I'm either the guy your warned you about or the guy she thought you should have ended up with.
But I am one of the creative types that's always lost in thought and often has a big shit grin on my face.
I also have a yo who is my #1 so best anyone else is going to do is second place, but maybe a close second.
Also, I am here for the social aspect, not a specific purpose of meeting anyone. So where is says open to meeting... if it said open to dating it would only say women, but I'm a pretty open guy, if I'm attracted then I'm attracted, doesn't get much more complicated than that.