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SpikeTalon comments on Apr 24, 2018:

No decision there...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@SpikeTalon Something else to consider.........Hmmm.....forgot what I was considering to tell you what to consider !

Need to relieve a little stress?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 25, 2018:

I use my towel to dry myself with, that is why it is called a towel !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@SAGECOACH I don't mind sarcasm, but being derogatory is not very nice on your part. Maybe you should look at yourself in the mirror ?

I had an interesting thought about the purpose of religion today.

sassygirl3869 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Purpose of religion today seems to be support of churches, synogogues and mosques.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@SnatchHammer66 Sorry, I cannot speak about American polotics asvI am in South Africa. It is certainly true here !

Any bilingual agnostic here?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 22, 2018:

English, Afrikaans, Zulu and Xhosa. Chew on that one !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@Petter verh interesting, did not know that. Read a lot about the Boer war and can't remember pick that up anywhere. Come to think about it there must have been a few that did not agree with it.

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SpikeTalon comments on Apr 24, 2018:

No decision there...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

Come back to me when you decide please ?

We've been told for 2000 years we are going to be taken up into heaven by this Hippy Jewish Dude.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Elon Musk is my chummy, we are both South African. Maybe I can get a free rapture ride ?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@slavenomore Any idea how I might get hold of him to ask ?

Proud mama.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

You must be very proud of him. Why did you copy him ? ???

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@PhoebeCat Can only be a good thing.

Christians on this website

VAL3941 comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Curiosity Killed the cat. don't worry they will disappear soon if they don't change !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@BettyColeman They will still leave on their own accord, who am I to try and force them ?

Bit of a contraversial move.

VictoriaNotes comments on Apr 24, 2018:

What don't you think should be legal?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@phxbillcee Well said. CRACK iz CRACK ! It all goes to the head ? ?

I had an interesting thought about the purpose of religion today.

sassygirl3869 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Purpose of religion today seems to be support of churches, synogogues and mosques.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@SnatchHammer66 But reliogion misuse is the worst and most widespread.

This amuses me as there is nothing mysterious about fungus lol (as the title suggests).

VAL3941 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Havd you tried eating the fungi ?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@Nickbeee Only eat shikati mushrooms thanks !?

I had an interesting thought about the purpose of religion today.

SnatchHammer66 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

So I have been thinking a lot about religion as a system. I will say that I really am only knowledgeable about Christianity to some degree. I was thinking about the "end times" and how it is brought on by a unification of all people. I believe that religion was a system of government in a time where...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 25, 2018:

@SnatchHammer66 Sorry, I was wrong to post that reply, just my past religious thoughts coming to the fore ! ??

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Piece2YourPuzzle comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Human gender expectations. Men are supposed to be "manly", and women are supposed to be "gentle and protected".

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

But times they are a changing ?

Bit of a contraversial move.

VictoriaNotes comments on Apr 24, 2018:

What don't you think should be legal?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@phxbillcee I suppose it also depends on who's crack we talking about ?

I had an interesting thought about the purpose of religion today.

SnatchHammer66 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

So I have been thinking a lot about religion as a system. I will say that I really am only knowledgeable about Christianity to some degree. I was thinking about the "end times" and how it is brought on by a unification of all people. I believe that religion was a system of government in a time where...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@SnatchHammer66 It is, but did you have to write a book ?

I had an interesting thought about the purpose of religion today.

sassygirl3869 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Purpose of religion today seems to be support of churches, synogogues and mosques.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@SnatchHammer66 Just imagine a successesful business and you pay no taxes ? Marvelous !

This amuses me as there is nothing mysterious about fungus lol (as the title suggests).

VAL3941 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Havd you tried eating the fungi ?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@Nickbeee Maybe if you try some it might regulate you ?

I woke up incredibly needy this morning.

BlueWave comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Is there nothing anymore that is Too Much Information? Did anybody here really want to know that you woke up with an erection and masturbated? Members - Were y'all curious about @ibusche's erection this morning? What's bringing it on? You're a human being! You have hormones. Humans with ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@lbusche Maybe a little too free ?

I woke up incredibly needy this morning.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Move to Australia, they have sheep, lots of them !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@buzz13 Well it is one way to satisfy your needs ?

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Beatnik comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Both sound creepy to me.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

Could be, depending on your mind set !

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Suffolkian comments on Apr 24, 2018:

I place a high value on women... genuinely like them as people, but I was raised by a single mom with lots of sisters around. So I have a healthy respect for women. I think it's because the mama's boy connotation is really more likened to a wimpy kinda "boy." Runs to momma for protection from life ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

I Agree entirely with your assessment !

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NotConvinced comments on Apr 24, 2018:

It's the Patriarchal Mindset, which society is slowly changing...Unfortunately, many females want equality, but hang on to these stereotypes.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

Too slowly, if you ask me ?

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sassygirl3869 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Engrained boys should be tough. Was a daddy's girl till puberty than everyhing changed. My father and I were never close again.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

Why ! What happened when " he " reached puberty ?

Bit of a contraversial move.

Jellifish1 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Topic please?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

Sorry, high on meds !

Bit of a contraversial move.

VictoriaNotes comments on Apr 24, 2018:

What don't you think should be legal?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

Ill fitting Medication, like LSD and Crack ?

I had an interesting thought about the purpose of religion today.

SnatchHammer66 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

So I have been thinking a lot about religion as a system. I will say that I really am only knowledgeable about Christianity to some degree. I was thinking about the "end times" and how it is brought on by a unification of all people. I believe that religion was a system of government in a time where...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

What????? TF

I had an interesting thought about the purpose of religion today.

sassygirl3869 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Purpose of religion today seems to be support of churches, synogogues and mosques.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@SnatchHammer66 also they are very successful businesses !

I had an interesting thought about the purpose of religion today.

silverotter11 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

YO! so you had anteresting thot about the purpose of religion - is this kinda like, you show me yours I'll show you mine? I am soooooooooooo being a wise cracker!! I do want to know your thot!!! I always felt the purpose was to control the masses and specifically women. Humans (males, mostly) ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

Spot on bro !

Christians on this website

VAL3941 comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Curiosity Killed the cat. don't worry they will disappear soon if they don't change !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@BettyColeman Not freedom of religion, them 3. ??

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LadyAlyxandrea comments on Apr 24, 2018:

Because of sexism. The idea that a man is a mamas boy comes with the idea that he's sensitive and caring and values women in his life. These are equated with being 'less than manly'.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

I know a mama's boy that is not caring and sensitive and cerainly does not value the women in his lif except his mothers.

At an Waffle House restaurant in Saarland, Alabama, a black lady trying to pay for a meal she ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

America is more racist than here in South Africa, although hereI feel it is more Black on White racism.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@doug6352 It always comes down to historical injustices. Why can'tvwe all just forgive what happened in the past and do our best to correctvthe mistakes. We cannot be blamed for what our forfathers did but we can try and right the wrongs.

What'cha gonna eat?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

For sure, steak, steak and more stake. as long as we can prepare it anyway we want ?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@Petter Ddid you also warm your feet in fresh cow pats during winter ?

Any bilingual agnostic here?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 22, 2018:

English, Afrikaans, Zulu and Xhosa. Chew on that one !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@Petter So where did you pick up a smatterling of Afrikaans ?

At 48 yrs old, I'm not too well-versed in the "dating" or "having a boyfriend" areas and need some ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 23, 2018:

What have you been doing for the last 48 years ???

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@Lassie221 So now you want to get yourself into trouble again ?

At an Waffle House restaurant in Saarland, Alabama, a black lady trying to pay for a meal she ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 24, 2018:

America is more racist than here in South Africa, although hereI feel it is more Black on White racism.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@doug6352 I take your point, but just read about the injustices caused by whites against blacks in America ?

After being married for years to an unemployed hoarder with a shopping addiction, I am happy to ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 23, 2018:

Will you marry me please?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 24, 2018:

@Nottheonlyone Thats my Baby, a girl after my own heart. After 35 years of single life I am still not interested in the institution of marriage.

I live in South Dakota, and I need a recommendation for an attorney who knows and has experience ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I presume you mean American Indian tribes and not African tribes ?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@starshine2017 They are not too dissimilar, belueve me ! ?

After being married for years to an unemployed hoarder with a shopping addiction, I am happy to ...

VAL3941 comments on Apr 23, 2018:

Will you marry me please?

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@Nottheonlyone Nothing is impossible if you have the will and drive ! ??

At 48 yrs old, I'm not too well-versed in the "dating" or "having a boyfriend" areas and need some ...

Marcie1974 comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I hate to break this to you but it's been my experience that most guys ARE just looking for sex. I've been *trying* to date now for about 6 months. Over that time I've set up some rules for myself. - If I'm chatting with a guy and he starts talking about sex before we've met then I let him know ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@Marcie1974 Good for you. Hope you find what you are looking for sex and relationship wise. I have been on my own for 35 years and to find the right person is very difficult in this day and age. Good luck and dob't give up.

At 48 yrs old, I'm not too well-versed in the "dating" or "having a boyfriend" areas and need some ...

Marcie1974 comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I hate to break this to you but it's been my experience that most guys ARE just looking for sex. I've been *trying* to date now for about 6 months. Over that time I've set up some rules for myself. - If I'm chatting with a guy and he starts talking about sex before we've met then I let him know ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@Marcie1974 OK ! That settles it then. Keep trying but don't give up your pleasures. They are important and compatible relationships are hard to find

At 48 yrs old, I'm not too well-versed in the "dating" or "having a boyfriend" areas and need some ...

Marcie1974 comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I hate to break this to you but it's been my experience that most guys ARE just looking for sex. I've been *trying* to date now for about 6 months. Over that time I've set up some rules for myself. - If I'm chatting with a guy and he starts talking about sex before we've met then I let him know ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

Look ! Sex is the natural order of things. The friendship you want or don't want will be there dispite engaging in sex. That choice is yours alone. Don't deny the pleasures of sex just because of friendship. You owe it to yourself.

At 48 yrs old, I'm not too well-versed in the "dating" or "having a boyfriend" areas and need some ...

LadyAlyxandrea comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I'm in the same problem. My solution is to not have sex until I know they like me for me, not for sex.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

Maybe the just tenasious , how will you know ?

Freedom n crap

snytiger6 comments on Apr 23, 2018:

Don't leave home without your debit card.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

But make surd there are funds in that account.

So I have these new neighbors in a rental house next door.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 17, 2018:

Dump sone dog crap on thier doirstep then fein innosense !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@AncientNight So you were a little terror in your youth ? Like me ? ??

Freedom n crap

Spinliesel comments on Apr 23, 2018:

Specific goal; backpack, along hyways. Don't need money unless you want to eat and drink; I would not count on fiding stuff unless you are a great forager.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

And like road kill

Hmmmm.

The_Antichrist comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I joined this site to find god.

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

You found him ! Here I am to absolve you from all your sins ! ??

I think the term “Respect your elders” is idiotic: Change my mind.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Respect thier wisdom, not necessarily anything else !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@DUCHESSA This was never a debate but so be it if it makes you happy ?

Do you like food after it’s been put in the microwave from being in the refrigerator?

DeeFrosty comments on Apr 23, 2018:

I guess I would starve to death if I had a problem with that!

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

Please don't !

I think the term “Respect your elders” is idiotic: Change my mind.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Respect thier wisdom, not necessarily anything else !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@DUCHESSA OK ! We agree to disagree. Don't want to fight with you, had enough with my ex thank you.

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Palindromeman comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Actually, nothing but a dodgy set of DNA. What did my dad teach me? Departure, he left when I was a kid and never came back. What did my mother teach me? Cooking. Ha ha ha, that's a just a joke, she can't cook her way out of a paper bag. So, all up, apart from my existence that is all I got...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@Palindromeman OK ! Mothball them. Too !

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Palindromeman comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Actually, nothing but a dodgy set of DNA. What did my dad teach me? Departure, he left when I was a kid and never came back. What did my mother teach me? Cooking. Ha ha ha, that's a just a joke, she can't cook her way out of a paper bag. So, all up, apart from my existence that is all I got...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@Palindromeman Take Nikes advice. " just do it "

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Palindromeman comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Actually, nothing but a dodgy set of DNA. What did my dad teach me? Departure, he left when I was a kid and never came back. What did my mother teach me? Cooking. Ha ha ha, that's a just a joke, she can't cook her way out of a paper bag. So, all up, apart from my existence that is all I got...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@Palindromeman It is never too late to start over, if you have the will. Sounds like you are hesitant ?

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Palindromeman comments on Apr 21, 2018:

Actually, nothing but a dodgy set of DNA. What did my dad teach me? Departure, he left when I was a kid and never came back. What did my mother teach me? Cooking. Ha ha ha, that's a just a joke, she can't cook her way out of a paper bag. So, all up, apart from my existence that is all I got...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@Palindromeman Get to it then, what you waiting for ??

If you had no choice, how many days do you think you could abstain from sex or masturbation at a ...

marga comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Years

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

Shame !! Suffer baby, suffer.??

[google.com] Thus is a religion on a whole new level.

mordant comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Thersh no end tatha shtuff they commup with ...

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

At least they have a reason to drink after work/service. Holy communion at its best !

I think the term “Respect your elders” is idiotic: Change my mind.

VAL3941 comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Respect thier wisdom, not necessarily anything else !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@DUCHESSA Then don't respect her, that is your choice but at 91 she must have some wisdom she choses not to utilise ?

Any bilingual agnostic here?

VAL3941 comments on Apr 22, 2018:

English, Afrikaans, Zulu and Xhosa. Chew on that one !

VAL3941 replies on Apr 23, 2018:

@Perseo1965 Correct. IsiXhosa is from the Eastern Cape Province of S. A. One of the 11 offical languages of S. A.

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Josephine comments on Apr 22, 2018:

Got my sense of justice from their cruel injustice. Got my temper from my dad. Got my skepticism from their ridiculous lies. Got my strength from surviving. Got my self doubt from their constant criticism, got my ability to defend myself from their constant criticism. I am better now because I see ...