I have been told that I am a man child. I would hope this means young at heart, but I think is more that I am childish and needy a Brat even if the role fits. I think this is just one side one of my girlfriend brings out in me though.

Subside: Male or Female
I enjoy a good flogging, as well as crops and canes. I really like to get fucked in the ass. Cuddling and feeling the weight of another person on me. The warmth of another person is what I crave. In return I will do anything in my power for you.

Domside: Female
I really enjoy watching you cum, oral or other. I really enjoy toys and using my mouth. I would like to tie you up and stretch you across the bed, so you can wiggle but not get away. Start you out slow and work you up. Just past the point of breaking you. Then untie you and wrap you in a warm blanket, snuggle next to you and feed you cookies. What would you like to watch on Netflix?

But like i said, I need a relationship and Drama FREE, I have been Married for 20+ years and have 5 sons. So a lack of Drama in my life is a must.

Outside of the bedroom I will want to go on dates to the movies or dinner. Maybe to the park for a picnic. Call me crazy but the "Date" is a lost art. Think about it you start dating in High School, after a few year you get married and you don't have to worry about dating anymore. So you lose it, you forget what it was like. The hunt and the captor where you are the hunted or the prey either way it's fun.

Enter the Switch:
I was always the hunter, looking high and low. But then I was hunted and WOW talk about a rush to be chased! Now I can't stop the want of being chased, it's way too much fun!!

Yes I have my faults just like everyone else, I work too much. I really should not drink Whiskey or Scotch. I love a drunken beer crawl. I will get in your face faster than you know, if you don't have consent and you touch someone when they don't want you to. I am quiet and shy. I go from a 1 to a 9 really quick there is no in between. I will snap at a waiter that I think has disrespected my date, but I will still leave them a nice tip. (we are not all assholes, sometimes we just had a bad day). If you come at me without just cause I will shut you down and shut you out like no ones business. (I am working on this one, I need to be more forgiving) I have mommy issues and I knew this. Powerful females can make me shut down and I won't speak to them again. (also something I am working on to find balance)

But I really enjoy glamping, (fancy camping), walking/hiking, dancing, sitting around fires and talking, relaxing, naps in the middle of the day, Movies, anime, comics, most music, (I lost this when I had to cut myself off from ICP back in the late 90s) Food! WOW food I'm a fat guy, I love food, I enjoy thinking about how the food tastes. Trying different foods not just burgers, I shy away from fast food and chains. I want to find the small place around the corner and try something that not very many people have. I like meat but I also love vegetables.

Body Type:

I am a large man 6 ft 350 lbs, but I carry it well. Walking 3-4 miles is nothing to me. I may look like a tub of shit but baby I can move. I wear a suit like a bear wears his fur. I also like to be as naked as soon as I can be. The suit is just for show.

The Beard, it's a thing of beauty. Thank you for stopping by, but if you would like we can be friends . With that said I am one hairy motherfucker. I have long hair right now, sometimes it's shaved but I started to grow it out a year or so ago and I don't plan on cutting it for another year.

What I like in a nutshell, I am attracted to short, young women with a round face, African American Men of a certain body type and Transgender persons. Now with that being said I am not dating anyone like that. I'm just attracted to that.

Now if you are not any of these don't worry if we click we will see what happens if we don't Thank you for talking to me, and i appreciate it.

If you are this type I will quietly stake you, and when you least expect it I will just out of the bushes and say, "I am looking for someone to go on an adventure with me. do you accept?"

Nothing feels better to me then shedding the skin and entering the Bear and not caring any longer.