Feeling mad, bad, & sad today. Just had to tell someone.

bingst comments on Dec 4, 2018:

Ditto

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 4, 2018:

I'm sorry. (I almost typed sotty, but I haven't had a drink. Yet.)

Feeling mad, bad, & sad today. Just had to tell someone.

Petter comments on Dec 4, 2018:

Tell us, friend - we can take it!! Why so sad?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 4, 2018:

My brother/best friend died over the Thanksgiving holiday, making it the second of my two best friends in life that I've lost. (The other was to divorce.) I'm also not feeling well, and I'm mad about the haircut I got yesterday, which almost makes me want to not let anyone see me. Lol.

Mother of Pearl I can sink down into the murk or rise, treading water, and look at the ...

ProudMary comments on Dec 4, 2018:

Beautiful. Lots of elements of the way I've been feeling lately so it really touches me.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 4, 2018:

Thank you.

Fidget spinners?

paul1967 comments on Dec 4, 2018:

I don't have very many deal breakers with relationships but nipple piercings and breast tattoos are so gross to me that I will never enjoy a sexual relationship with that person. I'm not saying they're wrong or bad for doing it. All I'm saying is I think it is gross.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 4, 2018:

I'm not fond of it either, though I think she just put them down her shirt as a joke.

Mother of Pearl I can sink down into the murk or rise, treading water, and look at the ...

dede18 comments on Dec 4, 2018:

Love it ...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 4, 2018:

Thank you.

And don't do it again!

glennlab comments on Dec 3, 2018:

You sure those were thumbs?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 3, 2018:

I hope so!

Could be true

Tomfoolery33 comments on Dec 3, 2018:

I almost posted that one today.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 3, 2018:

@Rudy1962 Yep.

Thought this was hilarious.

MojoDave comments on Dec 3, 2018:

That's too funny. l wouldn't want to be her daughter in law.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 3, 2018:

Really!

Inside the mind of a bee is a hive of sensory activity | Aeon Essays

AnneWimsey comments on Dec 3, 2018:

Lotta "qualifier" words in this piece, meaning it is filler, only.....

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 3, 2018:

It still brings up a lot of interesting points to think about. It's just not stating its ideas in an unqualified way.

Inside the mind of a bee is a hive of sensory activity | Aeon Essays

48thRonin comments on Dec 2, 2018:

Cool story but if a plant can physically respond to negative energy then it’s safe to say that consciousness isn’t strictly a human or mammal quality. It’s that we’re ignorant in our right because we tend to use ourselves as a baseline as opposed to thinking that if we have hundreds of ...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 3, 2018:

@LucyLoohoo But did you read the article where it talks about bees "planning" actions and various other things? It seems to me like a lot more is going on than just chemical reactions.

I don't think I want any of that.

Rudy1962 comments on Dec 2, 2018:

That's worse than explosive diaherra

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 2, 2018:

Yeah buddy!

Some groups are worth joining then there is just one that's a snoozing bitch fest.

nvrnuff comments on Dec 2, 2018:

????????

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 2, 2018:

@darien75 Gotcha. Sorry, I was slow on the uptake.

Some groups are worth joining then there is just one that's a snoozing bitch fest.

nvrnuff comments on Dec 2, 2018:

????????

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 2, 2018:

@darien75 I still don't know what group that is.

It happens.

Livinlife comments on Dec 1, 2018:

Lmao! This is awesome!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 1, 2018:

I thought so. Apparently no one else does.

I look good half naked.

Tomfoolery33 comments on Dec 1, 2018:

Which half?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 1, 2018:

On second thought, I don't want to know.

Stealin' Away - by me & Chuck [soundcloud.com]

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Dec 1, 2018:

Nice one.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Dec 1, 2018:

Thanks.

Stealin' Away - by me & Chuck [soundcloud.com]

nvrnuff comments on Nov 30, 2018:

Nice,great sound.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

Thanks. Recorded on an old TEAC 4-track reel-to-reel.

I like dogs, but I wouldn't wear that shirt.

Duchess comments on Nov 30, 2018:

Boobs or Moobs ???

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

Looks like a penis to me.

Holdin' on to Yesterday - Ambrosia [youtu.be] This song holds so much emotion to me.

Anniemae comments on Nov 30, 2018:

Brings back so many memories! Thanks for Posting!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

You're welcome.

I like dogs, but I wouldn't wear that shirt.

OldGoat43 comments on Nov 30, 2018:

Some graphic designers have a problem with subliminal desires.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

Apparently!

These new security protocols are a bitch!

glennlab comments on Nov 30, 2018:

Still say if they forced us to fly nude, it would save a ton of time in security and reduce the need for inflight meals.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

@MarianneW For sure!

The River winds down from its mysterious many places in the steep hills among the trees, ...

Lincoln55 comments on Nov 30, 2018:

The Mississippi? I've crossed it a dozen times. Never cease to be in awe. Of it's power, it's stories, it's shear mass. It's place in Americana. I rode a catfishthe size of a Chevrolet from St. Louie to the Big Easy. Armed with nothing more than a fifth of Jim Beam and a halter rope. Best way to see...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

@Lincoln55 That's okay, lol. Yeah, I was including the Mississippi, but my visuals and memories were of the Ohio.

This is s new short story that I just finished.

Tomfoolery33 comments on Nov 30, 2018:

Still like it. It's been tightened up and cleaned up. Is that the end, or is there more to come?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

@Lincoln55 I thought you did an excellent job with the whole thing. Great characters and dialogue, and very real feeling.

Why is that?

glennlab comments on Nov 30, 2018:

You can afford to eat at places that have waiters?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

Sometimes.

These new security protocols are a bitch!

glennlab comments on Nov 30, 2018:

Still say if they forced us to fly nude, it would save a ton of time in security and reduce the need for inflight meals.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

Or do you mean the desire for inflight meals?

The River winds down from its mysterious many places in the steep hills among the trees, ...

Lincoln55 comments on Nov 30, 2018:

The Mississippi? I've crossed it a dozen times. Never cease to be in awe. Of it's power, it's stories, it's shear mass. It's place in Americana. I rode a catfishthe size of a Chevrolet from St. Louie to the Big Easy. Armed with nothing more than a fifth of Jim Beam and a halter rope. Best way to see...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 30, 2018:

For me, it's the Ohio, eventually blending with the Mississippi of course, and where they meet, the Ohio is the bigger of the two rivers.

Guess I won, then.

glennlab comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Either that or the illogical pattern has you so worn out that you can never get your facts without having to go into such detail as it will take forever.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 29, 2018:

Man, that's the truth.

Holiday Song - by me [soundcloud.] Written and recorded in 1988.

nvrnuff comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Nice, well done.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 29, 2018:

Thank you.

Very single.

Cutiebeauty comments on Nov 29, 2018:

A good workout for his future love life?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 29, 2018:

Hell, even his current love life!

He'll never forget that birthday!

Captnron59 comments on Nov 29, 2018:

If only my luck ran that way

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 29, 2018:

I know what you mean!

Whaddya think of me now?

Captnron59 comments on Nov 29, 2018:

@Boogey would want to know about the girth.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 29, 2018:

Haven't seen her on here in a while.

The River winds down from its mysterious many places in the steep hills among the trees, ...

azzow2 comments on Nov 29, 2018:

Love to fish an angler poem was just the thing to brighten the day. Good write

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 29, 2018:

Thank you.

I should have posted this here, it didn't come up in my choices.

Tomfoolery33 comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Is there a poem or story? Is it something you're going to post?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 28, 2018:

@AmmaRE007 I didn't get the notification on it yet, so I didn't know it was there.

Mwahaha!!!

Livinlife comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Aww, who's a good kitty..

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 28, 2018:

Not this one, apparently.

Rough neighborhood.

phxbillcee comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Vlad's Uber!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 28, 2018:

But it's tied to the post.

Religious Children Have Trouble Distinguishing Reality From Fiction

Bendog comments on Nov 28, 2018:

For years I have been thinking about this. We teach kids to think in a illogical manner at birth and they become accustomed to defending the indefensible. Later on in life, this becomes a crutch.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 28, 2018:

Yep.

Insight landed safely on Mars. Who took the picture?

Livinlife comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Marvin!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 28, 2018:

But that doesn't look like his shadow!

What does this mean?

Livinlife comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Someone was bored... Lol

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 28, 2018:

Musta been.

In the Field In some dream I saw the ragged field stretching to the blackened tracks that cut...

Justjoni comments on Nov 28, 2018:

Yes! This. I cavort along with you and that white dog ...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 28, 2018:

Thank you.

In the Field In some dream I saw the ragged field stretching to the blackened tracks that cut...

dede18 comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Trying to not sound corny, but can't find another way to say it ... I feel it, I am living it too ... I've made mine a beach, with a seagull as companion ...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 28, 2018:

I'm sorry if you're feeling the ache and sadness, but I appreciate that you relate to the poem. So thank you for that. I'm glad you have a place you can let it go.

The Existentialists Reluctant Guide to Life - Quartzy

vmsmith comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Well first, we live in a binary universe. It exists or it doesn't and since we are having a conversation we've both already made our decision to exist for the time being at least, so the question is, what for. Hedonism does it for me. Pleasure, fun, excitement. It's what I've devoted my life to and...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 27, 2018:

Like with you, my meaning comes from the things I enjoy. My family, my friends, having a drink, playing or listening to music, and reading.

I thought I would share this here.

Petter comments on Nov 27, 2018:

The word Funeral begins with Fun.... Keep it that way. Remember him fondly and have fun.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 27, 2018:

Will do!

I thought I would share this here.

chucklesIII comments on Nov 27, 2018:

Looks like he was an interesting guy. Sorry for your loss.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 27, 2018:

Thank you.

I thought I would share this here.

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Nov 27, 2018:

We did that for my inlaws. They wanted us to have a big party, so we did. We had food, wine, photos, & videos of their lives. Lots of fun memories, & laughter.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 27, 2018:

That's great.

I need these socks. Just ask my family.

glennlab comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Surely you jest.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 26, 2018:

No. And don't call me Shirley.

If only it would work.

glennlab comments on Nov 26, 2018:

You mean you have to work?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 26, 2018:

I'm retired. But I can still relate to the meme.

Hmm...let me see.

phxbillcee comments on Nov 26, 2018:

Be honest, you'll just piss on the floor like you always do!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 26, 2018:

Or in the sink.

What you're getting wrong about your pursuit of happiness

48thRonin comments on Nov 25, 2018:

That sometimes we can actually miss what actually makes us happy while chasing an idea

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 25, 2018:

That's for sure.

I could live like that.

phxbillcee comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I thought you **did** live like that?!?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 25, 2018:

@glennlab I'm working on it.

I could live like that.

phxbillcee comments on Nov 25, 2018:

I thought you **did** live like that?!?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 25, 2018:

Unfortunately, I don't wake up skinny.

What you're getting wrong about your pursuit of happiness

Elganned comments on Nov 25, 2018:

As my friend and I decided over a campfire (after many beers, admittedly), the key to happiness is lowered expectations.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 25, 2018:

Sounds reasonable to me. (He said, finishing his large whiskey.)

Morning Woody.

glennlab comments on Nov 25, 2018:

What do you feed him?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 25, 2018:

If you don't know, I'm not telling.

What you're getting wrong about your pursuit of happiness

cava comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Do you think everyone wants to be happy?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 24, 2018:

Maybe not. I just thought it was an interesting take on the subject.

What you're getting wrong about your pursuit of happiness

KKGator comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I am always reluctant to take the "advice" of those who think they know enough to tell anyone how to be "happy".

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 24, 2018:

I know what you mean. I just thought it was an interesting take.

What you're getting wrong about your pursuit of happiness

sfvpool comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Interesting. Lickerman implies by his choice that the world of "Learning" is best and describes it as, "Learning: The world of mastery. In this world, you feel a relentless drive to learn and accomplish something that creates value and meaning. The delusion comes when you think happiness comes only...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 24, 2018:

He doesn't say it's best, he says it's the one he lives in.

What you're getting wrong about your pursuit of happiness

brentan comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I'm not familiar with Lickerman. I really like Jordon Peterson's notion that responsibility gives meaning to life, not happiness. Does Lickerman propose something different?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 24, 2018:

All I know is what's in the article.

Happy holidays.

glennlab comments on Nov 24, 2018:

I'm reflecting a Christmas.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 24, 2018:

Me too.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Deveno comments on Nov 24, 2018:

Dude, so sorry. That sucks. Loss, even when expected, often hits HARDER than expected. Take time to allow your grief to flow like it ought to.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 24, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

glennlab comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Sorry for your loss, it is harder to lose someone that you are really close to than some blood family members.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Pralina1 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Who says u r alone ? We are all here , even if just words . Your friend it was your brother . Good friends are family . Coffee cheers to the memories , and , he will live as long as u remember him w a smile . I hope u rest tonight and take a big breath .

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Minta79 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

That's your brother. No explanation needed. I am so sorry for your loss. Losing a brother is a deep hurt.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Lukian comments on Nov 23, 2018:

friend and a brother... double loss. Sorry for your loss

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

OpposingOpposum comments on Nov 23, 2018:

I am so very sorry for your loss. Hugs

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Petter comments on Nov 23, 2018:

The body dies - but the memories linger for as long as you treasure them. That is the real after-life.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

True. Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

ZantiMisfit comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Sorry that lost a close friend. Losing someone is never easy. The community is here for you!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

MsHoliday comments on Nov 23, 2018:

I am so sorry. Take care of yourself.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

RiverRick comments on Nov 23, 2018:

My sympathies for your loss. It is never easy and will take time to get through. Maybe take some time and write down some stories of times you shared that you can pass down... So those times stay alive. Others may enjoy them and it may be cathartic for you to remember and write. Just a thought!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks. I'm planning on doing that very thing.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

bleurowz comments on Nov 23, 2018:

So sorry for your loss.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

phxbillcee comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Vent all you need, Tom. You have my sympathy.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

That'll do it.

Boogey comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Wow that looks like Wayne Cochran's brother

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

It does!

Later is always better.

KKGator comments on Nov 23, 2018:

It's funny, cuz it's true.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Yep.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Livinlife comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Oh, how horrible! Im so sorry! Please vent whenever you like. You have support here

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you. Yes I know there is support here, and I appreciate it.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

BillF comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Sorry for your loss, you have the memories!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

onlyif comments on Nov 23, 2018:

So sorry for your loss, Sending Love and hugs.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Lilac-JadeCanada comments on Nov 23, 2018:

You have us, even if it is online.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks. And I know I have you guys to talk to.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

RavenCT comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Consider yourself soundly hugged. That is so hard. A sibling of the heart for certain.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Mike1947 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

To mourn in silence,is the hardest thing to do,you should seek some counseling,I did,it helped when my wife of 27 years passed away last Sept,2017.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you. And sorry for your loss.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Jolanta comments on Nov 23, 2018:

So where you two not in contact in his later years?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Yeah, we've always been in contact. I was just there to see him two days ago.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Kafirah comments on Nov 23, 2018:

I'm so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a great guy who never deserved anything like that. I hope you can smile again soon.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

hankster comments on Nov 23, 2018:

peace brother.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

germangirl90439 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

My sincere condolences. Take care of you through this time!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks. I will.

How to keep your pigs clean.

phoenixone1 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Have to remember that next time I buy a pig farm.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

I thought it was useful advice, lol.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

confidentrealm comments on Nov 23, 2018:

My condolences

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

An Antidote to White Male Capitalist Culture: Adrienne Rich on the Liberating Power of Storytelling ...

Deveno comments on Nov 23, 2018:

And this is precisely why I belong to the Wordsmith group, here-to share, and to take in: our human experiences in all their complex glory, to benefit from the wisdom of others, and the chance to try on another human being's existence for fit. As a white, extra-privileged male, I feel a moral ...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

True words. Thanks for commenting.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

maturin1919 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

My deepest condolences.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Dandewine comments on Nov 23, 2018:

I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

LucyLoohoo comments on Nov 23, 2018:

ENORMOUS HUGS in here! I'm so sorry! And..you're not alone there...we're here!

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Louiseann comments on Nov 23, 2018:

So sorry about your brother and your loss. Good you reached out and let us know. Be good to yourself and know it will hurt less as time goes by. Keep talking to us.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

Amisja comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Sometimes everyone needs some gentle love. Today is that day. Hugs from me. Be kind to yourself my dear

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

kltuckmn comments on Nov 23, 2018:

So sorry for your loss. Hang in there.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thanks.

I just found out that my brother, who was in hospice care, died last night.

sassygirl3869 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Please let us mourn with you. Your brother deserves it. And you need support.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you. I'll be posting more about him later.

Today is the first Thanksgiving I haven't been with my (now ex-) wife in 37 years.

daylily comments on Nov 23, 2018:

My first thought was that if your ex-wife's parents are still alive, it's not surprising at all that they would go be with them. I'm sorry if that made you feel left out though. I assume you weren't or didn't remain close with your ex-inlaws? If so, it would have been nice if you could have joined ...

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

I'm still okay with my in-laws. They just can't handle too many at once right now. They came and had Thanksgiving with us many times when we were married. I'm okay though. It was just something that occurred to me.

Today is the first Thanksgiving I haven't been with my (now ex-) wife in 37 years.

DevraisA1 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Holidays can be hard. Just know that you are not alone in feeling that way. Many of us are learning to make plans to handle those situations. It still is a bit lonely. Take care - Devrais

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

Today is the first Thanksgiving I haven't been with my (now ex-) wife in 37 years.

Pralina1 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

I hope your day was good and that u smiled . I ve read on comments below that u visited w son , and that is great . Divorce happens and routines change for sure . Life changes . Thank gods and devils for changes ? The best is yet to come . Alive !

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Thank you.

Today is the first Thanksgiving I haven't been with my (now ex-) wife in 37 years.

UUNJ comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Me, too! My ex celebrated with his girlfriend and our adult children are scattered so I went to a restaurant with my sister and her beau. It was nice. My ex and I get along but it is time to create new traditions.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Good for you!

Today is the first Thanksgiving I haven't been with my (now ex-) wife in 37 years.

maturin1919 comments on Nov 23, 2018:

First one since I've been divorced. I had my kids, but it wasn't the same for anyone involved.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 23, 2018:

Sorry about that, and I know what you mean.

Today is the first Thanksgiving I haven't been with my (now ex-) wife in 37 years.

KKGator comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Hope you're doing okay.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 22, 2018:

@KKGator Thank you. And happy Thanksgiving to you, too!

Today is the first Thanksgiving I haven't been with my (now ex-) wife in 37 years.

KKGator comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Hope you're doing okay.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 22, 2018:

I'm fine. I went to my oldest son's house for dinner this year. I'm still stuffed.

Catholic Exorcisms Are Gaining Popularity in the U.S. - The Atlantic

AwarenessNow comments on Nov 22, 2018:

It's probably more comforting to the human psyche to say "the devil made me do it" than to confront their own responsibility, shame and psychosis that surrounds their behavior. It's a classic denial of responsibility.

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 22, 2018:

That sounds likely.

Found this in an old file I hadn't looked into in years: The Grassy Green Gather round on ...

ProudMary comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Did you ever put it to music?

Tomfoolery33 replies on Nov 22, 2018:

Nope. Maybe I should.