Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:
Photo Albums. Most photos from recent years are online but the albums of my children when they were children are not digitized. Perhaps I will work on that soon.
Ok Trekkers you know that you want one ?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:
Indeed I do
If your kid was gay. Yes or no and why?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:
If my kid were gay, I wouldn't care
Abuse From Customers Is Not Part of the Job! Respect Retail Workers and Restaurant Staff.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:
Oh yes it is. Debasing lower life forms is part of the shopping experience.
Potty mouth I have a question mostly for the ladies but guys will want to weigh in. There ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:
If I could stop saying fuck all the time, I could get a better job LOL
Do you have a dental horror story? I had two crowns come off in the same day on different sides of ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:
My daughter was on medicaid and a dentist convinced her to let him remove ALL of her teeth when she went in for extractions. Broke a needle in her mouth and sent her home with the tip still in there. Called her back a few days later, tried to remove it, pushed it into the nerve. She spent a week in the hospital. Maxo facial guy used a machine called the navigator to remove it. Lost half her jaw bone to the infection from the needle tip Reduced sense of taste and she had wanted to be a chef Yeah, they had to call in the guy that fixes cleft palates in 3rd world countries to save my daughter's life.
Question 33. If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 10, 2018:
Im pretty good at telling people what I think generally. When my brother died 25 years ago, there were things unsaid and it weighed on me. Im sure I will think of something as soon as I hit submit though
UPDATED INFO [facebook.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 10, 2018:
Ive been sticking it out but this season has disappointed
What do you keep your thermostat at?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 10, 2018:
74 when I'm home and 77 when I'm not
Question 32: What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 9, 2018:
In general, nothing. Context does matter. When I had cancer, I joked about dying but some other cancer patients nor their families found it amusing. Neither did my family for that matter. I was an abused child yet I have made jokes about abusing my kids and grandkids. My brother was killed with a shotgun blast to the upper chest, yet I have made jokes about blowing someone's head off - although not since school shootings became a thing. If I suspect someone will be bothered by those types of jokes for whatever reason, I will abstain. but I suspect it is just my way of dealing with my shit since I rarely make jokes about stuff that hasn't touched my life on a personal level such as the holocaust; genocide; spree killers etc. edited immediately after posting to be more specific about one point
Is anybody on this site going to post an intelligent comment, ?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 9, 2018:
Judging from the activity of this post, being an asshole pays off
Feeling lonely. So few people in my age group near me to share similar views and friendship, or ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:
Same here. I would love to have someone to pal around with
I just, quite by accident, found out that if I hold down on the numbers on the keyboard of my phone ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:
Mine just offers to assign a contact.
Question 31: Good afternoon. Sorry I'm late. Today's question gets a makeover ("Tell your partner...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:
I asked my granddaughter to pick a number between 1 and 67. She chose 66 because that was close to 666. I loaded the membership list @bjporcella was #66 I then peeked his profile and although there was much to admire regarding his obvious intelligence, I like his use of the word buffoon to describe trumplestiltskin
Question 31: Good afternoon. Sorry I'm late. Today's question gets a makeover ("Tell your partner...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:
If I've never interacted with them before, how can I know what I like about them?
If people you thought were your friends suddenly stop all communication with no expectations how ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:
Been there and took too fucking long to done that Now it's 3 times they cancel/ stand up/ turn down and I don't bother again
Whats in a username.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:
Several things actually. I read about Australopithecus afarensis named Lucy at a time when I needed a nickname; it's a common name on british tv which I like to watch but it all got tied together when people asked me stupid shit like "do you worship the devil/satan/ lucifer" whenever they found out I didn't believe in god. I typically spell it as Lucyfer but when required to have a last name I spell it Lucy Fehr
Question 30: When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 7, 2018:
A couple of months ago in front of my daughter. That was the first time I had cried in at least a year. I am an anger crier although there have been a few times I teared up due to a movie or something. I don't consider tearing up crying.
Wow! Thanks to all for bumping my level up.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 7, 2018:
Well since you are a neighbor and all, I will give you a couple of points as well. There is a florida specific group here
Hi folks. Hope all is well in your city. Do you enjoy the brief cold snaps we have?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 6, 2018:
Not while I was doing my bike riding lol. Really need to get on getting that garage in order though
Would you wear this to a party? If so I'll send it to you but you'll have to post a picture here of ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 6, 2018:
Did anyone take him up on his offer? The only party I know Im going to is work related and even I wouldnt do that
Question 29. Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life. To hell with your ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 6, 2018:
Back when I was young and a partier I did something embarrassing enough that it changed my behavior. I worked in a convenience store with a slight friend I went to school with and a new friend I partied with. I threw the school friend under the bus to protect the party friend. the school friend was standing behind me and immediately called me out I felt like shit. Its been over 30 years and I still feel like shit. Permanently lost a friend that day
Sorrow has reared its head in my life. Our dog passed over the rainbow bridge today, and our hearts ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 6, 2018:
Been there. Hugz
I've tossed out Question 28. In it's place: What's the best Christmas gift you got when you were a...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 5, 2018:
I don't really remember any christmas gifts except for clothing until I was a teen I recall a couple of toys I loved that may have been christmas gifts but I am not sure.
Last week I purchased a 40 acre gold claim on Jefferson creek in Colorado. Heading there in March....
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 4, 2018:
Can you build or is it camp only?
For those consistently badgering on and on about, "my points, my points, my points" and, "I don't ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 4, 2018:
Im inclined to agree with you on this. Of course I don't like losing points and I only recently realized that the unavailable posts I get from notifications means someone blocked me and is a bit inconvenient, but it IS a free site with none of my money put into it sooooooooo
Tough as old boots: a Thames skeleton's durable footwear He was found lying on his front, head ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 4, 2018:
Interesting
Question 27: If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 3, 2018:
That I'm fiercely loyal and expect the same; should I be betrayed, it will get ugly
Question 26: Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 2, 2018:
Laughter when something amusing happens on a show or movie. A companion or partner in crime when going to festivals or museums.
Question 25: This one's just too cumbersome (“Make three true 'we' statements each. For instance,...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 2, 2018:
I was driving a vehicle with no AC in central Florida and nearly passed out from the exhaust fumes in gridlock traffic. He added cash to the trade in to bring the payment down on a new truck to where I could afford it. We were ex's by that time.
Did you know that if you line up all of your exes in a row you can see a flow chart of your mental ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 2, 2018:
True in my case LOL
I like my women like my ancient staircases. Curvy and can lead me straight to Hell.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 1, 2018:
Someone visiting?
I say this with the utmost respect.... Question. It seems more like the ladies. Why is it some do ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 1, 2018:
Because they would prefer being judged by the impact of their words rather than their appearance
Got compared to Jason Mamoa today. I know all we have in common is a beard and long hair but I was ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 1, 2018:
Not seeing the resemblance but you're not ugly either.
Family emergency going on. I might be out of pocket for a day or two. Here's today's question. ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 30, 2018:
She is more like an aunt. My grandmother was my mother figure and she died of cancer when I was 25
"Dear Fedex, Please don't leave large expensive electronics in the screen door in the ghetto." It ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 30, 2018:
Somebody was stealing science kits from my porch. I had subscribed the kids to tinker crate and the first one came while we were on vacation but whoever took it came back the following 2 months and got them as well. I guess Im glad someone is interested in science but if these kids are both smart AND criminally inclined, we may be in trouble lol
Switch all the clothes in different closets. Cut cords to t.v's. Cook some and leave dirty dishes in...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 30, 2018:
And all I got done yesterday was cleaning the ceiling fan in my bedroom.
That time of year again when adults put small children on the knee of a complete stranger, ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 30, 2018:
My issue with the santa thing is that we tell our children to avoid strangers and then force them onto the lap of a stranger or force them to hug distant relatives they do not know. Or respond to strangers at the grocery store because that is "polite" Then when they do those hidden camera things to test their children, they're shocked that their kids fell for the stranger's story. I caught a lot of shit from old ladies at the grocery store when I defended my son's refusal to answer well meaning people that wanted to tell him how cute he was. He would look away from them and not respond since he was taught to not talk to strangers
Question 23: How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 29, 2018:
Teen parents having babies made my early childhood a mixed bag of both misery and unusual experiences. I saw and experienced life on the road with a band and met delightful weirdos but also knew I was an inconvenience. What little affection they had in them was for my younger brother who was sickly both physically and as it turned out later-mentally. I had periods of time with my maternal grandma who adored me whereas my paternal grandma hated my mother and therefor me as well. Again my younger brother got what little she had because he was blonde and blue eyed like that side. My mother's second husband made my and my brother's life a living hell for 7 years. Nuff said I have a relationship of sorts with my mother and her 3rd husband who has been very good to me but they married when I was 16 and gone The aforementioned brother was murdered over 25 years ago and my much younger half brother is a stranger to me. Small wonder I am searching for the other siblings on ancestry and 23. Family is my children and grandchildren
Democrats freaking out about Trump using tear gas seem to think this is a new, unique Trump ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:
We suck as a country. Trump has raised that suckiness to a new level but it was already there
Question 22: Here's another one we'll have to rework: "Alternate sharing something you consider a ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:
I don't like these kinds of questions because there are more than one that I admire but I would choose KenChang Amusing Down to Earth Witty Open Exuberant
Hey guys, I don't live in Alabama but my parents live in Enterprise and since I visit them ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:
Anyone here into geocaching?
I feel like this site is just one more on the list of online dating sites that go nowhere. People ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:
A dearth of likely candidates in my area forces me to treat this site as facebook whilst I wait for that to change.
Would you wear this to a party? If so I'll send it to you but you'll have to post a picture here of ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:
Yeah I would lol
Access a memory that makes you happy to the core.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:
Too many to easily pick one but most recent ones involve travel
Someone stole my card number again. That is twice in less than 6 months. This time it's someone ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:
A few days ago my checking account was locked due to multiple failed log in attempts. My daughter's debit card was successfully breeched the same day. I haven't used my debit card in months because I use a rewards credit card for everything and pay it off monthly. My bills are paid through online checking and my purchases are through paypal. The bank did ask my daughter if she had used samsung pay (nope) which means I guess that samsun pay was hacked.
Could I get a shout-out from all the single ladies who call themselves weird? I'm a socialized ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:
I just shouted.
Question 21: What roles do love and affection play in your life?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:
Currently they are playing an invisible role They exited stage left
Hey, folks! Just signed up here. Currently in Tulsa, OK. Good day, all!
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:
Welcome to our little corner of insanity
I just recently read that they've recovered hominin bones somewhere in the Altai region that, upon ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:
Tag me when you post it
Anyone in this group had to look for a new job lately? I've had no luck for months, and am starting ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:
What has your daughter said about you getting a job? Or lack of one? Was your relationship with your daughter good before you moved in? I get that you feel like you must agree to everything she asks but does SHE expect you to?
How many people are on here are from the South ?? Or is it only me brave enough to stay here 😂!
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:
Florida here
So, this is the place where we can say out loud things like, "my grandson is so smart and cute, but ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:
Indeed you can lol Nearly all the grandparents I interact with have the luxury of just being indulgent but those of us that are also defacto parents are unable to be like that all the time.
Some mysteries to be found in the sweet potato! [blog.helix.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:
Ive always loved them although my grandmother called them yams so I did as well until I started working in grocery. But anyway. Side note. Last year I went on a camping trip and took a crock pot and both white and sweet potatoes. Due to time constraints, I put both potatoes in the crock and let them cook skins on all day. Holy #%##% shit were those things tasty. I let them cool and we were eating them like apples
I'm BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Question 20: What does friendship mean to you?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:
I had one lifelong friend that I had to give up because she is an ignorant racist She always was, I just refused to see it So right now friendship means shit to me. LOL
Does age really matter in a relationship? Or it's just a number? If it really matters, what's the...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:
Ive dated much older and much younger. I think 5 years plus or minus is best for me
Keeping Christ in Christmas!
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:
Is this really available for sale somewhere? I have several I want to give this to
This is one of the most dumb ass ideas I’ve ever seen.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:
Ive been boycotting them for at least 10 years. I see those army men at stores in Alabama when I visit the parents. I grab a handful to leave in geocaches
Struggling with a cold. Doing tea, soup, and rest. What's your remedy?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:
Any minute that I am not working, I am sleeping. I will take nyquil every time I wake up. Usually knock it out of me in 3 days
What's your favorite part of the holiday season?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:
The food.
To get rid of unwanted junk during the holidays, put it in an Amazon box and leave it at your front ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:
I think I will put dog shit in a box and leave it out there. I think have a couple of those smile boxes out in the garage. Seriously, giving this consideration
[yahoo.com] POS Melania Trump Shows off Historically Ludicrous Christmas Decor While Children Are...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:
Meh. It's gonna be decorated every year regardless of who is president or or flotus.
View on the disc golf course this morning. Saw a couple salmon in the creek, but their journey was ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:
Been thinking of taking up disc golf.
Why Do I Get Sore Days After I’ve Worked Out? [livescience.]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:
I knew that the soreness hit 2 days later but didn't know the pain was indicative of healing
Have you known anyone who is a non believer /skeptic that keeps their beliefs private and attends ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:
Threat of death. And if I get much older, not even that lol
Have You Ever Lost Respect For Someone? I Lost Respect For My Husband When He Refused to Fight Vs...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:
I have a few times
Who plays words with friends? Maybe another way to make friends?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:
I do but it often locks up my phone requiring a reboot; drains the battery in the background; and lately inundated with scammers. but my user name is SherryM887
Good morning. I'm stealing very slow wifi from my son next door. I imagine my internet won't be ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:
I would max out all my credit cards traveling the world. All the way to Idaho lol I would get rid of stuff so my daughter wouldn't have to and spend a lot more time watching superhero shows with my grandkids I would still have to work but would have a lot less stress about it being perfect
Do you know how long it has taken me to go from level 7 to 7.1? Oh my gosh, at this rate it will be ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:
I hit 7 a few months ago and it's been a slow go since I am maxed out on likes- so a like from me is genuine since I can't get credit for it anyway. I tend to be on here more when I am off the next day so I have periods where I comment a lot and have added a few points but it is likely to be a long haul to 8
Talks like and idiot: “I hollered, ‘My name is John, I love you and Jesus loves you,’ ” ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:
If they had already attacked him previously, why in the hell would he think a second try would go differently?
What is the most dishonest profession?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 24, 2018:
Acting. Getting paid to pretend to be/think/feel something Although my first thought was lawyer LOL @kenchang
I refuse to buy anything (ok, other than food) today. And yes, I am choosing "Politics" as my ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 24, 2018:
I worked and didn't even have time for lunch so I bought absolutely nothing
If you're driving in the left-lane of the freeway, and there are no cars ahead of you, but a line of...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 24, 2018:
Yup
Question 18: What is your most terrible memory?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:
I will pass on this question as well.
Why do people use bombastic language to communicate when there are far more simple words in English?...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:
Hahahahahaha I see what you did there
What time are you feasting today and what else is on the agenda? We have reservations at 2pm and ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:
My granddaughter and I delivered meals for the local PD/FD while my daughter and grandson cooked. We ate at 3ish First time we have celebrated thanksgiving in 10 years. We grew up thinking we were indigenous so refused out of principle. Even though my daughter believes in god, there was no prayer nor was it considered thanksgiving. She won the turkey in a contest at work LOL
Hello, I'm new to the site. I'm a bit sick of being judged as a non-believer. Would anyone like to ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:
It gets to me sometimes. Most recently when a married woman dating a married man made an issue of it. And everyone in the social group pretty much supported them over me. They have since divorced their spouses and married each other so it's all good. I quit participating in the local activity because I was getting so angry about it all the time
Available for your sexual pleasure and to give pleasure ! Message me if you like the body
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:
From reading your responses to advice, I'm gonna predict that you won't be very successful here.
I’m quite new here so I don’t know how anything works
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:
Click on the box that says Learn with a heart in it and read the FAQ but it appears you are already on your way. Here is a couple of points
Who didn't see this coming? [yahoo.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:
His followers. They will be wearing their maga hats and singing his praises as their accounts hit zero
Anyone here going to be apart of the Black Friday madness?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:
I will be working in a grocery store Friday. That is the extent of my participation
Remember everyone:
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 21, 2018:
Aint that the truth. Although I would include teen mom
Question 17: What is your most treasured memory?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 21, 2018:
My grandmother and her sister baking me a sheet of just pie crust because I didn't like the soggy bottom of pies
EDIT Folks, this was an attempt at sarcastic humor. Apparently it didn’t come across that way. ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 21, 2018:
I would assume that a post made in the Silly, Random and Fun group would NOT be a serious one.
Question 16: What do you value most in a friendship?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 20, 2018:
Loyalty.
Question 15: What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:
Surviving
Question 14: Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:
I've dreamed of visiting Europe. I've not done it because I lack the funds lol
How often do you block someone? I find I do it more and more often. If in my opinion a post is ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:
I haven't blocked anyone. Not even the one that constantly berates me for my bad language lol
[broadly.vice.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:
saving to read later since I have to get ready for work now. May weigh back in later.
Right Wingers and Ayn Rand. A slight rant, I suppose, but one conservative saintly reference that...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:
I haven't studied her or even read much about her but have heard references to her enough to understand what she is about. I also read recently that near the end of her life, she did in fact receive assistance from those programs she so detested the rest of us having
Is it harder for non-believers to find love?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:
The dating pool is smaller so in my opinion, yes
Can’t stand sjws. Don’t like it? Tough. I’m not interested in dating someone that ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:
Everyone has deal breakers but the way you have presented it assumes that all the women want you. They don't
Are There Really Advantages When You're Over 50?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:
Discounts
Single and need a place to go?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:
If you meet someone in a bar, that is where you will likely always find them
Among the creepy posts: (this guy played Words with Friends with me. We texted for perhaps a week....
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:
The scammers is part of why I will be giving up words with friends. I stopped doing rematches and once my current games are done, I will be deleting the app
Have been thinking of a possible trip for summer. There are only 2 states where I have not been ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:
Yes. There is a rotating floor that the kids would love.
Looks like I'm not the only one who's up way too early on a Sunday! Good morning!
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:
Up super early every day for work so am awake on the days off as well
I recently lost my hiking buddy and I adore Alabama's landscape. If there is anyone else around ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:
I visit Alabama once a year to see the parents. I will post in here when I head that way although they live in Enterprise. I like geocaching and have considered heading that way and grabbing a hotel room so I can hit a trail Have you ever done any caching?
I work for a major retailer and theft is high in my store. One thing they have us do now is check ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:
People who would never treat treat their neighbors like shit have no problem treating us like shit.
i have a problem but im scared to share to anybody :(
Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:
Why are you scared?

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