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Seeking other seculars for friendship; perhaps more if circumstances permit

I live on Florida's Treasure Coast where churches are as plentiful as convenience stores and not much to do once you get tired of the beach.

I have a wide streak of curiosity and often ask too many questions but life should be interesting right?

Love festivals, museums, cultural events, hiking, biking, geocaching, science fiction, and being nosy.

Message me, people.

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Atheists and Star Trek fans in one place? I think I’m in heaven lol
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 14, 2019:
Indeed
Serial vs parallel dating.. have i posted this topic already? Lol Serial dating.. where you talk ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 14, 2019:
Couldn't decide between serial and I don't date. Back when I did date, I was a serial dater. Now I don't date because I haven't met any date worthy people in my area
Because of the shutdown
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 14, 2019:
No way in mythical hell would trump let his SS go without pay. That coward always looks out for himself
Hello there beautiful human! I like you! You're pretty damned cool! Give yourself a big hug from me ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 14, 2019:
Awwwwww.
Fan letters from Peter Capaldi
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
I bet he was excited when he got to play that one episode about pompeii then a few years later he gets to play the actual doctor.
can I growing up
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
Ive been saying that for years lol
This should be easy. Name a fad you hated. I hated the Twiggy haircut I was forced to get.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
Shoulder pads
Hi all! Just finished cleaning up the kitchen...stormed through 2 Pumpkin breads - one with, one ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
So there are three members living in Ft Pierce now?
Today in aggravating the old people. I'm looking after my Dad in Florida and we're in a "55+ active ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
Too bad I don't live close enough to join you as a guest and really piss them off
....???
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
I approve of this message
Oh, I am so angry this morning!!! I'm getting super sick of "getting into trouble" because of my ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
My daughter in law handled my grandson in a similar manner although we were not living together, my grandson was there daily. She expected us to do all we could to avoid sparking a temper tantrum including not letting one of my other grandchildren use their own belongings because A. was too young to play with it. In her case, she was being a lazy parent. Sounds like your daughter is mistreating you
Good morning! I slept in this morning, which is very unusual for me. So I'm finally posing today's...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
A song of fire and ice was the first thing that came to mind. Was also the last series I read so there is that lol
Unblock all Senate members at an agreed upon time for discussion. After meetings feel free to ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
I dunno. On the one hand, I have had several notifications for this group in the last day or two that were unavailable because the person has me blocked. I have no idea what the subject matter was and I suppose I could ask someone else what it was but that seems tedious for me and whoever I ask. On the other hand, although I have not blocked anyone, I am not in favor of forcing others to do the same. I like the idea of THIS group being block free but fear the free for all that will result. I would guess that this group would need a lot of moderators to ensure harassment doesnt ensue but then deleted comments would cause their own controversy Gonna be interesting to see how that plays out
As a matter of interest, how long has agnostic.com been operational? Also with the rate of growth ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
I joined when it was a couple of months old and have not noticed a slowdown. Although there is an occasional site down issue
Yes the 80’s rock! ?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
Except for perhaps the hair and shoulder pads LOL
We have ANOTHER new member!!! @Pluviophile!! From Colorado! May we call you Plu? Pluvie? So you like...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
Every day at 4pm, the rains come and the cable goes
I just bought my first house and a friend gave me Tibetan Prayer flags as a house warming gift. I ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
I often have to explain to the believers that although I do not believe in higher powers, I can still appreciate the beauty of its buildings or art. I love mythology as well.
A little insight on ghosts and paranormal tv: I was a ghost hunter/paranormal investigator for...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 13, 2019:
I was a member of a paranormal group for a short time in the Orlando, Fl area but was kicked out for being a pain in the ass because I kept "arguing" with the oh so vaulted leader. It started over a new member that didn't think to take water on the outing and he was talking shit about her. .. I said as the experienced leader, he should have at least told her to take water. He went by LordOfThyNight or something like that. Two outings come to mind. On one, I picked up a palm frond and did an impromptu reenaction of David Lee Roth's "aint got nobody" and the evp spiked which according to him meant the ghosts liked my singing and dancing. They also thought gator bellows were ghosts. The other was that hill where you roll uphill. I told everyone to look at the curb. Am I seriously the only one that noticed that? Don't they all fucking drive on roads and shit? I admit that once I pissed him off, I may have become more annoying which ultimately resulted in my ouster. He was always asking for money and donations of "supplies"
Working in a major retailer in a major city and tourist area is emotionally draining for me. Every ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 12, 2019:
I feel ya
So question for the ladies. Would you ever date/marry down? I have a first coffee date scheduled ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 12, 2019:
I don't make a lot of money and even when I made more than my partner , it wasn't a lot more. My version of dating down was dating people less intelligent
Would you date someone with a felony record?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 12, 2019:
My ex had lost his license permanently many years before I met him due to multiple DUI's
Good morning! Here's our question for the day: What’s the farthest you’ve ever been from ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 11, 2019:
Juneau Ak which is 4281 miles away from me
@Admin! thanks for the change to the members preview thingy. much improved.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 11, 2019:
Ohhhh I like that
She has pulled at the hearts of many but there's the smell of something fishy going on here. Why ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 11, 2019:
I would posit that he killed the parents to make it easier to keep her under his control. I'm betting we find out that taking her was the goal all along.
So sorry to see it go. I love this show. [aol.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 11, 2019:
Ive been a faithful watcher but it's time to end it.
I remember being born. Tell me what you think about that please!
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 11, 2019:
I think that someone described your birth often enough in front of you that you believe you remember it. This happened recently with my daughter; I mentioned something her father did when she was 2 and she said she remembered it and I told her that it wasnt possible, she only remembers me describing it Now gonna go read the comments lol
Shouldn't there be a "maybe" option for the question "are you open to meeting members for dating?" ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 11, 2019:
Nope. I feel the same. I am open to dating should the opportunity present but offline friendships was my primary reason for joining. I do not know a single non believer in my age group. I know several 30 miles away that are my parents age and a couple of kids my son's age.
Stolen from a friend: Something that needs some thought. Even if I liked the idea of this wall, and...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 11, 2019:
I live in a redneck area so there is a lot of support for the wall. When I read the comments on the news posts I see the either you support the wall or want illegals here argument. Anyway I posted a comment about how much private land would seized along with the info that the border states do not want the wall and that border patrol says it will not work, and I got crickets. Not a single response telling me how unamerican I am or libtard or nothing. I really really think that most wall supporters have no idea of the wall's true impact. Now I live in Florida where people are caught trying to enter so often that it only makes the news when something unusual happens. You would think that Floridians would be concerned about that.
It's disgusting man......Who the fuck is going to invade the United States? ......George Carlin ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 10, 2019:
More than halfway there
Good morning, everyone! Here's today's question: What songs have you completely memorized?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 10, 2019:
So many but the first one I thought of was Bohemian Rhapsody I know all the Eagles songs as well as Steve Miller, Fleetwood Mac, etc
And I'm not talking TV! LOL!!
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 10, 2019:
I want one
Just for laughs! LOL!!
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 10, 2019:
Where can I get these?
Trump in 2004 talking about getting past "the wall". [facebook.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 10, 2019:
I just put that on facebook lol
Your first words are????
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
Ah fuck
Have you ever?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
All too often I find out that the people I already know that Ive helped are users or scammers getting help from multiple people or keep coming back and dropping hints etc. I have given money to people with signs and simply do not care what they do with the money. Even if it's spent on booze. Being homeless sucks if they need a beer, I don't care if they use the few bucks I gave them for it.
Have you ever?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
All too often then I skew the opposite way for a while because I question myself when inclined to help
Would you personally date/consider someone with different political beliefs than you? Or is that ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
Before trumplethinskin I would have been ok with different beliefs. But not now. I could overlook someone that voted for him and regrets it but anyone that still thinks he is great is not for me
Good morning! Here's our next question: What takes up too much of your time?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
Social media. This site and facebook equally share the blame
I collect dryer lint and stuff it in empty cardboard egg cartons. When my candle gets too low to ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
That is such a good idea.
Heard today from someone out of the blue who ghosted me back in September. He wished me a happy ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
How nice of him to tell you that then.
Greetings friends! I just got home, in time to watch Stormy Daniels folding laundry in her ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
Hahahahaha I hope this is just the opening salvo in a media war with that orange shitstain
What are you thoughts on watching cheeto jeebus tonight? Watch him and laugh? Ignore him? Get ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
I fell asleep
I don't blame the Prince of Darkness... He might get a bad rep being associated with people like ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
As do I
Is "following" just code for STALKING?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:
I have followed every new person joining that is within 20 miles of my location because it would be nice to know others like me in the offline world So far, few have advanced beyond level 1 or do not post but I wouldn't consider following someone's public posts the same as stalking
Just more of those pesky facts for Trump supporters. [trumpvsobamastocks.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
Fake news
The random, meaningless announcements thread. For your random, meaningless announcement.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
I like peeps
Unfortunately Mary has left the site and turned the group over to me. I will try my darndest to ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
Why? She was just here yesterday
Today's Question: What skill would you like to master?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
Swimming. I had a bad experience as a child according to my father and my step father threw me in deep water when I was 12 and I nearly drowned. My mother had to go rescue me so I never learned to swim. I have spent much time on boats but only with people I was related to so I could be assured of being saved Just as I was finding the courage to learn, I tore my shoulder and had to have surgeries and I feel I probably wont ever learn. I faced a lifelong fear of flying last year, stood against the glass of the space needle in the same week and my last phobia is swimming I want to jetski, parasail and paddleboard
A Look Back at Clapper’s Jan. 2017 ‘Assessment’ on Russia-gate [consortiumnews.com] ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
I thought the sound wave attacks in Cuba were crickets? I saw something to that effect scroll across my facebook feed
I signed already. ?? [petitions.moveon.org]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
As did I lol
I'm a long time Dr. Who Fan but the current version has been disappointing for several reasons. I ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
I was kinda meh about jodie before she was cast but wanted to like her in it. Perhaps I could have liked her had the writing not sucked so bad in how they wrote her. And the others for that matter. The rosa parks episode wasn't that bad but the only character the writers seem to like is gramps.
I am so ready, springtime wish it was here.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
me too
Friends, how do I keep from hating him? Hatred is toxic. But I hate him so hard.
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
I detest him with a loathing that heretofore had been reserved for those who had done harm to me or mine on a personal level. Said that with no cursing.
SHOW OF HANDS, WHO'S BLOCKED ME? - Wait, the people who actually have blocked me aren't going ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
Ive figured out 2 that blocked me but I don't recall ever interacting with them. Kinda amusing
If you love something, set it free  The paranoid’s version: If you love something, set it ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
Asshole version: If you love something set it free, if it comes back no one else wants it either.
How do you respond to messages from those you have no interest in? Often my "No thanks" gets ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
Since most of them don't read my profile before contacting me I just tell them I don't believe in god and rarely hear back. Some will respond with something about not caring about it but it goes no further. I think I have had a couple get nasty
Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:
Photo albums
What do you think of these suggestions? [radiotimes.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 7, 2019:
This season is growing on me but I keep forgetting that she is THE doctor rather than another time lord because it lacks continuity.
Today's question: If you could go back and relive one particular day of your life, what day would ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 7, 2019:
The last day of my grandmother's life
Out of curiosity did everyone forget that there is a choice about whether to see vulgarities? The...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 7, 2019:
Yes they know, they just want to complain and try to shame the rest of us into not cursing.
Who are some of your favorite contributors on this site? Two of mine are SpikeTalon and Jacar. They ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 7, 2019:
I only came in here to see if anyone picked me. Nobody picked me Fuck you all ;)
Hey folks! I have set up a chatroom for watching the Golden Globes! @QUALIA @SamMcGlone @Lucy_Fehr ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 7, 2019:
I guess @qualia has me blocked as I cant see that profile and broken conversations indicate a block
80s Me. I lived in Atlanta after grad school. I would be 24 or 25 in this photo. An artist friend ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 7, 2019:
Gonna be difficult to find a photo of me during that time. By the time I do, this post will be long forgotten
I can't say there is absolutely nothing I'm grateful to tRump for. I am grateful to his presidency ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 7, 2019:
I don't know that I am grateful to trumpdump for it but it has been illuminating in my now much smaller circle. Ive had to face just how bigoted my friends and family really were.
OH HURRAY!!! My new little group has two actual members!!! Hello @Lucy_Fehr (I see what you did ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 6, 2019:
I thought the user name rather clever. I laugh when people at work call me lucifer although I correct the pronunciation as loo see fer. I was born in 63 which makes me a boomer along with my mother who was born in 46
Made it to level 7, I doubt 8 is in the future, t shirt or not!
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 6, 2019:
It's been a long haul to get to 7.5
Selfie stick-wielding Trump supporter arrested at Elizabeth Warren event [msn.com] And so, ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 6, 2019:
Has trumplethinskin paid his bail yet?
Today's question: What would your perfect room look like?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 6, 2019:
My perfect bathroom would look like a jungle with a natural stone waterfall My perfect living room would look like a pool hall lol
I thought of you guys when I saw this one
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 6, 2019:
I used to cry because of work but one thing retail is good at is sucking the feelings out of you. I have much less empathy for people than I should these days. I feel bad about it on an intellectual level because I know it could turn me into one of those bitter old people that treat others like shit but turning off the feels is how you get through 40 years of being treated like less than.
[youtube.com] [agnostic.com] ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 6, 2019:
Interesting.. I may give it a shot. I've taken myself off the dating sites for the most part and only have an active profile on one of them. I've been guilty of messaging too long because I kinda knew that the guy I was messaging with was unsuitable but felt obligated to keep "talking". There just aren't many non theist men my age in this area on the sites.
So...in the words of singer-sonwriter Cat Stevens (long before he became a Muslim): 'Another ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 6, 2019:
I went hiking yesterday after working all day on my feet. Was asleep by 6pm.
Every year I get a bigger tent so I can move around and put more gear inside. Pictured below is my ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 6, 2019:
I have the same thing because I won the big one in a contest. I can't recall how many it is supposed to sleep but it has 3 rooms lol Going camping in March and will be using it for the first time
I almost forgot today's question: What job would you be terrible at?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 5, 2019:
Evangelical
What happen to my account? Ive been gone for a while (work and life) I come back and my account no ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 5, 2019:
@admin
I live in the Texas panhandle. Many people here have metal roofs, many have shingle. Pros and cons ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Im considering metal but wonder how hot it would be compared to shingled in an extended power outage such as a hurricane. I live in south Florida
First new adventure of 2019. Taking the classes this Saturday and Sunday. Anyone else signed up to ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Im considering taking Spanish at the college
If you could have dinner with anyone, living or dead, who would you choose? I'd choose someone ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Leonard Nimoy or Cleopatra. Another part of me wanted to say Jason Momoa ;)
Today's question: What bridges do you not regret burning?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2019:
My first husband. He was a cruel and manipulative asshole. When I discovered my then 2 year old daughter covered in bruises, everything he owned went in the front yard. Including his beloved suede coat. Damn shame it rained that night.
Chicago boy transplanted to Florida 22 years ago. Lived in Palm Beach county for years before moving...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Holy fuck, I just now realized that you and I are friends on facebook LOL I thought the name was familar
On immigration. Remember- there were uninvited immigrants who raped the populace and stole from ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2019:
And they're revered because they were white
There has been a lot of debate on the use of medical robots lately. Would you submit to a robot ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2019:
My cancer removal was robotic surgery which I assumed meant that the surgeon used it as an aid. My daughter had a broken needle removed from her jaw using a machine called the navigator. The maxo specialist was quite excited to be using it.
Hey guys, it's time to start those home repair projects this weekend. Let's get some questions out ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2019:
Why did I enthusiastically jump into repairing shit in my home when I was in my 30's but am now too chicken shit because I fear doing more damage and thus requiring a professional to rescue me?
Today's Question: What is the most annoying habit that other people have?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 3, 2019:
Talking with a mouth full of food
Why do your contacts not want to meet you in real life? Good article ! [sashacagen.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 3, 2019:
"...if you're an intuitive person, you can tell a lot from a face..." made me think immediately of Ted Bundy.
What would you do if the power went out and never came back on?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 3, 2019:
Sweat a lot
Today's question should be a fun and interesting one: Tell us about a favorite article of clothing ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 2, 2019:
Funny that this question came up now. I bike a lot and I dont listen to music in order to hear the traffic coming so I let my thoughts wander randomly. I was thinking of retro clothing and suddenly thought of a pair of pants I wore every time they were clean back in the 70s Maroon cord de roi with zippers running from the waist to the hem on the front of both legs. I loved them so much that when I had a growth spurt and they became the dreaded highwaters, I sewed some black velvet on the bottom I don't remember getting rid of them I would sell my soul to the first person to find me a pair lol
Your on a plane and the person sitting next to you has extreme BO. What would you do ??...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 2, 2019:
I live in Florida and spend a lot of time outside. Guess B.O. is something I can deal with for a few hours
The perfect human body! [livescience.com]
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 2, 2019:
Interesting.
It seems that 90% of the women in my search range haven't signed in since October or before. Is ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 2, 2019:
Not many people in my area of any gender either. I suspected when I joined that I would not find a match because I live in a small town full of rednecks and retirees I stay to interact with people that are non religious. I try to log on twice a day for an hour to skim topics. Occasionally I check for new people in my area but rarely find one. And most of them are still level 1 so they aren't actually using the site. If you decide to not use the site then when some future person logs on, then you are contributing to your area having a dearth of users.
Been busy for a while now. There is another year gone. well it ended. Glad last holiday is over get...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 2, 2019:
Finally! Someone that feels similar as I do about the holidays. I lost my zeal years ago for a combination of reasons such as funerals of close family members on christmas fucking eve and a lifetime of being in retail so I have a front row seat to the spectacle of consumerism and manipulation. That adage about the season bringing out the best in people may be true but my experience has been that it brings out the worst in people. I make an effort for my grandchildren who are aging out of it themselves. In five years the youngest will be in college and I likely won't make any effort. I'm not sad about it, I just do not see or feel the magic
After a year that saw four major surgeries on my back, nerve damage to my left leg, being confined ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 2, 2019:
People like you inspire others.
You know you're getting old when you see 45 and think that's too young. Lol
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 2, 2019:
That is the absolute youngest I will consider and even then it's unlikely. I prefer 5 years plus or minus.
Elizabeth Warren has officially announced her run for the White House. All I can say is she ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 1, 2019:
I like Warren but I used to love her.
Today's Question: What's the one thing you hope to accomplish or acquire in 2019? How is this ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 1, 2019:
I hope to become more social. I've allowed my work schedule to limit my social life. I've been trying recently but it's so much easier to just fall back into old habits and get online or watch tv instead of getting out there and doing shit- even if I have to do it solo.
Joe Arpaio’s mother
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 1, 2019:
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Beautiful night skies?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 1, 2019:
When I left this morning for work at 430 am, I was struck by the quarter moon above a bright star. I guess I should which planet it was but I don't.
It took me 53 years to perfect who I am. The fun sarcastic, don't give a damned what you believe in ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 1, 2019:
When people ask me what my new year resolution is, my response is "to not make any resolutions"
Today's question: Who in your life has impressed you most with what they’ve accomplished?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 31, 2018:
Outside of family members I have a casual friend that I geocache with that lost 87 pounds on the keto diet. She had never shown herself to be particularly disciplined and like to drink a lot of beer. Regardless of my view of fad diets, I'm impressed with her willpower
Oh my, with all the excitement in my life, I forgot today's question: Is there a particular place, ...
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 30, 2018:
Belle Glade, Florida. Full of ignorant rednecks.
Just curious if everyone is looking forward to the new year?
Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 30, 2018:
meh

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