So I am a 42 year old widower.
My hobbies are: martial arts, lifting weights, debating politics(I'm a tree hugging liberal), watching thought provoking movies and TV and just talking and listening.
Other than that, I'm kind of a typical IT nerd. I like computers, games, sci-fi, fantasy, dungeons and dragons. You know, all the stuff that would get you bullied in the 80's.
I have three fantastic, supportive kids, ages 19, 18, and 16.