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Long time member of "Alternate Lifestyle" groups in California. Have backed off of that since moving to Idaho. Too many Mormonoids up here, plus other true believers. I belonged to the San Diego Sexual Freedom League, Elysium, and Sandstone when living in California, but those are all gone now.

I'm a college graduate, recent widower, nonsmoker, don't drink much (although I don't have any objection to booze) have a cat, and don't have any drug/disease problems. I'm also a gun nut, so if that bother you, look elsewhere. Being a nudist gun nut put me in a unique position somewhere between nudists and gun nuts. I don't fit in with either group on a philosophical lever. We'll see what happens with this group.


I shot a man with a paintball gun just to watch him dye.
Spudgun comments on Feb 14, 2020:
LMAO...........bad pun, but funny
Do we have any idea how many members are actually active say since the start of December? I look at ...
Spudgun comments on Feb 13, 2020:
I joined about a year and a half ago (I think) and posted some comments right after that, but hadn't posted anything until recently. I've discovered some other groups that I've gotten to be pretty active in, so I'm a regular now. But I don't post every day either.
Feline Valentines
Spudgun comments on Feb 12, 2020:
That card is really the truth...........LMAO
What ever happened to snuggling?
Spudgun comments on Feb 12, 2020:
Nothing happened to it, Gideon does it every night when I go to bed. He stays with me until it's time to get up.
I was on a while back. Close enough to nearly getting the free shirt. This group wasn't...
Spudgun comments on Feb 11, 2020:
I think Bob's right (By the way, I haven't heard Bobsyouruncle since I was a Jaguar mechanic a lot of years ago) that there are hardly any Conservative Agnostic females. It's been my experience that most women who are Agnostics or Atheists are also Liberals and Trump haters. Both being stupid things that offend me to the point that I don't want to have anything to do with somebody who feels that way. Debating with most Liberals is an exercise in absolute futility. If the bimbos could think, they probably wouldn't be Liberals. The conservative women are either Jesus freaks of one kind or another, or even worse, Mormonoids (my own term for Mormons) and are somewhat horrified to find out that you don't believe in God, Jesus, or in the Bible. They will either try to convert you or have nothing to do with you after they find out your belief system. I'm a long way from Texas. I'm in Idaho. I like living in Idaho, because it's VERY gun friendly up here. But it's also way too religious, which is one of the things I just put up with. Don't discuss religion with most of the folks I hang out with. One of the other things I notice about this group is that there are zero, zilch, nada, women in it. So that kind of proves Bob's and my point. Finding a conservative agnostic women in this country is damn near impossible. Notice I said "nea impossible". There may be a few, which is why I keep looking. But not with any great expectation of finding one. 'Course, I'm also 75, which also makes it somewhat difficult to find a woman that is reasonably attractive. In other words, one who doesn't look like my grandmother. Bob's also right about Dating sites not working. There are a lot of them that are outright scams, and even the few that aren't tend to put some phony profiles on their sites, so beware. So what's the answer? I'm not sure there is one. If we ever do get a conservative agnostic/atheist women on here, there's going to be a real rush to chat with her, and an even bigger rush to date her.
Cat up to no good.
Spudgun comments on Feb 10, 2020:
Okay, that made me laugh out loud.
Cats Recognize Their Own Names—Even If They Choose to Ignore Them []
Spudgun comments on Feb 9, 2020:
Cats definitely know their names, but there are times when I think that cats are telepathic. They will respond to things that you say out loud, but they will also respond to what you are thinking. I have seen this happen way too many times with more than one cat, not to believe it.
Wisdom from a warrior/scholar:
Spudgun comments on Feb 9, 2020:
It is a proven fact that in every single case where right-to-carry laws have been passed, crime has gone down, and in every single case where anti-gun laws or gun-free zones have been created, crime has increased.
I just found out yesterday that my heart Lilly who is 16, has a slight heart murmur, in 3rd stage ...
Spudgun comments on Feb 3, 2020:
If she's having trouble with one of her teeth, you need to get her to a Vet really soon, as tooth problems can lead to a lot of other problems. Plus she'll be a lot happier when her teeth don't hurt.
A Fluffy New Grumpy Cat Has Arrived
Spudgun comments on Jan 26, 2020:
So if you folks are going to post songs about cats, how about "Smelly Cat" from the Friends TV show?
It's been almost two years since my wife died. I still miss her, but I'm pretty much over the grief....
Spudgun comments on Jan 25, 2020:
Thanks for the suggestions. However, right off the bat, I can see that I should have been more specific. At the moment, I'm in the Idaho Chariots car club, on the Board of Directors of Black's Creek Range, I belong to the Idaho Automoatic Weapons Collector's Association, I volunteer at Simply Cats once a week, plus helping out there when they need something extra. I'm busy enough that sometimes it's hard to fit all of it into one day. And I'm not discontent. I like being me. I'm also working on setting up basic pistol classes, but that's still in the early stages (I've been a marksmanship instructor for 37 years and done classes before) of putting that together. There isn't anywhere else I want to live, so relocation isn't an option. I'm 75 years old. Cathy and I were together for 25 years. That means that I was on my own for 50 years. I've been single a lot more than I was married. So it's not like I'm not used to it. But there is a difference now. When I was younger and single, I dated a lot of women, but that was in Los Angeles, and no, there is no way on earth I'd move back to California now. The single women i find now are mostly looking to get married, plus they're not agnostics or atheists. Or they're liberals. I'm a pretty staunch conservative. Beginning to see the problem? And I'm not necessarily looking to get married again. I'd just like somebody to hang out with now and then, or go places with. I like to travel, and have done a lot of it in my 75 years. There used to be an Agnostics group in Boise. I've spent a lot of time trying to find them. Even logged on to their website and went to the restaurant they used to meet in. Operative words USED TO. The folks at the restaurant said that they hadn't been there for six months. But it's still on their website. So it seems that they've either dissolved or gave up on social events. I've sent them messages and not gotten any answer. So I suppose that there really isn't a good answer so far. Maybe there isn't one at all. Sometimes life is like that. I'll keep on nosing around. One thing I've found out over the years is that you never know what tomorrow will bring. That leaves possibilities (however slim) open.
Just relaxing with my kitty.... []
Spudgun comments on Jan 23, 2020:
I love those Messi videos. He's incredibly well trained, and acts just like a big house cat. Hard wired the same way.
HI. Anyone else from Boise or Idaho in this group?
Spudgun comments on Jan 23, 2020:
Della, Would you like to meet in person at some point? If you would, let me know, and we'll work out the details. Zeke
HI, Folks. New member here. I've had cats most of my life, and am now volunteering at Simply Cats, ...
Spudgun comments on Jan 22, 2020:
Thanks for the comments. What I do at Simply Cats is to work in the Cat Pawsitive Pro program designed by Jackson Galaxy of My Cat From Hell fame. We teach cats to do things like High Fives, Sit, Jump through Hoops, Weave through Cones, Sit Pretty,Spin, and a few other things that will help them get adopted. Once they're in the shelter, which has no cages, they stay there until they get adopted, no matter how long it takes. I'm posting a shot of Gideon playing "Prince and the Pea" from a few months ago.
HI. Anyone else from Boise or Idaho in this group?
Spudgun comments on Jan 21, 2020:
Yeah, I know what you mean. Unlike a lot of the people on this site, I never has much use for religion. I don't know if there is a God or not, and I don't really care. My parents were Presbyterian, or I should say my Mother was. My dad wasn't particularly religious, and as soon a I got big enough, I stopped going to church. That was in high school some time. Years later, in the early 80's, I physically threw a Pentecostal preacher off my front porch when he wouldn't leave when I asked him to. So, yeah, I never talk about my lack of religion, because I figure that saying that will prompt somebody to "save" me, which I really don't need.
HI. Anyone else from Boise or Idaho in this group?
Spudgun comments on Jan 20, 2020:
Hi, Della, nice to meet you. There aren't many of us, that's for sure. The one negative to Boise is how many Jesus freaks there are here.
It's like living two lives?
Spudgun comments on Aug 2, 2018:
Yeah, I still don't get the "Stages of Grief" thing. I don't know that I've gone through any of the "stages". I'm just sad and incredibly lonely. Days aren't so bad, but nights are a bitch. Going to bed alone sucks.
What is your absolute favorite TV show of all time?
Spudgun comments on Aug 2, 2018:
Magnum, P.I.
It's like living two lives?
Spudgun comments on Jul 10, 2018:
Boy, that is certainly the truth.
I have friends and family who don't think there is a god but refuse the label of atheist because of ...
Spudgun comments on Jul 2, 2018:
This is especially true in Idaho. There are more Mormons (whom I refer to as "Mormonoids") per square mile here than there are in SLC. Then there are other denominations and faiths as well. You can't throw a rock up here without hitting a church of some kind. Most of my friends attend some kind of church. So I tend to keep my beliefs to myself around other people, but it does get old feeling like I'm the only non-religious type around. I haven't been dating long, but I've found that on most of the dating sites I've joined, the women list their religion as "Christian" more often than not. This tends to be somewhat depressing, as it means that other than going out for coffee, we most likely won't hit it off because of religion. Assuming that they're serious about being a Christian. It tends to be a bit lonesome being a nonbeliever in Idaho, but I knew that when I moved here. But I had my wife then, who was also a nonbeliever, and she's gone now. So at this point I'm alone and feeling it.
I'm the newbie here. My wife had ALS, and I had to watch her being less able to do things for about ...
Spudgun comments on Jun 29, 2018:
Thanks, Folks. I really didn't expect this level of response to my original post. I'm both grateful and mildly amazed. The responses I've gotten have all generated an emotional reaction from me. You guys are the best.
As an atheist living in the bible belt, it is difficult to meet like minded women. As soon as I ...
Spudgun comments on Jun 5, 2018:
Welcome to the club, Brother. Boise's not exactly in the Bible Belt, but there are lots of Mormonoids here and a variety of other true believers here. It's really difficult to find another agnostic, especially a female one.


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