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Are online "friends" really friends?

AMGT comments on Apr 19, 2018:

I voted yes. I have friends online that I’ve never met, yet have been in consistent communication with for 10 years. During the most difficult times in my life, they’ve been a very real and steady source of love, guidance, support, kindness and compassion. In some cases, even more so than...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@AMGT I am so sorry. My brother was murdered little over 20 years ago and my father handled it so badly that he was dead a year later. There was also a wrongful death suit in his case. I can only imagine the depths of pain you feel and have nothing helpful to say. I just felt like I needed to acknowledge your loss

If you had to legally change your name what would you switch it to?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Lucy Fehr

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 20, 2018:

@evestrat I actually name my computer batches at work LucyFer

To all the women out there, how many of you would be brave enough to post a picture of yourself with...

Plainjane comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Every picture ever taken of me is like that lol. I never wear makeup, and don't use filters, and if you don't count throwing my hair back in a clip, then I don't fix my hair either. I'm a get-up-and- go kinda girl.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 20, 2018:

I have a hair cut that enables me to show up with just a fingercomb on really bad days. Getting up at 2 or 3am sucks

Customer service point of view.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 17, 2018:

This! I've had a man raise his cane at me, been called a liar too many times to list, been waved over, fingers snapped at me, etc. All manner of comments and hand gestures intended to humiliate me by bullies that know they can get away with it. In the past, men have "accidently" touched my ass ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 18, 2018:

@AzVixen52 Yeah I get those. I dont comment because I work for a company that wrote me up after a roommate made a false call against me. The camera showed I was not on the floor at the time specified so the acknowledged I was innocent but then wrote me up for not keeping my personal life out of the job. I take it because I make over twice the minimum age and the shit I have taken has ensured my children never would

What is your M.O. with receiving "butt dials" from those you're potentially interested in?

Amisja comments on Apr 18, 2018:

I understand absolutely none of thus!

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 18, 2018:

@earthman I miss having a landline. Theyre particularly useful after or during a hurricane

How Y’all, Youse and You Guys Talk.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 18, 2018:

I took one of these last year and it said Wisconson where I have never been. This one says Greensboro, Raleigh, Richmond where I have also not been except to drive through on my way to Ohio. There were several questions where I use more than one answer so I suspect that made a difference as well....

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 18, 2018:

Since im off today and being lazy, I just took it again and selected some of my altarnate answers and got Dayton, St Louis and Springfield. I have family in Ohio and no ties to the other. I think the test is bunk

Customer service point of view.

Charlene comments on Apr 16, 2018:

Yeah I worked retail..people are dicks generally..with an occasionally nice customer..

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 18, 2018:

@Blindbird In my experience most customers are neutral but I have worked in stores where the clientele was primarily nice and also primarily hateful. My current location is one that is notoriously hateful. Near PGA village where super rich live but surrounded by people who expected to be rich but the recession forced them to settle for st lucie west. The area is still out of my price range but they expected caviar and are forced to eat pate. Incredibly bitter. There are regulars that are in there every single day to treat every person they encounter like shit. Every trick in the bag to show us that we are lowlifes. Just enough nice people to keep me from going postal.

Would you rather be crazy rich or deeply in love?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Crazy Rich- I can rent all the love I want LOL

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@kensmile4u I would truely love to find out for myself LOL.

I made a mistake and am now being shamed for it, I went out with a couple of friends because it was ...

Rudy1962 comments on Apr 16, 2018:

Great answers here. You have nothing to be ashamed of

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@Nomack Somebody spiked her drink. Her friends took care of her AFTER SOMEONE SPIKED HER DRINK. Nothing was her fault. WTAF

I made a mistake and am now being shamed for it, I went out with a couple of friends because it was ...

misstuffy comments on Apr 16, 2018:

P.S. THere is a new fingernail polish developed that all you have to do is dip your finger in your drink and it will change color if there are drugs in the drink. I dont know if this is out on the market yet but I know I got roofied and if they had had this I would have been wearing it to be sure. ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 17, 2018:

@Catalaya22 It is not your fault that some lowlife decided to poison your drink.

Do you read the comments on a post from the top down, or bottom up?

markdevenish comments on Apr 16, 2018:

I like to reply before being corrupted by other's comments

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 17, 2018:

Me too

Name something men need to stop doing.

alvinsmom comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Scratching their balls and adjusting themselves in public, or even when we are alone together. Not many men do this but it is really embarrassing to be with a man that does this regardless of where he is.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 17, 2018:

Maybe Im just unlucky or it's the florida weather but most men do it here. My boss is constantly adjusting his junk. Particularly after insulting someone or otherwise being an asshole.

Things that people put in dating profiles that are pet peeves. Discuss.

alvinsmom comments on Apr 17, 2018:

A few years ago, I started chatting with a guy on a dating site. We talked on the phone several times and he was very nice. He had one picture posted and it looked like an old one. When we finally met in person, he was four inches shorter, 40 lbs. fatter, had grey hair instead of brown, and was ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 17, 2018:

I don't get why people do that either. I post pics that look like me. I used to use the most unflattering ones. Now Im a bit more vain but will not use a filter, contortionist pose, or even make up to enhance my pictures

How many of you older people listen to current pop music, or is it only "noise" to you?

girlwithsmiles comments on Apr 15, 2018:

My heart is in Havana, is my new favourite :)

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 16, 2018:

I'm liking it as well

Cops directing traffic for churches. WTF?

Marine comments on Apr 15, 2018:

They normally hire off duty police to man these locations and it provides the police with a little additional income. I am ok with this.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 15, 2018:

I would be fine with that as well but they are in uniform and using the cruisers which is city property

How do you spend your Sunday mornings?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Im up at 2 or 3am even on my days off so I spend until daybreak wasting time on facebook and now agnostic.com, then plan my geocaching route if I am caching that day. I geocache, hike or walk 4 miles on the beach and am usually home by 1pm. Sometimes do some yard work instead if Ive let it go too...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 15, 2018:

@Petter Actually my daughter wanted to be a chef until a dentist left a broken needle in her gum that ultimately damaged her sense of taste and feeling in her tongue. She still likes to make nice meals. which I like to eat. And yes I am glad you replied.

How many of you older people listen to current pop music, or is it only "noise" to you?

JimG comments on Apr 15, 2018:

I saw a study about that. We develop our tastes in music by age 15. After that we may listen to other styles, but our first choice will be what we listened to when we were 15. I think that's true for me. I do listen to a lot of music I didn't like then, but I gravitate back to 80s stuff. As to ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 15, 2018:

Your comment made me think about that. It was 1978 when I was 15 and some of my favorite artists are The Eagles, Steve Miller, Fleetwood Mac, Queen, Rod Stewert. Sounds legit

If you won an all expenses paid vacation, where would you like to go?

Deb57 comments on Apr 15, 2018:

Great Britain. I want so badly to see England, Ireland, and Scotland. The intedrtwined history of these three countries has fascinated me since childhood. I have always felt that the British Isles are where I truly belong.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 15, 2018:

My recent DNA analysis has me 50% British/Irish which includes Scotland. My father had told me we were Scottish then moved to England before crossing over to the U.S. I'm also 32% French/German and although I never had much interest in Germany, France was a point of interest. Perhaps someday.

Anyone else in my age bracket having this issue?

Rugglesby comments on Apr 12, 2018:

I have solved the issue this way. I am staying single. I spend time with a number of ladies, some for a coffee and movie, a couple maybe a weekend away, platonic, just good company. These ladies I consider off limits for sex, they have either not expressed any interest, or stated no interest. End...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 13, 2018:

@Cast1es My particular issue is that I get up by 3am for work so my free time is when normal people are working. My bedtime is when normal people eat dinner. I live in a small town that is number 1 on the list of worst places to live in Florida. Although I don't think it deserves that rating, there is nothing going on here due to some past corrupted officials that ruined us. It's coming back but that is beside the point. I'm an extrovert that can and will talk to anyone near me. I would be interested in many of the things you mentioned but cannot participate in events that begin after I am supposed to be asleep. I am active, I hike, geocache, do a lot of yard work but I do things when normal people are still at work. I also work Saturdays which is the only day this town has any events cuz the 3 churches on every corner own Sunday

Anyone else in my age bracket having this issue?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 13, 2018:

I get what you are saying. A number of years ago I started seeing this guy and he was awkward. Both physically and socially yet the sex was surprisingly mind blowing. I will say that he did not speak of sex when we first started hanging out together. I have never had a strong sex drive so I was ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 13, 2018:

@SACatWalker I don't photograph well but all the ones on this profile are of me out doing something fun so perhaps that is why they are better than most; This profile picture was taken by my daughter at a geocache we stopped at on the way to a cruise. So yeah I was happy that day LOL

Anyone else in my age bracket having this issue?

PickledRick comments on Apr 12, 2018:

There are people out there looking and wanting what you describe. It's a particular type of personality that feel sex should not be an issue in a relationship and don't desire any. Run a google search for " asexual relations" , it will explain further and possible places to find an asexual.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 13, 2018:

I wondered if I was asexual when I was younger but realized that I am one of those people that cannot have a sexual desire for someone I do not have respect for. Since most of my relationships were with recovering addicts that didn't stay recovered, I lost the desire. Hard to want sexy time with someone you are forced into the role of parent for

Anyone else in my age bracket having this issue?

skepteekule comments on Apr 12, 2018:

interesting post...I travel solo and do most everything,hobbies, outdoor stuff... solo...same reason..very hard to make new pals.. m or f, when you get in our age group..MOST are highly involved in families (as natural) w/g kids etc....I have had some sucess in groups such as 'meet up' or vol ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 13, 2018:

I doubt I will meet anyone because I can't socialize. I get up by 3am for work so must be home to relax and get into sleep mode at dinnertime. The time I have available is when regular folk are still at work. . I also live in a dead end town that has few organized groups; I have to travel to a neighboring town which cuts into the available time. I can't even have friendships for the same reason. I am nearly 55 and everyone I know is married, going to church stuff all the time, and working normal hours. Good thing I am someone that likes solitude.

Anyone else in my age bracket having this issue?

Rugglesby comments on Apr 12, 2018:

I have solved the issue this way. I am staying single. I spend time with a number of ladies, some for a coffee and movie, a couple maybe a weekend away, platonic, just good company. These ladies I consider off limits for sex, they have either not expressed any interest, or stated no interest. End...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 13, 2018:

@Donna_I I find it depressing that I dont have a group of friends to go do things with or even just hang out.

Anyone else in my age bracket having this issue?

Wisewoman3 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

I am truly baffled by men around my age. Every man who has asked me out is obsessed with sex. A few times, we have only gotten as far as talking on the phone and they ask me how long before I would have sex, do I give blow jobs, will I walk around the house and yard nude, what is my favorite ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 13, 2018:

On dating sites, the conversation will turn sexual by the 3rd or 4th message. Messages that consist of 2 sentences or less

What’s your experience with family after rejecting the religion that was forced on you as a child?

SACatWalker comments on Apr 13, 2018:

I grew up during the 60's. My folks were as old fashioned (greatest generation) types that there were, but so much happened during that decade that had greater influence than them that they had to pick their battles. So they were neutral on religion. If they could just get me to go to school on ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 13, 2018:

I know right? And they wonder why I failed math in sophomore year of HS.

What do you know about Crypto currency?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Apr 11, 2018:

Over the course of a few months, I put about $300 into it spread among the top 3 and have let it ride. It was saved money from something that cost less than expected so figured wtf. Gonna go check my balance now

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 12, 2018:

@dianahdz88 I had the least amount in bitcoin which is where my losses are. Pretty much even with litecoin and ether. Personally I think ether will come out on top in the end

Should we have intelligence thresholds for voting?

vcg1234 comments on Apr 12, 2018:

This may be a very unpopular comment but I have often wondered if we would be better off if there was an intelligence requirement for reproduction. If the education systems in the US were fair and effective, I don’t think I would wonder that. I mean no disrespect. This is an honest curiosity.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 12, 2018:

I can see why you would think that but my own mother was/is not a very good parent but is quite intelligent. Learns anything she wants to easily. By comparison, my grandmother had an 8th grade education and was the best substitute parent anyone could ask for. Very intelligent people often lack the the skills to be a nurturing parent. But yeah I see plenty of people that shouldnt reproduce

Game of Thrones Fans?

BucketlistBob comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Sorry... I'm not into stories about the youth and their powers.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 11, 2018:

@BucketlistBob I was on my phone when I posted the first comment and typos force me to have shorter posts. What I should have said was: I know which episode you saw and can see where you thought that but it is in fact a not safe for kids or work kind of show. The dragons even get cool later on

Do you stand for the anthem?

SecularInSoCal comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Although I personally stand for the anthem, I'll stand by the right of those who choose not to. Freedom means some people can make choices you may not make or agree with.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 10, 2018:

Agreed

Rutt-row.

Betty comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Prostitution has long been commonly referred to as the oldest profession in the world. No culture, religion, or government entity has been able to eradicate it. Legalizing the sex-trade would put in regulations and safeguards to reduce abuse and the spread of disease. Legalizing would free up ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 10, 2018:

That is my opinion as well

Game of Thrones Fans?

BucketlistBob comments on Apr 9, 2018:

Sorry... I'm not into stories about the youth and their powers.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 10, 2018:

@BucketlistBob that is just one plot point. Very adult show

I need a work from home job. Any ideas??

Heart_Truth comments on Apr 9, 2018:

If you have a bachelors degree and are a native English speaker you can teach English to children in China. But it is 4-8 am ew

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 10, 2018:

How many days a week?

What's up with personal hygiene these days?

Bierbasstard comments on Apr 8, 2018:

I have seen women mention "must have good hygiene" and "must have good teeth" in their ads many times. I can't imagine the kind of date situations that would make them add those statements but, dang.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 9, 2018:

@AncientNight lol

Is there intelligent life out there in the universe?

Simon1 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

We still haven't found any on earth !! Lol seriously though I hope there is

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 3, 2018:

I had that same thought LOL

Does someone have to be college educated to be intelligent?

Rudy1962 comments on Apr 3, 2018:

I'm educated and I'm lucky if I can get my clothes on right

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 3, 2018:

LOL. I like you. You're funny

Does someone have to be college educated to be intelligent?

Beach_slim comments on Apr 3, 2018:

College makes you dumber

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 3, 2018:

Nor I.

Does anyone here also enjoy a dark sense of humor?

Rugglesby comments on Apr 3, 2018:

I am bad. I have slight autism, so have no real filters, I find things funny that others won't.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 3, 2018:

Yeah, me too

What is the laziest thing that you have ever done

Plainjane comments on Apr 1, 2018:

I once texted my daughter down the hall to get me coffee. She didn't bring it.....

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 1, 2018:

Ive messaged or texted my grandkids to bring me something because I didnt want to get up and get dressed.

What's the most ridiculous thing you've bought?

WizardBill comments on Apr 1, 2018:

A house on a credit card. OK, not seriously on a credit card, but back in 2001, I bought a house with a 3 yr 5.1% APR, but the ARM jumped to 14.9% after that. Mortgage went from $650 to $1,300. I moved out immediately and left the house. That burned the credit rating for 7 years. *Note to ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 1, 2018:

I had one way back in the 90s but I refinanced before it got too bad. It could only go up 2% per year anyway.

Facebook has labeled you as either Liberal, Moderate or Conservative. Want to find out which it is?

Rugglesby comments on Mar 30, 2018:

Mine does not have it, I have other things ie employment, I use fluffbuster purity in addition to add blockers so they probably have more dificulty with me.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 1, 2018:

Im using social fixer

What's the funniest joke you've heard?

ARealLifeSheldon comments on Apr 1, 2018:

If a child ever asks you why it's raining, I think a cute thing to tell them is that "God is crying." And if they ask why God is crying, I think another cute thing to tell them is, "Probably because of something you did."

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 1, 2018:

I used to say god was pissing on us

I am looking to possibly move in the next 18 months or so.

kensmile4u comments on Mar 28, 2018:

I live about 30 miles south of Orlando in between two small towns. One is called Kissimmee and the other is St Cloud. I moved here from Orlando 17 years ago to get away from the congestion in Orlando. I have many friends in Orlando who like the urban lifestyle. Orlando has 2.5 million permanent ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Apr 1, 2018:

I lived in Kissimmee for years and even there, it can take 45 minutes to drive 6 miles

Would you date a person with a speach impediment?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 28, 2018:

It wouldnt be a dealbreaker for me. My granddaughter has an impediment and although she has to repeat or rephrase, she seems ok so far but is only 11 I worry that it will be used as weapon when she is older since she is mixed race in a redneck area.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 31, 2018:

I guess I should have phrased it as "do kids generally outgrow it" Point taken..

Would you date a person with a speach impediment?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 28, 2018:

It wouldnt be a dealbreaker for me. My granddaughter has an impediment and although she has to repeat or rephrase, she seems ok so far but is only 11 I worry that it will be used as weapon when she is older since she is mixed race in a redneck area.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 30, 2018:

@TaraMarshall Will she outgrow it?

Just googled something in relation to a post someone has made here.

CoffeeGoddess comments on Mar 30, 2018:

As a child, we had Britannica... As well as several 'Time' series..one was earth science and biology, another was on space, rockets and related subjects, then there was a set on what today we call DIY for the home... As soon as i could comprehend what i was reading, around age 6 or 7, I was ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 30, 2018:

I had a number of those time life sets

Would you date a person with a speach impediment?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 28, 2018:

It wouldnt be a dealbreaker for me. My granddaughter has an impediment and although she has to repeat or rephrase, she seems ok so far but is only 11 I worry that it will be used as weapon when she is older since she is mixed race in a redneck area.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 29, 2018:

@countrylife Yeah R's are her issue as well but with words that end in R. When she was younger there was another letter but I do not remember what it was.Her mother says it's the common impediment. So far the other kids think she is british which amuses her.

Who would you be in a post-apocalyptic society?

hammerhead comments on Mar 26, 2018:

I'd also like to think I'd be some sort of Michonne-type badass, but I'd probably die from consuming deadly berries or something.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 26, 2018:

lol

Best Dating Site?

Doug_in_Colorado comments on Mar 24, 2018:

You need a none of the above. LoL I used to have a good experiences on OkCupid, and POF, but not so much any more. Meetup.com is pretty awesome. You can meet a lot of people with similar interests in low pressure environment. It is a great place to make long lasting friends as well.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 25, 2018:

I love the meetup concept but I live in a smaller town, Between my schedule of getting up at 3am forcing me to go to bed at 7pm and few groups, I am not finding platonic relationships much less romantic ones.

How do you deal with Backstabbers in the workplace?

ASTRALMAX comments on Mar 24, 2018:

It all depends on how serious the situation is or is becoming with regard to your employment. There are many different ways to address the matter. Of course, if the situation merits it and it has become nothing short of warfare then you can either take the Machiavellian approach or the Sun Tzu ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 25, 2018:

Yeah, I like how you think

Have you ever had a frenemy?

Condor5 comments on Mar 25, 2018:

Have one now. Fortunately, I will likely never see him again. He's a trumpanzee and went off on me the last time we talked on the phone, called me all kinds of mean things. I'd loaned him a fairly large sum of money a few years back, and to his credit he's paid most of it back, but I am afraid I'm ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 25, 2018:

@icolan Similar thing here. That unpaid money makes them avoid me so it's money well spent LOL

Have you ever had a frenemy?

TheHammer0395 comments on Mar 25, 2018:

All women are a frenemy. Act like you care then fuck a man over and not feel guilty. You all should be ashamed of yourselves!!

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 25, 2018:

And my ex husband cheated on me, the second one left me thousands in debt. I do not blame all men. Perhaps you should consider that YOU choose women with a proclivity for screwing people over.

Have you ever had a frenemy?

BufftonBeotch comments on Mar 25, 2018:

I don't have the Frenergy.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 25, 2018:

Clever lol

Do you have a best friend that you talk to often or see frequently to have fun?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 22, 2018:

Not anymore. She started dropping the N word every time I was around her and got pissed when I told her to stop. Gave me some shitty attempted guilt trip crap about how we've been friends so long, I thought I could say anything and not be judged. Racists should be judged.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 23, 2018:

@atheist Looking back, I was her friend but she was not mine.

Does online dating actually result in long term happy relationships?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 23, 2018:

I come from a generation that still finds it distasteful to use online dating. A general sense of being desperate or pathetic. I'm betting the percentage of my age group that is digitally savvy is much lower than it is for the under 40 crowd

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 23, 2018:

@BlueWave Lucky you. Most of them just make a face but Ive had a few actually say that they would "find someone on my own". Another said, " I will never be that desperate"

My spouse is a gambeling addict.

Nurse-Quantros comments on Mar 22, 2018:

My friends, and family cut me loose. When I was ready to talk, they were willing to listen. But, I had to come to them. Looking back, I am in awe of their strength, I cannot imagine how hard it was for them.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 23, 2018:

@Nurse-Quantros My brother would be alive if we had gotten tough earlier. Or if the courts had. If we had stopped enabling him. I wont make that mistake again.

My spouse is a gambeling addict.

Nikonian comments on Mar 22, 2018:

It sounds like you love your spouse (assuming husband for sake or writing), but remember that you are not a spouse nursing your mate through a cold. Gambling addiction is an issue that needs professional help. Things will get worse before they get better. 1. Protect yourself and your family. ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 23, 2018:

@Shellbell I still have issues from the credit problems of my ex that I divorced 20 years ago. Once you are tied in those databases, you are never fully out.

What more important in a Song?

IAMGROOT comments on Mar 22, 2018:

The question seems rather axiomatic to me. There are songs with great lyrics and there are songs that are great musically. For me, it's possible to appreciate songs on either level. Some music, particularly Alt Rock, I find so catchy I just flow with the music and only later do I even try to pay ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 23, 2018:

I adore the eagles but yeah, you're right but since I was stoner when I really got into them, I just thought they were really deep LOL

Anybody do cruises?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 22, 2018:

My daughter is a travel agent specializing in cruises but I had never taken one until a couple of years ago because I felt anxiety at the prospect of being too far from shore. I don't know what happened but on my last cruise, it was storming with a lot of wind and I was on the top deck enjoying ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 22, 2018:

@SeeCanU When I went last year, there were some students working on restoration

I hate those lists off get to know you questions, so here's a fun game: tell me one quirky thing ...

resserts comments on Mar 22, 2018:

I hate walking around in bare or sock feet. I'll take my shoes off in someone's home, if it's clear that it's expected, but if I can plan for it I bring some soft-soled, slipper-like, indoor-only shoes to walk around in. My feet get awfully cold otherwise, which is bad enough, but I also have a ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 22, 2018:

I hate wearing shoes. I'm often teased about always being barefoot

What is your favorite response when people say "god bless you", "have a blessed day", and/or "I will...

Doug_in_Colorado comments on Mar 21, 2018:

I have to admit, coming from a southern baptist upbringing, the "bless you" after someone sneezes slips out occasionally. However, I usually catch myself, and it comes out as a mumbled "bless yyyy"... LoL As to my replies, I usually say, thanks, or smile and nod. I try to take it good form as ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 22, 2018:

That blessed day stuff irritates me for some reason. Nearly everyone that says it is full of biblical sin

Are you prepared

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 21, 2018:

I would last a month or two if I had a few hours warning. Since I'm old, I wouldn't last long fighting for my shit since fight I would. I have a pool for washing and such and since I do my own maintenance, I have 4 jugs of chlorine plus the tabs. I should probably read up on how many drops per ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 21, 2018:

@azzow2 where would one buy powdered peroxide?

Are you prepared

IAMGROOT comments on Mar 21, 2018:

I'm basically effed. LOL!

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 21, 2018:

@azzow2 I just got a image in my head of me cutting up cardboard like little graham crackers

I have come across some aspects of talking to plants has an effect on them, is this pseudoscience or...

Jsuischa comments on Mar 20, 2018:

Talking to it increases the carbon dioxide in the plant's vicinity. This can make the plant seem to perk up.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 21, 2018:

I was gonna say that

Describe your love life in one word.

DUCHESSA comments on Mar 21, 2018:

Gee, everybody is single....but nobody is doing anything to change this "status". Are we afraid of trying?

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 21, 2018:

I have found that my refusal to settle or play the game is why I am still single. When I was younger, I never stayed single long but looking back, I was settling. Never again.

What are your thoughts on nurture vs nature?

shockwaverider comments on Mar 18, 2018:

30% on Nurture. 70% on Nature.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 19, 2018:

My brother never had contact with his son and died when the son was a few years old, his son is just like him despite having every advantage a middle class lifestyle could buy

Is old age something to look forward to or is it generally filled with loneliness, health problems, ...

marga comments on Mar 17, 2018:

I am 64 and I do not fear being old. Physically, yes, there can be a lot of aging and deterioration. That part of it is not fun...but it is interesting to observe how your body changes. Life is a learning process, and each stage has its lessons to impart. The big bonus is how your mental and ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 17, 2018:

@marga Your terminal cancer.

How old is your avatar/profile picture?

JimG comments on Mar 17, 2018:

Mine was taken last summer. I also have a more recent pic in my profile. I am not very photogenic and / or attractive; so I don't take selfies often.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 17, 2018:

I take horrible selfies. My phone is just a teeny bit too big to hold with one hand and take the pic with my thumb. The concentration it takes to get that selfie results in an angry looking frown

Is old age something to look forward to or is it generally filled with loneliness, health problems, ...

marga comments on Mar 17, 2018:

I am 64 and I do not fear being old. Physically, yes, there can be a lot of aging and deterioration. That part of it is not fun...but it is interesting to observe how your body changes. Life is a learning process, and each stage has its lessons to impart. The big bonus is how your mental and ...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 17, 2018:

I'm sorry

What idiosyncratic behaviours do you have?

Benthoven comments on Mar 17, 2018:

If you really want to make me crazy, tie me up and fold a map incorrectly. Or misspell they’re their or there...

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 17, 2018:

If they're there, their place is there

What innocuous habits do you have?

sassygirl3869 comments on Mar 17, 2018:

I have been accused of humming.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 17, 2018:

Yeah me too. Or even sing

Is humanity in the decline?

Presley1209 comments on Mar 16, 2018:

I think we have only evolved technologically, the human still acts barbaric. There is so much hate and violence in the world it just makes me sick. You would think by now there wouldn't be anymore wars but here we are. I just don't understand.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 17, 2018:

@Nomad I agree; we have not evolved as quickly as our technology has.

Is humanity in the decline?

sassygirl3869 comments on Mar 16, 2018:

The racial hatred that trump has perpetrated is damaging the world.

Lucy_Fehr replies on Mar 17, 2018:

White privilege is not about how much money people have. Both of my parents are from Appalachia; I spent my childhood until 12 years there; had relatives without an indoor bathroom; while I always lived in a house with running water, we didn't have a phone, often no power for up to a week, and was very food insecure And I STILL recognize that I benefit from white privilege simply because I do not fear being arrested for driving down the street in a nice car, or walking in an affluent neighborhood, How I am not treated as liar or scammer when I return items at a store, how security ignores me in a store, and the list goes on. Edited immediately to remove a double word.

New full-time father looking for tips

Lucy_Fehr comments on Mar 16, 2018:

Plant rose bushes under her windows. Nice big thick ones.