Are These the Things We Want From Our Guys/Gals? What Do You Think of This List?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

#4 is questionable but sure, the rest are all noble goals to achieve with a partner.

I posted this question in another group @Cutiebeauty suggested I post it here for a better response.

Nukdookum comments on Dec 14, 2018:

I know this may come as a surprise but women are people too. They are as varied and individualistic as men are. There is no "formula" that women are looking for in a dominant man. Your best bet, rather than doing research online, is to use FetLife to find a local Meetup and go meet people who are dominant. You need to know what YOU are into and focus on learning those skills. As an example I have many friends in the local BDSM community. One friend is known pretty well for his open handed spanking technique. He has women lining up to be spanked. I have another friend who loves bondage and suspension. He too has women lining up to be tied. Different women like different things. Needless and piercing also an area that some people like and others do not. When it comes to the power dynamic of actually being in a D/s or M/s relationship @brainyactress hit on the more salient points but your sub is going to want to play in addition to being part of that power dynamic. What types of play you are skilled at will determine which subs will want to be in a relationship with you.

Here is a thought.......where do we learn about oral sex.......and develop a "taste" for it?

Nukdookum comments on Jan 27, 2019:

I have always liked the feeling of different textures on my lips. I realize that the lips and tongue are the second most sensitive part of my body. Performing oral sex and kissing have always been much more pleasurable to me than intercourse. I love all sorts of sensory inputs so it makes perfect sense to me that I would develop a "taste" for oral sex.

To me (or for that matter, to any rational minds), religion is another form of superstition which ...

Nukdookum comments on Jul 10, 2018:

I think it is the fear of oblivion that makes people want to hope in an afterlife. When I was 20 I recall having a conversation with my 40 something boss. He asked about my beliefs and I was straight with him. He asked if I feared death. I did not, I was twenty, death was the furthest thing from my mind. I asked why he wanted to know. His reply was that if I didn't believe in an after-life did the thought of ceasing to exist scare me? It's nothing, why is that scary? Furthermore, if I'm right, I won't know. I explained that the nothingness of before I was born wasn't scary so why should the nothingness of after I'm gone scare me? I'm now older and don't like the fact that my knowledge will be lost. That everything I've learned over the years is seemingly for nothing if indeed there is nothing after this. I can certainly understand why the human condition, upon nearing death, is comforted by the idea of a heaven.

Hmm. I wonder about my influences sometimes...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 14, 2018:

I wanted Velma, but a tied up red head looks pretty good to me too.

Women can be sooooo...cruel !

Nukdookum comments on Sep 4, 2018:

Hopefully someone will be so kind to me over day.

Instead of Valentine's Day ❤?

Nukdookum comments on Jan 20, 2019:

Oh yeah! And Junezies, and August-ween.

EDIT; There. That’s better! ?

Nukdookum comments on Jan 20, 2019:

I love those long sessions. Feeling the tension build then release. Being gentle while she recuperates and continuing to give orgasms for as long as she can stand it. I hope your FWB can help you out sooner rather than later. I know how frustrating that situation can be.

How strong IS your relationship?

Nukdookum comments on Feb 12, 2019:

Oh yeah. This would be fun. An interesting social experiment. As long as you have been honest, it shouldn't matter.

Self-love is important for us singles.???

Nukdookum comments on Sep 12, 2018:

Pretty much. Though one day..maybe I'll have someone to talk to at 3am who can help comfort me.

If two hearts are meant to be together☺?

Nukdookum comments on Jan 30, 2019:

That's a beautiful sentiment but I don't believe in fate, destiny, or any universal "design" theories. In life random shit happens. If we wait long enough, randomly something beautiful will happen in our lives.

Guten Morgen! Hope everyone has a good start into the week.

Nukdookum comments on Feb 4, 2019:

As long as someone else put together the presentation, I can stand in front of it and gesture with feeling while I talk about it for 40 minutes.

Men and women What's the oldest age limit and what's the youngest age limit of a relationship that ...

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I like the rule of thumb "half plus seven". It seems to work pretty well. For me that works out to lower limit 32. I've dated a 32 year old friend and while it was comfortable I found that we were in different life journey places. My preference is 35+ On the upper limit that works out to 90. Now I dont really think I have much in common with anyone over 70 but who knows. All I ask is that their libido match mine and we have some common interests.

Time to get ready to go somewhere and cry.

Nukdookum comments on Dec 14, 2018:

What an emotional day you have. Hopefully it ends on a positive note.

Your first words are????

Nukdookum comments on Jan 9, 2019:

Was it as good for you as it was for me?

Is it just me, or do many on social media these days seem to be a bunch of overly-sensitive, easily ...

Nukdookum comments on Oct 28, 2018:

Trolls like to stir up trouble.

Absolutely.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 21, 2018:

Guilty as charged!

I have been trying to figure out if I should post this and let alone where to put my dating life in ...

Nukdookum comments on Dec 2, 2018:

I'm curious. You said that the bunny onesie on Notes was the sexiest thing you saw all night. My question is this was sexier than the two topless women making out on the bed? It's ok if that is the case. I recently saw a seriously sexy shark onesie so I know those can be sexy.

Thunderstorms rolled in around 9:30 last night, so I unplugged everything and went to sleep.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 31, 2018:

I love it when my mind is actively solving problems while I sleep and wakes me up when it finds a solution!

You can't change how people ......?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 31, 2018:

This was such a paradigm shift when I first learned it.

Oops! I think Mommy's in deep trouble.

Nukdookum comments on May 9, 2019:

Looks like her pants are still on. Great idea but I'm not buying it.

Look we all.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 22, 2018:

Personally I like it when she's laying face down flat on the bed, legs together. I straddle her legs and push my cock between her thighs and down into her pussy. I can use my knees to keep her legs together increasing the pressure of her thighs on me as I slide slowly in and out. This also gives me a wonderful view of her ass and back. I will give oral for as long as she can take it but this is by far my favorite position

When did you first realize you were deviant?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 27, 2018:

Like in the second grade. We would talk about playing doctor and I noticed that what the other kids wanted to do was not what I wanted to do, so I quickly learned to lie and say similar things while keeping the "non standard" shit to myself.

I love her curves, colors and her outfit. I wonder where she got it ...

Nukdookum comments on May 1, 2019:

Oh yeah. That outfit does look great on her. If you find out where she got it, I want to know too.

This involves guns and many of you may be against anything I say after guns, that is fine.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 16, 2018:

After reading all of the comments it sounds like you have eliminated any and all of the suggestions I would have made. It also sounds like you have made up your mind about what to do so just do that. Nothing I say here will change your mind so do whatever it is that you have planned and get it over with.

i enjoy privacy for personal grooming.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 18, 2018:

I respect boundaries. If my partner needs space and privacy to do certain things and not others then I will respect those boundaries and keep to myself. For my part, once I've opened myself up to a partner they know intimate details about me. Once we've had sex they know what my body looks like and the sounds that are made doing it. If we've reached that level of intimacy then I don't have any problem sharing space with my partner during any other natural body functions or maintenance activities. My master bath has two sinks but that is mostly to insure that my stuff can sit on my counter next to my sink and their stuff can sit on the other counter, not so I can spy on them while they floss. The toilet has its own door so that can be shut without stopping my partner from getting ready at the sink.

Corrected: The answer is B.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 19, 2018:

I was young and curious once. I'm still curios but not so young anymore. Back when I was a young man I thought there was a formula, some secret sequence of moves or activities that would unlock pleasure in a woman. Silly me, I know. One day I was playing a game online and made some flippant comment about sex to a fellow player. She revealed that she wouldn't know because she was a lesbian. Right..ok so now I had to ask. So what is it that women like? How do I please a woman? I wanted to know the trick to making my partner happy!. Her response was another question: "What do men like?". It depends, some men are different...yup I had made a fatal error in thinking that all women were just a carbon copy. Man did I have a lot to learn. That simple conversation I had opened up the world to me. I realized that on order to be a good lover I needed to use my empathy skills, skills I hadn't developed and which were sorely in need of a boost. Over time I have fine tuned those skills focusing on her heart beat, her breathing, the temperature of her skin, the way her muscles tense or relax under my hands or pressed against my body, the way she moves grinding into me or pulling away. For me now it is impossible to ignore these signals, the joy of experiencing all of this communication during sex is far too great for me to not :listen" to what her body is telling me. Now that I have embraced being bisexual, I use those same signals to understand what he is telling me was well. Oh yeah, and if they are vocal that helps too.

Seems all my online dating profiles, except this one, are on fire right now.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 11, 2018:

Congrats!

I just don't see why people don't get it.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

People have been conditioned for the past 50 years that weed is bad. I dislike that this is a black and white issue for them, they can't see the difference between weed and heroine. I do agree, we need to point to Colorado and show how that social experiment has gone so well.

You look across a crowded room and you spot an attractive woman; your clairvoyant spider sense sends...

Nukdookum comments on Apr 4, 2019:

I'll answer with a question of my own. "A woman looks across a crowded room and spots you an attractive man; her clairvoyant spider sense sends a tingle down her spine, and she's SURE: Ethical Slut. She goes through her mental data base for intel on best ways to make a man's acquaintance...Da*n! Nothing. Just old files on conventional, ordinary, patriarchally-programmed men. She needs help. What do you tell her?" For me the answer to that question varies from day to day. It depends upon how my day has been this far. If I've had a bad day "You look down, care to talk about it?" would be better. If I've had a good day "What are you celebrating? May I buy you a drink?" is a better approach. It also depends upon where I'm at, movie theater lobby, dancing club, sex club, private party, restaurant. Each of those venues would make the approach different. Dance club or sex club a more direct approach would work because I'm there to participate so I'd they are looking to dance they should say so. The other places I'm likely involved in friends or conversation so something has to really be spectacular to take me away from my friends and focus on you. It also depends upon what I sense your motivation to be, despite the words you use, the clothes you wear, or how attracted I am to you, your body language, the tone of your voice, that twinkle in your eye, or the smell of your cologne are more informative to me. I saw you come in the door ten minutes ago. You're attractive so I noticed. I saw the way you dismissed the hostess at the door as if she was beneath you. I watched as you chose not to tip the bartender. I saw you look over the crowd and finally settle on me. As you approach I notice how confident you are and how you carry yourself. I'm looking at the way you move, translating that into whether I think you'll move well in bed. When you get closer I can smell the cologne mixed with your persperation and my pheromone receptors are kicking in either in favor or against you. I've already made an evaluation of your character even before you've opened your mouth.

What's your favorite burger place?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 3, 2018:

Village Burger

In you opinion and in your experience, what is important to you when you are intimate with your ...

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I am going to go with "Satisfaction". If we have gotten to the intimate part then communication has happened and is continuing to happen regularly. The most important thing for me is that we are both satisfied with the results of said intimacy. Yup, takes communication to ask and share that information so that becomes a close second. I'm not just talking orgasms here. Sometimes, well most of the time that is the goal of intimacy, but it could also be snuggling and bonding. Communicating what each others goals are in that moment, and making sure those goals are achieved is what is important to me.

Took @Cutiebeauty 's suggestion and took around 7cm / 3 inches. What do you guys think?

Nukdookum comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Looks great!

E does equal MC squared, since I was 50 time has passed much faster than before, anybody else ...

Nukdookum comments on May 17, 2019:

Days don't get shorter. You just don't stop to smell the roses anymore.

Sharing coolness! [m.facebook.com]

Nukdookum comments on Aug 17, 2018:

Yes please! I really love Midori's workshops and classes. This is an area that I am wanting to explore next, now I just need to find a good model to practice my ties on.

I just left a relationship that has consumed me for almost two and a half years.

Nukdookum comments on Feb 12, 2019:

I'm so sorry to hear this. Trust never comes easy. In time you will learn how to trust again, and with that love too will be possible.

Right side up or upside down... He's hot no matter how you look at him.

Nukdookum comments on Dec 7, 2018:

I do prefer the upside down version myself. But yes, hot either way.

A couple ideas for your yard.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 27, 2018:

I don't know if I could actually sleep in my house if that girl were in my front yard.

Going on 6 hour delay at DFW trying to get Home.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 13, 2018:

I hope you get home quickly and safely.

Leave your past in the past ?

Nukdookum comments on Dec 3, 2018:

Great advice

This is what I was curious about when I was stoned this morning.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 19, 2018:

No it wouldn't. I do believe that nature seeks a balance, so the earth is going to survive, the question is will we do something about it so that humans can survive too?

Question of the day: manicures.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 14, 2018:

I love it! I tend to comment on manicures and pedicures when I see fresh ones. For me it isn't about the imagery wrapped around a penis. It is telling me something about you. Folks that get manicures professionally have taken time from their day and paid more than $20 on something that isn't necessary for survival. They are either taking pride in their appearance, taking time to feel good (hand and foot massages come with most mail services), or they want to feel pretty. I like to promote these things in others so I make sure to mention how much I like them when I see them. I do like non red colors (red, pink, burgundy) because they are less common. That blue is a really nice color on that skin tone. Don't get me wrong, reds can be spectacular and really draw the eye so I can appreciate them just as much but I like those who take the road less traveled. I myself have gotten manicures and pedicures for all of the reasons I listed above. I usually have my toes painted which always makes the girls giggle when I hand them the color I picked out. I have also had my nails painted for special events or parties but have always removed the color before returning to work. I don't want my coworkers to know what kind of a freak I am and start asking questions I don't want to answer. Work and personal life are separate in my world. I do try to keep my own nails well manicured, mostly because the hand massages are great.

I want a "coin-operated boy" for Valentine's Day. By the Dresden Dolls. [youtube.com]

Nukdookum comments on Feb 14, 2019:

This is probably my second favorite song in the world!

Tokens of affection...

Nukdookum comments on Jan 3, 2019:

Yes we do!

What is your fave type of Porn?

Nukdookum comments on Jan 14, 2019:

Live action porn.

What would you do??

Nukdookum comments on Aug 19, 2018:

Ask for a name. It's the polite thing to do.

Some of my waxplay.

Nukdookum comments on Oct 28, 2018:

That's showing pride in your work!

@admin When a post is either reported or when one of your nuns delete it, why don't we get a ...

Nukdookum comments on Mar 28, 2019:

I agree. Just because one person is offended does not mean that the material is indeed offensive. Perhaps a group of members, like I don't know the Senate, could vote and if 75% or more thought the post wasn't offensive then it could stay.

Has anyone here done electro , that is probably one of my favorites that I do.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 4, 2018:

I have tried it and I love it. I currently don't own a violet wand but I think that may be my Christmas present to myself. I also need to replace my tens unit.

Wow! 15 members over night! Thank you all for joining!

Nukdookum comments on Apr 4, 2019:

Thank you for making a place that we like.

I need to vent.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Hugs man. Life can be random and sometimes bad things happen to good people. The only thing I can suggest is that you surround yourself with some great friends who will support you when life takes a turn for the worse. Finding happiness is the way that I fight back against the random bad things which occur in my life. I hope you are able to find your own font of happiness and support. Until then, if you need to talk to a sympathetic friend, pm me.

So if one has no desire to find a new relationship, does one ignore all those members who express a ...

Nukdookum comments on Sep 7, 2018:

One does as one pleases I would assume. If one has no desire to find a mate, then one simply chats with everyone like a normal person would. If someone approaches you wanting a mate, then you gently remind them that you are not looking. Easy Peasy.

Happy Fri...?

Nukdookum comments on Feb 28, 2019:

I know. That's how I felt this morning.. This is a long week.

Well, do you?

Nukdookum comments on Dec 11, 2018:

I have never claimed to be innocent nor wholesome.

Men's issue: OK, we all seem to face some version of it - erectile dysfunction as we get ...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 27, 2018:

I currently have issues. Recently discovered the reason and am withing with my doctor to fix that. I'm hopeful that in the near future things will return to normal. That said, I have talked with potential partners when the date starts getting into serious "this might get to a point where clothes come off" territory that I do have issues, in fine with sticking to oral, and if penetration is a requirement then I can put a condom on any number of dildos that I have. In going to say that taking about my issue puts them at ease and taking about all of the other options tends to heat things up fairly quickly

Hey guys. What's your preference when it comes to dirty talk?

Nukdookum comments on Apr 11, 2019:

For me, it needs to be dirty and raunchy. Make me feel cheap.

I agree with this

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Yes. But there does need to be some consideration for the feelings of your partner. I may have an existing relationship with a woman who uses canes to give me pain. Because I'm totally nude when this happens and sometimes this activity is sexually charged even though no sex ever happens between us. If my partner is uncomfortable with my involvement with this woman then I, as a considerate and loving partner, need to stop until they are comfortable with the relationship.

Today's question: What bridges do you not regret burning?

Nukdookum comments on Jan 4, 2019:

Regret.. I am with you Mary. I am generous and patient almost to a fault. If I get to the point where I need to burn a bridge, that bridge is going to stay burnt. I occasionally wonder what my family is up to, I quit talking to them in 1996, but thankfully that feeling leaves me pretty quickly and there is no remorse over that decision.

How do you begin to be comfortable in your own skin?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I attend body positive events. I have a group of friends that occasionally do a "Naked Thursday" dinner party. It isn't about sex, just about getting comfortable with others seeing you naked in a non-sexual context. It is very liberating and humbling to see various body types and sizes represented and everyone is being respectful. There was one of these parties the week before Thanksgiving which I attended with a new friend. We both had a great time.

I just love this, Go Disney! :)

Nukdookum comments on Apr 10, 2019:

He was always my queen!

Happy Friday! May you all find some 1%.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 27, 2018:

I do like my partners with a bit more demon in them but I need at least 40% angel because my heart can't take more than 60% of the other stuff...

OK, some of you, it might be time to step up your game.

Nukdookum comments on Apr 2, 2019:

Next time I'll have to take video and compare it to the exorcist.

Someone sometimes❤

Nukdookum comments on Jul 17, 2018:

I've been in a place a few times where I am really not looking for the commitment of a romantic relationship but an occasional bout of physical intimacy is just what the doctor ordered. In those times I am more than welcome to be someone's sometimes. I just need them to know that this isn't a forever arrangement, that at any point in the future my needs may change which will mean this thing will end.

Does anyone find that healthy sexual expression and openness is currently taking a unfortunate hit ...

Nukdookum comments on Feb 21, 2019:

I surrounded myself with like minded people. As I am fond of saying, if you want cake you don't go to the butcher. I talk to people. I don't meet many interesting minded people at the grocery store but I have met some. Seek out sex positive events on your area and you will find people who are openly expressive about sex.

Accurate. ?

Nukdookum comments on Oct 13, 2018:

We all do I think. Most of us just get by.

Have you ever been deeply in love with someone and they felt the same and then one of you falls out ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 3, 2018:

I'm going with open and honest communication. I'm also going to add lack of conflict resolution skills which then leads to neglecting issues and ultimately resentment.

Pays to know what we are thirsting for.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Yeah, you gotta recognize lies just like you need to read the truth when necessary. Matters of the heart are difficult to navigate but with a little practice you can learn to make things work no matter what the situation.

Sexy and Naughty Girl

Nukdookum comments on Dec 18, 2018:

Mmm. I like steam punk!

Family emergency going on.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 30, 2018:

I think my relationship with my mother sucks. I had to cut ties because of stupid drama and I'm ok with that. I wish it could be better but I have tried in the past to repair it and all I get is more drama and justification for it.

Is it flesh or fantasy?

Nukdookum comments on Dec 5, 2018:

I know someone who I would totally buy this outfit for if they would send me a picture of them wearing it. Just sayin'

Ok chatroom...here I am...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 13, 2018:

Sadly it appears the chatroom is closed for now. Insomniacs might still be open!

Hugging matters ?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 13, 2018:

Hugs are almost spiritual.

What do you do when you are smitten with someone that lives in a town that isn't yours and you want ...

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

Use your words.

This Quiz Will Reveal Just How Kinky You Are [buzzfeed.com]

Nukdookum comments on Feb 15, 2019:

Pretty much what I expected. You Got: 91% kinky! You're so kinky, this list is probably looking very vanilla to you right now. You've got a lot of tricks up your sleeve and you're something of a kink expert. Christian Grey's got nothing on you!

She Wants Too Much

Nukdookum comments on Aug 29, 2018:

Sometimes we are our own worse enemies.

Good morning! Thank you for the well wishes yesterday! Doing much better today and going back to ...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 30, 2018:

More coffee is the solution to many of life's problems.

We once discussed who should pay for a first date.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I usually try to get the check simply because that's who I am. I do try to be considerate of what my date's price point is and will offer to pay when I invite them to a more expensive place than they can reasonably afford. When the date is at a place we can both afford, if they want to grab the check, I will thank them graciously.

Good morning! It was a long busy weekend at the Toastmasters conference, and we had a great time ...

Nukdookum comments on May 20, 2019:

Being there for someone when they need you.

There's something so sexy to me in the imagery of a fingertip delicately circling and teasing a ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 8, 2018:

Why yes. Yes I can imagine it! The smell of excitement slowly getting stronger. The feel of soft skin under my fingertip rubbing across the tiny ridges of my fingerprint, the blood rushing to it as the nerve endings become hyper sensitive from my focused attention. Passing under the clit I feel my fingertip cool ever so slightly as it gets wet, sliding easily up and around as it spreads the natural lubricant. I can see the labia puffing up as they become more and more sensitive. I hear a soft moan echo off the headboard and I feel hips move to press against my finger as I pass under the clit again in a feeble attempt to trick me into inserting. I grin and smack the ass with my left hand, satisfied at the loud crack followed almost immediately by the sharp intake of breath and the reluctant relaxation of the hips, knowing that my command will not be ignored again. I can feel my erection pushing against my trousers but I ignore that pleasurable sensation because my focus is on HER and I cannot be distracted. I continue to circle, slowly, methodically, watching her muscles quiver as she fights to maintain her current posture. I can now smell the more pugnant odor of her excitement, the wetness under my fingertip getting much more viscous and slippery as it continues it's leisurely orbit around what must certainly be the center of her universe right now. This new perfume triggers a primal instinct in my brain and I can feel my mouth begin to water as my desire for her continues to grow. I try to ignore those desires, preferring to focus on her own reactions and slow buildup as I prolong this moment for a long as I dare...

When theists try to tell you why you should believe in god.

Nukdookum comments on Dec 23, 2018:

I usually wait until they finish and then explain to them why I don't need the threat of eternal punishment in order to be nice to people. If they start to complain I ask just how much murdering and raping they want to do but are stopping themselves from doing because they want to get into heaven.

I'm trying the guy-liner look today. What do you think? Any tips?

Nukdookum comments on Dec 22, 2018:

I'd kiss you!

So.

Nukdookum comments on Dec 6, 2018:

It should tell you that he is only 46% of the way there...he should be 39 to be 100%.

i need to vent.

Nukdookum comments on Jan 11, 2019:

So sorry to hear this. I hope you can reconcile with your dad.

My insomnia had been a little better now.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 28, 2018:

I hope you find ways to fall asleep. Lack of sleep can be devastating.

You look across a crowded room and you spot an attractive woman; your clairvoyant spider sense sends...

Nukdookum comments on Apr 4, 2019:

I tell him that being an ethical slut she has had sex a lot. She knows what she wants and more importantly what she doesn't want. Because she has sex a lot, she doesn't feel the need to have sex with you just to "break a dry spell" as it were. Because she is an ethical slut she has been approached more times than you can imagine so don't try any bullshit lines on her, she's heard them all. Hopefully you've studied her body language and non verbal communication with the three guys that have approached her since you've noticed her. Take those cues and determine if you have what she's looking for. If you think you might have some of those qualities, then go introduce yourself.

Hi gang just a curious questions for men & women what are you looking for in eachother in a ...

Nukdookum comments on Dec 24, 2018:

Mutual respect, passion, and support.

If only this were real.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 8, 2018:

I could use their services.

Happy Holidays....

Nukdookum comments on Dec 13, 2018:

Now that is right up my alley! Or maybe I want to be right up her alley.

Love is not only made for lovers?❤

Nukdookum comments on Feb 21, 2019:

Yes. This is my criteria for defining friends. I have coworkers that I like to hang out with outside of work. Those aren't friends. I have acquaintances that I enjoy talking to and having over for dinner. Those aren't friends. My friends are those people who I love as if they were family. I call them my "chosen" family.

Good morning, everyone! Here's today's question, and it's a loaded one (at least for me): How ...

Nukdookum comments on Jan 17, 2019:

A year ago I was working a job that I liked in a comfortable position where I was appreciated. I was living alone and just coasting through life trying to be the best me possible. In June I was offered a sizeable severance package which I took advantage of. Later that month I had what I would call a spiritual moment which changed my perspective on life. In August I was offered a position making 20% more than I was before which was fortuitous and I was high on life with new prospects everywhere. September kinda sucked but by November I was back on top of the world loving life and all of the new friends that I had made because of my paradigm shift. One even turned out to be a pretty great fit for me and I think I will keep her. Hopefully she chooses to stick around, I am housebroken...sort of. Despite the state of the government my life is so much more interesting and full of joy now.

The poignant ghostly (wire sculptures) soldiers silently standing over their graves in the St John's...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 12, 2018:

Amazing!

Who else likes hairpulling?

Nukdookum comments on Sep 13, 2018:

I like it too. Both being pulled and pulling. Of course there is a difference between trying to hurt and just being forceful about what you want..

"Sexual Deviant", how is this group defining it?

Nukdookum comments on Dec 28, 2018:

I define "mainstream" as anythingi can talk to my co-workers about during lunch. Anything I don't feel comfortable sharing at the office is "deviant".

Well I am officially at level 6.

Nukdookum comments on Sep 4, 2018:

I hope you find your pimp. I thought I found mine but he wanted too high a percentage.

All amateurs

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

I dunno. That second one looks like she knows a thing or two.

Good morning! Today's question is: For what in you life do you feel most grateful?

Nukdookum comments on May 9, 2019:

I am most grateful for my intuition and ability to learn things by self-taught methods. That has given me so many opportunities that I wouldn't have had.

Or maybe, you're more aroused by besmirching something perfect and pure?

Nukdookum comments on Dec 5, 2018:

Yeah. Very beautiful image but I can't bring myself to corrupt. I do like someone who can play the pure innocence role when necessary but I need someone who can match my dark desires.

This makes me so sad. And angry for those women who see themselves as dependent on men. [nyti.ms]

Nukdookum comments on Oct 12, 2018:

My heart goes out to those who have just given up and think that it is their place to be mistreated by men. I can't make them see the light, but I can still care about their well being while they live in the darkness.

Question 9: For what in your life do you feel most grateful?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 13, 2018:

I am most grateful that I have a strong Constitution. I rarely get sick, I don't have any debilitating diseases, I lead a fairly healthy life without having to work too hard to maintain it. I am glad that both my hair and complexion haven't given me any real difficulties over the years. I am thankful every day that I can dress myself, I can walk to my car, and drive myself to work. That seemingly small thing is huge when you can't do it.

Sometimes ?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

I agree. Some people are never happy. Other times it's about a deal breaker like being into some sick BDSM stuff and it doesn't matter how nice, caring, loving, it kind I am, they just can't deal with my more intense proclivities.