Good Morning! I’m being festive this week and wear Christmas shirts to work.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 18, 2018:

I wear uniforms at work so content myself with xmassy socks

"Shooting ropes," who's ever heard this expression before?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 18, 2018:

This is the first time Ive heard that expression and thanks to the comments, I know what it means as well. ew

Today's Question: What was the very best day of your childhood?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 17, 2018:

Not a lot to choose from but my great aunt had a house sort of out in the country and grew a lot of food. I remember picking grapes and eating them before "camping" in the tent she had made me with a sheet over the clothesline. All my happy childhood memories are in that house.

Today's Question: What's the most beautiful place you've ever visited.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 16, 2018:

I can't narrow it down but the most recent was Glacier Bay in Alaska And an honorable mention for Mt Ranier seen on the flight over. A few months ago was the first time I had ever seen anything from the air as I had not flown since 1980. On that flight, I was nauseous, had an aisle seat and terrified. Took a cruise to Alaska to get me back on a plane.

Well, we've run through all 36 questions and I'm in the process of putting something together ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 15, 2018:

Nope. Not nary a one. Nobody likes me sniff sniff

On my mind this morning is something my adoptive Mother shared with me - Her mother-in-law was ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 15, 2018:

My mother was adopted and few of her parents family members considered her "real" My grandmother was the 13th kid and I only met 2 of her sisters which were the 2 that accepted my mother

Man breaks potato only diet on live tv & epic weightloss journey revealed - youtube

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 14, 2018:

When I was young, I ate a lot of potatoes but little pasta and almost no rice because that is what I was provided and I didn't really have a weight problem As I got older I became friends with people that ate a lot of rice and picked up the habit. Instead of beans and rice, I'm gonna try beans and potatoes

I have heard many object to medicine and how it is practiced but i wonder how many have not been ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 14, 2018:

When I had cancer a coworker offered to pray over me. Another was telling me about some kind of hokey vitamin shit but I chose the cancer institute It worked.

Why do we feel territorial about parking space?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 14, 2018:

I dont know why but it pisses me off to see someone in "my" space at work. My is in quotation marks because I do not have an assigned space; it just happens to be the one I chose as mine

Fancy cauldron for any outdoor setting.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 13, 2018:

That is nice. I have a fondness for dragons and wyverns and have since before they became the thing to have

Destroying The Laws [ghionjournal.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Thank you thank you. you know why lol

I'll be so relieved when this month is over.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 13, 2018:

What they dont share is how many service people were verbally abused, how many drivers they honked at or flipped off, how many other shoppers they glared at for not getting out of their way quickly enough LOL But they sure look happy in those family photos huh?

I’m With Progressives Against Impeachment [commondreams.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

I forgot to say that I dont want him impeached because Im hoping he gets prosecuted when he leaves office and Pence scares me much more because his agenda is just fucking evil

I’m With Progressives Against Impeachment [commondreams.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

I agree with quite a bit of what you said in that most of them are pretty corrupt and fear the aftermath of impeachment proceedings. I am not sure I agree with your first point however. Or that all the newcomers will become corrupt. I mostly agree with your fourth point but DUUUUUUUDDDEEEE I wish you would use paragraph breaks

Just got to level 8. Not sure how this works vis-a-vis T-shirt colour, address etc. Any advice?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

You don't need the points that my like gave you but here it is anyway

IDK if this has been reported before.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

That happened to me today and now I dont recall which post it was to go check a second page

@Admin - Still not getting group alerts.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

Totally unrelated but I find your friend's name somehow appealing

I appear to have been booted from the Science and History Tidbits group I was in.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

I checked the members and you are not a member and was gonna suggest you contact the host but it appears he noticed on his own.

Yeah, Why Not? [facebook.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

LOL

Fox News may be turning a corner here. ?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

Holy fuq that's funny. Somebody gettin' fired tho

Question 35. Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

One of my grandchildren but I can't narrow down which one would bother me the most thereby making the deaths of any of the others less. My daughter is diabetic and without insurance so I think of her death from time to time but the incident with the dentist forced to me seriously consider it. My son is an asshole so sometimes I worry that something will happen to him but no more than any other parent would with a child like him My first granddaughter was stillborn and as tragic as that was, I cannot bring myself to think much about the prospect of one of them dying now.

I saw the following post on facebook and he raised points that seem to make sense to me despite my ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 12, 2018:

I appreciate how nobody has confused me with the author of the facebook post; or assumed I agreed with it or ridiculed me for soliciting opinions.

Question 34.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:

Photo Albums. Most photos from recent years are online but the albums of my children when they were children are not digitized. Perhaps I will work on that soon.

Ok Trekkers you know that you want one ?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:

Indeed I do

If your kid was gay. Yes or no and why?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:

If my kid were gay, I wouldn't care

Abuse From Customers Is Not Part of the Job! Respect Retail Workers and Restaurant Staff.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:

Oh yes it is. Debasing lower life forms is part of the shopping experience.

Potty mouth I have a question mostly for the ladies but guys will want to weigh in.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:

If I could stop saying fuck all the time, I could get a better job LOL

Do you have a dental horror story?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 11, 2018:

My daughter was on medicaid and a dentist convinced her to let him remove ALL of her teeth when she went in for extractions. Broke a needle in her mouth and sent her home with the tip still in there. Called her back a few days later, tried to remove it, pushed it into the nerve. She spent a week in the hospital. Maxo facial guy used a machine called the navigator to remove it. Lost half her jaw bone to the infection from the needle tip Reduced sense of taste and she had wanted to be a chef Yeah, they had to call in the guy that fixes cleft palates in 3rd world countries to save my daughter's life.

Question 33.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 10, 2018:

Im pretty good at telling people what I think generally. When my brother died 25 years ago, there were things unsaid and it weighed on me. Im sure I will think of something as soon as I hit submit though

UPDATED INFO [facebook.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 10, 2018:

Ive been sticking it out but this season has disappointed

Question 32: What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 9, 2018:

In general, nothing. Context does matter. When I had cancer, I joked about dying but some other cancer patients nor their families found it amusing. Neither did my family for that matter. I was an abused child yet I have made jokes about abusing my kids and grandkids. My brother was killed with a shotgun blast to the upper chest, yet I have made jokes about blowing someone's head off - although not since school shootings became a thing. If I suspect someone will be bothered by those types of jokes for whatever reason, I will abstain. but I suspect it is just my way of dealing with my shit since I rarely make jokes about stuff that hasn't touched my life on a personal level such as the holocaust; genocide; spree killers etc. edited immediately after posting to be more specific about one point

Is anybody on this site going to post an intelligent comment, ?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 9, 2018:

Judging from the activity of this post, being an asshole pays off

Feeling lonely.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:

Same here. I would love to have someone to pal around with

I just, quite by accident, found out that if I hold down on the numbers on the keyboard of my phone ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:

Mine just offers to assign a contact.

Question 31: Good afternoon.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:

I asked my granddaughter to pick a number between 1 and 67. She chose 66 because that was close to 666. I loaded the membership list @bjporcella was #66 I then peeked his profile and although there was much to admire regarding his obvious intelligence, I like his use of the word buffoon to describe trumplestiltskin

Question 31: Good afternoon.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:

If I've never interacted with them before, how can I know what I like about them?

If people you thought were your friends suddenly stop all communication with no expectations how ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:

Been there and took too fucking long to done that Now it's 3 times they cancel/ stand up/ turn down and I don't bother again

Whats in a username.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 8, 2018:

Several things actually. I read about Australopithecus afarensis named Lucy at a time when I needed a nickname; it's a common name on british tv which I like to watch but it all got tied together when people asked me stupid shit like "do you worship the devil/satan/ lucifer" whenever they found out I didn't believe in god. I typically spell it as Lucyfer but when required to have a last name I spell it Lucy Fehr

Question 30: When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 7, 2018:

A couple of months ago in front of my daughter. That was the first time I had cried in at least a year. I am an anger crier although there have been a few times I teared up due to a movie or something. I don't consider tearing up crying.

Wow! Thanks to all for bumping my level up.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 7, 2018:

Well since you are a neighbor and all, I will give you a couple of points as well. There is a florida specific group here

Hi folks. Hope all is well in your city. Do you enjoy the brief cold snaps we have?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 6, 2018:

Not while I was doing my bike riding lol. Really need to get on getting that garage in order though

Would you wear this to a party?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 6, 2018:

Did anyone take him up on his offer? The only party I know Im going to is work related and even I wouldnt do that

Question 29.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 6, 2018:

Back when I was young and a partier I did something embarrassing enough that it changed my behavior. I worked in a convenience store with a slight friend I went to school with and a new friend I partied with. I threw the school friend under the bus to protect the party friend. the school friend was standing behind me and immediately called me out I felt like shit. Its been over 30 years and I still feel like shit. Permanently lost a friend that day

Sorrow has reared its head in my life.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 6, 2018:

Been there. Hugz

I've tossed out Question 28.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 5, 2018:

I don't really remember any christmas gifts except for clothing until I was a teen I recall a couple of toys I loved that may have been christmas gifts but I am not sure.

Last week I purchased a 40 acre gold claim on Jefferson creek in Colorado.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 4, 2018:

Can you build or is it camp only?

For those consistently badgering on and on about, "my points, my points, my points" and, "I don't ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 4, 2018:

Im inclined to agree with you on this. Of course I don't like losing points and I only recently realized that the unavailable posts I get from notifications means someone blocked me and is a bit inconvenient, but it IS a free site with none of my money put into it sooooooooo

Tough as old boots: a Thames skeleton's durable footwear He was found lying on his front, head ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 4, 2018:

Interesting

Question 27: If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 3, 2018:

That I'm fiercely loyal and expect the same; should I be betrayed, it will get ugly

Question 26: Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share ... “

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 2, 2018:

Laughter when something amusing happens on a show or movie. A companion or partner in crime when going to festivals or museums.

Question 25: This one's just too cumbersome (“Make three true 'we' statements each.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 2, 2018:

I was driving a vehicle with no AC in central Florida and nearly passed out from the exhaust fumes in gridlock traffic. He added cash to the trade in to bring the payment down on a new truck to where I could afford it. We were ex's by that time.

Did you know that if you line up all of your exes in a row you can see a flow chart of your mental ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 2, 2018:

True in my case LOL

I like my women like my ancient staircases. Curvy and can lead me straight to Hell.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 1, 2018:

Someone visiting?

I say this with the utmost respect.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 1, 2018:

Because they would prefer being judged by the impact of their words rather than their appearance

Got compared to Jason Mamoa today.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Dec 1, 2018:

Not seeing the resemblance but you're not ugly either.

Family emergency going on.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 30, 2018:

She is more like an aunt. My grandmother was my mother figure and she died of cancer when I was 25

"Dear Fedex, Please don't leave large expensive electronics in the screen door in the ghetto.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 30, 2018:

Somebody was stealing science kits from my porch. I had subscribed the kids to tinker crate and the first one came while we were on vacation but whoever took it came back the following 2 months and got them as well. I guess Im glad someone is interested in science but if these kids are both smart AND criminally inclined, we may be in trouble lol

Switch all the clothes in different closets.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 30, 2018:

And all I got done yesterday was cleaning the ceiling fan in my bedroom.

That time of year again when adults put small children on the knee of a complete stranger, ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 30, 2018:

My issue with the santa thing is that we tell our children to avoid strangers and then force them onto the lap of a stranger or force them to hug distant relatives they do not know. Or respond to strangers at the grocery store because that is "polite" Then when they do those hidden camera things to test their children, they're shocked that their kids fell for the stranger's story. I caught a lot of shit from old ladies at the grocery store when I defended my son's refusal to answer well meaning people that wanted to tell him how cute he was. He would look away from them and not respond since he was taught to not talk to strangers

Question 23: How close and warm is your family?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Teen parents having babies made my early childhood a mixed bag of both misery and unusual experiences. I saw and experienced life on the road with a band and met delightful weirdos but also knew I was an inconvenience. What little affection they had in them was for my younger brother who was sickly both physically and as it turned out later-mentally. I had periods of time with my maternal grandma who adored me whereas my paternal grandma hated my mother and therefor me as well. Again my younger brother got what little she had because he was blonde and blue eyed like that side. My mother's second husband made my and my brother's life a living hell for 7 years. Nuff said I have a relationship of sorts with my mother and her 3rd husband who has been very good to me but they married when I was 16 and gone The aforementioned brother was murdered over 25 years ago and my much younger half brother is a stranger to me. Small wonder I am searching for the other siblings on ancestry and 23. Family is my children and grandchildren

Democrats freaking out about Trump using tear gas seem to think this is a new, unique Trump ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:

We suck as a country. Trump has raised that suckiness to a new level but it was already there

Question 22: Here's another one we'll have to rework: "Alternate sharing something you consider a ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:

I don't like these kinds of questions because there are more than one that I admire but I would choose KenChang Amusing Down to Earth Witty Open Exuberant

Hey guys, I don't live in Alabama but my parents live in Enterprise and since I visit them ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Anyone here into geocaching?

I feel like this site is just one more on the list of online dating sites that go nowhere.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:

A dearth of likely candidates in my area forces me to treat this site as facebook whilst I wait for that to change.

Would you wear this to a party?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Yeah I would lol

Access a memory that makes you happy to the core.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Too many to easily pick one but most recent ones involve travel

Someone stole my card number again.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

A few days ago my checking account was locked due to multiple failed log in attempts. My daughter's debit card was successfully breeched the same day. I haven't used my debit card in months because I use a rewards credit card for everything and pay it off monthly. My bills are paid through online checking and my purchases are through paypal. The bank did ask my daughter if she had used samsung pay (nope) which means I guess that samsun pay was hacked.

Could I get a shout-out from all the single ladies who call themselves weird?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

I just shouted.

Question 21: What roles do love and affection play in your life?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Currently they are playing an invisible role They exited stage left

Hey, folks! Just signed up here. Currently in Tulsa, OK. Good day, all!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Welcome to our little corner of insanity

I just recently read that they've recovered hominin bones somewhere in the Altai region that, upon ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Tag me when you post it

Anyone in this group had to look for a new job lately?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

What has your daughter said about you getting a job? Or lack of one? Was your relationship with your daughter good before you moved in? I get that you feel like you must agree to everything she asks but does SHE expect you to?

How many people are on here are from the South ?? Or is it only me brave enough to stay here 😂!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Florida here

So, this is the place where we can say out loud things like, "my grandson is so smart and cute, but ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Indeed you can lol Nearly all the grandparents I interact with have the luxury of just being indulgent but those of us that are also defacto parents are unable to be like that all the time.

Some mysteries to be found in the sweet potato! [blog.helix.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Ive always loved them although my grandmother called them yams so I did as well until I started working in grocery. But anyway. Side note. Last year I went on a camping trip and took a crock pot and both white and sweet potatoes. Due to time constraints, I put both potatoes in the crock and let them cook skins on all day. Holy #%##% shit were those things tasty. I let them cool and we were eating them like apples

I'm BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Question 20: What does friendship mean to you?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:

I had one lifelong friend that I had to give up because she is an ignorant racist She always was, I just refused to see it So right now friendship means shit to me. LOL

Does age really matter in a relationship?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Ive dated much older and much younger. I think 5 years plus or minus is best for me

Keeping Christ in Christmas!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Is this really available for sale somewhere? I have several I want to give this to

This is one of the most dumb ass ideas I’ve ever seen.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Ive been boycotting them for at least 10 years. I see those army men at stores in Alabama when I visit the parents. I grab a handful to leave in geocaches

Struggling with a cold. Doing tea, soup, and rest. What's your remedy?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Any minute that I am not working, I am sleeping. I will take nyquil every time I wake up. Usually knock it out of me in 3 days

What's your favorite part of the holiday season?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:

The food.

To get rid of unwanted junk during the holidays, put it in an Amazon box and leave it at your front ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:

I think I will put dog shit in a box and leave it out there. I think have a couple of those smile boxes out in the garage. Seriously, giving this consideration

[yahoo.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Meh. It's gonna be decorated every year regardless of who is president or or flotus.

View on the disc golf course this morning.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Been thinking of taking up disc golf.

Why Do I Get Sore Days After I’ve Worked Out? [livescience.]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I knew that the soreness hit 2 days later but didn't know the pain was indicative of healing

Have you known anyone who is a non believer /skeptic that keeps their beliefs private and attends ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Threat of death. And if I get much older, not even that lol

Have You Ever Lost Respect For Someone?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I have a few times

Who plays words with friends? Maybe another way to make friends?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I do but it often locks up my phone requiring a reboot; drains the battery in the background; and lately inundated with scammers. but my user name is SherryM887

Good morning.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I would max out all my credit cards traveling the world. All the way to Idaho lol I would get rid of stuff so my daughter wouldn't have to and spend a lot more time watching superhero shows with my grandkids I would still have to work but would have a lot less stress about it being perfect

Do you know how long it has taken me to go from level 7 to 7.1?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I hit 7 a few months ago and it's been a slow go since I am maxed out on likes- so a like from me is genuine since I can't get credit for it anyway. I tend to be on here more when I am off the next day so I have periods where I comment a lot and have added a few points but it is likely to be a long haul to 8

Talks like and idiot: “I hollered, ‘My name is John, I love you and Jesus loves you,’ ” ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 25, 2018:

If they had already attacked him previously, why in the hell would he think a second try would go differently?

What is the most dishonest profession?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Acting. Getting paid to pretend to be/think/feel something Although my first thought was lawyer LOL @kenchang

I refuse to buy anything (ok, other than food) today.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I worked and didn't even have time for lunch so I bought absolutely nothing

If you're driving in the left-lane of the freeway, and there are no cars ahead of you, but a line of...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Yup

Question 18: What is your most terrible memory?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:

I will pass on this question as well.

Why do people use bombastic language to communicate when there are far more simple words in English?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Hahahahahaha I see what you did there

What time are you feasting today and what else is on the agenda?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:

My granddaughter and I delivered meals for the local PD/FD while my daughter and grandson cooked. We ate at 3ish First time we have celebrated thanksgiving in 10 years. We grew up thinking we were indigenous so refused out of principle. Even though my daughter believes in god, there was no prayer nor was it considered thanksgiving. She won the turkey in a contest at work LOL

Hello, I'm new to the site.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:

It gets to me sometimes. Most recently when a married woman dating a married man made an issue of it. And everyone in the social group pretty much supported them over me. They have since divorced their spouses and married each other so it's all good. I quit participating in the local activity because I was getting so angry about it all the time

Available for your sexual pleasure and to give pleasure ! Message me if you like the body

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:

From reading your responses to advice, I'm gonna predict that you won't be very successful here.

I’m quite new here so I don’t know how anything works

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Click on the box that says Learn with a heart in it and read the FAQ but it appears you are already on your way. Here is a couple of points