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I'm a very open-minded and liberal woman. I love to learn, about almost anything but especially about people, societies, and cultures. As a social worker I am socially and self aware, empathic, and a passionate advocate for social justice and personal empowerment. As an empowered woman I am open-minded, accepting of self and others, and passionately sexual. As a human I struggle with life issues and insecurities. Life is a journey of lessons, learning, and growth which is joyous but also painful.

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David Giuntoli and Stephen Amell. Both are pretty boys, yes, but such nice sweet guys. And yes, I ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 12, 2019:
Those eyes! On both of them. wow
Bob here. New to Group. Just stumbled upon this.
Wildflower comments on Feb 11, 2019:
Hey Bob! What took you so long?
I stumbled on this acronym this morning and thought it relevant to this group: JOMO: THE JOY OF ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 11, 2019:
And that right there is what serenity is all about! I have been making my way to that joy for some time now. I feel that peace quite often now. Thank you for posting this.
Word: Anger- a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility. I need help locating ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 11, 2019:
As a therapist, I treat anger as a secondary emotion. It is produced from an underlying emotion such as fear, annoyance, pain, or disappointment. To prevent or relieve the anger, the initial emotion must be dealt with and resolved. From https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/psychology-of-anger/ "Introduction Anger is a natural and mostly automatic response to pain of one form or another (physical or emotional). Anger can occur when people don't feel well, feel rejected, feel threatened, or experience some loss. The type of pain does not matter; the important thing is that the pain experienced is unpleasant. Because anger never occurs in isolation but rather is necessarily preceded by pain feelings, it is often characterized as a ''secondhand'' emotion."
Goodnight Kitties I'm pretty sure I'll be one of these cats tonight - watching movies on a ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 10, 2019:
Now that's a cuddle pile!
Can a woman enjoy her life fully without a man?
Wildflower comments on Feb 10, 2019:
I imagine some women can lead very fulfilling lives without a man. I don't believe I could however.
If online dating wrote candy hearts...and go!
Wildflower comments on Feb 10, 2019:
Hey sexy. What are you wearing? Send me a pic?
Are you into pegging? “Pegging is a sexual practice in which a woman performs anal sex on a man...
Wildflower comments on Feb 10, 2019:
I had a bf years ago who asked me if I would do this with him. Sure, why not. We went to the toy store together to pick out a strap-on and accessories. Lol. One thing the strap-on had to have was a second dildo for me so I could also enjoy the physical pleasure. I enjoyed pegging him. There is a sense of power when playing that role. And having that control can be a big turn on.
Just have to post this one here...have posted him before as a Hot Hunk....but he’s not just a ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 10, 2019:
Very romantic. Beautiful.
Hello. I’m new here, from Minnesota. Straight
Wildflower comments on Feb 9, 2019:
Hey there. Welcome. What kind of dirty talk are you into?
More fun with words.
Wildflower comments on Feb 9, 2019:
Yeah, that sounds about right. Ho hum.
is it time to put a cap on the number of posts someone makes everyday. some of us have other lives ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 9, 2019:
So don't download it.
What makes the world go round?
Wildflower comments on Feb 9, 2019:
This is true! haha
The kilt photo made me...think...of this. I know you've all seen the Kilted Yoga. Just a reminder ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 9, 2019:
I would love to be there for that performance! WOW
Ross, from the Facebook group Kilted Hotties
Wildflower comments on Feb 9, 2019:
Oh yes. Sweet ginger. I want to know what's under that kilt.
Come join my groups, please I thrive on human companionship! Any posts of mine, I give the first ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 8, 2019:
What are your groups? I may be into something new.
Friday Night Plans
Wildflower comments on Feb 8, 2019:
I am usually exhausted on a Friday night after a long week. I most often stay in and relax with a glass of wine and Netflix.
I've been thinking a lot about my grandparents lately. They had one of the best and most ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 8, 2019:
True love transcends traditional beauty.
Dear fellow drivers: Please stop driving 10 mph below the speed limit, until you hit the passing ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 8, 2019:
Do you live in Florida? People's driving habits tell me a lot about their personalities and communication skills.
Insect Macrophotography at the time of morning dew by German photographer Martin Mah.
Wildflower comments on Feb 8, 2019:
Wow! Nature is really beautiful up close!
Have you gone on a date with someone you met on this site?
Wildflower comments on Feb 8, 2019:
Yes. I've met 2 great guys from this site. Both great dates!
Meeting with my lover this morning, he tells me how he feels about women. He tells me that since a ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 7, 2019:
It pains me that he is not interested in a committed relationship. But I would not give up the experience of him for anything!
I am repulsed by the view that since this is the only life we apparently have that we’re supposed ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 7, 2019:
You don't need to share your miserable existence with everyone. Unless you're interested in the attention. Knock yourself out... and don't bother to come crying...
how do you react?
Wildflower comments on Feb 7, 2019:
My ex-bf used to say... I saw this in a bathroom stall one time, "If your life sucks, you suck."
Daily dose of little Donny memes
Wildflower comments on Feb 7, 2019:
Labeled appropriately by Salvador Dali... priceless!
Anyone else find themselves attracted to grey hair? I never realized it until i read on fb that ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 7, 2019:
So you're telling me I need to stop coloring and find out how much gray I really have? Sorry, I can't grow it long. I always thought that when I turn 60 I will go natural. That's coming up soon.
Just after a few days of online dating at think I met the love of my life. And she has all her ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 7, 2019:
Mean people suck.
Someone posted a video by Matthew Hussey in another group. A good video, but my first thought was ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 7, 2019:
He's very cute.
The Republican Party
Wildflower comments on Feb 6, 2019:
I grew up with a staunch Republican mother. Not really knowing what I was doing, Reagan was the first vote I had ever cast. By the time his term was over, and I had grown up a bit, I changed my affiliation almost in protest. I can't even talk politics with my mother anymore. But I'm happy with my beliefs as a liberal and disgusted with the state of politics today.
my dads animals are a trip. he has two cats that are like 7 & 8 year old brothers that can't stop ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 6, 2019:
Sounds like a typical family.
Our Hot Hunk of the Day for 2/6/19 goes to @KenChang. Seems like a nice guy!
Wildflower comments on Feb 6, 2019:
Yes. And a nice face!
Why would someone not have a profile picture on a dating site? I find it frustrating. Not that I ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 6, 2019:
I have found that men without a profile pic are married most of the time.
Be careful what you ask for, dogs don't come house trained. :)
Wildflower comments on Feb 6, 2019:
I'm not going to say a word. I'll get accused of man bashing again.
Don't ever eat a clock. It's too time consuming. :P
Wildflower comments on Feb 6, 2019:
What if it's a Strawberry Alarm Clock? https://youtu.be/4rw1_FNdy-Y
Cilantro tastes like Gilbert Godfrey sounds. Discuss...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
Cilantro is pretty yucky... I cannot eat it at all!
Made for me...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
Got that right! All the vitamins one needs.
A bad photo of two of my favorites.
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
Nice looking men. Love the kilts!
Who would like to help me to masturbate? please
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
You need to go to the Talk Dirty to Me group and ask nicely. Maybe put out your fantasy... entice a woman to join you. Otherwise it's pretty crass and women prefer some suave.. ness! Lol
Staying off the major networks until after the SOTU.
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
The TV is not even on!
I am not listening to State of Union Address. It would just make me cuss. Anyone else feel this ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
The cussing doesn't bother me. It's the vomiting that I don't wish to endure.
What if you're really smitten with someone, and they've voiced that they don't want that right now ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
Yeah, you have to respect her boundaries.
I find that my mental health is a little better when I skim over the newspaper quickly instead of ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
I have stopped following the news altogether for my own serenity. I hear about world happenings from others but I do not watch nor read the news anymore. I was a news junkie and found that I was constantly stressed. Eliminating that from my life has been a great relief for my mental health.
What are you thinking now of the trump state of the union speech now on tv? 2/5/19
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
It's bullshit... and I don't even have to watch it.
Watching pos right now... I'm so sick....
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
I cannot bring myself to watch that!
To peel, or not to peel. That is the question...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
Oh yeah... got to peel the sticker off!
SOTU drinking game.... Who is with me? Every time Donald says the following, take a drink: ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
I'm already drunk!
Two thoughts tonight... 1. What's going on in that Sexual Deviants group? I'm too afraid to look cuz...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
Ahhh, the deviants aren't so bad.
I am at 7.9 working my way towards level 8. BUT I do not want anyone to do anything out of the ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
I don't know who that is behind the mask, but I think you're hiding something. Not sure I believe you.
@UrsiMajor says Hot Hunk of the Day 2/5/19 goes to @DoDapper .
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
Nice choice!
I have 2000 points to go to level 8. Who's going to help me get a tee shirt? katneedsashirt ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 5, 2019:
Like a good neighbor...
Reminds me of taking a bath.
Wildflower comments on Feb 4, 2019:
It's a grower not a shower!
What do I need to do so I'm a high enough level to participate on this website?
Wildflower comments on Feb 4, 2019:
Great name Mr. Hunt! ;)
Not sure what they're selling, but damn! I'll take three...
Wildflower comments on Feb 4, 2019:
Hmmmm? Not quite sure... but sounds interesting.
For all of you, not-monogamous and curious dears.
Wildflower comments on Feb 4, 2019:
Yes! Both.
Lunchtime. It needs a condiment, any suggestions? ?
Wildflower comments on Feb 4, 2019:
Mayo! Mmmm, ham with mayo. yummy.
Yeah dudes..leave it alone!!!
Wildflower comments on Feb 4, 2019:
BIG Jim reduced to slim jim. Ohhh, poor fella.
I don't want to spark an outrage but what are your thoughts about Colin Kaepernick and the massive ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 3, 2019:
Freedom of speech, peaceful protest, social justice... I'm all for that!
Anybody on this site interested in ethical non-monogamy? I've been thinking a lot about it lately, ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 3, 2019:
That is what I'm interested right now. There are a few groups here for polyamory, non-monogamy, and alternative lifestyles but none of them are very active.
Hey everyone, a quick poll have you met friends or other people of interest on here?
Wildflower comments on Feb 3, 2019:
I've met in person 2 great people from this site. And a couple others that I hope to meet one day.
This can happen the morning after.
Wildflower comments on Feb 2, 2019:
Nope... that has never happened to me,,, nope.
Goodnight Kitty:
Wildflower comments on Feb 2, 2019:
Best place to be when it's cold!
What's the difference between jam and jelly? Well, I can't jelly my cock up your ass ?
Wildflower comments on Feb 2, 2019:
You can't jam your cock up my ass either!
When you're waiting for him to get the towel
Wildflower comments on Feb 2, 2019:
Ewwww. She looks dead. Maybe scared to death!
Rejoice! For it it that time of year again... you know the one. No, not that one! This one! ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 2, 2019:
Very funny!
Donut seeds. Who knew?
Wildflower comments on Feb 2, 2019:
And with all the Hybrids they've made there are lots of flavors.
Well i thought it was funny.
Wildflower comments on Feb 2, 2019:
It's baby Divine!
Is it OK to be racist against white people?
Wildflower comments on Feb 2, 2019:
The true definition of racism is about privilege not skin color. I like this article from http://affinitymagazine.us/ , it puts racism into proper perspective. It's lost it's meaning over time. “Dear White People, Your “Dictionary Definition” of Racism is Wrong Racism as an ideology originated from European scientists in the 17th Century during the Atlantic slave trade. They invented it in order to differentiate themselves from those with different skin colors and darker features, creating a racial hierarchy that continues to this day. It would simply be incorrect to deny that the history of racism has been (and continues to be) one of white supremacy as the label “white” has always been an indication of superiority. However, many of us were taught when we were little that racism is simply disliking someone based on the color of their skin. We were taught that it is a two-way street and that it can happen to anyone. We were taught that racism is simply prejudice toward any race. This is clearly evident in the defense tactic many people use when defending racism. For many white people, the “definition of racism” offers them a safeguard so that they no longer feel the need to check their privilege. It acts as a last resort when backed into a corner by logic and reason. It is their final safety measure to ensure that they still win the conversation, even though this is not the type of conversation to be won. It is for those white people that I have listed below some of the many reasons why the “definition of racism” is wrong. Dictionaries provide a simplistic view of words. While dictionaries are a great reference for people who have no prior knowledge on a word, concept or idea, they are not the best for conducting and controlling discussion. Racism is such a complex idea that it would be impossible to describe every aspect of it in a basic 101 way. Dictionaries should instead be used as a starting point for learning, leading to more thorough research and investigation, rather than being a final and definitive argument as to why white people can experience racism. Dictionaries are written and edited by white men. The majority of writers for popular and academic dictionaries have been white men. In the western world, as there are systems in place which privilege white people, it is not surprising to see that the definition of racism put forward by white men is inaccurate. They are socialized to believe that the racism people of color experience is in any way comparable to the “racism” white people experience (i.e. being called out for perpetrating and upholding white supremacy). There is simply no credibility in white people defining racism. Racism is systemic. If we look at the word, ‘racism’, we see that it ...
I'm going to do it! On March 2nd, my birthday, I get a free drink at Starbucks... So what I'm going ...
Wildflower comments on Feb 1, 2019:
And I bet the barista taking your order will be able to call it back to the barista on the line... not sure what you might end up with though!
In your next life what do you want to be? Yeah, I know, but I want to be an otter or a dolphin.
Wildflower comments on Feb 1, 2019:
A biker or a cat. LOL
A little fun..
Wildflower comments on Feb 1, 2019:
If only it were so easy!
I was younger and more naive.
Wildflower comments on Feb 1, 2019:
That's the truth!
Post the last picture you took on your phone.......Do not explain it ?
Wildflower comments on Feb 1, 2019:
Here's my last pic
Update on the second date update. Soooooo, 45 minutes after our agreed upon time to meet, he called ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 31, 2019:
It would just be nice if people could communicate honestly.
Does anyone have any experience juggling more than one possible partner? I'm juggling three at the ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 31, 2019:
I think you're doing great! You know what you want and are after it. You think things through and are quite rational. I admire that!
100% Agree!
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
Ohhh I like that!
There's no such thing as "were you a hippie" ! It never goes away. I'm glad to find this group!
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
I always say, if I had been born 10 years earlier... I would have definitely been a hippie.
I thought this was so...true. Lol.
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
Nope. As a clinician I know many anti-depressants... but I don't recognize one of those.
Anybody else reject Valentine's Day? total bullshit
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
It's a Hallmark holiday. Made up to make someone lots of money.
Okay. My work just closed for the third day this week. I am literally stuck in a studio apartment by...
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
Is that a good show? I'm sorry that you're stuck there.
Check'em out..
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
Canadians must be loving that!
Your bladder is about to blow a gasket, you get to the restroom; full house. You could put a horse ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
I have clients do that all the time when they have to do a UA.
Pink vagina dress? Our lips are sealed. [yahoo.com]
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
Pink is my favorite color! Aerosmith.
Our Hot Honk of the Day 1/30/19 goes to @KevinMR, Seems like a nice, normal guy.
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
Handsome. Love the beard.
Pussy massage, this is a very specific stroke but it's been such a hit it might be fun to pass it ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
That sounds quite nice.
For People Dating! Name One Kind Of "G" Rated Picture Of A Person That Is An Immediate Turn Off
Wildflower comments on Jan 30, 2019:
Bathroom mirror pic holding the phone in one hand while flexing with the other, shirtless. Sunglasses. Mugshots. There are more...
A pretty blonde woman is driving down a country road when her car breaks down. She goes to the ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 29, 2019:
A better than blonde joke!
The only man who could put on lipstick and heels and take your woman.
Wildflower comments on Jan 29, 2019:
Oh, definitely sexy! Himself and his music!
What are the temperatures where you are? Here it is -24°F. -51°F with wind chill.
Wildflower comments on Jan 29, 2019:
I'm sorry... but I do NOT miss the cold! Move to Florida people!
What are the temperatures where you are? Here it is -24°F. -51°F with wind chill.
Wildflower comments on Jan 29, 2019:
And where are You??? It is 55 here in Daytona Beach.
Anyone else on Match.com? I've been on match for about 3 weeks now (NY's resolution to get out of ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 29, 2019:
I was on Match last year. It sucked. Did not meet one guy from it, in 6 months. OkCupid has been better for me, although I do need patience to wade through the b...sh.t.
Goodnight Kitty One sleeping - one just well - just look...
Wildflower comments on Jan 29, 2019:
I swore I would not get another cat, but I want that kitty. The poofy one, lol
Our Hot Hunk of the Day 1/29/2019 goes to @BestWithoutGods. Looks like a Southern gentleman to me....
Wildflower comments on Jan 29, 2019:
A handsome guy.
Eventually you will meet a man or woman.....
Wildflower comments on Jan 28, 2019:
I have no doubt.
A drunk staggers into a Catholic Church, enters a confessional booth, sits down but says nothing. ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 28, 2019:
Oh shit.
I hope all of you have a great 2016!
Wildflower comments on Jan 28, 2019:
My memory is as sharp as ever! 2019 and we have a joke for a president.
I'm Flippant Llama, and I approve this message!
Wildflower comments on Jan 28, 2019:
That needs to be on a greeting card.
I propose we start a new game on Agnostic.com, to be known as "Not That Question Again!" Bingo. ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 28, 2019:
Scroll on by...
He may not be everyone's cup of tea, but he's one of my current obsessions. He can Tygh me up, Tygh ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 28, 2019:
Dark hair, dark eyes... beautiful.
Our Hot Hunk of the Day goes to @Dellik. Some people aren't afraid to call it like it is. That ...
Wildflower comments on Jan 28, 2019:
He's cute. Long hair and a goatee!
How could you overlook vintage Dorff?
Wildflower comments on Jan 28, 2019:
Thank you for pointing him out! I do have a thing for vintage beauty.

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