Three words that I would use to describe myself: intelligent, passionate, sarcastic
I am an INFP with BPD (if you don't know what that is, look it up), so there is generally never a dull moment for those around me. I'm an artist, writer, forensic anthropologist at heart, and am especially interested in how the brain works.
I am recently separated after 16 years and have two awesome daughters who are staying with their dad while I get to a most stable situation (hubby doesn't want the kids around new bf...shocking). I'm currently living with the bf and his cousin. It's been amazing.
I used to attend a fundamentalist church with my family and really tried to believe and "receive" like everyone else, but I finally came to the conclusion nearly 3 years ago that I am atheist. I hid it well until my pastor found out and fired me from my volunteer job (for 8 years!) of a/v tech.
So I stopped going. And it felt like I had come out. I could finally be who I really am. And even though I have lost friends, it's still been very freeing.
I'm here mainly for community and like minded people to talk to, but I'm not opposed to a bit of flirting and smartassery. The bf and I have an open relationship, so if something more than flirting and smartassery were to occur, that's cool too. I'm a complicated creature who changes her mind and mood with the tides, so consider yourself warned.
Hit me up if you crave a sarcastic remark, word of wisdom, or flirtatious banter