The David Bromberg Quintet - Walkin’ Blues (eTown webisode 1121) -

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

No but glad to see he's still kickin. "She walks she talks she crawls on the floor like a reptile..."

Do you have an optimizing strategy for making friends on Agnostic.com. ?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

Don't really consider it. Just do me the best I can and let anything else stick or fall. I can be just as open with a complete stranger as someone I've known ever since, real life or not.

Is the true measure of a relationship it's duration?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

Depends on the manner of relationship. Generally, no. Duration isn't a gauge of a good relationship. Ask any person who suffered long in an abusive one because they felt trapped for decades.

What are levels???

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

A gauge of activity/participation.

Philosophy of Life

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

"Stride with a proud disdain through the swamp of human inadmissibility. "

I have long been fascinated by the concept of near death experiences.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

Twice. Nothing to report.

What are your thoughts on suicide?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

By any one at any time for any reason.

I'd love to move back home to Ireland. Anyone else feeling homesick?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

I miss swimming in lake ontario, but no... Home is wherever I am.

What is the purpose of pain?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

Physical or mental/emotional ?

What Do You Do When You Are Sad?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

I don't really get sad. . Questions like these and the responses always make me re-realize how different my upbringing was. After the first 17 years of life, there just isn't a lot that makes me afraid, angry, sad, etc. Perhaps more a detriment than 'blessing', but then seeing how much so many suffer....I have to wonder.

How did your parents first take the news finding out you're an atheist?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 28, 2018:

Afaik my parents were too. Religion wasn't a concern.

Who Brings Out the Best in You?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 28, 2018:

Pretty much anyone. Depends more on the situation/circumstances.

Recently a friend told me a joke about a couple arriving in Heaven and receiving a tour.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 29, 2018:

1. Because Jibbers suffered so why can't you. 2. Because money = the holy spirit, the hand of god through man

Morality is Very subjective, As an individual you decide what is Moral.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 29, 2018:

Morality is malleable. More a matter of convenience than anything else.

Share your scariest story.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Scary enough that nothing since has been.

You really start to look at life differently when you are 1/2 a century old today. just saying :-D

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Well happy birf man. Do something special - it could be your last solar orbit. Hope it aint, 'cuz it gets better on the downhill slide.

Nostalgic music.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Captain Beyond's self titled debut. More so the music from 68 to about 72 - it was a wild time in my life and always enjoy listening to it. Frank Zappa, captain beefheart, Alice cooper, Iggy pop, James Brown, Joni mitchell, Jimi Hendrix, etc. I listen to a lot of current and older stuff, but rarely radio. Like big band/swing too.

Pawning/selling wedding jewelry

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Didn't have any. Two marriages - no rings, etc.

What is a word you use that isn’t in the dictionary and not many other people use?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Been using Avast and Aroint more often. It is a word but fallen from use. I like using antiquated words...yay, and verily so.

What is a word you use that isn’t in the dictionary and not many other people use?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Confabulate - combining nonsense to conclusion. . Comfortablize - to make comfortable.

TV or not?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Jun 5, 2018:

Haven't owned a tv in a long time.

What songs make you happy?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Jun 6, 2018:

Home again / Batdorf & Rodney Ready or not / Michael Hedges Catastrophe / Jimi Hendrix Back in the nasty / crank county daredevils Jumpin/ dug pinnick Flashlight / p-funk

I'm watching The Princess Bride on tv right now.

Slappy_Longarms comments on Jun 11, 2018:

I've met a few famous folks along the way. But no, Joni Mitchell never called, wrote or came by. Much sad....so disappoint.

"Leave 'em laughing" or "Leave 'em thinking" ???

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 16, 2018:

Both....of course. Or at least leave them wondering what just happened.

Do you believe in love at first sight?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Attraction, yes. Love....well, that's a relative kind of thing....means a lot of different things to whomever is using it at that moment. Love is a wishing well. ?

Do You Feel You Are Mentally Ready For A New Relationship?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 17, 2018:

I'm just happy to meet people. Ready ? As I ever was I suppose. I don't really think in the same realm as most people seem to, so it isn't likely to happen that I'll go into another relationship, but I never thought I would then either. Shit happens.

What’s the craziest story from your life, that is true but people would find hard to believe.

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 18, 2018:

Oh man..... ...... Some things.

Is all religious belief based on the mystical?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Fear. Power. Control. That's all.

Some religious fanatics commit an utterly incomprehensible evil by harming or even killing their ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Yes. It's wilful neglect leading to murder regardless the age of the victim.

In your opinion what is the most likely thing that could halt human progress?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Nothing. Progress can be impeded, but not stopped. Given our short life span we have a skewed vision of evolution. But think of where humanity was even 200 years ago. That's roughly three life times. Still sucks in a lot of ways, but obviously many things have improved despite the impediments of some.

Lost in Translation

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

I can be very blunt, to the point, some say crude and rude, arrogant, and such. It doesn't bother me, but does bother some folks. Intent vs. perception is a pool of mud.

We all know that it is not uncommon for people to post pictures 15-20 years old as current.

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Pic current. I don't have any older than the last few months.

God is a concept

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 22, 2018:

God is a paradigm of thought most can't think beyond.

God is a concept

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 22, 2018:

That Lennon quote is from a song he did. I forget which album it's on.

How do you feel about intentions?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 24, 2018:

In a way it implies belief in a greater granting power - that some force exists that says "yeah, sure, here ya go" based on some nebulous balancing act of life. I don't think it works that way or there'd be no problems for anyone. . Intention within limitation guided by effort. You might make it, you might not.

Let's get to know each other a little more. What was your favorite live music event?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 24, 2018:

They were all good, but : Now I'm not, nor ever was, much a kiss fan. I saw them open for black Sabbath around 1973 or 4..it remains one of the best shows I've ever seen. They were on the cusp of becoming what they became. It was made more memorable because while they absolutely rocked, Sabbath sucked - they were way to high to be onstage. . Seeing Leslie West live in a small bar was amazing. . Humble Pie 1972 - Steve Marriott was a joy to behold. .. Blue Cheer in small venues just before Dickie Peterson died was great. .. Hot Tuna 1972 small college show was great. .. Some more, but you get the idea.

Did any of you play with Jarts as a kid?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 25, 2018:

??? she got pegged in the head with a lawn dart.... Her dad didn't see her That's the worst part Pegged in the head with a lawn dart Now they're off the shelves at the K Mart.. (Eds Redeeming Qualities/ lawn dart)

Do you feel any kind of self-restriction in this site?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 27, 2018:

It's as much a dating site as any other group. Random shot at hitting it off with someone if that's what one is looking for. I enjoy reading people's opinions, experiences, thoughts. I like the profile set-up. Variety of topics. Much less antagonistic posting and commenting.

Can we forgive humans for being human?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 27, 2018:

What's to forgive ? Human nature ?

Boundaries

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 27, 2018:

One thing I've always had is a personal code of what I won't tolerate or do. I've had to alter it very little. It has cost some but my internal integrity is more important than what anyone may think, say, or do in response.

What have you always wanted? Did you ever get it?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 28, 2018:

Aside from astounding monetary wealth.... Yes. I've ended up pretty much where I wanted to be.

Snoring. You Guilty? Is it a deal breaker?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 28, 2018:

No, I dont. Deal breaker ? As far as sleeping in the same room maybe, but overall - no.

What is your favorite YouTube channel?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 28, 2018:

Music is the only thing I use it for

Appropriating from scripture.

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Nothing. I've never read the religious texts.

Hot or cold State

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Central New Mexico is pretty nice. I've lived in New York, Mass, Florida, Texas and now here. I'll never move to a cold state again, or the southeast US.

CONFIDING.. HELP OR HINDER?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

I'm open generally - I don't mind talking about experiences, feelings, etc. But I don't care much what others think or say, so it works out. I think most people take things as telling them what to do when it isn't really. I only express what works for me, not what I think anyone else should do - unless they specifically ask for advice, and even that is only saying what I would do.

Do you believe the self is an illusion and how have you experienced the dissolution of the self?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

No. No.

How many of you also dislike the term “intellectual dishonesty?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Not sure what/how you're using the terms, but I have found many people seem to feel no need for their beliefs to be cohesive. Kind of amusing and aggravating at the same time.

are you afraid of death?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 3, 2018:

No.

What are you thinking or feeling?...in song lyrics

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 4, 2018:

Got some black coffee Smokin' cigarette I keep reaching for the future Ain't got there yet.

What are you thinking or feeling?...in song lyrics

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 4, 2018:

I'm my world of sleepers All will be erased I'll be your religion Your only endless ideal Slowly we'll crawl Swallowed by the seductive night My torch.....has burnt out.

Are you a snob? With what subjects/topics? . I am, here are mine: Movies, Coffee, Toilet Paper.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 4, 2018:

Not really. I only know my experiences. But I do demand good coffee.

Are you a competitive person or the opposite?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 4, 2018:

Not very. There isn't much worth competing for.

Love and hate

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 5, 2018:

Familiarity breeds contempt, as they say.

To or not to make friends with the new neighbors?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 6, 2018:

Difficult to assess someone you haven't met or spoken with. I at least introduce myself. Anything above that is optional.

What’s the one song you wish you would’ve written.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 6, 2018:

This may sound a bit off, but 'call me maybe'. I know, it's pop drivel but the line "before you came in to my life I missed you so bad" is pure genius. . I'll attempt redeeming myself with "I'm so bad baby I don't care" by motorhead.

What about your apppearance defines you?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 7, 2018:

Hair. It's what folks remember.

I’ve seen a couple of comments on here about how important it is to lay out expectations when ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 7, 2018:

Expectations. Not really.

What’s the most frustrating thing about getting older?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 8, 2018:

I like getting/being older. Remembering all I've done, experienced, lived through. I suppose growing body frailty, but even there I just don't exert myself, so it's all good. I've definitely gained a deeper appreciation for simple things.

I suppose I could put this post in the Academic category, but this is for sure a cross-category ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 9, 2018:

People say I've been lucky all through my life. That I have good qi....I'm blessed....etc........ I don't know...wasn't so much fun for me sometimes. I've had to live it, not see it. Fortuitous random events that could have easily gone the other way and badly but didnt...., what can you say. Calling it luck as if something bestows favor......naaahh...shit happens or doesn't. My luck will run out. Buy me a lottery ticket too. Who are Jerry and Nasubi ? Tell them but me a ticket too.

Have you ever had in-laws that you didn’t like at all?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 9, 2018:

Absolutely. And they did not like me. As Al Capone said "I'm a nice guy, but if you're not nice to me that won't be what you remember me for".

My two cents: I don’t normally spend much time reading bios.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 10, 2018:

I don't write anything with any other intent than saying hello. You read nothing from me I wouldn't say in person. I do like that various question responses are included ( unless you disable it I guess) as it gives a feel for someone s sense of humor or thought processes. But then I'm not really " looking to date"....only meet like minded folks. If something cliks from there, so be it....if not, so be it. For me this is just another online group in that respect.

Community living

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 11, 2018:

Commune ? For aging/dying folks ? Not sure how well that would work given people's needs etc.

Have a great weekend.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 11, 2018:

Hello. I used to live up there. Went to Manlius Military School waaay back when. I do not miss the snow.

Who's your favorite sexy male/female old Hollywood siren?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 12, 2018:

Donna Reed. Sterling Hayden.

August Jam 1974

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 12, 2018:

No. I was in New york. Never heard of though. We're they good ?

Do You Think We Tend To Over Endulge When It Comes To Our Pets?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 12, 2018:

Many do. Reminded me of a play, Sasha On Line.....one man show....an interview with a guy in line for rations in the old ussr. "Any questions Sasha?" " yes ! Is it true, in America you have whole isles in food store...whole isles !.... Just for dog ?!? "

Assumptions

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 13, 2018:

I don't know. They learn pretty quick otherwise if they did/do though.

What percent of your purchases are made on-line?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 13, 2018:

None. I don't do anything financial online.

2010 WC9: Asteroid the Size of the Statue of Liberty Set to Skim Past Earth

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 14, 2018:

For me it's perspective on existence. Around 1300 tracked bodies on close trajectory with earth. Some of evolutionary reset size. And those are only what we know of. It's pretty awesome.

Atheist jewelry? Do you wear any jewelry that IDs you as atheist/agnostic/freethinker, etc?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 15, 2018:

No. But I do have a box of jewelry - rings, bracelets, pins. Not big on necklaces - don't like things around my neck. Never wear a tie either.

Do you value empathy?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 15, 2018:

I think people are selectively empathetic. Same with other moralistic notions. We choose when to place them, or cast aside. Also think the term sociopath is tossed about far too lightly. Most exhibit sociopathic traits to some extent - it's almost required to live - but sociopath should be reserved for those who truly become it - Bundy, Dahmer, etc.

One Year of You..

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 16, 2018:

1971 Titled 'everything I need to know I learned in reform school' It's basically true. Almost everything learned since has a tether to something learned that time. You'd likely learn self reliance, self control, when to use what urge or ability and how, and how to 'read' people

Life is easier with a capsule wardrobe - The Washington Post

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 16, 2018:

I tend to dress for what I'm going to do - actor/ musician. Generally people say I dress casual nice, but if all you have is nice clothes....it's not difficult.

So, I've been listening to this hokie book called Mars and Venus on a date.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 17, 2018:

The Tyranny of Malice / Joseph Berke A bit repititious, but had me questioning and ultimately altering my approach to situations and assessing others reactions to my being. . Zen Guitar / Philip Toshio Sudo Generally about playing music but a good little read on outlook and how to manage life. "Pick it up. Tune it. Play it." . The unbearable lightness of being / Milan Kundera Just a great book. Film version sucked.

Why do intelligent people suddenly turn to a god in there darkest hours

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 17, 2018:

Fear. The greatest motivator of all.

. If you could have any celebrity voice read all of your emails to you, whose voice would it be?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 17, 2018:

Bob Dylan....be better if he sang them though.

What do you want from life?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 17, 2018:

At this point, nothing. It's enough for me to exist and enjoy my time.

Finish This Statement: "I Remember"

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 18, 2018:

"I remember doodoo, they had a swimming pool" Frank Zappa

Keith Richards IS Jesus Hear me out.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 18, 2018:

He and Nick will die. It will initiate the apocalypse. Read me now and believe me later.

What generation atheist or agnostic are you?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 19, 2018:

Parents & grandparents never mentioned religion. No one went to church.

How many of you old folks grunt when you exert yourself.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

I don't exert myself. It's not a good idea. I do say 'owww' a lot though. Started ...hmmm. Early 50's probably.

Time travel. What song takes you back to a childhood place?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

With you there to help me / jethro tull.

Anyone besides me driven crazy by trying to find a way to make a lasting difference in this world ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

To that degree - no. I think everywhere I go, whoever I talk to - even right now - I'm having an affect. That's good enough for me. Personally being just one more life form that existed among billions of others is a comforting thought.

I am a Facebook user, I have close to 800 people.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

I'm pretty selective on FB. I don't accept requests unless I see other mutual names, or get a message. No randoms. The first religious post I see gets that person booted regardless who they are. I also do very little posting or commenting outside the closed groups I'm involved with. It's for my use, not others.

My all-time favorite singer, Melanie, has an old song that goes: “Beautiful people, you live in ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

Well she's ok y'know ....but I've always been a Joni Mitchell kinda guy. ?

Love is the answer.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

Relative concept. Love of country and people guides genocide.

I just wanted to thank everyone for the great recommendations for my trip to DC.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 21, 2018:

Back in 1976 ( I was 21 ) I had a wait in DC - traveling by bus. Thought I'd wander to pass the time. Got a block away from the station a black limo pulled up, guy asked did I need a ride. No. Turned and walked. Another guy comes up asking did I want a good time. At that point I decided to wait in the station. . Glad your trip was better.

How do you feel about the saying "if you can't be with the one you love, love the one you're with"?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 21, 2018:

Not one of his better songs.

In America, will justice ever be blind?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 22, 2018:

In th'murica ? No. Money can make things happen, or not happen.

Expanding your mind begins with being open to things you don't understand.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 22, 2018:

Far out. So what are you even talking about ?

Songs with a woman's name in the title

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 23, 2018:

Dolly Dagger/Jimi Hendrix

Aside from your beliefs, what other areas of your life do you feel you have to hide to avoid ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 24, 2018:

Not much. One look at me is enough for most folks to surmise incorrectly. Nothing to hide.

Can pets be "bad",Or are there just bad owners?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

I think it's applying human concepts to nonhumans. Other animals have personalities and relationships. Treat them as such and you'll get along. Piss them off and they'll let you know it.

Can pets be "bad",Or are there just bad owners?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

Years ago I had nine dobermans. Yeah. Nine. Good times. Each was a distinct personality that required individual treatment. People would say of a few "that dog's an asshole". I'd say " no, he/she just doesn't like you".

Pope Francis

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

I'll be polite : fuck him.

I have a theory.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

Anything anyone ever does is selfish on some level. . Combating injustice is a worthy pursuit. Good luck with your endeavors.

Pretty ugly ingenious poem

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

One thing that really bothers me is people expressing self loathing. I understand there's a myriad of reasons why they do, but still. Sometimes I just agree with them. . Anyway, yes, I've seen this before. It's cute.

Is it ok if married couples keep secrets from one another?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

Depends. Want to be an accomplice to criminal activities ? Or shall they remain secret. ;-) Generally no secrets, but depends on what it is I think.

How do you feel when someone gives you sympathy?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

Indifferent mostly. I appreciate their concern, but it's of little value. "We both stared at my shoes...she didn't know what I'd do with the rest of my life now either"