Is social anxiety a problem for anyone else?

Wildflower comments on Apr 7, 2018:

I've had social anxiety my whole life. I've taken many steps to get better and it has improved a great deal. Building self-esteem and confidence by trying new things, lots of therapy, and doing what I'm passionate about has helped a great deal.

Anyone have experience with forced orgasms?

Wildflower comments on Mar 15, 2019:

Sometimes I have to force my own orgasms! But what you are describing would be way too much for me.

I have a super gorgeous 35 year old flirting with me. I have to make myself do this!

Wildflower comments on Aug 5, 2019:

Have fun with it!

Have you gone on a date with someone you met on this site?

Wildflower comments on Feb 8, 2019:

Yes. I've met 2 great guys from this site. Both great dates!

Here's a really good looking man... I bet you all agree !!

Wildflower comments on Dec 23, 2018:

The further south you go in Florida the more you see this.

Texas shooting.

Wildflower comments on Sep 1, 2019:

You're just trolling right?

Excuse me, the face is not really visible here. Sorry. But do you care?

Wildflower comments on Jun 5, 2019:

She probably belongs in the Sexy, Classy pics group. Just sayin'. Most of them are faceless there anyway.

It's about my boyfriend...

Wildflower comments on Dec 23, 2018:

Yikes!

Why I'm banished from gender reveal parties

Wildflower comments on Jun 25, 2019:

Someone had fun making that cake! Eww

Silver fox Dr.

Wildflower comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Smart is sexy!

Having a story read to you before bed sometimes makes your dreams more exciting.

Wildflower comments on Dec 3, 2019:

He could read anything he wanted and my dreams would be more exciting!

Not technically a meme, but funny.

Wildflower comments on Jan 19, 2019:

Let us pray!

I have an open question for the ladies: How do you FEEL about the topics discussed in the ...

Wildflower comments on Nov 24, 2018:

That was a good TED Talks. And very accurate. Women have historically not been allowed to enjoy their sexuality. And change happens slowly.

Our Hot Hunk of the Day for 1/23/19 goes to @pedrohbds.

Wildflower comments on Jan 23, 2019:

Cute. I love dark eyes.

Said goodbye to my dad for the last time today.

Wildflower comments on Apr 28, 2019:

What a beautiful pic!

What are you staring at? Have you not seen a curves before?

Wildflower comments on Feb 9, 2020:

That's just bizarre! Lol

[youtube.com] This is how I'm feeling today.

Wildflower comments on Dec 21, 2018:

I'll join you in that feeling.

Good morning:) It is such an effort to interact with others in a socially acceptable way, and it ...

Wildflower comments on Dec 6, 2018:

Yes. I have experienced that and still do from time to time. Much therapy and self esteem work has helped me accept myself and be ok with people.

Tinder...have any of you ever tind'd before?

Wildflower comments on Aug 11, 2020:

I'm too old for Tinder-ing! lol. I'm not interested in hookups, although most men on dating sites are looking for that.

The third option.

Wildflower comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Yes.. I lmao

Send me out to sea on a life raft with this guy any day

Wildflower comments on Nov 29, 2018:

And don't save us too soon!

I’m too damn sensitive for dating apps.

Wildflower comments on Jan 10, 2020:

Match has been the worst dating site for me. Last year I paid for 6 months. I met 1 guy! And he was a jerk. I had only a few conversations on there. Don't get down on yourself Marcie, you're a sweetheart. If you ever want to chat let me know. PM me. I know exactly how you're feeling.

Update on the update.. I just setup another date for tonight!! When it rains it pours?

Wildflower comments on Mar 25, 2019:

Have an awesome time hippydog!

So many pans and I'm cooking for one.

Wildflower comments on Nov 23, 2019:

The empty half of a king size bed.

Do age gaps matter to you?

Wildflower comments on Apr 19, 2019:

I am very open to being with a younger man. Men my age seem to be stuck in the dark ages and not willing to learn. It's not about going back to my youth... my youth was with the same men my age now. Its about the mindset, the openness, and willingness to be equal in enjoying a partner.

Ears or Neck which is more sensitive and erotic?

Wildflower comments on Sep 7, 2019:

Neck.

Some things do not translate well.

Wildflower comments on Aug 28, 2019:

That is too funny!

What do you think of when you pleasure yourself? Or do you like to watch porn? Listen to porn?

Wildflower comments on Jun 16, 2020:

Sometimes I watch porn of men pleasuring themselves. Lately though, I think of my new young (36) lover Kieran.

Ladies, of your man is performing for you in the wheat field, is it ever too much?

Wildflower comments on Dec 12, 2018:

Don't be performing in my wheat field!

Lol! “A forum for women and men to exchange thoughts about intimacy and relationships.

Wildflower comments on Dec 4, 2018:

I think this guy is just a troll stirring things up.

Happy thanksgiving!

Wildflower comments on Nov 22, 2018:

Mmmmm. Delicious! Happy Thanksgiving!

What kind of dog are you? Take this short quiz for fun and post your results... [quotev.com]

Wildflower comments on Dec 22, 2018:

Mine was the yellow lab.

Do introverts use alcohol to open up more?

Wildflower comments on Dec 8, 2018:

I definitely have used alcohol to calm myself and lower my inhibitions in social settings. Also, I work as a substance abuse counselor and many of my clients are introverts and/or have social anxiety. It's difficult to work with.

What do you think of this hand painted bureau? Would you attempt it?

Wildflower comments on Feb 19, 2019:

This looks like it could be upcycled wallpaper. It's very cool. I would attempt it.

Our Hot Hunk of the Day 1/29/2019 goes to @BestWithoutGods. Looks like a Southern gentleman to me.

Wildflower comments on Jan 29, 2019:

A handsome guy.

I've been thinking a lot about my grandparents lately.

Wildflower comments on Feb 8, 2019:

True love transcends traditional beauty.

I asked a couple people, both genders, about some sextual .

Wildflower comments on Jan 20, 2019:

She may have been thanking you for finding her attractive enough to ask.

General Observation: If you can find someone who will listen to all the 'crap' in your life, hear ...

Wildflower comments on Aug 12, 2020:

Just be sure not to take advantage of that good heart. If you want to be a keeper don't abuse the privilege and listen to all their crap as well.

Who’s awake and craving post-meal dirty talk?

Wildflower comments on Nov 23, 2018:

Hey Bobby.

Slow dancing ?

Wildflower comments on Jan 5, 2019:

Oh my goodness yes!

Found on Reddit...

Wildflower comments on Jun 30, 2019:

I posted that before you did. Hmmmm

Which recluse are you? I'm part lonely bot(no plants) and Grumps(no eye twitch).

Wildflower comments on Mar 27, 2020:

Can I mix 2 of them? Horny Boss Lady, that would be me!

The female form: nothing in nature is quite as remarkable in my opinion.

Wildflower comments on Nov 17, 2018:

I agree.

Think of your own captions... Be creative lol

Wildflower comments on Nov 11, 2018:

Do these balloons make my ass look fat?

Do you remember? The puzzle to beat... pre- Rubik's Cube. 😁

Wildflower comments on Apr 15, 2019:

I never ever could get the slide puzzle, never mind the Rubik's Cube! And I still have no aptitude for math!

I find London Andrews simply gorgeous.

Wildflower comments on Apr 4, 2019:

Wow! She is beautiful!

Brrrrr... it is cold today. What happened to autumn because it is freezing today?

Wildflower comments on Nov 2, 2019:

It's chilly here too. Only 77 right now!

This happens way too often to be honest... I am in distress! 😱🤣

Wildflower comments on Oct 18, 2021:

Sounds like my own sex life. Lol

@charlene! Sexy Strappies!

Wildflower comments on Apr 30, 2019:

I just love her body! and the outfit is pretty nice too. :)

I usually like longer hair, but something about this pic drew me in....

Wildflower comments on Dec 5, 2018:

Yeah. I can see why!

Shit just got real.

Wildflower comments on Jun 25, 2019:

Vert der ferk?

another fun video: [vimeo.com]

Wildflower comments on Jul 7, 2019:

That's right, choose your goddess!

😍😍😍👍👍👍💘💘💘💘

Wildflower comments on Dec 31, 2019:

Beautiful woman and attitude!

Our Hot Hunk of the Day 1/26/19 goes to @StellarAmor.

Wildflower comments on Jan 26, 2019:

He's cute.

Dis mine........

Wildflower comments on Dec 21, 2018:

Awwww. so sweet of him!

Hello.

Wildflower comments on Nov 11, 2019:

Welcome and enjoy!

Well hello there!

Wildflower comments on May 13, 2019:

Beauty and grace! Gorgeous.

Wrong on so many levels!

Wildflower comments on Dec 9, 2018:

Pretty messed up. I'd say more... but no, I get myself in trouble.

Straight from my sketch pad to my body.

Wildflower comments on Oct 21, 2019:

Nice work!

I’m not really into shots but....

Wildflower comments on Feb 14, 2019:

One of these?

Another beautiful weekend with my man. Aunt Mary is smitten like a kitten.

Wildflower comments on Mar 17, 2019:

So sweet!

If you go fishing do you bait the hook?

Wildflower comments on Sep 25, 2018:

I prefer my partner bait my hook... But I have no problem hooking the shrimp if I have to.

Can anyone tell me how to get a person out of a group.

Wildflower comments on May 1, 2020:

I have run into that. A busy body just wanting to get into everyone's business without contributing anything positive. You can block them and not see them anywhere but senate or ban them from your group and just not allow them into your group.

Adding this to my sex playlist Slow an' Easy - whitesnake [youtu.be] What's your favorite?

Wildflower comments on Jan 27, 2019:

https://youtu.be/6Whgn_iE5uc

Fishnets and curves ;)

Wildflower comments on Apr 6, 2019:

Oh yes! So beautiful. Thank you for sharing, and welcome!

Sorry, but for some reason these pics downloaded side ways and i can't figure out way.

Wildflower comments on Nov 29, 2019:

Wow. That is pretty cool! Where is this?

Here's a few for now

Wildflower comments on Nov 23, 2018:

I love the first one!

My new art studio upstairs in my spare room.

Wildflower comments on Jul 11, 2019:

Wow, very nice! Looks like your pup likes it!

Thoughts........

Wildflower comments on Dec 5, 2018:

That's quite a message.

Pussy has finally come out of the closet.

Wildflower comments on Jul 7, 2019:

https://youtu.be/ZGIkGbs1VEc

On Ethical Sluts, I posted a very misleading, confusing, and frankly, when read a certain way, ...

Wildflower comments on Mar 17, 2019:

Thank you so much for clarifying your post which was very confusing. We ("Ethical Sluts Group") appreciate your apology.

Our Hot Hunk of the Day for 1/16/2019 goes to @Sticks48.

Wildflower comments on Jan 16, 2019:

And definitely a hunk!

This is a very nice live performance.

Wildflower comments on Jul 19, 2019:

I knew I had heard of Tedeschi when I saw this post. Susan Tedeschi has played in CT, and of course Derek Trucks Band is awesome! I like your taste in music Mr. StRomain!

So.

Wildflower comments on Nov 14, 2019:

I've stopped seeing a guy or 2 because he was too large and it was painful. Some women don't mind their cervix pounded but not me. Myself, being post menopausal I'd be concerned about the bleeding.

Poor Chump... oops..... I mean Trump.

Wildflower comments on Nov 25, 2018:

Ohhh, we know he loves it!

Logic is failing some.... 🤣

Wildflower comments on Dec 17, 2019:

Yes Karen!

Hello. I’m new here, from Minnesota. Straight

Wildflower comments on Feb 9, 2019:

Hey there. Welcome. What kind of dirty talk are you into?

Word: Anger- a strong feeling of annoyance, displeasure, or hostility.

Wildflower comments on Feb 11, 2019:

As a therapist, I treat anger as a secondary emotion. It is produced from an underlying emotion such as fear, annoyance, pain, or disappointment. To prevent or relieve the anger, the initial emotion must be dealt with and resolved. From https://www.mentalhelp.net/articles/psychology-of-anger/ "Introduction Anger is a natural and mostly automatic response to pain of one form or another (physical or emotional). Anger can occur when people don't feel well, feel rejected, feel threatened, or experience some loss. The type of pain does not matter; the important thing is that the pain experienced is unpleasant. Because anger never occurs in isolation but rather is necessarily preceded by pain feelings, it is often characterized as a ''secondhand'' emotion."

my hideaway, i keep falling asleep in

Wildflower comments on Jan 19, 2019:

Cozy place to fall asleep.

Question: For both guys and gals - Do you prefer your partner shaved, sculpted, trimmed, or all ...

Wildflower comments on Aug 7, 2019:

Personally I like to be sculpted!

Something soothing ... [youtube.com]

Wildflower comments on May 10, 2020:

Wow. That's incredible! Beautiful.

Wannuh play? [youtu.be]

Wildflower comments on Nov 14, 2019:

That is the cutest!

Have you had a look at "brownburger01"?

Wildflower comments on Feb 28, 2019:

Interesting... he just sent me a "hi" emoji.

Missing people

Wildflower comments on Nov 11, 2019:

My dad. I'd like him to know that I forgive him. And he never got to meet his granddaughters.

Well.

Wildflower comments on Feb 22, 2019:

How far will you travel? Asking for a friend. ;)

You like him better than the last guy?

Wildflower comments on Aug 23, 2019:

No.

I recently had an interesting on-line experience.

Wildflower comments on May 19, 2019:

I forgot to mention... my daughter said they had planned to meet and he ghosted her. There are some pretty awful people out there.

How many times have you felt like you were in love?

Wildflower comments on Aug 16, 2020:

I've loved some wonderful men. Although I've had my heart broken a few times, I don't regret loving any of them. Every heartbreak has taught me some important lesson.

An interesting overview of all the angles ... Why Do Men Pay for Sex?

Wildflower comments on May 13, 2020:

I believe sex work should be legal.

The cat vs trump

Wildflower comments on Nov 5, 2019:

You've got a great cat there Bob!

[boingboing.

Wildflower comments on Jan 1, 2019:

It's the Liberator!

Will you be supporting it?

Wildflower comments on Nov 11, 2020:

Absolutely!

Hidden back in the way back...

Wildflower comments on Nov 23, 2018:

A brunette! Love a woman in a corset.

Beauty in natural habitat..

Wildflower comments on Dec 13, 2018:

A natural woman in a natural habitat.

With holidays coming up, I feel a bit sad. Does anybody else feel this way?

Wildflower comments on Dec 16, 2018:

I definitely feel sad during the holidays. I miss my family and wish it could be different.

It is October again....

Wildflower comments on Oct 20, 2019:

Don't even dare to choke me... or you'll be playing more than dead.

Hi folks. Hope all is well in your city. Do you enjoy the brief cold snaps we have?

Wildflower comments on Dec 6, 2018:

Yes! Love that chill in the air.

I sometimes wonder how much of some pleasures comes from the naughtiness of it.

Wildflower comments on Mar 25, 2020:

Pleasure doesn't have to come from naughtiness. But I think many healthy pleasures are considered naughty by our society.

Has anyone ever had both the pleasure and frustration of having a great romantic sexual dream, then ...

Wildflower comments on Jan 19, 2019:

Absolutely. Quite often lately. It is frustrating but I just float with it.

Goodnight kitty - all of you in the US good luck with second Monday!

Wildflower comments on May 27, 2019:

Sweet baby!