How do people within this group define "liberal"?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 3, 2018:

I dont. It implies too many things to each person. Pretty much a useless word in a political context.

Does anyone else believe that being physically close and emotionally open is the key to a good ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 22, 2018:

Of course. A few other things too, but those are important.

Do you have any qualms about indoctrinating your children into non-belief?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 30, 2018:

Raised mine clearly expressing my views on religion and the god concept. Figured my job as a parent was to hip them to nonsense and saw no reason to give either a pass. Both are now grown and have since thanked me for being the only one who didn't bullshit them.

Do you think the Pope really believes there are gods, heavens, and lives after death?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 24, 2018:

I don't care what that creep thinks. He belongs in prison.

Favorite cover songs?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 16, 2018:

I am the walrus / spooky tooth Stone cold sober / Andy Taylor I get wet / paper the operator The warning / black sabbath Johnny b. Good / Jimi Hendrix Parchman farm / blue cheer love bizarre / Michael Hedges The boxer / Stu Daye On the western plain / Rory Gallagher .....most of what led zep did

Do you celebrate religious holidays?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 25, 2018:

Doesn t bother me that people do, for all the reasons listed by others here. . Personally, no, I dont.

What are your thoughts on suicide?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

By any one at any time for any reason.

Atheism and mortality.

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 20, 2018:

They're dead....gone. That's about it.

Anyone doing anything Fun this weekend

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 17, 2018:

Helping my daughter pack then getting her to the air port. She took a year off her life and is now moving back into it up north.

I remember that even in school most people i knew seemed petty and those people still are.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 9, 2018:

I've had no contact with anyone from the schools I attended.

Being offended: What does it REALLY mean?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 16, 2018:

Being offended is generally an indication of insecurity. There may be good or bad reasons for that insecurity, but none the less.....

Do you think it's possible for two people of the opposite sex to maintain a platonic relationship?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 21, 2018:

Absolutely. Most of my better friends have been women.

Has religion ever been the main reason for the dissolution of your relationship with your partner?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

It has been a large contributor, yes.

Does it make you feel uneasy having to attend weddings or funerals in a church?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 19, 2018:

I dont. Haven't been to a wedding, funeral, or any such in decades. I decided long ago to not do things I don't really want to do. Not worth it.

What songs make you happy?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Jun 6, 2018:

Home again / Batdorf & Rodney Ready or not / Michael Hedges Catastrophe / Jimi Hendrix Back in the nasty / crank county daredevils Jumpin/ dug pinnick Flashlight / p-funk

Which is the most far out, ridiculous religion?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

The one that worships a deity. Straight up whacky.

Regrets. Which is worse? To regret something you have done, or something you haven't done.

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Something you haven't I suppose. I don't really regret anything. Even the most terrible experience taught me things. Also not one for impulsive behavior - if I do it I wanted to and didn't care about consequences. So there's nothing to regret or feel guilt/shame for.

Solicitation

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 22, 2018:

Works for me. One on the door, one on my car.

Anyone going to the Grateful Dead show in June in Eugene?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Bit of a drive from NM.....otherwise, yeah.

The David Bromberg Quintet - Walkin’ Blues (eTown webisode 1121) -

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

No but glad to see he's still kickin. "She walks she talks she crawls on the floor like a reptile..."

If you have religious friends how dishonest are they when it comes to talking about their religion:

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

I have no friend who is religious. I can't respect someone who's outlook relies on willful ignorance.

Political Songs!

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 20, 2018:

Cactus - restrictions

What is your Neil Young birthday song verse?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 13, 2018:

You can really learn a lot that way It will change you in the middle of the day Though your confidence may be shattered It doesn't matter

Recently a friend told me a joke about a couple arriving in Heaven and receiving a tour.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 29, 2018:

1. Because Jibbers suffered so why can't you. 2. Because money = the holy spirit, the hand of god through man

Sometimes I think about how much harm religion has done to scientific or just moral progress for the...

Slappy_Longarms comments on Jun 11, 2018:

I'm always undecided on this subject. No doubt religions have caused harm and a lot of it, and need being shed of. But. To assume all would be swimmingly well, progressed or advanced had they not been conceived of is errant I think. We've simply no way of knowing how humanity would have evolve d - we only have a history with them to judge by. And given our history with or without, it isn't beyond reckoning that things could be far worse for those on the sharp end of the stick.

Atheist jewelry? Do you wear any jewelry that IDs you as atheist/agnostic/freethinker, etc?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 15, 2018:

No. But I do have a box of jewelry - rings, bracelets, pins. Not big on necklaces - don't like things around my neck. Never wear a tie either.

How do you feel when someone gives you sympathy?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

Indifferent mostly. I appreciate their concern, but it's of little value. "We both stared at my shoes...she didn't know what I'd do with the rest of my life now either"

Are you a snob? With what subjects/topics? . I am, here are mine: Movies, Coffee, Toilet Paper.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 4, 2018:

Not really. I only know my experiences. But I do demand good coffee.

What’s the craziest story from your life, that is true but people would find hard to believe.

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 18, 2018:

Oh man..... ...... Some things.

CONFIDING.. HELP OR HINDER?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

I'm open generally - I don't mind talking about experiences, feelings, etc. But I don't care much what others think or say, so it works out. I think most people take things as telling them what to do when it isn't really. I only express what works for me, not what I think anyone else should do - unless they specifically ask for advice, and even that is only saying what I would do.

One or two coffee's before leaving the house for work?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

Three to five pots a day here.

Hormel just announced they're recalling 20000 pounds of spam. Do you like spam?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

Yes. Haven't had in a long time but it isn't bad.

What generation atheist or agnostic are you?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 19, 2018:

Parents & grandparents never mentioned religion. No one went to church.

I suppose I could put this post in the Academic category, but this is for sure a cross-category ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 9, 2018:

People say I've been lucky all through my life. That I have good qi....I'm blessed....etc........ I don't know...wasn't so much fun for me sometimes. I've had to live it, not see it. Fortuitous random events that could have easily gone the other way and badly but didnt...., what can you say. Calling it luck as if something bestows favor......naaahh...shit happens or doesn't. My luck will run out. Buy me a lottery ticket too. Who are Jerry and Nasubi ? Tell them but me a ticket too.

Boundaries

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 27, 2018:

One thing I've always had is a personal code of what I won't tolerate or do. I've had to alter it very little. It has cost some but my internal integrity is more important than what anyone may think, say, or do in response.

What have you always wanted? Did you ever get it?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 28, 2018:

Aside from astounding monetary wealth.... Yes. I've ended up pretty much where I wanted to be.

Is all religious belief based on the mystical?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Fear. Power. Control. That's all.

are you afraid of death?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 3, 2018:

No.

Are you a competitive person or the opposite?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 4, 2018:

Not very. There isn't much worth competing for.

Let's get to know each other a little more. What was your favorite live music event?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 24, 2018:

They were all good, but : Now I'm not, nor ever was, much a kiss fan. I saw them open for black Sabbath around 1973 or 4..it remains one of the best shows I've ever seen. They were on the cusp of becoming what they became. It was made more memorable because while they absolutely rocked, Sabbath sucked - they were way to high to be onstage. . Seeing Leslie West live in a small bar was amazing. . Humble Pie 1972 - Steve Marriott was a joy to behold. .. Blue Cheer in small venues just before Dickie Peterson died was great. .. Hot Tuna 1972 small college show was great. .. Some more, but you get the idea.

Can we forgive humans for being human?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 27, 2018:

What's to forgive ? Human nature ?

What about your apppearance defines you?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 7, 2018:

Hair. It's what folks remember.

How many of you also dislike the term “intellectual dishonesty?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Not sure what/how you're using the terms, but I have found many people seem to feel no need for their beliefs to be cohesive. Kind of amusing and aggravating at the same time.

. If you could have any celebrity voice read all of your emails to you, whose voice would it be?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 17, 2018:

Bob Dylan....be better if he sang them though.

Who created God?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

You did.

What do you want from life?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 17, 2018:

At this point, nothing. It's enough for me to exist and enjoy my time.

Pope Francis

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

I'll be polite : fuck him.

What's the one most negative/detrimental effect religious teachings had on your life?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 29, 2018:

No religious teachings other than my own. No negative effects from that. So I'll go with the incursions into law by religion.

Do you think that over the years, social media has improved your communication/people skills or ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on Jun 5, 2018:

Neither really. Always knew people are people no matter where they are so that didn't change. Generally have good communication skills so that hasn't changed either.

In America, will justice ever be blind?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 22, 2018:

In th'murica ? No. Money can make things happen, or not happen.

Love and hate

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 5, 2018:

Familiarity breeds contempt, as they say.

Songs with a woman's name in the title

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 23, 2018:

Dolly Dagger/Jimi Hendrix

Time travel. What song takes you back to a childhood place?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

With you there to help me / jethro tull.

I’ve seen a couple of comments on here about how important it is to lay out expectations when ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 7, 2018:

Expectations. Not really.

In your opinion what is the most likely thing that could halt human progress?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Nothing. Progress can be impeded, but not stopped. Given our short life span we have a skewed vision of evolution. But think of where humanity was even 200 years ago. That's roughly three life times. Still sucks in a lot of ways, but obviously many things have improved despite the impediments of some.

To or not to make friends with the new neighbors?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 6, 2018:

Difficult to assess someone you haven't met or spoken with. I at least introduce myself. Anything above that is optional.

Who's your favorite sexy male/female old Hollywood siren?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 12, 2018:

Donna Reed. Sterling Hayden.

Can pets be "bad",Or are there just bad owners?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

I think it's applying human concepts to nonhumans. Other animals have personalities and relationships. Treat them as such and you'll get along. Piss them off and they'll let you know it.

How do you feel about intentions?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 24, 2018:

In a way it implies belief in a greater granting power - that some force exists that says "yeah, sure, here ya go" based on some nebulous balancing act of life. I don't think it works that way or there'd be no problems for anyone. . Intention within limitation guided by effort. You might make it, you might not.

Snoring. You Guilty? Is it a deal breaker?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 28, 2018:

No, I dont. Deal breaker ? As far as sleeping in the same room maybe, but overall - no.

Assumptions

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 13, 2018:

I don't know. They learn pretty quick otherwise if they did/do though.

What percent of your purchases are made on-line?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 13, 2018:

None. I don't do anything financial online.

Anyone besides me driven crazy by trying to find a way to make a lasting difference in this world ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

To that degree - no. I think everywhere I go, whoever I talk to - even right now - I'm having an affect. That's good enough for me. Personally being just one more life form that existed among billions of others is a comforting thought.

Lost in Translation

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

I can be very blunt, to the point, some say crude and rude, arrogant, and such. It doesn't bother me, but does bother some folks. Intent vs. perception is a pool of mud.

August Jam 1974

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 12, 2018:

No. I was in New york. Never heard of though. We're they good ?

What is the religion that when you meet someone you think it is the MOST ridiculous religion there ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 29, 2018:

The one that worships a deity.

What is the dumbest way you’ve been injured?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Another : was given a nice antique stiletto. Thought I'd see how well it worked so I roll a newspaper and held it in my hand. You guessed it - stab, stab, stab right through the paper and into my hand. Worse, I had a show to play that night and had to suffer through it.

I just wanted to thank everyone for the great recommendations for my trip to DC.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 21, 2018:

Back in 1976 ( I was 21 ) I had a wait in DC - traveling by bus. Thought I'd wander to pass the time. Got a block away from the station a black limo pulled up, guy asked did I need a ride. No. Turned and walked. Another guy comes up asking did I want a good time. At that point I decided to wait in the station. . Glad your trip was better.

Appropriating from scripture.

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 29, 2018:

Nothing. I've never read the religious texts.

Life is easier with a capsule wardrobe - The Washington Post

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 16, 2018:

I tend to dress for what I'm going to do - actor/ musician. Generally people say I dress casual nice, but if all you have is nice clothes....it's not difficult.

I have a theory.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

Anything anyone ever does is selfish on some level. . Combating injustice is a worthy pursuit. Good luck with your endeavors.

Some religious fanatics commit an utterly incomprehensible evil by harming or even killing their ...

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Yes. It's wilful neglect leading to murder regardless the age of the victim.

My two cents: I don’t normally spend much time reading bios.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 10, 2018:

I don't write anything with any other intent than saying hello. You read nothing from me I wouldn't say in person. I do like that various question responses are included ( unless you disable it I guess) as it gives a feel for someone s sense of humor or thought processes. But then I'm not really " looking to date"....only meet like minded folks. If something cliks from there, so be it....if not, so be it. For me this is just another online group in that respect.

What are you thinking or feeling?...in song lyrics

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 4, 2018:

I'm my world of sleepers All will be erased I'll be your religion Your only endless ideal Slowly we'll crawl Swallowed by the seductive night My torch.....has burnt out.

Community living

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 11, 2018:

Commune ? For aging/dying folks ? Not sure how well that would work given people's needs etc.

What are you thinking or feeling?...in song lyrics

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 4, 2018:

Got some black coffee Smokin' cigarette I keep reaching for the future Ain't got there yet.

Do you feel any kind of self-restriction in this site?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 27, 2018:

It's as much a dating site as any other group. Random shot at hitting it off with someone if that's what one is looking for. I enjoy reading people's opinions, experiences, thoughts. I like the profile set-up. Variety of topics. Much less antagonistic posting and commenting.

I've got the munchies! What's in your fridge?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 28, 2018:

Not much. Moving in a few days. Split the last hunk of chocolate cake with ya tho.

So, I've been listening to this hokie book called Mars and Venus on a date.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 17, 2018:

The Tyranny of Malice / Joseph Berke A bit repititious, but had me questioning and ultimately altering my approach to situations and assessing others reactions to my being. . Zen Guitar / Philip Toshio Sudo Generally about playing music but a good little read on outlook and how to manage life. "Pick it up. Tune it. Play it." . The unbearable lightness of being / Milan Kundera Just a great book. Film version sucked.

Describe yourself in one word. Mine would be "fun".

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 28, 2018:

Human

Pretty ugly ingenious poem

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

One thing that really bothers me is people expressing self loathing. I understand there's a myriad of reasons why they do, but still. Sometimes I just agree with them. . Anyway, yes, I've seen this before. It's cute.

Is it ok if married couples keep secrets from one another?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 27, 2018:

Depends. Want to be an accomplice to criminal activities ? Or shall they remain secret. ;-) Generally no secrets, but depends on what it is I think.

I am a Facebook user, I have close to 800 people.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 20, 2018:

I'm pretty selective on FB. I don't accept requests unless I see other mutual names, or get a message. No randoms. The first religious post I see gets that person booted regardless who they are. I also do very little posting or commenting outside the closed groups I'm involved with. It's for my use, not others.

What’s the most frustrating thing about getting older?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 8, 2018:

I like getting/being older. Remembering all I've done, experienced, lived through. I suppose growing body frailty, but even there I just don't exert myself, so it's all good. I've definitely gained a deeper appreciation for simple things.

One Year of You..

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 16, 2018:

1971 Titled 'everything I need to know I learned in reform school' It's basically true. Almost everything learned since has a tether to something learned that time. You'd likely learn self reliance, self control, when to use what urge or ability and how, and how to 'read' people

Does intelligence lead to atheism?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 31, 2018:

Not necessarily. Everyone knows some very intelligent folks who believe, and fervently so. The difference is the faith in holy spirit - the hand of a god through woman and man that allows them to suspend an otherwise inquisitive nature. They need it. Others dont.

Do you enjoy music that has a lot of brass in it?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Yes. If I like it I like it no matter the style or instrumentation. And oh funk me. Nothing makes me move like a nasty funk groove. Mothership Connection. . Came across Max Sedgleys 'happy' a while back. I think it's all generated but damn...that's funky.

Finish This Statement: "I Remember"

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 18, 2018:

"I remember doodoo, they had a swimming pool" Frank Zappa

Did any of you play with Jarts as a kid?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 25, 2018:

??? she got pegged in the head with a lawn dart.... Her dad didn't see her That's the worst part Pegged in the head with a lawn dart Now they're off the shelves at the K Mart.. (Eds Redeeming Qualities/ lawn dart)

Keith Richards IS Jesus Hear me out.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 18, 2018:

He and Nick will die. It will initiate the apocalypse. Read me now and believe me later.

"Leave 'em laughing" or "Leave 'em thinking" ???

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 16, 2018:

Both....of course. Or at least leave them wondering what just happened.

2010 WC9: Asteroid the Size of the Statue of Liberty Set to Skim Past Earth

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 14, 2018:

For me it's perspective on existence. Around 1300 tracked bodies on close trajectory with earth. Some of evolutionary reset size. And those are only what we know of. It's pretty awesome.

What’s the one song you wish you would’ve written.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 6, 2018:

This may sound a bit off, but 'call me maybe'. I know, it's pop drivel but the line "before you came in to my life I missed you so bad" is pure genius. . I'll attempt redeeming myself with "I'm so bad baby I don't care" by motorhead.

Is contentment a mini-death?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 28, 2018:

I don't think so. Why would it be ?

Do you value empathy?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 15, 2018:

I think people are selectively empathetic. Same with other moralistic notions. We choose when to place them, or cast aside. Also think the term sociopath is tossed about far too lightly. Most exhibit sociopathic traits to some extent - it's almost required to live - but sociopath should be reserved for those who truly become it - Bundy, Dahmer, etc.

Why are people stuck in relationships that are basically roommate's you pay bills with?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Probably a number of reasons one may or may not know about or think of. Ask them.

Can pets be "bad",Or are there just bad owners?

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 26, 2018:

Years ago I had nine dobermans. Yeah. Nine. Good times. Each was a distinct personality that required individual treatment. People would say of a few "that dog's an asshole". I'd say " no, he/she just doesn't like you".

We all know that it is not uncommon for people to post pictures 15-20 years old as current.

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Pic current. I don't have any older than the last few months.

What is your favorite YouTube channel?

Slappy_Longarms comments on Apr 28, 2018:

Music is the only thing I use it for

Responses to messages from someone (opposite sex) that your not interested in:.

Slappy_Longarms comments on May 30, 2018:

Polite response. Ignoring isn't good for anyone's self worth. You.open yourself to messages, the least you can do is respond.