Just join and I hope am welcome

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Of course

Has anyone here ever heard of the TV show Firefly?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Yup. Loved it

MAY Florida vote to become a national player, WE are not as stupid as the republicans believe we ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Ramen!

I finally made it to level 7.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Stop caring lol. I doubt I will ever reach 8

If he goes through with it, wouldn't he have to send his son and wife back to her home country?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

I thought that at first myself and since my oldest grandchild was born before his father became a citizen, I was a bit worried but it would not apply. One parent was born here. Trump is speaking of children that are born to two immigrant parents. I dont think he can pull it off anyway

Please share any fun thing that you did on Halloween.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

I gave out 50 pounds of candy in under 2 hours

New to this site.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Have fun. You can find all sorts of things here from silly to sublime. From profane to philosophical. I wanted a third comparison. But wit is eluding me

I am one of billions of workers trading irreplaceable hours of my life so a few hundred guys can ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Fucking disheartening isn't it?

NASA's Parker Solar Probe Just Started Its First Skim Past the Sun [space.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Interesting- looking forward to the data although I will only understand half of it LOL

I don't know what I expected when I joined this site other than a place were I don't have to deal ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 31, 2018:

I have a profile on POF and OkCupid but I am going to delete them since I rarely log on and most of what I get is scammers or men who clearly did not read my profile before contacting me My schedule of getting up at 3am and in bed by 8pm makes having a life of any kind near impossible but I did join a few meet-ups. So far most events are outside my bedtime zone lol I've been single for about 7 years now and a part of me really likes the freedom but I must admit that a companion is missed from time to time. I often think that what I really need is friends rather than a significant other. I second the suggestion that you join meetup.

Is there anybody else who would like to 'chat'?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 31, 2018:

You should have stopped after the first sentence. The second one sounds like you are looking for drama.

Looking to make friends on the Treasure Coast.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 30, 2018:

Well it just so happens that I live in Fort Pierce

Let's start taking back our country:

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 30, 2018:

This is my cover photo on twitter

@Admin: I may be in the minority here, but I DO NOT like the look of the new profile page.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 30, 2018:

Less visually appealing than the old version although I did find the old one a bit busy

Hi. Real new here. Sometimes chatty, sometimes not.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 30, 2018:

Hi there. Here's another point for you

I just hit Level 6. I don't feel any different. Where is the Quickening?!?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 30, 2018:

Remember that cramp? That was it. I first typed out crap rather cramp. lol

So infuriating.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 30, 2018:

I'm with the "don't just let the dog out" crowd. No, you shouldn't have to go to the extra trouble but if there is a chance he will hurt the dog then you must. Here is an idea: repurpose an old phone or tablet as a recording device. You can stream it to a hard drive or the cloud. Or stay there recording in secret every time you let the dog out. Anyone that would abuse their own dog will not care about yours

I hate the feeling of being watched.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 28, 2018:

There is one person at work that calls me Lucy Loo and lately Ive been getting email about Lucy Lui

If you knew you only had a year to live, how would you live your life differently than you are now?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 28, 2018:

Max out credit cards traveling the world with the grandkids

Anyone here ?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 26, 2018:

Almost

I've had a not so very good day today.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 26, 2018:

Sorry to hear

Does anyone on this site come here to talk about Atheism and religion or is it just complain about ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 26, 2018:

You forgot I complain about trump daily AND am employed full time

Good bye.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 26, 2018:

Dude, Ive been here nearly a year and gave up on thinking I was gonna find a mate pretty quickly but this site has more to offer if you give it a chance

"Whites don't shoot whites" More blood on trumps hands. [yahoo.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 25, 2018:

Sounds like his issues pre-date trump.

Maybe tRump's Health & Human Services people should read this! & maybe get an education & some ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 25, 2018:

Love it LOL

This has absolutely nothing whatsoever to do with atheism or anything.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 25, 2018:

Not everything posted here must be about atheism although I get why it seems that way. We can and do discuss anything under the sun. We just dont have to deal with thoughts and prayers while doing it. LOL

Under new Oregon law, all eligible voters are registered unless they opt out - Los Angeles Times

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 25, 2018:

Hopefully it will spread to other states although I'm betting Florida won't be one of them

I found the real doctor quite easily.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 24, 2018:

Seems to be a lot more scammers recently

Any Farscape fans?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 24, 2018:

I loved it. I even tried to find 10 gold rings in the correct sizes to be like Zhaan

What would you do if the priest slaps your baby for crying?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 24, 2018:

Go to jail and eventually be forced to pay restitution for his medical care

Is Voodoo real or a bunch of crap???

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 24, 2018:

Voodoo relies on its victims believing in it. A friend and I once got a pos potential child predator to move because HE believed in voodoo

The Middle East, Not Russia, Will Prove Trump’s Downfall

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 24, 2018:

I hope something does but he seems to be the new Teflon Don

Does this site work for anyone? Ive had better luck at Schnucks grocery store.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 24, 2018:

I work in a grocery store where the clientele consists of retired folk Grumpy ones at that. Have no luck here thus far but still a better shot than a grocery store LOL

And yet another instance of mega-assholery from another blatant bigot emboldened by our faux ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 22, 2018:

Trump has made this kind of shit acceptable. I detest that piece of shit with a passion usually reserved for people that have done me or mine some personal harm

Well, I’ve been catfished by a member of Agnostic.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 22, 2018:

This is the guy I mentioned on a thread somewhere that I thought may be a scammer but wasn't sure. He did ask me for my email address and phone but I said I wasn't comfortable doing that and he sends me about one message a day asking about kids, grandkids, pets etc. I was feeling guilty for being suspicious and turns out I was correct in my initial assessment

A post about the image: [patreon.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 22, 2018:

Cool. I've only been hanging around outside for the last couple of years but did pick up some rocks in Alaska when I visited a couple months ago.

There doesn’t seem to be much going on with you lot so I have decided to become more active to gee...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 22, 2018:

Yeah I watch it and yearn to visit even more than I used to.

Welcome to all our new members.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 22, 2018:

I am currently messaging with one that might be but I am not sure. Hate to name him if he is innocent LOL

People Who Constantly Point Out Grammar Mistakes Are Jerks, Scientists Find All right, okay, ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 22, 2018:

Generally I ignore spelling and grammar mistakes since I also make mistakes when in a hurry or being lazy unless the person making the mistake is being a dick in some way such as demeaning another person's intelligence or being condescending.

Hi agnosticdotcommers.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 22, 2018:

Hi Gui, it's hot as hades here in Florida

Online dating, are you ladies asking for too much?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 21, 2018:

I don't watch soaps or reality tv. Nor do I spend much time shopping but most of the men contacting me are either scammers or mention something sexual by the 3rd message. And not a single one of them is a non-believer. I rarely log on to any site anymore because it's just a waste of time

I couldn't have put it better myself:

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 21, 2018:

I like it but want to point out that I know a lot of liberals who cannot afford education, healthcare, and quality food.

[agnostic.com] Odd posts and nonsensical responses to HIS own posts. I smell a bot.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 21, 2018:

I don't think he is a bot; just a fan of acronyms

It sucks being a antitheist being surrounded be theist.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 21, 2018:

Without a doubt.

Do you think, private business should be allowed to sponsor the Police with private funds?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 21, 2018:

Such as buying equipment for their local PD? Sure.

Has anyone else crack open thier holloween candy that was ment for the kids?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 21, 2018:

Yep which is why this year I bought candy that I am not so fond of so that I can resist its siren song

Has anyone else crack open thier holloween candy that was ment for the kids?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 21, 2018:

Yep which is why this year I bought candy that I am not so fond of so that I can resist it's siren song

How do you take people that claim to have witnessed or encountered weird shit I.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 21, 2018:

My mother was convinced that an alien craft visited us when we lived in Melborne Florida in the late 60s. Still believes it for that matter. My father was a police officer at the time and when I asked him years later about it he did say that they were deluged with calls for UFOs that night. We lived a few miles from Patrick so I'm gonna go ahead and say they were testing stealth aircraft and my mother who was in her early 20s at the time was also into witchcraft and just liked the woo.

If you had to wear one outfit from head to toe every day for a year, what would it be?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 21, 2018:

I nearly do that now; work uniform

Trump voters think men are more discriminated against than LGBT+ people, women and ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 20, 2018:

Even more shameful is that their wives also believe it.

Jacksonville florida here.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 20, 2018:

Hello and welcome to hell although Jax is probably more fun than where I am LOL Oddly, I want to move to Seattle

Anyone else ever tempted to join a hippy commune?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 20, 2018:

Sometimes

Gardening While Black [m.metrotimes.com]

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 19, 2018:

Damn, but this pisses me off

This does not fit any particular secular category, but it is certainly an example of humanist ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 19, 2018:

Great story. Thanks for posting

Are you active with a local humanist, atheist, freethinker, etc group? Why or why not?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 19, 2018:

Im a member of the closest Humanists and Atheists meetup groups but no longer attend the meetings because they are predominantly retired elderly people and I find the meetings boring. The few ideas I provided back in the beginning were ignored so I quit attending the echo chamber

Do you believe that racism and hatred is taught in childhood?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 19, 2018:

I firmly believe it is taught

Would it be wrong if I got each of my 3 boys a t-shirt with a 6 on it and we went as the mark of the...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 17, 2018:

Love it!

I love this post. Read it and see if you agree

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 17, 2018:

A temporary sacrifice.

Do we ever truly get over childhood hurts?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 17, 2018:

Yes and No. My mother shouldn't have kids and rarely hit us but we were neglected. Her second husband did abuse us with her knowledge. My father was absent for most of my childhood but meted out some harsh punishments that I can recall 50 years later I think I am over brooding about my childhood but I suspect it has also been a big factor in many of the more questionable decisions I have made in my life that seem inconsistent with the type of person most people perceive me to be

Man switching over to working nights is rough. I feel like I could sleep all the time now.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 17, 2018:

About 14 years ago I took a job where I had to be at work at 3am but also tried to maintain my social schedule by taking naps and going to bed at 11pm. Had 42 tardies the first 6 months. I should have been fired but my work performance was good enough to retain but I received no raise in 2 years until I finally gave up trying to get by on naps. Blackout curtains and pull down shades will be your friends

I had a brother in law that always held his love and approval for his kids just out of reach.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 17, 2018:

This runs in my family although after I was an adult I realized my father showed love in non traditional ways. He died when I was 30 so that revelation didnt aid my relationship with him. It did however make me face the fact that I was quite similar to him in that respect so was better with my children. Better still with the grandchildren

Please identify yourself if you sing in the shower.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 17, 2018:

I sing everywhere. Occasionally dance as well :)

Anti-vaxxer ‘warrior mom’: If vaccines are so great, ‘why aren’t they mentioned in the ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 14, 2018:

No automobiles, computers or phones in the bible either

Can anyone recommend a good product to help with training a dog not to bark excessively?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 14, 2018:

My dog barks at every little thing she sees outside so I made sure she can't get the curtains open to look out. She sleeps with one of the kids who have fans on and blackout curtains so that takes care of sound. Ive heard about sonic whistles but fear they may be cruel. With a previous dog, I had a better schedule so was able to take the time to sharply say "enough" each time she barked inappropriately. Perhaps a crate is in order at night.

Why Is the Radical Right Still Winning?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 14, 2018:

Getting big money out of politics is the only hope. Sure there are a few honest ones but they never get high enough up to have any real impact. The dems are no more willing to get rid of that money than the repubs are.

Should starting every second sentence with the word "So" automatically attract a death sentence?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 14, 2018:

So, what manner of death are we talking 'bout here?

Has anyone every given financial support for something on kickstarter?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 14, 2018:

I think I have contributed to 3. One was a star trek museum in Nevada- not enough to get a physical perk but I love star trek Another was a disabled young man that wanted to go on a trip around the U.S. I was supposed to get a copy of video or a letter or something when he completed it but to be honest I think he likely has died. Again, I did not do it for a perk anyway. The most recent was for a reusable straw that is way over priced but is now in production. We shall see.

I started a new group that was denied.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 14, 2018:

I have no interest in joining such a group but zorialoki has a point; most of the groups on here do not promote agnosticism either. However, when you use a free service, you get what you pay for; the provider makes the rules. You accept them or leave. Personally I think that some nasty shit slipped by the admin recently and he is trying to correct that oversight. Perhaps he is over correcting.

Members should not be allowed to write posts that simply link to something that is behind a paywall.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 14, 2018:

Yeah, it's annoying to click on a potentially interesting link just to find a paywall but I cannot support banning links to them. Reminds me of net neutrality. It would be nice if the poster included the info that there is a paywall and perhaps those reading this will do that in future but just as I do in FB, if a page/poster keeps posting links that lead to a paywall or some other irritating feature, I simply stop clicking on their links I have never demanded that facebook forbid them from posting

The worst date you've ever had.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 11, 2018:

My worst date doesn't seem so bad now.

Using four letter words doesn't make you look cool. You just look like someone with an ugly mouth.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 11, 2018:

I'm a bit old to worry about looking cool but there is something just so satisfying about letting foul words rip LOL

Whether to have my dogs put down humanely , or have them die in the cargo hold of a plane which they...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 11, 2018:

If you are absolutely certain they cannot survive the cargo hold, then do it before hand so that they do not die alone

Would you move for love?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 10, 2018:

I have to go with perhaps. I did that once and it was a mistake. I said never again but now that time has muted that bitterness, I have mellowed to maybe.

I messaged a gal on match that had a picture of her in Helsinki.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 10, 2018:

I had to scroll down the comments to get it. Once I saw the ad, I remembered it

Don't you just hate it when you wake up far too early? It's 4AM, and I can't do anything 'till 8:30!

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 10, 2018:

I get up at 3am for work so my days off are hell just sitting around waiting for daylight.

Coimetromania.... that's me, who else?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 10, 2018:

I love exploring them. I try to figure out the relationships between the people in the plots. Sometimes I will google a person if something is unusual in some way. I geocache and lots of people like to hide caches in cemeteries.

How many of you still participate in gift exchanges with family/friends during their holidays?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I give the children in my family gifts at christmas and on their birthdays although increasingly, those gifts are submitted via paypal. Who knew that paypal is preferred over cash? . If I attend a party with a white elephant gift exchange I will participate because that shit is fuuuuunnny

Quick question.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I don't care for the taste of alcohol so on the rare occasions that I drink, it has to be some expensive fruity thing so I pretty much don't drink. Most of the people I know drink socially but they are accustomed to my abstinence so there is no weirdness

My ex called last night.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 9, 2018:

You're a better person than I. If it were just me, I probably would forgive but not if their antics made things bad for my kids

I've been on this site for a short time and this is my first time posting.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I get what you were trying to say. Thanks for posting.

I know when I'm not wanted… That doesn't mean I'm leaving, but I know when I'm not wanted.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 9, 2018:

LOL. I often ask people at work if I am in their way. When they say no, I tell them I wasn't offering to move, I just wanted to know

Non-rhetorical question: How can politicians represent us when they are being paid millions to ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 9, 2018:

Because most of America is willfully ignorant and lazy

How do you all DO this?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 9, 2018:

I understand what you're going through. I do believe it is more difficult to make new friends when older because most people have developed long term friendships and don't need new ones. Ive tried to join local meet-ups but my schedule of getting up at 3am and retiring before dark makes socializing impossible in a town where going to bars and church seems to be the only thing to do

Which states have you visited?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 9, 2018:

According to my father, all 48 of the contiguous before I was school age. Don't recall it and would have been primarily hotel rooms, tents and bars anyway since he was a drummer in a band. As an adult, I have spent at least a night in 7 but one of those states was Alaska

It seems that there aren’t many here dating in my area, most profiles are here for community.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 9, 2018:

Very few of any persuasion. I wouldn't mind dating but I would love some secular friends my age to go do stuff with.

Biggest Age Gap You've Dated/Slept With?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 7, 2018:

When I was 19 I dated a man 39. When I was 33 I dated a man I thought was 21. Turned out he was 18. I pretty much stick to within a few years of my age now

Hi Everyone! New here, and hoping to meet free-thinking people.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Betting your neck of the woods is as bad as mine. Welcome

I am an atheist like many of you but I really like satanic imagery,.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 7, 2018:

I love mythology. I don't believe in gods myself but I find mythology itself fascinating.

Do atheists observe Halloween?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 6, 2018:

I LOVE halloween. I still dress up if I can.

I need some thoughts on how to write my greeting message.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 6, 2018:

IMO the greeting comes across as a bit strident but yeah, he over reacted. I changed mine after getting this response: Thanks for your non-heartfelt message. Is there a way I can not get messages from "greeters"? It is rather disappoint​ing and fosters a false belief system that I wish to escape. My current one is: Hi there! I am a volunteer greeter here at Agnostic.com so have no real powers beyond the ability to type words and annoy the narrow minded, but would like to be among the first to welcome you to our growing herd of heathens.

How many people would like to leave this country if they could, and where would you go?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 6, 2018:

I wish I could leave. I wonder if there is a dating site somewhere in Europe where middle aged, chubby, foul mouthed humanists are wanted?

Having to explain, most of my life, why being bi doesn't mean I cheat and why I post that I am ...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 6, 2018:

I rarely tell anyone I am bi because both homosexuals and heteros kinda give me shit. The homos think I'm just bi curious or looking to "play" whereas the hetero males wanna talk about group sex and hetero females just back away, The truth is that I was in 2 long term relationships with women that lasted years each. One of them was 5 years with a joint bank account. I do think that the younger generation is a bit kinder but for my age group, being bi is a social life killer because neither side wants you

Level 8 is so daunting....

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 6, 2018:

I've given up expecting to reach it in my lifetime LOL

[yahoo.com] Trump and Kim Lose Nobel Peace Prize to Sexual Violence Activists

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 6, 2018:

Somebody is wringing his tiny hands in disappointment tonight

What action or bad habit do you have, that still drives your parents nuts?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 6, 2018:

It drives my step father nuts that I fail to take his advice on how to do the job I have done for 40 years despite the fact that he was in a totally different field

Ever suddenly remember you can paint your windows?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 6, 2018:

You know I have window markers but they are just the primary colors. I like this idea. The grandkids can do it.

Sometimes a woman’s worst enemy is another woman. Welcome to the court, Kavanaugh.

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 5, 2018:

That is true. We are taught from childhood to mistrust other females and seek male approval. Other girls are seen as competition.

Oct 7th - Can't come soon enough...

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 5, 2018:

I have not watched dr who in years but have been bingeing it prior to the premier of latest dr. I think I will let it record and watch it later.

How many of you attend services, but are agnostic?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 5, 2018:

I don't attend services. In the last 30 years I have attended a church service for one wedding and 5 funerals. My son's cub scout meetings were in a church but no praying or clergy involved.

Did you know?

Lucy_Fehr comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Cool