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I'm a very open-minded and liberal woman. I love to learn, about almost anything but especially about people, societies, and cultures. As a social worker I am socially and self aware, empathic, and a passionate advocate for social justice and personal empowerment. As an empowered woman I am open-minded, accepting of self and others, and passionately sexual. As a human I struggle with life issues and insecurities. Life is a journey of lessons, learning, and growth which is joyous but also painful.

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La Femme Boheme. A woman of sophistication who disregards conventional standards of behavior, who ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 18, 2019:
I like this definition, and I like this kind of woman!
Goodnight Kitty - look at the toes!
Wildflower comments on Mar 18, 2019:
Just want to tickle those little toes!
I apologize in advance for the length of this, but it feels important to get it all out I feel ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 18, 2019:
I appreciate your story. Through my own personal experience and studies, I've learned a great deal about the "mid-life crisis." It really is a time of transition. As we live and grow through life we experience a number of transitions; adolescence to young adulthood, then to adulthood, and then into our older adult years. For people with children often the mid-life transition happens when the kids are becoming more independent. And any other life changing event, like loss of employment, will influence the impact of the transition. Identities are being redefined. One's identity is no longer connected to the kids, being a bread-winner has been threatened, and the dynamic of family relationships change. It's a really tough time in a person's life. Getting through it is a great accomplishment and needs to be celebrated! You are there!
We have enough critics.
Wildflower comments on Mar 18, 2019:
Yes, that is so true. Let's all be encouragers!
Another beautiful weekend with my man. Aunt Mary is smitten like a kitten.
Wildflower comments on Mar 17, 2019:
So sweet!
Don't forget... Chat begins at 2:00 pm Eastern today!
Wildflower comments on Mar 17, 2019:
No particular topic. Let's see what members come up with. Let's get to know each other.
On Ethical Sluts, I posted a very misleading, confusing, and frankly, when read a certain way, ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 17, 2019:
Thank you so much for clarifying your post which was very confusing. We ("Ethical Sluts Group") appreciate your apology.
[youtu.be] The Rolling Stones Brown Sugar W/lyrics on screen
Wildflower comments on Mar 16, 2019:
Who doesn't like some brown sugar?
[quiz.tryinteract.com] Found this little test on line today.
Wildflower comments on Mar 16, 2019:
Cool. I got the Ethical Non-monogamist. ;)
A little ENM humor for ya:
Wildflower comments on Mar 16, 2019:
Perfect!
So. How is your weekend going?
Wildflower comments on Mar 16, 2019:
It's not going THAT good!
Sexiest guitarist I've ever seen. [youtu.be]
Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:
She is pretty sexy! Not sure the best... but I like it.
I just want you all to acknowledge that the new BOLDING in PMs will cause an adult game of Hot ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:
I've noticed the **bolding.**
Anyone have experience with forced orgasms? What did you find worked? What didn't? Anything you wish...
Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:
Sometimes I have to force my own orgasms! But what you are describing would be way too much for me.
Has anyone tried creating a social group for the sole purpose of sharing personal nudes? How did the...
Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:
Personal nudes? I don't think so. Some people have shared personal pics in the sexy, classy pics group.
Red wine with supper tonight, red wine for dessert..... this may not end well
Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:
It's a staple in my house!
You know, I never realized what that big glowing thing in the sky was for, but thank goodness it's ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:
Naturists have known this for a long time! LOL. That's why they do yoga in the nude.
2nd part of my story is now online [filthy.media]
Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:
That's awesome!
You know you'd all go on this date. Maybe different food - but you'd all go on it. (L)
Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:
Made for each other!
I love it when date night coincides with pie day!
Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:
Do you have a pie hangover today?
It almost 3am..beware!
Wildflower comments on Mar 14, 2019:
U up text! LOL
My first date with a couple is tomorrow after i get back into town 😎😁
Wildflower comments on Mar 14, 2019:
Oh sweet dog, I am happy for you. A first date is exciting!
i was a very ethical slut last night. man, it was good. and now i wake up today with a head cold :(
Wildflower comments on Mar 14, 2019:
So happy you had fun! but oh... a cold, take care of yourself!
Hi, I'm new here. My boyfriend (whom I met on this site) and I are interested in easing into ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 14, 2019:
Welcome! You can also check out "Lifestyle Swingers Group" for more swinger info. @Zesty is a swinger aficionado.
I think when we hit 120 members, we all do shots
Wildflower comments on Mar 13, 2019:
I like that idea! Any particular shot that you prefer?
Having been divorced now for more than 5 years, the thing I miss almost more than sex is touch. Hugs...
Wildflower comments on Mar 13, 2019:
Oh yes. That would be the hardest part of being alone for me as well. Touch is a basic human need for good emotional health.
Monna in The Crap I Put Up With Tales If you're a sexual predator it's probably NOT a good idea ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 13, 2019:
She looks either drugged or dead. Not erotic at all in my opinion.
Aunt Mary got a little wild and crazy with color at the hair salon today in anticipation of another ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 13, 2019:
You're so beautiful. It's so nice to put a face with your wonderful personality!
Oh my gosh, just found this group....awesome!!
Wildflower comments on Mar 13, 2019:
Hi Marcie! Welcome. Nice to have you here.
[youtu.be] Deadmau5 ft kaskade I remember Lyrics: Feeling the past moving in Letting a new ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 13, 2019:
I like that. Thank you.
Keep away from his head!
Wildflower comments on Mar 12, 2019:
Reminds me of this lizard.
"What will you do to me?" pt2 a story by Kelvin Matchett SuxieQ45 was one his new regulars. A ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 12, 2019:
I loved that story! Well done.
"What will you do to me?" pt1 a new story by Kelvin Matchett Sex for Peter had been both a ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 12, 2019:
Very nice! I enjoyed that very much, especially since I like sexting myself! Can't wait to hear part 2.
Well played indeed...
Wildflower comments on Mar 11, 2019:
Is that Cool-whip? I can't tell, I need new glasses.
Good morning! I'm really having trouble waking up ... stupid time change! One of the biggest ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 11, 2019:
I'm with you. I think my best trait is being non-judgmental of others. Second is my empathy.
I clearly fit in this category. But I'm at a loss as how to meet women of a like mind. Hints would ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 11, 2019:
I've met a couple of people, 1 man and 1 woman, that are in poly relationships on a dating site. Your profile needs to state what you are looking for so you can connect with women of like mind. Check for poly groups in your area. I know her in Central Florida there is an active poly group in Orlando.
Just got my first successful hand job!!?⛲ As Amy Schumer would say, "It's so easy!"
Wildflower comments on Mar 10, 2019:
How about that! I bet that was a fun time!
Being deviant!
Wildflower comments on Mar 10, 2019:
Sweet! A little mystery!
His name is Roger. He'll be 67 this month. He's overweight. He has diabetes. He has Bell's Palsy...
Wildflower comments on Mar 10, 2019:
How beautiful is that! I'm so happy for you. Enjoy the journey!
i am a points whore today
Wildflower comments on Mar 10, 2019:
Have you checked out our new group? "Ethical Sluts Group"
i am a points whore today
Wildflower comments on Mar 10, 2019:
I will help you out with that!
Hi I am ree. I am a slut and proud of it. I just love sex with anyone with whom i find an ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 10, 2019:
Hi ree! Welcome! So happy you have joined us.
Good morning! While going through tons of stuff yesterday, I found my report cards from 2nd ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 10, 2019:
In elementary school I was a good student. Middle and high school are a different story! In 6th grade I started going off the rails. In high school I had so many F's on my report cards that I don't know how I even graduated. A few years later I was on the Dean's list in college, graduated Magna Cum Laude, and went on to get my Master's degree with honors. I didn't even know I was smart until I attempted college.
It's about time!!! Thanks for this group! Never liked double standards. Women should definitely be...
Wildflower comments on Mar 10, 2019:
Yes! We're happy to have you here! Enjoy!
If you are new to "Ethical Sluts" group please take a moment and read this, or at least look it ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 10, 2019:
Mr. Invisible... stop, just stop it!
I deal anxiety by listing things I have to be grateful for. It seems to help. Does anyone else do ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Gratitude lists are a great way to turn negative thoughts into positive. Affirmations are great. I used to put sticky notes with positive thoughts on them all over my house to remind me to think good about myself.
Or stay home, drink beer and choke your chicken.
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Oh crap... I forgot the chicken!
Ok . . so I meet someone on an on-line dating site. all of the connections are good except that she ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Give her the benefit of the doubt. You won't know until you meet and get to know her.
And, in case you forgot...
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Move 'em forward boys!!
Does anyone know what kind of bug this is? ?
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Hmmmm? I don't know. I think I'd like to examine that specimen more closely.
Hey all, Bruce & Teresa from mid TN. Definitely feels good to be moral, honest, and sexual.
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Hey Bruce and Teresa! Nice to meet you. Glad you've joined us!
Goodnight kittehz... Kittens sleeping in human hands is a thing... I'll see you all next year when ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
If only they would stay babies forever!
If anyone finds a copy of this please let me know
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
I'll check in my collection of Nancy Drew Mysteries.
I’m the queen of the world.
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Yay! Queen Mary of the world!
Pay attention to patterns.
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
I am a practitioner of Fuckology... I need to let that license expire!
I would introduce myself but I already know all of you! LOL
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Hey! Nice to see you!
Wow..happy to have this group around and become a member..I'm Charlene..from Boston.
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Hi Charlene. Great to have you in our group! It's been awhile since I've been to Boston. I'm from CT.
Good morning to all! Thank you for starting this group. I'm Steve. I live in the most beautiful ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Hey Steve. Glad to have you here. Yes, I believe morality is relative and varies by culture. Our culture is too much influenced by prudish concepts.
Hello all! I'm so happy that this group has been created! I live in a relatively small, rust belt ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Welcome! I'm glad you're here.
I know, I deserve a kick in the caboose for this one
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Ok, I'll be the first to kick your caboose to the curb! LOL
Make a truer statement. If two people in a row say it is true, a new statement can be made. If ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
No matter what she's wearing, she always decides.
How to delete crap...?
Wildflower comments on Mar 9, 2019:
Back space.
What do you do when you get horny at work? asking for a friend.
Wildflower comments on Mar 8, 2019:
Well... I have been known to close the door to my office and take care of myself. In my line of work self care is very important! Although, usually I wait and it just goes away. :(
Baby it's cold outside!
Wildflower comments on Mar 8, 2019:
Looks like she has to pee, really bad!
I just feel compelled to share this.somewhat off topic, but shows that even animals know to protect ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 8, 2019:
Taking care of the family!
This is a holiday I can get with
Wildflower comments on Mar 8, 2019:
And I'm going to make up that I have a dog!
What are you most looking for in a relationship? Just your 1 Thing
Wildflower comments on Mar 7, 2019:
#1 has to be compassion. If someone doesn't have concern and compassion for others, I have a difficult time connecting with them.
It's funny but true. Be honest with your doc!
Wildflower comments on Mar 7, 2019:
Yes, funny but important!
So that explains those goofy hats!
Wildflower comments on Mar 7, 2019:
No wonder @goldenvalleyguy watches Smurfs!
Goodnight Kitty: Delayed medication due to insurance cock-up - so quite the day spent cuddled ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 7, 2019:
Yes, I definitely want to come back as a kitty! I hope you feel better soon!
I haven’t been very active in this group but I’m really struggling tonight. I know I can’t ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 6, 2019:
We all need others to help lift us up. I sure do understand your struggles Marcie. Yes the feelings pass, but in the moment it's a heavy weight. HUGS
I am clearly an ethical slut...
Wildflower comments on Mar 6, 2019:
Hey! Welcome Nukdookum!
Jayden Smith provides for Flint where conservatives fail. A little young, but he's 20. Sometimes ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 5, 2019:
He has a couple of hot parents!
Chemistry in texting.. Anyone else notice it? Been online dating before, and doing it again ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 5, 2019:
I have found connections when texting. ;) Sometimes it's good in person sometimes not. When texting falls flat or a guy is just too crude, I let it go. Ask questions. Be kind and don't get to the sex too soon. (Unless you're in the Talk Dirty group)! Be yourself! You're a great guy. :)
Have not tried sexting, but maybe naughty texting? Would be a wonderful tease during the day! - Sex...
Wildflower comments on Mar 5, 2019:
Sounds wonderful.
Something to think about.
Wildflower comments on Mar 4, 2019:
"Some people come into your life for a reason, some a season, and some a lifetime."
A Cherokee Parable: The Tale of Two Wolves... A grandfather is talking with his grandson and he ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 4, 2019:
Absolutely true.
Hi everyone! I'm new to your group and I've been wanting to ask a question...Do you feel it's normal...
Wildflower comments on Mar 4, 2019:
Welcome Dave, I think you're pretty normal!
Goodnight Kitties....
Wildflower comments on Mar 4, 2019:
Kitty snuggles!
It's cookies!
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
A sad reality!
Well I learned something new tonight whilst reading a story on stories online.com. Would anyone ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
Only with a guarantee.
Well I learned something new tonight whilst reading a story on stories online.com. Would anyone ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
Oh great... another "spot" to reach.
For the person who has everything! The perfect gift.
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
@Kattywampus69
Somehow, I don't think these kittens are going to get any sleep
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
Beware the deceiver!
Am leaving this group, am ashamed to be a member. I feel the post with John and Yoko is edgy on ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
I was very uncomfortable when I saw that meme. I'm glad you said something.
Do you agree or not agree? "5 minutes after your birth, they decided your name,nationality, ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
I understand exactly what you're trying to say. I work with people on a daily basis that are seriously sick because of the beliefs, biases, and rules that were instilled in them as children. Beliefs can be so internalized that we don't even understand that they are beliefs and that we can change them.
My sincere apologies! I compared two economic systems previously, to some extent as a joke. Most ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
I'm proud to be a socialist!
What do you find attractive at first sight? I find tattoos and piercings very attractive.
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
I do find tattoos and piercings very attractive, but not necessary. Mostly I find attractive a smile and eyes. I love the deepness of brown eyes.
Do you agree or not agree? "5 minutes after your birth, they decided your name,nationality, ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
All of that is decided for us. However, as an adult we can change our beliefs, values, biases, and rules. We can change our name, religion, and denomination. Authorities and society do not have to control who we are anymore.
I had the privilege to have a woman when I was 17 and still a virgin to teach me all the right and ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
How wonderful! It really isn't that hard to understand what another person needs (even a woman). All you need to do is be open-minded and aware, and listen! Seems you were open to that when you were a teen. I love your story!
Reduce your stress... Cuddle! ???
Wildflower comments on Mar 3, 2019:
I believe it.
Does this apply to you ladies (or gents if you identify) ? lol
Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:
Yes. That would be me. My coworkers would be shocked to know the real me.
I don't know if we're getting a "Goodnight Kitty" or not, so I thought that I would wish my fellow ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:
No good night kitty? I'll share my old girl Tyler... found herself a sweet spot on the couch.
Thank you to whoever turned me on to POF. I think they were from the UK and met their wife or ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:
And you just had to share!! lol Love it!
I JUST GOT LAID! And gave my first orgasm with oral sex. That was sweet! Maybe there is a ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:
Hahaha. Go get 'em tiger! I'm happy for you!!
Password security is getting intense.
Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:
Feels like that sometimes! And then we have to change it every 30 days!
Not to be the “post police” but please read the group description before posting. This is not a ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 2, 2019:
I agree with you. And thanks for your support on my post yesterday. I am a lover of female beauty... my bedroom and master bath are adorned with beautiful pinups. I have a collection of pinup items. I don't think this group is the place to post such pics, or I would have been posting them a long time ago.
On the topic of mixed race beauty, I always though the French Vietnamese I met were incredibly ...
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
Deviant? Seems a bit mundane, regular, boring.
Ahhhhhh, childhood
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
That was my gateway to real cigarettes! Well, that and both my parents smoking... and all 5 of my older siblings...
Have you ever thought that your "imperfections" might just make you perfect in someone else's eyes
Wildflower comments on Mar 1, 2019:
My "imperfections" have and will make me "perfect" for someone else. I believe that.

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