It appears that to thrive on this site one must hate our President....

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 28, 2018:

Well he IS detestable after all.

Happy Thursday everyone! Today's question is - If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2020:

I wouldn't mind being willowy

Some of us on here continue to complain that nobody responds to their profile or to their greeting -...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 12, 2020:

I find both photos amusing and would not reject someone for posting a photo of themselves on the throne; in fact it would capture my interest I myself have a somewhat juvenile sense of humor and found myself stifled in relationships where I was chastised by a partner as if they were my parent for being "immature" Oddly, these same people found me too old fashioned for refusing to break my word, being reliable and dependable, and having higher morals than them such as not taking funds for hurricane relief just because I could (there were $500 cards being given out without verification as long as you said you had a loss- my "loss" was having to cook a month's worth of entrees in a few days and letting the grands eat all the ice cream at once) I was able to make up the missed work hours and/or use vacation hours so I was only inconvenienced but nearly everyone I knew said I was stupid for not taking the free money including my bosses who make 5 times my salary. But thinking farts are funny makes me undesirable lol

Fox News may be turning a corner here. ?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

Holy fuq that's funny. Somebody gettin' fired tho

Are you pulling any April Fool's Day pranks on Easter?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 25, 2018:

My pranks backfire. Once I gave my son condoms as a gag gift; his excitement and declaration that he really needed them definately made the joke on me. My daughter at one time had my only grandkids so she enjoyed an elevated status. My son, daughter in law and myself cooked up a plan to convince my daughter they were having a baby. We all expected her to be unhappy about it. Nope she was so damn happy and excited that her baby brother was gonna have a baby that she cried. So we felt like assholes. The only "prank" that ever succeeded was when I heard someone was gonna egg me from their car so I hid in my boat and threw spoiled eggs in their car when they pulled up

I have a question I'd really like some input on.

Lucy_Fehr comments on May 9, 2019:

I don't see where you have much to lose. If he doesnt feel the same, it's not like you will have to see him around town and be embarrassed. At the very least, you will no longer wonder about what if

What was your favorite television show when you were young?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 20, 2018:

Star Trek, Lost in Space, Batman

How Y’all, Youse and You Guys Talk.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 18, 2018:

I took one of these last year and it said Wisconson where I have never been. This one says Greensboro, Raleigh, Richmond where I have also not been except to drive through on my way to Ohio. There were several questions where I use more than one answer so I suspect that made a difference as well. I was born in southern rural Indiana but moved to Florida when I was 12. Have lived here since mid 70s

Anyone play Scrabble, Words with friends, or word feud apps?

Lucy_Fehr comments on May 4, 2018:

I play words with friends but have to delete the app whenever I want to use the phone for geocaching.

When people you know ask how you are, do you tell them the truth (let's say you are a little ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 30, 2018:

If it is just a polite greeting, I respond with something like "every day above ground is a good day" but serious inquiries will usually get an honest answer depending on time constraints. Fact is that I am pretty good at being impassive

Best advice for someone new to hiking

Lucy_Fehr comments on May 31, 2018:

I spent $150 on a pair of hiking boots and they are worth every penny. I broke them in by wearing them to work for a few hours a day. I do carry a lot of water because it is Florida but recently bought a camel pack which is a backpack with a 2liter bladder that holds water. I only go solo on well known local trails that will eventually end up where I started

Hands of time!!!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Aug 10, 2019:

I wouldn't mind going back to 35ish Old enough to be mature and have my shit together but still young enough to do the physical things I should have done and didn't

Krispy Kreme donuts are coming! The thing about that is, they will have one store to start with, ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 3, 2018:

I lived a mile from a Krisy Kreme for about 5 years. We gorged for about a year then ceased to even smell it anymore. But I really dug those caramel filled crunch things

Connie is running late - so asked me to come up with a question for the day.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 11, 2019:

RHPS

With everything else going on this seems too much but I have just lost a good friend.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jun 5, 2020:

My father died of an overdose. I have some understanding of how you feel

How many of you older people listen to current pop music, or is it only "noise" to you?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 15, 2018:

I listen primarily to classic rock but there are some current artists I like such as Lady Gaga and Pink. I also like Meghan Trainer and some of Bruno Mars stuff.

I used to give my spare change to the homeless who walked up to me and asked me for a dollar because...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 27, 2018:

I don't care what they do with the money. They're homeless and I'm not. I have been homeless in the sense that I lost my home after an illness and had to rent a room but I had a job because I had a vehicle and understand just how quickly I could be one of them. As a matter of fact, had I not had a retirement fund to cash out, I would have been homeless because I did not work for a while. I often wonder how many of the homeless became addicts after becoming homeless in order to numb themselves.

Publix French vanilla bean ice cream.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 29, 2019:

Thank you for shopping at Publix lol

Is it only on iPhones that this app doesn't spellcheck?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Doesnt spell check on my laptop either

I saw Strongbow’s post and wanted to ask: those of you who are preppers/survivalists: how long do ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jul 30, 2019:

If it's nuclear, I want to die in the blast but otherwise I want to live. However, I have no doubt that I would likely not last long lol

So sorry to see it go. I love this show. [aol.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 11, 2019:

Ive been a faithful watcher but it's time to end it.

Keeping a low profile in the south...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2020:

Indeed it is. I actually have no friends these days as it seems the older they get, the more concerned with death they are which prompts them into getting right with god which apparently means giving up my friendship

Fancy waking up to one of these in your garden on a winters morning! :-D

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 15, 2021:

Another misogynist on Agnostic. Oh yay

Have you ever?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:

All too often then I skew the opposite way for a while because I question myself when inclined to help

I recently lost my hiking buddy and I adore Alabama's landscape.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 18, 2018:

I visit Alabama once a year to see the parents. I will post in here when I head that way although they live in Enterprise. I like geocaching and have considered heading that way and grabbing a hotel room so I can hit a trail Have you ever done any caching?

You know you're getting old when you see 45 and think that's too young. Lol

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 2, 2019:

That is the absolute youngest I will consider and even then it's unlikely. I prefer 5 years plus or minus.

Does ' pro-lifer' always identify a religious person?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 22, 2018:

When I was much younger I was pro-life and atheist. Actually I was more conservative about a lot of things because I was a young mother and less educated.

It might have been only in the UK but yesterday was Atheist Pride Day.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 22, 2018:

I hadnt heard of atheist pride day but one of my believer friends texted me happy atheist pride day.

What do think about commercial DNA testing services? For example 23 and me

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 18, 2019:

Some of you already know how I feel about it. With adoption and unknown siblings out there, it was great for me as I have found an abundance of close relatives. I tested with 23 and Ancestry. Both assign roughly the same amounts of origins to me I don't any of the dangerous variants they test for, so I'm unconcerned about the insurance issue and I'm older to boot. If my relatives commit a crime and get caught because my dna is on file, fuck 'em

hi, i'm brand new to this site.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 20, 2019:

Do you see the like button? It should be on the right had side of the block her comment is in

Good morning! What are you all up to today?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jul 4, 2019:

I worked today but leave for St Augustine in the morning and won't be back til Sunday

Todays question is actually two questions, recommended by @donotbelieve: Who is the male that you...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 19, 2018:

I haven't really interacted with enough people to answer that as I have been in the chat room maybe twice and only actually interacted for an hour at most. There are some people that are like me in some ways but not in others

One more time

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 20, 2019:

Where did you learn to write an essay? How did you earn degrees with that writing style? Where did your degrees come from?

Do we really value free speech anymore?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 30, 2018:

When did someone go to jail for hurting someone's feelings? I really need to see the citation for that.

Re watching BSG reimagined series. Took a break when Starbuck broke up with Anders.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 23, 2019:

I resisted watching the remake due to loyalty to the original. When I finally checked it out, I had to go back and stream the first two seasons cuz it hooked me. I think final episodes are usually lame as hell but this one ended better than most

What's the most ridiculous thing you've bought?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 1, 2018:

I spent $500 bucks on one pre-owned Barbie doll. If I had to guess, I spent a total of 5k on Barbies back in the day.

Do atheists observe Halloween?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 6, 2018:

I LOVE halloween. I still dress up if I can.

This seems to be a great time of life to travel.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jun 20, 2019:

I only started traveling a few years ago and if I could afford it would be doing a lot more of it. I fear when I finally have the time, I will not have the stamina or the funds

I would do this...

Lucy_Fehr comments on May 22, 2019:

LOL Love it

Okay then, someone has proposed a question. Here goes: Are you satisfied with your own sex?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 18, 2018:

Yeah I am. Prior to puberty I thought boys had a better deal than I did so wanted to be one too. I am what I am. Of all the things I would like to change in my life or about myself, gender is not one of them.

Some Socialism Is Already Here! [huffpost.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 7, 2019:

Along with hospitals, roads, emergency services etc

When a Christian says "This country was founded on christian principles".

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 23, 2019:

I have this meme in my personal collection. Been a while since I had a good old fashioned discussion online with god botherers. Who knew politics would become so time consuming?

Good afternoon! Time got away from me this morning, chatting with Chuck after breakfast.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jun 21, 2019:

Nothing positive or negative has happened to me. Hmm. I wonder how I feel about that

I live in the Texas panhandle.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 4, 2019:

Im considering metal but wonder how hot it would be compared to shingled in an extended power outage such as a hurricane. I live in south Florida

I need your help to pull an April Fool’s prank on my colleagues! I work in a recycling sorting ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 26, 2019:

Sock polish? Invisible ink eraser? Four leaf clover seeds?

Hey guys, it's Friday! I'm still suuuuuper groggy.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 13, 2020:

Flew to Seattle

Do you think you are well informed?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

Probably not

AT&T, Verizon, Sprint, and T-Mobile have finally agreed to replace SMS with a new RCS standard ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 25, 2019:

I feel dumb for asking but I read the article and still do not know what RCS is

Freud said that young girls suffer from penis envy.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 18, 2019:

As a young girl I never even thought about the penii of the neighborhood; I was just resentful and jealous that they didn't have to have waist length hair, wear dresses all the damn time, have their behavior criticized, and clean the house instead of playing When we had to go somewhere fancy, the boys could climb trees and ride bikes but the girls had to sit around inside because we had dresses on. The only time I have ever been even slightly jealous of a penis is whenever I've needed to pee while outside

Happy Wednesday everyone.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 12, 2020:

Nyquil lol

Men who never learned to cook

Lucy_Fehr comments on Sep 23, 2018:

I can cook pretty well but no longer care to. I also do not consider a lack of cooking ability a deal breaker as long as my potential partner does not think cooking is going to be solely my responsibility.

Just reached Level 7.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 30, 2019:

It took me a year and a half to hit level 8

What do you all think of the match percentages on here?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 8, 2018:

It just means that our answers to a set of questions match. The fewer the questions, the higher the match since as I recall most of them were non religious based

Are you more open and honest online than in person?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 22, 2018:

I was a computer user @2400 baud and ran my own small BBS so I knew early on how little privacy there is in a private conversation. I am sometimes too open in person whereas I'm a bit reticent online unless it is someone I know fairly well. On rare occasions, something will strike a nerve and I will overshare LOL

Good morning! Took a break yesterday ... did you all miss me?

Lucy_Fehr comments on May 26, 2019:

I was 31 when he died and he was absent for most of my life any way. We were working on it at the time of his death however

Shouldn't there be a "maybe" option for the question "are you open to meeting members for dating?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 11, 2019:

Nope. I feel the same. I am open to dating should the opportunity present but offline friendships was my primary reason for joining. I do not know a single non believer in my age group. I know several 30 miles away that are my parents age and a couple of kids my son's age.

Purpose

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

I don't know anymore. I feel like I have no sense of purpose currently. I have always had goals and still do but my current goals are vague and I feel a sense of dissatisfaction with my life. I applied to help with an anti-poverty group on Friday despite not being able to attend their orientation due to work. Hopefully we can work something out since the way this group runs is in my wheelhouse. The grandkids Im helping to raise are becoming older and need less attention, I had few friends but have had to give up on them due to racist bullshit and I realize that I am likely depressed and lonely so do not want to make any life changes until I come out of it. To circle back to original question, I need to stop spending all my time online or watching tv from my bedroom and do something fulfilling.

Central Park Confrontation Goes Viral, as White Woman Calls Cops on Black Man Over Dog Leash – NBC...

Lucy_Fehr comments on May 26, 2020:

Lost her job, her dog and her anonymity. Fuck her

I have a serious question here: By posting stuff on here and so on you earn points, which increases ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 17, 2018:

666

So dating.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 31, 2019:

When I was on there a number of years ago, I could not message anyone that was not also a paying member I complained and was nicely told no refunds, it's our policy

Unfortunately Mary has left the site and turned the group over to me.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 8, 2019:

Why? She was just here yesterday

[cbsnews.com] Marijuana is on track to be legalized by end of 2019. Good news?

Lucy_Fehr comments on May 18, 2019:

Would be great; we can stop incarcerating people for getting high and keep violent offenders inside for their entire sentence instead. The guy next door getting high does not bother nearly as much as knowing rapists and murderers got released early due to overcrowding.

Hey, folks! Just signed up here. Currently in Tulsa, OK. Good day, all!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Welcome to our little corner of insanity

Well the Midterms have passed and we now have a Democratic house and Republican senate.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 9, 2018:

For now, I am going to be hopeful that there will be change since so many of these new faces are also relatively new to politics.

Louisiana sheriff's deputy, wife arrested on child porn, rape charges

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 26, 2019:

The wife is a school teacher

I just thought I would post an expansion of the comment I made to @HippieChick58 as I think it ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on May 22, 2019:

I noticed that as well. I've backed off quite a bit but when I saw myself a few hundred from 7.9, I went on a posting spree for a few days. Will probably do the same when I get near 8

People Who Constantly Point Out Grammar Mistakes Are Jerks, Scientists Find All right, okay, ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 22, 2018:

Generally I ignore spelling and grammar mistakes since I also make mistakes when in a hurry or being lazy unless the person making the mistake is being a dick in some way such as demeaning another person's intelligence or being condescending.

Good morning! Woke up way too early this morning and am unable to go back to sleep, so here I am :P...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 17, 2019:

The following example happened over 30 years ago at my very first holiday (thanksgiving) dinner as the host. I was in my early 20s and had over my brother and his wife along with a couple my husband worked with. I was so proud cuz it all looked perfect. I make a killer baked beans dish and had prepped much the day before. I forgot to remove the plastic wrap before baking so there was no outward sign that it would be inedible. Either everyone was too polite or hadn't noticed but after feeling the bits of plastic in my mouth, I suddenly realized what I had done. To this day, I will not use plastic wrap on something that is to be baked later I've had other kitchen disasters but this is the one I tell often when someone else is upset about making a "stupid" mistake.

According to mueller there are still a dozen investigations going on. Trump won't last till 2020.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 19, 2019:

Yes he will and if the dems don't get the shit together soon, he will be there till 2024

Remember this kid and his friend. What show?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Sep 6, 2019:

Lost in Space Will Robinson Robot Billy Mumy June Lockhart, Penepele Cartwright, Guy Harrison, Marta something, Don something,

Last part to my heart story.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 8, 2018:

Sounds a lot like survivors guilt to me. I survived cancer but there were others there that didn't. My boyfriend's mother was diagnosed with colon cancer a year before mine. I had a very curable form caught early so I came through easily and she died not long after my treatment in part because her medicaid kept refusing to pay her treatment and she stopped going because her kids were putting the treatments on credit cards. I felt some guilt because I had insurance and received top notch care All you can do is make the best of this second chance you have in whatever way you can.

Not sure on my thoughts about this, but meh, here goes.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 19, 2019:

I still have periods of time where I will try but increasingly, I just don't bother beyond the occasional sarcastic remark or leading question.

Name something that aging has brought to your life?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 15, 2019:

Discounts

Not for Prime Time:“US Kills 951 Civilians [commondreams.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 26, 2019:

Someday America will pay for things like this but it won't be the decision makers to pay it

Hello to all of you on MacNostics, my absence last week was due to the tragic death last weekend of ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 26, 2019:

I am so sorry to hear of this.

And I'm not talking TV! LOL!!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 10, 2019:

I want one

Worst qualities

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 10, 2018:

I have a temper. And it ain't pretty.

Is it true that educated women do not want a relationship with a guy who has a good career, but is ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 20, 2019:

Not in my case

For most of us, this isn't camping season but if you are planning an event or doing a adventurous ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 15, 2019:

I dont see the button either but a large group of geocachers will be camping in Highlands Hammock Preserve in Sebring Florida the first weekend of March. There are non geocachers there as well

[broadly.vice.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 19, 2018:

saving to read later since I have to get ready for work now. May weigh back in later.

My story starts the year after I was born - I was in foster care for the first year of my life but I...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 6, 2019:

I would try to find them and let them know about your sister's condition. Decide later if you want more.

Friend of mine lost a fight with a mosquito.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jun 27, 2019:

Holy shit. Poor guy

What qualities do you look for in a companion?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jul 3, 2019:

Loyalty and a sense of humor are the two that spring immediately to mind. Similar hobbies would be nice such as hiking, biking, museums, etc

Hi, folks! My name is Terry, and I live in Largo, Florida.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 17, 2019:

I'd be passing you my number if you lived closer.

Good morning and happy Friday! I'm looking forward to the long weekend! Today's question: ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 18, 2019:

People that are genuinely happy to see me

Just join and I hope am welcome

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Of course

What is the most dishonest profession?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Acting. Getting paid to pretend to be/think/feel something Although my first thought was lawyer LOL @kenchang

Your first words are????

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 9, 2019:

Ah fuck

Who else will ignore Valentine's day?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 7, 2018:

As I am in retail, I am pretty cynical about what I call VD ayyyy My duties are inventory control/ pricing integrity related so I will be tasked with handling the markdowns. I will get the grandkids their favorite candy and they are fine with it because they understand that they get twice as much by waiting a day. My last 3 relationships which ranged over a 20+ year period were also in retail so even though we made token attempts, we were both of the same mindset I am one of those people that think if you have to be forced to show appreciation on a holiday, then your relationship has issues

Why did you get married?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 4, 2018:

It was 1979, I was 17 with a baby and if the parents got married before a child was 6 months old, it could have the father's name. More than 6 months required adoption. I had 3 weeks to spare. Second time, I gave into family pressure and married who everyone thought was a nice guy that would take care of me blah blah blah.

I've been on dating sites and the one thing that really annoyed me was when I go through the trouble...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 4, 2018:

There are a lot of a scammers and they are getting better at it. Perhaps your messages are mistaken for a scammer. Yes, often times men get nasty when they hear not interested. They refuse to accept that 2 hours is too far away. Or any other reason a woman gives. I once gave my primary email to someone and he figured out my real first name and was pissed that I used a different name on the site. Sent me many rants about how I was liar and bitch etc. Another time, a person connected to my employment saw me on there and thought it a good idea to bring it up in front of my co-workers. Sometimes I log on when I get a notification but most of the time, I just ignore the notification.

Trump Thinks Only Black People Are on Welfare, But Really, White Americans Receive Most Benefits

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jan 19, 2020:

Conservatives have always thought that. What strikes me as really odd is how many white people that receive benefits also think that most of the recipients are not white and are somehow keeping them from getting more

Targeted in Walmart attack, Hispanics in El Paso flock to firearms classes

Lucy_Fehr comments on Aug 13, 2019:

As soon as people of color start carrying in large numbers, there will be gun control.

If you could change your legal name easily and for free, would you? If so, to what?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 5, 2018:

Lucy Fehr I was named for the Franke Valley song and for some reason hated my name. Wanted Michelle for some reason. When I was a teen, people called me sher which also irritated me because Cher was a big thing at the time. I'm completely happy with my name now. I was barely 17 when my daughter was born and named her Misty which I regret although at 37 she says she is still fine with it. I had my next one nearly 10 years later so he got an adult sounding name of Mitchell and goes by Mitch. I use Lucy Fehr at work. Or Lucyfer

I've made level 7( wipes tears froms eye).

Lucy_Fehr comments on Feb 11, 2018:

I think I have 5k to go before I'm there. Congrats

I think most of us have heard the question-who would you like to eat dinner with if you could choose...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 14, 2019:

I typically answer with my grandmother but if the question is about non relatives, I go with Boudica.

A potential confused individual [agnostic.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 2, 2018:

Schrodinger's religion?

What do you do?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Aug 7, 2019:

Obviously it depends on the situation but in general if I ask permission and they say no, I cannot do it anyway. So better to beg forgiveness LOL

Yesterday at work a woman my age (but better 'preserved') was rude to me.

Lucy_Fehr comments on May 2, 2019:

Probably. I hit someone at work once when I was younger. I was as surprised as she was

What's your work atmosphere like? Team players or back stabbers?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Jun 7, 2019:

A mix of both but at least we all know who the back stabbers are