Religion and Art

Paddypereira comments on Nov 16, 2018:

I'm not religious but I love to see beautiful cathedrals and the stained glass in churches.

Haha hold on!

Paddypereira comments on Nov 16, 2018:

Hahahahaha!!!

Snow and sleet today. And schools are still open in DC. I love the snow, but not the sleet!

Paddypereira comments on Nov 15, 2018:

I hate the snow with a vengeance. First time I saw snowing was Xmas day, 2004. Loved it at the time. 2009 and 2010 we had blizzards here and I started loathing it.

[facebook.com] some beauty for the day

Paddypereira comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Great stuff!!!

Your favorite music CD

Paddypereira comments on Nov 14, 2018:

Well, I prefer the old vinyl records. All my Black Sabbath, Nightfall of Candlemass, Fly By Night of Rush, Under Jolly Roger of Running Wild... The list is huge!!! CD'S, Murder Ballads of Nick Cave And The Bad Seeds, Tales of the sands of Myrath (a fantastic Prog Metal band from Tunisia), Mob Rules of Black Sabbath... I better stop, the list would be like gigantic.

Illegality against morality

Paddypereira comments on Nov 13, 2018:

Well, for me there are things there are illegal but I can't find anything morally wrong in them.

How could have Confucius known

Paddypereira comments on Nov 13, 2018:

Sign of the times.

I have to agree ... all be it reluctantly

Paddypereira comments on Nov 13, 2018:

True.

What did everyone do 3 minutes ago 11 11 11?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 11, 2018:

I was at work, couldn't stop for it.

Do you ever feel like you're absolutely alone?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 11, 2018:

At the moment I'm an anti-social bastard. I'm avoiding human company at all cost, even my friends!!! At the moment, alone for me is good. Tomorrow, who knows?

Something to think about

Paddypereira comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Very true.

Just wondering, why are you on this website?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 10, 2018:

Add to my case, for the fun as well.

Are you a nihilist?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 10, 2018:

We all believe in something.

Saw one of my fave bands from my youth perform tonight! Feel like I can check something off my ...

Paddypereira comments on Nov 10, 2018:

Great stuff! Happy for you. As I managed to see my favourite band three times, when I got the chance I simply took it. It's always a moment to remember. ;-)

You speak English?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 10, 2018:

Well, being English my second language because I'm Portuguese, I think you shouldn't be so strict about that. As I've always been good at languages, I know many that aren't. As I've been living in Ireland for 14 years, English comes very natural to me, it's my day to day language. So someone from Spain or Germany, for example, who might not be so good at English, don't they deserve a bit of understanding about their limitations on the language?

Do you eat less meat?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 9, 2018:

No. I think going vegetarian might be as bad or even worse.

What are the biggest challenges you face as an atheist?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 9, 2018:

Well, I have the same challenges as anyone else, it doesn't change by the fact that I'm agnostic/atheist. Life doesn't get any different.

Anyone else here enjoy drinking?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 8, 2018:

I drink socially. I prefer a high quality ale that I can drink and enjoy slowly. A good red wine with a good meal. Sometimes a good whiskey or a shot of vodka.

Remember!

Paddypereira comments on Nov 8, 2018:

Can I drink beer or wine instead??? Nothing against water, just my preference...

Last Friday I was traveling from my home in Kerry to Longford by train.

Paddypereira comments on Nov 7, 2018:

In Portugal we have Fatima, that is a hoax. The so called "Our Lady" made an apparition to 3 little kid shepherds.

Voting.....

Paddypereira comments on Nov 6, 2018:

I haven't been voting due to bureaucratic problems. I should. Portugal, before 74 was a dictatorship and people couldn't vote.

You know that friend you have been meaning to call?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 5, 2018:

Jaysus, although I agree with the principle, at the moment I'm in a very anti-social mood. At the moment I wish to be left alone for a while.

Happy Monday everyone!

Paddypereira comments on Nov 5, 2018:

Thanks, lass!!! ;-) To you too!!!

True it's disgustingly true!!!!

Paddypereira comments on Nov 4, 2018:

Very true.

Lololololol..

Paddypereira comments on Nov 4, 2018:

Jaysus!!!

I'm trying to figure out this app XD

Paddypereira comments on Nov 3, 2018:

Welcome... to the Funny Farm!!!! Hahahahaha!!!

Alot of people hate me. i hate alot of people. seems fair to me then again i have a heart of stone

Paddypereira comments on Nov 3, 2018:

Funny enough, my heart is pure muscle. How come a heart of stone can work inside the body??? :-P

How Do You Say It? Keep adding to the list...

Paddypereira comments on Nov 2, 2018:

In English, with a mix of Portuguese and Irish accent.

Please share any fun thing that you did on Halloween.

Paddypereira comments on Nov 1, 2018:

I did feck all. And it was fun! :-P

Isn't it time for a women president?

Paddypereira comments on Nov 1, 2018:

In Ireland, we already had one.

When a close friend or family member is "asking for prayers" and you want to wish them well what ...

Paddypereira comments on Nov 1, 2018:

Show them my support.

My Halloween costume for work Can you guess what I am?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 31, 2018:

You look like a German waitress from Oktoberfest, the ones that carry loads of big tankards of beer. I love it!!!

What Would You Tell Your 18-Year-Old Self?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 30, 2018:

If I had known what life would become for me... Lol!!! Unfortunately, we only find out that information with time.

Are You Having A Typical Monday?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 29, 2018:

Bank holiday in Ireland. Day off and getting paid for it.

Why you should never put vodka in the freezer

Paddypereira comments on Oct 29, 2018:

In Poland they put it in the freezer. It tastes a lot better.

Is This Taboo?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 29, 2018:

If people want to do so, that's their choice. I've never had the chance to get married, I think not having sex at 46 would be quite cruel when you have hormones that dictate your sexual behaviour, but that's my opinion. Morally, I don't think there's anything wrong with sex before marriage, but people are entitled to their opinion and posture on life.

What makes/made you happy today?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 27, 2018:

Last night, drinks with an old friend.

Has anyone had a pivotal event that changed the direction of their life?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 27, 2018:

The biggest one was when I moved to Ireland. Another was my father's death. For different reasons.

A poem of wonder here I bring.

Paddypereira comments on Oct 24, 2018:

They say hope is the last thing to die.

This will be my first post here, and it is very difficult to write, as silly as that may seem.

Paddypereira comments on Oct 23, 2018:

Welcome.

Has your Atheism affected your patriotism?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 23, 2018:

I'm Portuguese. My level of patriotism is telling the best of my country and culture, use my language with pride but I wouldn't die for my country, I don't think it deserves it. That's me. Other people will have different attitude and there's nothing wrong with that. I know many people will disagree with my attitude but that's part of life.

How to reply when someone says 'have a blessed day'

Paddypereira comments on Oct 23, 2018:

Thank them. At the end of the day, they are wishing you well and being nice. So, be nice as well.

When you're the only atheist at work

Paddypereira comments on Oct 22, 2018:

He who owes nothing fears nothing.

Atheist = Depressed?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 22, 2018:

I don't think there's any relation between being atheist and depression. My older brother is bipolar and he's religious. Of course there will be atheists /agnostics that suffer from depression but I don't think you can relate things.

What's the best response to "why are you so quiet'?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 21, 2018:

When silence is worth gold, words are worth silver.

What would you consider "The meaning of life" to be?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 19, 2018:

Well, I follow Monty Python on that.

If your pet could talk, what would it say to you?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 18, 2018:

I don't have, unfortunately. If it was a dog, I think would try to tell me :"Paddy, pet me!" If was a cat, would tell me "Feed me, you bastard!!!" :-P

Which one would you prefer in your life; catch up in person or mainly social media?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 18, 2018:

I prefer in person but we have to keep communication channels open, be it social media or a phone.

We've all heard the saying, "if it don't apply, let it fly.

Paddypereira comments on Oct 17, 2018:

Sometimes asking questions is good.

K.

Paddypereira comments on Oct 16, 2018:

When things must happen, they simply happen. Great to hear that. All the best for you!

Better Relationship?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 16, 2018:

Well, I don't give much importance if my other half is believes in God or not. When has to work out, it's not that important.

What are you really good at that you wouldn't put on your C. V?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 16, 2018:

Having fun.

Why are you here

Paddypereira comments on Oct 16, 2018:

For the craic.

Do you like being spontaneous or planning ahead?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 15, 2018:

Keep planning to the minimum and improvise along the way. When things are too planned they become boring.

Arguments and debates

Paddypereira comments on Oct 15, 2018:

I had a great debate with a Muslim in Egypt where we wouldn't agree, of course. The guy was from Yemen and I could see he was highly educated, the way he spoke wasn't from an average guy. Until now, I never got anyone that I enjoyed so much debating the existence or non-existence of God.

As a group of mostly open minded people, I am surprised by the number of persons who are openly ...

Paddypereira comments on Oct 13, 2018:

My first intervention here had a reply from someone who took his /her beliefs as facts and could have easily turned out sour but I guess it's normal when human beings are involved.

Political correctness was not even the original term it was called Alternate insert target here.

Paddypereira comments on Oct 13, 2018:

Many that complaint about others being racist, homophobic, sexist or whatever are often worse than the ones that they criticise. The so called political correct sometimes is used to disguise cowardice. I admire people who can make good criticism, tell the truth that hurts without offending the person that has to hear it because they know how to express well their ideas. I'd rather someone blunt than people who say things indirectly. How come people don't know how to separate things any more?

A masked man goes into a sperm bank, points a gun at the woman behind the counter and says, "open ...

Paddypereira comments on Oct 13, 2018:

Jaysus!!! That was a brilliant one!!! Hahahahaha!

Why are humans so slow to learn?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 12, 2018:

Since when mankind learned from History?

Would you move for love?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 10, 2018:

I don't know, depends on the circumstances. At the moment, I can't.

What do you expect from this life?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 8, 2018:

I make mine the words from the last comment.

How old/young were you when you realized you were atheist/agnostic?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 8, 2018:

Still at school. Donkey's years ago.

True story. I have no clue how to date anymore . . . . .

Paddypereira comments on Oct 8, 2018:

I've had a date on Saturday, my first in years. I just went for it, although I don't think we're going to gel, it was great anyway. In the least, I got to know someone new.

Do you attract a certain type of the opposite sex? Do you have a preferred type?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Well, with me, there's no rule. A woman or has it to get me or doesn't. I'm not into blonde women but it means nothing.

Do atheists observe Halloween?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 7, 2018:

Well, if I manage to get done an Alice Cooper style make up it'll be a happy Halloween for me.

Atheist political party

Paddypereira comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Well, all nations should have the political power separated from religion. Here in Europe already is like that for quite a few years.

Imagination, good or bad?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Not only in science but in arts as well. Everything has it's advantages and disadvantages.

How many of you attend services, but are agnostic?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 5, 2018:

I don't. The last time I went to the church it was for friends wedding in Poland. That one was the best ever. The priest seemed to be good craic, telling jokes in the middle of the service. Unfortunately, I couldn't understand a word, it was in Polish.

What would your pet name you?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 5, 2018:

Paddy, hopefully.

I just don't understand how people can stand being alone.

Paddypereira comments on Oct 4, 2018:

Everyone is different. I have been alone for a while and I feel great. Nothing wrong with that.

If you have a birthday today...

Paddypereira comments on Oct 3, 2018:

Mine's on the 27th of April. Long way to go. There will be party. Always an excuse to gather a group of friends.

The existing/non existing Universe

Paddypereira comments on Oct 3, 2018:

Well, to enjoy the present is good. Take actions to try to get a better future isn't wrong. Learn from the past is excellent.

Do you love where you live?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 3, 2018:

Well, Dublin weather is crap, it's expensive but always good gigs and fun around. So, not a bad place to live in.

Homosexuality?

Paddypereira comments on Oct 2, 2018:

I don't know. I had a classmate that would have very feminine posture, his amount of feminine hormones was high, if he's gay, that would explain his case. So, how far it's natural it's debatable.

Question about finding the right person.

Paddypereira comments on Sep 30, 2018:

Well, there's always someone who feels right to us. The problem sometimes is finding that person.

Do atheists, who find no magic in the world, live drab, boring lives, by comparison?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Well, I spend my day chasing leprechauns just for the craic.

Watchtower

Paddypereira comments on Sep 29, 2018:

My older brother used to be a JW. Basically, it's all the same, slightly different interpretation of the Bible. JW have a good sense of community between them but believe so much bs that isn't on the Bible that makes you wonder where it came from.

I've asked this question in a different forum, and the answers were interesting.

Paddypereira comments on Sep 29, 2018:

Well, I'm using online dating and see how it goes. Whenever has to happen will happen.

So I grew up in a rather religious Muslim family and I remember my family being pretty superstitious...

Paddypereira comments on Sep 28, 2018:

Jaysus, no!!! There's always silly superstition but those you described are quite weird.

Are you an example for people around you?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I don't know.

It's my birthday! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 I scheduled 3 job interviews today.

Paddypereira comments on Sep 25, 2018:

Happy birthday, lass, good luck!

Today, a guy tried to pass me a flyer for the Universal Church of The Kingdom of God.

Paddypereira comments on Sep 25, 2018:

The worst of that it's they are tax free. We work hard and pay taxes to have our own things.

What was the best first date you've had?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 24, 2018:

Halloween. Ended up staying at her gaff for the night and her cats sleeping near me like they were watching over me. The day after, Motorhead concert. Couldn't get much better than that.

Anyone else feel isolated?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 24, 2018:

At the moment, it's me who's trying to isolate himself.

Do you think there should be a high school course to teach common sense laws to teenagers?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 23, 2018:

Common sense isn't that common any more, I'm afraid.

Men who never learned to cook

Paddypereira comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I can cook a bit. I live on my own. To cook for myself, I never bother too much, just to feed myself in a satisfactory manner. Cooking for a few friends, that gives me a kick. I don't do it often, unfortunately. It's always a good thing when you can cook a bit.

How many atheists here are musicians/artists

Paddypereira comments on Sep 22, 2018:

I play bass in a band and I sometimes write poetry.

Favorite songs?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Here go a few of my all time favourite : Beyond The Realms Of Death, Judas Priest ; Where The Wild Roses Grow, Nick Cave and Kylie Minogue ; Dancing In The Dark, Bruce Springsteen ; Save A Prayer, Duran Duran ; Seventh Son Of A Seventh Son, Iron Maiden ; Solitude, Black Sabbath ; Samarithan, Candlemass ; Black Dog, Led Zeppelin ; Pursuit Of The Vikings, Amon Amarth ; Future World, Helloween ; Disposable Heroes, Metallica ; Hangar 18, Megadeth ; Rock Me Amadeus, Falco ; Rasputin, Boney M; As I Am, Dream Theatre.

FAQ- who are we?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 22, 2018:

Human beings.

Why do young guys think sarcasm is positive?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 21, 2018:

When used for sense of humour, it's positive, I think. It also depends on how it's used though. I have a mate who is quite sarcastic but he uses it in his particular way that I find funny. I might be wrong on this but it's a way to see things.

Have you met anyone from this site?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 20, 2018:

Most of the people here live too far away from me. Nevertheless, maybe I'll meet someone from here, even if it's for a pint and yapping.

Are common interests important to you?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 20, 2018:

Well, it helps but it's not all. I have good friends that have little in commm with me.

Where are you from?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 20, 2018:

Curiosity. What's wrong with that? Being Portuguese I'm proud of where I come from. I live in Dublin, Ireland. Plenty of people from different countries. Different attitudes. All good.

I could use some words of wisdom, friends.

Paddypereira comments on Sep 19, 2018:

I don't know what to tell you, people will try to help you but everyone has a different opinion and do things differently. While you're working there keep your journal going, write down everything. One thing for sure is to try to find a better workplace. I believe you will make the decision when the time comes for the best or for the worst. I'll be here and support you, specially after passing through a similar situation, not as heavy as yours though. All the best, don't give in, never surrender.

Has anybody ever gone numb emotionally?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 18, 2018:

I have. Probably I still am.

Did (a) god create humans

Paddypereira comments on Sep 17, 2018:

I haven't a clue.

Has a certain song ever sounded faster than usual to you on the radio?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 16, 2018:

Faster, not really. Edited and shortened, yes.

Boy Scouts?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 15, 2018:

Well, it's a good thing, the boy scouts. Check things well.

Why is it that most people here are from the US?

Paddypereira comments on Sep 15, 2018:

Well, I'm Portuguese and I live in Dublin, Ireland. Hopefully it'll make me one of a kind here... Lol!!! I don't give a rat's a**e where most come from, I'm more worried about having people with good attitude.

My son found the black and white aerial photo of our place taken before 1982 when we moved here.

Paddypereira comments on Sep 15, 2018:

Great stuff!