Sunday at 11:30 am ?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 5, 2018:

Sigh. One day! Mmmm what a wonderful thought.

Erotic dreams.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 5, 2018:

Oh yeah! Sounds like a Tuesday for me. Thanks for sharing!

What is your favorite form of relief?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 5, 2018:

Friends... With benefits!

Please like this picture of my old Rolodex.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 5, 2018:

That looks like a container for 5 1/4" floppy disks. Your Rolodex isn't very rolly. Aren't they round?

Not that I’m into lactation, not anymore

Nukdookum comments on Aug 5, 2018:

I could be talked into lactation. I know that look.

I'd much rather laugh!

Nukdookum comments on Aug 5, 2018:

I like it.

Well you were right.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 5, 2018:

Ohh I never thought of this! I like it!

Seems quiet in these parts for a Saturday night. Whats everyone doing ?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Chilling at home. Too much social activity for me this past week.

Being appreciative is best

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Truer words have never been said!

...something associated with an old movie, 'Il Postino'. [youtu.be]

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Yeah, I loved that movie. Saw it in Italian.

I'm officially tired of myself.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Take a vacation, let the other voices run the show for a while!

One day someone will ?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Someday, yeah..I am a romantic at heart so This is something that will happen if I wait long enough.

Sex Is Like Math

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Oh man...I love this. I'm good at math!

To the ladies. How do i tell if a woman is actually interested in me vs. just being nice?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Well, I always use the tried and true method...I ask her. If I notice a look, a glance, or a smile that I think might be a sign, I can say "Oh, hey. I think you're pretty nifty, want to grab dinner sometime?" If her answer is positive, then she probably likes me. If her answer is negative, then I tell her "Thank you, I can respect that! So you were saying about that rescue dog you found...?". If I am into her and I haven't seen a sign but am wondering if she is into me I usually use the exact same tactic. Of course, the wording can change. I know I like the word "nifty" you may not. There are many other words you can use instead..."Witty, Artistic, Interesting, Funny, Awesome, 'Own the room', 'Know your way around a party...get creative. You have no idea how many times she's heard "Beautiful, Gorgeous, Hot, or that she has pretty eyes." Use something that is unique to you, she'll appreciate the effort at the very least!

Wearing your heart on your sleeve is best served warm with the right person.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Yes! MOAR efforts less excuses!

When I see lovers' names ❤

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

I carry a waiter's corkscrew which has a small foil knife on it. That's how I roll.

I’m not rich.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Congrats!

Complements Don't Have To Be About Appearance

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

I am happy that you exist! Reading this made me smile and think about the people that do this for me and those which I do it for as well. Thank you!

Well, they are somewhat eye-catching!

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

I look at that and think, ooh nice preview of her butt crack!

The last two men I was in love with didn't want to love me back.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

I am a romantic. I know, all the stories of casual sex and pain/pleasure you wouldn't think it. However, in my world view being in love and having that love mirrored back at you in equal amounts is worth the risk of pain. I have had love taken from me, I have had love leave me, and I have had to walk away from someone I loved because it was what I needed to do. Every single time it fucking hurts. Walking away from my love because I knew she would never love me, was the most difficult thing I have ever had to do in my life. I have been divorced after 20 years of marriage, not as tough as having to walk away. However, those moments of pain, the emotional bankruptcy that comes after a loss or breakup, the feeling of being lost at sea with no hope of finding stable ground, all of the heartache and misery, cannot compare to the joy and happiness I have found along the way. I have to believe (well not have to but choose to) that I will find love again and any attempt at finding it requires that I make myself vulnerable and open my heart to let that love in. Yes this also means that pain can find it's way there too... There is a song which is near and dear to my heart by the Cruxshadows. It is "Helen". There is a bit in the middle that goes like this: Silence whispers her condolences For the greatest tragedy of all is love lost But the greatest virtue belongs to those who will give everything to love again It is a test There is always hope And the strongest and the bravest will always keep it close to them For if you surrender hope Then love was right to leave you It is one of the most beautiful sentiments and it describes my heart exactly!

IN THIS MOMENT - Whore (OFFICIAL VIDEO)[youtube.com]

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Holy Fuck!!! Thanks for introducing this to me. I have a new favorite band, well right behind Queen.

Walk a mile in my shoes ?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Yeah, but if I survive that, then imagine how much fun we will have together!

We all love movies, but how about movie villains?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Yeah, I love a really well played intelligent villain. Two of my favorites: Col. Hans Landa - Inglorious Bastards Hannibal Lechter - The Silence of the Lambs.

The problem with edibles, when you mix the batter you have to taste to insure the taste is right, ...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Oh yeah! Livin' the life!

a little levity for Friday night

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Hilarious!

WYD Nerds?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Oh the memories!

High beams

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Creepy and cute all at the same time!

grins and winks

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

I was visiting and heard all about that party from Mephistopheles. I'm sorry I missed it!

I made this for a couple who got married on Halloween Day.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

I have always said, since my divorce, that if I ever get married again it will be Halloween themed. Everyone in costume. Us as famous movie couple, I personally like Corpse Bride, but I'm open to anything really, I just don't want my wedding party to spend money on clothes they will only wear once.

The METOO Movement.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Thank you for sharing. We, as men, don't often hear or acknowledge these types of stories. We tend to think of them as isolated events and push them from our minds. I think we need to have this discussion. We need to recognize that this happens often and we need to become part of the solution.

I guess this is the trend all the cool kids are doing.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 4, 2018:

Not all the cool kids, but the cool deviants are certainly there.

So, most of you know that I've been busy finishing up requirements for my Master's Degree in ...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 3, 2018:

So many to choose from..Daphne, Xena, Jessica Rabbit, Lana (Archer), Carmen Sandiego, Natasha (Boris and Natasha). I also have to add Loki, and Dr. Strange.

I read this today and thought it was sweet: “Instead of trying to get the most beautiful girl ...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 3, 2018:

Wise advice. I want my world to be beautiful, she better show up soon!

I'm sure every one of you fuckers can see yellow on this pie chart, right?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 3, 2018:

Oh shit...I may have to cut back on my masturbation...

Water in hand...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 3, 2018:

I wish someone had told me this when I was 20!

BDSM Relationships.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 3, 2018:

I think there is still some power on the left side of the slash. While I was in a D/s relationship I had my hard limits and could stop a scene at any time that I felt it going the wrong direction into mental damage areas or bad triggers. So yes, a very large portion of the power to make things stop was fully in my court. However, there were times when I had my boundaries tested, limits pushed, and did things which I may not have liked but realized they were necessary for personal growth. In those moments my D had power over me that they used to help me grow, to test those limits and push boundaries so that I could then appreciate more ways to receive or give pleasure. Sure, I could have taken that power back at any time by using my safe-word, but part of the reason I like power-exchange relationships is precisely this ability to give the power to my partner so that I can explore my psyche and body in a safe controlled environment by giving them the power over me to make me go places that I can't bring myself to go. Not trying to disagree, the right side of the slash has ultimate veto power. Yes, the left side has power temporarily but they could lose it at any time should the right side choose to remove their consent.

BDSM Relationships.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 3, 2018:

Well said.

Like many of the people on this site, I believe in the scientific method of inquiry.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 3, 2018:

Pride. Those with larger penis tend to show them off. I spend a ton of time on the internet, and I have a ton of experiences in real life. I am in the average with 5.5" penis and not too much girth. I never post penis pics so nobody ever sees my penis on the internet, but there are a lot of people that see it in real life. So while the average of total population is 5.5, the average for those who are proud of their penis and want to show it off is going to be larger.

Accountability Is Meaningless Unless It's For Everybody - YouTube

Nukdookum comments on Aug 3, 2018:

I love Colbert.

This sounds like fun! First, do me, and then do you (if you still have the energy! ?).

Nukdookum comments on Aug 3, 2018:

LLama: Druid (You love the outdoors and probably love to be in the sunlight), Half-Elf with high-elf heritage (you aren't dainty enough to be full blown elf, but your intellect and constant search for knowledge identify you as a high elf), and I would have to put your alignment as Lawful-Neutral borderline Evil because while you are kind and empathetic, you also have a deviousness about you that places you closer to the evil end rather than the good end of lawful-neutral. Nukdookum: Wizard (I have an incessant thirst for knowledge. I don't like school where I have to learn along with other possibly slower learners, I learn better from books and other sources at my own pace), Human (while that are many traits that I appreciate in the other humanoids, I really like the flexibility and adaptability of human kind), Neutral-Good (I acknowledge that some laws are good for the common good but not all laws, so I am a proponent of following the laws that matter morally but not all laws just because they maintain order. I have a caring heart and an empathy for others that allow me to understand their boundaries in such a way that they always feel comfortable around me. While I too enjoy the occasional devilish thought or action, I would never violate another human being's ability to consent, thus making me good and not true neutral.

I hate memes, except those that are true !

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I'm offended by this!

So awesome!

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Ohh Pinhead. I need to rewatch that series of movies again!

I just want to go, how about you?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I still like a party bus road trip plan we came up with one night. Select a beginning city, plan a road trip, someone else is paid to drive. We get to see multiple cities and drink and chat and party while we are on the road. Would be great to say start in NYC then do Atlantic City, DC, Williamsburg VA, Asheville NC, Savannah, Jacksonville FL, Tampa (For the Dali museum, one of my favorite artists), and Miami. Itinerary open for suggestions.

I just don't see why people don't get it.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

People have been conditioned for the past 50 years that weed is bad. I dislike that this is a black and white issue for them, they can't see the difference between weed and heroine. I do agree, we need to point to Colorado and show how that social experiment has gone so well.

Hello everyone ?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Welcome!

During sex, what for you is the biggest turn-on, and what is the biggest turn-off

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

My biggest turn on is that she/he is present in the moment and wants me. Turn off, poor kissing.

Weirdest place you've ever masturbated?c'mon?you know you have?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

In a bathroom stall at work. Though the twist is it was the woman's bathroom. Late, after most folks had gone home because I didn't want to have someone walk in on me, though the probability of that happening made it much more intense.

I have been improving one of my decorations for Halloween.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

That looks great!

What is the ONE thing that makes you the happiest?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

Ok maybe this is obvious but my answers are: Makes me happiest: Sex, making someone happy really and Sex is the thing that makes people the happiest. Wish I had: A partner to share that with.

I just booked a vacation for next year to Universal Studios.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

https://www.hg.org/legal-articles/legally-speaking-what-is-an-act-of-god-31732

I just booked a vacation for next year to Universal Studios.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 2, 2018:

I am pretty sure that "act of God" is an insurance term and has a very well defined definition. I don't think a fallen tree is one of them. The tornado which caused the tree to fall may be covered.

I have a question :) just wondering about the percentages and algorithms.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

On the person's profile page next to that percentage is a details link. They put smiley faces next to the questions you have on common and sad faces next to the questions which don't match. Two faces are for distance, one for your preference and the other for their preference

Has anyone tried play piercing?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I repeat what DoDapper posted. I can get the specific sites if you want them.

So it's my birthday...and I just need someone to gimme 47 licks and one to grow on. ?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

My follow up question would be do I pack Canes, Wooden paddles, or just bring my hands and tongue?

Really, it's all sound advice.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

That last one is the most important.

I want to try kink getting tied up with a blindfold i think it would highten the experience i just ...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I second the FetLife suggestion if you are serious about finding kinksters in your area.

Oh.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Fuck yeah! Anyone who makes Firefly references gets my undying love and affection!

Yeah, I'm pretty much a horrendously insensitive demon.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Have you seen the movie Nightstalker? I liked it in a can't look away from the horror kind of way.

I know a lot of people won't respond to a simple message of "hi" or "good morning" on a dating site,...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

If I am interested in a person I will almost always post something like "Hello, my name is Nuk. I saw your profile and I think it would be great to get to know you better. Along those lines I was curious about..and then bring up something that wasn't mentioned that you want to know about, or mention something that was in the profile that you want details about.

For those of you who may not know , Our friend Duke is going thru a hard time right now with his ...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I certainly hope that everything works out.

One Night Stands; the preserve of the younger generation or do we all enjoy? Ladies first...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

For me the progression is: My hand, My toys, One night stand, Friend with benefits and an emotional connection, Random party sex, short term sexual relationship, then finally long term committed relationship. This is in terms of personal satisfaction derived from the sex act.

OK folks.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

All of them. Starting with the ones I know, and then finding out if I like the ones that I don't know. For me a new toy is just a favorite toy that I haven't gotten to know yet. Except nipple clamps, those things are pure evil!

Honoring the meme.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Here's one for you since you like inspirational messages...

I have a crazy question.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I would in most cases approach the potential partner and strike up a conversation. I think the level of attraction and the status of the potential partner increase the anxiety level. Right now, I am intimate with three people, one more so than the other two who are just FWB. I am also chatting seriously with two more people that I have met here on Agnostic. I am not shy and I can talk to almost anyone. My plate is full at the moment and I am not looking to make it more complicated. However there is a bartender at a bar that I hang out with friends at that I find extremely adorable. In part because of the intensity of my attraction to her and that I think she may be hit on a lot given her job and the flow of alcohol associated with it, I have not the courage to talk to her for more than just a "Hey, hows your day going? Yes, I'll have the usual." The thought of talking to her about what cuisine she likes and then asking her if she would join me at a restaurant of that type terrifies me!

You'll laugh! You'll cry! You'll hurl! This article has something for EVERYONE.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

I laughed and cried. Thankfully I didn't hurl.

Masturbation: with a partner or without?

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Both. Permission can be sexy. I really like the show and tell aspect of it. I watch, then I take a turn trying to see if I can do it the way they like...helps to learn about how their body works. Then I show my partner, and they try their "hand" at it!

What do your partner and you do after making love generally.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Return for seconds...Or you know cuddling is nice. Shower and then seconds. Um giggle like school children is an option. I want to say "lick up that mess you made boy!" happens sometimes too..I think it depends on the partner.

Being great together is...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

This is fucking beautiful. If I ever find that person, I will propose on the spot!

This post is for all my sapiosexuals.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Congrats!

This may seen like a broad question, but one I think we all would enjoy hearing what others think:...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

When someone is into me, that is the best turn on and super sexy to me. Other than that, I'll say a person in hand cuffs, chained together, kneeling with their hands in their lap and their head bowed waiting for instructions. I like the sound of hands and wood hitting flesh, that smacking sound is arousing for me. Someone who is dressed to the nines and working that outfit...doesn't matter if it's a hairy chest in leather pants, vest, and hat; a woman dressed in a German high command uniform carrying a riding crop; or a silky Chinese martial arts pajama. Jessica Fucking Rabbit! A smile or a laugh that doesn't seem forced. I find the look of pure delight on someone's face when they have tasted food that was prepared to perfection as being one of the most sexy things I can think of. People being themselves in all shapes and sizes...oh yeah, and because I am old school a plaid skirt, white button up shirt, and white knee socks with some Mary-Jane's shoes. Even better if her hair is in pigtails.

Mediation is over and I’ve changed my status to ‘divorced.

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Thanks for sharing. I was in a bad place when my divorce became final. IT was ugly and heated, and angry, and I just wanted to have peace in my life after all that. I can say that it does get better, you just have to get through it.

Have you ever talked to or discussed with a professional about the negative impact tRump is having ...

Nukdookum comments on Aug 1, 2018:

Nope. I do realize that this entire regime is having a negative impact, but I am trying to muck through on my own.

Threesomes - everyone has an opinion! What is yours?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 31, 2018:

It's successful if everyone enjoys themselves and never feels left out. Edit: Ooops. I forgot to list the best part. The best part is getting to see our partner interact with someone else. He/She might do things that they are timid to do with you for whatever reason so it's like you get to peek into their mind when they are not worried about you being critical of them.

So, after chatting with someone I met here, we finally got the opportunity to meet in person.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I love success stories. It makes me hopeful for my own future. Congrats. I hope everything goes swimmingly for the both of you.

Can you tell what might be wrong with this cartoon?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 30, 2018:

The problem is that the gimp shouldn't be able to talk unless his zipper is opened and the ball gag removed!

Two atheists who survived a camping and paddling weekend.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 30, 2018:

You look happy for having survived your encounter with nature!

I Want Someone Who Knows What Songs Not to Talk Over

Nukdookum comments on Jul 30, 2018:

Some songs are sacred and I need to experience them. Disturbed's cover of Sound of Silence is one of those. Other songs require singing along, those that come to mind for me are: Renegade by Styx, Bohemian Rhapsody and Fat Bottomed Girls by Queen, and I Need a Man by Eurythmics.

Admitting ( in your profile) that you are unhappily married BUT not separated.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I am a man and I see this happening all the time. Now, it also happens with all genders so this post is about anyone who is married and has stated looking for a more suitable mate. #1. If you are still in a long term relationship, however unhappy you may be, there is a VERY real possibility that you never intend to leave your "comfortable domestic situation" no matter how loveless or sexless it may be. I will also say that even if you aren't married but still have a long term girlfriend/boyfriend while you are "searching" that too is a red flag that you may not really intend to ever leave that relationship. So yeah, that is going to affect the way others view you, and in my mind rightly so. #2. It is never a good idea to jump from one relationship directly into the next. The concept of "rebound" is real. Unless you are looking for a short term, extremely passionate, but doomed to fail relationship, I personally and many others are going to steer clear of anyone who hasn't gotten over their previous relationship. There is a grieving period at the end of any relationship. I grieved for the loss of my wife even though I had basically ended it mentally 4 years prior and had literally been living my own life for the past year and a half. The relationship into which I poured my heart and soul having begun it while separated but still living in the guest bedroom at our marital home, was not a healthy one and ended poorly. You also need time to process what you need out of life and make an intelligent and informed decision about who your next partner is going to be. To accomplish that, you need to be on your own without anything from the previous relationship clouding your judgement. I don't want to be judgmental and I apologize if that's how I come off. I have been in that exact place in my life from both sides. I jumped into a relationship before the previous one was completely closed without giving myself the time to mourn, process, and discover who I was again as a single person. That relationship failed, and as hindsight is 20/20, I can say that it failed because I brought baggage into it when I didn't need to. I also became involved with a married woman who was in the situation that you described. At the time I wasn't looking for a long term thing and it suited me. Over time I became attached to this woman and after two years of dating, I felt that she needed to finally "shit or get off the pot" as the saying goes. She couldn't get off the pot. So yeah, I am not surprised that people are not lining up to get into something with a person still in a relationship. My advice to you is to decide what you want out of life. If it is a new relationship, then you don't need the current one. Get out of it. Do some introspective thinking to understand...

Any singles out there that are into anime? If yes, what are some of your favorites?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I am not a fan. I wanted to find out if it was that I didn't like it or if i was only being exposed to bad anime (I know oxymoron there). I really enjoy a show called Psycho-Pass and to a lesser degree the show Ghost in the Shell. I have determined what it is that I dislike, or not really dislike but the thing which nags at me and makes me want to turn it off. Almost every show that I watch has one character that talks in a baby voice. In Ghost in the Shell, the little blue tanks at the end have this voice and it drives me nuts. That voice makes me think it's a kids show and I need to be watching something more mature.

Guys Are Never Single? What Do You Think?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I dislike any sentiment that singles out a specific cross-section of the population. Humans, no matter what label all experience the same things.

The world needs more people like this

Nukdookum comments on Jul 30, 2018:

This gives me hope in humanity!

Doing this 6-12 times per person?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 30, 2018:

I know, sure a woman making dinner..but I see a woman astronaut! Oh baby. Look at the brains on that hottie!

Hi, I'm new to this group, relatively new to agnostic.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Poly isn't just about sex. There are poly people out there who may get all the sex they want from existing partners and need a loving companionship relationship who is open to them getting the sex within the other relationships.

All you nay saying trolls need to get a life. This group is for pro- cannabis people not dipshits.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Not a smoker. I have many friends that do. I will gladly join you on the deck and take a toke occasionally. I want this to be legal. I don't see any reason it shouldn't be and a ton of reasons that it should.

He/She Was So Much Worse

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I try not to be this guy. Unfortunately this is a reality of dating. They're is a very real possibility that I will have to break it off with people I am seeing currently when I enter into a committed relationship. Some of those people will be fine, the relationship was only temporary for them and they will be happy for me. Others may have felt that the relationship was going somewhere, and it was.. but it just never got to where I needed it to be in order to commit fully to it.

In you opinion and in your experience, what is important to you when you are intimate with your ...

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I am going to go with "Satisfaction". If we have gotten to the intimate part then communication has happened and is continuing to happen regularly. The most important thing for me is that we are both satisfied with the results of said intimacy. Yup, takes communication to ask and share that information so that becomes a close second. I'm not just talking orgasms here. Sometimes, well most of the time that is the goal of intimacy, but it could also be snuggling and bonding. Communicating what each others goals are in that moment, and making sure those goals are achieved is what is important to me.

Question for the ladies but it may pertain to the guys as well.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Sounds like things are going well. Enjoy the ride and see where it goes.

Every once in a while, in life, you catch a break.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Karma is real!

First, you must know yourself, trust yourself, love yourself, be yourself.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I live this every day, or at least I try. I haven't been in many long term relationships, finding that one who will mesh well with all of my quirks and flaws is difficult and time consuming. I am also finding out that it is work, you can't just float through life hoping to randomly bump into her at a bookstore or at a party. You actually have to put effort into courting, making yourself the best you possible, effort into communicating and putting yourself out there whether you feel like getting out of bed or not. Love doesn't just happen, you have to build your half and hope that someone meets you with their half. That doesn't happen much. It doesn't even happen rarely, I'd say about 5% of the attempts I make are met with a tentative "maybe" and it takes even more work from there. My marriage ended the day I stopped putting in the effort to make it work. I mean, I can point to the specific day that marked the beginning of the end. Of course, I am a freak, so I do realize that makes it much harder to find a freak like me...Halestorm understands. The songs Freak Like Me, and Mz Hyde are my life theme songs.

This is what I want. (Don’t we all?) [cbsnews.com]

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Life goals!

Ok.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I find that sometimes I have prior engagements that I need to keep. I may be really into you on Thursday and Friday and then out of pocket on Saturday ignoring my phone because I am with a friend, or maybe another love interest. That doesn't mean I am not into you and doesn't mean I don't want to see you on Sunday. It may mean simply that I may not want to divulge what I was doing on Saturday. If this relationship hasn't become "committed" by each of you expressing the desire to not date other people, then it could simply be him playing the field until he finds the right one. He could also be an asshole, sure also a possibility. I know that there are times I want to let someone know I am thinking about them but I might literally be tied up and unable to respond. Then when I do respond I may not be ready to divulge my interest in BDSM quite yet, so here comes the lame excuse. I know. I am not proud of it either. I am trying to get better at that, if a woman is worth having it is best to be open. Though, I find leading with "Hi, my name is Nuk, I like long walks on the beach, kissing, and getting my ass beat while being told what an impotent fuck I am. How are you doing?" on the first date tends to overwhelm so I have to be careful how much I share and how soon.

'Mulholland Drive' is the best Movie of all Time. I don't care, what anyone else says.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Sacrilege! The Black Dahlia.

Hello everyone, I’m Che. Don’t know what I’m doing yet, but I love everybody’s energy.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Welcome! If you have any questions I'm full of answers. Some of my answers might actually be useful for your questions.

Nice to meet you all, don't think this site is really my thing, it was a pleasure meeting you guys.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Great to see your posts. You will be missed.

You know what's really, powerfully sexy?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I concur. If you are these things, I want to get to know you.

So I held a girl's hand today during a memorial service. Does that count as sex?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Don't sell yourself short. I have found that by opening up and telling people how I feel has created a lot more opportunities for me. Tactful is key. Rather than say "I'd like to have sex with you" you might start with "I've had a crush on you ever since..." And then you need say what it is about her that makes you smile. If it's a personality trait (which is something she chooses to be) rather than a physical trait (which she may not have any control over), then even better.

"It's easy being nuts. Try being me." - The Fisher King

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Some of his best work!

Anyone out there actually enjoy Blade Runner 2049?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

I loved it. I liked the original for other reasons. This one had some great CGI, I loved the home assistant, I loved the twist at the end, and there was a side story which I found intriguing. I went into it expecting it to be a different movie and I was not disappointed.

Make up Sex or Missed You Sex?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Missed you, been thinking about you, can't wait to see you again sex!

Nice dinner with my love @MrLizard

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

My word, you guys are adorable!