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I grew up attending a Disciples of Christ (fairly liberal) church, but always considered religion as mere lessons/mythology. I was quickly driven away from "real church" by the anti lgbtqa bigotry and misogyny that I encountered upon attending college.

I am an independent nature lover with a wicked, irreverent sense of humor, and am an unapologetic cat person, who is also drawn to less "popular" things like snakes, frogs, insects etc. I have retired so that I can spend more time enjoying what life has to offer. (“All work and no makes Jack a dull boy”, no?).

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Chicken and grits for lybch, with hot sauce of course. Do y'all eat grits?
Zster comments on Sep 3, 2018:
Heck yes!! With cheese, butter, salt, and pepper.
Chris Cornell Nothing Compares 2 U This is my favorite version of this song [youtu.be]
Zster comments on Sep 3, 2018:
Miss this guy...
More Today Than Yesterday - The Sprial Staircase [youtube.com] Music like this made me feel alive ...
Zster comments on Sep 3, 2018:
One of my fave "sing it loud in the car" songs. It's also most excellent for embarrassing my 18 and 21 YO kids. Might have something to do with the vocalist's range not exactly matching up with mine...
Last night my brother died. I didn't even know he was sick. I simply got a short email from his ...
Zster comments on Sep 3, 2018:
Wow! What an awful shock! For some reason, I expect my sibs (natural or by marriage) to last as long as I will. I am not sure we are ever ready for such news...
Two neonate gartersnakes I found under the same rock. Lopez, PA is where it's all happening ...
Zster comments on Sep 3, 2018:
Very healthy babies! Neat!
No One Has The Right To Judge You
Zster comments on Sep 3, 2018:
They'd never really believe that ignorance (theirs) is bliss, would they?
Labor day picnic qyestion. If you eat them, what do you put on you burgers and dogs?
Zster comments on Sep 3, 2018:
Burgers (char grilled): Lettuce, tomato, pickle, spicy mustard, mayo, and A1. Tomato and beef are both forbidden foods now, but if not... yum! Hot dogs (alsochar grilled): mustard and sweet relish
Ridiculous Rumors
Zster comments on Sep 3, 2018:
Widows are apparently free game where I work. I actually had to fear for my job, the rumors of sexual indiscretions got so bad. Mostly, guys I rejected and insecure wives were spreading them. As recently as this year, I had an angry wife complaining about my going after her husband. It's all 100% false. I dated ONE guy in the last twelve years. I decided to focus on raising my kids after he threatened them. Sigh.
I think there's a dude giving lessons on the Twist at the bus stop near my house. Life can be ...
Zster comments on Sep 1, 2018:
You needed to sneak record some video! I agree, people are the most funny when they don't even try to be...
Something your cats might like.???
Zster comments on Sep 1, 2018:
OMG!! I MUST get one! Thanks!
Without revealing a specific number, do you hqve in mind how long rouggly you would like to be ...
Zster comments on Sep 1, 2018:
A century, with good health until the last few moments (or possibly end suddenly, but neither painfully nor violently).
Ok ladies..never settle! I know we all have. Read this. [tinnuochan.com] Oh and men can read too....
Zster comments on Sep 1, 2018:
Oy! Much of that list sounded a lot more like what my grandparents thought I needed! That said, a few resonated with me... These two because they were very true w my late husband: "Stay single until you meet a guy who is sure of you and never makes you doubt how he feels. The one who still gives you butterflies when you walk in a room." Trust in me and loyalty from him, just because, were WONDERFUL for our relationship (I reciprocated, of course). Ultimately, THIS is probably how I will call it: "Stay single until you meet the guy who makes you not want to be." (:
My morning lesson on being single, given by a sunflower in my garden. I love how this one is not ...
Zster comments on Sep 1, 2018:
That is wonderful! It sums up how I relate to most groups, not meaning am above or better, just always different, marching to an apparently different drum.
A long-time favorite of mine when times get tough. Thank you Mary Chapin Carpenter... In this ...
Zster comments on Sep 1, 2018:
A personal fave. My late husband and I clung to that song when our first pet died. Now, I treasure it as a tribute to him, too. She did a great job with it live... (:
Hello September Everybody !!! ?
Zster comments on Sep 1, 2018:
Bring on the football!
Is it worth it to go on
Zster comments on Aug 31, 2018:
Join the widow(er) group. I am sorry that you have this in common with us. You wont be as alone as it might seem.
Is anyone still rockin that I want to talk to the manager haircut? I saw one at the store last ...
Zster comments on Aug 29, 2018:
It's still asuper common cut/style in the south.
Today I was accused of slut shaming. I am bothered by this even though I was trying to be funny in a...
Zster comments on Aug 29, 2018:
Hope you reconsider. Those who benefit by your being here very likely exceed those who do not. I will miss you greatly if you leave and really hope that you don't.
Today I was accused of slut shaming. I am bothered by this even though I was trying to be funny in a...
Zster comments on Aug 29, 2018:
Hope you reconsider. Those who benefit by your being here very likely exceed those who do not. I will miss you greatly if you leave and really hope that you don't.
An interesting new way to look at the non-religious and the religious. Where do you fit in? Take...
Zster comments on Aug 29, 2018:
Solidly secular.
What is the stupidest thing anybody has ever said to you? Bonus if it's not about religion.
Zster comments on Aug 28, 2018:
A girl who worked with me at a restaurant (with bar), after lecturing me on the evils of alcohol, stated that doing mushrooms was ok, different because it was "natural".
Confused. Lost. Feels like im losing my best friend after 27 years. Its killing me
Zster comments on Aug 27, 2018:
Hi. I've been widowed by cancer 13 years. My kids are now college aged. I find myself STILL oarenting, and VERY single.
Isn’t he the cutest❤️???
Zster comments on Aug 26, 2018:
Very, yes.
I posted this in Health or whatever. Do any of you have an air fryer that you use? I have one and am...
Zster comments on Aug 26, 2018:
I know nothing about these. Do they really work? Are the results really like oil fried? I have had to stop eating fried foods completely due to severe upper GI pain. A healthy, convincing substitute would be welcome...
How important is compatibility when it comes to taste in music, especially when together for ...
Zster comments on Aug 26, 2018:
It is rather important as there is some music that makes me prefer silence. I honestly would find it awkward to have to suffer through grating music in an effort to be accepting/polite. Conversely, I like to have music plsying a LOT. It woukd be awful for a partner to genuinely dislike it when I play so much of it. Having music tastes somewhat (does NOT have to be 100%) in common was part of what bonded us in my best relationships.
I'm thinking of trying a new dating site, anyone have any experience with this one?
Zster comments on Aug 26, 2018:
OMG! That photo! Priceless!
Are you a good dancer?
Zster comments on Aug 26, 2018:
In my mind's eye, I am fabulous at it! In reality, I likely come off as graceful as a waterlogged cormorant.
Do you ever think texting is going great but the phone conversation not so much.does that make me ...
Zster comments on Aug 26, 2018:
I know people for whom talking on a device is simply awkward for them. They prefer typing. In person, these same individuals are eloquent. So, the preference is not necessarily indicative of anything, at least in those cases. I can understand wanting more assurance before making a big drive to go and meet them, though.
My son is finally going off to university. He has been out of the house for a while but usually ...
Zster comments on Aug 25, 2018:
Akfish, I do not know how old this post is, but thought to check in to see how you and your son are now doing. We are on week three of my son starting college, though, like you, that is near by.
I hate running.
Zster comments on Aug 25, 2018:
If you ever see ME running... watch out! I am very likely running for some life threatening reason, like being pursued by a monster or something.
Do you have houseplants? Please tell me what types or share pictures!
Zster comments on Aug 25, 2018:
I started off with a horrible brown thumb, moved on to succulents (green ones), and eventually started bringing home things that were interesting: currently, I have a parent and baby spider plants, a pitcher plant, and "Robert" (first photo), then upstairs, I have a snake plant, fern, lemon basil, amaryllis (blooms every year!), a christmas cactus that blooms nearly year round, "Spike" (third photo", and the phallic cactus which started out like the 4th photo, but grew like a berserk thing when the red graft died (2nd picture).
Hummingbirds drink their weight in nectar every day. An average Ruby-Throated hummingbird weighs ...
Zster comments on Aug 24, 2018:
I've got TONs of hummers this year and am loving it! They greet me as I get out of my car, knowing that I reload the feeders I think. Insistent little powerhouses!
Who do you get along with better? The people the same gender, the opposite, or a mix? I find I get...
Zster comments on Aug 22, 2018:
I've generally had a strong distrust of women due to the nature of childhood bullying that I dealt with growing up. As an adult, I've discovered that many of the guys I was getting along better with had a sexual agenda, however inappropriately (when I was married). Now days, I get along on a case by case basis. I tend to mingle best with those who most WANT to mingle. Currently, that means mostly women and gay men.
The Presidents of the United States of America - Kitty - YouTube
Zster comments on Aug 20, 2018:
Classic!! Thanks for the awesome flash back!
What does agnostic mean you? How does that identify you in this dating-oriented community? (Or does...
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
To me it means that I've encountered no evidence to support existence of a deity. However, I find it a bit of a leap to presume that what I know of reality is the sum of all of it. There may be aspects to existence which my limited human senses cannot fathom or engage. Thus, I live my life as if what I see is what I get, while entertaining "what if" thoughts for fun.
My current situation ?who wants to join me?
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
That's pretty pale sand... Florida panhandle, perhaps? You've no idea how much I wish for a jaunt to a white sandy beach or a boat sailing across the waves of summer...
It's a beautiful summer day... The birds are singing the flowers are blooming... And the yellow ...
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
K-12 started back Aug 4. The local university resumed class Aug 13. Seems too early to me, but my kids don't complain. They like heading back.
Most recent photo on your phone or computer. No cheating. ?
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
Ok... you asked for it.
Wow I never knew this, how many have known this?
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
Well... DANG!
What's been your favorite vacation?
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
OMG! I've been fortunate to go on MANY amazing trips, not due to where we went, but who I went with and what happened... I sailed to the Dry Tortugas (from Clearwater FL) with my parents, took an aging cat and two very rowdy kittens tent camping with my late husband, have visited several amazing cities with my kids, spent a weekend in Paris with workmates... My fave has to be a tent camping trip (D and I had very little money, but found cheap ways to vacation) in the Florida keys, culminating at Bahia Honda State Park. We took moonlit bike rides every night at midnight, grilled seafood every day, snorkled with running Tarpon. It was hands down the most romantic trip ever, tough to convey how or why in text though. You'll just have to trust me.
Very little scares me. But, so does very big.
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
Oh, that is SO good! I'm going to borrow it, if you don't mind. (with credit, of course)
What do you do for fun that also counts as exercise?
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
Depending on the season: disc golf or flag/rifle twirling (I know I should have outgrown it long ago, but the motion has proven to be GREAT for my joints and much more fun than endless stretching).
Share a link to a song that you like. Must have been released in the last five years.
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
I included two in case being a cover of an older song (second one) is not "in the last five years". The first has my favorite drop ever... https://youtu.be/_-jkLGAOdys https://youtu.be/xGTpdYQaZv4
I'm having a party!
Zster comments on Aug 19, 2018:
Lentil-loaded Lefse (with a side of leeks) https://www.thekitchn.com/recipe-norwegian-potato-lefse-recipes-from-the-kitchn-175433
How many here use or have used online grocery ordering? I do much of mine that way but occasionally ...
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I order certain items from Amazon, mostly for convenience, to save money, and because stores near me don't stock such things. I have used ClickIt at Kroger. Dumb part is, they need more than a day to process your order. As I tend to shop as my supply runs low, that does not work well for me. Also, many items I shop for are not standardized quantitatively or qualitatively. I need to go and VIEW the merch.
Just got done reading this article posted by Planned Patenthood. It made me wonder about the ...
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Yep. Toys were a spicy addition in the marital bed, for both of us. We really enjoyed toys to be used during intercourse, stimming both of us. As far as buying... the privacy of online is wonderful, BUT, if I need something rather specific, I do much better when I can see the device rather than just a photo.
I just saw this gal live in concert this week. She kicks up fiddling to a whole new level AND dances...
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
She was every bit as vivacious live, maybe more so!
I asked a friend of mine what women want. She said "Attentive Lovers". Or maybe it was "A tent of ...
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
A tent of attentive lovers might really suit! (;
I think I am developing adult ADD/ADHD. I have noticed recently that I absolutely cannot even ...
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
For me, the nature of the posting place conveys a certain expectation. I expect short topic or question posts in a forum, and turn to blogs for longer written pondering.
I miss you but my family needs me.
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
This sure resonates with me now. If I define family as my children, it was totally true. They fully depended on me. My nest empties in a few weeks. I guess I will see what that entails after not being alone these past 12 years since D passed.
Death changes everything.
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Yes. Totally true.
How long after you lost your significant other did you feel like dating again?
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Parts of me returned to life around month 9. I started with some online (only) flirtations around then. By the end of year 2, I seriously dated a colleague friend. That ended disastrously, largely killing dating for me.
I love this saying.
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Truly lovely! My memories are treasures.
This is Tauriel, my Bengal mix. Such a silly girl going for my French toast this morning. ❤️
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
Can you blame her? French toast sounds fabulous! She's a beauty!
An omelette inspired by @RoadGlider's post, made for me by @MrLizard. It includes shrimp, onions ...
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I never considered seafood in an omelette, but why not? It sounds wonderful! Also, any concoction with fresh greens is aok with me. I wish that I could try a taste through the monitor screen!
Let’s talk pizza... pan crust or thin crust? Pineapple on pizza? What are your favorite toppings?...
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I am a sucker for a yeasty, stretchy crust, topped with high quality sausage, multiple types of mushrooms, a smattering of spinach, and a generous gooey blend of cheeses! I prefer thick hand tossed crust or a seared crust deep dish. I pass on any sweet toppings, unless it's a fruity dessert pizza. Sadly, certain health issues (GI, blood cholesterol, looming diabetes) have forced me into less grand pizza options, but I still find ways to enjoy it. I've had to drop tomato and spicy meats completely and had to pare down to the thinnest crust possible.
Good morning ☕☕☕?
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I ADORE Saturday mornings! I love having the time to prepare a superb cup of coffee, and to savor every drop without rushing. On work days, I seldom have the luxury of a French press brewed cup.
Aretha Franklin - Think (The Blues Brothers 1980) - YouTube
Zster comments on Aug 18, 2018:
I agree! A fantastic song from an incredible soundtrack!
Guacamole for me.
Zster comments on Aug 17, 2018:
Sandwiches. The only sandwich that I like is grilled cheese. My doctor wants me to minimize carbs. So, my anti-sandwich propensity comes in pretty handy.
I might be stupid but if my partner who claims to love me more than she's ever loved anyone before ...
Zster comments on Aug 17, 2018:
Discuss it. It sounds like she comes ftom a place that does not celebrate adult birthdays, which is rather common. I never celebrated an engagement anniversary, an intent to commit at some point. I've celebrated the actual commitment if or when it happened. If such things "gut you" and render an "entire relationship a farce", you might want to reconsider being in one, or at least this iteration of one.
Ok, since politics is annoying me here is a random silly post. I am thinking of cutting my hair. If ...
Zster comments on Aug 16, 2018:
Every short cut = instant regret every single time! My hair is MUCH easier to care for long. My natural waves end up cut somewhere near where they start which results in cowlicks and hair that HAS to be tamed to be presentable. Waves in long hair can add body to a straight look or be scrunched into tousseled curls. Easy peezy!
I'd love to help you move, but I promised my mom I'd crochet her a salad.
Zster comments on Aug 16, 2018:
I don't mind when people decline my invitation near as much if they do so creatively or outrageously. "Crocheting a salad" definitely suits! Thanks!
Healthy smoothies
Zster comments on Aug 15, 2018:
Protein work out smoothie without protein powder, based on a childhood egg nog recipe: 1/2c eggwhites, 1c plain soy or nut milk of choice, 2T quick cook oats, 2T PB2 (powdered peanut butter); 2t vanilla extract, nutmeg and cinnamon +/- sweetener to taste; add any other fruits (I use blueberries or strawberry now and then). I've substituted SunWarrior plant protein for the eggwhite or PB2, but do not like the taste as well.
I am having a tough time with doctors in this state I moved to. I went to a primary care physician ...
Zster comments on Aug 14, 2018:
Reading your post, I figured you'd moved to the southeastern US. Your profile states Maryland. You've no idea how depressing it is to hear that THAT part of the country is as F'ed up as ours when it comes to medical... I hope you are able to keep your care rolling without interruption.
How are you using Agnostic.com? Are you enjoying it? Meeting people? What's the best way to use ...
Zster comments on Aug 12, 2018:
I enjoy the general community, preferring to hang out here instead of FaceBook or Tumblr, where I have to put up with seemingly endless religious and political attacks. At Agnostic.com, I can relax and let my hair down a bit.
Still friends with church people?
Zster comments on Aug 12, 2018:
Not close. We don't get together anymore because they only hang with fellow church mates. When we do run into each other, we are still warm and friendly. They don't know of my lost belief.
Why am I here?
Zster comments on Aug 12, 2018:
Both. Use this community to satisfy your intellectual hunger, your need for discussion. Then, perhaps you and your wife can more readily work on the rest. Maybe that could be the more honest, loyal way.
And Who Can Tell Me ?
Zster comments on Aug 11, 2018:
https://youtu.be/ju-lptJweTc
Finished retrofitting a closet into a new home for Rita! She loves it. Very easy now for her to get...
Zster comments on Aug 11, 2018:
Fantastic idea!
My favorite North American spider, the black and yellow argiope (Argiope aurantia). Somewhere on my...
Zster comments on Aug 11, 2018:
These were the worst part of walkingin my grandmother's corn fields when it was high. The spiders were numerous and the webs were huge!
I thought this group might appreciate this mural. This is not my photo, I found it on the internet.
Zster comments on Aug 11, 2018:
Fabulous!!!
So "Asbestos" has been approved by the EPA for use in the USA, we are purchasing it from Russia. ...
Zster comments on Aug 8, 2018:
Mesothelioma anyone? It's positively idiotic to deregulate this crap. It's a KNOWN carcinogen, not just suspected.
Has any here ever used dry ice to ship perishables before? How did it work out? Anything you wish ...
Zster comments on Aug 8, 2018:
That depends. I use it to transport perishables that I store FROZEN. Once frozen, cooling farther has been ok for us. We also ship a lot of biological items on dry ice at work. I've never had it be too cold. Just be aware, CO2 needs to breathe as it generates gas with time. Also, only work with it in a very well ventilated area. I crack my car windows, just in case. Dry ice is regulated as a dangerous good. There are specific packing and labeling requirements. See page 12 of attached FedEx instructions. http://images.fedex.com/us/services/pdf/How_To_Pack.pdf
Early in my relationship with my now ex-husband, I had a small crush on a fellow grad student who ...
Zster comments on Aug 7, 2018:
I've already done the 20 year great marriage ended by cancer. It was horrible to have it cut short, but was worth what we had. Given the chance of doing it again, knowing... I definitely would.
Questions About Breaking the Dish Okay, not really breaking the dish, but that's my equivalent of...
Zster comments on Aug 7, 2018:
Yes. You can buy a Roku streaming box, or Apple TV box, or Amazon Fire stick. We heavily use Roku because my kids have android phones and like to project from them onto the TV.
Cable, Dish, Antenna, or Streaming? How do you watch TV.
Zster comments on Aug 7, 2018:
Stream NetFlix, Prime, and YouTube.
??? Good news for a great teen! [lgbtqnation.com]
Zster comments on Aug 6, 2018:
The kid's freaking valedictorian? And his folks kicked him out? Idiots.
"Intelligent Comedians on Religious Stupidity". [youtube.com]
Zster comments on Aug 6, 2018:
I get no audio with that link. ):
"Intelligent Comedians on Religious Stupidity". [youtube.com]
Zster comments on Aug 6, 2018:
I get no aufio with that link. ):
Do you like to dominate your partner or to be dominated?
Zster comments on Aug 6, 2018:
Neither or both? I most enjoy a fairly equaly partnership. Sometimes I can lead, other times he can. It's fun to mix it up and keep things fresh. (:
So in another thread here the notion of needing someone was given a rough battering in favor of ...
Zster comments on Aug 6, 2018:
I define "need" as cannot physically survive without it. One CAN make it to old age on their own. It happens every day. Whether or not mere survival is pleasant and fulfilling is another matter. Thus I WANT the company of another. I can survive without it, but would choose companionship, given the option.
I’m back. I was being superstitious, hoping to placate a higher power. I believe there could be a ...
Zster comments on Aug 5, 2018:
The absurdity of a universal creator giving us bodies and then punishing us for even touching them? I'm not buying it. PEOPLE concern themselves about such miniscule things...
Pepsi or Coke?
Zster comments on Aug 5, 2018:
Coke. I dislike the taste of Pepsi and get the pukes if I drink it. Awful. Of course, I mostly avoid commercial soda now.
I’m having a nerdgasm, Stewart is coming back to play Picard again!!!
Zster comments on Aug 5, 2018:
I know! I am totally looking forward to this!
It finally happened! The humming birds actually sipped nectar from the feeder while I was still ...
Zster comments on Aug 2, 2018:
And now my daughter got one to sip nectar out of her hand! (Photo of the hand feeder is attached). She said that they squeeze with their feet when they eat. This season has been a TON of fun...
They Told Us But Actually This is True About Cancer What Do You Think? Agree/Disagree?
Zster comments on Aug 1, 2018:
It's not that simple. One needs to weigh the statistical risk vs benefit for each. In many of the pairs, BOTH sides can be true. Personally, I'll accept the transforming risk of imaging in order to catch a hidden cancer early enough to possibly cure it. We each get to make those decisions for ourselves. And UV light directly produces thymidine dimers in DNA. It's one of the few true cause/effects that we DO know. Light also catalyzes vitamin D action etc which could be carcinoprotective.
What’s your favorite kind of candy bar?
Zster comments on Aug 1, 2018:
Ghirardelli Twilight (72%); followed by Vosges Naga bar. Back in the day, I adored 10:30 bars which are no longer made.
No matter what anybody says
Zster comments on Aug 1, 2018:
That feels pretty true from my perspective, so far. Sort of makes me wonder when vows are made "until death" WHOSE death that refers to! (;
A study which found trans people are inherently viewed as less attractive regardless of their actual...
Zster comments on Aug 1, 2018:
Sorry, short work break, so no video viewing, yet. However, one person who transitioned to male in my life is gorgeous man! He draws a head turn from me EVERY time!
I hide my tears?
Zster comments on Aug 1, 2018:
Ugh, me too, apparently! It's been twelve years and I still miss D every single day! It's been quite a week for songs that ambush me (usually in the car) that bring the tears. Each of these has a VERY special memory attached to it. Sigh. Sure do miss it. https://youtu.be/Et6epq5fslg https://youtu.be/4FDcTyyXQb8 https://youtu.be/zDVnjCwCYCs
Maybe a little bit evil....
Zster comments on Aug 1, 2018:
Our Jack is more than a tad grumpus. He looks innocent enough here, though...
A green anole outside my apartment. Even though they're very common and actually invasive where I ...
Zster comments on Aug 1, 2018:
I am surprised that you braved the ever fierce dewlap display to get the pictures! (;
I was in a local park that has quite a few feral cats that people feed. There are also a lot of ...
Zster comments on Aug 1, 2018:
Nice shots! Thanks for sharing with us mongoose-less types.
This question is about something I do not understand and definitely something I would not do, but ...
Zster comments on Aug 1, 2018:
Two guys who I am friends with, but am not (ever) going to be romantic with, talk at length about wanting to send me picts. Each honestly thinks he has a gorgeous schlong and thinks that I wont be able to resist sex with them if I see it. MY natural response to dick picts in general, especially the unsolicited type: disgust and anger. Peen become attractive as I grow closer to someone. It's not the lure of a dick, but of HIS, if you know what I mean.
Do you think about retirement much?
Zster comments on Jul 31, 2018:
I think about it daily! I turn 55 this coming May and hope to give notice then. I've hit my targets investment-wise and get full benefits then. I will likely give my art a shot for travel and luxury money. I just really want out of the corporate rat race.
Just for fun question: Have you ever made love on a beach?
Zster comments on Jul 31, 2018:
Do you mean on the sand? If so, no. If in shallow water counts... yep.
The Best Sex Doesn't come From Hot-Blooded Passion
Zster comments on Jul 30, 2018:
Planning does not build anticipation for me. I don't get turned on by command or schedule. I build anticipation when the mood strikes, through special looks and body language.
Do you have a rule when meeting someone online on how long you will talk/text before you meet. Not ...
Zster comments on Jul 30, 2018:
No rule as each situation is different. I have learned to not spend too much time online, though. Things can be thrilling at that level and then really NOT work face-to-face, which invariably leaves hurt feelings.
Ok. A man reached out to me on POF. we chatted a bit on the POF site then we exchange phone numbers ...
Zster comments on Jul 30, 2018:
If he quits contacting me, I move on. Might send him some chipper little light message to see if he would converse, but I might not. Life is too short for fretting.
Scenario. You welcome to a nice restaurant by yourself to have some dinner. You have no companion ...
Zster comments on Jul 30, 2018:
Heck no! People are very likely thinking about something more pertinent to THEM. My being at dinner myself would hardly be interesting enough to warrant any more attention than casual, passing notice.

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