Hi. I'm looking to connect with someone - I know that I will ultimately go on a long journey with one person again. I'm an ownership of feelings enthusiast - I believe that myself (and maybe others) can be better every day at owning what I think, say, and do, and not-owning feelings that come from somewhere else.
Kindness and altruism are closely connected. The formula for altruism is empathy + compassion (compassionate thought, speech, and action).
The three characters in literature I identify with the most, are Winnie the Pooh, Jesus, and the Gamekeeper from Lady Chatterley's Lover. I'm a silverback male gorilla....with a heart of gold.
I like to do stuff. Like go for a bike ride or play Scrabble or go to a gig. And I like to talk about feelings. Sensitive man's-man. I'm a first date kisser.