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I'm a very open-minded and liberal woman. I love to learn, about almost anything but especially about people, societies, and cultures. As a social worker I am socially and self aware, empathic, and a passionate advocate for social justice and personal empowerment. As an empowered woman I am open-minded, accepting of self and others, and passionately sexual. As a human I struggle with life issues and insecurities. Life is a journey of lessons, learning, and growth which is joyous but also painful.

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What words of wisdom have you picked up throughout your life that you think is important enough to ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
The platinum rule... Treat others not how I wish to be treated, but how they wish to be treated.
I am ready to start thinking forward again instead of looking backward. It's okay to hurt for a ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
That's right. We need to make room for the awesome possibilities by getting rid of any pain that holds us back.
I approve of all this shit right here.
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
Hmmmm, Hot young Abraham Lincoln.
If you're single, are you lonely?
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
Well, I'd have great times too if I had the company of Keanu! But seriously, yes I get lonely.
“Letting there be room for not knowing is the most important thing of all. When there’s a big ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
Excitement and anxiety produce similar arousal symptoms in our bodies. Change often brings about a fear of the unknown.We can have anxiety about the unknown or change our perspective and feel excitement about the adventure of the unknown. I've learned to look at change as an adventure.
Love The Onion
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
Truly the most accurate fake news... before it was even a thing.
Guys, this is getting under my skin and I need input...the aforementioned man from this website, who...
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
Deep breath... let it go, along with him. You may not get the book back, but sometimes we have to cut our loses.
I know I posted this quite a while back. But to me, Neils retort to the question is one of those ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
I see why this would lift you up.
Have you had a look at "brownburger01"? Hummina, hummina...?? (still not going to tag, that's up to...
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
Interesting... he just sent me a "hi" emoji.
Have you had a look at "brownburger01"? Hummina, hummina...?? (still not going to tag, that's up to...
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
Must check it out...
I think I’ll pass this meat up!
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
What's a piss flap? Might be good buttered. Butter makes everything better!
Just heard this for the first time on the radio today.. kinda fit my crappy mood . [youtu.be]
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
Ohhh, sweet dog. If you were here...
To all the point whores I have helped in the last year, I am reaching out to you as I am within ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
So when I become a point whore nearing level 8 you're going to help me out?
Some assistance needed
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
Hopefully they know what they're doing!
In my world, you’d only qualify as a beautiful woman if you have the urge to punch men like this ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
He must be a media mogul. They make their billions off this shit.
Get in line, people!! ?
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
I'm on a highway to hell!
Ordered a ball washer off a golf site. Was horribly disappointed with what arrived.
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
What? She wasn't wearing a bikini?
Trigger warning for anyone who has ever experienced sexual abuse [cnn.com] I was just on FB ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
Sometimes the best place to be.
I don't want to get a "New Puppy" to make me forget my "Old Puppy". I need to learn to let go of my...
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
I've been fostering a few "puppies." Knowing that as a foster parent I can't get too attached, I can still enjoy "puppy" playtime. That might not be right for everyone who is letting go of an "old puppy", but it's right for me right now.
With the silhouette of moonlight,under the dim light??
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
Oh my! I actually had that for breakfast this morning! Left me starving.
To all the point whores I have helped in the last year, I am reaching out to you as I am within ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
I have no doubt you will make it!
Neighbor asked to borrow my phone to take a selfie...
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
What the hell does he have on his head?
Kiltin' It
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
Hey there. What you got under that skirt? Wow, is he beautiful!
My dream place. Would you like to visit or live here?
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
That would be my dream place as well!
Does this song resonate with anyone else as much as it does me? [youtu.be]
Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:
Yes. It absolutely does.
Is anything else really acceptable?
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
Yes.
Got stood up again for the second time in four months, each time a different woman from a site that ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
I always like a confirmation from my date. I've been stood up, so if he doesn't message me I don't believe it is happening.
????...
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
maybe because... https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/fallacy
Goodnight Kitty:
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
I want to be a cat!
What is your favorite regret?
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
My favorite regret... the man who came into my life unexpectedly at a time of personal transition. I loved him, a married man. Taught me more than I ever imagined, about my self-worth, my value... and my beauty! Fuck him! lol
Lots of miles between Taos, NM and Scottsdale, AZ for the past two days. Passed through a dinky town...
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
That's cool. Traveling through a little town of great fame.
Just looked and realized I just cracked the 10K threshold of points needed to make Level 8.
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
I'm right there with you!
The Louder the Monkey, the Smaller Its Balls, Study Finds - Motherboard
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
Is that something like the bigger the truck the smaller the penis?
i join 3 dating sizes and I message meny girls however didn't message me back i think it's because I...
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
It really sucks that you have to experience that. I think too many are shallow and can't see past their own selfish wants and see you not as a disability but as the great guy you are. I wouldn't give up though, you never know when or where you might find the right woman!
Kismet! The good news: I’ve been invited to go to a dance Saturday night, something I’ve been ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
That sounds great! Things have a way of working out.
For those who've missed the HSP test, here is the direct link: [hsperson.com] I'm also including ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
I got a 22 on the test. Thank you for the information. Makes sense why I always thought I was different or crazy. I wonder if HSPs tend to overcompensate in some areas.
I mean, sometimes doing domestic things is hot! Happy Hump Day ;-)
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
Such a horny boy!
In one of the HSP groups on Facebook, a member asked, "What is the best way to respond when someone ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
That is a great reply. Of course, I would never think to say it.
Opinion Rhapsody. The joys, sorrows and bizarre aspects of modern life...the musical. I didn’t ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
That was great. And so right on.
Good morning, everyone! When I was 24, I left my family, friends, home, stability, beautiful city ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
Of course I thought it was love at the time... when i was 15 I ran away from home with my 19 yo boyfriend. We decided to go to California, from Connecticut. We hitchhiked on the highways, sometimes sleeping in the woods, sometimes at someone's place if they offered. A couple of nights we spent in a hotel thanks to a drunk old man who needed someone to drive for him. We got as far as Kansas and we were picked up on the highway. They knew I was a runaway and I spent that night in a juvenile detention facility. My mother flew me home. My boyfriend hitchhiked back to CT and we decided that when I turned 16 we would move in with each other. That time came... I packed up my things and left home. We lived in a crummy motel, I got a job at the local fast food place. He quit working and spent his days at the strip club and his nights controlling everything about me. One day he beat me for something he didn't like... I called the police and moved out. I went back, and again he beat me. That was the last time. I left and swore that would never happen again. Maybe that's why I'm so tough.
In honor of hump day. Norweigan sex shop ad. [m.facebook.com]
Wildflower comments on Feb 27, 2019:
The Norse know how to celebrate!
Would you like to have good swinger sites posted here?
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
Of course. Share the info.
A Question for Men . . .
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
Wow. It's amazing to me that this topic even has to be brought up. But it is relevant. Whether it is conscious or not, the way someone dresses, man or woman, plays a big part in the respect factor. Anyone who says they don't judge a woman in high heels is full of shit. You look at a woman in high heels and what do you think?... wow, she's powerful? hey, she's got it together, or omg, I'd like to fuck her? There is always a thought when someone is seen in whatever attire they wear. Conscious or not, people, especially women, are judged.
What kind of "hidden agenda" do people have when they're searching for somebody to date? What are ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
I don't want to hide anything from a potential date/mate. I think there are many things that can only be found out by getting to know someone. But putting out there the "must haves" should hopefully filter out those that don't primarily fit. I don't think your 3 requirements are any part of a "hidden agenda." What is your "hidden agenda" really?
I posted about a guy I met for coffee a week ago tonight who wasn’t feeling it after meeting. ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
Sounds like he's a bit wishy-washy... not sure what he wants.
Bon Nuit Minou
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
Sleep sweet!
True love is being monitored. :)
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
They could be my clients. I have no judgment.
I don't know if anyone else has experienced this? But the older I get, I find that women are less ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
Oh my goodness. Not me. But it might be that women get older and give up on giving like they have they're whole lives. Women are nurturers but when they don't get their needs met they do tend to give up on giving.
A question I saw elsewhere online today... If you had a time machine and could travel back to the...
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
Yes.
Company Gives Nonsmokers Extra Vacation Days
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
Hmmmm. Would be nice, I'm almost 3 months quit!
What if the problem of poverty is that it’s profitable to other people? | Books | The Guardian
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
Of course poverty is profitable. And keeps power in the hands of the greedy.
Good morning! Is it Friday yet? :P Today's question: Would you rather live your entire life ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
Be careful what you wish for? Yeah, that. I'd rather live in the real world.
Feel free to start with “My” if you have one of your own.
Wildflower comments on Feb 26, 2019:
His penis is so intimate that his wife has been sick.
I'm into offensive cross-stitch. :D
Wildflower comments on Feb 25, 2019:
I love these!!!
Good Monday morning! Let's be off to a good start this week. I have a drop foot. It's ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 25, 2019:
I have finally come to the conclusion that I will always be a big girl. I'm not going to fight it anymore. I'm liking myself the way I am.
Good morning! My favorite color has always been blue, many shades of blue. I'm drawn to blue. I ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 25, 2019:
Red is my favorite color but I hardly ever wear it. My car is red and the accent wall in my bedroom is red.
Dangerous curves ahead....
Wildflower comments on Feb 24, 2019:
Is this deviant? Just curious. This might belong better in the sexy, classy pic group.
I test out as an ENFP/ENTP but I have always had hypersensitivity, particularly to the emotions of ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 24, 2019:
As a therapist I have had to build strong boundaries against taking on other's emotions. I am still highly sensitive to what is going on with others and empathic to how they are feeling, I just don't allow myself to take it on. It's been a very interesting process learning how to do this and beneficial to my sense of inner peace. I can help others but maintain my serenity when I leave work.
Anyone care to join me for some chat this fine evening?
Wildflower comments on Feb 23, 2019:
Wow. So many visitors... but no takers. What's that all about? Me or you?
Question for you all. If you had money and no one to will it to, how would you bequeath it.
Wildflower comments on Feb 23, 2019:
I would probably establish a foundation or scholarship for women. Maybe give to help develop a program for homeless.
Perfect day. Perfect man. Life is good.
Wildflower comments on Feb 23, 2019:
That is sounding pretty wonderful!
Just sayin' ?
Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:
No. My body is a temple. You won't convince me otherwise. LOL
Ladies, what are your thoughts on this? So... I had this dream last night that you came to see me. I...
Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:
That right there is a wonderful dream! I bet you woke up feeling pretty good!
Take a good look around you. 360 degrees. It was all created by capitalism. Your entire life, ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:
What the f... (fuck) are you talking about?
Who said Buddhist's didn't have good ideas!
Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:
That's just fucked up.
Goodnight Kitty
Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:
Look at those feet! What a sweet baby!
Well. I decided to reopen my lots of fishies profile again. Added some current pictures.. wiped out...
Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:
How far will you travel? Asking for a friend. ;)
I do prefer to keep the company of ladies, depending on how you define the term! I just want to ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
What kind of ideas would you like to share?
I'll play good cop. Pretty please show me yours!
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
Shared to me from a knowing friend!
Took a huge step today! Sent a resume out for a position as a peer counselor at a children's home....
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
Life experience is worth a great deal in the mental health field. I wish for you the best!
Who says cats and birds don't get along!!!
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
Which one is the Dom tho?
A Goodnight pair....
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
Straight up love right there!
My heart goes out to any of you (myself included) who have been hurt by rude insensitive people.
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
I was bullied by a sibling for being fat and ugly. If only I knew then what I know now.
Took @Cutiebeauty 's suggestion and took around 7cm / 3 inches. What do you guys think? I ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
My preference... not that it means anything, I prefer your hair longer. You have the face and style for it. Everything about your face is dark and sensual, and long dark hair just adds to your beauty.
Some of my handy work, this is how I spend my slow time at work, I make floggers.
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
I have one of those... only it's fur. Lol. Tells you how much I'm into that kink.
Ladies, how do you feel about a man's balls? Do you like to play with them, or are they just there ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
I enjoy a man's balls. Especially if they are groomed nicely. It's up to him how much he wants me to love on them.
Nap Roulette
Wildflower comments on Feb 21, 2019:
That is exactly how my naps go. I like it best when I don't wake up until tomorrow.
Apparently, men who marry plus-size women are happier. [homemaking.com]
Wildflower comments on Feb 20, 2019:
Skinny women are too high maintenance.
Is sex needed to be empowered?
Wildflower comments on Feb 20, 2019:
Empowerment is necessary for good sex! For me anyway.
Yes yes! This is always a good idea.
Wildflower comments on Feb 20, 2019:
Oh... I like "we shouldn't be doing" things!
Does anyone find that healthy sexual expression and openness is currently taking a unfortunate hit ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 20, 2019:
I am finding myself to be much more sexually open these days. But I take no heed in religious doctrine or political bullshit. I'm too old for that.
True story.
Wildflower comments on Feb 20, 2019:
Yes. I have to say this is true!
I got a makeover today! A gift from a dear friend.
Wildflower comments on Feb 20, 2019:
How nice! Looking beautiful!
Hi all - just started a new music group (like this site needs more music groups) but this is all ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 19, 2019:
Sharing the link might help to get people to go directly to the group. I like the idea of your group!
Woohoo! Beefcake. ??
Wildflower comments on Feb 19, 2019:
Wow. He could even throw me around! I want to see the next frame in the series.
Question: Have you dated someone who was outside your comfort zone in terms of things like age, ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 19, 2019:
About 10 years ago i dated a conservative "born again" religious guy. It was very interesting. He would tell me how strong he was in his beliefs yet had no problem having sex with me. He told me that I was his "grace" lol. We had some good discussions but I just could not accept his judgemental attitude. I won't ever do that again.
I'm gonna be a points slut folks...I need 30 more points to hit Level 8 and get my T-shirt and ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 19, 2019:
Now don't forget me when it's my turn to start whoring for points.
What do you think of this hand painted bureau? Would you attempt it?
Wildflower comments on Feb 19, 2019:
This looks like it could be upcycled wallpaper. It's very cool. I would attempt it.
I'm gonna be a points slut folks...I need 30 more points to hit Level 8 and get my T-shirt and ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 19, 2019:
Is that all? I wouldn't call you a slut. Just a little needy is all.
Good morning! I'm back to whatever normal might be, thanks for the good wishes! I don't like hot...
Wildflower comments on Feb 19, 2019:
I'm hungry for a hot dog now! I never thought about it being a sandwich, but I guess it could be.
Threw a few items in the suitcase for the trip, you know, for entertainment purposes.
Wildflower comments on Feb 17, 2019:
Just a few?!
Two atheists at the beach today. My favorite time of year to go
Wildflower comments on Feb 17, 2019:
Looks like a wonderful day!!
I sometimes like this show and sometimes don't. But I like this clip from the Vice show Slutever. ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 17, 2019:
We really do need to take care of ourselves and have confidence in our sexuality.
i just learned how to block someone hooray!
Wildflower comments on Feb 17, 2019:
It is definitely a handy tool!
Wait, whut?!? Can’t I enjoy my little achievement before being encouraged to do more? Let a woman ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 16, 2019:
Yes! Enjoy this achievement for the next 140,000 + points.
Wildflower comments on Feb 16, 2019:
There's something just wrong with that.
Today I found that I had 5 long emails from an older member who lives in "the rust belt". I had not ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 16, 2019:
Never agree to "play" with a toxic person!
What are you guys doing tonight? Anything like this?
Wildflower comments on Feb 16, 2019:
Oh, I wish!
Goodnight Kitty on a bed I am often the pup in this scenario... I imagine most small pet owners...
Wildflower comments on Feb 16, 2019:
How sweet this is. Just makes me feel love.
Text messaging for seniors.
Wildflower comments on Feb 16, 2019:
TIFF!

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