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Kay. Yeah. Don't judge me. I love the movie "Tropic Thunder".... @goldenvalleyguy

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Great movie!

2009. My son that the little devil.???

Nukdookum comments on Jul 29, 2018:

Very nice pictures. Love the outfit!

Nunya business.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

That looks painful! I should probably kiss it and make it better!

"We are Sun and Moon, dear friend; We are Sea and Land.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I love this. Thank you for posting it! I needed that right now.

Margaret Hamilton with Fred Rogers. I love the Wicked Witch of the West! [facebook.com]

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

It is amazing how a woman will always comment about the presence of pockets in an outfit!

I'm on a drive about to clear my head today.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

continued....(see the first part of the story below) We made it back to the airport in time to catch our flight to Pisa. It was getting dark by the time we had arrived at our hotel situated on the beach outside of the port town of Livorno. We checked in, got our room having decided to save money by splitting a single room between the three of us, and went to the hotel restaurant for dinner. This meal was awesome compared to the fare I had grownup eating but paled in comparison to the place we ate at near Rome. Perhaps the cabby was being truthful in my imagined conversation that that little hole in the wall place was the best! We were tired after that so we went back up to the room to sleep, but first we had to see what Italian television looked like. We channel surfed not really knowing what we were watching. We stopped at a movie where a large breasted woman was eating dinner with a shot balding man. The scene started turning sexy but then she grabbed him and smothered him in her ample bosoms. We were both shocked and interested all at once. The movie progressed and she continued her killing spree. I never understood why she wanted these men dead but I did get the impression that she was being very selective in her targets. The next morning over breakfast we decide to walk up the beach and see the sights. It was a perfect morning, the sun wasn't too hot, the breeze off of the Mediterranean was refreshing and the Italians on the beach were simply delightful to look at. After a couple of hours walking we had gotten thirsty and to our dismay had failed to exchange more money at the hotel before leaving. Easy I said to my companions, we'll just pop into the next bar and see if they will accept dollars. We made our way into the little bar, parting the hanging beaded doorway and stepping into the cool shade of the indoors. I spoke in English and asked the little old man behind the bar if he spoke English. He sized us up and said something towards the doorway that lead into the back of the store. A moment later a woman, clearly his wife, appeared and smiled at us. She didn't speak and so we waited. Another 30 seconds and very beautiful Italian girl, perhaps 17 years of age stepped through the doorway and asked in an slightly British accent, "what can I do for you?". Emboldened in part by her beauty and in part by the familiarity of the language, my companions burst in saying that we wanted to purchase three cokes but needed to pay in dollars. I just had to laugh at the competitiveness of the male species trying to be the first to secure a mate... The girl chittered in Italian with her parents and the mom disappeared into the back, reappearing a minute later with the news paper. The girl looked back at us and smiled saying: "Just a moment". The ...

I'm on a drive about to clear my head today.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

It seems like ages ago that I had left my girl at the terminal with a long and sweet kiss before walking down the gangplank to board the plane. I was bound for Rome. I was meeting two other friends in New York and we would be boarding a 747 later that evening and flying to Rome. We all had to report to an Army base near Pisa first thing Monday morning and had wanted to spend the weekend in Rome so we were flying out on Friday night. I got to NY first and made my way to the terminal to await the arrival of my friends. I busied myself wandering through the news shop. It was 1984, there were no smart phones or internet to take up time between life's moments, I needed a distraction. I recall finding a book by Eric Lustbader. I had never heard of this author but the title intrigued me "White Ninja" so I bought it. Soon enough my friends joined me and we had a blast people watching. We were 20 and male. It was more like girl watching but that was then and we were young on an adventure together. On the plane things settled into a dull routine, every 30 minutes the flight attendant would come by asking if I needed anything. Occasionally I would request a drink but I was happy alternately reading my book and watching the in flight movies. It's funny I can't remember the movies but the book I recall with almost perfect clarity. I loved it and was more than halfway through when the pilot informed us that the descent had started. We landed in Rome first thing in the morning, perhaps 8am local. I had gotten a few hours sleep on the flight but was feeling refreshed and eager to explore. We had some time before our flight to Pisa later that afternoon so the three of us decided to go find some food. We exchanged some money for the colorful "monopoly" money the locals called "Lira" and headed out to a cab. It must have been a hilarious scene three young Americans trying to indicate that we wanted food to an Italian that could not speak English. Finally with hand gestures he understood and asked for a price, which we did not understand. I remember how foolish I felt holding out a handful of bills and letting him pick which ones he needed for the trip. I couldn't to this day tell you much we paid for that 5 minute cab ride to Ostia, the beach town nearby. We ate lunch at a hole in the wall restaurant that our cab driver insisted was the best place to eat. Well, by his animated waving and talking that is what I understood. Besides this was the place he dropped us off at and we had no idea of anywhere else to eat. The meal was great and we walked a few blocks to a bar which had a patio right on the beach. We drank soda (for me) and beer for a coupe of hours while chatting amongst ourselves and the owner who could speak a bit of English. It was a great time and I...

Okay y'all, help me out.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

No matter where I am I always try to find a costume party to attend. Those usually are scheduled on the nearest Saturday and I have a blast every year. If you like to travel, there is the Fetish and Fantasy Halloween Ball which is held in Vegas every year. I have been to Vegas twice with tickets to this ball but both times my date was sick the night of and I stayed with her so while I have been close I have never actually been to one. I can't imagine any party better. One year I will make it out there and party with them.

I have felt for awhile that since the vast majority of us have “arrested emotional development”,...

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I feel like I have grown emotionally in my 40s as I explored my self, my feelings, and my body's reaction to pain in the BDSM world. I feel like I have just grown some more recently when I realized that being open about myself with friends will make me feel more connected to them. I dunno, I feel like I have a deep emotional connection to many people that goes beyond myself. I will agree that I do see what you are talking about in many people.

Kaiju and Giant Monster movies films Which are your favourites?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Giant Robot was my favorite. The Egyptian looking robot that did the macarena when it activated.

Welcome, guys and ghouls! There are 94 days until Halloween.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Planning my costume already!

Why do so many chases after that warm tingling feeling you get when you initially fall in love?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

It is such a wonderful feeling. I like to think that some people are more disposed to addiction and others are less prone to its clutches. I try to maintain a healthy balance, but when you've got chemicals in your brain, you tend to jump first and deal with the fall out later.

Can someone tell me, please?

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

After a jaunt down my members list, sorted by % match, I have determined that 81% or better is bright red. 71% or better is a light red almost pink, and 70% or below is grey.

This would be me. Name your best horror movie.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I am a huge fan of "Let the right one in" the Swedish version. I like zombie movies, I like silly b movie knock off type movies Critters, Tremors, C.H.U.D., etc. I really like the black and white classics with Boris Karloff, Bela Lugosi, and Lon Chaney. The ones I find really creepy are the psychological thrillers like Get Out.

Do you have a rule when meeting someone online on how long you will talk/text before you meet.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

For me there are cues that let me know whether I am ready to move to the next level in the friendship/relationship. Those tings might come immediately or they may take a few days. I just play it by ear and move up through the levels. 1: Chatting online with those whose posts and comments have spoken to me. 2: Live communication via online video 3: Phone number exchange, still video chat but now with ways to reach me when I'm offline. 4: Meet in person, somewhere public, backup or safe call in place, typically just a meet-n-greet to see if there is chemistry. Never plans to go beyond the meal/drinks venue, chemistry or no. 5: Things are looking good. We are now making plans to meet for fun activities. Music, Movies, Dinner, Theater, Karaoke...get your mind out of the gutter you pervs. 6: Having fun together really seems to work, lets move on to some other activities...ok minds back in the gutter! 7: Committed relationship. Let's see where this takes us!!!

Long car rides with toddlers are wonderful interactive advertisements for birth control...

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I can't imagine the chaos. I'm just going to say better you than me!

I'm on a drive about to clear my head today.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I have a good travel story for you but I can't take time right now to share it. I will be back later to recount it for you. Be safe, enjoy the monotony of the tires humming on the road to set your mind free and find your inner peace again.

Has anyone of you ever experienced chemistry with someone that was so strong you can't figure out ...

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I have on a number of occasions. There was one time in particular that stands out in my mind. I am not sure if this counts as chemistry since I think that requires a similar reaction or feeling from the other side and this was only my experience but it was paralyzingly strong to such a degree that I have no idea where it came from or why it hit me as hard as it did. For your enjoyment if you like my stories: I have been an Aveda customer for years now. They sell hair and skin products for men and women. I like the smell of most of their stuff and am happy that they are anti-animal cruelty, none of their products are tested on animals. I had run out of hair gel and stopped at the mall on my way home from work, the closest Aveda store to the office was in the mall. I walked the 200 yards from the parking space to the door. I have terrible luck getting good parking at malls and only slightly better luck parking at grocery stores. I make it into the mall and check the directory to see where the Aveda store is located. It's down the hall another 300 yards so I head in that direction. I approach the store front and smile as I am greeted with the pleasant smell of their products wafting from the store. I walk in and gaze around, looking for the men's products shelf. I hear a woman's voice from my left ask if I'd like some tea, so I respond affirmatively and keep scanning the store for my hair gel. That is another thing that I like about the Aveda store, they are very welcoming and will offer you a small cup of herbal tea to sip as you browse the store. I find it very relaxing and I almost always take advantage of it. They also give hand massages and other minor spa like treatments to demonstrate their products. A very relaxing practice and also a great marketing strategy. I spot the hair gel across the store towards the front window as a feminine hand enters my field of vision holding a small recycled paper cup. I smile and turn to thank the woman as I take the tea from her. The beauty and grace of her presence hit me like a Mack Truck. My words stuck in my throat as I tried desperately to access the language center of my brain which had temporarily stopped working. I recall my hand taking the cup on it's own accord, following the command given it prior to the appearance of the stunning beauty that I had before me. I was shocked at how powerful this attraction was and how crippling it was to my motor functions. Finally able to get the words out of my mouth I said "Thank you" and tried to smile casually. She asked me if I would like a hand massage, they had a new product which did something great and smelled nice and...I had only heard "Would you like me to hold your hand for a while?" and was waiting only for the pause so that I could say "That sounds...

Good very late morning (for me anyway).

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Good morning!

Men and women What's the oldest age limit and what's the youngest age limit of a relationship that ...

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I like the rule of thumb "half plus seven". It seems to work pretty well. For me that works out to lower limit 32. I've dated a 32 year old friend and while it was comfortable I found that we were in different life journey places. My preference is 35+ On the upper limit that works out to 90. Now I dont really think I have much in common with anyone over 70 but who knows. All I ask is that their libido match mine and we have some common interests.

Women can be so cruel You’re all ready to go for a night out with your friends, when your ...

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

Yeah. I find these types of mind games to be the only games I will refuse to play. I also hate it when men try the same shit. No, I will not play these games. Yes I do value our relationship and yes if you need something from me then ask for it, guilt is manipulation is my book and I will not stand for it. I won't do it to you, please don't do it to me. You'll find that I will run faster to your side when I know the need is real because you have never played that game with me.

Okay singles, I heard another story about someone putting themselves out there.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

I'm reminded of a saying within the BDSM world: "Just because I am a poly, pansexual, switch, does not mean that I want to sleep with you." I take this to mean that just because someone is open to a thing, sex, relationship, taking a trip to Disneyland, that doesn't mean that they will do that thing with anyone that happens to come along. There has to be attraction, mutual attraction. There has to be a mutual connection to the level that both parties need for a relationship to be a possibility. I don't recall seeing anything in the OP about feelings the rejector person was having. So perhaps it was one sided in the planning stages while the other person was still trying to figure out the feelings or connection. I am guilty of this myself. I get excited about a new relationship and start thinking about how wonderful it would be if (or when) and I get lost in the fantasy of it all while I haven't taken into account where the other person is in their life. For example, I might be ready to retire and move to Aruba to live in a beautiful villa on the beach and swing in a hammock sipping rum drinks and watching sunsets. Sure we've talked about how she loves the beach and would like to visit exotic destinations so why wouldn't they want to come with me on my grand adventure? Maybe they have career aspirations that they need to chase before they are ready to retire. Then I find I thought things ere going great, we chatted and got along so well, we were compatible in everything, and she liked the things I was planning to do. I just failed to ask one simple question and bam rejected. Also, from a consent point of view. Anyone can remove their consent at any time and that should be a perfectly fine thing to do. Perhaps both people were complicit in the planning. Both people felt that things were going well and they both felt connected and wanted. Then one person stops feeling that and decides that they want something else. Bam someone gets rejected for no apparent reason. There was a reason, known only to the person rejecting, but they should be able to change their minds. That doesn't mean they didn't really want a relationship, that just means they didn't want that very specific relationship.

Wish you all were here.

Nukdookum comments on Jul 28, 2018:

We call this the fire channel. Camping entertainment at its finest.

Sulking.