Oh Yeah! I see it!

Nukdookum comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Is his name "Horse"?

Blondie in real life...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Very nice. I like the this I've even if I can't see her butt.

There is beauty in life...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

That is awesome! I love this picture

Now to find someone to Dance with....any takers?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Tribute!

Does it matter?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

My ideal threesome involves my, my partner, and a third person of whatever gender. Nope. It doesn't matter.

Be proud of it

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Whew. This one's for ladies. I don't have to play show and tell.

All amateurs

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

I dunno. That second one looks like she knows a thing or two.

Does anyone ever have sexually erotic dreams so intense that when you wake up to real life it seems ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

When that happens I always want to go back to sleep and find out how it ends. Sadly even when I have fallen asleep the dream doesn't continue.

From Thanksgiving on.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Die Hard!

How many people are on here are from the South ?? Or is it only me brave enough to stay here 😂!

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Atlanta.

What are these doing here?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Oh YUM. I like that!

As we age, we deviants have experienced a lot.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

I want to say everything. All of the things that I have experienced which I found titillating after trying them still make me excited today. There is one thing however that gets me more excited than anything else. Reciprocated affection. When someone wants me as much as I want them, that turns me on more than being bitten.

Sometimes ?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

I agree. Some people are never happy. Other times it's about a deal breaker like being into some sick BDSM stuff and it doesn't matter how nice, caring, loving, it kind I am, they just can't deal with my more intense proclivities.

Where do you draw the line?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Half plus seven. I'm 53. 26.5+7= 33.5. 33 is the youngest I'll go. 53-7=46; 46*2=92. 53 is half plus seven for 92 so that would be the upper limit. Realistically I want someone who is in the same place in their life as I am. I'm looking to retire in another ten to fifteen years. If there is someone younger who is planning an early retirement or who perhaps has the ability to travel with me even though they are still working then that age is entirely appropriate and would be considered as a possible long term relationship for me. What I've found is that I have commonalities with people who are within 15 years of me. 38-68.

Idiot Xstian pastor gets bitten by rattlesnake because he thought Dog would protect him even though ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

My opinion is to let people live their lives as they want unless they are endangering other people. If someone kills themselves because they were doing something stupid that is their prerogative. Forcing someone to conform to my own belief system just because it sounds stupid me is exactly what some Christians are doing to society and neither of those things is ok.

SOPHISTRY - Noun.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Another new word!

does anyone have experience with corset piercings?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 28, 2018:

I've watched them being done. I know some folks personally that do them. I do not have any experience myself.

You're woken up in the middle of the night by burglars in your home.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Shower hair!

Hello, all! Thanksgiving! When I think of the holiday, it is a sense of being grateful for all the ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 27, 2018:

It does make sense. Search for your partner and never lose hope. Somewhere they are searching for you...

Question 21: What roles do love and affection play in your life?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Love plays a significant role in my life. I seek out emotional connections with people. Experiencing a connection with another human being is simply magical. Those whom I count as friends get all of my love, respect, and admiration. I want to make the world a better place. I can't change the world like Nicola Tesla, Galileo, or even Freddy Mercury did. What I can do is to make the lives of those who I come into contact with just a little bit better. To that end I try to insure that each and every interaction, no matter how small, is filled with love and joy so that those people walk away with a smile or a better outlook on life. For me love is everything that I do for others because I want them to be happy. Ultimately if the world is filled with happy people then my world is a happier place to be Affection towards others is a part of that, but there is also a bit of selfishness involved. I make people happy. I like the look on their face when they realize the effort that I've put into making them happy or the effort I've saved them because they didn't have to do the chore. That smile and sometimes hug that comes with my spreading of happiness is my reward. I crave the satisfaction of those moments. I like to be touched and held. I like to touch and hold in return. If and when I find a worthy partner, they will have to get used to the love and affection that I have for them and, hopefully, also accept the love and affection that I show my friends without being jealous. That should be easy since they will get the Lion's share of my love and affection.

It has always been my desire to have 2 woman that that are bi and keep it between the 3 of us!

Nukdookum comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Pictures or it didn't happen.

MAWKIT.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 27, 2018:

My mind is Bogging.

Anyone in this group had to look for a new job lately?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

I recently took severance pay to look for a new job rather than find something internal. I'm now working as a consultant for a bit more money than I was making before. The job is more stressful but I can handle it. Searching for a job is painful at my age but I got lucky.

Max Reimelt from Sense 8.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

He is my favorite character.

Just saying hi

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Hello there

I'm BACK!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Question 20: What does friendship mean to you?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

To me there are levels: Acquaintances: Those people that you run into occasionally with whom you have a cordial relationship with. They are people that you interact with while taking care of errands and other things which must get done. Many coworkers fall into this category. Also, for me the cashiers with whom I see regularly enough that we can talk about major events in our lives. These types of "friends" are more than just small talk. We actually talk about how our holidays went or how excited we might be for new romance on the horizon. They get into the first level of personal information with me. Vacation plans, life events, changes in my daily routine, possible advice for upcoming or ongoing issues that we may be facing. There is a large contingent of people whom I've met on the internet but haven't met face to face that also fall into this category. Friends: These are people that I actually want to spend my free time with. We meet outside of the tasks which must be done and enjoy each other's company in a casual setting. Some of my co-workers, ex-coworkers whom I've kept in contact with, and social media friends that I've actually met in person all fall into this category. These folks get into the second level. Details about things I've seen or experienced while on vacation. Books and movies that I've found interesting and think they might also enjoy. Interesting observations about humanity. Political views. Names and PG-13 details about my life and those I choose to spend time with. Chosen Family: These people are friends that I feel disconnected with if I've not heard from them for more than a month. I will actively inquire after and seek out in order to catch up. They have access to to even deeper knowledge of who I am as a person. We discuss hopes and dreams that we each might have and can openly talk about our feelings. There are the people with whom I would do anything for. If they needed $500 no questions asked, I would lend it to them and trust that they will pay me back when they are able. I often refer to these people as "my tribe". Close Friends: These are friends with whom o share a special bond. They have access to most of the intimate details of my life. I can be vulnerable with these people and they can be vulnerable with me. There is a level of trust between us that allows that vulnerability to happen wherever necessary. These people know where all of my bodies are buried and I know theirs. There is literally nothing that I wouldn't do for these friends. I have their back and they have mine. They say that blood is thicker than water but I trust these friends more than I trust my blood relatives. Life Partner: The person who achieves this level of intimacy has access to all of my intimate details. They are the ...

Thinking Ahead? Is it Really Like This? Is That All There is in a Relationship?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

For me it's about the hips and ass. I only give boobies a passing thought once a week.

What are your thoughts about the attractiveness of pregnant women?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

I have a folder dedicated this subject in my spank bank. Hopefully that explains my view on the subject.

Honestly missionaries are evil.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

That's how I see it!

Someday I’m going to learn this lesson.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Uncommunicated expectations. If I've been up front with my expectations and those who I'm expecting things from communicate well, there are a lot less heartaches. It's when I have an expectation that I assume is known or that I've simply forgotten to communicate that things go horribly wrong. Edit: I have found that by communicating my expectations we can both agree on them or make adjustments so that they become realistic goals that can be met and therefore become realistic expectations. You can have high expectations, just communicate them to keep them realistic.

Wilding Warrior Woman Your ride is here I am your vehicle chauffeur and bodyguard Dear So just ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Nice art. Reminds me of Boris Vallejo, guessing Boris got his inspiration from Frank.

Now what? (Obligatory 10 characters).

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

The frame needs to be straight, the picture should match reality.

Why I can't see pics post here..? It always appear like this

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Looks like a browser setting that prevents you from viewing pictures.

I was trying to tell my teenager a joke.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Herpes only hurts when it's present and visible.

I'm having trouble with my sex drive and chances to enjoy sex before entering my sixties , advice ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I hear there's a pill for that.

Sole Sister

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Nice.

How ugly did you say?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Grab two. I should wear one in case his falls off.

This is only my 7th day with this group.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

You are most welcome.

I know that a post criticizing the sexy pics group was removed from here.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

So just my two cents. There is a group on this site specifically for body positivity. Join that group and block the ones that you don't care to look at. I find most of those pictures to be very nice but my ideal isn't the size two models that are mostly depicted in those posts. I like a rounder more full body on my women and a more natural softer body on my men. I also think that looking at pictures of thinner men and women is pleasing so I participate in that activity as well. Do what makes you happy and surround yourself with those who you like to spend time with. Let's not demonize others for the things which make them happy. We don't have to look if we don't like a thing and shouldn't stop anyone else unless it is actively harming people.

Hi .

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I can't help. You need to talk to a professional. I've had dry spells that have lasted a year or two. The issue is trust and to fix that you need someone with more experience to help you with that.

For those who love shibari rope binding.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I saw this the other day when I was doing research. These are some amazing images.

I had to post this obviously.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I assume that Dr. Strange is cut having been a surgeon and a wealthy American before he became the wizard. Of course this is all just fun and hypothesis so perhaps he was from a less rigid family.

Anal Sex: For You Men.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Sex is fun. There are many ways to enjoy it. This is just one of the many ways that I choose to receive pleasure from my partner whether that partner is man or woman, using their own body or a toy, I love the feeling of someone making me feel pleasure.

Any way!!! Idris Elba

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

This is a very sexy man.

He throws a tantrum and then calls me a cow and tells me I need permission to speak.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Similar thing happen on this website too. It's not limited to Facebook, it's a social media thing.

Because I've missed you and you've been good. Raquel Reed. ♥ [youtu.be]

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Thank you for introducing this to me.

What's your favorite pain?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

All pain that is caused consensually is good pain for me. My favorite is of course from a good caning. Sitting Immediately afterwards feels wonderfully uncomfortable. The next day sitting gives me a dull pain which reminds me of the happiness I experienced getting those stripes. Over the next couple of days the deeper welts randomly twinge with pain when I sit or move. Each time it brings a smile to my face. Muscle aches after a great session of sex is good. When I've fucked so much that my penis is raw is even better. Thinking about my lover causing an erection the next day rubs across the cotton fibers which feel like sand paper and hurt oh so good. Teeth and biting. The next day when I sling my backpack over my left shoulder on the way to work which hangs weight over that bite mark and hurts with every step as the weight of my laptop digs into my shoulder irritating that place where teeth left their reminder the day before. Every time I step with my right leg and the fabric of my slacks rubs across the aching bite on my thigh. I can think of other situations but these are enough to give you an idea.

Hi,everyone,my name is Adrian,I live in Plymouth,England, I have been single for over 10 years ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

We talk about religion all the time. Here we talk about it rationally though, never as an absolute truth. Welcome. I hope you find what you are looking for.

PRURIENT.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Thank you so much for reminding me of these infrequently used words.

Question 18: What is your most terrible memory?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

When I was 17 I got in a fight with a girl I was dating. I said some things out of anger that we designed to hurt her and had nothing to do with the fight. I recall getting home after that fight and feeling horrible at how those things must have made her feel. That night I vowed to myself that I would never allow myself to get so caught up in myself that I didn't respect someone else enough to want to hurt them out of spite. I have basically deducted my life to learning how to embrace empathy, compassion, and own my feelings so that I didn't hurt anyone on purpose. I hated that guy I was at 17. Thankfully I have been able to choose a better path for myself and will never be that guy again.

Good morning.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Yes. I love the way my life is going right now but I would make some minor changes. I would rape my retirement fund and take two or three really nice vacations to exotic places around the world. I would take out an extensive life insurance policy so that when that fateful day arrived my partner would be taken care of for the rest of her life. There is also someone who stole my heart but it didn't work out between us. I would do everything I could to spend one glorious weekend at a cabin with that person just to see what loving her would have been like. After that weekend my life would be dedicated to my partner and my friends in much the way that it is right now.

You wanna go for a dip?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Yes. I would dip into her anytime she wanted me to.

Is everyone all right here?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I'm doing pretty good. My social life is picking up and I don't spend as much time on social media because I'm too busy being social.

Welcome Philippe78.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Welcome

Any Outlander fans?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I liked the first season. I haven't watched the rest of it.

While you might roll your eyes over this now, wait 10 years and see if it isn't true.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Intimate relationship, sure I could. I will always prefer the human element which will be unpredictable yet extremely familiar. I don't think AI will advance enough in my lifetime to mimic that.

Take me as I am ??

Nukdookum comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Yes. This is awesome.

We can post sexy men here too right?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Yes. We should post sexy men wherever we can!

Ever try a Turducken?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I've had a couple of those nights. They will never be discussed again.

Are These the Things We Want From Our Guys/Gals? What Do You Think of This List?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

#4 is questionable but sure, the rest are all noble goals to achieve with a partner.

How about these?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Now we're talking!

The creation of a new church with upgraded nun habits... Will you believe now?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Take me to church..though I'd break that. I need something more sturdy.

We once discussed who should pay for a first date.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I usually try to get the check simply because that's who I am. I do try to be considerate of what my date's price point is and will offer to pay when I invite them to a more expensive place than they can reasonably afford. When the date is at a place we can both afford, if they want to grab the check, I will thank them graciously.

Sitting in my empty but peaceful house on a lazy, rainy Saturday.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I am searching for my book on rope tying. I must have misplaced it and now I need it desperately.

I am so grossed out by what is on dating sites.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I have conversations all the time. Of course it is difficult to have them. I normally have about 6 conversations with unresponsive or single phrase responses for before I find someone willing to actually chat.

Silence can be golden

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Silence is golden but Duct Tape is silver!

Question 17: What is your most treasured memory?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I have had a few really great memories lately but one of my oldest fond memories, one that I have cherished for over 30 years. Patti and I were good friends from middle school. Our junior year in high school we decided to see if we'd make a good couple. We went on dinner dates a couple of times during the week and hung out at lunch. The following Saturday we planned to go to the park and take a walk in the wooded area along the river. I drove and we parked in the parking lot. There were families who had brought picnic fixings and were relaxing with their children on the grass at the entrance to the park. Patti and I walked about 10 minutes down the path and stopped at a picnic bench to kiss. Some runners came by and we wanted some more privacy so we walked another 20 minutes down the path. This far in there was less foot traffic so we picked a secluded spot next to another picnic bench and were kissing and touching each other. It was a going great but the weather had turned and it began to rain. We could have made a run for the car but we just looked at each other and smiled. "It is just water, so what. We'll get wet" was the message we read in each other's eyes. We hung out in the rain, kissing and holding each other as we slowly became drenched. We walked leisurely back down the park path, holding hands, grinning stupidly, and letting the rain run down our faces and soak our clothes. Occasionally stopping to kiss, feeling the cool of the raindrops on her lips, then the warmth of her tongue and mouth. It was such an intoxicating feeling of euphoria which when juxtaposed over the ugly weather made it seem that much more enjoyable. A week later and we both determined that we liked each other better as friends than as lovers, so we went back to being just friends. I saw Patti over the next few years even after leaving school. We never revisited the physical intimacy of those 10 days but I still remember that day in the rain so many years ago with fondness.

How do you begin to be comfortable in your own skin?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I attend body positive events. I have a group of friends that occasionally do a "Naked Thursday" dinner party. It isn't about sex, just about getting comfortable with others seeing you naked in a non-sexual context. It is very liberating and humbling to see various body types and sizes represented and everyone is being respectful. There was one of these parties the week before Thanksgiving which I attended with a new friend. We both had a great time.

Georges St. Pierre ?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Best damn fighter I've ever seen. He looks great but his voice makes me lose interest.

Silly sexual question I heard on the radio.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I would think she were pretty damn cool. I am pretty sure she might have though we would have to define "lovers".

Lol part of me... only wishes he could have a happy and inappropriate Thanksgiving.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Mine was inappropriate. You are obviously hanging with the wrong crowd if you aren't getting what you want.

I’m not sure if any words are needed

Nukdookum comments on Nov 21, 2018:

Just one word "Yum"

Nachos..sex and happiness. Hopefully not in that order...??

Nukdookum comments on Nov 21, 2018:

I thought I saw "pain" and got happy but it was a J not an I. So I guess Dick, Nachos, and Crabs. I'm hoping the butter drenched crack em open type, not the invasive parasite type.

Not a bad tan for a redhead I think.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 21, 2018:

Yes. Pretty good really.

BEAUTIFUL,SENSUOUS, SEXY,(And I'm going to cheat more then just 4 words here).

Nukdookum comments on Nov 21, 2018:

Your bath is ready

We are all friends here!

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

If you're thinking what I'm thinking, then you're sicker than I thought! Sure we can be friends.

This is really a pretty innocent picture, but makes something stir never-the-less.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

She knows... That's what makes her sexy.

If you see a bulge do you glance or stare?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Glance. If he catches me I'll give him a knowing look and then stare appriciatively.

Hello all! As I'm sure you know, taking the high road on an issue does not in any way mean that ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

I don't think there is one standard answer that covers all things. It helps me to think about the value that I put on happiness and serenity in my life and compare that to the value of the thing which is bothering me. Invariably that which is causing stress has much less value than my happiness. I don't know what bothering you but here's an example. Someone who I thought was a friend violates my trust in a way that really makes me feel violated. I may obsess over why they did it. I may find myself wondering if I had paid attention could I have seen it coming and avoided the pain. I may even harbor hate and a desire for revenge. So if those feelings have to happen. I allow myself to be angry and hurt. Those feelings are natural and I can let them happen without trying to stifle them. Once I'm able to think logically again, I try to decide what benefit would there be for me if I did get revenge. What benefit would I have if I knew the answers to all of my questions. There is some amount of value in achieving those things. I then weigh that value against the cost those thoughts are having on my life, on those around me, on my friends and family. It is hard to let go. I know. I have had to let go of some things which were really important to me. But the cost of holding on is never worth the benefit gained were I to actually achieve the things running through my head causing the stress. I hope this helps.

I agree with this

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Yes. But there does need to be some consideration for the feelings of your partner. I may have an existing relationship with a woman who uses canes to give me pain. Because I'm totally nude when this happens and sometimes this activity is sexually charged even though no sex ever happens between us. If my partner is uncomfortable with my involvement with this woman then I, as a considerate and loving partner, need to stop until they are comfortable with the relationship.

Today I learned not to go on Match.com while on a narcotic for a migraine. Jeebus.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Sounds like good advice.

Found on OKC. Have mercy! :::swoons:::

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Yes. I could see myself doing this. I may have done it before.. I'm not telling. ?

Ugh.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Same

Would you date someone with herpes? Considering everything else about them was great...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Yes. I have had herpes since I was a child. Most folks call it "cold sores" but it is herpes. My mother is a nurse and I was well aware of the clinical name as young as I can remember. I have lived my life dealing with the occasional outbreak and the resultant avoidance of kissing and oral sex during those outbreaks. To me this is a very manageable disease that doesn't become debilitating. If someone I wanted to date had it in either form it wouldn't matter to me. The treatment is the same for either version. The health risk is the same for either version. The virus settles in the spine nearest where it came into contact with a mucus membrane, mouth, genitals, anus, are the typical locations where this happens. You cannot contract it twice. So having HSV1 in my mouth means I cannot get it in my genitals, my body has antibodies which stop that from happening. HPV and herpes are the most common STDs and within the sex positive communities are not seen as major issues though having them does carry a moral obligation to disclose that to potential partners. If everything else about that person was great there is no question in my mind. There are ways to avoid contracting it which involve using a barrier. That can continue indefinitely without me getting it. I love kissing too much and in the end I would insure that I got it on my face to prevent it from getting on my genitals. Once I was infected we could do away with the barriers. The happiness and fulfillment that comes with having a great partner to share my life with is worth any discomfort I might experience from the occasional cold sore outbreak.

Question 16: What do you value most in a friendship?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Honesty.

DREICH.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

I just want to take a week off, fly to Ireland, and spend the time talking with you.

To be honest I'm not into this but I like being on here it's fun and cool. So what do you think?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

If it were a surprise I would smile, turn to my host and begin negotiations, discussions of hard and soft limits, and what the goal of the session was. If instead I was aware of the proclivity of my date, all of those things would have been discussed prior and I would know exactly what was expected of me to do. I'm a switch so that might be to grab the cuffs and put them on or grab the flogger.

Hahaha Honest trailer for the show [youtu.be]

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

This is hilarious!

What are your thoughts on public nudity? Or nude resorts or clubs?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Resorts and clubs are great. Everyone there knows that nudity is going to happen and are ok with it. Public nudity is not ok in my opinion. I understand that some find it titillating but the "public" hasn't consented to seeing nudity which makes it wrong. Obviously sure might argue that the "public" should get over it, but I don't think anyone has the right to force their beliefs on anyone else. The public is free to disdain nudity if they choose.

NAME A KINK. New shenanigans. (Remember "kinky" is very flexible and subjective.)

Nukdookum comments on Nov 20, 2018:

Wow. I can't believe I've left out my own personal favorite. Caning.

What were the effects of communicating your feelings?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

It depends on how well you are at communicating your feelings. When I was younger I wasn't great at communication and was frequently unable to make any effective change in the relationship. As I matured I got better at communicating and problem solving should which has resulted in much better relationships.

Had a craving for red after the blond and brunette weekend.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

Very good looking photos.

I am a security guard in a pub.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

Men can be jerks sometimes.

I like dogs and I love women, cats are tolerated.

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

I'm relaxed. It's taking some time to get used to the other part.

If your heart hurts a little after letting go....?

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

This is true, no matter how much we may want them in our life forever, sometimes it just isn't meant to be.

It’s a fine line...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

This is how I feel. I would rather be alone and happy than in a marriage that is simply "adequate".

Boys will be.......hmmmmm....men !

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

Thankfully when I am not single my partner's usually encourage looking. It's nice to Foster freedom in a relationship so that you don't feel like your being oppressed. It makes me want to stay in the relationship even more when we can admire and share in the beauty that surrounds us.

My fear of being jaded and hurt when it comes to love and relationships is that I will lose that ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

It takes courage and strength but you can do it. I do it every day. I've been hurt and unfortunately I've also hurt people by ending relationships that weren't working for me. Some of those endings we very painful and it took Herculean effort of discipline to stand myself back up and make myself vulnerable all over again but I did it and it paid off. It always pays off in the end. I am here cheering you on. I know you've got this. If you every start to doubt, pm me. I'll regale you with stories of how wonderfully it can and will work for you if only you hold tightly to hope.

American Bandstand ??

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

I watched both this and Soul Train.

One fond memory of 50's and 60's - people often left their doors wide open on summer days and often ...

Nukdookum comments on Nov 19, 2018:

I live in the city, well a nice suburb. I usually keep my doors locked even when I am at home. If I am leaving the house for a trip to the supermarket or to get lunch I will leave the garage open and the garage door unlocked. I have also left the front door unlocked for various reasons over a couple of days.